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00:00Bir bridge.
00:07Bir de çocuklar.
00:13Özel bir ancak yapanında.
00:13Az tıkçası around.
00:13Asta nefesine.
00:14Özel bir yapan.
00:17Her zaman nefesine de bakıyor.
00:21Bir tane sosu itmini dediğim gibi ponmeyi biliyorum.
00:22Töylediğiniz üçün çevresi.
00:25Töylediğiniz için görünüze.
00:26Bunların kez yüzü yapan biri değil mi?
00:27Yapan tüm dünyasın 18 boyunca?
00:28O tyle yüzler.
00:30Kile gets Botox.
00:31Kile is nine years older than me.
00:33You're right.
00:43Can a guy pull off a mock neck?
00:45Probably not, right?
00:46No, you can, for sure.
00:47This is badass.
00:48Yeah, it looks really, really elevated.
00:50These are all the new sweatshirts with the embroidery.
00:53Is it still time to just have Amanda weigh in?
00:57Today?
00:58Um, I'll go next door.
01:05Is this the best way to pack shoes?
01:08I don't even know.
01:10These are good.
01:13Should we go say hi to Mo?
01:15Look who I found.
01:17Hi, Miss Wider.
01:20What you doing?
01:22Trying to pack some of this up.
01:26This has got to be the most organized closet in the house.
01:29I'm organized.
01:30It's just the stuff that I don't know where to put.
01:32I just don't know where to put it.
01:35Oh, I like these.
01:37Oh, but I need the black ones also.
01:40After dropping the news to Kyle and, like, making the decision to move out, I feel lighter.
01:44I feel good about this decision.
01:46I feel like this could be what we need to potentially save this relationship.
01:50Are you going to have enough stuff where you're going to need, like, a van or a truck or what?
01:55I have no idea.
01:56Maybe we can pack up your car.
01:58I mean, it's not going to make a crazy amount of .
02:01It's like a month-long vacation.
02:03Are you going to, like, surprise me?
02:05Like, you're going to keep your key and just, like, pop in?
02:08Or how does that work?
02:09Yeah.
02:10I'll just show up at 4 a.m. and wake you up like you do to me all the time.
02:15Do you not want me here?
02:16I feel like you're more excited for me to leave.
02:20Oh, yeah.
02:20That's the opposite of how I think this has felt.
02:22I think you're...
02:23All right.
02:23I mean, we're trying to figure this out, right?
02:25Spending some time apart, but, like, courting each other and dating again.
02:30We knew something drastic needed to happen.
02:33I don't think we knew what.
02:36Therapy wasn't necessarily giving us everything we needed.
02:40Look, I think that there was a side of me that I felt like we could have kept on continuing
02:45and playing this, like, broken record.
02:47So I give you props for confronting this, like, head-on.
02:50Oh, I need these sneakers, too.
02:52Just in case I need to run away.
02:55Run away from your own problems.
02:56From you.
02:58Wow.
02:59Okay.
03:00Harsh.
03:07Hey, hey!
03:16There's so many dudes.
03:17Yo, that's why we get the hot girls here.
03:19Is it always like this?
03:21Like, this busy?
03:22Thursday through Sunday, it's awesome.
03:24Yes.
03:24It's awesome.
03:25Good for you.
03:27Oh, my God.
03:27Congratulations.
03:28I'm, like, really excited.
03:29What an accomplishment.
03:30I wanted to be in the hospitality business before I even knew it was a business.
03:35I remember having a party in high school.
03:36And the neighbor came over the next day and alerted me that he was going to tell my parents.
03:41And then before he left, he said, but I'm not going to lie, you threw a great party.
03:45I told my assistant, yeah, I'm going to go meet up with my friend, Gavin.
03:49And I was, like, telling her about you.
03:50But she asked if we ever hooked up.
03:52And I said no.
03:54Oh!
03:56I thought you were gone.
03:59You thought I was going in for the real thing.
04:01I was like, oh, it's happening.
04:04Me and Gavin have known each other many, many years.
04:06I met him through Kyle.
04:08We were both in hospitality.
04:10He's the perfect amount of fun, flirty, messy.
04:13Like, I enjoy Gavin's vibe.
04:15I love the short kings.
04:19I'm making you laugh.
04:20And I love that you get messy.
04:22Like, we were giggling when we were talking to Kenny and...
04:25So much.
04:26And I was like, yes, Gavin, yes.
04:27Shoot him a Gavin.
04:28That's what they call me.
04:30I'm getting grilled over here on relationship.
04:32This is now a panel.
04:33This is a panel.
04:34This is a panel.
04:35I'm getting grilled.
04:36Wait, so, okay, Kenny.
04:38What is his deal?
04:39Because I don't really know Kenny or Whitney.
04:41Yep.
04:41He was, like, kind of treating me like I'm some sort of, like, man-hater
04:45just because I was taking his girlfriend's, like, perspective.
04:49In order for you to move across the entire country
04:52without a commitment such as a ring, it's a very big deal.
04:56You can't around with this.
04:57I'm getting I Hate Men vibes.
04:59What you're saying is probably true, and he knows that,
05:02and he wants to, like, discredit you.
05:04Oh, you think I struck the nerve with him?
05:06That's his... Kenny is my best friend.
05:08He can dish it out, but he can't take it.
05:10I can't believe my stuff's gonna be here this week already.
05:13I know.
05:13We really need to figure out where it's gonna go.
05:16Mr.
05:17I know.
05:18I think I have 30 boxes coming.
05:22I have my workout outfits.
05:24I have my seasonal stuff.
05:25I have my coats.
05:26I have boots.
05:26A billion things.
05:27I'm not really an outfit repeater.
05:30We might have to turn that second bedroom into more of a closet.
05:35I'm down to let you do your thing in the second bedroom,
05:38but I want it to still also be a guest room.
05:41Like, if your sister comes into town and DJ, like, Gavin has stayed in that room a million times.
05:45Yeah, we kicked Gavin out.
05:46Finally.
05:47Gavin's done.
05:48My apartment's virtual, and Gavin's always had a code.
05:51Gavin used to just show up.
05:53He would walk in, and he'd be like, hey, and I'm like, hey, and then we'd hang out.
05:56It was kind of like he lived there, even though he didn't, but that has changed.
06:03It's a lot of respect for me, too.
06:05What if I'm not walking around naked?
06:06Like, Gavin can't just, like, walk in.
06:08He came home one time, and we were, like, hooking up on the couch.
06:13And I'm like, no boss in the code.
06:16How are you feeling with your adjustment to the city?
06:18It's been really nice, but I think I am, like, missing that, like, girl time.
06:23It's just weird, like, trying to make new friends, like, at this stage in life.
06:27Yeah.
06:28You know?
06:28I did go to get a pedicure with Danielle the other day, which was nice.
06:33Oh, man.
06:34Finally, Kenny, like, this woman is amazing.
06:37Aw.
06:38Because you've known him a while?
06:39Yeah, through Gavin.
06:40It was really nice.
06:41We're just starting to get to know each other, and I actually learned some things about her relationship
06:46that I didn't realize.
06:47I thought her and Owen had been together a really long time.
06:49Okay.
06:50And they started officially dating in, like, April.
06:54And he's been in the process of a divorce, which, you know, can linger.
06:59And she was kind of saying, like, it was amicable.
07:03But then she found out about me, and I think that it has not been as friendly.
07:09When did that relationship end?
07:11I can't remember exactly, but she did tell me that he had been kind of checked out of that relationship
07:18for a while.
07:18Sounds like overlap.
07:22What do you think about Danielle's boyfriend?
07:25Do you want to get to know him or no?
07:28I think it's weird for me to, like, want to get to know him and then, like, not really talk
07:32to her.
07:32I'm just sort of, like, playing the avoiding game at the moment.
07:36He didn't tell me we had a VIP here, so, you know.
07:39Oh, my God!
07:41Hi.
07:41The boss.
07:42Can you reach up?
07:43Can you get over there?
07:44How are you?
07:45How are you?
07:45It's been, like, three years.
07:47That's a baby.
07:48She's amazing.
07:49Thank you for asking.
07:50Yeah.
07:51My next question was whose side are you on?
07:55That's not gonna work.
07:56I don't want to say, like, I had a falling out with Danielle.
07:59I just, like...
08:00We don't need to talk about...
08:01I just don't need it in my life.
08:03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:04I don't even want to relive those things in the past.
08:08I gotta get back there.
08:09Good seeing you.
08:09Wait, Robert is the chef.
08:11Did you not know this, either?
08:12I was like, is this gonna be a problem?
08:15I feel like there's a lot...
08:17So, no.
08:17I don't know.
08:18Yeah, there's, like, a lot of history between Danielle and I.
08:22At least once a year, she does something, and I've given her pass after pass after pass.
08:26She, like, asked me to go for a coffee, and I was like...
08:30Well, that's good.
08:30Is that, like, an olive branch?
08:31I am way more picky about who I give my energy to these days.
08:37Right.
08:37So...
08:38Well, I feel special, then.
08:39Yeah, you should.
08:40That's wild to me.
08:41You've got Danielle that is dating a guy, and the guy's still married.
08:46Lindsey, who had a baby with a guy after, like, two months.
08:50And Lindsey's interrogating me about us moving in together after hanging out for a year.
08:56And her and Gavin were, like, laughing and making a joke of what I was going through with my mom,
09:00and, like...
09:01Gavin said something?
09:02Yeah.
09:02He was making, like, boy comments.
09:04The stages of grief.
09:06Anger.
09:07Pain.
09:08Around.
09:09Yeah.
09:12Just really rubbed me the wrong way.
09:13If anybody in this scenario knows what I went through and could have my back, it would be Gavin.
09:20Last fall, we found out that my mom had stage four cancer, and it was out of the blue.
09:28I struggled to even talk about my mom still at this point.
09:31We were just very close.
09:33It was a really difficult period.
09:36Whitney and I were dating, but, like, I just felt like I wasn't in the place to be what she
09:43deserved in a relationship.
09:44And we broke up.
09:45Sometimes this can happen in dynamics of, like, best friends and someone getting in a relationship when another one isn't.
09:51Does he feel like you're not spending as much time with him?
09:54I don't know.
09:54Maybe.
09:54And that's why he's, like, saying these comments.
09:56He's just so bad at using his words that it's, like, I would never know until something blows up.
10:03Coming up...
10:04There are times where I think Amanda's already given up, and now she's telling me she wants to move out
10:08of the apartment.
10:09Dude.
10:13Let's go, lying on the mountain.
10:18I am now the queen of a castle.
10:22If you want to rule with me.
10:26You know, girlfriend.
10:31Hi.
10:32Hello.
10:34Guess who's here?
10:35Here's your friend, Gemma.
10:37It's Eloise.
10:38Is that your friend?
10:38I literally came straight from the office.
10:41Mommy smells like Botox.
10:42I came straight from work.
10:43Hi, Ellie.
10:44But I did remember.
10:44I did remember the hand-me-downs.
10:46You got some baby Louboutins in there, actually.
10:49You gave me baby Louboutins?
10:50Yeah, you agreed then.
10:51This is why we love Eloise's hand-me-downs.
10:54Yeah.
10:55Do you want water or anything?
10:56Wine is good.
10:57Okay.
10:58Thank you.
10:59One of those days, I see.
11:01Yeah.
11:02If there was, like, a first-aid kit for mothers, a bottle of champagne would be in there.
11:06I don't know how any parents do it sober.
11:09I put Gemma to bed, and I'm like, wine.
11:11Yeah.
11:11I smell it, and I feel better.
11:13You're dealing with things that are just so insanely stupid.
11:17The other day, my son and my daughter were painting.
11:19And I'm, like, doing the dishes, and I pop out, and I'm like, why is it so quiet?
11:22And my son painted his penis blue, which was shocking because green is his favorite color.
11:28I know this is non-toxic, like, organic paint, but, like, probably not good for your scrotum.
11:34I look at you having two kids, and I think I might just be one and done.
11:39One and done.
11:40You did it right.
11:41Honestly, like, I don't know how I would have gotten through without you.
11:46You would have been fine.
11:46No, I wouldn't have.
11:47I don't have any, like, other friends that are in similar situations.
11:50Over summer, no one knew about anything I was dealing with that was, like, very serious, like, legal.
11:58No one at the summer house is gonna understand.
12:02Like, nobody has kids.
12:03What is going on with mediation?
12:06I don't know.
12:07How is he with that stuff?
12:08Like, do you agree on anything?
12:10Yeah.
12:10Like, school-wise, at least?
12:11Well, we agree on a lot.
12:14It's amazing that you're supposed to plan 18 years in, like, now.
12:17My baby daddy and I are near the end of mediation for Gemma.
12:23And it's been an up and down roller coaster.
12:26You know, we are making decisions that are very impactful on Gemma's entire future.
12:33So, the sooner we can get through all of the legal stuff, then the easier it will be.
12:40And hopefully, that document is just in a drawer somewhere and doesn't have to ever be taken out.
12:46It can sit in the bottom drawer of my nightstand next to the condoms that are never used.
12:51That's the hope and dream for the agreement, not the condoms.
12:54I wanted at one point, when I was still hoping it would work out, to put into the custody agreement
12:58that we all had to hang out with each other one time per week for at least three hours.
13:02I wanted to force family time.
13:05This lawyer, he was like, you can't force somebody to hang out with you.
13:10My relationship with my ex is in a good place right now.
13:13Obviously, it's taken a lot to get here.
13:15This is the guy who moved out on me when I was 30 weeks pregnant and had a toddler to
13:20raise.
13:20But I've made a conscious effort to put aside the hatred, focus on what's going to be best for my
13:26kids and for my own health.
13:28It's better than planning to buy a voodoo doll and stab it every night.
13:33I choose civil and friendly over voodoo doll.
13:37Although, you know, that's still in the back of my head.
13:39Did you do a poopie?
13:42No.
13:43Okay.
13:43Is it mine? Do you smell poop?
13:45No, no, no. She farts a lot.
14:01All right, all right.
14:03Boy's night.
14:04Boy's night.
14:05I know.
14:06What's up, D?
14:06How we doing, Kenny?
14:07How you doing, brother?
14:08Hey, bro.
14:09Here he is.
14:10What is going on?
14:12Is this real?
14:13We have good taste.
14:14Good taste.
14:14That's what it is.
14:15Gav, you want a shot and a beer?
14:16Come on.
14:17You know that's my drink, bro.
14:18It is.
14:19Friends that drink together stay together, all right?
14:21Boy's night.
14:22Yes.
14:23Oh, you guys just rip one?
14:24Rip the shot.
14:25Oh, my goodness.
14:26Drinks on the house tonight, right, Gavin?
14:28Yes, exactly.
14:29My man.
14:29Has Whitney witnessed a boy's night?
14:31Whitney has witnessed too many boy's nights.
14:33That's the problem.
14:34I've had nights, but I've been pretty good.
14:35Cleaning my act up.
14:36Does she get after it?
14:37Whitney has an alter ego named Claire.
14:46How is that going, actually?
14:48She has a really, really, really good friend group in L.A.
14:51She got to have a good one in New York, too.
14:52I know.
14:53It's just difficult when you're trying to introduce your girlfriend and have her welcomed by a group
14:58of girls, and there's one girl that's, like, kind of causing all this drama.
15:02Last time we were here, Lindsey was, like, hammering me.
15:05I'm like, Lindsey, we don't even know each other.
15:07You're coming in hot.
15:08And I was, I was, were you poking the fire?
15:10I was poking.
15:10We had Kenny in, like, a nice situation.
15:12I know Kenny can handle it.
15:13I'm saying it's a big commitment to move across the country for a guy.
15:18This is now a panel.
15:19This is a panel.
15:20This is a panel.
15:21It came across very judgy, and then she was making comments about, like, all men and
15:25this and that.
15:26She just came across the wrong way.
15:27She was projecting or just, like, asking from a good place?
15:29It was either projecting.
15:31No, no, no.
15:31I will say I think she was just trying to be a girl's girl.
15:35You're rubbing me the same way, honestly, that you rubbed me that night, where it was, like,
15:38it was a dog pile.
15:39Lindsey has her little crew, her little minions.
15:43And for some reason, you're, like, standing over there with Lindsey.
15:46I am not happy with the way that went down.
15:48You got to have your boys back.
15:51Gavin is used to Kenny being in a relationship, but he's used to Kenny probably having issues
15:56or being unhappy.
15:57And, you know, Gavin's there for him, like, oh, let's go have a boys' night.
16:00I don't think Gavin's used to Kenny in a relationship happy.
16:03And I think that's, that's what we're, we're dealing with here.
16:06Like, Gavin thinks he's about to lose his boy.
16:09And maybe I'm being overly protective, overly sensitive.
16:12You have every right.
16:13Dude, you love this girl.
16:15Always defend your woman.
16:16Lexi's been great, by the way.
16:18She loves, she loves Lexi.
16:19Lexi's been very, like, she reaches out, she's welcoming, let's grab brunch, let's do this.
16:26How are you feeling?
16:28Moving in together is a big step.
16:30Totally.
16:30I feel like it'll just take some time, but it's like an exciting chapter.
16:35I feel like we're in a really good place.
16:39Oh my God, this is chaotic.
16:40I know, like, this is really crazy.
16:43I've never seen so many fire trucks.
16:45To the chaotic New York life.
16:47Literally welcome to New York.
16:50We're doing a kind of welcome to New York party.
16:54That's nice.
16:54Obviously we're boys, and we spend time together.
16:57And I want her to feel comfortable and welcome in this group.
17:01I mean, listen.
17:02Amanda and I have been going through a lot, and so she's probably...
17:04I've said that.
17:05She's almost been in, like, a no new friends headspace.
17:09You know, I'm team Amanda and Kyle.
17:11I mean, listen.
17:11I'm trying to be receptive and open-minded about the kind of drastic measures that we need to take
17:18to try to figure out if we're meant to be.
17:21There are times where I think Amanda's already given up, and she's just waiting for me to do something stupid
17:25so she can officially end it.
17:27And now she's telling me she wants to move out of the apartment.
17:30Dude.
17:31She keeps talking about, like, this is for a month or two.
17:35Yeah, listen, Kyle, bro.
17:37I think that speaks for itself.
17:39I am team Kyle and Amanda, but I'm also team Kyle and I'm team Amanda, if they're not team Kyle
17:46and Amanda.
17:47You need to take the space and see how that feels, and maybe it feels great for you.
17:54That sucks, let's be honest.
18:09Whoa, that was way too much.
18:12I haven't, like, celebrated someone moving to New York in forever, it feels like.
18:17I know.
18:18My life the last year has been so ultra-serious, and I almost feel like I'm coming out of the
18:24other end.
18:25Now I can have fun.
18:27That's all I'm interested in.
18:28It's called self-love, and you deserve this.
18:30It's time to have fun.
18:33It's not always easy to get a night out on the town like I used to.
18:38Yvonne and I are hospitality girls.
18:40When I was 23, I was running the entire city, opening a club, restaurant, hotel, lounge, bar every single month.
18:47Between the two of us, you really had an all-access pass to the city.
18:51I love Yvonne so much, I just wish that she would remember that I'm a mom now.
18:56Are you going to be around around, like, 11?
18:58No.
18:59Can you come and meet me for a glass of wine?
19:01I have a baby.
19:03She's like, Yvonne, I'm a mom.
19:05Sometimes she says yes, though.
19:07But, like, that's one day when she gets activated.
19:10There is a brand new restaurant opening tonight.
19:13Oh, my God.
19:14So excited for tonight.
19:16I'm actually surprised Kenny invited me.
19:18Andrea was telling me this week, he's like, yeah, Kenny doesn't really like you.
19:22Because you pressured him to propose.
19:24I was like, what?
19:26What are you wearing tonight?
19:27I think I'm going to wear this brown cocktail dress.
19:29That's hot.
19:30I think I'm going to do this linen.
19:32I think I'm going to do the black on black with the t-shirt.
19:35I think you're going to love this space.
19:36It's the Campbell Building up in Grand Central.
19:39I know you don't like to go above 14th Street, but, you know.
19:41For you, I'll go anywhere in Manhattan.
19:44Maybe not Brooklyn.
19:46Maybe it's just, like, here's this party that I'm throwing for you,
19:49so you forget about the lack of closet space that you have in my apartment.
19:53So when's my party?
19:55You're not getting a party.
19:56Do you think we'll ever get to the stage where I don't just have, like, one little closet,
20:00and then your stuff isn't, like, in the living room?
20:03I don't want this out here either, but I have a lot of jackets.
20:07I mean, closet space in New York is hard to come by.
20:10You've been here for about two months, right?
20:11I know.
20:12I feel like I can graduate on to a little bit more space.
20:15I think I've been pretty generous.
20:19Anyway, how are you feeling about tonight?
20:21Because you haven't seen Lindsay since you got turned down by her for your date.
20:25Yeah, turn down is the right word.
20:27Just, like, I guess I'm nervous.
20:29I'm anxious.
20:30There's tons of history there, so, like, you know...
20:33Yeah.
20:33Let's make it a little heavier, but I'll figure it out.
20:49I've never been here.
20:51Hi.
20:52Hello.
20:52Can I get you started with a drink?
20:54I think I'm going to start with an espresso martini.
20:57I think we're around here.
20:58That's what I was going to go with.
20:59Okay.
20:59Done.
21:00Perfect.
21:01Thank you.
21:02Oh, they're here.
21:04Hi.
21:04Hey.
21:05How are we doing?
21:06Good, how are you?
21:07I'm good.
21:08You look beautiful.
21:09Good to see you.
21:10Hi.
21:11Hi, how are you?
21:11Good, how are you?
21:13Good to see you.
21:14How are you?
21:15You look sharp.
21:19My mom's on.
21:20Hi, everyone.
21:21Hi.
21:22Thank you for having us.
21:24Hi.
21:25Hi.
21:25Welcome to New York.
21:26Good to see you.
21:28How are we doing?
21:28Good to see you.
21:29Where's Kyle?
21:30He had to drop something off for work, so I just came up with Katie.
21:34Hi, Kevin.
21:35It's so good to see you.
21:37Too long.
21:38It's been too long.
21:39Too long.
21:39Welcome to New York.
21:40You look beautiful.
21:42How was your anniversary?
21:43We had, like, a really nice time at dinner and...
21:46Okay, good.
21:47But, um, I told Kyle that I'm moving out.
21:56Oh my God, you did.
21:57But then I explained to him, I'm gonna find somewhere, like, temporary.
22:01Like, we're not separating.
22:02We're not calling off the relationship.
22:03Like, we're still gonna see each other, dating.
22:06Like, we're gonna have to make efforts with each other.
22:08Yeah.
22:08I was so nervous to say something to him, but he took it so well.
22:12He did?
22:13Yeah.
22:14Like, something just has to change.
22:16He's like, I don't think it's, like, the worst idea.
22:19Like, it's...
22:23Um...
22:24But, yeah.
22:27Hey!
22:31Flirting versus charming.
22:33Charming.
22:34Where am I at?
22:35Wait.
22:36Returning.
22:39Don't kiss my girl.
22:40Gavin's a little .
22:44Nice to meet you.
22:45How are you?
22:45How are you?
22:47Bye.
22:47Nice to meet you.
22:48I got ready at the office today.
22:50I used a laser hair removal to shave my legs.
22:53I was like, you know what?
22:54I don't have time to go home, so this is what it is.
22:57Yo, how we doing?
22:58How you doing?
22:58How you doing, guys?
22:59I wanted to be rude.
23:00I wanted to say hello to the ladies.
23:02Who is that?
23:03What perfect does I mean?
23:04You know, suave with the hair.
23:06This is my little surprise for Lindsey.
23:09What did he just say?
23:10No!
23:12Frank, come meet the ladies.
23:15This is Lindsey.
23:16Hi, Lindsey.
23:17Nice to meet you.
23:18Nice to meet you.
23:19You guys were at my wedding.
23:21Oh, that's right.
23:22Oh.
23:23If I think two people are amazing and they're single,
23:26I try to get them together.
23:28And Frank remembered Lindsey.
23:30He remembered exactly the dress she was wearing that night.
23:33I thought she was wearing red.
23:35I thought she was wearing green, and Frank knew, and I didn't.
23:38And he's a great-looking guy, and Lindsey's great-looking,
23:41so I think it's a good match.
23:43I can see some steam.
23:44Yeah.
23:45Coming in.
23:47Where are you from originally?
23:48Michigan.
23:49Moved to New York, started a milk and dairy company.
23:53Milk and dairy.
23:54Frank is so hot.
23:56But I don't like to party party.
23:58Do you?
23:58Those days are long gone.
24:00I have a 10-month-old baby.
24:03She's, like, the most perfect baby on Earth.
24:05It's been a while since I've gotten, like, flustered like this.
24:09I'm gonna run to the restroom real quick.
24:11I'll be right back.
24:13I'm, like, sweating a little.
24:14I think Andrea brought this guy to introduce me to,
24:18and I'm drinking an espresso martini,
24:20and eating cheese and meats.
24:22And I'm, like, I need to go to the bathroom
24:25and, like, spray something in my mouth.
24:27Can I see it?
24:30Oh, yeah, you're good.
24:32Hi.
24:36Hello.
24:37Hey.
24:37How are we doing, though?
24:39How are you?
24:41This is a lot.
24:42How are you?
24:42How are you?
24:43Good to see you.
24:43Good to see you, homie.
24:44How are you?
24:44Good.
24:45Good, good.
24:45Thanks for having us.
24:47Absolutely, right?
24:48I want to get a cocktail.
24:49What are you drinking?
24:51Hi, Lynn.
24:51Prosecco.
24:52Prosecco.
24:53Oh, hi.
24:54How are you?
24:55Good.
24:56How are you?
24:57Um, okay, so...
24:59Can you order a drink?
25:01Yeah.
25:01Now I get it.
25:02Now you're fine.
25:03Yeah, I get it.
25:03What is going on right now?
25:05Yeah, tell me what's going on.
25:06Danielle just showed up and gave me a kiss on the cheek to say hi.
25:13What?
25:14Like, what?
25:15She stiffed me for wanting to go out for coffee and a chat.
25:18And now she can't even, like, say two sentences to me.
25:21It just feels like I'm a stranger to her now.
25:24It just sucks.
25:25What is happening around here?
25:26Next time.
25:27There is under the jacket.
25:30She's so .
25:31She looked at me and she was just, like, cold as ice.
25:34It makes me so sad.
25:44This is Jackson's best friend.
25:46As in your dog?
25:47Yeah.
25:47Okay.
25:48Oh, we're homies, bro.
25:49Eddie's got the best hair in New York.
25:51Did we give you a mullet?
25:52He's on his tiptoes.
25:53Well, you set back the mullet, right?
25:55Yeah, I did.
25:56That was an era.
25:57Kyle just keeps walking right past me.
25:59Does he even know that I'm here?
26:00Kyle used to be a little more fun with a mullet.
26:03Now he's, like, you know, growing up being...
26:05Don't tempt me, Nick.
26:06There's a man.
26:07I gotta say hi.
26:09This place is busy.
26:11I know.
26:12Why didn't you say hi to me?
26:13I guess I walked by you.
26:15I heard your voice right behind me.
26:17I said, oh, Kyle's here.
26:19I walked in.
26:19I could feel the vibrations in my chest of you talking.
26:22I said, Mike, I think Kyle's here.
26:24You know, Amanda, she's moving out, but we're not separated.
26:27We're just creating separation.
26:29But it's confusing.
26:30This is foreign territory.
26:32I don't know how I'm supposed to act.
26:35Did you feed the dogs?
26:37Yeah.
26:37Did you take them out?
26:38No.
26:40It's still hard to believe this is happening.
26:45Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
26:48I wanted to give a toast to Whitney.
26:50We're all here as, you know, her welcome to New York.
26:53She is the best person that I know and the best person in my life.
26:57And I'm so excited to be dragging her across the country to New York.
27:02On the subway.
27:03We took the subway today for the first time.
27:07She's an amazing woman.
27:08She's an amazing woman.
27:08Go Whitney.
27:10Go Whitney.
27:12Go Whitney.
27:13Love you.
27:13Love you.
27:13Love you.
27:15Love you.
27:29We're a short shirt.
27:30Shorts, green shirt, green jacket, green hat.
27:31That's right.
27:32That's adorable.
27:33I love that.
27:34It's a lot of laundry.
27:35You want a drink?
27:37Yeah.
27:38Did you and Lindsay get the lace memo?
27:41No.
27:42This is fine.
27:42Make a line.
27:44We don't talk.
27:45So how would we?
27:46Can I steal you for a minute?
27:47Yeah, 100%.
27:48Fill me in on the tidbits.
27:50I've got a bone to pick as well.
27:52I was joking.
27:53Because in an alternative universe, you and Lindsay would have coordinated a little lace.
27:58I didn't mean to be insensitive.
28:01How are you?
28:03Good to see you.
28:05I'm trying to broker a common ground.
28:09We're too close-knit for there to be awkwardness.
28:13Clearly not.
28:13Just confront her now and squash it.
28:15You own it.
28:16She owns it.
28:17She literally texted me that summer and she said, you said something punchy.
28:21But Beach was harsh.
28:23I mean, we don't even live together.
28:24You don't live together?
28:26No.
28:26You don't live with this man?
28:28No.
28:29And he has put a baby inside you?
28:30Yeah.
28:31And now she has all sorts of opinions about how you've carried yourself.
28:36Like Lindsay, I don't want to say the word slut, but she has opinions on your behavior.
28:44Before Carl and I get engaged, she gave him a hand job in the back of an Uber a week
28:49after we broke up.
28:51The word boy crazy has come up.
28:55Are you kidding me?
28:57What's that?
28:58Are you out of your mind bringing this to me?
29:01Don't freaking shoot the messenger.
29:02Yeah.
29:04Now all of a sudden that I'm in a serious relationship, you have this laundry list of issues with me
29:11about guys that I've dated.
29:14I mean, to call me boy crazy.
29:16Like, I wouldn't be pointing in this direction.
29:21Like, girl.
29:22What do you think was going to come from that, Kyle?
29:24There's no chance I'm going to go over and be like, hey, can we have a conversation?
29:27I'm so sorry about everything.
29:29No, thanks.
29:31How's my skin?
29:33Excellent.
29:33You're tan, which means you're out in the sun without sunscreen.
29:36But I'll let it pass.
29:37Yeah, it looks great for 45.
29:39So you're good.
29:40Really?
29:40It's 99% genetic, honestly.
29:42My job is the 1%.
29:44Okay.
29:44Okay.
29:45Can we talk?
29:46Can we talk?
29:48Yeah.
29:49First of all, lovely party.
29:51Lovely speech.
29:52Thank you for coming.
29:54Well, thank you for inviting me.
29:56Um, I did hear like you felt grilled by me at the Garrett, right?
30:02That's correct.
30:02Felt like you weren't grilling me, interrogating me.
30:07Was it just me?
30:08You were recruiting people.
30:10I was just recruiting.
30:14I'm not asking you questions because that's how you get to know somebody.
30:16This is who I am.
30:17Like I just, and I question everyone in my life.
30:20I'm a very curious person and I want to get to know everyone's interpersonal relationship.
30:25I wish it felt genuine like that.
30:28Do you think that that line of questioning was normal and that everyone's
30:34It's normal in my life with all of my friends.
30:36Was normal, isn't it?
30:37Well, I love that for you and your friends because it seems like you have a lot of disagreements
30:40with a lot of people.
30:41It's just like drama, drama, drama.
30:43And it feels like it's just you're creating these narratives that just are like unnecessary.
30:48No, I call out facts and facts and I'm sorry that you don't like to hear the truth.
30:51You're grilling me about moving a girl across the country after knowing her for a year.
30:55You had a kid with a guy after two months.
30:58Right?
30:59So what's the problem about that?
31:00The problem is don't project your insecurities on my relationship.
31:03I'm not.
31:04It feels like you are.
31:27You're telling me that you and your personal life and the fact that you had this relationship
31:35with this guy and you have a child has nothing to do with the fact that you are grilling me
31:40on my commitment level.
31:42It sounds like you're judging me.
31:43No.
31:43I just don't need to be pressed on my commitment level.
31:45You're on your commitment level.
31:46Kenny acts like he knows who I am and he doesn't know , but I know narcissistic men and that's
31:53what he's giving right now.
31:55So, Whitney, good luck.
31:58You just asked me about bringing someone across the country without a ring.
32:01I'm like...
32:01No, I didn't.
32:02What I said was, and maybe you're not remembering.
32:05Wow, she moved across the country for you without you putting a ring on her finger?
32:10That shows commitment.
32:12That shows...
32:13No, it's not.
32:14I have multiple girlfriends that would never do that without a ring on their finger.
32:18That's a you thing.
32:19Oh, they're still going.
32:21I don't really want to step in because...
32:23I know.
32:23I feel like you were like it's other people's problems online.
32:27I obviously want to like stand up for my relationship and that's why I stepped into that conversation at the
32:31garret.
32:32But I don't think she's questioning your relationship.
32:34I think she wants the best for you and I think she's trying to protect you.
32:38Why is she trying to protect me?
32:40Like when we know what we're doing.
32:42Yeah.
32:43And that's like our...
32:44She's just like Mama Van.
32:47Yeah.
32:47Just her personality.
32:49I just think you have drama that follows you around everywhere you go.
32:52Like I don't have time for drama.
32:54I don't care for that.
32:56You're in the middle of a fight with me in the middle of Whitney's Welcome to New York party.
33:00Is that dramatic?
33:04You're the one fighting with me.
33:06Okay.
33:09Thank you for inviting me.
33:11I'm glad you came.
33:25Two bedroom.
33:26That was my...
33:27This is nice.
33:28Highly requested.
33:30Primary is this one.
33:31Okay, perfect.
33:32That's where you're going to be spending all your time.
33:34Potentially.
33:35You got a great soaking tub.
33:38Oh my God.
33:40No, it's a pool.
33:41Wait, this is a hot tub.
33:42I'm bringing Gemma to bathe in your tub.
33:45Oh, Gemma wants bath time.
33:47No, she didn't splash around.
33:49I'm trying to find somewhere that's like furnished, month to month, outdoor space, pet friendly,
33:55with a doorman and has sunlight.
33:58Good size primary.
33:59Yeah.
34:00And good lighting.
34:01My bedroom right now faces like a brick wall.
34:04So it's a dungeon.
34:07I want to wake up with the sun beating on my face where I leave my house in the morning
34:12and I have sunburned.
34:13All right.
34:14And then there's the second bedroom.
34:15Oh my God.
34:16Also gets really great light.
34:18You get a little bit of a water view here too.
34:20Beautiful.
34:20Yeah.
34:20This gets really nice light.
34:22More closets.
34:23More closets.
34:24This would be my closet.
34:25Like a closet office situation.
34:29I've never lived by myself before.
34:30The last apartment I looked for before moving in with Kyle, our budget was like next to nothing.
34:36We were looking for like a two closet apartment, you know, not even a two bedroom.
34:40Just like give us two closets.
34:42Oh, look at all the wine.
34:43Is the wine available for grabs?
34:46That's the selling point for me.
34:48I'll let you guys chat.
34:50Okay, thank you so much.
34:52All right.
34:52Have a good one.
34:53Thank you so much.
34:54I mean, it's a cool view.
34:56It's really nice.
34:57Have you talked to your parents at all about any of this?
35:00Not yet.
35:01Oh.
35:03I don't want to make them worried.
35:06I get it.
35:07Especially at this point right now.
35:09And like we're really on that brink of like, will they, won't they?
35:12I hate change so much.
35:15When I was younger, I handcuffed myself to our cast iron railings in our house because my parents wanted to
35:23get beautiful new solid wooden ones.
35:26And I did not want them to change them.
35:27But at this point, whatever I'm doing has not been enough.
35:33And I need to make a bigger change.
35:35That's scary.
35:36I just want to be happy.
35:37I just want to be with someone that like adores me.
35:39He needs to just like understand that you're going to lose her if you don't get it together.
35:47All right, Ryder.
35:48I heard you ate bread out of this trash bag.
35:51I know.
35:52You're like, if it's this low, it's fair game.
35:54Not anymore.
35:57All right.
36:00Hey.
36:02Kyle Cook.
36:03I love when you use my first and last name.
36:07Well, fancy hearing from you in the middle of a work day.
36:10I know, I know.
36:11How are you?
36:12How is surgery?
36:13How's recovery?
36:14You know, I'm doing well.
36:16And dad got precancerous melanoma and he's having that dugout tomorrow.
36:21What the ?
36:22We're looking to 2026 to be a big comeback year.
36:27All right.
36:28Same.
36:29Same for you?
36:30Oh, yeah.
36:31Yeah.
36:31This was a rough one.
36:33I've been open to you guys about the business front and, you know, some of the challenges a man and
36:38I have had.
36:38We had a pretty rough summer.
36:41I told you bits and pieces of that.
36:43Yeah.
36:44And we've kind of been in this place before where even if we have a good summer, it quickly slips
36:50into us living kind of two different lives.
36:54Like, we don't do anything together.
36:56I mean, like, I'm like, pickleball, kickball, traveling.
37:00Like, oh, tell me what you want to do.
37:02She wants to go shopping.
37:04You know?
37:04You're going to marry me.
37:07That's just weird, Moth.
37:09Um, Amanda and I were like, all right, what are we, what are we going to do differently?
37:13And I, and her idea was some separation.
37:18Well, not like we are separated, but like, I think she needs a fresh, clean start.
37:23And I need to feel like, you know, I can walk into my home and not feel like it's as
37:28cluttered and stressful as the rest of my life.
37:31She was in the mindset, like, all right, maybe we need, like, a month apart.
37:35Oh, gee.
37:36She was trying to find an apartment.
37:38Um.
37:40Ooh.
37:40This is big.
37:43Well, we know you've been unhappy, you guys, for quite a while.
37:51And, uh, you know, I know you also have love for each other, so it's, you know, I feel so
37:57sad.
38:01Um.
38:02I just feel guilty because in, in, in the heat of the moment, she'll yell at me and tell me
38:08I've wasted 10 years of her life.
38:10And, like, I don't really.
38:17It's just like, I've tried to make it work.
38:20But that's, yeah, that's not a good thing to hear.
38:25You know, but think of dad.
38:27He was in a 10-year marriage.
38:29He knows what feeling stuck feels like.
38:33They had two kids, so it was really hard to leave.
38:37But he did.
38:38And it gave me a chance to, you know, find him.
38:51And this isn't like the end, but it, it does feel like a huge, drastic move.
38:58I know.
38:59Like, um, it's just, it, it's been a tough year.
39:06I feel sad for you both.
39:11I want to be with you.
39:14You have the keys to my heart.
39:17It's about time you get the keys to my apartment.
39:21You're coming out and supporting Loverboy means the world to us.
39:26Will you marry me?
39:28Yes.
39:28So Kyle thinks he may or may not have COVID.
39:32No.
39:33We can't catch a break with this wedding.
39:38We can make it through this.
39:39I feel like we can make it through anything.
39:41You never gave up on us, on our love, and I promise to do the same.
39:46I can't wait to spend a lifetime loving you.
39:53There was a period of time we were building a life together, building business together.
39:59Yeah, I just never thought I'd be sitting here alone.
40:05No, I just feel like a failure.
40:09You know, I, I think you can't, you can't look at yourself as a failure.
40:14The key thing is, sweetie, we want you happy.
40:24Next time on In The City.
40:26Look at us.
40:27This makes me so happy right now.
40:29Guys gotta eventually just like chill out, all right?
40:32Wes has been fighting for this his whole life.
40:34So you're a master in the streets, but how are you in the sheets?
40:37Yeah.
40:39That was a joke, by the way.
40:41So I finally found a place. It is a year-long lease.
40:46Kenny told me, sometimes I worry if you don't have that spark.
40:49You've moved your whole life here for him.
40:52And like, I will move it right back out.
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