Second Date Update - My Demands

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5 months ago

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00:00Don has reached out to us this morning on the 715 Second Date Update.

00:03We're trying to help her out.

00:05They went to a place that you and I both love.

00:06Lana loves, too.

00:07Rocco's Tacos.

00:08Yeah, it's delish.

00:09Come on.

00:10Let's get that table side guac going.

00:12But the thing is, she hasn't heard from her date, Cameron, since.

00:16And that's why we are on the Second Date Update right now.

00:19Because we're trying to figure out what happened to this guy.

00:21You've talked to him off the air, right?

00:23I have.

00:23And he's cool with coming on?

00:25He's cool with coming on.

00:26All right.

00:26So let's bring Cameron back on and see if we can get some answers from him.

00:30Cameron, you there?

00:31Hey, what's up, guys?

00:32Hey, man.

00:33I have a few minutes before work.

00:34Okay.

00:35What's going on?

00:36I know.

00:36I totally get it.

00:37Big ask.

00:38And you've got things going on.

00:39Here's what I'll just say.

00:40This is our Second Date Update.

00:42And we talked to people about dates they went on.

00:44And we want to talk to you about a date that you went on to Rocco's Tacos.

00:48You went with a woman named Dawn, who had a lot of great things to say about you.

00:53Thought you had a lot in common.

00:54Said that you had a lot of the same goals, both driven when it comes to your career.

01:00I guess you texted her to make sure she made it home okay.

01:03She loved the fact that you had great manners.

01:05And thought the date went really well.

01:08But I guess has been trying to keep the conversation going and try to, you know, get another date established with you.

01:15But hasn't heard anything and wants to know what's going on.

01:17So, sounded like a great date.

01:19What happened?

01:20Um, well, maybe for her it was a great date.

01:24I don't know what to say.

01:25But it was pretty bad.

01:27It was pretty bad.

01:28All right.

01:29Well, now we're on completely opposite ends of the spectrum here.

01:31Yeah.

01:32It didn't sound bad.

01:33Where did it go wrong for you?

01:35I mean, well, you know, she, first of all, she had to control everything.

01:39So, she controlled the conversation the entire time.

01:42She was basically dictating, you know, pretty much everything the entire time.

01:47Well, we had to go to Rocco's Tacos, for example.

01:49Or, I mean, she had to have, what, certain appetizers, you know, kind of little things.

01:55And, you know, all these red flags are kind of popping up that she's just not even, I don't know, she was just a little too much.

02:01And then, of course, she has this moment where she pulls her phone out.

02:05And then she's like, I should tell you now.

02:07These are my requirements for dating me.

02:11What, she's reading from, like, her phone's notes section or something?

02:13Yeah.

02:14Yeah.

02:14And she starts reading from her notes.

02:16It was insane.

02:17Wow.

02:17She has, like, a whole list.

02:19And she says, reading this list to me.

02:21And I'm just standing there kind of in shock.

02:24We're on a first date.

02:25Like, we don't even know each other.

02:26And you're already reading your demands.

02:29I know.

02:30What kind of things are on this list?

02:33God, I worry.

02:34What was she?

02:36She, like, she gets a say in what I wear.

02:38Really?

02:41She, uh, she, all right, she said you get two date nights.

02:44She needs two date nights a week, minimum.

02:48So.

02:49That's expensive.

02:51Oh, I, I, she said I have, I have to pick up every time she calls.

02:55That's a rule.

02:55I have to always pick up the phone.

02:57Oh, man.

02:58So, I have to, all right, I have to call her babe, like, in front of her friends.

03:03These are very specific demands.

03:05They are.

03:05Yeah, right?

03:06I can't even believe I remember so many.

03:08It was, all right, all right.

03:09Her birthday had to be more than one day.

03:12Her birthday celebration had to be a minimum of two days.

03:16That uncommon for women, I don't think.

03:19But I can't believe she said that to you.

03:21Dude, was she joking around?

03:23No, she wasn't joking.

03:25Because I feel like if someone was saying this to me, I'd be there going, all right,

03:28you're messing around with me.

03:29Obviously, this is funny.

03:30I was, I was.

03:31I kept waiting for her to be like, I'm just joking.

03:33And number seven, I'm just joking or something like that.

03:35But no, uh, yeah, it was never like that.

03:40And she just kept going on and on.

03:41I just kept thinking to myself, she's crazy.

03:43There's no way.

03:44I mean, you've just met me and you're already listing requirements of me, your expectations.

03:49And it was, it was too much.

03:51Well, dude, I'll tell you right now, if somebody was reading off demands to me on a first date,

03:55I would definitely be turned off by that.

03:57So, um, I get what you're saying.

04:00Um, I will tell you that we called you on, uh, Don's behalf and we have her on the phone

04:05with us.

04:05I want to bring her back on.

04:06Is that cool if we talk to her with you on the phone with us as well?

04:09Yeah, why not at this point?

04:11Okay.

04:12All right, Don.

04:13Yes.

04:14Did you really read off a list of demands?

04:16Is that right?

04:18Okay.

04:18First of all, I'm not, basically, I don't want to waste anyone's time.

04:23I'm tired of playing games with dating.

04:25I know what I want at a relationship.

04:27I know what kind of person I want to date.

04:29And I like to be specific in the beginning because why waste either one of our times?

04:33Both of us are busy people.

04:35And what's wrong with scheduling two dates per week?

04:38Now I know I don't have to play games like I am now.

04:40Like, is he going to, is he going to text me back?

04:42Are we going to go out again?

04:43No, I know.

04:44If you want to date me, then we'll go out twice a week.

04:47I, you know, it's like, yes, I'd like my birthday to be a big deal.

04:50You know, like all of these things I think are important.

04:52And it's like, I think a guy should know how to treat a lady like a lady.

04:56And that's who I am.

04:58But this is why you're single.

05:01All right.

05:02Yeah, but I'm being specific.

05:03Do you want me to pretend to be somebody else?

05:06Has anybody ever said, oh, wow, thank you so much.

05:09Thanks for the gift.

05:10Hey, Don, did you say things like, hey, I want to have a say in what he wears and all that?

05:16Yeah, because I want, you know, I want to make sure, like, we can go out to nice places or, you know,

05:21so I can't assume he owns the nice clothes.

05:25It would be nice that he dresses in them so that when we're ready to go, we go.

05:29You can't do this to people.

05:30Nobody wants to hear your 20 commandments or whatever it is.

05:35Seriously.

05:3520, man.

05:36Then you should have said something at that moment because then we could have ended the date.

05:40Again, this is the games.

05:42These games are the ones that I'm trying to avoid.

05:44You guys called me, okay?

05:46I didn't.

05:47We did.

05:48Right?

05:48Yeah, and look what I had to do to hear from you.

05:50I don't want to ever.

05:51No, I was happy to go away.

05:53Nobody wants to hear this.

05:54I never want to hear this from you.

05:55You're crazy, okay?

05:56I don't want to ever hear about your list again, okay?

06:00I was hoping to never speak to you again, but please, lose my number in the future.

06:04Don't ever call me.

06:06Okay.

06:06All right?

06:07Well, listen, Don, it sounds like he's not interested in any quote-unquote demands that you have

06:13or a list that you have.

06:14So, hey, if those really are your requirements for dating you, he's not meeting those requirements.

06:20So, I guess we got an answer in the fact that he's not the right guy for you, right?

06:24Right.

06:24Absolutely.

06:25Obviously, I can bring it, but I guess he can't bring it.

06:27So, you know, I'll find somebody eventually who will fit my list.

06:30All right.

06:31Hey, thank you, by the way, Cameron, for coming on with us.

06:34You have a great day.

06:35I know you got to get to work.

06:36Yeah.

06:36I appreciate it.

06:37Yes.

06:37All right, guys.

06:38All right.

06:38Thank you, guys.

06:39Have a great day.

06:40Dude, I understand getting what you want and knowing what you want.

06:45Yes.

06:45But reading a list and saying things that are super specific like that.

06:50Yeah.

06:50How could that not be a turnoff for somebody?

06:52Gotta be.

06:53It was.

06:55It was.

06:55They are not going back out again.

06:57Oh, man.

06:59I don't know if there's anybody that would back her up on this.

07:03But I would like to know.

07:04I would want to know right now.

07:05And I just want to know where you're at in general on this 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.

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