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00:00Previously on This Is Pauly...
00:02I just want you to accept my wife.
00:04That is not your wife.
00:06She right.
00:07I'm still married to my ex-husband.
00:10I haven't got the balls to file for a divorce yet.
00:14Tell me how solid you is.
00:15Like my thighs?
00:18Definitely was a connection made tonight.
00:21The next step is inviting her around the girls.
00:24Come on, let's get out of here and get a drink.
00:26Cheers to our anniversary.
00:28Happy anniversary, baby.
00:30All these years we never celebrate an anniversary.
00:32Y'all and Crystal is getting special treatment.
00:35Makes me feel a little jealous.
00:36Yeah, he really went all out.
00:39Y'all and Crystal, you have a problem with this queen every time she's around.
00:43She's always around.
00:44Every single night. That's your favorite.
00:46So maybe this is not built for you.
00:48I'm done. I'm cutting.
00:50And we've been married for almost 36 years,
00:52but we knew there was more.
00:54Nita brings us a lot of adventure.
00:56We want this for the long term.
00:58So we decided to get her a ring.
01:00We actually are doing a commitment ceremony.
01:03Congratulations.
01:05Thank you.
01:11One, two, three, you gotta listen to me.
01:14You wanna feel the speed that freedom.
01:22Hey guys, I'm all ready.
01:23You all ready?
01:24Yes you are, aren't you?
01:26I am going on a solo adventure tonight.
01:28Solo adventures for us are where one of us picks another person that they want to go on a date
01:34night with.
01:34You guys have a fun time.
01:36You too.
01:37One of the rules that we do have is not having an emotional connection with somebody outside of the three
01:42of us.
01:42Everybody knows everything, and so I don't have to hide.
01:46They're gonna stay home and have their own date night.
01:47I will see you guys in a few hours.
01:49Bye.
01:50All right.
01:50Bye.
01:51Bye bye.
01:56As far as Kami going out, I've always been a confident person.
02:01I mean, I've just found going through this lifestyle that I really enjoy my wife being happy.
02:06It actually brings me joy to have other people interested in her.
02:18Hey, what's up?
02:19Hi.
02:20How you doing?
02:21Good.
02:22You looking amazing.
02:23Thank you.
02:24Kelvin's very handsome.
02:25Mmm.
02:26He is somebody that I had met a couple years ago at our nudist resort.
02:31So, how's the move going?
02:33It's going good.
02:34I'm just ready to get it over with and done.
02:36Right.
02:36The pictures looked amazing.
02:38I can't wait to see it.
02:39Yeah.
02:39I grew up in a very, very religious culture.
02:44I was never allowed to go on dates.
02:45I did not get to do sex ed.
02:47Because of my experiences growing up, it probably does contribute to the fact that I feel so free now in
02:53my sexuality.
02:54What classes are you teaching right now?
02:57So, defensive tactics and I teach handcuffing as well.
03:01Really?
03:02Some people don't know how to handcuff.
03:04It's a skill?
03:05It is a skill.
03:07So, you know how to handcuff?
03:08I do know how to handcuff.
03:09So, you can handcuff me?
03:10I always carry my handcuffs.
03:13Mine don't have the fur on the inside, so.
03:16Huh?
03:16Hi.
03:17You ever had handcuffs put on you before?
03:19Not by Kelvin.
03:23So, where are Trent and Anita?
03:26They're having their own kind of date night at home.
03:30Oh, let's take this off.
03:33What did you know when you were trying to divert the conversation?
03:36No, man.
03:37Cammy has given us the green light to be intimate when she's not around.
03:41Our sex is off the charts.
03:44And the frequency and duration is crazy.
03:48I want you to feel chosen by me too.
03:51We have incredible sex.
03:53Our sex is the best I've ever had, ever.
03:57I don't think I've had better sex, especially with a man.
04:00What do you think Cammy's up to?
04:03I don't want to, I don't even want to think about that.
04:06Yeah.
04:06No.
04:07When it comes to Cammy having solo adventures, the thought of it makes me cringe.
04:11She's out on a solo adventure and we're at home.
04:15Hey, what do you think about going upstairs and rinsing off and go have some fun of our own?
04:21Thank you.
04:21It's been nice to spend time with you.
04:23So, what's the plan for later?
04:24I still have probably three hours.
04:28I got my handcuffs.
04:29Okay, time to go.
04:31Do you want me as dessert or you want real dessert?
04:33I want you as dessert.
04:35Okay.
04:36Awesome.
04:37So tonight, I will be taking Kelvin home to our house.
04:41Get it girl, get it girl, get it girl.
04:44Kelvin and I will have sex in the downstairs bedroom.
04:47How does that work?
04:48Do you keep it quiet downstairs?
04:50Do they turn up into the upstairs?
04:51What do they do?
04:52I probably will be a little bit quieter than I would like if we were at a hotel or at
04:58Kelvin's
04:58place.
04:59Just because they are there as well and I don't want to make Nita uncomfortable.
05:03Trent's fine.
05:05Get it girl, get it girl, get it girl.
05:17Hey, can you guys each grab a cart please?
05:21Thank you, thank you.
05:23Grocery shopping for a family this size is an event.
05:30With our family of 21, we plan for one big shopping trip a week.
05:35But we always got to go back for more.
05:37I'm getting these for the taco night.
05:39Oh, can we get these too?
05:40Look, let's just do 18 because look, that's all the chicken noodle soups they have in the store.
05:44Our job is to make sure that we're not just going overboard.
05:47Get whatever is the best deal.
05:48Well, yeah.
05:49We're staying focused, staying to our budget, and we're good.
05:51We need vinegar for laundry.
05:53That's the only thing that gets that kid smell out of the clothes.
05:57Yo, Imani, can you grab these?
05:59Okay.
06:00Reach for it.
06:02Put it in the cart, lady.
06:04I need 20 black beans.
06:06Okay, and you like this?
06:07Oh, and they're four for five.
06:08Oh, perfect.
06:09I'm the one that mostly cooks, but I'm feeding 23 people.
06:12So if you can imagine, that's a lot.
06:1512 of these, 14 barbecue sauces.
06:19We need 20 kidney beans.
06:21Yahweh sure can eat.
06:22So, okay, so you guys want me to do cabbage on my dinner night?
06:26Yeah, cabbage sounds good.
06:27Hey, how did last night go?
06:28Like, how was your date?
06:29I know you were so excited.
06:33Um, I told her a little bit about it.
06:35That's why you see her face.
06:37What happened?
06:37At first, it was nice.
06:39What happened?
06:40Um, I tried to explain to him, like, nicely how I feel.
06:45Then it kind of went, like, completely south.
06:47All you're doing is you're trying to deflect the truth.
06:50Stop trying to deflect the truth.
06:51No, I'm not.
06:51I'm not trying to deflect the truth.
06:52Yahweh, Crystal, you have a problem with this queen.
06:55She's always around.
06:56Every single night.
06:58That's your favorite.
06:58So praise Yahweh.
06:59Favorite?
07:00Yeah, Yahweh, I'm done.
07:01Okay, all right.
07:02I don't have no favorite.
07:02Maybe this is not for you.
07:04It's not built for everybody.
07:05Really, what I want from Yahweh Poetic is just a little bit more of a balance in our relationship.
07:11Literally, that's all that I want.
07:12And for him to kind of understand where I'm coming from.
07:16It doesn't matter what queen it is.
07:18To his defense, is there anything that you could have done to cause him to be a little distant?
07:23If you contributed to something that really pushed him away a little bit, is there something that you...
07:28I know you're gonna feel some type of way about it.
07:29No, no, no.
07:30I'm just saying...
07:30Because you're very, like, you know, on his side.
07:33I have to come to his defense.
07:34You can defend him, but I'm not...
07:35But I'm not calling him bad.
07:37Because I'm not calling him bad.
07:37I'm not saying anything bad about him.
07:38And you're not saying it, but your emotions are, Yahweh.
07:41When it comes to, like, Yahweh to Baj, I feel like because she's been with him the longest,
07:46she's being quick to defend him.
07:48I'm trying to get her to understand there's no need to defend him because I'm not saying anything
07:52bad about him.
07:54You want this, you want that.
07:55If you addressed that last night and that didn't go well, what are you gonna do?
07:58I definitely feel like I'm being misunderstood.
08:01We're different women.
08:03We're not all gonna feel the same.
08:04I feel like I just get attacked, but I can't talk to you about it because of the way you're
08:09reacting to me.
08:10I feel like Yahweh Maddie and Yahweh Crystal, they're jealousy issues.
08:15All I'm asking for is more balance.
08:18I've been in this relationship for a while, and you have to be able to handle something
08:23like this.
08:24It's okay to not get exactly everything that you're looking for at that moment.
08:30I just wanna go ahead and make yourself, just get it out Yahweh.
08:33Get it out so we can hear you.
08:34I just wanna suck it.
08:36See, I'm just gonna stop.
08:37No, it's not even that.
08:38It just gets me upset because it's like now, you know, it's turning into like you two against
08:43each other, and then it's you against Yahweh Crystal, and then it's turning into him against
08:46you and everybody.
08:47Oh, you try to be the bigger person for Yahweh.
08:50I don't know if something will change, but you can't have a polycule where two people
08:56are not getting along.
08:57It creates so much tension, and it makes me wanna like pull my hair out.
09:01Yahweh Maddie, who needs to get it together?
09:03Because that's just not how poly life works.
09:06This is not helping right now.
09:12Coming up.
09:13Being in two relationships can be a lot.
09:16I didn't feel like I needed to ask Jacob for permission to propose to Becca.
09:23I would like to see her again.
09:24I guess I still just don't understand.
09:26You're not gay, and you're not bi.
09:28I told you that from the very beginning.
09:30And so did every other girl that I've ever .
09:33Stay your fake ass over here.
09:36Anybody coming into a poly relationship, you look for stability.
09:39We might be blowing things with these girls right now.
09:48Feels so good to be back.
09:50I know. I'm excited to get back to work with you.
09:52My name is Davis. I am 32 years old. I'm an Aquarius.
09:55My name is Becca. I am a 33 year old tattoo artist and shop owner.
10:00Our tattoo shop is called In Love Tattoo. We've been open for a little over four years.
10:04We have been dating for just over three years.
10:08Hey. Hey.
10:09How's it going?
10:10Going good.
10:11Going good.
10:14It's been so good to see you.
10:16I know.
10:17I'm Jacob, and I'm her husband.
10:20I've been with my beautiful husband for a little over ten and a half years.
10:24And I'm excited to get to call you my husband one day as well.
10:27I know. You're going to have two husbands.
10:28I know. I'm so lucky.
10:30Becca and I are recently engaged.
10:31We were on a trip in Mexico for our three-year anniversary.
10:38Will you marry me?
10:42I'm so happy you will.
10:48Our type of polyamory, we are in an open V or hinge relationship.
10:53Jacob and Davis do not date each other, but they both date me.
10:57Davis and Jacob, and then I'm the connecting point between them.
11:00But there's no connection there.
11:03However, we are all open to dating other people.
11:07I identify as queer or pansexual.
11:09I'm queer and demisexual.
11:12Am I doing that right? I think that's right. Demisexual.
11:15Yeah, that's pansexual.
11:16Pansexual.
11:17Maybe we should retry that one.
11:18I don't really care what gender or gender-presenting that you may be.
11:24I identify as straight, and I'm trans.
11:28I was born a female, but made the decision transitioning was going to be the best course of action for
11:34me.
11:36Kitchen table polyamory is also something that we practice.
11:38We are nesting partners.
11:40It's inherently because we do share a home together.
11:43All three of us are on the mortgage.
11:44Yeah.
11:45We all have our own bank accounts, but we all split everything.
11:47It's all pretty fair.
11:49Yeah.
11:49Well, we should definitely go out and celebrate, like, engagement.
11:54Our schedule, it originally started, I would be with Davis Saturday, Sunday, and Tuesday nights.
11:59And then Jacob and I are together Mondays and Thursdays.
12:02And then Wednesdays and Fridays, we're all together.
12:05We do sleep in the same bed on our scheduled days.
12:08I do think that I'm, like, a fairly sexual person, but we do not discuss it, like, openly with each
12:13other.
12:14They have their alone nights.
12:16Like, have the TV on.
12:17I put my headphones on, get really into a video game or some music.
12:21Yeah.
12:22She was a bit shocked, I'll say.
12:23Oh, yeah.
12:24Yeah, definitely surprised.
12:25Yeah, I'm sure.
12:26I mean, I was surprised.
12:27I didn't feel like I needed to ask Jacob for permission to propose to Becca.
12:32Becca's not my property.
12:35Obviously not going to be legally recognized, considering you two are married already.
12:41Um, we all still have the capacity to be jealous.
12:46Yeah.
12:47I think, uh, celebration's in order.
12:48And, uh, I would love to do that, all three of us.
12:51Yeah, for sure.
12:52And then me and you, Davis, we should definitely take some time to hang out together.
12:56Have some bro time.
12:56Yeah, bro time, for sure.
12:57There's a misconception that polyamory is, like, some kind of a solution to relationship problems.
13:03It doesn't make it harder, it makes it different.
13:05And if you're not willing to make sure you're communicating and everything, it can, you know...
13:09Muddy it up.
13:10Muddy it up, yeah.
13:11How was the shop while we were gone?
13:12It's been a little slow.
13:14We're still a new business.
13:15Yeah, absolutely.
13:17I have been tattooing for 15 years.
13:20I have also been tattooing for 15 years now.
13:24I am the shop manager at our tattoo shop.
13:26Davis definitely helps everything run so much smoother and takes a load off of us as, like, tattooers and owners
13:34of the studio.
13:35Being in two relationships, um, at times can be a lot.
13:40I do try to practice, um, equity and equality in my relationships.
13:44So, while I am married legally to Jacob, that relationship I try to keep on the same, um, level, I
13:52guess you could say, as my relationship with Davis.
13:54There were times earlier in my relationship with Davis where both of them had, like, either jealousy or insecurity issues
14:00that were brought to, like, to my attention.
14:02So, I definitely find myself in between Jacob and Davis.
14:08I'm just going to get finished setting up for my appointment.
14:10Perfect.
14:10Well, I love you.
14:11I love you so much.
14:13Good luck today.
14:14All right.
14:14Thank you.
14:14Love you.
14:14I love you.
14:15I love you so much.
14:30Are you ready for this or what?
14:32I am.
14:33I am.
14:34Are you ready for all them to be in one room?
14:36I am.
14:37So, tonight, all the girls that we are planning on adding to our poly relationship are PGs, potential girlfriends.
14:43We're bringing them in one room, one circumference, to see how their attitudes match.
14:47How you feel about Key?
14:49Hopefully, she catches a vibe tonight and finally give us our answer.
14:53Turn her from a PG to a GF.
14:55Tonight is the night we're going to push Key for an answer.
14:58I just want to know.
14:59It's like unfinished business.
15:01I don't know what to expect within a poly relationship.
15:04So, I got to think about it.
15:05Hopefully, that answer is the right answer.
15:08Anyway, Dree's coming in.
15:10I like Dree.
15:11Got ass back there.
15:12That's a plus.
15:13And are you 100% submissive?
15:17She thought too long.
15:19Yeah, I want to smell her neck.
15:21These girls are on a trial run and I'm trying to try them out.
15:26And the minute I'm finna just pass out.
15:31Yeah, this ain't my forte.
15:34And this is why I chose to be a lesbian.
15:38Lesbianis.
15:39Blow it.
15:40You blow it.
15:41You blow on it.
15:42I don't blow on nothing.
15:43Anything.
15:44You doing a good job.
15:46No, put it on your mouth.
15:46Blow it.
15:46I'm not blowing that to fall out.
15:59We want to do a slumber party.
16:00We wanted to do a pool party.
16:02We couldn't decide, so we put them both together
16:04and made a slumber pool party.
16:09Hey.
16:11I like Dree because she know what she want.
16:14Y'all ready for me to come move in and live with y'all?
16:16Dree, she real aggressive, but we're both dominant,
16:21so I can understand.
16:22The it girl has arrived.
16:23Okay.
16:24Oh my God.
16:26Keith.
16:26Mm.
16:27Chef's kiss.
16:28Finally we're back together with you.
16:32That's how I expect my bitches to come through.
16:34Hey guys.
16:36All the girls are potential girlfriends.
16:39Some of them, we haven't even gave them a label.
16:41Remember, I want 999,000 bitches.
16:45Number one is here.
16:48Shake, shake.
16:50Ray is definitely going to try to make an impression tonight.
16:53She came in with the crown stating, I am her.
16:56You missed the lips, didn't you?
16:58You didn't got all of them.
17:00Hello.
17:01Thank you.
17:03I'm like, I'm exploring right now.
17:07Don't do me like that.
17:08Okay, I'm about to get in the pool.
17:11That's all I got to see.
17:12Mood is right.
17:13We getting turned.
17:14We getting lit.
17:15The vibes is up.
17:16Nice to meet you.
17:17See you all right?
17:19Can we do a cheer?
17:20You want a cheer?
17:21It's a beautiful thing when all your girls get along
17:23and they all sexy and just, you know, getting too late.
17:28Number one.
17:29This my type of party right here.
17:31A pool of poly.
17:38Why you scared?
17:39Why you scared?
17:40Why you scared?
17:40I'm about scared.
17:40It's just cold.
17:42Get her warm, baby.
17:43Get her warm.
17:44Yeah.
17:45Dree, I peep the vibes.
17:47I see what's up.
17:48I see what's going on.
17:49Let's go.
17:50Let's go.
17:50Let's go.
17:51Me and Marlee are already both dominant.
17:53We don't need another dominant person.
17:55You don't want to like me too much.
17:57Yeah.
17:58She needs to sit back, chill out a little bit,
18:00especially if you're a newt in a polycule.
18:06I got my eye on her.
18:08You know what I'm saying?
18:09Do everybody here know each other?
18:11No.
18:13No.
18:13No.
18:14So why don't y'all introduce yourself one by one?
18:16No, how about this?
18:17I'm going to make it interesting.
18:18We going to play a game.
18:20No, baby.
18:21I don't like games now.
18:22We playing a game, shorty.
18:24It ain't no game.
18:25I don't like games because I don't play games.
18:28You need to go this way because...
18:30I don't need to go that way.
18:32I'm in my own lane.
18:33I thought the Virgo was going to pop off.
18:35I stand alone, baby, in any situation.
18:39You heard me.
18:40That part.
18:44I feel like she disrespect me.
18:46Certain little things can trigger certain moments.
18:51So, baby, I really don't like being sorry-minded.
18:56You got to correct the situation.
18:58Like, what's going on?
18:59Like, this is too much talking.
19:01So, what you want to do about it?
19:05I don't argue with no bitch.
19:10I'm confused as right now.
19:12I don't like the vibe.
19:14Yeah, me too.
19:15What is going on with Brie?
19:19Don't get your ass up over here.
19:21What's up?
19:22Stay over there.
19:22Where you was at?
19:24Stay your fake ass over here.
19:26All right.
19:28Y'all run back and forth.
19:31They, like...
19:38Coming up, I don't want a sword fight.
19:40I'm not into that.
19:41Sword is a euphemism for my strap.
19:42My .
19:43My strap on.
19:44Are you a top or a bottom?
19:47You're a top?
19:49What is Jacob's role in all this?
19:53Even though Jacob and I share a partner, we're not the closest.
19:57I feel like less of a woman because I haven't been able to give us a baby.
20:14Hey.
20:15Hey, babe.
20:15How you doing?
20:16Late as always.
20:18Fashionably late.
20:18Fashionably late.
20:19It smells good.
20:20My solo adventure with Kelvin was really amazing.
20:23This is Nita's first solo adventure.
20:25We're going to watch and see how she manages.
20:27And, you know, we're hoping they have a great time.
20:30We're going on our own date.
20:31We'll go to dinner and then probably to a couple bars.
20:34Yeah.
20:34And then we'll come home when their time is up.
20:36Are you excited?
20:37It's the first time, so it's a little nervous.
20:39I can't wait to hear all about it.
20:41Haven't had sex with anybody but Tritt and Cammy for the last three years, so this is all brand new.
20:45How long do you want?
20:47How long is allowed?
20:48Four hours.
20:49That's what I thought.
20:50That is, like, rushing the, you know what I mean?
20:52Natural progression of things.
20:54I'm going to be like, oh, yum.
20:56Hey.
20:56It's like not ever happened before.
20:58So, yeah.
20:59I guess it helps to let her, like, she knew what she was signing up for.
21:02You're all, like, nervous, which is normally not you.
21:06That's hilarious.
21:06It's kind of cute.
21:07It is kind of cute.
21:08I'm glad you think so.
21:09I'm having a hot sash.
21:10She's here.
21:13Don't break the dishes.
21:15Okay.
21:16Okay.
21:16I'll do that.
21:16We got you, babe.
21:18Put it in the fridge?
21:19I mean, put it somewhere.
21:21I got you.
21:24Welcome.
21:25My solo adventure will be with a young lady that I met while I was incarcerated.
21:29Her name is Lee.
21:32How you doing, girl?
21:33My attraction to Lee initially is she's definitely a lesbian woman.
21:37Most of my life, I have been, yeah, I've been gay, I guess.
21:42Like, I've been with women.
21:43Me and Kami's sexual connection is out of this world.
21:47We have amazing sex.
21:48But she is not gay.
21:50She is not bi.
21:52And I crave girl touch.
21:55All right.
21:55We're going to be heading out.
21:57Give you guys your time.
21:58Anita actually called me when she was in jail and said, hey, there's a girl that just showed up.
22:03Her and I are connecting.
22:04And she said, would it be okay if, you know, we kissed?
22:09So that's fine with me.
22:11I gave her permission.
22:12All right.
22:12See ya.
22:13Have a good time.
22:14Bye.
22:17So what would you like tonight to, like, if we're up to you?
22:21I don't know.
22:22Okay, well, I guess let's start at the beginning.
22:25What's your play style?
22:26Like, what role do you usually play in the bedroom?
22:31Uh...
22:32Are you a top or a bottom?
22:33Definitely a top, yeah.
22:34You're a top?
22:36Yeah.
22:38Didn't see that one coming.
22:39No, didn't see that one coming.
22:40Okay, so I'm a top too.
22:42I don't want a sword fight.
22:43I'm not into that.
22:46Like...
22:46Hold on.
22:46Did you even bring a sword?
22:48Start there.
22:50A sword?
22:50That's no.
22:51That's no.
22:51Sword is a euphemism for my strap.
22:53My strap on.
22:54The fact that she didn't have one or bring one lets me know she's a bottom.
22:58Um...
22:59Aw, man.
23:00Yeah, we should have this conversation.
23:02We should have this conversation in jails.
23:04I'm a top always, with the exception of Trent.
23:08I'm not always that compliant to be submissive to him either.
23:12Hmm.
23:14So, you're a top, I'm a top.
23:15But how do we go about that?
23:18How do we go about it?
23:19Mm-hmm.
23:19Someone has to forfeit.
23:21And it's not gonna be me.
23:22What if we took turns?
23:23But I get to go first.
23:27So I have, um...
23:28I don't know, like my hookup blueprint, if you will.
23:31You start at the hot tub?
23:33Um...
23:33I can't swim.
23:36I'll be losing my touch.
23:37So was that a no to the hot tub?
23:39No, I don't like hot tub.
23:41Anybody that even made it past my threshold would be absolutely belated to have me ask them to take their
23:47clothes off and get in the goddamn hot tub with me.
23:48You have any ideas?
23:50Mmm.
23:55Mmm.
23:58What about we have a bathtub?
24:00A big bathtub?
24:01We're in a bubble bath?
24:04Maybe?
24:05Yes?
24:05Mmm.
24:06I'm like, um, four hours is dwindling away.
24:08I'm growing vines and my glass slipper is evaporating as we speak.
24:12Like, my carriage is a pumpkin.
24:14Like, where are we gonna be with this?
24:15What about hot oil massage?
24:18Yeah.
24:19I'll tell you.
24:20Sold.
24:21Buckle up.
24:22And we're on time schedule, so, you know, make haste.
24:25Oh, .
24:26Move your legs.
24:35Like, what's going on?
24:36Like, this is too much talking.
24:38So what you wanna do about it?
24:42I feel like she disrespect me.
24:44Don't get your ass up over here.
24:46What's up?
24:48Stay over there.
24:49Where you was at?
24:51Stay your fake ass over there.
24:53All right.
24:53That's right.
24:54Y'all went back and forth and .
24:57They like.
24:58You know what?
25:10I'm just really trying to figure out what's going on.
25:14Come here, babe.
25:15Can you come here for a second?
25:18Give me a second.
25:19We might be blowing things with these girls right now.
25:22We looking kind of suspect.
25:25I'm definitely not going back in there.
25:27And we here.
25:28I'm not.
25:29You not here.
25:31Because if you was here, my queen would have checked that .
25:34I don't even know what you talking about.
25:37Anybody coming into a poly relationship, you look for stability and not craziness.
25:41That means your foundation is rocky.
25:43I definitely don't know what you're talking about.
25:47You seeing this bitch, Drie, just disrespecting me.
25:50Things got a little weird out there between Marlee and Brie.
25:53What's going on?
25:54It's me.
25:55Baby, are you serious?
25:58I kind of like was peeping it from the sidelines.
26:00But Drie was maybe a little too aggressive tonight.
26:03She was popping her like an old ass bitch.
26:07Something that I said and it was my tone, but I'm just being me.
26:12That's just what it is.
26:14You tripping.
26:15I'm not tripping.
26:16You seeing what's up.
26:17You just trying to stay cool.
26:18Like stop it.
26:19What are you talking about?
26:20Brie and Marlee just off their vibes.
26:23Seeing them, how they're looking at each other.
26:25It's just throwing daggers.
26:26You know what I'm saying?
26:27Like it's speaking without saying anything.
26:30I'm about to shut the party down and we could try again another time.
26:33The vibe is dead.
26:34Tag on the foot.
26:36It's dead.
26:37Cold.
26:38Done.
26:39The party's over.
26:40The party's over.
26:42All right.
26:49Coming up.
26:50Okay, so yes, I made an assumption that you would cross over just like every other girl.
26:54I didn't count three years being in and you know, we're still kissing.
26:58Like never lick again.
26:59No, I don't think I can live with that.
27:04We're ready to take things to like a whole nother level.
27:06You still haven't filed a divorce.
27:09I feel like I need to put my foot down.
27:11So you're giving me an ultimatum.
27:12Get a divorce or I lose you.
27:20Finally out and about.
27:22Yeah, looking forward to having a little tasty beverage.
27:24We're out here to celebrate my engagement to Davis.
27:28Thank you, my love.
27:29Jacob invited us out to discuss our future.
27:32I'm going to get some wine, but I'll be right back.
27:35I love you.
27:38My wife.
27:39My husband.
27:41I am excited to hear about how Jacob feels about the engagement.
27:45I'm looking forward to hearing his opinions and hopefully hearing about his support of us.
27:49I wanted to make sure that you knew that I am still so like madly in love with you and
27:52that I want to spend my life with you and that you know like my love for Davis doesn't take
27:56from that at all.
27:56You know, it's always like a little nerve wracking, you know, knowing that something is going to change.
28:02There's always that little flicker inside of you.
28:06That's like, am I good enough?
28:08Am I going to continue to be like a focus in her life?
28:12So do you all have plans?
28:14I think I want it to be more of like a party than like an actual like.
28:19Yeah.
28:21I do kind of want to know like what is Jacob's role in all this?
28:26We're still kind of trying to figure out what Jacob's involvement will be.
28:30I don't really have any like care whether he's in it or whether he's not.
28:35Ring bear.
28:36Ring bear.
28:37Even though Jacob and I share a partner, we're not the closest.
28:42Like you're in a mini like sports car going down the thing with the rings.
28:48But including Jacob, I know is important to Becca.
28:52You're one of my best friends and it would be hard for me to imagine you not being there in
28:57some support.
28:58I'd love to be a part of it, you know, in whatever way that y'all would have me.
29:01And so that's kind of what would be me leaning towards being like, okay, yeah, like let's have Jacob in
29:08the wedding.
29:09There are a lot of things that like we're going to, you know, be paying for in addition to a
29:14wedding.
29:15We are struggling a little bit as a business. Being shop manager, dealing with books, I am feeling a little
29:22bit of that weight.
29:23Me and Becca haven't been obviously at the shop for the past week.
29:27Yeah.
29:28That wasn't while we were gone.
29:29This time of year is always a little slower.
29:32All eggs are kind of in this basket.
29:34This is the first time that we've been tattooing and owning a business.
29:37According to the books, we're not making any money.
29:40This year is definitely the roughest so far.
29:43There have been some things that maybe would be a good idea.
29:47Doing a walk-in day a week.
29:49Obviously they are coming from a tattooing background.
29:53I have been working in the corporate world up until the past two years.
29:57I also have heard you have been giving discounts to people.
30:01And I know you're a nice guy, right?
30:02Like, I mean, at the end of the day, I think you like to tattoo, but your work is really
30:06worth the price that you put on it.
30:09I tattoo because I love it.
30:11Davis sees the money.
30:12I would much rather do a good tattoo than have to worry about money any day.
30:17We're already dipping into our savings, like, to make up for the rent.
30:21Doing that for another five years sounds .
30:25The savings was supposed to be like a nest fund.
30:27We definitely don't want to have to keep pulling from that if we can avoid it.
30:31I don't have any other necessarily monetizable skills other than art.
30:35If the business were to fail, it would definitely be a very life-changing event.
30:40The stakes are pretty high, right?
30:42Yeah, I mean, we're just hemorrhaging money, especially with other expenses that we have come up.
30:46Because of the wedding and ceremony and everything's coming up, obviously, it makes the bank account lower than it could
30:52be.
30:53You know, without the tattoo shop, there is, like, you know, what are the other options?
31:02Ready, ready, ready?
31:03Okay, go, go, go.
31:08That was fun, guys.
31:13Hey.
31:14What you doing?
31:16Hey.
31:17I'm just studying a little bit.
31:19Studying?
31:20Yeah.
31:22What you studying?
31:23The Book of Job.
31:24The Book of Job.
31:25That's what's up.
31:25That's what's up.
31:26Yeah.
31:27Me and Yahweh and Marty, we've been in a rough patch.
31:30I need to make things right with her.
31:32I know we had a dispute the other day.
31:36It was pretty rough.
31:37I feel like this situation maybe is getting a little bit too much for you.
31:43No, I don't feel like it's too much for me.
31:46I keep stressing, like, that word balance because I'm not trying to get more than anybody.
31:51I don't get that where you sleep with me, like, multiple nights.
31:55I'm not saying, like, you're doing that on purpose.
31:57I'm just trying to bring light to it so we can find, like, some kind of medium.
32:02You know, like, that balance because, hello, I love you.
32:05You know, it can be rough at times because you want to give that attention and that time to that
32:10person.
32:10But realistically, you know, I'm one man, four queens, seven days a week.
32:18You know, you do the math.
32:19I understand that time is something you're looking for.
32:23I'm going to do the best I can to make it better, you know.
32:27Of course, I do want to see actions just like I know he wants to see actions for me.
32:32You know, let's just kick past this and take it one day at a time.
32:37Yeah, I mean, that's all I'm asking for.
32:41Most of the time, I let the queens work things out for themselves.
32:45As far as I'm concerned, I have no favorites.
32:47I love them all as one and hopefully they can see that.
32:50You know, I am struggling with a lot of things.
32:52You know, I miss my family back home, you know, not being able to have a baby.
32:56Like, it's just so much tying into things.
32:58Me and Yahweh have been trying to have a baby going on five years and no luck.
33:05So it has been difficult, you know, with all the new babies coming.
33:08I love all the children.
33:11But, of course, every time, you know, someone becomes pregnant, it's kind of like, dang, I wish it was me.
33:21Not like taking it away from anyone, but kind of like, when is it going to be my time and
33:26my turn?
33:27I understand, you know, I know it can be a lot.
33:30We're going to continue to try, because I know we'll have a beautiful baby.
33:34I know that weight's heavy on her heart.
33:36It makes her feel insecure.
33:38We haven't tried everything.
33:39We've been naturally doing it, but let's try some different avenues and see what we can make happen.
33:46I'm hearing her, you know, and I feel like that's what it's all about as well.
33:50I think it's a lot on her shoulders.
33:52Hopefully, we can make things right so that we can go a different route to have, you know, a child.
33:57I feel like less of a woman, because I haven't been able to give us a baby.
34:02That don't make you less of a woman, okay?
34:04I just want you to know that.
34:06I love you, and I just want you to know, like, that does not define who you are as a
34:11woman.
34:12You understand?
34:12That doesn't define our relationship either.
34:15Stop being so hard on yourself.
34:18Stop being so hard on yourself, y'all.
34:20Come on.
34:23Everything's all right.
34:27Coming up, you might develop an emotional attachment to somebody that's not the three of us.
34:32I want a lesbian relationship.
34:33That's something that you have to have.
34:35Well, it doesn't go away.
34:37We're ready to take things to, like, a whole nother level.
34:40And you still have filed a divorce.
34:42I feel like I need to put my foot down.
34:44I think we need a break.
35:00Hello, my love.
35:02Hello.
35:03Yay, that's perfect.
35:04We're right on time, yes.
35:05We're right on time.
35:07Cheers.
35:08Come here, kiss me.
35:14So how was your day?
35:16It was good.
35:17How are you feeling after your date night the other night?
35:20I had so much fun.
35:22Yeah?
35:23Just, like, unsolicited girl touch.
35:25That was magical for me.
35:27So as far as Lee goes, like, she was a female that I met while incarcerated.
35:33We developed a platonic relationship while in jail.
35:36And we then started exploring, you know, like, her being my solo, solo adventure buddy.
35:43I feel like it was, like, rushed.
35:44I don't know.
35:45Okay.
35:46And she's very not like you in the bedroom.
35:50I would like to see her again, actually, actually.
35:52When you say see her again, what do you mean?
35:54I'd like to do it again, but with more time.
35:58Like, next month?
36:02I thought we talked about each person can have an adventure once a month.
36:06That was the agreement.
36:08Then I don't understand.
36:09I guess why?
36:12I like her.
36:14Okay.
36:15We just came out to family and friends and church acquaintances that we are poly.
36:20I mean, we used to lead marriage ministries, monogamous marriage ministries.
36:24So there's a lot at stake for us right now.
36:26Like, why does it have to be only once a month?
36:29We talked about this.
36:30If it's more than that, you might develop an emotional attachment to somebody that's not the three of us.
36:36And that typically doesn't go well.
36:38For who?
36:39You and Trent?
36:40This is the first time we've ever tried it.
36:42For all of us.
36:42For all of us.
36:42This is the first time we've ever tried anything like that.
36:45Right.
36:47Which, I mean, okay, the adventure was great, but that's all it's supposed to be.
36:51Why do you feel the need that you need it more often?
36:54I mean, we still are in transition, you know what I mean, to you crossing over.
36:59The difference between Lee and Kami is, Lee's gay.
37:02Lee likes women.
37:03She desires women.
37:04She gets turned on by women.
37:05Unfortunately, Kami is absolutely not gay or bi in any sense of the word, which is super confusing for everybody
37:11probably watching.
37:12Don't worry, I still get confused and she's mine.
37:14I guess I still just don't understand.
37:16You're not gay.
37:18And you're not bi.
37:18I told you that from the very beginning.
37:20And so did every other girl that I've ever in my life.
37:23I am honest.
37:25I was honest from the very moment that we started a relationship.
37:29You knew what you were getting into from the very moment.
37:31Okay, so yes, I made an assumption that you would cross over just like every other girl.
37:36I didn't count three years being in and, you know, we're still kissing.
37:39As far as like crossing over from PG to rated R, there's none of that going down at all.
37:44So I want a lesbian relationship.
37:46That's something that you have to have, something that you...
37:48Well, it doesn't go away.
37:50Where does that leave me?
37:51I don't want to force you to do anything you want to do.
37:54I am not going to force you to stay in a relationship either where you feel like your needs aren't
37:58met and you need something else.
38:01I don't know.
38:02This is all like new information.
38:04Like, me too though.
38:05Me too.
38:06No, no, no.
38:07You're bringing new information that was not part of the original thought or feel or...
38:12I'm not even bringing you new information as I'm getting new information.
38:15It's pretty clear that I have created some emotional strings attached to a person that wasn't part of my primary
38:20couple.
38:20I do need the physical though.
38:23Like, never lick again.
38:24No, no.
38:25I don't think I can live with that.
38:27It's like, it's been three years and you see it's become problematic.
38:30I would just like girl touch.
38:32It has to be girl touch.
38:34It can't be guy touch.
38:35Not the same.
38:37And what am I supposed to do with that?
38:39It's just information.
38:40Something I want.
38:58I don't have a clue what happened to Bri.
39:02Bri, are you up?
39:04Last night was supposed to be a fun, sexy little get together with RPGs and it turned into a mess.
39:12So I'm gonna go see if I can get a little peace treating.
39:16Good morning.
39:17I made her some coffee.
39:18Good morning.
39:19How you feeling?
39:22I'm alright.
39:23I feel good.
39:24I'm chilly.
39:25Why you sleep in the guest room?
39:27It's crazy.
39:28I just wasn't feeling it last night.
39:30This is the first time in history that we slept in separate rooms.
39:35Mad or not.
39:36What happened last night?
39:40It's a whole lot.
39:42I don't tolerate bullshit.
39:44You know what I'm saying?
39:45Or disrespect.
39:47Do you ever think I would let somebody disrespect you?
39:49Let's be real.
39:51That's why I was like, what the ?
39:53Come on, my nigga.
39:54But the way that you came off on me?
39:57At the end of the day, I know where I up at.
40:01Why didn't you say, Dree?
40:02I felt disrespectful or hold on talking to me like that.
40:06I feel bad for lashing out.
40:07They want to do that.
40:09You know, so I did let the feelings get the best in me as far as play up.
40:14This is not new.
40:16You been blowing up, snapping.
40:19Like, what's going on?
40:21You gotta understand why I been tripping.
40:23We at this point where we're ready to take things to like a whole nother level.
40:28And you still haven't filed a divorce.
40:32She done dropped the ball.
40:34Ha!
40:34It's the husband thing.
40:35I knew that's what she was mad at the whole time.
40:38I get it.
40:40Like, I feel like...
40:41But that still didn't give you no reason to disrespect me.
40:44So you feel like none of my is valid?
40:47Tired of not being heard.
40:49Like, a lot of going on that I should be tripping about.
40:52What is there for me to take accountability for besides the divorce?
40:59That's crazy.
41:00Greed, key, the non-filing the divorce.
41:04All of these different things got me frustrated right now.
41:07You need to get a divorce before I marry you.
41:10Like, do that sound crazy or is that logical?
41:14So what's up with this divorce then?
41:18I feel like I need her to put my foot down.
41:21I need you to handle that.
41:22That's making me uncomfortable.
41:24What you mean?
41:25I need you to handle that.
41:25She's not listening to anything I'm saying.
41:28So you're giving me an ultimatum.
41:29Get a divorce or I lose you.
41:32That's what you want to call it?
41:35Going backwards.
41:38I think we need a break.
41:43Oh, you going there.
41:45You're really mad.
41:47Okay, stand on that.
41:49Listen, do you know how you sound right now?
41:51Let me get in front of you.
41:53Your ex, husband, is your husband.
41:59Do you get that?
42:00Like, I get it.
42:03I want you to be sure this break is what you want to take.
42:07I want to make sure when a divorce is filed.
42:10How about that?
42:11Let's make a deal on that.
42:12I still got feelings for my husband at this point.
42:15So when I'm good and ready, I'll file the divorce.
42:19And that's point blank, period.
42:23Bitch.
42:24I think Marley be living in the past.
42:27Where we go from here, honestly, I don't even know.
42:30But Marley needs to go deal with her.
42:32We'll be right back.
42:33We'll be right back.
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