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A Russian writer confronts war, truth, and identity in a story that changed her forever.

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When Russia invaded Ukraine, I lost my readers, my career, and my voice. Today, I’m finding it again. This video is deeply personal—it’s about what the war in Ukraine taught me about being Russian. About fear, silence, and the unbearable truth of watching people who look just like us destroy each other. I’ll tell you what broke me, what healed me, and why I chose to speak out when staying silent would’ve been easier. This is not politics—it’s a confession.

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00:00Today, I want to talk about something personal, about discoveries that completely changed how
00:08I see the war in Ukraine. I'm a professional writer. Even though I've lived in California
00:14for more than 20 years, I used to write in Russian and publish my books in Russia.
00:2117 of them came out. More if you count translations. I also founded the largest online writing school
00:31in the Russian-speaking world. Over 50,000 students watched my lectures and read my articles.
00:39But when Russia invaded Ukraine, I sent an anti-war letter to all my subscribers.
00:46That one email ended my career in Russia overnight. Many of my followers were professionals in the
00:55publishing industry. None of them could afford to risk their jobs or reputations by working with
01:02someone as unreliable as me. I don't blame them. Everyone has families to protect. But I had no
01:11choice. I had to speak up to say that not all Russians are like Putin and his circle. After that,
01:18I stopped writing. Completely. I didn't have the strength. And I didn't understand why write at all.
01:27The country I was born in, the readers I wrote for, had gone mad.
01:34All I could hear were voices cheering for war. And that was unbearable.
01:41Only now, almost four years after the invasion, have I found the strength to start writing again.
01:49My new novel will be about the war in Ukraine.
01:53Marika, a vice president of a large company in Moscow, hides a terrible secret. Her daughter,
02:01Alisa, dropped out of Harvard Medical School to go to Ukraine and help the wounded.
02:08Marika's company is tied to the state. If the FSB finds out, she'll lose everything,
02:15including the financial security of her elderly parents, who depend entirely on her.
02:20Then, one day, Alisa disappears. She stops answering messages. The only person who can help Marika
02:28find her daughter is an American engineer named Leo, a man she once loved in her youth. He's now in
02:36Kyiv, helping Ukrainians build drones. Marika reaches out and asks him to find Alisa.
02:44I'm not making this up. I take dozens of interviews with people drawn into this war. A Moscow banker,
02:54a Ukrainian doctor, an Indian soldier who volunteered to fight for Russia, a school
03:00principal from Kharkov who drives cars across the border to make ends meet. I speak with people who
03:07help bypass sanctions. And with those who understand drones better than most engineers.
03:15What they tell me is blows my mind. And I'll be sharing short videos here with the discoveries that
03:22keep changing how I see everything. For a long time, I tried to protect my sanity by turning everything I
03:30knew
03:30about the war into abstraction. I listened to analysts, professors, experts. Everything was correct, logical,
03:38factual. But I had no image before my eyes. I was looking the other way. Out of pure self-preservation,
03:48I had cancer, triggered by the stress that came with the start of the war.
03:54My brain replaced reality with something it could handle. I imagined the war in images of World War II,
04:03the films, the newsreels I'd seen as a child. Because that was long ago. Safe. Not mine.
04:13But when I began watching YouTubers broadcasting from Kyiv, I was shaken. It was not about the past.
04:21It was about us. The living. Our modern cities. Glass towers. Hondas. Mercedes. Street cafes under bright
04:31orange umbrellas. That's when it hit me. Many people refuse to look at this war because it's
04:38happening to people just like them. It's easy to watch wars that happen somewhere else. To other people.
04:45People who look different, live differently. People you can safely believe you'll never become.
04:53Even among those who support the war, everything is abstract. They imagine World War II heroes and
04:59villains but cheer for their opposite side. That's why they feel no horror. No empathy.
05:06They can picture a Ukrainian nurse named Nadia, sitting on the cold floor of a half-ruined hospital,
05:13too exhausted to stand. How can you scream Nazis or fascists when you see her?
05:21Nadia's native language is Russian. At home, she has a terrified cat that hides under the bathtub.
05:28There's sometimes running water. Sometimes not. Sometimes light. Sometimes darkness. And her phone
05:37keeps buzzing. Launch detected. Heading toward Tsurkune. Turn back toward Zhuki village.
05:45She head over the bridge. I subscribe to those telegram channels. I see what they see.
05:51Whole cities living with death circling above them. Every day it will take someone. Who? You? Your loved ones.
06:02Tomorrow you might go to work. To an office, a store, a salon. Or tomorrow you might be holding
06:09what's left of your own arm. And under those horrifying updates, there are likes. Thousands of them.
06:20The supporters of the invasion watch and cheer. But that's not the whole story.
06:26The same thing happens on the Russian side in telegram channels tracking strikes on Belgrade
06:32and other border regions. Enemies in this war can literally see into each other's windows.
06:39Neither side has any pity left. Only exhaustion. And the first for revenge.
06:47That exhaustion. I can't take it anymore. I have no strength left. It's the one thing I hear in almost
06:55every conversation now. And then comes my personal fear. If they are all too tired, will Putin win?
07:03I'm not going to pick up a rifle myself. I'm just cheering for good to defeat evil. We all expect
07:11someone
07:11else to do the fighting. Not us. Because deep down, we don't want to hold that bandaged stump in our
07:20arms.
07:21I don't dare judge the fatigue. But it still terrifies me. That evil might prove to the world
07:29that it can't get away with it. I can speak for all Russians. I can only speak for myself. I
07:38know
07:38how to tell stories that warm the heart and make history understandable. If you want to see what I
07:45mean, look at my novels, the Russian treasure series on Amazon. That's my craft, my duty. So I'll keep
07:54writing. And I'll keep talking. Because I'm a Russian author. Because I can stay silent. And because
08:03someone has to bear witness. This story is still unfolding on the page and in real life. If you'd like
08:11to follow its path and know when the novel comes out, click the link in the description and join my
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