00:00Derek is a bro. He is just a laid-back guy, no doubt about it.
00:04Oh, yes, very laid-back.
00:06Commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK has not heard back from his date, Lisa.
00:11He thought they had a great time. Everybody always does think they have a great time.
00:14He was kind of confident about it, saying that. I was pretty sure we were going to go back out on another date.
00:18So, but, nothing.
00:20No contact with Lisa, though, since the date, but we were able to get her on the line, right, Kevin?
00:26Yes, we were.
00:26Okay, so let's bring her on right now and just get after this.
00:29Lisa, are you there?
00:31Yes, hi.
00:32Yes, hey, thank you so much for agreeing to come on with us.
00:35We wanted to talk to you about a guy that we really want to set you back up with,
00:39and it's a guy named Derek that you went on a date with, and you just heard us talking about him.
00:44We know you guys went to Flemings.
00:46He thought you guys had a great time together.
00:48In the email that you wrote us, he said a lot of nice things about you,
00:52and now he can't get a hold of you to set up another date,
00:54and we were wondering if maybe we could help out with that.
00:56Well, the thing is, the date was lovely.
01:00I mean, I appreciate that, you know, he did pay for everything, you know, and did all the things.
01:07He didn't do anything wrong on the date, for sure.
01:10But basically, just personality-wise, he doesn't, he's like no substance.
01:17You know, he's like, he can't, he comes off as a trust fund baby, quite frankly.
01:21Oh, do you know that for a fact?
01:24Well, he doesn't have a job.
01:26He's really laid back about finding another job, because, you know, dad pays his bills,
01:31so there's no pressure there.
01:33I don't think he's finished college, because he talks about going back to college.
01:39It just seems like he's drifting along, and dad and, you know, maybe mom or whatever,
01:44someone's paying his bills, and he's not.
01:46And this is a problem for you, because most women, they're like, ooh, the guy's got money.
01:52I don't know about most women.
01:53Some.
01:55Sorry.
01:56Thank you very much, because I bet you'd be surprised at how many women crown upon a grown man
02:01being still supported by his parents.
02:04I'm sorry.
02:05I am very career-driven, very goal-driven.
02:09I want somebody who can be an equal partner in that way, somebody that I can talk to about
02:16things we want to do and get done, and that's just not him.
02:20He's just not that guy for me.
02:23Wait, because he makes, because he has too much money?
02:26No, it's not him, though.
02:27His parents are giving him the money.
02:29No.
02:29And there's just, he's not going to, he's not getting a job or anything?
02:32Right.
02:32Well, right.
02:33I think they didn't do him any favors by, you know, making him not be responsible for
02:39anything, apparently, of his own.
02:42Okay.
02:42Well, listen, Lisa, we do have Derek on the phone with us as well.
02:46Oh, great.
02:49Derek.
02:50Yeah.
02:51Is that your situation?
02:53I mean, I guess it's kind of none of our business, but it sounds like you've already told
02:56Lisa.
02:57Is that kind of how things are set up for you?
03:00Yeah.
03:00No, but my parents, like, have money, and that's what they want to do with it, and that's
03:06the kind of situation, yeah.
03:08But I just, I can't believe that, you know, that's a problem.
03:12I mean, you know, I, you know, took you out to a nice date, Lisa, like, you know, paid
03:17for everything, and I'm just surprised that that's, like, I'm not used to, like, that not
03:23being, like, a good thing, I guess.
03:25I'm just a little taken aback, you know?
03:28Like, it's weird to me.
03:29Yeah, as I said, I appreciate the date.
03:31It was great.
03:32I did have a good time, but going forward, I just know that if you're going to lay back
03:37and let your parents do everything, nothing against your parents, sounds like, you know,
03:41they worked hard for their money, but the point is, you're not doing anything for yourself.
03:47So, it just seems to me like you're floating through your life, and that does not appeal
03:52to me at all.
03:53That's really weird to me.
03:55I mean, I'm just, like, because my parents worked really hard and have lots of money,
03:59and this is how they're choosing to spend it, and, you know.
04:03Yeah, you hear yourself again.
04:04Your parents worked hard.
04:07You don't sound like you have worked at all.
04:10I mean, I don't know how much more plainly I can put it.
04:13Your lack of drive, your lack of personal responsibility for anything is a big turnoff to me.
04:19Does that do it better?
04:21No.
04:22Derek, do you have any, like, aspirations, or do you have any ideas or something you want
04:26to be when you grow up?
04:28Well, I think he's pretty grown.
04:31He's 38.
04:33I mean, I'm doing it.
04:35I'm, like, living a good life, you know.
04:38There you go.
04:39There's your answer right there.
04:41He's living like he wants to live, and I don't want any part of that.
04:44Are you guys understanding that right?
04:47Yeah, we got it, Lisa.
04:48We understand.
04:48We got it.
04:49I don't understand.
04:51All right.
04:52Well, Lisa, is this going to be a deal breaker for you, then?
04:55Oh, God, yes.
04:56Okay.
04:57Here we go.
04:58I kind of knew the answer to that question.
05:00All right, Lisa.
05:01Well, thank you for your time this morning, and I appreciate your honesty.
05:05And, Derek, you heard what you had to say.
05:07I'll kind of just give you the last word on this if you want to say anything else.
05:10No, I'm just, like, I've never had anybody, like, not, like, you know, or, I don't know,
05:16hold, like, my parents' wealth against it.
05:19I don't know.
05:20This is weird.
05:20I'm just going to move on down the line, I think, with this one.
05:23I appreciate it, guys.
05:24All right.
05:25Very cool.
05:25Good idea.
05:26Thank you, guys.
05:27Bye.
05:28Thanks for coming on.
05:30Someone needs to check the pulse of Derek, because I was worried about him the entire
05:34call.
05:35I mean, he just, he never grasped anything that she was saying, nor, I don't think, anything
05:42that we were saying, either.
05:43Yeah, I don't know.
05:45What do you mean you don't know?
05:46He probably just been chilling all day, if you know what I mean.
05:49Yeah, I think so.
05:50You're right, Lana.
05:51Yeah, you started early this morning, it feels like.
05:53I mean, I get where she's coming from, but I don't think Derek's going to have a hard
05:57time finding a date again, or finding a girlfriend, because that's attractive to a lot of women
06:03out there.
06:04Financially stable, is what I'm saying.
06:06Okay, we're going to see.
06:07800-992-1099.
06:10800-992-1099.
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