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90 Day: The Last Resort - Between the Sheets - Season 2 - Episode 11
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00:03I feel good.
00:05I feel my body in here.
00:09Yeah.
00:14All right, feeling good?
00:16Sure.
00:17Oh, God, here we go.
00:23I found out he's at this retreat,
00:25and he's still messaging other women trying to have sex with them.
00:29But did he do it?
00:30He did.
00:31What was the evidence?
00:32He's active in the dating site.
00:34Did it say on the profile, like, active three days ago or something?
00:42When you were still in Russia, you were working at that resort,
00:44kind of talking to a guy.
00:47So he doesn't know he did with a guy?
00:48No.
00:49I don't know if he really wants to know or if he's just saying,
00:53I want to know.
00:55What happened with him?
00:57I'm going to tell you off camera.
01:02They've seen evidence that, like, Vinny is not this nice guy that he's projecting.
01:06I mean, I don't think most people can imagine what I've actually been through.
01:12I'm not proud about my behavior toward Ari.
01:15It sucks.
01:16Yeah.
01:16I wish I could go back in time.
01:19And I hear now, like, I have no doubt that he sucks as a husband.
01:29No, your mom's a crackhead.
01:31That's why she don't like me.
01:32I don't care anymore about protecting your mom or protecting you or any of that .
01:36I'm going to say what I feel, and I'm pissed off right now.
01:39So I'm going to say it in a reckless way.
01:41I want us to be honest.
01:45What was it?
01:52And he started crying.
01:53I was like, it is worse than I thought it was.
01:58He hasn't been faithful.
02:01Not my channel.
02:07All right.
02:08You want to sit in?
02:09Yes.
02:10Get this started.
02:11Everyone feel good?
02:12Where'd you get that tan at, man?
02:14I live in Miami, man.
02:15Where do you think I live?
02:16In Antantica?
02:17I want to live in Miami.
02:18That's true.
02:18Love your lashes.
02:20Ooh.
02:20Wow.
02:21How do you do that?
02:21Yeah.
02:22You just beam very fast.
02:24Uh-huh.
02:25Uh-huh.
02:25Uh-huh.
02:26My brain hurts.
02:28Sophie, this clip picks up after you showed Jasmine evidence of Rob texting other women.
02:34It also includes a never-before-seen moment.
02:36Oh, God.
02:37Here we go.
02:38Sophie, you deserve much better.
02:40You should go and face him and let everybody know who Rob really is.
02:46I did feel like Jasmine was looking out for me.
02:48I really did feel like, I mean, she was shocked about Rob.
02:50And Jasmine has been someone, too, that since I've known her, because I knew her before
02:55the resort, she's always told me, like, she can see through Rob's bull****.
03:00Yeah, I know Jasmine does love drama and likes to put himself in the middle of things,
03:03but in this instance, it's like, I wanted Jasmine in my drama because I know she's a
03:08great person to, like, back me up.
03:10So I do appreciate Jasmine being like, look, like, you're doing it in front of people,
03:13so, like, he can't bull**** you, and I'm here to support you.
03:16I basically just want to say that it's been very difficult for me with my marriage with Rob,
03:21um, and I've been trying very hard.
03:24Oh, here comes the tears.
03:26And he's still messaging other women trying to have sex with them, and he's on dating apps.
03:31Show me.
03:32And also...
03:32Show me.
03:32She's not done yet, please.
03:34Jasmine absolutely got involved in the drama.
03:37Sophie pulled you into it, but...
03:40Yeah.
03:41I think I did the right thing, you know, because it was a very serious accusation,
03:45you understand, that deserved to be called out for that.
03:48But did he do it?
03:49He did.
03:50What was the evidence?
03:51He's active in the dating site.
03:53When was he last active?
03:54Like, did it say on the profile, like, active three days ago or something?
03:58How come we didn't, like, show the phone to the camera and she, like, look, see, right here, active?
04:02That would have been like, damn, burned you, you know?
04:04I don't give a about the evidence anymore.
04:07It's just like, guys, you hate each other or what?
04:10They're constantly opposing sides.
04:11They're going nowhere.
04:13Yeah.
04:14I didn't say anything because I don't want people to hate him.
04:17Are you serious?
04:18Because I do care about him.
04:19But the things I hear that you are telling everyone about me and how I moved out and not trying,
04:23I've been trying.
04:24False.
04:25You haven't been trying hard.
04:26You're not trying.
04:27You're not trying at all.
04:28Yes, I am.
04:28And you haven't tried for over a year, so...
04:30Yes, I am.
04:30And I found out and now you're annoyed because I'm calling you out.
04:34Sophie does play the victim a lot.
04:37You know, I see, you know, a wife that didn't come home and just basically abandoned the relationship and moved
04:45out.
04:46And, like, what do you expect to happen from that, you know?
04:50Like, I feel like, you know, her actions just don't match up with what she's saying.
04:53When I saw that you was cheating on me.
04:56Let's be very f***ing clear.
04:57Let's be very f***ing clear.
05:00He's totally taken off guard.
05:01I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women ten f***ing times.
05:07Sophie, why did you tell Rob to go date other women?
05:10I never said that.
05:11Wow!
05:12Bro, I'm done.
05:13I'm done.
05:13F*** this s***.
05:14I'm done.
05:14Oh my gosh.
05:17What's going on over here?
05:19We heard a lot of yelling.
05:22When I walked over to that group that was just screaming at each other, women on one side, men on
05:30another, I was, first of all, like, very concerned with how they were dealing with things in that very moment.
05:34I was actually feeling like this is a very dangerous situation.
05:37Not dangerous physically, as if anyone, one of us are in harm, but the fact that by coming around each
05:43other, they were almost jumping onto Sophie's issue as the cause.
05:50We have a common mission to take these boys down.
05:54And the men had a common mission to take these women down.
05:57And when there's a face off like that, it can, it's, it's a fire that feeds itself.
06:03And so my main focus right there was to disperse this group because they're feeding off of each other.
06:09And this is only going to get hotter, um, not more safe.
06:14All right, man, I found it.
06:15You found it.
06:16You found it.
06:16She said right here, hi, as of March 4th, 2023, me and you are on a break and I give
06:21you permission to act single and will not hold this against you.
06:24When she said, Rob, I want to go on a break, I said, why would we do that? That sounds
06:28juvenile.
06:28And I'm like, this just sounds, if this is a way for you to go off and talk to other
06:31guys, I'm not interested. We should just be done.
06:34And she's like, no, that's not what this is about, but you can absolutely go talk to other girls.
06:38I think that does solve the things at that moment.
06:41She might go and she might get a break and she might like calm down and be like, oh, I'm
06:45not mad anymore.
06:46But then when you get back together, those things come back up.
06:49And you get irritated with each other again.
06:51That's why when she said that, I was like, you think you're saying I can go talk to other women.
06:55I don't believe you. Text it to me.
06:57Hold on, ladies.
06:59Hey.
07:00Hello.
07:00I just want to let it be known that Rob does have the screenshot that says you have permission to
07:09be single.
07:09When was that?
07:10I don't know.
07:11It was in March.
07:12He made me send that.
07:15We broke up for a few months and that dating app was not from that time.
07:19He always rants about how in America the marriage system favors the women.
07:24And he's always scared somehow he's going to get even though he doesn't have all this money for me to
07:28take.
07:28We was having a bad argument and he was saying, well, if we don't work out, you're going to do
07:32this to me.
07:33You're going to do that to me.
07:33And I'm like, well, how can I prove I'm never going to take anything for you?
07:37I don't have any intention.
07:37And he was like, well, let me write this in your phone.
07:40And I said, take the phone.
07:41Write what you want.
07:42And that's what he wrote.
07:43And then he's used it against me.
07:45This sounds so...
07:47You can tell it sounds like Rob.
07:49He's already trying to protect his back.
07:52Yeah.
07:52Before he even freaking are getting through this marriage and everything.
07:56He already like, no, you're going to be doing something bad to me.
07:59So if he are thinking he will be doing something bad to you.
08:02Yeah, he wants it for...
08:03This means he going to do something bad to you.
08:05Yeah.
08:06I think this is a good place where we need to take some personal space.
08:14No, your mom's a crackhead.
08:16That's why she don't like me.
08:20I can't believe you called Sophie's mom a crackhead.
08:23That was a heated moment, man.
08:25I mean, Sophie's mom has called me all kinds of .
08:27At this point, when we're out that camping, Sophie just blew my mind with all these accusations.
08:32I can't believe I came to this resort to fight for my marriage.
08:35And Sophie came to this resort to try to make everybody think that I'm the asshole, so she's valid.
08:39Now, I don't care anymore about not saying the things that I really think.
08:42I don't care anymore about protecting your mom or protecting you or any of that .
08:46I'm going to say what I feel and I'm pissed off right now, so I'm going to say it in
08:50a reckless way.
08:51You know, you had a real one.
08:56They should put that in the real show because that shows what type of person he is.
08:59You don't say to someone who has a drug addict mother that your mom's a crackhead.
09:02Like, that's so sick.
09:04My mom is not a crackhead, by the way.
09:06She doesn't do crack.
09:07There's a lot of different things that people can be addicted to.
09:10Not everyone's a crackhead just because they have addiction issues, and that's extremely offensive.
09:14It's absolutely unbelievable.
09:17First, that's this relationship between you and Rob.
09:21How is your mom doing with this?
09:23And you doesn't have any rights to call any mom or any dad that's worse than anything.
09:31Whatever is in the past, every people have mistakes.
09:34Every people have something.
09:35Like, you don't say that to someone with parents with addiction issues.
09:38Like, you just don't.
09:39And he knew that would hit me and hurt me.
09:41And that's why I was so upset, too.
09:42And especially in front of people, it's very embarrassing.
09:44Like, that's personal.
09:45It's disrespectful.
09:46And I just was really hurt and embarrassed.
09:48And I felt like, how could you say something so hurtful to me?
09:52And this started because I caught you doing something you shouldn't be doing.
09:55Like, and I just, in that moment, I just, like, hated Rob.
09:58Because I'm like, how sick can you be?
09:59And why are you even bringing that up?
10:01What does that have to do with this?
10:03He told me that in the result camera.
10:05What'd he say?
10:06Like, about, like, mom.
10:07About your mom.
10:09I just think he shouldn't be telling people about her, like, addiction problems.
10:12Like, that's not really his place to do that, to be honest.
10:14It's like, even though, like, you're my friend, it's still not his place to tell you that.
10:18I mean, yes, it's not his mom.
10:20He wants everyone to like him and everyone to not like me.
10:22And I don't know why.
10:26.
10:27.
10:30Julia, this is never-before-seen footage of when you and Brandon met with Sarah the day after you admitted
10:35in therapy that you had kissed your ex.
10:38Oh.
10:38Oh, snake pics.
10:40Never-before-seen snake pics.
10:42Some things came up yesterday, and I really want to clear the air.
10:48I think that Julia, this was probably weighing heavy on her.
10:54My question is, why now? Why now did you bring that forward?
10:57Why didn't you bring it to me when you had the other- when you told me about the other
11:01guy?
11:02The other guy?
11:04This isn't the only time we've kind of had this situation.
11:08There was a time when you were still in Russia, you were working at that resort, and you were, in
11:14your words, kind of talking to a guy.
11:16So, what happened?
11:17There was another guy.
11:19There was another guy she talked about, somebody she worked with.
11:23Is he young? Looks like you.
11:25I don't know.
11:26You've never seen a picture?
11:27No.
11:27Nothing?
11:28Mm-mm.
11:29I have my suspicions.
11:30I think that she may have had a thing with him as well, but she-
11:34What is a thing?
11:35Define a thing.
11:36I don't know.
11:36Because a thing could be just go all day.
11:38It could be my imagination, but-
11:40Kiss, sex.
11:42I don't know.
11:43And I- I don't know.
11:45I kind of left it alone.
11:46I didn't bring it back up, but-
11:48But back then, you were guys dating or not?
11:50Uh, yeah.
11:51We were engaged at that moment.
11:52Oh, .
11:55That still today hurts me.
11:57I mean, because I never did anything like that, and it doesn't feel fair, you know?
12:03Oof, Julia.
12:03Because I never did anything, and why is it fair that you got to?
12:07Yeah.
12:08Then you get to act like that.
12:10You get to be so mean when you're the one doing something wrong.
12:12Mm-hmm.
12:13That's so screwed up to me.
12:15I know.
12:16And you start walking with another guy and talking to him, and-
12:35So, Julia, what was going on inside of you when you decided to share that?
12:40Was it to share the truth?
12:41Was it something different?
12:42I'm trying to relieve what I feel.
12:44I'm trying to relieve what is hurting me.
12:47She was still in Russia while we were waiting for the K-1 visa to come through and everything.
12:51And the way she talked about him, she said it's just a friend.
12:55They're just going for walks together, hanging out.
12:58I just- something about it.
13:01I just have my suspicions.
13:02Did you ever ask her directly?
13:05I don't know if I did.
13:06I kind of just put it to the past.
13:08And-
13:08Because right after-
13:09Right after I was dealing with her being horrible, we got approved.
13:14Everything changed in that moment.
13:15And now as husband and wife, do you trust her?
13:18Mm-hmm.
13:18Do you trust her, right?
13:24I guess these feelings go away at some point, right?
13:27It just takes time to forget about it.
13:29But bringing it back up, I mean, just hurts.
13:42Is it possible to move forward with this new circumstance for you, Brandon?
13:51I think I can.
13:52Can we leave all- all of this?
13:55Can we say everything, what we feel?
13:57And leave everything here?
13:58Oh, I'm- I'm- I'm-
14:00I'm gonna try.
14:01That's all I can do, right?
14:03I mean, I work in a resort.
14:05He doesn't know what happened exactly.
14:07He's just trying to, like, push me for-
14:10Say what's going on at this time.
14:12So he doesn't know what he did with the guy?
14:14No.
14:15But he wants to know.
14:17I don't know if he really wants to know, or he just saying he wants to know.
14:21He doesn't want to know.
14:22I think he doesn't want to.
14:23I want to know.
14:25What happened with him?
14:27I'm gonna tell you out on camera.
14:34We're gonna play a campfire game now, and it's called Chubby Bunny.
14:38It's a good thing I went to the gym.
14:40Yeah.
14:41What does Chubby mean?
14:42This.
14:44Are you already Chubby?
14:45And I'm already Chubby.
14:46You're both Chubby.
14:47Chubby.
14:48All right, what you're gonna do is shove marshmallows in your mouth.
14:51Oh.
14:52And say, Chubby Bunny.
14:53That's all you have to do is say, Chubby Bunny.
14:56Oh, my.
14:56With each marshmallow?
14:58And you're competing to see if you can get more marshmallows in their mouth.
15:01No!
15:03No!
15:04All right.
15:05Let's go for it.
15:10Chubby Bunny.
15:11Chubby Bunny.
15:14Chubby Bunny.
15:15Oh.
15:16Oh.
15:17Chubby Bunny.
15:20Chubby Bunny.
15:23Oh, that's big.
15:25Okay, so then you say, Chubby Bunny.
15:27Chubby Bunny.
15:31Chubby Bunny.
15:32I feel like I'm gonna lose this game.
15:37Stick that on your mouth and shut up.
15:41Chubby Bunny.
15:42Yeah, Chubby Bunny.
15:42Hey, you got big cheeks, yeah.
15:48Kevin's running.
15:58Don't die.
16:07That's it, I can't do it.
16:08Kevin's running.
16:10I can't do it anyway.
16:23I can't do it.
16:24I can't do it anymore.
16:27I was only halfway done with my face.
16:29Are you serious?
16:30Mm-hmm.
16:31You got room in there, man.
16:32You should carry some stuff.
16:36This will be fun for you guys.
16:37Natalie and Josh are here.
16:39Oh, yeah.
16:40Oh, yeah.
16:42I'm not taking this .
16:43Great.
16:45Why should you start yelling?
16:47I'm not returning to the group.
16:49This is .
16:49I'm body shaming.
16:51You cannot do this.
16:52You can't.
16:53If anyone is guilty of body shaming, it's Natalie.
16:56I mean, she's been body shaming me from the day I got there.
16:59And I feel like she is just not the person to accuse anyone of doing that when she's been doing
17:04that the whole time.
17:05It's first day when we saw the street when they're trying to, like, talk with her.
17:09And she, like, tell me, I'm pregnant.
17:11I look fat.
17:12I'm like, yeah, I'm getting great.
17:13But did you need to tell me?
17:16Yeah.
17:17What do you feel like Josh is saying?
17:19He gaslight me constantly.
17:20But he cannot gaslight my body and body shaming me.
17:23I don't understand.
17:26Well.
17:27No one will ever understand Natalie.
17:31Why this came up now?
17:33Because she's nuts.
17:35He has to apologize and explain why he doesn't sleep with me.
17:39Guys, I want you all here.
17:41I'm not body shaming you.
17:42You're beautiful and you have a beautiful body.
17:45You are body shaming me.
17:46Come with me.
17:47I'm sorry if you misunderstood that.
17:49You just stop lying.
17:51Yeah, I want you to apologize.
17:52Apologize.
17:53Apologize.
17:53I'm sorry.
17:54Yeah, and it's like, apologize to me.
17:56I apologize.
17:57You.
17:58Yeah.
17:59Three years.
18:00Three years I wasted.
18:01Three years you body shaming me.
18:03Apologize to me.
18:04Say your math.
18:05I'm sorry.
18:06You.
18:07You.
18:10Come with me.
18:11We're okay.
18:12Piece of trash.
18:14Let's go.
18:15Let's go.
18:16So everybody knows this is why I cannot bring her anywhere.
18:21What do you want me to do?
18:22Natalie, Natalie.
18:23I have problem examples.
18:24I don't like to sleep close to people.
18:26I don't like people to touch me.
18:28This is problem.
18:29It's not your problem.
18:30Not flipping that problem in you, you know?
18:32This is not about the comment.
18:34This is way deeper.
18:37I want you to sleep with her in the bed.
18:39I just didn't hear him, okay?
18:40I want to hear him.
18:40Okay.
18:41Because I don't like to be touched.
18:42Okay.
18:43One second.
18:43This has nothing to do with Josh.
18:48What is actually happening is that that childlike place in her that is injured and hurt is coming up too
18:56strong and beginning to lead the way.
18:59So where Natalie's no longer in charge, it's the childlike part of her that is now in charge.
19:04And she's just looking for the validation and love and care that she probably never got.
19:10But it's her go-to.
19:11That's her M.O.
19:12Her M.O. is like the child that's temper tantrums in order to get the attention.
19:16And, you know, she will do it however needs to be done in order for her to get the attention
19:21that she wants.
19:22Hug the angel.
19:23Hug the angel.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Yeah.
19:25Oh, brother.
19:27I was scared.
19:28I was scared.
19:29Don't do that.
19:30No, no, no, no, no.
19:32Don't do that.
19:32No, no, no, no, no.
19:34So I swallow my pride there.
19:37And, you know, I apologize.
19:39And, you know, Florian is like, oh, it's great.
19:41You know, hug it out.
19:41Hug it out.
19:42And so I'm, you know, going in to accept a hug.
19:45And she, like, goes to knee me in the balls.
19:48Like, oh.
19:50Did she actually knee you in the balls or did she?
19:52Yeah, she kneed me in the balls.
19:54Be sweet.
19:55He's not going to find no more.
19:57Jesus Christ.
19:59Josh actually claims that you tried to kick him in the balls.
20:02Well, I did not.
20:03And he said, the funniest part, you see how manipulative he is.
20:06I put my leg, like, this distance between him.
20:11His balls are not so long, you know, I mean.
20:14And he made it sound that I kicked him so hard, which was not true because I wasn't even close
20:20to his balls.
20:22I was scared.
20:23I was scared.
20:24I was scared.
20:24Stop.
20:24Don't do that.
20:25No, no.
20:25Don't do that.
20:27Hi.
20:29Did you see?
20:30Mm-hmm.
20:31Natalie actually did kick him out the balls.
20:34So we're going to give you a bed sheet so that you can demonstrate how you like to sleep and
20:40then show us how Natalie sleeps.
20:45Okay, you're going to give me a bed sheet.
20:47Yeah.
20:48One, I'm going to say this sheet smells.
20:51And it is not a high enough thread count for me, but we'll use it.
20:56So it's like right here.
21:01Why you doesn't hug me?
21:04Why you doesn't touch me?
21:08Hug me.
21:09Hug me.
21:11You're pretty good.
21:12You're pretty good.
21:13You're pretty good.
21:15I want you to be me.
21:16I want to be me.
21:17Okay, shh.
21:18Yes.
21:20Okay, good now, man.
21:21Oh, come on.
21:22Please.
21:22Why you not love me?
21:23What?
21:23What do I do?
21:25Listen, I can't.
21:26I can't.
21:26You can't sleep.
21:27Josh.
21:28Josh.
21:30I can't.
21:31I can't sleep.
21:32Okay.
21:33Okay.
21:33Okay.
21:34Okay.
21:34Okay.
21:36I will.
21:37I will.
21:38That's pretty good.
21:38That's pretty good.
21:39That's a pretty good job.
21:43Gino made a list, right, of all the little things that Jasmine does.
21:47And I cannot tell you how much I understand that decision where he decided to write these
21:52things down.
21:53Because when you have an argument with a significant other, they're like, oh, yeah?
21:57Well, tell me one time I did this.
21:58And I'm like, I know you did because I wouldn't be having these feelings if you didn't ever
22:03did anything to cause these feelings.
22:05But I cannot remember because I'm not a crazy person who like, I'm going to write down
22:10everything you have did, you know?
22:12But it's a good idea.
22:13I see why he did this.
22:14Because when I need to recall something, it's just not there.
22:17Maybe you can start with us.
22:19I could.
22:20I'm just, I don't feel like it.
22:25Okay, Ari, now we're going to watch everyone do primal screen therapy.
22:28And there is a never-before-seen moment in here of you and Vinny.
22:33Bonus clips, never-before-seen, behind the scenes.
22:37We are obviously dealing with a lot of tension, a lot of emotions.
22:43And I think what's best is to allow you some space to release some of that.
22:49Your goal is to feel as though you're pushing a large ball of energy all the way across the world.
22:55So it's...
23:01Gino, Gino, be careful.
23:03Too much power.
23:06In this state of breath work and primal scream, you're actually activating a part of you
23:11that has to do with your identity and your grounding and your confidence and your courage.
23:17The women were like all about it because they've probably been waiting for this moment to step into their roar
23:23and their power.
23:24It's like a group of lioness women that are just ready to roar.
23:28And the guys are big babies.
23:30They're tapping out.
23:32They think they're going to look stupid.
23:33I think that they're still too timid to actually go through the process.
23:38Think about what you want to be releasing here.
23:41You deserve this.
23:44To let this go.
23:45To have a release.
23:47To at least feel something.
23:50So when we do that, right?
23:57I like Ari.
23:57I just feel like, you know, I feel sad for her.
23:59You know, she's definitely dealing, I think, with a lot more than all of us.
24:04They have a child and the stakes are higher for them.
24:07But I feel like nobody really paid attention when she ran off because it was like,
24:13kind of the wrong place, the wrong time.
24:16It was like a distraction of what we were supposed to be doing.
24:19Okay, let's take a break.
24:21I have a phone.
24:23I know.
24:23Okay.
24:26Okay.
24:27Let's go.
24:29Take care.
24:29Yeah.
24:30Is that the Michael Jackson?
24:32Yeah.
24:33That's it.
24:35Oh, yeah.
24:40Oh, there she comes.
24:44Ari returned to ruin his mood.
24:46Yeah.
24:48Come on.
24:49Show me.
24:49Do it.
24:50Start from this feet.
24:51No, start from here.
24:52Oh, wait.
24:53No, this is exactly what I was talking about.
24:55How you guys all chewed Rob out.
24:57But then you know what?
24:58Binny has done the exact same thing to me.
24:59And you guys do this.
25:01Like, you know, you reward his bad behavior.
25:04It's like, oh, Binny is showing off and I hate it.
25:06You guys all, especially Julia, constantly.
25:10He, he's been doing this up for him.
25:12He's an adult for his, like, reward his behavior.
25:14No, you need it.
25:15Constant male attention.
25:16And I'm sure you see that, that she does need that constantly.
25:19Tell me, do you think that Julia and Binny were flirting in that moment at the campsite?
25:24I don't think they were flirting.
25:26They looked pretty platonic to me.
25:27And I later realized it irritated her to death that everyone is being nice to Binny.
25:33According to her, what we need to do is all be a asshole to him.
25:37And shame him every day.
25:38And shame him.
25:39What if he decided, oh, we need to shame her?
25:41Do we take his word for it and just all be a asshole to her?
25:45Facts.
25:46You called Rob out on his , but nobody wants to call Binny out.
25:50I'm not there.
25:50I'm not there.
25:51I'm talking with Brandon right there.
25:52I'm not even there when this happens.
25:54I don't need to be yelled at by you.
25:55Okay, okay, enough.
26:15And when her relationship is done, she's trying to take everybody down with her.
26:21I just need a break from conflict.
26:23I don't want to hear anyone yell.
26:24I don't want to fight with anybody.
26:26I need a break from it.
26:30Listen, if you need to take a break, by all means.
26:33I'm going to do it.
26:34All right.
26:36This is nerve wracking.
26:40the thing about the primal scream therapy was that the point of it is to scream and to let go
26:48and connect with your emotions and to be in your body the reason it was so hard for me to
26:54scream
26:54was because it's very easy for me to intellectualize my emotions and to talk about them and
26:58to say i feel this way and this makes me feel like that but actually having to feel my feelings
27:04is a whole nother issue i don't like to feel my feelings and so i feel like i if i
27:12screamed
27:12that would have i'm a bit of a control freak and i would have had to let go of that
27:17control in that
27:17moment i just couldn't do it now you're gonna watch the actual primal scream and it includes
27:24a never-before-seen moment so we're ready let's get into this
27:31close your eyes please and think about why you're here and think about what you want to let go of
27:43for the primal scream i wanted to release all my bad energy that's been built up inside me for a
27:49long
27:50time and i just wanted to get it out of my system it makes me feel like a virgin like
27:55like innocent
27:56like innocent innocent guy yeah wow i'm gonna release the judgment from this space
28:03gaslight increase release too what light gaslight also i release gaslighting gaslighting judgment i
28:10want to release it all sarah therapy is more like people who need to talk just and listen to her
28:15and
28:15like people more can be himself that is the problem with these people but they listen this is sarah is
28:22good for these people these people don't get to talk these people start to talk and you're going
28:26to fight but if you need to move your body more stomping your feet whatever you feel like you need
28:32to do getting low i don't care what it is get primal with it
28:45natalie will just um she'll break out and dance in the middle of a restaurant if the song is
28:51right you know like she she uh she feels it and she'll just do whatever she feels like doing i
28:56mean
28:56she has this little dance move that you want to see the dance move i'll step back here and do
29:03it so
29:03yeah natalie has this little one step dance move that she does and she'll like start to sing to
29:10herself and she'll just do like a little like all the way down on the ground and just like singing
29:16and just does this that's my natalie dance move
29:40i feel like i feel like i feel good i feel my body
29:44and breathe and drain and relax and hear you yeah but the negativity goes down yeah and josh behind
29:54my back's feeling sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry and i feel like yes finally he's sorry
30:00why can't i dance about it girl you're something else okay guys more campfire game let's go i like
30:08you ready you ready this is jelly bean broulette okay these are not just any jelly beans though
30:14you will jelly bean and hopefully you won't get a disgusting flavor oh my god okay
30:25your options are either peach dead fish not partial to it or barf
30:31oh god there's a possibility that this could be toothpaste it could be booger
30:38or juicy pear well i ate boogers when i was a kid so i guess it couldn't be that too
30:44bad
30:44it's been a while but here goes nothing this one can either be a sugar cookie or a wet dog
30:55oh you gotta eat it and find out oh that's toothpaste for sure i i don't really like it
31:02it's not my favorite your face looks like it's either barf or dead fish i think it's barf
31:12dude i'm pretty sure that's so bad does it taste like barf it can't be strawberry banana
31:18dude dude i'm so excited that one was my dog i'm sorry man
31:42that was far dead fish or strawberry banana dead fish sounds really
31:48bad i'm gonna do a black
31:59there it is what is it
32:02dead fish
32:03oh that's burnt rubber
32:10you want another one i mean anything's better than throw up please
32:16this one is either old bandage or pomegranate
32:19old bandage sounds delicious honestly
32:29i didn't think what could taste worse than throw up i didn't
32:33dude
32:34all right feeling good
32:36sure
32:38now you're gonna watch a never before seen clip
32:40of sarah coming to talk to you after you left the primal screen
32:48hey ari hey i just want to connect with you to like literally just check in she's in a hard
32:58place i mean i don't think most people could imagine what i've actually been through
33:07i was not surprised that ari walked away from the primal screen
33:10because i think at that point she was fed up the fact that they weren't making any progress as a
33:16couple was a large reason why she was at her wits end but i also think it was an opportunity
33:23for
33:23her to realize that the deeper work she could be doing is with herself and that that's actually
33:31where the focus needed to be it's frustrating because like it was really triggering for me
33:37today when i like exactly what sophie was describing almost exactly that's basically
33:41like what i've been through so for for everyone to be like you know uh so understanding of
33:48that situation i feel like he's been denying my reality for so long and now i feel like all
33:54these other people are denying my reality too
33:56looking back i can see what ari was saying i mean i can see how she didn't feel supported by
34:01the
34:01group after watching you know all the girls support me with rob but i also feel like i wish
34:06you would understand that it's because they witnessed rob be a dick to me if benny acted that way we
34:11would all support her 100 but because we never saw that it's hard to really believe anyone at this
34:17resort because everyone's pointing fingers until we see something they've seen evidence to show that
34:22like vinny is also not this nice guy that he's projecting
34:27aww
34:27and like they're feeding exactly into this game that he plays
34:32i'll be honest with you the just like recently i came to this realization that
34:39maybe during the retreat i was very hard
34:45to marry i feel like i wish i could go back in time and just sit with her for a
34:52minute and let her
34:52know like hey i care i understand your pain you're not alone and i understand all the ugly awful
34:59things he has done to you i have no doubt that he sucks as a husband and next time i
35:06see ari i'm
35:07gonna give her a big hug and she was in the right we were just babying sophie and being so
35:13supportive of
35:14sophie i'm not proud about my behavior to be honest toward ari it's sad yeah but honestly
35:21i cannot support her because she does wrong decisions she's mature woman why would she choose
35:26something that kills her yeah but she was in pain do not choose it i mean all i asked him
35:32like even
35:32before we came here was like please last time could you just be honest if he were to give you
35:39that it
35:39might cause you to have some inkling of hope or something when it's like no you know what you just
35:44showed me exactly who you are and that may be just the closure you need to decide what's the right
35:50path
35:50for you talking to sarah after having run off i realized that benny is probably never going to
35:57give me what i need but i don't need to understand why he does what he does i just need
36:03to continue on
36:05with my life and do what's best for me the last five years have been all about benny where does
36:09benny want to live where does benny want to do i'm like well i'm just thinking what do i want
36:13to do
36:13life is short what the do i want to do
36:20you guys are going to try some primal screaming what are we doing i'm doing primal screaming
36:25i'm a little screaming man do you want to scream with me no no it'll be even louder it'll be
36:30all this
36:31negative energy at the same time people listen let's hear you so no mix the voice you know okay
36:36well okay so you just want to get the negative energy out of you i want you to breathe with
36:43me
36:43so what you're gonna do oh sorry sorry
36:50i'm doing it right off the face no that's perfect yeah yeah okay
37:03this is just as silly as when we did it the first time do with your legs like this shake
37:09your body
37:38shake your body shake your body shake your body shake your body
37:40i love you eat it great
37:49still don't feel better i feel i'm feeling better because you don't ever yell maybe
37:55all right are you ready for the next clip yes this is you post-camping confronting gino about
38:01whether he's truthful and hypnotherapy i'm still tired from that camping and the donkeys having sex
38:11at night i think they were what i like the donkeys i like the donkeys but they are wild and
38:17i think
38:17that they were doing bad things at night yeah they don't need therapy they have makeup sex
38:23i wish i could be a donkey there was a lot of craziness definitely was a lot of craziness
38:30i never had the chance to speak to you with the high note therapy i could clearly see
38:37you were about to cry i know you well gino then when sarah asked you to participate and you
38:45opened yourself honestly i don't think that that's what you were apologizing for
38:55what i was sensing from watching gino is i think that anybody who goes to such lengths to hide
39:02something it's usually not something that she already knows about he wouldn't be that protective
39:08over something that jasmine already knows about because there's not a lot at stake and it makes me
39:14wonder what is he hiding i want us to be honest
39:25what was it
39:29i'll tell you
39:41my heart sank when gino told me that okay i'm gonna tell you the truth jasmine and he started crying
39:48i was
39:49like it is worse than i thought it was he hasn't been faithful not much you know
40:00next time on between the sheets but like it's hard for me to deny those you know for me
40:07my side my side i'm your wife i agree with stacy that she should be your priority over darcy she
40:17is
40:17your wife what the i just was trying to rub your belly i was not even touching your private
40:24heart touching me and stuff knowing now what i know about gino and his constant refusal for sex
40:31i think maybe this is his like cover-up for his erectile dysfunction basically she's
40:37well jasmine says that they had to text a total like eight times so what is logic to choose hot
40:42latina girl if you cannot make love to her why don't you call him at three o'clock in the
40:46morning
40:46like so what because you want to my man or something crazy watching back that moment there
40:54was no way turning back and i didn't know where we would go from there i'm sorry that we just
41:02called
41:03i just called you and you were not prepared no you're fine at least i have a shirt on this
41:07time you
41:08know i'm shocked dare i even say a little appalled i am sure that it's not helpful to their relationship
41:16in saving this marriage take off your shorts no we have to go to a dinner with our husband
41:22she's literally got a side guy she's got a she's got a a hoe on the side that's cheating
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