00:00Three Calls Ended All is all about your advice to someone who needs it from the Andy Summer Show.
00:06And our letter this morning comes from Lance.
00:09He didn't actually write us a letter, but he did send us a DM on Facebook.
00:14He says, I'm not big into the rumor mill and gossip, but I've been hearing some things concerning my girlfriend
00:20and a friend that have riled me up.
00:23Already, this sounds bad, right?
00:25Yep, drama.
00:26Lance writes, over the weekend, we were at a party having a good time.
00:29And at one point, I guess I went to get her a drink, go to the bathroom or something.
00:33But some other friends overheard this guy, who I thought was cool, chatting up my girl, saying things like, you
00:41should take my number in case things don't work out.
00:44He said, so I asked her about it.
00:46And she laughed and said it was nothing and that he was just drunk.
00:50And I'm not feeling that.
00:52I feel like I should confront the guy.
00:54It's not that I don't trust her.
00:56It's more that he's really disrespectful.
00:58So do I pull him aside and or just let it go?
01:02Either way, I don't think that we should be hanging out anymore after this.
01:07Well, having known Donnie for this many years, Donnie, what are you doing?
01:12Well, I would never do that.
01:14I would never go up to a dude's girl like that.
01:17But this has happened to me where somebody came up to my girlfriend and started to say negative things about
01:24me because he liked her.
01:26And I immediately confronted him and was like, dude, what's your problem?
01:30Because the only reason I did that, I wasn't trying to be like big tough guy.
01:36I was also trying to make it known that I have her back and that like that's not cool in
01:43general.
01:44And I want my girlfriend to know that like I'm sticking up for you.
01:47I have this like and I don't think that's proper.
01:51Right.
01:51And it's kind of like a sign to other guys.
01:53Like, come on, man.
01:55Like, don't.
01:55Here's the conundrum in that.
01:57Like, I see where your heart is.
01:59Yeah.
01:59But it also, from a female perspective, can feel like you're defending your property.
02:05Right.
02:06Like, who are you?
02:08Like, if some guy came up to me and was hitting on me, even though I was with someone else,
02:11I would be flattered and I would probably behave just the way that she did.
02:15Like, oh, he was just drunk.
02:16Yeah.
02:16I'm not taking his number.
02:18I'm not calling him.
02:19Like, you're fine.
02:20Just move on.
02:21Totally not cool for this other guy to hit on a girl who's there with a different guy.
02:28But at the same time, like, she didn't do anything.
02:31She didn't follow through.
02:33So just let it go.
02:35Yeah.
02:35Because it's not your battle to fight.
02:37I get what you're saying, Andy, about that.
02:38And I feel like sometimes, because I've been on both sides of this, right?
02:42Sometimes in saying something, you're doing it to defend your manhood as well.
02:46Like, I need to be a man in front of this man.
02:49I ran into, with Emily, while we were dating, one of her ex-boyfriends at a bar.
02:54And he was being a jerk, talking to her.
02:57We were kind of in a group of, like, five or six people.
02:59But he's, like, very focused on talking to her.
03:02And, you know, she introduces me.
03:04He doesn't even look me in the eye, right?
03:06And keeps talking to her and whatever.
03:08And then kind of shoulder bumps me on his way out.
03:11Okay.
03:12And then I realized in that very moment, he's just jealous.
03:16Yeah.
03:16Because I'm married to the most beautiful woman in the world now, but dating the most beautiful
03:20woman in the world.
03:21What is making a scene at a bar?
03:23And knowing my wife, too.
03:24I don't pretend to know Lance's girlfriend.
03:26She hates confrontation.
03:28Right.
03:28She's like, do not get involved.
03:29Like, let them be the jerk.
03:31Let them be the guy talking to him.
03:32Like, I don't need that scene surrounding me.
03:35Okay, so you're saying don't say anything.
03:36I wouldn't say anything.
03:37Yeah.
03:38I haven't said anything, and I wouldn't.
03:39I think that is innocent.
03:40He was drunk.
03:41She's playing it off.
03:42You should follow her lead.
03:44Okay.
03:45Well, you know, we all have our own opinions.
03:46But what is it that you think?
03:49Yeah.
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