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On this episode of World Wide Wed, we follow a Māori couple on their way to the altar. This New Zealand pair incorporate ancient Polynesian traditions into their modern ceremony. Watch this week's World Wide Wed fore some major wedding inspiration!

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Transcript
00:00It was really important for us to go back to the museum to have our wedding.
00:05Māori culture is something we're brought up with and it's how all our family were raised before us.
00:10Everything about the Māori culture I'm proud of.
00:13In the wedding people just do what they feel is right and go with the flow.
00:21My dad's from Whakatāni and his tribe is Tūhoe.
00:26My dad was born in Rotorua and his iwi, his tribe is Te Aroa.
00:43In the wedding the elements will take from Christianity as well as from
00:48like a Kiwi style wedding with some Māori aspects.
00:52This is a bone carving it's um it's called a manaya.
01:00The fish hook at the bottom represents like safe travels.
01:04It's special to me particularly because it was my dad's and sort of represents a garden angel.
01:11I want to have it in the wedding so it'll probably be around my bouquet.
01:17I want to have it in the wedding so it's a garden angel.
01:18Mine's a paunamu which is a green stone.
01:23Green stone holds a spirit so you can't just take it.
01:28Green stone's aim from the west coast of the South Island of New Zealand.
01:32This is special to me because it came from my parents so it's quite unifying for us.
01:40We're just really looking forward to spending the day with our closest friends
01:45and family and just creating an atmosphere of love and for knowing your time around.
01:51We're just really looking forward to it.
01:56Jesse proposed to me in Lake Tekapo. I was looking out on the lake when I turned around
02:02and he was down on one knee and now we're getting my Lake Tekapo as well.
02:09We went up on a hill with Aoraki in the background and Aoraki is New Zealand's highest mountain.
02:15It's one of New Zealand's great tūpuna or ancestors and it holds a huge amount of respect and significance to
02:24New Zealanders.
02:45Jesse and Olivia, I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss the bride.
03:04We're going to go back to our old wool shed and have our reception there.
03:19We've organised a menu with a local caterer. It's local produce all from New Zealand.
03:28Before we eat we'll be saying a karakia which is a prayer very similar to grace and Christianity.
03:35I've grown up as a Christian and felt that it was really important to include that in the wedding
03:39but won't take away from the Māori culture. We'll make sure that both are included and represent us.
03:54In terms of Māori culture there may be a haka. It's a strong song with physical actions.
03:59People will honour the people getting married. It's a huge sign of respect.
04:27One part of Māori culture that will most definitely be in the wedding is korohongi.
04:33It's pretty much a Māori way of a handshake.
04:35But it's got a lot more meaning to it. You put your noses together and you share a breath.
04:40You're sharing your life force. It's a way of cementing the unity between two people.
04:50Bringing all my tupuna, bringing everyone before me to where I am to get married next to live.
04:56That's what I'm proudest of. And that's not only just being Māori too, that's being a New Zealander.
05:11That's what I'm proudest of.
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