00:00It is said that a gunman from Iligan City in Mindanao did not identify him as the real son of his father.
00:11His father suspects that he is the son of his mother to someone else.
00:18This is something that can be denied.
00:22Is there a basis for his father's suspicion?
00:27Let's let DNA be the judge.
00:38For a decade, Dexter has been living alone.
00:42He did not have a real name.
00:43His mother left him.
00:46Because of him,
00:49being a father and a husband
00:52is the result of his
00:54suspicion.
00:56Dexter believes that his nephew, his wife, Aliaf Merry,
01:02whom we have hidden under the name Mark,
01:05is the son of Merry to someone else.
01:09I believe that he is not my son.
01:11I do not feel that he is my son.
01:14My father is different.
01:16I blame myself because my mother and father separated.
01:20It really hurts that my son will not accept this.
01:26After more than a decade of thinking,
01:29DNA test can now be clarified.
01:35Is it true that Dexter believes that Mark is not his son?
01:39And the result of the DNA paternity test is...
01:51Oh, this is just one wrong assumption.
01:57I'm sorry.
01:58I'm sorry.
02:08In this house, in Illigan City, Mindanao,
02:11the husband of Merry and Dexter built their family.
02:15Look at the mess outside.
02:16Even back then, they often fought.
02:19Mom, look at the mess there.
02:21Dexter is very jealous.
02:23He has a lot of enemies.
02:24We have seven children.
02:25He is the only one left.
02:27Their fight is physically devastating.
02:30He always hurts me.
02:32I held his hand, but I have a reason.
02:35He hit me with a cow on my head.
02:37I slapped him.
02:40I'm afraid that he will beat me.
02:43Their relationship became worse in 2006
02:47when Dexter noticed his wife.
02:51Why are you gay?
02:52Who is your mother?
02:53He said that he is not gay.
02:55Until six months later, it was clear.
02:57Why are you gay?
02:58I don't even touch you.
03:00But if he gets drunk...
03:01He touched me many times.
03:03I will get drunk if I don't touch you.
03:08Dexter's worst nightmare.
03:10Our neighbor.
03:11My father-in-law in Labada.
03:13There was one time when I got home,
03:15I met the man from our house.
03:17Nothing happened to us.
03:19Because all my children have one father.
03:21Every day, we wash together.
03:24I never saw or doubted my mother that she has a son.
03:27Even though I know that the child is not mine,
03:29I still like him.
03:32But even when Mark raped Dexter,
03:36he still didn't feel the pain of the blood.
03:39The child is different from my children.
03:42He is different from what I felt.
03:44Because of this, Dexter's relationship with his family became worse.
03:49I never saw him rape a woman.
03:52I never told the child that I don't have a child.
03:54I felt sorry for the child.
03:55I told the truth to his siblings.
03:58That I don't have a child.
03:59Because Mary couldn't stand Dexter's relationship with his child,
04:04in 2009, she divorced him
04:07and moved to another town with Mark.
04:10I was afraid of their father.
04:11What would he do?
04:12Mark is now 16 years old
04:15and he grew up in his father's care.
04:18When I look in the mirror, he is really my father.
04:21Our feet are big, our hands are big.
04:23We both have big ears.
04:25We can't open our mouths.
04:28Until this 2020, the mother returned to her homeland.
04:32I came back here because their education is hard in the fields.
04:36Here, Mark forced her to get close to Dexter.
04:41But...
04:42When my sister asked, I joined her.
04:45To my sister, 100 to me, 5 or nothing.
04:47He only bought me clothes.
04:49My brother didn't.
04:51He didn't join me.
04:52I felt sorry for my brother.
04:53It hurts.
04:54I was envious of my brother.
04:55I admitted that I will give you more *** than him.
05:00If I have money, I will give it to them equally.
05:04There were times when I asked my mother,
05:06if I was the son of my father.
05:08She said yes.
05:10It hurts.
05:11I have a father, but I wasn't his son.
05:17We love ***.
05:18For us, he is our son.
05:20We are siblings with ***.
05:21Because we feel for him.
05:23It hurts.
05:24I like him.
05:25But he doesn't.
05:29He really denies it.
05:32Mark's time was spent serving the Church.
05:37I prayed every night that I would be accepted as a son.
05:41I love my father and I consider him my father,
05:43even though he doesn't consider me his son.
05:45At the Church, he felt the love of a parent.
05:49When he met Irene's family,
05:51he didn't really believe that they would accept him.
05:55No one takes care of me.
05:56That's why I said,
05:57just stay here ***.
05:58He's like a son.
05:59I'm happy because they consider me their son.
06:05But Mark still longs for the love of what he considers his real father,
06:10Dexter.
06:11And the parents agreed that their father's doubt
06:15would only get worse
06:17if they prove that he is wrong.
06:21I believe that I am not his son.
06:23I want to be denied ***.
06:27It's important for me to be denied,
06:29so that I can be quiet.
06:30I don't have money,
06:31I can't be denied.
06:32I want to be denied,
06:34so that I can have peace of mind.
06:42That's why they approached our program.
06:45I want to be denied my brother's A-Test,
06:48but I don't have money.
06:51Next,
06:52Dexter's father,
06:53whose name is not his real name,
06:55from Iligan,
06:56denies that he is not his son.
07:00His wife's nephew,
07:01Mary,
07:02whose name is not his real name,
07:04Mark.
07:05I don't feel that he is my son.
07:08Dexter and Mark
07:09joined the DNA paternity test.
07:12I am 100% positive for DNA.
07:15I prayed that I would be positive.
07:18This is my birthday,
07:19I wish that my father would come.
07:21I am negative.
07:25And the result of the DNA test came out.
07:28Will Mark's birthday wish come true?
07:31Will he be accepted by his father?
07:35I don't feel that he is my son.
07:38The answer is,
07:39there will be more questions.
07:47The result of the DNA test surprised the family.
08:00Next,
08:05Dexter's father,
08:06whose name is not his real name,
08:08from Iligan,
08:09denies that he is not his son.
08:13His wife's nephew,
08:14Mary,
08:15whose name is not his real name,
08:16Mark.
08:17I don't feel that he is my son.
08:19His suspect,
08:20Mark,
08:21is Mary's son
08:22with the previous owner.
08:24This is not true.
08:25Nothing happened to us.
08:26All of my children,
08:27only one of them is their father,
08:28******.
08:30That's why Dexter
08:31and Mark
08:33That's why Dexter
08:34and Mark
08:35went under
08:36the DNA paternity test.
08:38We guided the parents
08:39on how to properly collect
08:41DNA samples
08:42through video conferencing.
08:44I am 100% positive
08:46about my DNA.
08:47I prayed that I would be positive.
08:49This is my birthday.
08:50I wish that my father would come.
08:52For me, it's negative.
08:56Before announcing the result of the DNA test,
08:59the parents prayed first
09:01in the church.
09:02They were also talked to
09:03by a psychologist.
09:05At the request of the family
09:07and the DNA testing center,
09:09the DNA test result
09:11was entrusted
09:12to a social worker
09:14from the City Social Welfare
09:16and Development of Iligan.
09:18Whatever the result of the DNA test,
09:21we are here to guide you
09:23and to assist you.
09:26And this is
09:27what everyone has been waiting for.
09:30And the result of the DNA paternity test
09:36is
09:41zero percentage.
09:49It means
09:50that there is no blood
09:52and there is no father
09:54mother
09:56and mother
09:58negative.
10:25I don't know what to do.
10:31I don't know what to do.
10:35I don't know what to do.
10:37I did the right thing in the past.
10:40I pity him more now
10:43because I know that he is not happy.
10:45It's painful
10:46because I didn't experience
10:48having a father.
10:55I was accepted, but
10:57I was confused.
11:00And when Mary was asked
11:02who is Mark's real father,
11:04I don't remember.
11:08I don't know what to do.
11:09I don't know what to do.
11:11Maybe there was a mistake
11:13or someone else took his place.
11:15I don't know what to do.
11:17I don't know what to do.
11:19I don't know what to do.
11:21I don't know what to do.
11:24I don't know what to do.
11:26She's still in a state of shock.
11:28We'll give her time to process everything.
11:30I don't know what to do.
11:32Maybe it's because
11:34of the temptations
11:36that I don't know what to do.
11:39I don't know what to do.
11:40I just want my children to live.
11:42I did everything.
11:43My father and mother
11:44gave everything to him.
11:46They go through the sessions
11:48because they have emotions,
11:50the mysteries,
11:52the secrets
11:54that for a long years
11:56has been kept.
11:57They have blames
11:59that they are still facing.
12:01If they can't handle this,
12:03it might severe the ties
12:05and there will be different conflicts.
12:08They need a support system
12:09and support.
12:10The CSWD office will be conducting
12:13a series of family counseling sessions.
12:16Rest assured,
12:17there are social workers
12:19who will handle this.
12:21Mary's ex-boss,
12:23whom Dexter suspects to be
12:25Mark's real father,
12:27did not attend the session.
12:29But he refused
12:31to admit that Mary had an affair with him.
12:35I don't plan to find my real father.
12:38I feel sorry for my sister.
12:41I can't reduce my love for her.
12:43I know that she's going through a lot.
12:45I know that she's going through a lot.
12:47But if you can help her,
12:50you will be able to save her.
12:57I was able to forgive her.
13:00I can't forgive her.
13:02She felt that I didn't accept her.
13:07But I don't want her to feel that way.
13:10I don't want her to feel that way.
13:11I don't want her to feel that way.
13:12That's why I'm supporting her.
13:14I'm teaching her
13:16how to love.
13:17That's why I'm supporting her.
13:19I will still teach her how to love her father.
13:24That's why,
13:25on Mark's upcoming birthday,
13:27he wants to be with his father,
13:30Dexter.
13:33I'll sing.
13:34I'm ready for his birthday.
13:39When Dexter was proven right,
13:42his suspicion was right
13:44that he's not Mark's blood brother.
13:48He was also told that
13:50he's ready to be the real father of his child.
13:54From now on,
13:55he promises that he won't treat him differently.
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