00:00A devastating letter from work left this husband panicking about his future.
00:04He was sweating, obviously, thinking he lost his job,
00:07and I was sweating watching his reaction.
00:11What the heck?
00:12Until he reached the very last sentence.
00:16This was our fourth pregnancy, and with our first three, I did not surprise him.
00:21He made it a point to tell me that he wanted to be surprised.
00:25The next time, I knew I had to get very creative,
00:28because how do you surprise someone?
00:30Who is kind of waiting on a yes or no?
00:33I accidentally became fluent in some corporate jargon
00:36and realized that I felt like I had what it took to fake a letter from his work.
00:41I didn't want him to open it up and immediately, no.
00:44I wanted it to take a little bit of time and fool him a little bit.
00:49We picked up the mail on the way to our anniversary lunch.
00:53I handed it to him, and very quickly in the parking lot of the restaurant,
00:57he opened it up, and we're in a rush, so he skims it very fast.
01:01What the heck?
01:03To the point where he can't fully understand.
01:05Um, let me take a picture of this.
01:09We got to get in there.
01:11What do you do?
01:12Uh, it's weird.
01:16Just tell me.
01:17This is the year leading the company.
01:19You won 2026.
01:20He wasn't picking up on those hints that, you know, I thought were obvious.
01:25Your time and attention will soon be overstretched.
01:29I, I, I need to reread it.
01:31I need to reread it on this.
01:32I know.
01:32I don't know why she sent that to me.
01:34Okay.
01:34That's weird.
01:35As we waited for them to take us to our table is where he fully read it,
01:39and I had to even nudge him along even then.
01:41The human resources team and myself will assist you during this transition over the next nine
01:47months.
01:47With your official departure slated for Q1 of 2026, your time and attention will soon be
01:53overstretched as a father of four, and we wish you the very best in this exciting new
01:57chapter.
01:58I talk to her pretty regularly.
02:00Okay.
02:03Also, it's this father of four.
02:05I've never once said I've had four kids.
02:09I had to step in.
02:10Do you think in Q1 of 2026, you might be a father of four?
02:22Wait, you made this up?
02:24You did it?
02:25What?
02:26Oh my gosh.
02:28Are you recording me?
02:33All the defenses came down and there, it was just laughter from there on out.
02:37Oh my gosh.
02:38I just can't do this.
02:40It immediately became a core memory for us.
02:43In fact, now that same restaurant has kind of become where we have special moments.
02:48So we went back there for the gender reveal.
02:50He's here now a month old.
02:52It is a crazy time already with four boys under six.
02:58We kind of lean into the chaos and we just don't take life too seriously.
03:01It's a good time over here.
03:03It's a good time over here.
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