00:00Message from Tegan for three calls ended all and Tegan says hey guys I'm recently engaged hope to
00:04get married fall 2027 looking at our dream venue oh very nice the only date they have open is
00:11Saturday September 11th 2027 oh I'm super bummed because this is my dream venue but to share an
00:19anniversary with 9-11 I'm just worried that that's a bad omen the day is meant to remember those we
00:25lost and honor the heroes truth but I wonder if anyone has a similar story um do you share an
00:32anniversary with a day that now that day kind of doesn't matter to you because that's your
00:37anniversary or do you wish that you chose a different day should we change venues to avoid
00:43that day please help wow wow I mean you know right out of the gate I'm I don't have an
00:52experience with
00:53that my anniversary is my anniversary it's my day I don't I don't really think twice about it
00:57yeah but I could definitely imagine and I think if I were in her situation as her fiance I would
01:04say
01:04if you're already starting to feel that way then yeah that's not going to go away 9-11 is always
01:09going to be 9-11 like and I couldn't tell you and I granted I'm the husband like the venue
01:14and stuff
01:15like that like is important and I look at photos back of course but there's plenty of venues for you
01:20yeah you just got to go find the right one for the right date right and if that's going to
01:24bother
01:24you now it could bother you in 60 years you know what I mean my brother-in-law and sister
01:30-in-law got
01:30married on June 6th which is d-day oh so like literally every time and and I just was talking
01:36to someone else who's like oh yeah we're getting married on June 6th and I almost said d-day no
01:40one
01:41wants to hear that when they're talking about their wedding day but it is the first thing that goes
01:44into your head right when someone says oh my anniversary or my wedding is coming up on
01:50September 11th the first thing people are going to think of yep is September 11th so I'm actually
01:56going to a wedding on September 11th 2027 stop it really and is it Teagan's no it's not Teagan's I
02:04know I was thinking about that might be a change of venue um and uh the couple when you ask
02:10them
02:10when their wedding is they say at the end of or uh at the beginning of September then you're like
02:16oh well what's the date and then they're very hesitant to say right the 11th and then you put
02:20it together and you go oh so the groom's parents anniversary is September 11th like in the 80s
02:29right so they kind of have that connection oh there their invitations it's a destination wedding so
02:35it's like from the 10th to the 12th yeah so they're very much avoiding saying that date right
02:42right but because it shouldn't matter to anyone else right like I mean how often are you saying
02:47when your anniversary is and that's the good point everyone's like oh how long have you been married
02:52yep right right in 10 years but no one's like what day did you get married nobody nobody cares
02:57you only worry about that leading up to the wedding right exactly Teagan maybe you just change it to
03:02the 10th or the 12th when you need to say that date to somebody yeah no one else there's no
03:06fact
03:07checking there no I love my dates of all of all my anniversaries with Michelle because we started
03:13dating on 10 26 my birthday is 11 26 so month before and then we got married on 10 11
03:19oh so I'm in there
03:21you can just I'm so in there dude I'm in there I'm so impressed that you know any of that
03:29Donnie
03:29just because of those numbers if there were any other numbers no I'd be no absolutely all right so
03:36you heard what we think what do you think
