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Madelyn Cline and KJ Apa may star in ‘The Map That Leads to You,’ but in this episode of “If It Were Me,” they’re going to need that map to navigate some truly chaotic real-life confessions from Cosmo readers. From a fake British accent that’s definitely a red flag, to the question of whether to DM a bride-to-be after unknowingly hooking up with her fiancé at his own bachelor party, the situations are wild and nothing is off-limits. Watch as Madelyn and KJ debate whether insults count as flirting, what to do when dirty talk backfires, and if you should admit to accidentally dating cousins (especially before the next family reunion). Plus, they take on the quickie round where they have to make the impossible choice: ‘Riverdale’ or ‘Outer Banks.’

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00:00Insults are flirtatious sometimes.
00:03It's all about the delivery.
00:04You're so ugly.
00:07Hi, I'm Madeline Klein.
00:08And I'm KJ Arpa.
00:09And this is If It Were Me.
00:13Today we're going through real life confessions
00:15from Cosmo readers.
00:16And we're telling you how we would handle them.
00:19The British swindler.
00:22I met this hot British guy at the bar
00:24and fell in love with his accent.
00:26A few days later, while on our date,
00:28he confessed that the accent was fake
00:31and a ploy to pick up women.
00:33Is this a red flag?
00:34Yes.
00:35Yeah, that's a really red flag.
00:35This is fake.
00:36Yeah, I, yeah.
00:39No, this is real.
00:41Have you ever changed your accent?
00:42No, no, no, no.
00:44That would not be authentic.
00:46I think that that's a red flag.
00:50Wouldn't you find that to be a red flag?
00:52If someone did that to you, you'd be, what would you?
00:53Yeah, I'd be pissed.
00:54Yeah.
00:55Rude boy.
00:56I was on a date and I felt really comfortable opening up to the guy I was seeing.
01:00I was impressed by how intently he was listening until he asked me,
01:03do you ever stop talking?
01:05He claims he was joking.
01:06Should I see him again?
01:07Yes.
01:08Yeah, I would.
01:09Yeah.
01:09That's a good thing.
01:10Opposites attract.
01:11Yeah.
01:12Sometimes you need to be told the truth.
01:13Chances are you were probably talking a lot.
01:16Would you be offended by that?
01:17No, you'd love that kind of thing.
01:18I'd probably laugh.
01:19Yeah.
01:20Do I like assholes?
01:22That's not an assholey thing though.
01:23No, I don't think so.
01:24That's a-
01:25I think that's fine.
01:26That's good.
01:27That's fun and playful.
01:28Yeah.
01:29That's how he said it.
01:30We like banter.
01:31Insults are flirtatious.
01:32Sometimes.
01:33It's all about the delivery.
01:34You're so ugly.
01:35The filthy talker.
01:38I asked this girl to talk dirty to me and she went full throttle saying things I've never
01:44heard in my life.
01:45It's throwing me off, but I don't want to embarrass her since I asked for it.
01:50How do I keep the vibe going without losing my cool?
01:53Okay.
01:54I wish we had examples.
01:56I want to know.
01:57We've got to know what she's saying.
01:58Yeah.
01:58I want to know.
01:59What are you saying?
01:59What would I do?
02:01I want to know what she's saying.
02:02I honestly, probably, if it was killing the vibe a bit.
02:04You would say something.
02:05I would say something or I would just not continue seeing the person.
02:09Mm.
02:10Or, you know, for a fun date idea, you can look up dirty talk examples on Google.
02:17Yeah.
02:18Some good AI examples.
02:19ChatGPT.
02:20Yeah.
02:21Hey, chat.
02:22Do you have not wild dirty talk ideas and examples?
02:31Groom gone wild.
02:33While on vacation with my girls, we met a fun group of guys and I ended up making out with
02:38one of them.
02:39Later, I found out the guys were at a bachelor party and the one I hooked up with was the
02:43groom.
02:44Should I DM the bride?
02:45I think you should.
02:46Oh.
02:47That's crazy.
02:48That's her fiance.
02:49Why?
02:50If she asked me, I would probably be like...
02:51I would say in it.
02:52But she's about to get married to him for life.
02:53That's what I'm saying.
02:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:55Like, if he's cheating on her, who else is he cheating on?
02:57I'd want to be told that.
02:58Yeah.
02:59Maybe you're right.
03:00Exes and uh-ohs.
03:01Exes and uh-ohs.
03:02When I saw my ex at a party, I tried to make him jealous by flirting with a new guy.
03:06It turns out that guy I was making a move on is actually my ex's new boyfriend.
03:13And I didn't realize he came out after we broke up.
03:15How do I recover?
03:17Baby, don't.
03:18That's nolly.
03:20He is now gay and the guy that she was flirting with at this party is his new boyfriend.
03:26Yes.
03:27What are the chances of that?
03:28I mean...
03:29That's just bad luck, I guess.
03:30It's really bad luck.
03:31And that's so fine.
03:32Actually, you can recover.
03:33It's so fine.
03:34I feel like that's fine.
03:35Yeah.
03:36It's a really good story.
03:37Late Bloomer.
03:40After having no luck dating men my age, I began dating a 43-year-old guy.
03:45Things were great until he told me that I was the one who took his virginity.
03:49Right after we had sex for the first time.
03:51Should I be freaked out by this?
03:53Should you be freaked out by this?
03:54Yeah.
03:55I would be a little concerned.
03:56Maybe he's just like really insecure.
03:58How old is she?
03:59I'd be freaked out.
04:00That's weird.
04:01Yeah.
04:02What else is he not telling you, babe?
04:03Right.
04:04Family affair.
04:05I was dating two guys at the same time without either of them knowing.
04:09I ultimately decided to pursue one and break up with the other.
04:12I just found out they're cousins.
04:15How do I come clean before the next family party?
04:20Oh, that's an old one.
04:22But first, is it okay to be dating two people at the same time without either of them knowing?
04:27I think if you've like talked to each other and you're like, we're not exclusive, that's
04:31fine.
04:32I think so too.
04:33It's just bad luck again.
04:34Do you have the same last name though?
04:36Probably not.
04:37Because you should look into that kind of stuff before you at least make sure they're
04:41not friends, not in the same friend group.
04:42It's really interesting too, because like whenever I date someone, I stalk them on social
04:47media and I'm surprised they wouldn't have like had.
04:51Yeah.
04:52That's on her.
04:53Don't you see?
04:54She should have done the research.
04:55Yeah.
04:56Dine and Dasher.
04:57I took this girl to dinner and it went super well, however, when the bill came, she stopped
05:01me from grabbing my wallet and said, you don't need to pay, we'll just dine and dash.
05:06She was serious.
05:07I still paid, but should this be a deal breaker?
05:09Yeah.
05:10Yeah.
05:11That's theft.
05:12That's like dishonesty.
05:13It's really up.
05:14I wouldn't be done with that.
05:15No.
05:16Wouldn't be done with that.
05:17That's not cool.
05:18What's your opinion on paying the bill when you're on a date?
05:20I like to pay the bill if I'm really into who I'm seeing.
05:23I don't know.
05:24Is there a wrong or right way to do that?
05:25Like some, do some girls get offended if they're like, well, you, I can pay the book
05:29too.
05:30No.
05:31I don't know.
05:32I mean, well.
05:33We'll split the bill.
05:34Who cares honestly at the end of the day?
05:35I love a free meal.
05:36Wrong number.
05:37I was feeling frisky and decided to text my crush a spicy message.
05:41Turns out I accidentally sexted my boss who has the same name.
05:45How do I recover from this?
05:47Ouchie.
05:48Uh, that is H.R.
05:50In.
05:51Well, it depends how the boss, uh, reacts.
05:54Maybe the boss is into it.
05:55Oh.
05:56It all depends on, on the reaction.
05:57True.
05:58It's too late to unsend the message.
06:00You either immediately backtrack or you wait for the response and go from there.
06:05I would immediately backtrack because of what if I just got fired?
06:08Right.
06:09Keep your job.
06:10Yeah.
06:11Keep your job.
06:12Listen, I'm sorry.
06:13That was an accident.
06:14I was meant to go to my boyfriend.
06:15100%.
06:16But if you're into that kind of thing.
06:17But let me know.
06:20Now it's time for the quickie.
06:22Clock starts now.
06:23Film a movie or a TV show?
06:25Movie.
06:26Movie tour.
06:27Break up via text or in person?
06:28In person.
06:29Big spoon or little spoon?
06:30Little spoon.
06:31Big spoon.
06:32Riverdale or Outer Banks?
06:33Outer Banks.
06:34Riverdale.
06:35Stalk your date or go and blind?
06:37Stalk.
06:38Go and blind.
06:39Give up coffee or give up sex?
06:40Give up coffee.
06:41I'm not giving up sex.
06:42Are we talking like forever?
06:44Forever coffee.
06:46Sagittarius or Gemini?
06:47Gemini.
06:48Gemini.
06:49Are you a Sagittarius?
06:50Yes.
06:51Sagittarius.
06:52Because on the first date I'd let the tension build.
06:53Depends.
06:54Let the tension build I think is good.
06:55Tension.
06:56Run into your ex while on a date or your crush while on a date?
06:59Ex.
07:00Crush.
07:01Blonde or brunette?
07:02Blonde.
07:03Make up sex or break up sex?
07:04Make up.
07:05Yeah, make up.
07:06Share locations or keep things a mystery?
07:08Keep things a mystery.
07:09Don't share locations.
07:10Share locations.
07:11Love at first sight or slow burn?
07:12Slow burn.
07:13I'm kind of a...
07:17I'm kind of a...
07:18I love it at first sight.
07:19I just am a bit of a sucker for it, I think.
07:22But you never know.
07:23Thank you guys so much for watching.
07:25Map That Leads To You is streaming on Prime Video.
07:28Hi, my name is KJ Atba.
07:30And I'm Madeline Klein.
07:31And this is what...
07:32Hi, I'm Madeline Klein.
07:33And I'm KJ.
07:34Appa.
07:35To where we're professional actors.
07:36I don't.
07:37I don't.
07:38I don't.
07:39I don't.
07:40I don't.
07:41I don't.
07:42I don't.
07:43I don't.
07:44I don't.
07:45I don't.
07:46I don't.
07:47I don't.
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