00:00I have two wives and one girlfriend.
00:02My children, they have four parents.
00:03Ain't never a dull moment in this career.
00:05How would you feel if J, Nelly, or C
00:08asked you to be monogamous?
00:10Would y'all break up?
00:11Comments, comments, comments.
00:13Oh my God, this is crazy.
00:15She's just greedy.
00:21Hey, come on in.
00:23Welcome to my home.
00:24Last time you guys filmed with us,
00:26we catch a lot of hate.
00:27We get a lot of people saying,
00:29oh, you just want your cake and eat it too.
00:31And when we post something,
00:33a couple of people that'll pop up and be like,
00:35oh, this is a sin.
00:37We just moved.
00:38Let's get it together.
00:39Let's go.
00:40My name is Pandora Monroe.
00:41I have two wives and one girlfriend.
00:44We got Nelly here.
00:45This is the first wife.
00:46We've been together for 10 years.
00:48Married for six years.
00:50This is the second wife, J.
00:52We've been together for nine years
00:53and we've been married for five years.
00:55We do have an addition to the family.
00:59My girlfriend, she is hoping to be wife number three.
01:02We'll be.
01:03Okay.
01:04You heard that.
01:05We'll be wife number three.
01:07We have three children.
01:09We have Maya, our daughter, 15 years old.
01:12We have Makai, he goes by Kai, and he's 11.
01:15Then we have the baby boy.
01:16He's five years old, Mason.
01:18How would you describe your relationship as sister wives?
01:21It's just like having a sibling or a best friend.
01:22We basically have that tight, close relationship.
01:24We're there for each other, can help each other out.
01:26Ain't never a dull moment in this career.
01:28Was it always the plan to introduce a third sister wife?
01:31Yes.
01:32We discussed that early in our relationship
01:34of our desires and what we wanted.
01:36Today, we are going to be doing the nice little-
01:39I got it, I got it, I got it.
01:41What's up, YouTube?
01:42It's C.
01:43Today we got a video for the girlfriend review.
01:47We're gonna do a Q&A for y'all to introduce me.
01:50Sierra, what made you want to date Pandora?
01:53I was always infatuated with her.
01:54I reached out to Nellie and Jay first through Instagram
01:56and told them that I formed an interest.
01:59After they vetted her out,
02:01they told her she can come and talk to me
02:02and she slid in my DMs, I guess.
02:05But yeah, the rest is history.
02:08One thing that I would love to clear the air about
02:11and correct is I never, never introduced the idea of,
02:17hey, I want to bring another woman in the picture.
02:20Me and Nellie, this is something that we talked about
02:22from the beginning of our relationship
02:24because we originally started our relationship
02:27with my ex-girlfriend as a poly relationship.
02:30I am polygamous, but Nellie, Jay, and Sierra,
02:33they are all monogamous.
02:35There you go, pour it on each one.
02:37It's okay, you're gonna rub it in.
02:38Do you have a schedule
02:39when it comes to parenting responsibilities?
02:42Yeah, so it's not like a hardcore schedule
02:45for every part of the day,
02:47but we do make sure that somebody is helping out
02:50each child individually.
02:53The best thing about having more than one partner
02:54to parent with is having more than one partner
02:57to parent with.
02:58I don't have to do it alone.
02:59Cut some up for Mason's plate.
03:00This one will be for Kyle.
03:02Maya, how did you feel when your mom told you
03:04she had a girlfriend?
03:05I was like, is she nice?
03:07I feel excited to meet a new person.
03:11She's got a nice vibe to her.
03:12She was very friendly.
03:13I just enjoy being around her.
03:14She's very funny too.
03:16She funnier than me?
03:17Maya, funnier than me?
03:20Y'all have different types of humor.
03:23You tell dad jokes.
03:24How did you find the relationship
03:25with Ciara to your kids?
03:27We pretty much just said, you know,
03:28this is mom's friend.
03:29This is a friend of the family.
03:31Until we saw how she bonded with them
03:33and we knew for sure that we were gonna move forward
03:36and make it more permanent.
03:37It was easy to just say like, hey, you know,
03:39she's a part of our family now.
03:40She's, you know, one of your parents.
03:43Do you have any friends that have parents
03:44in a similar situation?
03:46I have one friend and her mom is also gay,
03:48but like nobody else has multiple parents.
03:52Mama does not care what strangers think at all.
03:55It makes me feel very confident.
03:57Like if she cannot care what other people think about her,
04:01then it's like, I can too, you know?
04:03Grateful.
04:04Grateful.
04:04Thank you, baby.
04:05Becoming a parent brought the kid out in me more.
04:08It definitely helps you grow, learn.
04:11Kids are a whole different ballgame.
04:13Watching them hit milestones, it's the best for me.
04:18All right, let's see, let's see, let's see, what we got?
04:20I did like a little black and white paisley
04:23to switch it out and yeah.
04:27I started out doing designs and stuff a few years back.
04:30Running a business is great,
04:32but then when you run a business as a family,
04:33it's just like, yeah.
04:37I think it'll be bomb on like the black or gray.
04:41That's nice.
04:42So we have a family calendar
04:44that basically has all of our dates planned out.
04:47I just want to take her on a date.
04:48I looked at Saturday is available.
04:51Then I went to Nellie and Jay
04:52and let them know that I wanted to take her out
04:54on a date on Saturday.
04:55And then we just add it to the calendar.
04:57Date night, here we come.
04:58Do you feel like you all have enough time with Pandora?
05:01I got more than enough time with her, I don't know.
05:04All right, we got to get this Q&A going.
05:06Okay, y'all, so you've been asking for the Q&A on me.
05:10Y'all sent in y'all questions.
05:12Listen, y'all sent in some crazy ones,
05:14but some of y'all sent in some good ones,
05:15so fingers crossed, let's go.
05:18Okay, do you want more children?
05:22No.
05:23We are good with the three we have.
05:25We are perfectly fine.
05:26Did you decide to become Polly after Nellie cheated?
05:35Skip.
05:37If one of your wives cheats on you, skip.
05:40How would you feel if Jay, Nellie, or C
05:43asked you to be monogamous?
05:45Would y'all break up?
05:49This ain't our question, y'all.
05:51This ain't our question, y'all.
05:52If either one of them decided to change
05:54the dynamics of our relationship,
05:56then they would essentially be asking,
05:58could they change the dynamics of their own relationship?
06:01Which means they would be wanting to remove their self.
06:04So, we get a lot of negative comments all the time.
06:07Comments, comments, comments.
06:11I do not care.
06:12I would say just educate yourself
06:14before you stick your nose in our business.
06:17You know what I'm saying?
06:17We get a lot of confusion.
06:19People are so, you know, oh my God, this is crazy.
06:22Oh no, she's just greedy.
06:24Why would you do this?
06:25The most recent comment that we have gotten is,
06:28this is a cult.
06:29This is really, you know, disgusting to expose to children
06:33or you're gonna influence them to be this way, that way.
06:36Do you think it's ever gotten
06:37potentially confusing for your children?
06:40My Polly relationship is not confusing for them at all.
06:43You know, them having multiple parents doesn't confuse them.
06:46The only thing that has ever been a thing in question is,
06:50okay, so mom is with another woman
06:52instead of mom's with a man.
06:54And that was gonna be the case
06:55regardless if I was with one person or three people.
06:58They know that there's different types of love.
07:00Some women love other women.
07:02Some men love other men.
07:03They know that people love differently.
07:05Polly doesn't look like one thing.
07:07It's multiple different types of polygamous relationships
07:10or polyamorous relationships.
07:12Maya first created Family Game Night
07:14because she just likes when we all get together
07:16and play games and have fun.
07:19Definitely Nellie is the most competitive.
07:21She is a sore loser.
07:23These are just not fun.
07:24If we can describe the family in one word,
07:27what would it be?
07:29An experience, yeah.
07:30Experience?
07:31Okay.
07:32Exciting for sure.
07:33Would you all be open to another sister wife?
07:36I would not be open to another sister wife.
07:37No, we are open.
07:38We are complete.
07:39We have capacity.
07:40When me and C decide that we're gonna get married,
07:43then that's it, we're good.
07:44We've made it.
07:45We've reached our goals.
07:46So three is the max.
07:47I hope that we all just continue to flourish
07:51and just be great
07:53and keep impacting lives in a positive way.
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