00:00So I got divorced whenever I was 20 and that's whenever I started dating my second husband who
00:05ended up being incredibly psychologically and emotional. He had an affair with his co-worker
00:13but I had no idea until 17 years of marriage that he was attracted to all ages. He had his
00:22affair.
00:23We were separated for two months. He comes back, took him back and during that time he told me
00:29that we could start working on the marriage by playing with fantasies. He was trying to tell
00:34me that if I was with other men it would empower me, it would make me feel beautiful. He started
00:39posting things of me online. He told me he wanted me to be a co-worker and then afterwards he
00:44was
00:45really mean to me. Once I realized his attraction and took my kids, like whenever I left him I used
00:51a women's shelter to leave him. I started sharing my healing journey because I felt like it was
00:56important for people to recognize the invisible of the coercion and grooming. Sharing my story
01:04has helped me to really change how I feel about myself. So ultimately I would just say trust you,
01:12listen to your body, integrate your shadows, your mind, body, and soul.
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