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TANYA and Josue are back! Love Don't Judge first met the pair in 2022 and now the couple have an exciting update. Josue revealed, "I'm twice her age and I want to get her pregnant." Despite their age gap, the couple remain madly in love - but, that doesn't mean that the judgement has gone. "We get all kinds of judgement. They call me a groomer, they say I groomed him, but I don't really see how that's possible," Tanya explained. While the couple are steady now, they have faced some challenges. "I was kind of toxic. And when I mean toxic, I mean checking through her phone," Josue said. But the couple have overcome the hurdles and are now stronger than ever, ready to embark on the joys of parenthood together. Tanya admitted, "It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other and he's a great human being, I love him a lot."

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00:00My name is Tanya. This is my husband Josue. I'm 44. I'm 26. She's twice my age and I want to get

00:06her pregnant. We met through my oldest two sons. People always judge our relationship. This is

00:11low-key giving cougar desperation vibes. Is that your mom? She had to pay him to stay, huh? I mean

00:18they call me groomer. The difference in maturity is significant. I was kind of toxic checking through

00:24her phone. She looks left. I'm over here like don't look left because I see a dude there.

00:29We broke up. And I had to walk away from you. Alright. How you gonna change this diaper?

00:41When we first met, he was 19. I was 38. There you go. Let me see what you gonna do. He was

00:48pretty close to my kids. When I first seen her, first thing I said was, is that your

00:53mom? And the first thing that came to my mind was, she's hot. I just knew you had

00:59a loud mouth and you were annoying. I was annoying. We both broke up with our exes and

01:05we were together about a year later. She's mine now. We got married in Vegas in 2022. We

01:13get all kinds of judgment. If you ain't got haters, then you're not important. There's

01:17some comments that I laugh at. Is that your mom? Is that your son? And for the people who

01:22keep saying, I got mommy issues. I'm just putting this out in the air. I don't got mommy issues.

01:26Me and my mom get along. Just great. I'm just in love. Wait until he hits 30. He's gonna realize

01:33what he signed up for. Why? Because I'm almost 30. You better start realizing then soon. He's

01:38clearly using her for stability. This is low-key giving cougar desperation vibes. She had to

01:44pay him to stay, huh? He probably needs a green card. I'm from here. I mean, they call me groomer.

01:52They say that, oh, I groomed him and this and that, but I don't really see how that's possible.

02:00I was dating girls more my age before I got with her. So I went through like a lot of bad

02:06relationships. So actually being with somebody who actually truly shows me love, it was kind

02:10of hard for me to believe. So I was kind of toxic. And when I mean toxic, I mean checking

02:14through her phone. She looks left. I'm over here like, don't look left because I see a dude

02:19there. We broke up and I had to walk away from you. I don't even know why I still get emotional

02:39about that. I genuinely loved you even back then. I feel like you just didn't believe it. And like,

02:53I don't know. I just wanted us to get along better. When I was out there, I realized that nobody's like

03:05you and you were my home. After that, I matured a lot. We've been talking about having a baby for

03:13a couple of years now, but I think it's about time. I knew I wanted to give you a baby as soon

03:18as I fell in love with you. I have four children. One is 22 years old. One is 19 years old. And the

03:26others are five and eight. I want to give him a child. When you're in love with somebody, you want

03:34to give them the world. And as a woman, I would love to give my husband a baby. We've been cleared

03:41for IVF and I've been cleared from my doctor to carry another baby. She got four. I'll give her two

03:49more. Six ain't bad. Six ain't bad. What? Six kids. It's cool. So yeah, two. I'll give her two kids.

03:58Originally, my oldest two were affected negatively. And I'm not going to say that social media and the

04:07previous show that we did didn't help fuel their negative responses to our relationship. But I don't

04:16think that my older kids would want anyone else to be here to help raising their little siblings

04:22other than him. They weren't best friends. They didn't grow up together. It was more of like a big

04:28brother mentor relationship that they had because they also love him a lot and they have a great bond.

04:35I'm still very close with her sons. We still hang out every day. I don't think anything changed.

04:40You can make it work as long as you make sure that there's no power imbalance in the relationship.

04:48I don't tell him what to do. I don't mommy him. Sometimes I try. I'm not going to lie.

04:56Oh, you definitely mommy.

04:58But we know.

05:00Babe, eat now.

05:04You're leaving your food on the table.

05:07You pick up your dishes. I bet he only stays because of that influencer money.

05:13We started doing social media influencing during the COVID pandemic. It was just a way for us

05:18to kind of supplement income and still provide for the kids. I remember in the beginning,

05:23he really didn't want any part of social media. It was already on a couple of different platforms.

05:29And he just kind of made fun of it. And he used to say, I'm not doing that. That's cringy.

05:35And then here we are. And I think it's definitely made us stronger.

05:39So all together, we have about 170,000 followers across all social media platforms.

05:45People don't understand. It's literally a job.

05:49Yeah.

05:49It's hard too.

05:50To our haters, y'all are fans too.

05:53Y'all are fans too.

05:54Just remember that.

05:56The hate just gets the bag.

05:57A hundred percent.

05:59I've been making music for about 13 years and I'm hoping to one day make it.

06:03I'm about to play a new song for my wife and I'm going to see what she thinks about it.

06:06So baby, call me please don't care. Please don't play a new song.

06:11I've always stayed on the finish, yeah. I know that stress is hard on the finish, yeah.

06:17I know that stress is hard on the finish, yeah. I know that stress is hard on the finish, yeah.

06:20I know that's so amazing.

06:21That smile is cute.

06:22So please pick up your fire, let me lie.

06:26You showed me videos of you when you were younger.

06:30And you're sitting at a computer doing the same thing, doing music.

06:35Did you like it?

06:36I love it.

06:37This is about you.

06:39I'm going to be honest, every song I make is about you.

06:42Every song.

06:43The difference in maturity between a male from 20 to 25 or 26,

06:49sometimes it felt like I was dating a teenager at some point.

06:54I still have my immature side sometimes.

06:56I think a lot of men, no offense to men in general, but I think a lot of men have

07:02their immature kids' side no matter what age they are.

07:04Want me to be honest?

07:06You do too.

07:06Oh yeah?

07:07Yeah.

07:09Leave me alone.

07:10We're both allowed to be crazy together.

07:12That's right.

07:13When we got together, he was 21 and I was 38.

07:17You're 21 years old, you're able to drink alcohol, you're able to gamble, you're able to go to war for

07:25your country, why are you not able to love who you want?

07:29It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other and he's definitely a great

07:35human being.

07:36I love him a lot.

07:37You made me into a better man.

07:40I can tell you that.

07:42So you're a one of a kind.

07:45I'm being honest.

07:46I know you are.

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