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I'd like to talk a few minutes about social situations and shyness when I was younger I suffered from Horrible chronic shyness and so I can talk about the subject with some experience in my own there are a number of different factors which cause shyness they include upbringing cultural mores and so forth at the very basic level shyness is caused by very low self confidence in social situations if you're in an unfamiliar situation or an event it's very natural to be shy it's perfectly fine if you're shy the first time when you meet somebody or if you ask someone to demonstrate something important especially if they're a teacher or personal authority it's quite normal to feel shy in many situations the shyness goes away as the person becomes more familiar and comfortable with the situation but what happens when a person is chronically shy what happens when a person experiences Chinese which is so bad that it becomes the focal point of their life if you have experience with this type of chronic shyness then you know that it can be socially and emotionally crippling the shyness just zaps the self confidence out of you and you always feel trapped anxious in social situations I would love to give you a head start in beating back your crime shyness for good and here are some great tips to get you started generally shyness begins with the idea that people will not be interested in you although that does happen if you can muster enough courage it's better to introduce yourself first rather than somebody else having to introduce you to that person if that person doesn't respond then find another person to interact with you have to keep doing it over and over and you'll get better at it as time goes on often in social situations we feel the need to elevate ourselves just to be accepted this is actually an extreme response because most of the time people want to hear just something interesting if you do come across someone who brags about how much money he's making year or how he's really enjoying a new luxury he just bought don't try to qualify yourself by doing the same tone down your description of yourself and you'll see that other people will appreciate your attitude socializing will become easier and you'll make new acquaintances much faster by using this technique people are usually preoccupied with their physical appearance when they go out to meet people we do live in a visual world and physical appearance does have value but when we communicate with others with the intention of winning over someone for friendship or acceptance people see just not your physical experience but the way you handle yourself the way you project yourself these are two very different things you've got to understand that the way you carry yourself tends to be more relevant than what you are wearing or what kind of hairstyle you have if you're wearing a stunning dress but you carry yourself as if you've
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