Second Date Update - Stalled Out

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Right now, we're in the middle of our second date update.

00:02We're trying to help out Olivia, who admittedly said that she had some drinks on the date.

00:08Yes, but she said that she wasn't, like, drunk or anything.

00:11A little tipsy, I think, is famous last words.

00:14They did Uber home, but she said it was a great date.

00:17They had a lot of fun together.

00:19All right, so she can't get a hold of Greg since their date,

00:21so let's try to bring Greg on right now.

00:23We have him on hold.

00:24Greg, you there?

00:26Hello.

00:27Hey, Greg, thanks for agreeing to do this.

00:29We just want to talk to you real quick about this girl, Olivia,

00:32that you went to the Blind Goat with,

00:34and she told us that you guys had a great time together,

00:38and the last time she saw you is when you guys were getting into separate Ubers going home,

00:43and now she can't get a hold of you,

00:45and is just, like, super confused on what happened because, like I said,

00:49she was really confident in the date.

00:52What a nightmare.

00:54Really?

00:54Yeah, we met at the bar, and it was all right,

00:58and I was going okay,

00:59and we were drinking a little,

01:02so then I had to go to the bathroom,

01:03so I go to the bathroom,

01:05and I'm in the bathroom,

01:07and then what do I notice walking behind me in the men's bathroom,

01:12but Olivia going to a stall in the men's bathroom,

01:16and I'm like,

01:16what's happening?

01:18And she's in the men's bathroom,

01:19using the men's bathroom,

01:20and I'm like,

01:21Olivia, what are you doing?

01:22And she's like,

01:23oh, there's a line at the women's bathroom.

01:25I'll just be a minute.

01:27What's going on?

01:28And so that was, like, cool with her,

01:30and then everybody starts to look at me,

01:32like, what's your chick doing in the bathroom?

01:36And I'm done,

01:37and I'm outside,

01:37and everybody's blaring at me,

01:38like, it's my fault,

01:40and people were not happy,

01:42and then, you know,

01:43I'm asking her about it,

01:44and she's like,

01:44it's no big deal,

01:45and that's just,

01:46that's no good.

01:47So she doesn't even get it,

01:49so no thanks to Olivia.

01:51Oh, wow.

01:51Did you say something to her on the date?

01:54About the bathroom?

01:55Yes.

01:55I was like,

01:56what are you doing?

01:57She thinks it's like,

01:58she didn't see an issue with it.

02:00She doesn't see any problem

02:01because there's a line at the female restroom.

02:05She should just walk into the men's bathroom

02:07and use it.

02:07Nobody cares.

02:08Like, what are you talking about?

02:09Do you see everybody looking at us

02:11like we're a problem?

02:13And she's like,

02:13oh, get over it.

02:14They're nothing.

02:15No good.

02:16I think Olivia and I would be good friends.

02:18Really?

02:19Lana?

02:20Really?

02:20Yeah.

02:21You use the men's restroom sometimes?

02:23If you gotta go,

02:24you gotta go.

02:25Oh, my gosh.

02:26That's no good.

02:27You can get kicked out of a bar for that.

02:29Go to another one.

02:31Oh, my gosh.

02:32All right.

02:33Moving on.

02:34All right.

02:35Greg,

02:36I can see how you can kind of be

02:37in an uncomfortable situation there,

02:39you know,

02:40if you're staying there

02:40and then all of a sudden

02:41your date walks in the men's restroom with you.

02:44And it's like,

02:45she's my,

02:45it's like I'm responsible for her.

02:47People don't,

02:47you know,

02:48people are looking at me

02:48like it's my thing.

02:49I'm like,

02:50I don't know this girl,

02:51but they don't get,

02:52you know,

02:52very awkward.

02:54It sounds awkward.

02:55I mean,

02:55is it really that big of a deal?

02:57Well,

02:57let's find out

02:58because we actually,

02:58Greg,

02:59we have Olivia on the phone with us.

03:00Then we want to bring her back on real quick.

03:03Olivia,

03:03are you there?

03:04Yeah,

03:05I'm here.

03:06Okay.

03:07You heard what Greg had to say.

03:08Is that what went down?

03:09You kind of,

03:10you use the men's restroom?

03:11I mean,

03:12that's really the reason.

03:14I don't think that's a big deal at all.

03:16Like I had to pee.

03:17People do that all the time.

03:19It wasn't like,

03:20it's not a big deal.

03:22See?

03:22I don't understand it.

03:24Well,

03:24the lines are a lot shorter.

03:25What do you want me to do?

03:26Have like bodily harm?

03:28Like,

03:28this is crazy.

03:30You see what I'm talking about?

03:31I don't know how to explain

03:33why it's wrong

03:34for her to go into the men's bathroom.

03:36And if you,

03:37like I had the wrong thing to do.

03:39And so is it okay

03:41if I go into the women's bathroom

03:43and just,

03:43oh,

03:43there's a line?

03:45That's crazy.

03:46People would understand.

03:49Olivia,

03:49you can see how that would put him

03:51in a weird situation though.

03:52Like he barely knows you.

03:53This is your first.

03:53I mean,

03:53would you rather me pee in public?

03:56Like,

03:56would you rather that?

03:57Well,

03:57I would not.

03:58That's the fifth day.

03:59Yeah.

04:00I don't know.

04:00Yeah.

04:01I don't know if that's the answer,

04:03but I'm just saying

04:03you could see how that would put him

04:04in a kind of a weird situation,

04:06right?

04:06Especially if other people

04:07were talking to him about it.

04:08Do you get that?

04:10No.

04:10Like,

04:11I think you're like,

04:12you're like,

04:13okay.

04:13So a couple of guys got annoyed.

04:14Like,

04:15I mean,

04:15if you're not man enough to say,

04:16Hey,

04:17my girl's got to pee,

04:18like probably not who I'm looking for.

04:21Honestly,

04:22I don't even know what to say that.

04:24I don't want to be taking on the problems.

04:25I mean,

04:26there's enough problems to deal with

04:27on a date in the world.

04:30Somebody,

04:31me taking responsibility for some,

04:33for a woman I'm with going in the wrong bathroom.

04:36I don't think that's worth getting in a confrontation over.

04:38Well,

04:38I just,

04:39do you think this is going to like escalate first?

04:41She's going to the bathroom in the men's bathroom.

04:43Next,

04:43who knows what,

04:44is that what you're thinking?

04:45Like,

04:45where does it end?

04:46I didn't fight with anybody.

04:48So like,

04:49don't make something up.

04:51Like I had to pee.

04:53I think Greg is just saying that it put him in a situation where a confrontation could have happened there.

04:58Like,

04:58Hey,

04:59get your girl out of there.

05:00It didn't.

05:01Okay.

05:02All right.

05:03Greg,

05:04I'm kind of seeing what you're saying.

05:06Um,

05:07is it,

05:07this is obviously going to not be a match for you guys.

05:10Not for me.

05:11Yeah.

05:11I think Olivia,

05:12not for me either.

05:14Like I need someone who's going to defend me and protect me.

05:16Come on.

05:18Okay.

05:18There we go.

05:19All right,

05:19guys.

05:20And let you go to the bathroom wherever you need to go.

05:22Yeah.

05:22Exactly.

05:24Well guys,

05:24thanks for coming on with us.

05:25We appreciate it.

05:26We wish you the best.

05:27Okay.

05:28Thanks.

05:28All right.

05:28Thanks.

05:30So in the grand scheme of things,

05:31obviously it may not be the biggest deal ever,

05:34but that does put him in a weird situation,

05:36especially if other people were saying something to him.

05:38I mean,

05:38that could turn into something.

05:40Well,

05:40yeah.

05:40I mean,

05:40yeah,

05:41if you're at a bar where somebody was really,

05:43really upset about it.

05:44Yeah.

05:44I mean,

05:45it's that's where they were.

05:46Right.

05:47I mean,

05:47that's what I'm saying.

05:48So I,

05:49I mean,

05:49yeah,

05:49I can see how other people would,

05:51would be upset about it,

05:52but it's not going to stop you,

05:54Lana.

05:55I mean,

05:55I've done it.

05:56I'm guilty.

05:57Okay.

05:58All right.

05:59Well,

05:59I've done that.

06:00Well,

06:00this has been a deal breaker though for you.

06:01800-992-1099,

06:04800-992-1099.

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