00:00it's the anti-summer show with three calls ended all this is where members of the a member of the
00:04summer squad reaches out to us with a question that they're having trouble contemplating um or
00:10you know like just kind of figuring out and this morning's note comes from jimmy and if you're
00:17easily spooked just be careful this is this i cannot wait i know i know what everyone says
00:25okay all right jimmy writes my wife has become convinced that our house is haunted which seems
00:33harmless enough but now it's starting to affect the whole family it started with little things like
00:37noises at night or objects being out of place but now she's genuinely anxious about being left alone
00:44at home and she keeps bringing up the idea of just selling the house altogether we've only lived here
00:49for three years it would be a huge financial hit to have to move which i've explained to her but
00:54she
00:54doesn't care i don't believe in ghosts and i think there are normal explanations for the stranger
01:01stuff but every time i try to rationalize it she gets upset and says i'm dismissing her the kids
01:06think i should just play along and maybe consider bringing in a paranormal expert but i worry that
01:12that might do more harm than good so what do you think do i humor my wife or keep pushing
01:17back even if
01:18causes tension in our relationship i think you have to i think already he's come to his conclusion
01:28by saying do i humor her or do i just you know yeah put it all aside i think you've
01:35got to go down
01:36this rabbit hole amen it's so dismissive if you don't like you cannot ignore that she's freaked out
01:43in her home which is the place where you're supposed to feel safe because yes she's scared
01:47but also this goes to like relationship 101 that i've learned it's like support your wife or husband's
01:53interests or whatever it might be like don't dismiss them if there's something they like there's a movie
01:58i really want to see in theaters my wife is gonna go with me because she knows i don't really
02:02want to
02:02just like be rolling up to a movie by myself yeah and having dad guilt i'd rather make it a
02:07little bit
02:07of a date day and get a sitter okay single guy going to the movie by myself hand him a
02:12popcorn
02:13get one of those big ones you know what i mean yes but yeah i think you've got to go
02:18down the
02:18rabbit hole and i think you have to give her grace because she's scared yes you don't want your wife
02:23to be living in a scared like that in your house she needs to suck it up oh it's gonna
02:29be a financial
02:30hit i mean that's really what it's gonna come down to now because it's gonna put you in a rut
02:35so there's only really one thing to do call the ghostbusters and get it over with yeah you know
02:43and then just move on is that what you're saying exactly no interesting probably go down the rabbit
02:48hole maybe someone listening has been in a situation similar to this um and maybe you can
02:53speak from firsthand experience or maybe your house is haunted and if jimmy's listening which i'm sure he
03:01is right because he wrote us right so maybe you can say like hey listen i've actually had this
03:06problem and here's how we rectified it yeah maybe he clearly doesn't want to sell his house and i know
03:12that's a huge financial thing because you could go under on your own house and sell it for you know
03:17whatever it might be but maybe as ghostbusters are one thing but maybe like a like a like a doctor
03:23of ghostly things you know someone come sage the place i'm not familiar with that world so like
03:28can't really speak about the spirits but maybe things that we don't even know about right that
03:32you can do there are some people out there that are one with the spirits maybe you just need to
03:36burp your house right who knows burp the house let them out let them out sorry jimmy's wife i don't
03:43mean to be making light of this it would really stink like your life would be miserable if you don't
03:49feel
03:49safe in your home yeah i can only imagine so you can't dismiss her no but what do you think
03:55how do they rectify this issue 610-660-6925 three calls send it all
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