00:00 This is 30-year-old Carrie.
00:02 She fell in love with 63-year-old Randy.
00:07 Carrie admits that initially she used Randy for his money.
00:11 Randy and I met on Tinder.
00:13 My first intention was to basically milk him dry
00:16 and peace out.
00:17 But her feelings towards Randy developed over time.
00:21 I felt sorry that I was kind of neglecting him
00:24 and his feelings.
00:25 However, some people in her life are still unsure
00:29 that she really has good intentions.
00:31 People typically assume that I'm a gold digger.
00:34 Does this guy just want some young, hot girl
00:37 who's vulnerable?
00:39 Where are you on your budget?
00:41 I blew it again.
00:42 Have you been shopping lately?
00:44 I know that answer.
00:45 Almost every day.
00:47 She normally spends money on clothes, clothes, clothes.
00:51 My name is Carrie and I'm 30 years old.
00:53 I'm Randy, I'm 63 years old.
00:55 And we have a 33-year age gap.
00:58 I'm a stay-at-home girlfriend
00:59 and I just started an OnlyFans.
01:01 I do sales.
01:02 I've been doing sales for 30 years.
01:05 Randy.
01:06 Yeah, babe.
01:07 Do you wanna help me pack for Coachella?
01:08 Oh, good idea.
01:09 So here is the pink translucent bra.
01:13 You like that?
01:15 That's a thong, oh my goodness.
01:17 You will be definitely noticed in that.
01:20 In the beginning of our relationship,
01:23 she would go over her budget thousands of dollars
01:27 and finally we had to have a come-to-Jesus meeting.
01:31 I don't even know she's over her budget
01:33 until she calls me and says, "My Amex isn't working."
01:36 And I said, "Okay, well, you can have it, but that's it."
01:40 And then normally like two days later,
01:42 she was like, "Well, you know, I need this."
01:44 Randy and I met on Tinder in 2019.
01:48 I just swiped up to the age.
01:51 I just made it go the whole way up.
01:56 What attracted me to him was probably
01:58 he went on vacation a lot.
02:01 I actually thought that it was gonna be
02:02 more of a business transaction.
02:05 My first intentions when I met Randy
02:07 was to basically milk him dry.
02:08 I wanted to get from him what I could and peace out.
02:12 Every once in a while, I would get a message,
02:15 "Hey, can you do me a favor and help me out?"
02:17 Because, you know, I'm low on money.
02:20 After a while of him doing that,
02:21 I just disappeared one day.
02:23 I didn't message him for, what, months.
02:27 I said, "You know what?
02:28 I'm going to change my life.
02:29 I'm going to do the right thing.
02:31 I'm going to work a job."
02:33 So I was walking to work.
02:34 I didn't have a car.
02:35 After I disappeared for a while,
02:38 he messaged me out of concern
02:40 because he hadn't heard from me.
02:42 - I said, "Look, I'll buy you a car."
02:43 I said, "So this way you can get back and forth to work
02:46 because I don't want you walking at nighttime."
02:47 She worked graveyard shift.
02:49 So I ended up buying her a BMW.
02:53 I am so grateful that he's given me the car.
02:56 Thank you.
02:57 After a year of talking, I decided to meet him in person
03:01 because my life was getting a little bit better
03:05 because of him.
03:06 He was helping me out long distance.
03:08 And I felt sorry that I was kind of neglecting him
03:12 and his feelings when he was doing so much for me.
03:15 - When I first met her, I was like, "Wow, she's hot."
03:18 - I had never been with an older man before.
03:22 So I didn't know if he was safe.
03:24 - Yeah, she always thought I was gonna kill her.
03:28 - I realized that I had feelings for Randy
03:31 when he sat me down one day and said,
03:35 "Make a list of all your problems
03:37 and we'll check them off one by one."
03:39 And probably a week later, he said to me,
03:42 "If you give me a year, I'll change your life."
03:44 - So babe, you gonna make that breakfast casserole?
03:46 - Yeah, we had it before.
03:48 I liked it.
03:49 We've gone to a restaurant before
03:51 and he has gone to the restroom and I'm sitting there
03:55 and they'll ask me what my dad wants to drink.
03:57 And normally I just go with it.
04:00 Sometimes I'll correct them.
04:02 I don't like to embarrass people.
04:04 So I just, I let it go and then give an awkward kiss.
04:08 - After the meal.
04:09 She'll be like, "This is what my dad wants."
04:13 - Yeah.
04:14 People typically assume that I'm a gold digger
04:17 or I have daddy issues.
04:19 People stare.
04:21 Sometimes I catch them pointing.
04:22 I've seen them make fun of us or me especially.
04:26 - I don't think Carrie's using me for my money
04:28 because I've seen the change in the way she treats me.
04:31 In the beginning, yes, but in the last two or three years,
04:36 no, nope, not at all.
04:38 She really cares.
04:41 She wants to make sure that I take my medicine
04:43 because I got a high blood pressure.
04:45 - I'm not using Randy for his money anymore.
04:48 At the beginning, of course, I had a different mindset.
04:52 But when you fall in love with somebody,
04:55 then you appreciate them for what they are
04:57 and not what they have.
04:58 The online judgment has been, I guess,
05:02 difficult for me more than it has him.
05:05 A lot of the comments that people have said are,
05:08 "He's going to die in the next couple of years."
05:11 "I'm dating my grandpa."
05:13 (laughing)
05:16 - I thought she said father, not grandpa.
05:18 (beep)
05:20 I'm sorry.
05:21 - I have two boys that are younger than Carrie
05:24 and both of them actually thought,
05:27 "Wow, dad, she's hot as (beep)."
05:30 And they get along with her very well.
05:34 And they were like, "I gotta give you kudos.
05:36 "You're doing great."
05:38 - Initially, my friends were surprised.
05:41 So my friend Sabrina's gonna come over in a little bit.
05:43 She hasn't been that supportive.
05:45 - Sabrina, I've been Carrie's friend
05:47 since we were about 16 years old.
05:48 We went to high school together.
05:50 When Carrie first told me about Randy,
05:52 I definitely was thinking,
05:53 "What is she doing with an older man?"
05:55 "What is she benefiting from this?"
05:56 "Is this gonna be a fling?"
05:58 "Is she gonna get hurt?"
05:59 "Is this even safe for her to do?"
06:01 (knocking)
06:03 - Carrie, how are you? - Hey, how are you?
06:06 - It's been so long.
06:07 - I know, it has.
06:08 - So thanks for coming.
06:09 - Oh, of course, thanks for having me.
06:11 - So what concerns did you initially have
06:13 about the relationship?
06:14 - You guys dating?
06:16 - I'd say from your standpoint, I was like,
06:18 "Hmm, what is she getting from this?"
06:20 "Why is she doing this?"
06:21 "Is it just a phase?"
06:22 I don't know.
06:24 I didn't want you to get hurt,
06:25 but I also didn't want you to be using someone.
06:28 So really just worried about what your intention was,
06:31 to be completely honest.
06:32 You're not the type to settle down.
06:33 So I was like, "What is she doing?"
06:35 - Well, what do you think about the age gap?
06:39 Were you worried?
06:41 - I was a little worried about,
06:42 "Does this guy just want a showpiece?"
06:44 "Is he just trying to find some young, hot girl"
06:48 "who's vulnerable to take advantage of,"
06:51 not even mentally, but sexually, to be completely honest.
06:55 Did you just want a little piece type of thing?
06:58 Like, "Eh."
06:59 But, I mean, clearly you're a great guy.
07:02 Again, make her extremely happy.
07:05 So I see that this is something real.
07:09 I truthfully never thought she was gonna find someone
07:11 that treats her so well.
07:12 And I am so appreciative that you have helped her
07:15 mentally, physically, honestly,
07:18 everything under the sun you've given her.
07:20 Her happiness now is truthfully, in my opinion,
07:22 contributed to you and what you've done for her.
07:24 - I really appreciate that.
07:25 - Of course.
07:26 Yes, I see you honestly as like a brother-in-law.
07:30 What makes you love Carrie?
07:32 What gets you going with her?
07:34 What do you see in her that satisfies you and what you need?
07:38 (laughing)
07:39 Shut the (beep) up.
07:40 I mean, are you, I honestly wasn't going sexual,
07:43 but I see that's what you're doing.
07:45 We put in the work every day to make each other happy.
07:50 - To the haters.
07:51 - I like the attention, baby.
07:53 - And I have it, and she comes home with me every night.
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