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Virgin Island (2025) Season 2 Episode 2
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00:04I'm nervous I'm gonna take it one step at a time I'm absolutely petrified 12 virgins are
00:12traveling to a unique island retreat that could change their lives forever this has made me the
00:19strangest day of my life being a virgin at the age of 22 feels very lonely I've just sort of
00:26given up all hope in a world saturated with sex more young adults than ever are caught in an
00:33intimacy epidemic the thought of having sex with someone scares me it gives me the ick I don't feel
00:39confident I'm missing out terrified of the thought of it nerve-wracking gut-wrenching embarrassing
00:45all I think about is what I'm gonna get wrong can you point to the outer labia nope
00:55now they're getting a crash course in intimacy social media porn dating apps there are so many
01:03negative messages and we can help them blossom use it by stimulating the area guided by a team of
01:10experts you see yourself as propulsive they'll confront their insecurities I'm hiding how upset
01:17actually feel exploring intimacy in every form yes and maybe have sex with a trained therapist
01:31desperate times call for desperate measures or even one another why are you nervous around me I don't
01:38know it's so good I really do need to change my life the question is get a room guys who
01:47will
01:47finally be ready just like get a bit anxious to go all the way on virgin island
02:02in the first phase of the course shame really interrupts pleasure the group confronted their shame
02:10well I got it now you have excellent Bertie made small steps forward what do you think but witnessing
02:18intimacy stared up joy's feelings of religious shame I literally thought that God cursed me with
02:24vaginismus to stop me from having sex and Alex revealed the extent of his anxiety any for your
02:31thoughts the main overriding thing is still that worry of not getting an erection the phase ended for me
02:38shame is feeling ugly sorry with the group letting their shame go up in flames now things are set to
02:53escalate imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina with the second phase of the cause good tenons in
03:01society a lot of people feel ashamed to talk about sex it can be very embarrassing take a moment to
03:08look at
03:08your father but to have a really fulfilling sex life you have to know what turns you on
03:21good morning morning morning it's the morning of day three on virgin island oh here we go then
03:31and time for the group to discover what's in store over the next two days the next phase is turn
03:38-ons I think
03:39turn-ons might involve a lot of dirty talk it is quite a step up from hugging and stroking people's
03:45arms talking about like what turns you on is a private thing but I guess nothing is private on this
03:51island
03:54I'm feeling nervous and tense over this it's gonna be a very big challenge turn-ons guys your aims to
04:05find
04:05everyone's turn-ons thing is I know all my turn-ons but talking about it feels quite daunting if one
04:14of
04:15the guys get to vote are like they're gonna be like we're so proud of you I'm very nervous it
04:21just
04:22all feels like something I'm not allowed to think about like oh my gosh no no no no no you
04:31ready to
04:32know your turn-on house the group may be sexual beginners but Celeste and Danielle want them to
04:44imagine their experts and embrace their turn-ons people get really confused they're like what turns
04:54me on is it positions or do I need to buy a new toy but what really turns us on
05:00is the feeling that we
05:02get during sex we call this our core desires this is the cornerstone of the whole course everyone
05:09should know their core desires if you want to have an amazing sex life find out what you want to
05:14feel
05:14during sex and tell your partners for me in sex it's all about feeling very special I want to feel
05:22powerful I want to feel like they're lucky to have me and for me I really like to feel like
05:30I'm the queen
05:30people have many different feelings that they want to have during sex and all of them are beautiful we
05:36don't shame any of them so you can just lie down relax to get them in the mood Danielle begins
05:45with a
05:46visualization exercise wanted to start thinking about a fantasy that you might be having it can be
05:55something that you saw in a movie or some erotics that you read and then start noticing what is the
06:05feeling that you want to feel in that moment you might want to feel loved or precious might want to
06:16feel
06:19masterful desired whenever you're ready come back sit at the edge of your mat with their core desires in
06:31mind thank you the experts want the group to write them down on a stone and share with each other
06:39okay just play knots and crosses
06:55okay so who feel like they're ready to come up
07:01great wonderful for joy her desires have always been complicated when I was in year seven and eight
07:09I thought it wasn't okay to be gay um I spoke to a church pastor when he started going on
07:16a rant
07:17about gay people being really sexual and slutty and promiscuous and I realized myself that I was bisexual
07:26but sex with a woman is like an undiscovered landscape I do feel a bit guilty for wanting to explore
07:35so I put uh cherished um revered uh lost in the moment free and ultimately ravished
07:51as others step up some themes emerge for me I think the most important thing is to feel wanted
07:58feeling wanted I put wanted I've mainly put wanted and appreciated are common desires I want to feel
08:06loved loved everyone wants to feel loved I've only got pampered online special praised and then we feel
08:13like nice and safe space while some want to be dominated I want to feel on edge and teased
08:18dominated I feel like a little bit of a perv telling you this but yeah we love pervs we love
08:24pervs
08:27so far only 24 year old Bertie hasn't stepped up
08:34I do a lot of volunteering work in charity fundraising events
08:39I'm the one to try and get a lot of rich people to give money for charity we disappointed in
08:45it but
08:45but when it comes to discussing you know sexual things I don't see myself as a confident player
08:54I think turn-ons especially from the more sexual aspect should not be shared in front of everybody
09:03it should be kept as a secret between you and your partner which is why I wrote I have turn
09:10-ons but
09:10I'm not sharing them in front of everyone it should only be a secret between you and your partner
09:30how are we all feeling I really liked it yeah I was just like oh wow this feels a bit
09:36different felt something in my nipples like as well you know what I mean oh yeah
09:40like it felt the turn-ons exercise may have worked for some when I go home if I'm ever in
09:48a relationship with someone I'm just going to put it by their bedside table
09:52turn on
09:56but Bertie is just not feeling it
09:58I was the only person in the group to not do it I didn't want to like say things in
10:03front of everybody you know
10:04I do kind of feel like I've been like the odd one out in the group now I feel like
10:09I've just taken a bit of a setback after that
10:12it certainly wasn't the most enjoyable workshop put it that way I felt a bit of uncomfortableness
10:20like everywhere really
10:24to help the group discover their turn-ons
10:27who's got the one-to-ones today mate they'll all have one-on-ones you've got a little a little
10:33okay
10:34which one's a little she's a sexological body worker island vibes thank you no no
10:40starting with Alex who has struggled to get turned on under the pressure of intimacy
10:46sex has been a sense of anxiety for me growing up my dad was quite emotionally repressed himself
10:53we had sex education in school at year five and I talked to my dad about it and he said
10:58oh that's
10:59rude don't talk about that I then became so embarrassed to talk or think about sex whenever
11:06sex or relationships or anything came on TV I used to leave the room it's estimated that half of modern
11:16men have experienced performance anxiety to help Alex sexological body worker a little plans to get
11:24physical I want to work with him on receiving touch for me and recognizing when that performance anxiety
11:30kicks in and letting me know what he needs in order to bring arousal up so hopefully the erections will
11:37come when he has a lot of pleasure and so the idea of today is for us to do full
11:48body pleasure
11:49mapping you're gonna be guiding the whole thing whenever you feel yourself starting to worry about
11:56performance you can just say like can we slow down so take your clothes off I think I'd like to
12:06keep my
12:06boxes on yeah okay pleasure mapping is an exercise where a little touches Alex all over his body so we
12:14can
12:14start laying down including his genitals so Alex can lie back and concentrate on pleasure
12:22it's just attached it that feels nice yeah I've had three people that I would describe as as a girlfriend
12:33but I never had sex with anyone the first time I tried I had a panic attack I was so
12:39nervous I
12:39couldn't get an erection and I then convinced myself that sex is something I guess scary or
12:47or nerve-wracking it's constantly playing on my mind is this the right speed yeah that's great
12:57very erotic so touching close to your underwear line it's almost like teasing you yeah all right
13:07what are you noticing getting more turned on really getting like excited mm-hmm it felt really nice when
13:16you're brushing past my genitals would you like me to do that yeah yeah and I love when you move
13:24like that it's kind of really lets me know that you're enjoying yourself
13:39all right amazing amazing amazing amazing I'm gonna take my hand off very slowly
13:51so did you feel me fully aroused yeah could you feel useful yeah yeah amazing have you ever felt a
14:03rose like that with someone not like that not to the point where I'm like moving my hips and feeling
14:08tingly you are very very erect yeah you did so good thank you so much I don't think I've ever
14:17felt
14:17that sort of level of eroticism before she's just has such a calming presence so yeah feeling really
14:23good and sort of inspires confidence going forward hey guys how did your one-on-one go good it went
14:33into
14:34genital touching and yeah that that felt really good it was really windy last night yeah like for a
14:52while I think like my tent was gonna blow away oh my god do a Dorothy go to the yellow
14:56brick road
14:57Celeste and Danielle I've turned into a tin man and a scarecrow I'd probably be the lion because I'm the
15:03cowardly one it's the afternoon on Virgin Island yeah as the one-on-one sessions continue good you seem
15:17more open to me baby steps the turn-on phase of the course is gathering pace may I direct you
15:25in
15:26touching my breasts yeah yes and a little more pressure okay and the group continues to open up to
15:36each other when I was at school all the boys I would walk past and be that all your all
15:42lesbians
15:42because you go to an all-girls school when I was like 12 I remember thinking oh my gosh why
15:48has God
15:48given me so many gay friends I now have to convert all of them took me a couple years to
15:52realize that I
15:53was in fact one of them years of sexual anxiety have taken a physical toll on joy I have vaginismus
16:03this physical and psychological problem it causes pain if I can't insert a finger into my vagina you
16:10know how can I physically have sex with guidance from a lil she'll learn how to relax her body around
16:16touch we can actually practice towards penetration in a very slow process creating an alignment between
16:25what the head wants to do and what the body actually feels comfortable with I love you the far
16:36so our attention for today's if you feel comfortable we can explore the opening of your vagina sometimes
16:43that's been hard because it all like closed yeah maybe we can see it today I want you to just
16:52start
16:53by maybe putting your hands on your valva would you like to have a look where you're touching a little
17:01encourages joy to explore her body oh my gosh it's so we can you see and in doing so change
17:07the way she
17:08feels about it take a moment to look at your valva and connect to her she's beautiful it's weird because
17:17I feel like she looks ugly when I was 12 I had this realization that I had been masturbating I
17:25went to
17:25Christian camp and there was this call to come to the front for prayer for sexual sin I felt convicted
17:32like oh my gosh they're speaking about me I've I've sinned and I told my youth pastor and then she
17:40staged an
17:40intervention yeah it stuck with me it's been it's been hard to get that out of my head and now
17:46I want
17:47to be free to explore a sexual side to myself I want to enjoy my life and accept myself so
17:55what part are you
17:56curious about I think I want to just touch the outer labia what I can do like that you can
18:05like bring a
18:06little bit of vibration that's quite nice bit arousing yeah yeah do you want to try it with oil yeah
18:17put it all over your vulva
18:22it does feel totally different yeah can you see okay yeah you can see a tiny dot there yeah so
18:29that's
18:30your that's your clit oh that's so interesting the clit is like a miniature penis you will feel there's
18:35like a shaft see if you can feel the shaft okay sexological bodywork includes one-way touch can I
18:45yeah yeah yeah oh allowing a little with consent to help joy discover pleasure so how does it feel
18:55it feels really good I can feel arousal that's new awesome thank you very much for giving me this
19:10experience it's such a precious feeling it feels really special it's like it's like she's safe she's
19:20she's good you got her yeah and I know what she looks like now as well I was your thing
19:36um it was
19:39really good yeah it's really good she was like you need to focus on what feels good for you I
19:44think
19:45it's just like really I'm allowed I feel really good I feel really good yeah I just keep learning
19:52all these things about myself so proud to really connect with my body and so pleased that I felt
19:57like we just had this breakthrough joy has let forward but not everyone is riding high Bertie would
20:06you like to join us slash would you like a blanket um go on then what go on yet then
20:12to the blanket or go
20:13on then to joining us I'll see what I'll see I'll see how you feel yeah I think it's quite
20:17a chill
20:17convert yeah I'll see what I can do lovely to talk to you nice to talk to you I can
20:23socialize
20:23don't worry I know you can I'm just inviting you to I'll see
20:41here the clipboards it's late afternoon this questionnaire is multiple choice please choose all that apply
20:50to help the group explore the type of person that turns them on I've got boobs the experts have
20:57handed out a list of questions body hair I like my girls in a full beard mate face shape I've
21:06never
21:06thought about this I don't think the color of hair or the color of eyes matter as long as the
21:19hair looks
21:20presentable great hygiene yeah I'm clean hands clean nails and they've got to have I'm gonna put banter
21:31you know you put a banter for Marianne the questionnaire proves revealing ideal first date setting I just
21:42want to go hiking and then have a picnic somewhere but then I don't really necessarily want to be alone
21:47with a guy hiking on the first date yeah it depends on how safe I feel you know a lot
21:54goes on in my head
21:56all the time because I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was about four and there's just a lot of
22:01emotions
22:02like I'm never not thinking about safety like when people do one night stands in my head I might XYZ
22:07could
22:08go wrong how are you going to an unknown place with this my brain goes sort of into overdrive I
22:14don't trust
22:15men all right we're done dusted high five oh yeah I know it is me but I don't know how
22:24to move forward
22:28Marianne is very much in her head she's trying to manage her boundaries so she won't get hurt
22:38and in that way she's holding herself back from fully experiencing life good to see you Danielle
22:47wants to try and help Marianne confront her barriers what do you want for yourself in the retreat when it
22:54comes to sort of entity I always just have I'm just my first thought is just safety so a lot
23:00of what
23:01you're trying to do now is really like keep yourself in check if like it just feels like
23:10I'm all alone and I have to put up a guard I'm just saying sort of no to everything and
23:14I think
23:15my yourself feels quite sad that I'm still stuck with that feeling
23:28I feel like I had a lot of issues growing up in South Africa in school I was one of
23:33three mixed-race
23:34girls and we didn't really know how to fit in because we weren't like black enough for the black guys
23:39white
23:41I get viewed as this exotic thing sweetheart so keep it with my hand on my hair it has been
23:50sort
23:50of like a competition of guys they would never be in a relationship with us but they just want to
23:54like get our clothes off and so it's really really hard for me it's like trust men I just feel
24:03yeah but I'm missing out on things and I can't divert differentiate like what's actual fear and
24:08what's just like protection yeah can I please have a hug oh I would love to
24:20Marianne needs to learn to trust that men don't necessarily wanna take advantage of her
24:27and working with a man to deal with all those issues that's her biggest challenge on the island
24:42thank you so much my pleasure
24:47I knew I was gonna be emotional but everything sort of hit me
24:58it was nice to have this session because like I can just think more clearly about what's to come
25:05but that's quite daunting
25:21morning
25:22morning
25:25another day begins on virgin island
25:28oh got hot dog down my boot
25:32that'd be a treat for someone later
25:35and it's the turn-ons phase of the course
25:40this phase is pretty intimidating
25:43i always thought myself as dead playful dead flirty but i started being really sheltered
25:49so i do feel like i've got a lot to learn
25:54i personally feel a bit deflated
25:57a bit dejected i'm lacking behind i know it's a marathon and not a sprint
26:02but some people are running
26:05i'm trudging
26:08the phase is exposing deep-seated fears
26:14when it comes to younger people around intimacy and touch there's just a lot more self-consciousness
26:20a lot of people are afraid you know oh maybe i'm gonna get cancelled or cross a boundary
26:25nowadays there is a lot of risk in saying the wrong thing like if i make a weird stupid mistake
26:30talking to a girl that's that's done in it i don't want to do something wrong i don't want to
26:35do
26:35things too fast or too slow if i do come across as a creep in any way shape or form
26:40i don't mean to
26:42i'm so scared of the thought of that happening what do you think we're going to do i have no
26:47idea
26:49having already worked on discovering their turn-ons oh this is so scary
26:55celeste and danielle now want the group to feel it in their bodies
26:59this is a really safe place that we can practice touching all over each other's bodies
27:05this exercise can definitely get people aroused and frankly i hope it does
27:14okay one of the things that really gets in the way of us feeling our turn-ons is inhibition
27:20and today's workshop is all about letting out your inner animal
27:30so we're going to do a little demo then you'll get a chance to practice with each other
27:35sex doesn't have to be this thing that is very curated it can be animalistic and fun animal game
27:42you don't need much to be good at it it's more about connecting with your own impulses and unleashing
27:48your inner animal there's another animal just next to you
27:58and you can smell
28:04so
28:15so
28:16Ah.
28:24Ah.
28:27Ah.
28:28Ah.
28:30Ah.
28:32Ah.
28:33Ah.
28:34Ah.
28:34Ah.
28:36Ah.
28:38Laugh-gasm.
28:46OK.
28:47I'm looking for a brave volunteer.
28:55Burdu? I've got an injured foot. I know it sounds like a lame excuse, but with like my foot and
29:00everything, it's...
29:02OK. Anyone else?
29:04Can I do it with you, Marianne?
29:05Yeah. I'm going to go with Marianne.
29:06Great. Wonderful.
29:10Joy takes the opportunity to practice with a woman.
29:15So just take some nice deep breaths in and out.
29:22When you feel ready, start exploring each other with your hands.
29:33Good. I love the way you're staying with the sensation and with your own bodies.
29:52And how was that for you?
29:55Marianne made me feel very safe.
29:56Same. It was very fun.
30:00As more of the groups step up...
30:03Just follow what your body wants to do.
30:07..their animal instincts start to emerge.
30:13Touching and sensing.
30:24Anyone else?
30:28Fuck it.
30:29Yes, Bertie.
30:30Yay!
30:32Up until now, Bertie keeps holding back.
30:35If I don't do it now, I'll regret it later.
30:38I think this is the worst time to be a young adult.
30:42Because if you're someone like me who struggles with approaching and talking to women, it's near impossible.
30:51Right?
30:52I constantly think about what I could do wrong rather than what I could do right.
30:58But I have to do this because I want to improve my life.
31:05Start noticing that there's an animal inside you and you can rub against them.
31:16You can hold.
31:19Are you OK?
31:20I'm good, yeah.
31:21You sure?
31:22Yeah, I'm fine.
31:23You're getting comfy position.
31:24Yeah.
31:28Mm-hmm.
31:29Mm-hmm.
31:32That's OK.
31:33Yeah?
31:34Let yourself feel how good it feels.
31:48I think we're done.
31:49Yeah, me too.
31:50Yeah?
31:50Yeah.
31:54Amazing.
31:55You want to share a little bit?
31:56I was a bit apprehensive about doing it at first.
31:58I mean, I thought you were doing a good job.
31:59It just all felt natural and not really nice.
32:02You've got nice hair to touch as well.
32:03All that wax has come in handy.
32:05That's what it is.
32:11There we go.
32:12Well done to you.
32:20So, how was that?
32:23I was still in that, like, ooh, like frisky mood, let's say.
32:27And I was like, OK, so I'm going to just have to calm myself back down and start from Bertie's
32:31level.
32:32All right, Bertie.
32:34Hello.
32:34How did you find it?
32:35Good, good.
32:36You had the right amount of pressure on me that I like.
32:38It felt so natural.
32:40And I was like, this is...
32:41Yeah.
32:43I think to say this is one of the bravest things I've done would be the understatement of the millennium.
32:48This isn't peer pressure or anything like that.
32:51I just feel like I kind of have to participate.
32:55Because if I am going on this island to be the same old person that I was for all my
33:01life, what am I doing here?
33:06As the course is going on, I can see people learning and changing.
33:10Everybody's trying new things.
33:11But for some people, therapy is very slow and totally goes at the pace of the client.
33:22Bertie may be working things out, but discovering turn-ons for some is slow progress.
33:28Guys, do you like hairy vaginas?
33:31I actually don't care.
33:33Yeah.
33:34Each to their own.
33:35And it starts coming out of their nickel line and you're like, oh, God, you need to shave.
33:39Oh, no.
33:40I don't really look after myself very much, but...
33:43No-one's seeing it, so...
33:46After this, that won't be true.
33:47LAUGHTER
33:51Intimacy is challenging for everyone on the island.
33:54But for 21-year-old Callum, it's also linked to tragedy.
33:58My dad passed away two years ago.
34:01He was an alcoholic.
34:04Erm...
34:06I don't really know how to respond to it.
34:10I'm living on my own in his house where he used to live.
34:14And probably spend, oh...
34:16It's probably about 16 hours a day gaming.
34:20Erm...
34:20I suppose it is a way to escape everything in the world.
34:24I struggle to meet people in person.
34:27It makes me feel...
34:29..alone.
34:33The experts want Callum to tackle his grief.
34:37Hi. Hello.
34:39With clinical therapist, Abby.
34:44Are there times in your life where you felt uncomfortable talking about these things?
34:49Yeah, I think so.
34:50I'm never really honest or open.
34:52I think it was when my dad passed that I really started to notice a lot of the stuff about
34:56myself.
34:57Talk to me a little bit about that.
35:01I really punished myself about everything.
35:04Yeah, he got admitted to hospital because he'd fallen.
35:08He was on the floor for two days and he couldn't get up.
35:10He couldn't reach his phone to tell anyone.
35:12Yeah.
35:13And the next day, being told that, you know, he's not got long left to live.
35:18So...
35:19He died within two weeks.
35:20Yeah.
35:21He got...
35:25Liver cirrhosis.
35:26Talk about the feeling that comes up around that.
35:29I still feel like I...
35:30I failed him.
35:32That's not...
35:32It's not for you to take on.
35:38Is it reasonable for you to take responsibility of that?
35:41Maybe not.
35:44What are the thoughts running in your head?
35:49Regret.
35:50Yeah.
35:55I just want to make him proud and not flatten his name.
36:02You're making him proud.
36:11It's really emotional because a lot of it is shit, basically, that I hate dealing with.
36:17But I've never really had that emotional response.
36:20And I spoke properly with someone who understands it.
36:23And it's kind of a fuzzy feeling.
36:26I just feel...
36:28I feel like I'm a little off steam.
36:29I want to run around.
36:36Hello.
36:37Hello.
36:38Hello.
36:38How did it go?
36:40Very emotional.
36:41Very emotional.
36:41Looking at shit from a different angle, I suppose.
36:43Do you feel good that it's been light off your chest?
36:46Mm.
36:47Tell you what, though, it's so hot in the teepee.
36:49I sweated it all out, so...
36:51It wasn't tears, it was just sweat coming at your eyes.
36:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
36:55It wasn't tears, no.
36:56I don't know.
37:06Are you going to bomb it in?
37:08Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
37:09It's late afternoon.
37:11Did you feel just, like, glided in?
37:14And many of the group are embracing island life.
37:17To be a man, eh?
37:19Get your hair wet and just, like, come out and be fine.
37:21Yeah, yeah.
37:21Not need to moisturise.
37:23Not need to, like, shower.
37:25Well, I think men need showers.
37:27I hope.
37:28I hope they shower.
37:30As some take a dip,
37:32the experts have decided it's time for others to immerse themselves
37:36in the retreat's most advanced therapy,
37:39undertaken by three specialists.
37:42Surrogate partner therapy works with the surrogate partner
37:45and the client, practising with everything from different kinds
37:48of touch, through genital touching, oral sex or even intercourse,
37:53so that people can practise the full range of sexual experiences.
37:57First is 35-year-old Ellen.
38:00Hello.
38:01Hello.
38:03While all surrogate partner therapy is supported by clinical therapist Abby.
38:08What I do is therapeutic emotional discussion.
38:12Kat will be Ellen's surrogate partner therapist.
38:14So I do the relationship side.
38:17Yeah.
38:17Doing touch work and relational works, like, completely led by you.
38:21Okay.
38:22And hands are, like, really important in lesbian sex.
38:26Yeah.
38:27Meanwhile, Tegan will work with surrogate partner therapist Rizden.
38:30And notice the sensation of me touching you.
38:38How did that feel?
38:40It felt good.
38:40It felt really nice.
38:41Okay, great.
38:42But before Marianne can consider a surrogate relationship,
38:46she first has to learn to trust men.
38:50It gets to a point where I need to feel the energy,
38:52you can feel they want more.
38:54And I can't cross the boundary.
38:56Just can't.
38:56My brain just gets stuck.
38:58I really want to challenge myself.
39:00I want to do it with a guy and see how I feel.
39:06Trust is everything.
39:08Out of all my friends, I'm the only virgin.
39:10And I do feel lonely.
39:12But I do want to be in a relationship with someone.
39:16If I haven't figured it out by 26 years,
39:19then clearly I do need some help.
39:21First step for Marianne...
39:23Hello.
39:25..is simply being comfortable in the same room
39:27as potential surrogate partner Andre.
39:32How are you feeling now?
39:33A little bit anxious in my stomach.
39:35And that's just because of unknowns and things.
39:39Yeah.
39:40Working with Marianne,
39:41it's very important that we start slowly
39:44to build the trust in myself.
39:47I'm going to be moving around the room
39:49and going to be noticing how your body is reacting to where I am.
39:55The idea is just to learn how someone being close to you
39:59can potentially feel.
40:01Yeah.
40:02Okay, so go ahead and close your eyes.
40:11And so I've moved.
40:12You might feel I am further away.
40:20See if there's any noticeable change in sensation.
40:27Growing up, I really never saw how a relationship should be.
40:33My dad just wasn't there.
40:36And seven, eight years ago, I found out I had a new half-sister.
40:40My dad was sort of collecting mini-families.
40:44Yeah.
40:47Just noticing what's happening in your body.
40:51So anything that reminds me of my dad, you're instantly vetoed.
40:54Trust-wise, I'm very sceptical.
41:00What was, like, kind of going on in your head?
41:03By the end, I liked it.
41:06Hmm.
41:07It just felt warm by the end.
41:10I felt, if I'm being honest, more sort of turned on
41:13with the second one that was there for some reason.
41:16Oh, yeah.
41:16Wonderful.
41:17Yeah.
41:17Okay, great.
41:18I feel a lot more relaxed here.
41:22Good.
41:22What a hug.
41:24I would love a hug.
41:26Marianne is clearly calmer.
41:29It helps that you smell like salted caramel.
41:32Mmm, do I really?
41:33Yeah.
41:34It's very, like...
41:34I like that.
41:36I'm feeling a lot more reassured working with a guy.
41:40He's very lovely and I felt very relaxed.
41:44It has helped my brain not be as fearful.
41:50I'm really proud of myself.
41:55Hi.
41:56Hi, Marianne.
41:57Welcome back.
41:57How did your one-to-one go?
41:59It was...
42:00Good.
42:00Hell yeah.
42:01Nice to meet you.
42:02How many people can actually fit in this bed?
42:04That's a real question.
42:05Bertie, do you want to come join us in the bed?
42:08Um...
42:08Actually, please do.
42:09It's an open invitation.
42:11All right, no worries.
42:14After getting back on track earlier, the experts don't want Bertie to lose momentum again.
42:20Bertie jumped up.
42:21I thought he was going to use his foot as an excuse, but he didn't.
42:24And he was so good.
42:26He seemed so sensual, so, like, um, animalistic.
42:30It's really important that he feels successful.
42:33Yeah.
42:34When it comes to dating and sex, I just want to be able to be more confident in myself
42:41and know what I'm doing, because the thought of me approaching a woman and asking them out,
42:48it would make them think, oh, God, this is embarrassing.
42:52What have I done to deserve being asked out by Bertie?
42:57To help boost his confidence...
43:00Good afternoon.
43:00Good afternoon.
43:02Celeste wants to push Bertie's boundaries.
43:05How was the workshop for you?
43:07I know I got a few things wrong, but that was the first time I didn't really feel uncomfortable.
43:12I was super proud and impressed, and I think we can use this session
43:15to just do more kinds of practices that would be helpful for you.
43:19Sounds good.
43:20To get more technique together.
43:21It's good to brush my teeth, then.
43:27Celeste starts.
43:28To try to, like, lay me back.
43:31Like this.
43:31Yeah, exactly.
43:33Simulating the missionary position.
43:35How am I going to do this?
43:36It'll be awkward at first.
43:38So don't worry about that, okay?
43:40Okay.
43:40Teaching Bertie the basics.
43:42And then you want to line up so that your dick is connected to my pussy.
43:47Oh, God, okay.
43:48Okay.
43:50Right.
43:50Right?
43:51Like this.
43:52Yeah, exactly.
43:58And you'll need to hold up some of your weight.
44:01Yeah, sorry.
44:02No, it's okay.
44:03And if you want me to show you what I mean, I'm happy to do that.
44:05That's fine.
44:05You can if you want to.
44:07Okay.
44:07If you lie down.
44:10Okay, so if I'm on top of you.
44:12Yeah.
44:12See how, like, I'm not all the way down here.
44:15Because it's just a little too much pressure on the chest.
44:17Yeah.
44:18Yes.
44:23When you thrust, I want you to imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.
44:28Like this.
44:28Yes, exactly.
44:30Yes.
44:31Yes.
44:33You want to try doggy?
44:34Let's try it.
44:38Then you get between my legs.
44:40Yeah.
44:41Then you pull me up.
44:43Exactly.
44:43You can kind of be all the way up.
44:46Yes.
44:47Yes.
44:47Yes.
44:48Good.
44:50Yeah, like that.
44:55Thank you very much.
44:56I feel lightheaded.
44:58Oh, yes, I bet.
44:59You are an absolute miracle worker.
45:01I ain't leaving.
45:02Thank you very much.
45:04I'm just going to be rooting you on in every moment.
45:06Yeah.
45:07That's kind of you.
45:12Oh, Bertie boy.
45:14Hello.
45:15How was it?
45:15Good.
45:16Celeste has taught me how certain sexual positions work.
45:21Wow.
45:23So, yeah.
45:24I feel very happy at the moment.
45:26It's amazing what a bit of rolling around on the floor doing different sexual positions can do to one's mentality.
45:34But I've made progress.
45:36And I'm proud of myself for that.
45:38And I'm thankful for everything that Celeste has taught me.
45:43Oh, my God.
45:47All that thrusting has made me hurt my bollocks.
45:52It's because I have to sleep on my back tonight.
45:54Christ almighty.
45:56Next time.
45:58Look at my pussy.
45:59I'm definitely a lesbian.
46:01The dating phase panics Ellen.
46:03I just don't feel like I'm good enough.
46:06Alex ups his game.
46:08Do you want to see how hard you are?
46:09And things heat up.
46:11Cheers.
46:12With island dates.
46:13I'm so nervous still.
46:15Why?
46:15I think it's because it's you.
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