00:00This is Joycelyn, she fell in love with Dino.
00:05That's right.
00:06We're being judged online because, you know, people have an attitude,
00:10they have an issue with her being younger than me.
00:12People accuse her of being a sugar baby and me of being a sugar daddy.
00:17Someone said, I wonder who the guy she's cheating with looks like.
00:22We're about to get on a Zoom call with my daughters Antoinette and Zaza
00:26and find out what they think about our relationship.
00:30First thoughts were definitely, I hope she's older than me.
00:34I'm Dino, I met my wife through her crochet business.
00:40We're being judged online because, you know, people have an attitude,
00:44they have an issue with her being younger than me.
00:46I'm an ex-beauty queen, most prestigious queen in Nigeria.
00:50The way the world looks at us, I'm white, she's black, I'm older, she's younger.
00:55I'm from America, she's from Nigeria.
00:57Oh yeah, she's beautiful and I'm, well, mean.
01:03Guys, you know that that's not correct, but that's what they think.
01:07People accuse her of being a sugar baby and me of being a sugar daddy.
01:11But let me tell you something, and I'm going to set this straight,
01:14the rules when it comes to sugar baby sugar daddies,
01:17sugar daddies never marry sugar babies, they give them money to go home.
01:23Okay, it's that simple.
01:25So we met through Instagram.
01:27Yeah.
01:27He was literally looking for crochet for three of his girlfriends.
01:32Two girlfriends in Africa and all over the world.
01:37He told her, okay, can you send this crochet to this person?
01:40And I was like, okay, no problem.
01:42And we started talking and this same day he said,
01:46would you like to come to the US to establish your business?
01:49And I was like, hell yeah.
01:51So like one week later, we were not dating.
01:53We were just talking all like business, business, and we fell in love.
01:57We knew there was chemistry.
01:58We knew it was there.
01:59It was crazy because all those women,
02:01they were there for a couple of times for like some period.
02:05And with time, he told me that I started dropping and I trust him.
02:09So for now, I am the other one.
02:12I have taken over.
02:14I was a single parent for almost 20 years.
02:16It was very complicated to try and have a relationship when you're a single dad,
02:22going through college, putting yourself in medical school.
02:25So it was just easier to have sugar babies.
02:29Honestly, there's just amazing women, all college girls.
02:32How many?
02:34I don't know.
02:37It would depend on what the budget would allow.
02:39I literally had a line in my budget for fun.
02:42I make and I knew five.
02:44But guess what?
02:45I got a ring, baby.
02:47Would you like to try those traditional stuff I got you from Nigeria?
02:50Of course.
02:51Okay.
02:52I'll be back.
02:53Okay, I'll join you.
02:53Let me complete this.
02:55I started crocheting when I was still a child, primary school.
02:59But I started as a business, 2017.
03:03This is a top and a shirt.
03:04This comes in three pieces.
03:06This one is my recent outfit and I just made it a few days ago for you guys.
03:12Honey, do you like it?
03:13I love it, sweetheart.
03:14So this is a cultural outfit in Africa and this is Odogu.
03:20Odogu means the king, the chief.
03:23So he is my Odogu.
03:25And you are my Odogu.
03:29Honey, do you like your outfit?
03:30I love my outfit.
03:31Pull up some of the comments from some of these haters and see how ridiculous they are.
03:36Man's pocket must be deep.
03:38That is, his pocket must be deep.
03:40What's wrong with that?
03:41What's wrong with that?
03:43I got peace of mind.
03:44I got a caring husband that has deep pockets in foreign currencies.
03:51I got it all.
03:52You didn't know that, did you, when you married me?
03:54That my pockets were deep?
03:57Of course, I didn't know that.
03:58This other one said,
04:00we know you love that money.
04:01Dating Santa and sh**.
04:03Honey, what do you have to say about this?
04:05What? I'm Santa Claus?
04:07Ho, ho, ho?
04:09No, I don't think so.
04:11Someone said,
04:12I wonder who the guy she's cheating with looks like.
04:17Me.
04:18There's not enough money in the world.
04:20What the f**k?
04:22Yeah, not enough money in the world for what?
04:24Maybe they need plastic surgery or psychotherapy.
04:28Some people are like,
04:29oh, she's just there for the money.
04:31Oh, she's going to want a young man that can satisfy her in the bedroom.
04:35And my response is,
04:37how do you know she's not already satisfied?
04:40How do you know she doesn't have everything she wants?
04:43You don't.
04:44I do.
04:45One thing about me is that
04:48I don't usually pay attention to any doubts someone can have towards us.
04:54If anybody's doubting us...
04:57That's their problem.
04:58That's their problem.
04:59It was crazy when everybody found out that we got married.
05:01I was sick, so we almost got married in the hospital.
05:04So the next day when I got out of the hospital,
05:06we got married immediately.
05:08It was his choice.
05:09And we did not post it.
05:12We did not post it on social media.
05:14And his family did not know
05:15because while we were going to Florida to meet them and tell them,
05:18hey guys, we are married.
05:20We just came to do a celebration with you guys.
05:22But we went to Facebook and typed whatever he typed
05:27and thought he said, do not post.
05:29Not knowing that he posted it.
05:32Okay, and guess what?
05:33The whole family found out from Facebook that we are married.
05:36Oh, it was hilarious.
05:36His daughter is older than me.
05:39His first daughter is 30...
05:4030 what?
05:41Oh, 35.
05:43Zaza is 35 years older than me.
05:46No, no, no.
05:46She's 35.
05:47She's 35.
05:48I'm 27.
05:49You got...
05:50So they are like older.
05:53They are not kids.
05:54And they found out on social media.
05:56We're about to get on a Zoom call with my daughters Antoinette and Zaza
05:59and find out what they think about our relationship.
06:04I raised my children to have an independent mind.
06:08And to speak their mind.
06:09So I expect them to say whatever they believe
06:13and not worry about if it hurts my feelings.
06:15What did you guys think when you first found out I got married to Joycelyn?
06:21First thoughts were definitely, I hope she's older than me.
06:27I will accept that.
06:28I'll accept that.
06:29And then I was like, wow, what a way.
06:31What a way to tell us.
06:32You know I'm not really good on social media, guys.
06:36When I hit the button that said don't publish, yeah, that didn't work.
06:40But I know Zaza, you haven't met Joycelyn in person yet.
06:44Yet, but we're coming to visit.
06:45And Antoinette, you had, what did you think when you got to meet her?
06:49She wasn't what I thought she would be like.
06:52I thought we had a pretty good conversation.
06:57And she would fit in with our family because she's interesting and she's smart.
07:04I don't know how to react to that.
07:07I know when I talked to you last,
07:11because you previously were kind of in an open relationship.
07:15What do you guys do to like manage?
07:19Manage the other women coming at me?
07:22Yeah, so she asked me that.
07:23That's when I told her that we don't do that.
07:27And she was like, wow, really?
07:29Yeah, because I was like, oh, so he's like actually going to be monogamous with me.
07:34That's like great.
07:35When we met, he actually had like five girlfriends, but none of them were close.
07:41None of them were close, right?
07:42So I was like the only one physically with him, presently with him.
07:47To me, I have actually come to realize that he sees it like I can do without it.
07:53Let's just have fun, just you and I.
07:56That's what I've come to realize that he's been doing.
07:59That's cool, you know.
08:00They're like, that's a first.
08:04I couldn't be happier.
08:05And I know that you guys have accepted Joycelyn, and that makes me happy.
08:09What is our future home?
08:11Oh, wow.
08:13Now there's a long list.
08:15We definitely want to get a boat because we live in the Caribbean on an island.
08:19And we're going to be traveling back to Nigeria for a traditional tribal wedding.
08:25Thinking back about today, you know, having to talk about our relationship
08:30and facing the judgment that a lot of people have, you know, while we're living our best life.
08:36You know, that's it.
08:37Where opinions don't matter, honestly, and they never will.
08:40We have our flow.
08:42He is not 100 percent.
08:43I'm not close to 100 percent.
08:45But we consciously put the effort to make our relationship work.
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