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overcoming shyness around practicing practice is really important without the discipline of regular practice you simply won't make improvements but based on a survey i did with about 100 people the number one thing that stops people from achieving the voice they really want is not being able to practice out of the issue of others so they just don't practice or they're really held back when they're practicing and all this self doubt comes out so here are my top tips tip number one firstly get yourself a learn to sing program or take private lessons and record them so that you can listen back and practice the exercise is given to you I know it's stating the obvious but if you really want to work on your voice just singing along to your favorite tracks hides all the areas that need improving but more on that bit later tip number two it's obvious that you need to set aside time for this so look at your daily routine and schedule in whatever time you've got ask yourself when will I be alone in the house when could I go out to my car if I have to can I hire a studio or do I have access to one have any of my friends got a space that I could use or is there a cafe I could use after hours so think a little bit outside the box it could be as little as 15 minutes or as long as an hour but set that time and make a date with yourself to do it every day or three times a week or whatever you can manage no excuses even if something better comes up stop putting off what was going to bring you joy and freedom in exchange for instant gratification like coffee with a friend or trip to the Powerball cinema those things can be done but not in your singing practice time right your practice time in your diary look at your diary every day and make it happen tip number three if you simply cannot practice out of the air shot of others you're going to have to learn to not give a rip about what anyone things this will be a comfort zone stretcher but the pain of not breaking through your comfort zone tends to be worse than that little bit of discomfort required to do this new thing so imagine yourself as a student of method acting so a method acting student is in a room where they're doing something that they usually only do by themselves so this could be dancing it could be singing it could be playing an instrument rehearsing their lines right in your song or journaling their deepest thoughts some kind of task that requires alone time then at some point someone else is going to walk in and invade their space and the student doing the task was keep calm and carry on despite the interruption this means that they have to learn to overcome their shyness by flicking a switch mentally or at least feel that shyness but carry on regardless without any noticeable change in their physicality so overcoming shyness is a practice in itself when you first start depending on your current ability your current personalit
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