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My first experience with a foreigner in Soviet Russia was . . . memorable. Want to see more?

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My first experience with foreigners was . . . memorable. From meeting an American preacher named Melissa to feeding her our precious Moscow sausages (or rather, feeding them to the cat), this story is all about those early '90s culture shocks. Join me for a funny look at my first encounters with the “outside world.”

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Transcript
00:00Today I'm going to tell you about my first encounter with real foreigners.
00:05My hometown, Nizhny Novgorod, formerly Gorky, was close to foreigners for a long time because of all the military factories.
00:14None of my friends had ever been abroad.
00:17And for us, the outside world existed only on TV, in books and in the magazine around the world.
00:25I never even dreamed of visiting other countries.
00:28It just seemed impossible.
00:36The first time I ever saw foreigners was on a tram.
00:40They were two young Indian men.
00:42As I later learned, our local medical school had started accepting Indian students to make some extra profit.
00:50Medical education abroad was very prestigious in India.
00:53But not everyone could afford to send their kids to the UK or America.
00:58So post-Soviet Russia became an option.
01:02I can't even describe how people stared at those Indian students.
01:08If Gorbachev himself had walked into that tram, he wouldn't have gotten as much attention.
01:18In the early 1990s, a wave of American preachers flooded into our city.
01:24They knew nothing about Russia, but they were eager to save us, poor souls tormented by communism.
01:30We looked at them with a mix of extreme curiosity and bewilderment.
01:36They clearly had no idea how to navigate our harsh world and didn't realize they were getting attention not for
01:44what they were preaching.
01:46We didn't understand a thing, even when they spoke for a translator.
01:51Read it the Bible?
01:53Why?
01:53We didn't have any inherited reference for it, so to us it was just a boring book of old stories
02:00that had nothing to do with modern life.
02:03Eventually, the missionaries did convert some people and even built a few churches, but American-style Christianity never really took
02:11root in Russia.
02:13After four generations of living without religion, we just didn't need it.
02:19Now, things are changing as times got tougher and former communists get older, but they are turning into the traditional
02:27Russian Orthodox Church.
02:29Though, that's another story.
02:36I vividly remember my first encounter with a real American.
02:41When the missionaries came to our city, it was such a big deal that local journalists interviewed them.
02:47The missionaries wanted to talk about God, but the journalists were much more interested in jeans, chewing gum, and Madonna.
02:55You know, the important stuff.
02:57My dad saw a toothy young woman named Melissa on TV and decided that I absolutely had to meet her
03:06to practice my English.
03:08Naturally, I was horrified, but as always, my dad knew how to push my buttons.
03:14What's the matter?
03:15Are you scared to talk to some American girl?
03:18And you call yourself a fan of Margaret Thatcher?
03:21By the way, he was the one who was really her fan, and he was the one who gave me
03:27the book on Thatcher to teach me how to be a great woman.
03:31I had no comeback.
03:32If I wanted to be great, I had to grab my friend Olya, go to the Volna Hotel and, dying
03:38of embarrassment, ask the receptionist where the American was staying.
03:42I swear, I can't remember what we said to Melissa, it's a complete blank, like after a car crash, but
03:50somehow it ended with us taking her home.
03:53I didn't dare invite her to my place.
03:55My floors weren't washed, so we called Olya's grandma from a nearby payphone and told her we were bringing a
04:04foreigner over.
04:05Melissa was welcomed like a true celebrity.
04:08No one understood a word she was saying, but that didn't matter.
04:11The mood was like it was during the Olympic Games.
04:15Everyone just wanted to hug, bond, and show off the famous Russian hospitality.
04:21Olya's grandma got generous and pulled sausages out of the freezer, saved for New Year's Eve.
04:29Those sausages were a rare delicacy, brought all the way from Moscow.
04:34We offered Melissa the best of the best.
04:37And this preacher, bless her heart, said she was a vegetarian.
04:43So her precious New Year's sausages ended up going to the cat.
04:48After that, we stopped bringing the foreigners home.
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