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00:00i can't tell if it's men the beauty standard or both that have changed in the past like 10 years
00:06or so but i swear to god i'm like i don't know if it's because i don't get like lip
00:11filler and
00:12stuff like that no shade if you do like nothing against it i work at a botox company but i
00:18do
00:18feel like men have come to expect almost like subtle work done like they don't realize it i
00:27don't think but that's kind of become the standard and i feel like i'm feeling the backlash of that
00:34um either that or also just my looks are like out of vogue i don't know but just want to
00:41see if
00:41anyone else is having that experience or maybe the men are just like never gonna approach women
00:47again i don't know i can't tell i think it's a combination of things but i don't think it's
00:53that we expect to see you know some type of surgery that has happened me personally i prefer all
01:01natural you know um even if it's part of the even if it means that you got to be part
01:08of the itty
01:09bitty titty committee you know hey listen a titty is a titty to me okay um that's the way god
01:16made
01:16you baby we can make it work but you know this is my personal preference um same thing with the
01:23lip fillers me personally i'm not a fan not a fan i'd prefer i would prefer that you rock
01:30your skinny natural looking lips that looks better to me rather than the the fat plumped up
01:36and i feel like for me and maybe i'm tripping but to me it looks obvious when someone has had
01:43lip filler
01:44you know it just doesn't look right it doesn't look 100 natural like there's that there's that few
01:52percentage points where it's like something looks a little off here and i don't like it and some of
01:58them are just like really really effing obvious where you know like like above their lip is like
02:05swollen you know what i mean like like up here like above like the lip line is like puffed up
02:13a
02:13little bit it's like yeah no too much too much too much too much like it's completely obvious what
02:19you did you know it's obvious i'm not a fan not saying that every guy's like that there's plenty
02:25of guys who who love you know uh you know breast implants you know a good a good boob job
02:31right not
02:32to say that i hate it you know what i'm saying hey a titty is a titty you know but
02:37if you were to ask
02:40people my personal preference hey all natural all natural come to me the way the guy made you
02:46all right he made you perfect so that's the way that i want to see you that's just my personal
02:52preference but so no i don't think you know men just have come to expect you know surgeries and things
03:03um i think society has made it
03:10awkward for men to approach women and she taught she taught she touched on it right there at the
03:15very very end that's the way society has has made made it right so as a woman if you want
03:24to be
03:24approached by a man you have to make it abundantly clear like not send the mixed signals or like the
03:32little flirtations maybe you know a little hint hint wink wink you know the occasional eye contact
03:37you know intentional eye contact so you know you think you know he knows what's up like you
03:44eye contact no no no you have to make it 100 clear you damn near gotta approach the man yourself
03:52right because that's the society that we're in now men would rather just be alone than to be accused of
04:01essay by some crazy lunatic chick that like i watched that episode of or seen a clip of um
04:12jeez i can't think of uh caleb hammer and he had a chick on the show who said that she
04:18was essayed
04:21by it was either her boyfriend a guy she was dating or a guy that she really liked
04:26and he was like how explain to me how and she was like well you know he he was he
04:33was being
04:33flirtatious with me and he was like well what did you do well you know i brought him to my
04:39room
04:39and he's like you brought a guy to your room that okay carry on and he tried to flirt with
04:48me and then
04:48i got up and i went to the bathroom and he came and you know we kissed and then he
04:54kept trying to
04:54flirt with me he was like hold on wait wait wait so you kissed him she was like yeah so
05:00you so you
05:01willingly kissed him yeah that's not essay but this chick was like adamant that that was essay and it's
05:08just like yeah that's part of the reason why fellas are just like nah bro i'm not unless you make
05:14it abundantly clear like you want to be approached you you want me in your bubble in your space
05:20i'm i'm just gonna keep it pushing i'm gonna keep it moving right there have been men who have had
05:28their lives ruined because of stuff like that i'm thinking of a college football player um
05:36what was his name sean oakman i believe it was sean oakman i think he played for baylor or
05:40something who was accused of that i mean mountain of a man i mean six foot eight 280 pounds just
05:49a
05:49monster monster on the football field was definitely going to the nfl but in college he was accused of
05:56essay and that case like drug out and by the time it was all over his career was done millions
06:06of dollars
06:09the kind of money that could have changed not only his life but his family's life for generations to
06:14come down the drain because one woman said that about him and it turned out to not be true
06:25like he was found not guilty in the end millions of dollars gone opportunities
06:34to change his family's life gone with it and so yeah most guys are just like no i'm not approaching
06:42okay oops except girls video popped up on my page today and she was saying that she thinks the beauty
06:50standards have changed because 10 years ago she was getting approached a lot and now she doesn't get
06:54approached anymore and she was attributing that to like she doesn't get like botox and lip filler and
07:01everything and so she thinks maybe that's like why she's not getting approached and so i commented
07:06and i was like unfortunately you know i think the issue is that we've gotten older and i said me
07:14too
07:16um i said i started noticing you know like men not approaching me or like looking at me as much
07:22like
07:22after i turned maybe like 32 and when i looked at this woman i was like she's got to be
07:27around the same
07:27me just me i don't know i was thinking maybe like 35 maybe a little younger than me i'm 37
07:33um and she comments back like right away and she says these comments are diabolical
07:40like as if i've like greatly insulted her and so i commented back like a couple like question marks
07:47like what like this was not an attack on you i'm like i'm trying to understand like what exactly
07:52she thinks is diabolical here and um somebody else that comes to my defense and was like this
07:58wasn't a swipe at you she's just saying you know there is a change like when we get older like
08:04men are going to be kind of less attracted to us um yeah it's the truth i mean i know
08:13some people
08:14don't like to hear that but the truth is the truth and the truth doesn't care about feelings i mean
08:17it's
08:17facts um we see that play out time and time again as a you know if there's a successful guy
08:28why would
08:28he pick the older chick rather than the younger chick what because the older one has more money
08:36most men don't most men don't care about what their lady makes most men don't a lot of men don't
08:44i won't say most men a lot of men don't um so that that's not a factor and here here's
08:53the thing
08:54um
09:00people are gonna some folks aren't gonna like me saying this but it's the truth
09:04uh women are kind of born with their value and what i mean by that is
09:12you will see successful men you know who have the yachts who have the nice cars and everything else
09:23you'll see them with the younger more youthful women
09:30it's just facts that woman has nothing going on for herself not a dollar to her name not a dollar
09:38not a cent her purse is filled with a whole lot of lint
09:43but she's still with the successful men when have you ever seen the opposite
09:49the successful woman with the younger uh guy who has nothing going for himself
09:57pockets filled with a whole lot of lint
10:02you never see it right and if you have you can count on one hand the number of times you've
10:07seen it
10:09doesn't really happen like that because as men we have to create the value
10:16um and if we don't well then we get no play
10:23you know we we get we get no cheeks that's just facts it's facts one third of men are involuntarily
10:32celibate one third i believe the actual number is like 30 but that's who have like reported that
10:39they're involuntarily celibate and so you know you add a couple of points to that for the guys who
10:45were embarrassed to actually admit that they're involuntarily celibate i'll go with one third one
10:51third of men so one out of every three men you walk across you come across is involuntarily celibate
10:59get no cheeks
11:02nothing is happening in them sheets
11:07just facts as men we have to create that value and if you don't well then you up shits creek
11:13without
11:13how to paddle in sight for women it comes to you in your youth
11:20some might argue it's thrown at you in your youth right you know you can get onto the onto the
11:28onto the
11:29yachts without having a dollar to your name you can get into the clubs without having a dollar to your
11:34name you can get into those circles with with with rich and successful folks without having a dollar to
11:40your name and yeah as you get older that window closes
11:50for men as we get older for some of us the window opens because as we get older we become
11:59more
11:59successful and now we're creating more value
12:04it's just facts it's just facts don't hate the messenger hate the message if anything
12:10and she was like yeah after i reread it i understood that but i wish i hadn't said
12:17that the you know change was like over 10 years because now everyone just keeps telling me i'm old
12:24and i said but the 10 years is the differentiator that's like the whole point of this
12:31like you have to say that it's the 10 year difference and i said a lot can change in 10
12:37years
12:38you know especially when you go from like in your early 20s to like your 30s like
12:44you look completely different like you look the same but you look different right you can tell that
12:49you're not in your early 20s anymore you know what i mean and so yeah that that's that's that's a
12:54major major factor not to say that getting old is a bad thing it's a beautiful thing once again
12:58a lot of people won't get that opportunity and don't get that opportunity it's a beautiful thing
13:07you know and so um i think it's important to embrace getting old not not be embarrassed by it
13:15i did not say you look old i said you're older um and i don't think that she looks like
13:22old but you
13:23can tell that she's not like in her early 20s and so anyways that just really annoyed me and now
13:29i just
13:29like keep getting notified of like other people responding to her and anytime someone says something
13:36that's like disagreeing with me um she likes the comments and somebody said the whole thing of men
13:44liking younger women is a myth and she liked that and i'm like
13:51can we stop can we stop just like lying to ourselves like this is what i hate women that
13:57have an inability to manage truth and just honest discussion anything that like hurts my feelings
14:04it's just too much like you're older first of all your pool is shrinking and number two you're just
14:13you're not the hottest priority going on it's always going to be the early 20 somethings it's all
14:19that's just how it is like just accept that it doesn't mean like oh you're less valuable or anything
14:25like that it just means that you are not going to be receiving the male gaze yeah i think as
14:32women
14:32um you have to secure
14:37what exactly it is that you want in you know a partner early on
14:43you got to do that in your 20s early 20s specifically you know maybe mid 20s
14:5128 you're starting to push it right because once you get into the 30s
14:58now though now your pool shrinks right because and not because there's not guys that want you
15:05because there are guys that want you but they're not the guys that you want
15:13right some of y'all ladies know exactly what i'm talking about there's a guy right now
15:18that's in your dms or they got your phone number and sending you texts every day
15:23oh hello beautiful good morning beautiful you know some you know the whole nine
15:29buying your flowers doing you know nice little gestures for you
15:33but that's not the guy that you want the guy that you want he's got a younger chick
15:42it's just that's just life it's just life it's facts you know and so that's why i say um
15:54gotta gotta secure it early in your 20s if you don't starts to shrink not to say that you won't
16:01have a guy you know in your 30s that doesn't like you or wants to clap you doesn't want to
16:06clap your
16:07cheeks right because you can find that for sure
16:12100 percent 37 oh yeah it's plenty of fellas that'll clap your cheeks
16:17but are they the guys that you want
16:21actually i know somebody who was in that exact situation
16:25or kind of there's a guy who really likes this chick
16:29but she don't really like him she like maybe a little bit likes him
16:34but definitely nowhere near as much as he likes her
16:38and um so she keeps him around you know from time to time they they hook up whatever
16:44um she let him clap her cheeks and whatnot but he is like madly in love with her and she's
16:51just like
16:52no because it's not the guy that she wants
16:59she started she she played around for too long and now she's getting up there
17:05and that window was shrinking and she's got a decent guy right there for the taking that's all i feel
17:13like that's also a problem too for a lot of chicks
17:16y'all skip over the man that you should have taken
17:20for for somebody that you may get
17:25but there's a guy right there in front of you
17:28that'll treat you right you know treat you like a queen and the whole nine but you skip over
17:38you know and then you end up in your 30s wondering man am i ever gonna find anybody
17:43well you could have they were right there in front of you for years sending you all them good morning
17:49texts and you never gave them a shot and now it's too late well i won't say too late but
17:58too late to find the guy that you really really wanted
18:03if that makes any type of sense because the guy that you really really wanted
18:08other chicks really really wanted them to
18:11and so now he's got options
18:14and if you're in your 30s versus the chick that's 25
18:21he's gonna put the 25 year old every time
18:2410 times out of 10 7 days out of the week and twice on sunday
18:29that's just how it goes once again
18:31and i i love how she put it that doesn't mean that you know
18:34you are valuable as a as a human being or as a person but
18:40it just means you passed the prime a little bit in terms of dating right
18:44not in terms of life in general but
18:48this is what it is man it is what it is
18:53fire your partner early if you can
18:55just a little bit of advice okay
18:59but anyway y'all let me know your thoughts your opinions if you agree if you disagree
19:03why why not let me know stay safe out there peace and love
19:08i'm out