00:00But right now Bianca seems sweet and she seems forward because she also said that John is very
00:06forward and they were kissing like an hour into the date. Yeah so it sounds like everything was
00:10going really really well. But she did not get the ending of the date that she wanted. She thought
00:16they would maybe hang out afterwards you know what I'm saying and he said hey I actually have
00:20to help my mom in the morning and so I got to go home. So they did not end up hanging out late
00:25night and she's confused by that. Yep. We have John on hold right now. I want to bring him back
00:30on with us and let's see if we can get some answers out of him. He's agreed to talk to us.
00:34John you there? Yeah I'm here. Hey John I know we kind of gave you a little rundown and you just
00:38heard us talking about Bianca and we wanted to see if we could figure out what's going on with
00:44with you guys and why you haven't tried to set up another date with her. Well I won't be calling
00:51Bianca back for a date because she was texting her ex during our date. Texting her ex-boyfriend?
00:58Yeah that's right. How did you know that? Yeah. She just she was like laughing about a text she
01:04received so she's giggling and says hey look at this this is funny and she shows it to me and I
01:09could see it's from a guy named Brent and I said okay yeah it's pretty funny and I asked about like
01:15okay is this a friend of yours and she said oh it's just like an old like an old boyfriend and so
01:20asked her some more questions about it. She said yeah it was a guy I used to date and I thought that
01:24was a bit weird but she kept like checking her phone and like she's on a date with me and it was
01:29like beyond rude. I'm thinking like okay how many guys does she have you know text? Are you kidding
01:35me? Oh I'm sorry. Well hold on sorry uh John uh we do have Bianca on the phone. Sorry. Are you kidding
01:42me? So that's the reason why you're not texting me back because I'm I'm texting somebody else who
01:46was my old boyfriend and we already broke up. It's rude. What? We're on a date. Well yeah why
01:52are you texting your ex-boyfriend? I mean how long ago did you guys break up? Oh my gosh so that was
01:58like 10 years ago. Okay I mean but you still have your number and you're still talking to him
02:02during our date. We actually have our high school reunion coming up so he just like reconnected and
02:08was like hi and like it's not a big deal. So you dated in high school? Yeah. Yeah. Okay but like why are you
02:14texting during my date? Like our date with together? Like what's going on? Who cares? Like it's not a
02:19big deal. We were having a great time. I thought it was okay. I'm not like here to like see you text
02:25other guys. I mean I just think that that's that's just not going to work for me. Oh my gosh like I
02:30don't know what to say because you are like overreacting over a text. Like what if it was my
02:34girlfriend I was texting? It would be no problem. But because it's a guy you're like oh it's a problem
02:39now. You dated this guy. You're telling me you dated him in high school? We broke up right after
02:44we moved in together. Whoa what? Okay wait wait you just said you dated him but wait wait you lived
02:49together? Yeah and then we broke up. It's over. It's completely over. You lived together when you
02:54guys were in high school? No I was after high school. Oh okay. How long did you date this guy? Hold on this
03:00is like a long relationship. Like four years. That's a bit too much for me. Do you text this guy and
03:07talk to him often? No we're at the reunion coming up. It's you know we've been friends. We decided
03:14we're better off friends. Yeah you decided this years ago though right? Yeah. Yeah okay. Is
03:21Brent single? No he's married with kids. And you guys are just texting strictly about you know the
03:28reunion and that and that kind of thing coming up? Yeah why is this a big deal? It's ridiculous. Well
03:33let's just say it was anybody. I know you use the example of what if it was your girlfriend
03:36wouldn't be a big deal? I mean don't you think it's kind of rude to be texting anybody when
03:39you're on a date? Right. When you have somebody in front of you? Not when you have friends.
03:44I'm not texting my anybody I know from my past life or current life and I'm just focused on you.
03:50You can. You can. I mean this guy's married Bianca so. That's a whole other thing. Does his wife know
04:00you're texting with him? Poor friend. He has his thing. I have my life. Like you don't have any male
04:05friends? Like I don't get it. This is crazy. How many male friends do you have? How many do you just
04:11keep texting through dates and otherwise? You're making mountains out of molehills.
04:15I don't get it. I don't trust you. This is wild. Like I didn't think I think you just missed out. I think
04:24we both missed out on a golden opportunity here and a great relationship because you don't trust me and
04:30it's like what happened to you before? Just trust people and have a great life. All right so I guess
04:37that's the question. John would you be willing to see Bianca again? Now you know the whole backstory.
04:42I mean it's been a long time since they dated. I know I just don't want to have to compete with
04:49these other people who seem to be like just more important to her life than like getting to know
04:53me. I just think I don't like the idea that she can't put down her phone for like a couple hours
04:59and just kind of focus on getting to know me. I don't know. It just seems like that was where her
05:03focus was you know. I just don't I don't I didn't like being ignored and I just don't want to compete
05:07with that. All right so you're saying that's a no you're not looking to see her again? I think that's
05:12it. I mean she could just you know keep reaching out to other people from her past. I mean I don't
05:15know try someone new I guess. Okay. Wow. Well Bianca you now know where John stands on things and I hope
05:22you have a great time at your reunion. You said that's coming up. Yeah. Yeah. And I appreciate
05:28you uh reaching out to us and I hope you have a great day okay? Okay well thank you. All right
05:34thank you John. Yeah thanks a lot. Bye guys. There's there's so much more to what Bianca is
05:41saying. But she did but it wasn't like she was hiding the text though. That's what I want to
05:45point out. She was like hey look at look at this what you know this friend sent me. Could she be
05:50clueless though that you don't do that? I mean it doesn't matter who. She wasn't hiding anything
05:53though. But it doesn't matter who texts her on the date. She shouldn't be talking to anybody else
05:57right? That is number one that is. But we all when we're out somewhere dinner doing stuff even
06:03sitting here working we get a text from somebody you know it's rude you know but it's just our
06:07lives now. You pick it up you look who it is and then if you can send them back like an okay or
06:11thank you you know really quick boom. I gotta be honest with you I don't know if I trust Bianca
06:16either. I feel like there was a lot more to that story than we were getting because there
06:19was more and more information coming out as she started talking. That was a little bit interesting
06:23to me. We did find out a lot. All right 800-992-1099 800-992-1099. Is he overreacting? Should
06:31he have been upset? We want to know.
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