Common Household Arguments

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9 months ago

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00:00Do you believe you should live with somebody before you marry him?

00:03I did. I don't know. I feel like it was easier because we kind of like worked things out

00:11before we got married. You gotta know. Like I remember we had a legit conversation where it

00:18was like before we moved in together and he was like listen like I need my space so like

00:25if I'm gonna be in the living room like don't be coming at me all the time. Like same.

00:30I'll be in bed sleeping. That's great. Don't wake me up. That's good. Yeah. You need to

00:34know how people tick. Let's call it what it is. We're all coming from the scratch and

00:37dent section of life. Yeah. We need to know where the scratches and the dents are. There

00:42is a new survey from Method Cleaning. They do the little spray bottles all that stuff.

00:46Yeah. The top 10 most common household arguments between couples. I've read through the 10.

00:52You have not done so yet I don't think. No. I definitely see there are some things on this

00:57list that we are both viciously guilty on and maybe you find yourself to be here too.

01:03The thing about your spouse that's like why don't you do this around the house? Why can't

01:07you do this? 702-597-1027. Let us know what's on the list. All right. Top 10. You want to

01:13go top down or bottom up? Do bottom up. Bottom up. Number 10. Not making the bed.

01:19That was one thing that. So let me start by saying I am the guy in the relationship for

01:25the most part. You're the guy. Yes. I am forgetful. I'm still not unpacked for morning

01:31show boot camp. I'm just not like. But I've gotten better over time because he is very OCD

01:40clean and organized and I learned to be like him for the most part. Yeah. Okay. Got to

01:48start there. Yeah. Okay. Let's go. Not making the bed. We do that now, but I did not before.

01:55Okay. So I am, I would keep, I keep the sheets up for weeks at a time if I, you know, but

02:00Marsha wants to clean them. That's fine. Yeah. But she ends up doing it at like 930 at night,

02:04which means they don't get out till 11. Right. Which means it's like, why couldn't this have

02:10happened at 2? And then at 1130 you're doing it together. Exactly. It's like, oh God. Come

02:13on team. I have just purposely laid on a bare bed before. It's like, fine. You know what?

02:18It's bedtime. There's no sheets. I don't care. I'm sleeping right here. Oh, we put another blanket

02:22on top of it. Done. Easy. All of a night. Number nine. Not dusting properly. Meh. Who dusts? You know

02:27what? Look at the top of your fan blades. Oh, well. You're like, the thing's spinning. How is there dust

02:33up there? There's so much dust. I know. Well, you got to get one of those Swiffer things. It's

02:37like the circle and you, or I don't know what shape it is, but you put it on and this take

02:41it off. Yeah. Yeah. But, um, dusting, who dusts? I, I, we have a duster. I don't know.

02:48Okay. Dusting properly. Too much dust. Yeah. Dropping crumbs in the bed. If anybody ate in

02:54my bed, I would puke. Can't do it. Cannot do it. That, okay. Maybe that's my one thing.

03:02All right. But we don't eat in bed for sure. That's so bad. I have eaten in bed, but I

03:09always regret it. Yeah. Always. There's that one crumb that's like under your leg. You're

03:14like, how did that go? I didn't eat down there. How is that there? Like I, I cringe if

03:19I like sit on my 14 year old's bed. Cause I'm like, I know that for sure he's got a ton of

03:25food in there somewhere. Number seven. We are both very guilty of this. Leaving dirty clothes

03:31on the floor. Yeah. Yeah. I've gotten pictures from my husband of multiple piles of clothes and

03:37do we need these all over? Like there was one on the stairs. There was one upstairs. But some

03:42of the piles are clean for you. Some are clean. Yeah. Yeah. And then I'll tell him we need more

03:45hangers. And like, that's why I'm not hanging. We need hangers. I'm sorry. We had hangers.

03:51Yeah. Yeah. Hang it. I'm making Ikea. I'm very like OCD about my hangers. They need to all be the

03:56Ikea plastic hangers or I don't hang them. Yeah. It just doesn't happen. Number six,

04:01not squeegeeing the shower screen after showering. Never do it. Okay. I bought one, but I never used

04:07it. So whenever we have Maria come and clean the house, she literally makes it like, it looks like

04:14you could walk through it. Like there's nothing there. The glass is so clean. I, and I don't shower

04:20in our shower because I get up so early. So I do it in Jaden's room and I don't need to squeegee

04:26anything, but I yell at Patrick for not squeegeeing that. Yeah. Maria. It's Maria. Legend. We love

04:32Maria. We all need a Maria in our life. Absolutely. It's true. How about number five? Whose turn is it?

04:40Sorry. It's a great track. Whose turn is it to clean the floor? Do you do mop?

04:46Uh, Patrick does. Yeah. Mopping doesn't work. Oh, he, he vacuums and mops every day. And while

04:52the Roomba's going, he still vacuums. He's literally married. Like, I mean, when people say,

04:58um, do you have a soulmate? Like he is like, he does everything that I do not do. Maybe he doesn't

05:04want to do everything. Maybe he just is forced to do it because I won't do it. He lives every day with

05:10the fear that the sergeant's going to come in and say, why aren't you, why aren't these floors

05:13clean? Uh, okay. Really quick. Uh, number four, both super guilty of this starting, but not

05:18completing housework. Yep. Yeah. I just don't start anything. I'm just like, you know, it's not

05:26going to get done. Wishful thinking. Not putting dishes away. Number three. Okay. My husband didn't

05:31know we had a dishwasher for at least 15 years and I'm not even kidding you. I'm like, you're,

05:36they would rinse. Jaden and Patrick would absolutely rinse and put it in the sink. But I'm like,

05:41you're so close. Yeah. You're so close to the dishwasher. I did a tutorial for them. I'm like,

05:46okay, you open, this is really cool. It's invented in like, I don't know what year, but you could just

05:51open it up and put it in there and then this will do the job. It'll wash it. Yeah. And then it still

05:56took a little bit of time, but we're working on it. We're working on it. I'll amend that. Number

06:00three for me is just not loading it correctly. It drives me nuts. Like the bowl is upwards. Like

06:05you're just going to get a bunch of dirty water in there. What are we doing? We, we, we for sure

06:10load different now that he knows where it is. Yeah. We, we load different. And that is one of

06:14our arguments. He says load back to front. I load, I open and just drop it in. He's like,

06:19I don't even pull the, if I see a fork in the same cubby as a knife, I lose it. I don't know why.

06:25I just lose it. Number two, leaving the toilet seat up. You guys honestly are really dramatic about

06:30this. I, you know, I live with three boys and not a single one of them leaves it up.

06:36Not even Roman. Wow. Yeah. Pretty damn good. All right. I don't bet also because my husband grew

06:42up with women. So, um, I think that was just like, it was a thing. His mom's like, you better put that

06:48seat down. And so then I got him. He was in a good, good terms on that. This is the last one. Number

06:54one on the list, most common household arguments between couples, leaving lights on around the house.

07:00Is it couples or kids? No. Well, I mean, this one says couples, kids do it too.

07:06But like, uh, that's the one thing I harp on with Marsha all the time. Yeah. I listen,

07:10I'm guilty about most of this stuff, but the light and like, it's not even about the light. Cause

07:13I did the math. If you left that light bulb on for the entire month, it's like a dollar.

07:21It's not about the dollar. These things are rated for eight years. Why am I replacing it in a year?

07:27What do you tell me?

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