00:00Let me share with you four signs that you haven't grown up yet.
00:02Number one is you never take responsibility.
00:04You always blame someone else.
00:06You complain, make excuses, and look for those to point fingers at.
00:11You never stop and ask, what can I do to solve this?
00:14Or what is a solution I can take advantage of to solve this problem?
00:18Instead, you only look for who's at fault and you blame them.
00:21And somehow, you always think it's never you.
00:24Number two, you think every form of feedback is an attack.
00:27When someone gives you advice or tells you how to improve, you feel judged.
00:31You get defensive.
00:32You argue.
00:33You protect your bad habits instead of listening and considering the fact that maybe there's
00:37room for improvement.
00:38But most times, people warn you because they can see you heading down the wrong direction.
00:43But you never listen to them because to you, any form of feedback feels like an attack.
00:47That is a sign that you haven't grown.
00:49Number three is you believe you're always right.
00:51You're not curious to learn about other people's points of view.
00:53You want everyone to see things your way and you can't imagine that you might be wrong.
00:59That's another sign that you have not grown.
01:01And then number four is you react based on how you feel.
01:04If you're angry, you explode.
01:05If you're sad, you disappear.
01:07You just act without thinking as if every emotion deserves a reaction.
01:11You forget that feelings come and go.
01:13And many times, the best reaction is none.
01:16Just let them pass so the logic can come in and you can figure out what to do next.
01:20If you have these four traits, there's work to be done.
01:24There are signs that you're still acting like a child and you're not yet mature and you need
01:28to go and work on them.
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