00:00The biggest age gap I would say to my friends to go is 10.
00:04And even that, I'm like, that's a gap.
00:08My friend in her 20s is dating someone 20 years older than her.
00:12And every time we all hang out, something feels off.
00:14He's polite, but the dynamic makes the group uncomfortable.
00:16And he's constantly offering unsolicited life advice because he's more experienced.
00:22My friend insists he makes her feel comfortable.
00:23But he also talks very seriously about marriage, kids, and even retirement.
00:27And she just turned 25.
00:29Should I say something or is this not my place?
00:32I don't think it's her business.
00:33I really think that that's a thing between two people.
00:37They are in a relationship.
00:38If the friend is uncomfortable, then she should see the friend during the daytime
00:42or at a planned time when he's not around.
00:46And keep it to a minimal because this is a thing between a man and a woman
00:50who already discussed they know how different their ages are.
00:54And they're comfortable with it.
00:55I kind of feel like the other option is she says to her friend who's in the relationship,
01:01love hanging out with you guys, but sometimes I feel like he's giving me advice when I don't ask for
01:05it.
01:06Like, and no? You don't like that?
01:08I don't know. I don't know. I think you're getting into somebody else's relationship.
01:12You just have to deal with it.
01:13And if you're uncomfortable, then you know what? Meet your friend for lunch.
01:16How do you feel about, like, that age disparity?
01:18The biggest age gap I would say to my friends to go...
01:22Ten years.
01:23Is ten. Yeah, ten years is...
01:24And even that, I'm like, that's a gap.
01:25No, I like ten years.
01:27I feel like the sweet spot is three to five.
01:31Okay.
01:32With the guy being older because they're immature more of the time.
01:37Well, most of the time.
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01:39Classic solutions.
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