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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 28
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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah?
00:19:50Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:52Yeah?
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person.
00:20:05And not because you need to tear other people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind.
00:20:11And I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity and just to put it to bed for once and for all.
00:20:31Yay!
00:20:33There she is.
00:20:35Hi!
00:20:36Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:20:37All smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like JLo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59Oh, you look like JLo.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:17I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:31It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like feedback week was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:53So, do you feel like...
00:21:55Because can I...
00:21:56I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58Okay.
00:21:58We'll give her about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense that she didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:17Gia refused to and he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia.
00:22:24And I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say, Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:40Take some accountability for your f***ing bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:23:01We're not friends, girl.
00:23:45Just a heads up.
00:23:46I'm not super happy with how things ended last week
00:23:50and the only reason I haven't spoken about it
00:23:52is because I didn't feel like I was getting through to you
00:23:53just by myself and I feel like I need some people around
00:23:56to give us both an outside perspective on the situation.
00:24:00Is this in relation to the comment that I said to Mel?
00:24:03That's what I brought up,
00:24:05but it's the whole defensiveness from that.
00:24:10I just don't feel like you're hearing me
00:24:12and I don't feel like you're genuine with your apology.
00:24:15I don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong.
00:24:19And I've tried to explain it, but I'm just not...
00:24:22I'm fuming.
00:24:28I'm angry.
00:24:31Because my husband and my partner
00:24:33has just dropped a bombshell on me
00:24:35five minutes before entering a social gathering.
00:24:38It can seem like I don't leave a space
00:24:40that's safe for you to come up and feed back for me
00:24:43and that's basically, like, the definition of gaslighting
00:24:47is turning the situation around on to me.
00:24:49I feel uncomfortable.
00:24:50I feel betrayed.
00:24:54I'm anxious and nauseous
00:24:55because I f***ing hate standing up for myself like this.
00:24:58I thought this was all over,
00:25:00so this is all new to me.
00:25:02I had no idea what was going on
00:25:04and I could feel the awkwardness yesterday when I got home.
00:25:07And I'm afraid now we're walking to a dinner party
00:25:10and getting everyone involved.
00:25:11I just got called a gaslighter
00:25:13and got told that my apologies weren't genuine.
00:25:16I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:42Oh!
00:25:44Oh!
00:25:44Oh!
00:25:45very distant walk in Chris and Sam very separate why are they not holding hands
00:25:52I've never seen this from them hello my man Sam and Chris was a lot two mates
00:25:59walking in to be honest or not even good mates that was frosty it looked
00:26:06disconnected disinterested was shocking to be honest this is new something's
00:26:17happened I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum so you'll hear all about it I
00:26:26just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party by Sam that he
00:26:30will be bringing up in front of the whole group that my four apologies weren't
00:26:33genuine enough on the back end of calling me a gaslighter so I've just walked into
00:26:37the dinner party hoping to have some drinks with my friends and catch up with
00:26:41everyone and he has um just dropped a bomb on me in the car like five minutes
00:26:45before walking in the door like amazing how you been mate been a rough week then
00:26:52you look flat as a pancake what's up um so basically sitting on the couch
00:26:59commitment ceremony Mel asked like what's the plan after the experiment and Chris
00:27:02like said well Sam's gonna move to Sydney and then you can do this move there move
00:27:05that like this is how it's all gonna work we had never discussed a plan oh really
00:27:10I never just why watching it I just assumed you'd had them conversation so we
00:27:15hadn't and the other day it's fine like he might have been excited whatever but
00:27:18then in feedback week I like just wanted to say I just wanted to say to him like
00:27:24hey man like when you made the plan of like how it's already made and he just goes
00:27:28that's not what I said what I said was like dismissing shutting it down do you get
00:27:33quite aggressive that conversation went awfully then basically I was like he's
00:27:38like what do you want me to do I was like can you just say sorry like the
00:27:41apology just comes with defensiveness like he he apologized in the same voice
00:27:44that he was defensive yeah like it's like it's not genuine I don't feel it
00:27:48yeah and he's just so defensive with me today as well and I'm like all I'm
00:27:52trying to do is be heard and like he's upset that I've spoken up yeah that's not
00:27:57okay yeah yeah lucky loss ah and here's Gia and Scott we didn't know if we wanted
00:28:09to come you know nice for Gia to show up tonight tonight I mean she's got one of
00:28:14them then ropes what Harry Potter has where she goes invisible from time to
00:28:18time how are you how are you mate good to see you surprising to see Gia and Scott
00:28:24actually hugging Beck and Danny particularly Scott who made it very
00:28:29clear that he didn't want to have anything to do with Beck
00:28:42my eyes are very very very much open with Gia you shared personal messages
00:28:49between you myself and a few other ladies right to try and take me down you are
00:28:58vicious stay away from me stay away I love you we got separated yeah it's on
00:29:06it's on do you want to grab a drink yeah I was so happy to see Chris I knew he'd
00:29:10been stressing the way he ran it was like he needs to talk to his girl we were in
00:29:15the car on the way over and we have not spoken although it's been awkward as and
00:29:18then in the car he called me a gaslighter I never really liked Sam from the
00:29:25minute I saw him Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are he's
00:29:33waited until tonight to do this this is a like this will happen last week yeah
00:29:38very calculated very super calculated and cruel but I'm gonna back myself
00:29:42not apologizing again I've apologized for times yeah yeah childish you want to play
00:29:51games like a little boy sorry no you're not doing that to Chris obviously he's
00:29:56gonna have like back on his side so yeah yeah yeah so that's right
00:30:13all right bon appetit oh the tables compressed I think tonight we're gonna see some of the
00:30:21consequences of that feedback week playing out with a small amount of couples left in the experiment the
00:30:28dinner parties become much more intimate yes you're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds
00:30:36it's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:41the
00:30:41same time it puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about
00:31:00wow the red one is you on that step is so good
00:31:15oh there's a tension in there isn't there there is tension
00:31:24it was very awkward at the southern dinner party
00:31:30there were crickets I could hear them I was sitting cutting my steak and I could hit
00:31:36I'm looking at back and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back
00:31:43obviously Gia's hurt me too but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck
00:31:48said about David and I have you been Alyssa UK I have had enough of this yeah yeah these individual
00:32:00conversations and sweeping shit under the rug I feel like it all needs to be brought to light and I
00:32:05feel
00:32:05like the other couples need to know as well so if everybody wants to listen in so there were obviously
00:32:11some
00:32:11receipts from the last commitment ceremony that Juliet received from Gia and after that commitment
00:32:28ceremony Juliet was like Alyssa I really need you to see these messages and I guess reading those
00:32:35messages brought up a lot of hurt because you know this happened weeks ago this happened like four
00:32:42five months ago five weeks ago I've got some dates on them two months ago yeah but it doesn't matter
00:32:51babe like it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious vulgar yeah I would never say that to
00:32:59someone yeah in real life let alone in a message like people at this table don't even know that I
00:33:07was
00:33:07called a rap oh my husband's a rap my head is so far up my ass and how much of
00:33:21a I am
00:33:29um and we're clicking oh no
00:33:45they were the most vicious vulgar yeah I would never say that to someone yeah
00:33:51in real life in real life let alone in a message like people at this table don't even know that
00:33:58I was
00:33:58called a rap my husband's a rap my head is so far up my ass and how much of a
00:34:09I am
00:34:16oh no why why why would you do that why would you do that really vile language that's really
00:34:27destructive incredibly disappointing Gia played a part in them as well but what came out of your mouth
00:34:35I'm telling you I was in tears I it was vile and vicious babe I've seen repetitive behavior not just
00:34:41with me but with other people at this table where you've come at them and I'm just like
00:34:45wait wait wait wait like there's been hang on hang on hang on hang on Alyssa I don't think you
00:34:50can
00:34:50say that the people at this dinner table I know but everybody's been affected by your behavior babe
00:34:54I'm sorry everyone at this table at some point has been affected by your behavior
00:35:00and I know that you're saying sorry and I know that you've said sorry but I'm saying right now
00:35:05listen to me for one second
00:35:11I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own but Ben keeps talking over the top of her
00:35:16we saw it at retreat with me it's just really frustrating I understand what you're saying I'm just
00:35:29I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable they were disgusting disgusting
00:35:35yeah the reality of the situation is is that you've seen snippets right snippets well then what
00:35:41else is there I'm not but I'm not going to do that there is no excuse for what I wrote
00:35:45I am sorry to
00:35:47you for what I wrote about you would I ever say that to your face never did I do I
00:35:52think that no
00:35:53definitely not that controls conversation that controls narrative I could just feel this beside
00:36:00me being like accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else is it okay no but I'm
00:36:10not going to send you the messages everyone else has said about you to hurt you to get to her
00:36:16because
00:36:17that makes me just as bad she isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions
00:36:29this is what Beck does yeah she is wrong and tries to think of anyone else who's involved that she
00:36:36can
00:36:37then blame for her actions we have a war right but Gia sent them to Juliet and Juliet's gonna shit
00:36:44on
00:36:44everyone and what that's done is hurt you too when you guys don't deserve to be hurt you don't have
00:36:51to
00:36:51trust me you don't have to believe me but I am apologetic to both of you sincerely
00:37:00Beck wanted to do what she always does which is sweep things under the carpet but the important
00:37:07thing is Alyssa stood up for herself in the real world if you read messages like that you'd never go
00:37:13back
00:37:13you'd never trust that person you cut them off obviously because of this experiment we're faced
00:37:18with the fact we have to still be cordial but you understand how like in the real world there's no
00:37:23coming back there's no you can't trust someone and be friends with those text messages were vile and I
00:37:31don't think anyone would ever accommodate for people in their lives that talk about them like that at any any
00:37:38period of time I know that you've said sorry but this shit is I just want to stay out of
00:37:49it this could
00:37:51have exploded escalated and got very hostile it's interesting that Alyssa she's essentially stayed at a
00:37:59conversational tone and this has not escalated at all yeah it's very mature of her it's just noise I've
00:38:08heard this before Beck and I have tried to work on our relationship and I'm sorry but I think I've
00:38:16given her way too many chances here for my husband no I'm I'm so lucky that I have David ultimately
00:38:26like I'm
00:38:27just gonna put her to bed I'm pretty disgusted in the behavior and I'm not here for mean girl shit
00:38:40coming up I have to change my whole life to fit into your life do I get any say in
00:38:47how this is going to work at all
00:38:50and Beck's behavior takes its toll on Danny
00:38:56I just want you to be wary about what you say
00:38:59I'm very wary of I want you to be wary about what you text people
00:39:16look at Stella and Philip so much love
00:39:23so just in sync
00:39:32so relaxed a lot of swag yes and so together
00:39:39Philip and Stella we haven't heard about like your feedback week like what's very good
00:39:45we had we're we'd just come up for a really good week and it was awesome we had uh good
00:39:50probing
00:39:50questions and um yeah we were just going back and forth it was almost like the honeymoon box it was
00:39:55they're really good probing questions but I was gonna it's great week
00:40:02clearly some couples have actually embraced the feedback and I've got closer together but for
00:40:08others it's just absolutely unraveled them
00:40:17can I just say something Chris and I are going through something that's actually internal
00:40:24I can't get to a conclusion with just the two of us and that's why I kind of wanted to
00:40:28bring that up
00:40:29tonight so if we could get that sort of yeah let's do it yeah um if you don't mind I'm
00:40:34gonna kick it off
00:40:35obviously my energy is not great tonight um this is not my usual vibe you know that
00:40:39um I'm gonna just give you a bit of background on what happened Sam and I had an issue mid
00:40:43last week
00:40:44um which I thought we had squashed on the drive over here uh Sam mentioned to me that he wanted
00:40:50to bring
00:40:50this issue up in front of the whole group and then on the back end of that why why did
00:40:55I want to do
00:40:56I can I just please talk um on the back end of that insinuated that I was a gaslighter
00:41:05a gaslighter is a very strong word to throw throw around so obviously my energy is off I feel like
00:41:12I've
00:41:12been thrown under the bus so I'm gonna let Sam speak and I'll hear him um and then you can
00:41:18get
00:41:18my version of the events um um basically when Mel asked us on the couch last week like what's the
00:41:30plan after this she said what what does life look outside the experiment okay can I talk sure
00:41:40um and Chris said well the best way that could work is like I Sam can move to Sydney
00:41:47but the thing is there's like Chris and I had never ever discussed a plan of how it was going
00:41:53to work
00:41:53outside the experiment so then to hear him say to Mel like this is how the plan was going to
00:42:01work I'm
00:42:01like do I get any say and how this is going to work at all feedback week I thought would
00:42:08be a really
00:42:09good time for me to bring this up so sitting on the couch and I say Chris when you said
00:42:14this to Mel
00:42:15I just felt like I didn't have a voice and he cut me off and he goes I didn't say
00:42:18that you could have
00:42:19spoken up you had every opportunity to speak just as much as I did and then I said I wish
00:42:23there was
00:42:24just more empathy around the fact that I have to change my whole life to fit into your life I
00:42:31was like
00:42:31could you say you're sorry and he goes I'm sorry I'm sorry I hate your feelings I'm sorry like I'm
00:42:34sorry I hate your feelings
00:42:39I haven't had a genuine apology and when I try and bring it up I'm just met with defensiveness and
00:42:44I feel like right now my feelings have been shut down about it there's no recognition no
00:42:49acknowledgement of the other's experience and unfortunately like this wasn't the first time
00:42:56I've witnessed you shutting me down but it's the first time that I've spoken up about it and that
00:43:03me speaking up about it has just caused you to like hate me and just be like off me and
00:43:08I just don't
00:43:08understand what I've done wrong hate see they're in a terrible way aren't they okay let me let me talk
00:43:18my turn hand on heart I apologize three times and I said I'm so I'm sorry I did not meant
00:43:25mean to make
00:43:26you feel that way I then apologize two more times he thinks it wasn't genuine I'm telling you it was
00:43:32why I'm so off Sam is because he's chosen to do it in this forum in front of everybody this
00:43:37is throwing
00:43:38this at me 10 minutes prior to entering the dinner party on the back end of calling me a gaslighter
00:43:42sometimes yes I am fiery sometimes I do get defensive but there's got to be some point where I've got
00:43:47to
00:43:47back myself for him to throw me under the bus do you think he's throwing you under the bus though
00:43:52I feel like this could have been done in a different way I would have preferred to do it privately
00:43:57we've tried that we speak to the experts in front of the whole group every week to help our
00:44:02relationships I think where Sam was trying to speak to you was in front of the whole group because
00:44:07he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere so he I think he thought if he had the group involved he
00:44:15could
00:44:15get some opinions and it could help your relationship I get that Sam I am genuinely sorry that I hurt
00:44:24your
00:44:24feelings I did not want to put pressure on you why are you laughing Sam was trying to speak to
00:44:38you in
00:44:38front of the whole group because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere so he I think he thought if
00:44:43he
00:44:43had the group involved he could get some opinions and it could help your relationship Chris if you
00:44:47give a genuine apology I get that Sam I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings I did not
00:44:53want to
00:44:53put pressure on you why are you laughing because I asked you to do this this morning I'm doing it
00:45:00again I'm doing it right now this is what you wanted you want it in front of the group and
00:45:04you
00:45:04won't even let me finish the apology watching Sam and Chris they're both valid in what they're saying
00:45:11they're both valid in their feelings they're both hurting so I was actually very surprised to hear our
00:45:20Chris was talking about things how Sam was talking about things to see them behaving in that manner it's
00:45:26it's a shame oh a week ago I was like Sam and Chris is super strong but now I think
00:45:30the boys are in real trouble
00:45:34I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings and I put pressure on you that was not my intention
00:45:39I'm sorry that I was defensive I just feel like there's got to be a point where I apologize three
00:45:44times then again the next morning that's the first time you apologize for being defensive
00:45:51they're in real real dire straits you know but what it has done is it's opened up their
00:45:59issues in their relationship that we can actually target at the next commitment ceremony
00:46:06it just shows how powerful emotional tone is when couples are trying to deal with conflict and repair
00:46:16it's a like a dagger to the heart I feel like my heart's been stabbed I've done so much to
00:46:23be in this
00:46:23experiment to find love and a husband and to have this argument over the authenticity of my sorry's
00:46:30which were five and then be laughed at the phrase it's a joke okay I was feedback wait for you
00:46:41guys
00:46:41yeah look feedback week was really good for Stephen and I personally I feel that way um I hope Stephen
00:46:48feels the same way um but yeah it's it's it's been good um Alyssa love to catch up we had
00:46:56a lot lots of
00:46:56fun and everything um a bit of advice from Alyssa that I really took on board was to be a
00:47:02little bit
00:47:02more masculine and bring some leadership and uh into the relationship which I'm definitely going to
00:47:10put my um captain's undies on and hat and you know lead
00:47:15and what else did I tell you babe
00:47:24oh do I have to mention that no well do you know what no because I respect Rachel as my
00:47:29bestie
00:47:30and we're not going down that road on on that on that topic I'm probably going to say this right
00:47:35now
00:47:35in front of everyone that I feel like me and Rachel's sex life has been in the spotlight for way
00:47:42too
00:47:42bloody long
00:47:46now yeah we've had our troubles in it and we're getting closer um intimacy like intimately right
00:47:52however now it's gotten to the point when I get close to Rachel if Rachel wanted to get gets close
00:47:58to me we've got this thought in the back of our mind now it's starting to get to the point
00:48:02now like
00:48:03are we doing this you know because we want to and it's a passionate moment or are we doing this
00:48:09because we're getting told to and there's pressure on it because I feel like there's so much pressure
00:48:14on can you two have sex already do you need to have sex already so uh on that note we've
00:48:19heard
00:48:19everyone loud and clear um when the moment comes you all know we'll set fireworks off from the balcony
00:48:26all right all right good on you steve-o this is the first time that I've seen him taking like
00:48:33a
00:48:33stance about the relationship kind of taking the lead you guys are taking steps forward hey
00:48:39yeah when it comes to our sex life
00:48:43they can say what they bloody want I'm not here for the drama not here for anything else besides
00:48:50Rachel so and on the last night of a feedback week we had nachos and watched uh a fishing video
00:48:58on youtube oh my god can i could cheer can i ask you oh obviously we was meant to have
00:49:10a meeting or
00:49:11whatever you want to call it but what was the reason just out of interest why did you not show
00:49:16up
00:49:19because we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest and i was packing my bags trying
00:49:25to
00:49:25leave up she tried to leave and it's the whole week so it's a snowball not just you it's everything
00:49:29it was really hard like it was just really hard she felt like everything's been coming at her so
00:49:31she wanted to leave and she tried to leave and i didn't let her he was like no you can't
00:49:39in my mindset was to go into it and really talk positive
00:49:43i actually don't have no negative feedback between yours and scott's relationship i think
00:49:47scott's been really honorable how he's like took your daughter on board and stuff like that i think you
00:49:51guys have got a good relationship you back each other i've only got blokes in my life really yeah
00:49:57of like my mum and everyone's back home so like it would have been nice to get some advice from
00:50:02a
00:50:02woman in the experiment for like a third party danny is a liar he's full of it would
00:50:09have been probably a screaming match we would have been arguing do i need to be doing that right now
00:50:12no like it was just a bad week and i think i couldn't personally take any more at that point
00:50:17because i was like like i'm damned if i do damned if i don't if i go and me and
00:50:21danny argue i'm going
00:50:21to look terrible maybe just next time like try and look at him more positively because i wouldn't
00:50:31have come at you with no disrespect and honestly it wasn't that it was like oh my god it's danny
00:50:35that
00:50:35it was like we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest she didn't turn up
00:50:41to speak to danny because you know she lied about danny when you said that my husband wants to be
00:50:46with you
00:50:47i think jia cares about jia and taking people out you're the one sending screenshots to people
00:50:54and throwing people under the bus and being vicious and manipulative so we had the commitment ceremony
00:51:00juliet was yelling i don't know if you guys yeah we had we had i'm so over her and her
00:51:07fake two-facedness
00:51:11what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you don't
00:51:19trust juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to take me down
00:51:27like is that the point was that the point
00:51:33well you tried to take me down so i gave it back to you
00:51:47what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you
00:51:55don't trust juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to
00:52:03take me down like is that the point was that the point
00:52:09well you tried to take me down so i gave it back to you oh god
00:52:16i'm still feeding that dynamic that we've been trying to call out for weeks now
00:52:22how how how did i try and take you stop using me stop using me as a pawn
00:52:32i don't know what the going on here but i'm not playing a game anymore
00:52:38jerry and beg they can just hate each other forever ultimately my main focus is david i want
00:52:44to give my husband my everything and i don't want to get caught up in the ah-yah anymore
00:52:49because once again alissa is the collateral damage in other people's fights
00:52:56and it's so unfortunately because it really is generating distress in other couples yes i don't
00:53:02want to engage anymore i'm actually done with this conversation thank you i can't do any more drama
00:53:06i can't do any more drama back it's going to go around and around and i'm not doing it thank
00:53:10you so
00:53:10much
00:53:18i just needed to know what whether or not the whole point was to take me down that's all i
00:53:23wanted to
00:53:24know yes it was because you girls ultimately throw each other under the bus every time and you use
00:53:31do you know what do you know that's even worse what's worse is your collateral damage for a war
00:53:39which is that needs to stop that needs to stop well but direct it that way
00:53:46more drama i don't know how to feel about it my feelings are strong for beck i care about beck
00:53:54a lot
00:53:55sometimes i feel the more focused with drama than it is on our relationship
00:54:01i just wanted to know if the whole point was to throw me under the bus and you guys are
00:54:05collateral i just had to ask the question that was it that's all i needed to know
00:54:14i feel like beckoned you're out for like top dog spot and i'm sorry there is no top dog here
00:54:19um let's remember why we're here to meet a match to have the opportunity to find love so if you're
00:54:26more busy about like sending shitty messages about people sending out screenshots and like oh you said
00:54:33this and you said then why are you here
00:54:52what's going on is this okay yeah are you sure i'll just get i'm sick of the drama
00:54:58if i want to get i came here to focus on a relationship and stuff at a dinner party this
00:55:03drama yeah obviously a bit ashamed of beck to be honest i'm not going to lie i'm not going to
00:55:08candy coat it um frustrated because i know that's not how beck is as a person how would you feel
00:55:15in
00:55:16the same situation if every week every single week you were coming to a dinner party and there was
00:55:22something else i don't care how long of that was or what the circumstances is i don't really care
00:55:27or would you respect how would you feel in the same situation please answer the question yeah of
00:55:32course it would be frustrating okay and that's all we're in an experiment babe with vicious vicious
00:55:37vipers around do you think that this is what like is outside of this experiment i didn't come here
00:55:43for drama i came here for love i want to talk about how can i how can i become a
00:55:48better partner and a
00:55:49better husband i feel like sometimes all i do is talk about drama i'm just saying from my point of
00:55:55view i need help as a man with our relationship i struggle with a lot of these things you know
00:56:01that that's why i came on this experiment because i've failed in the real world but i'd rather get
00:56:05these dinner parties towards positive things and not drama that's not where i'm coming from
00:56:11oh no this is a troubling sign isn't it that danny has started to second guess his commitment to beck
00:56:22and these text messages while he knew they were out there they've come up again and he's really now
00:56:29retreating yeah i don't know why you're getting much out you're just saying my peers
00:56:38i'm not throwing you under the bus i'm not throwing you under the bus i'm ride or die you
00:56:42saw that out of the retreat you saw that out of the retreat back and danny's relationship has been
00:56:48so much stronger the past few weeks so to see this now at this point in the process is very
00:56:54discouraging
00:56:55because i want us to have a really good relationship we have a really good we do daniel do not
00:57:00sit here
00:57:00do not sit here i didn't say we did just relax do not sit here don't be sassy don't sit
00:57:06here and
00:57:06say i want us to have a good relationship but we don't because of drama at dinner parties did i
00:57:12say
00:57:13we don't no i just want you to be worried about what you say i'm very worried i want you
00:57:22to be wary
00:57:23about what you text people sure two months ago daniel two months ago it was 10 years ago
00:57:31i'm done i gotta go has no one ever up before we've been talking about this for nearly two months
00:57:40i can't
00:57:55don't sit here and say i want us to have a good relationship
00:58:00but we don't because of drama it didn't cut it did i say we don't i want to start a
00:58:04good
00:58:04relationship to be wary about what to say i'm very worried i want you to be wary about what you
00:58:09text people sure two months ago daniel two months ago it was 10 years ago
00:58:18i'm done i gotta go
00:58:33i'm done i'm not going back in i'm done i want out now i'm done
00:58:44i'm done you can off i'm not going back into that dinner party
00:58:47i want some join down here let's go to the couch for a sec
00:58:53i want out take me downstairs i want out get me out of here fuming
00:59:01how are you feeling
00:59:05i feel like i'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking about abusive text messages that are sent i
00:59:12came
00:59:13here to work on on my relationship and to try and be a good husband and stuff and it's like
00:59:17i can't
00:59:18voice my opinion because then she says i'm throwing her under the bus
00:59:23he says oh we're ride or die we're ride or die we're not we're not ride or die
00:59:29this is not okay every single week i come to these dinner parties every single week and it's this
00:59:39has happened this has happened do you have said this to you it's like i don't care no more i'm
00:59:45here
00:59:46for a wife and a relationship i'm not here for drama do not do not sit there in front of
00:59:53everyone and not
00:59:54show solidarity to me because i've had to apologize to someone
01:00:02pretend just pretend for the sake of me pretend for two minutes
01:00:12sunday night it's the second last commitment ceremony go ask question of like all right if we
01:00:19go outside the experiment how quick would you expect like a proposal i say the sooner the better
01:00:24wow and some are already locking in plans for married life outside of the experiment the man is
01:00:31leaving and he is actually starting to show me what my life here in sydney could look like and then
01:00:37so last week you said that the noise from the group and around gia doesn't affect your relationship
01:00:44do you still believe that will scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of gia i will
01:00:52admit
01:00:52the question what was it like it was a bit you see yourself falling in love with me
01:01:01why is danny dodging the question um
01:01:10in one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen it's a pretty black and white question
01:01:20before the blind side
01:01:25that will leave the room speechless i just can't believe it
01:01:32and now the fallout after the dinner party only on stan
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