00:00 This is Alexander.
00:02 He fell in love with six women.
00:05 I don't really have a cap on girlfriends.
00:08 Any more than ten is challenging.
00:12 Alexander has been told he is a player.
00:16 I think a lot of people think that I'm just like
00:18 some kind of like...
00:19 [Bleep]
00:20 boy.
00:21 It gets harder with more than four people.
00:24 It gets more challenging.
00:25 Today he is introducing a new person to his roster.
00:29 The reason I have seven of course is,
00:30 well, if you join you'll be Thursday.
00:33 Well, first of all, I just met you.
00:37 So I am not part of the group of girlfriends.
00:40 My name is Alex.
00:50 I have six girlfriends,
00:52 but I am always looking for more.
00:55 I live in Los Angeles, California.
00:56 I actually grew up in quite a small town in the north of England,
00:59 but I've been out here for about four or five years now.
01:01 So I'm a producer.
01:02 A lot of my time is spent making beats to send out to artists.
01:05 So I'm just working on a beat right now
01:06 before the girls come over shortly.
01:08 I currently have sort of six girls
01:12 that I would consider as like girlfriends.
01:15 So I have Nia,
01:17 Avery,
01:19 Zee out in Florida,
01:21 Beani,
01:22 and then there's Izzy.
01:25 And there's a couple more girls who I'm pretty close to,
01:28 but, you know, they're like a lot more private.
01:31 Hello, hello.
01:35 Hi.
01:36 I don't usually hang out with more than three girls at once.
01:40 It gets harder with more than four people.
01:43 It gets more challenging.
01:45 We just recently met not too, too long ago.
01:49 Alex was getting a tattoo that day
01:51 and we kind of left him.
01:53 Yeah, we were like, "Bye."
01:55 And we went and hung out together.
01:56 We went shopping.
01:58 Do you guys want to pick a jacket for me?
02:00 Yeah.
02:01 It wasn't really like a conscious decision for me
02:04 to all of a sudden become polyamorous.
02:06 I just kind of found that like traditional monogamy
02:08 didn't really work with me
02:10 and sort of like the way that I function as a human being.
02:14 That one's cute. I like that one.
02:15 Come, come, come.
02:17 Having to reserve all of my love and affection
02:21 for just one individual,
02:23 it doesn't fit right with me.
02:24 It doesn't feel right.
02:26 Do you like this one?
02:27 I was attracted to him physically first,
02:30 but like as I got to know him...
02:32 I got it!
02:33 So proud of you.
02:34 His little personality, it's adorable.
02:37 He's so sweet.
02:38 Should we say his little personality?
02:41 His tiny little minuscule personality.
02:44 He's very like just confident and weird and out there.
02:47 So, you know, he's authentically himself and that was hot.
02:51 I don't wish he was monogamous.
02:53 It just wouldn't make sense for him.
02:56 I definitely receive quite a lot of judgment.
02:58 90% of it is from men.
03:01 Let me pull up a couple of comments here.
03:03 "You are a white man making money off of black culture.
03:06 You are a guest here.
03:07 Don't be taking our women and degrading them
03:09 so you can make a fast dollar."
03:11 I had one comment saying, "Strippers will do anything.
03:14 Cats be acting like they're the man,
03:16 but really be getting hustled."
03:18 So they'll get it.
03:19 Probably never going to get it.
03:21 They'll say things to try and make it seem like it's fake
03:23 or like I'm paying them.
03:25 Or it's like, "Oh, he's like a sugar daddy."
03:27 Like all this nonsense, you know?
03:28 I think for some men, sort of seeing the way that I live
03:31 is kind of like quite a hit to their ego.
03:34 They assume that I must be like not treating girls well
03:39 if I'm seeing other people.
03:40 It's like, they can't understand that it can be both.
03:42 I can see the people
03:43 and I can also treat them like queens, you know?
03:46 Today, I'm going to be meeting with a new girl,
03:49 possibly girlfriend number seven.
03:51 We've spoken a lot over text,
03:52 spoken on the phone a couple of times,
03:53 but this will be the first time I'll meet her in person.
03:55 Hello, hello.
03:56 - Hi.
03:57 - You're so tiny.
03:58 - Nice to meet you.
04:00 - Oh my God.
04:01 - When attracting me to Alex,
04:02 it's like he's kind, he's very funny, he's sweet.
04:06 And I like the fact that he was straightforward
04:09 and honest like right away.
04:11 When he told me he had six girlfriends,
04:13 it didn't really bother me.
04:15 He's just looking for fun
04:16 and I'm having six girlfriends
04:18 and as long as they're okay with him doing
04:20 whatever he does, I happily see the issue.
04:22 - That's right.
04:23 Everybody, this is Dani.
04:27 - Hi.
04:27 - This is Nia, Avery.
04:29 - Nice to meet you, Dani.
04:30 - Go take a seat.
04:31 - So do you like consider him your boyfriend
04:34 or do you consider them your girlfriends?
04:36 - There's definitely some girls that I see
04:38 who I wouldn't consider girlfriends,
04:40 but I'm pretty tight with these two.
04:42 - I would consider him my boyfriend.
04:44 - You consider him your boyfriend?
04:45 - Yeah.
04:46 - Question though, would you be upset
04:48 if either, like it's not a thing
04:49 where they're not like able to have other dudes?
04:54 - I mean, it's up to everybody
04:55 to do whatever they want to do.
04:57 I don't like to put any expectations
05:00 on anybody to do anything.
05:02 You know, like people just kind of choose
05:04 their own level of engagement, level of involvement.
05:06 And then we just all kind of adjust
05:08 and navigate around that.
05:10 - So do you guys ever feel jealous
05:11 when like you see him being affectionate
05:13 with another girl or like, you know,
05:16 like do you ever feel a type of way at all?
05:20 - For me, I kind of view all of his relationships
05:23 just as like their own separate entities
05:26 to like whatever's happening there.
05:29 Like not my circus, not my monkeys,
05:31 but you know, it doesn't mean that jealousy doesn't happen.
05:36 - Sometimes it's like what comes out is beautiful
05:39 and the girls just absolutely love each other
05:40 and they become like really close and become-
05:43 - So long-term, what would be like your goal?
05:45 You're an old man, you're like 80.
05:47 What does that look like?
05:48 Like you're 80, are you with like the however many girls
05:56 or are you like-
05:57 - Going full Hefner?
05:58 - Yeah.
05:59 - Honestly, I can't really predict that far ahead.
06:05 When it comes to relationships,
06:06 I just like things to be like organic
06:08 and you know, be about chemistry.
06:09 - Which I appreciate about you a lot actually.
06:11 - The reason I have seven of course is,
06:13 well, if you join, you'll be Thursday.
06:16 - Well, first of all, I just met you,
06:20 so I am not part of the group of girlfriends.
06:22 - So Eli's about to come over.
06:27 He's gonna talk to you guys a little bit about
06:30 how he feels about my obnoxious wild boy lifestyle.
06:36 - Hey.
06:39 - Hey, what's good?
06:40 - How you doing?
06:41 - Hey, good to see you, man.
06:42 It's just perplexing to me
06:44 how you have the time to do it all.
06:47 Are you just like a machine?
06:48 - These are reasonable concerns.
06:52 I suppose my like baseline level,
06:57 I'm quite sort of high performing.
07:00 Even when I feel like I'm slacking off,
07:01 I'm doing more than kind of most people do in a day.
07:04 I'm kind of quite good at juggling all the tasks
07:07 and all the women I suppose.
07:09 - So do you sleep at all?
07:13 - I think a lot of people just think that
07:14 because I see multiple girls,
07:17 they just think that I'm just like
07:19 some kind of like (beep) boy.
07:23 I think people don't understand that, you know,
07:25 I actually, I'm quite affectionate and quite warm.
07:29 I really have like real meaningful relationships
07:32 with people.
07:32 It's not like I'm just running around
07:33 just like throwing my (beep) around for the sake of it.
07:36 - Honestly, seeing it from the outside looking in,
07:38 you make it seem so easy
07:40 and it looks doable, you know?
07:43 But for me personally, I just,
07:45 I live vicariously through you.
07:47 (laughing)
07:49 - Happy to be of service.
07:51 Next year or so,
07:52 just gonna really focus on this career stuff,
07:54 continue to nurture relationships with people
07:56 that I feel chemistry with
07:59 and just keep doing my thing as a wild boy.
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