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00:01:16Assalamu alaikum good morning good morning pakistan
00:01:20You have a good morning today
00:01:22It's not a good morning
00:01:24You have a good morning because today
00:01:26There is so many flu
00:01:28And this is viral
00:01:30It's happening today
00:01:32I'm starting to start the morning
00:01:34Maybe it's the reason that
00:01:36When you're sleeping in the night
00:01:38You're married
00:01:40You have to participate
00:01:42And you have to reach the morning
00:01:44You have to reach the morning
00:01:46We've never expected
00:01:48Because you don't have a job
00:01:50But who do the job
00:01:52If you do the job
00:01:54Then you have to look at the kitchen
00:01:56You have to look at the kitchen
00:01:58If you do the job
00:02:00Then you have to look at the kitchen
00:02:02And if you stay with your house
00:02:04Then you have to get their care
00:02:06And the food
00:02:08And the food
00:02:10The food is clean
00:02:12So many things
00:02:14And obviously
00:02:16Obviously
00:02:18We have not learned
00:02:20We have to learn
00:02:22We have to learn
00:02:24And we have to learn
00:02:26We have to learn
00:02:28Okay, in the childhood
00:02:30If you have a maid
00:02:32If you have a maid
00:02:34Help for help
00:02:36Then you have a little habit
00:02:38You have to take the maid
00:02:40Okay, let's go
00:02:42Okay, let's go
00:02:44Dusting
00:02:46We have to do
00:02:48We have to do
00:02:50We have to do
00:02:52We have to do
00:02:54We have to do
00:02:56We have to do
00:02:58If we can do
00:02:59If we can help
00:03:00We have to do
00:03:02We have to do
00:03:04We have to do
00:03:06foreign
00:03:36If you need a maid, you need to get some food,
00:03:39you need to get some clothes,
00:03:41so for anyone or anyone,
00:03:43we have helped ourselves ourselves,
00:03:46and not just before.
00:03:48So, I,
00:03:49and my friends, who were out there,
00:03:51they were very surprised that there was no tension,
00:03:55or if we have more questions than our mothers,
00:03:59when I met with them,
00:04:01when I talked to them,
00:04:03who was a senior director of the PTV,
00:04:07they didn't have any other questions.
00:04:10Every time, I didn't know that they did.
00:04:12I didn't know that they had a problem at home.
00:04:15So, a few days later,
00:04:17because my children were small,
00:04:18I had a job,
00:04:19and the burden of the work,
00:04:21so when I took time to my mother,
00:04:23I gave all my time to my mother.
00:04:26I also said,
00:04:27what's going on?
00:04:29Let's change the topic.
00:04:30You're made, made, made, made.
00:04:33So, you believe that,
00:04:35when the four children get together,
00:04:37the topic, this is the topic.
00:04:38You're saying,
00:04:40you're going to miss, you're going to miss,
00:04:41you're going to miss, you're going to miss.
00:04:42You're going to miss your child,
00:04:44and you're going to miss her,
00:04:45you're going to miss it.
00:04:47So, many stories,
00:04:48you can hear.
00:04:50They are,
00:04:51they are no longer,
00:04:52without them,
00:04:54because if they are a day,
00:04:56they're going to be a house,
00:04:57then the time of the house is breaking.
00:04:59is because we have made our own rules and this is why our expectations are more demand
00:05:07from our expectations. If I talk about this, there are people who work together. If they are
00:05:15doing a job, they will help at home. They will be able to help their own things. Okay,
00:05:20you can see the children, let's go, I will eat food. If you are eating children, let's go,
00:05:24I will see the children. Okay, let's meet them. We have always seen this. So,
00:05:29that's why we can't say that we will not be able to deal with the mates. Because our
00:05:36men don't drink water. If they have anything that needs to be poor, they can give their
00:05:42voice. There are many men who need helping hands. And when they come to the house,
00:05:52we have to deal with them. So, how many people hear their voice? If they have a baby
00:05:59sitting, if they have a food, they have a lot of things to eat. Or, there are many
00:06:04things to eat. Or, there are any kind of things to eat. Or, there are many things to eat. So,
00:06:08if you have a house. I want to know that there are many good things to eat. I say that there are
00:06:17many good things to eat. But I don't know that there are many good things to eat. But I have
00:06:25some good things to eat. I have some good things to eat. But I have some good things to eat.
00:06:29I have some good things to eat. And I have some good things to eat. And I have some good things to
00:06:35eat. And I have some good things to eat. So, in today's show, basically, we have a discussion
00:06:41here and I have some good things to eat. So, I don't need to know if I have an issue,
00:06:45I don't have any good things to eat. And I have some good things to eat. But our
00:06:49And if they are genuinely loyal with you, then how do you look at them, how do you keep the balance of your home, how do you keep the balance of your home?
00:07:00You have to give small tips. I will tell you that now I have to understand how to handle them.
00:07:06When I had a new marriage and had these responsibilities, I had a lot of blackmail from them.
00:07:14When I was leaving, I had a lot of small fingers.
00:07:19What will I do now? How will my family go?
00:07:22So, there were a lot of times, there were a lot of people who have no confidence in their family.
00:07:31And there are a lot of people who are attached to their children, when they are leaving.
00:07:37So, there are a lot of stories that we share with you today and have to share with you.
00:07:43So, stay with me.
00:07:44We will talk about those stories that we have in the marriage or in the marriage.
00:07:49When friends meet, they do.
00:07:51They have made me this.
00:07:53My maid has made me this.
00:07:54My maid has made me this.
00:07:55My maid has made me this.
00:07:56My maid has made me this.
00:07:57My maid has taken me this.
00:07:58There are a lot of things.
00:07:59Let's see in the show today.
00:08:00Good morning.
00:08:01Welcome.
00:08:02Welcome back.
00:08:03Good morning Pakistan.
00:08:04Welcome.
00:08:05Welcome back.
00:08:06Good morning Pakistan.
00:08:07Welcome back.
00:08:08Welcome back.
00:08:09Good morning Pakistan.
00:08:10How is my maid's employee якömish.
00:08:11At this point in theangerine's story.
00:08:12I have told you.
00:08:13I had told you in the intro.
00:08:14It is basically a program that you'll-
00:08:15What are you waiting for?
00:08:16What will you want?
00:08:17Every女's is управляется on this side.
00:08:18You have a maid.
00:08:19Our maid.
00:08:20The maid and the help.
00:08:22Head or the grandmother.
00:08:24Your sponsor as her dad.
00:08:26What they want.
00:08:26What THEY relación for.
00:08:28Our maid.
00:08:29Our maid company is equal and以後 they work together with work together.
00:08:35Also its long-await Ing the series.
00:08:37So many employers, basically, who are different, are different, some people are so kind and some people are so hard to get back with their hands.
00:08:54So today, basically, we have to understand their psychology and we have to talk a little bit about you.
00:09:01So, this is a program that is here with my panelists.
00:09:08My name is Hisman Zahidi.
00:09:10As-salamu alaykum.
00:09:11How are you?
00:09:12Very good.
00:09:14And with my friends, Abiyah Aashmi.
00:09:18As-salamu alaykum.
00:09:19Alhamdulillah.
00:09:21This is why we've called out.
00:09:23You've seen each year.
00:09:25You've got to try to try to kill your young age.
00:09:29You have to do what to take away from the mates.
00:09:31Then you have to do the child.
00:09:33Then you have to learn the adult.
00:09:35Then you have to do the adult.
00:09:37So, we will discuss those every year.
00:09:39I am a doctor and a hospital.
00:09:56I will say that Dr. Sana Hussain is our psychologist.
00:10:00Assalamu alaikum.
00:10:01Waalikum Asalaam.
00:10:02How are you?
00:10:03I am fine.
00:10:03Alhamdulillah.
00:10:04I don't think that was a good girl.
00:10:07If you are an expert, you talk about any topic on any topic and if you are interested in it, then what do you want to do with it?
00:10:15This is a very important topic.
00:10:17Every home is our life.
00:10:21Actually, we feel that we have a lot of benefits.
00:10:26There are many such things, many chores that we can complete in time,
00:10:32if you have a lot of time, you have a lot of time,
00:10:39if you are a housewife, you can give more time, you can give more attention.
00:10:45If you want your time and energy,
00:10:51if you support someone else,
00:10:54so there are many such things,
00:10:57if you have advantages,
00:10:59if you are young age,
00:11:01if you have a child,
00:11:02if you hire someone else,
00:11:04if you have a mother-in-law,
00:11:07if you are not a mother-in-law,
00:11:09if you are not a child,
00:11:11then you have a little bit of help,
00:11:15so you can continue to live in a family and child,
00:11:18if you are a child,
00:11:19you have a very good mother-in-law,
00:11:21and you are not a child,
00:11:22it is a family,
00:11:23and you can really get to see it.
00:11:24We have lived in this country,
00:11:25you have a lot of people than that,
00:11:26but we have been working on the country,
00:11:28and we have a lot of people that,
00:11:29we are not willing to do it.
00:11:30We have to be a way of advice.
00:11:31We are willing to make your domicile,
00:11:32and we will allow to support people,
00:11:34and more than that,
00:11:35we are willing to support people,
00:11:37we will support people.
00:11:38It is our main-in-law,
00:11:39we are willing to support people that
00:11:41we have to support them,
00:11:42and we have a bit of help.
00:11:44so many things are wrong.
00:11:51You have to have a lot of things from your hands and your carelessness.
00:12:00You have to traumatize your children.
00:12:05There are many stories and stories that we have heard.
00:12:11So, today we are going to talk about them.
00:12:15First of all, I want your experiences.
00:12:18This topic, the maids, your experiences.
00:12:21Every stage of life.
00:12:24Right.
00:12:25When we were young and were married,
00:12:28I was very happy to work on myself.
00:12:32Every thing.
00:12:33The kids say that they will do it.
00:12:35I was doing it.
00:12:36I was doing it.
00:12:38When I got a small help,
00:12:41that's another thing.
00:12:43But when I was growing up in my life,
00:12:46when I was growing up in school,
00:12:49at that time,
00:12:51I became a superwoman.
00:12:54I would do everything.
00:12:55I would do everything.
00:12:56I would do everything.
00:12:57I would do everything.
00:12:58I would do everything.
00:12:59But at that time,
00:13:00there was a health.
00:13:02Energy.
00:13:03Health.
00:13:04More and more.
00:13:05No.
00:13:06It's a very cheap.
00:13:07You get to get it.
00:13:08So one of them,
00:13:09it works like you've worked on.
00:13:10I'm the only one who's been using this.
00:13:12Not one of them.
00:13:14Just one of them is using this.
00:13:15But if you're not using it,
00:13:16you can't use it.
00:13:17You can use it.
00:13:18But now,
00:13:19if you're getting there and you can just use it.
00:13:20You can use it.
00:13:21I should use it.
00:13:22You can use it.
00:13:23So the names are running well.
00:13:24That is not for us.
00:13:25but then there was a habit that developed a conversation,
00:13:31that they would do it.
00:13:33Exactly, that's it.
00:13:34But when people are married in a family,
00:13:38then we can't do this anymore,
00:13:40because we have to take some responsibility.
00:13:42It's just like that.
00:13:45But my goal was to stay on my own,
00:13:49I'm going to change.
00:13:51So, there are also babies in the same way.
00:13:54foreign
00:14:06foreign
00:14:20so I was told that many people kept me
00:14:27now my heart is now
00:14:30for everything I have
00:14:33but I have a good experience
00:14:36like these little and small
00:14:39they work because when there are 2-3 helpers
00:14:42they can put one to the other
00:14:45plus point
00:14:47so this is all
00:14:49but I have a good experience
00:14:54and I have a good experience
00:14:56and I have a good experience
00:14:58especially the living servants
00:15:00that they leave their homes
00:15:02and why do they do it?
00:15:05I have a good experience
00:15:06but my wife said
00:15:09that you are so angry
00:15:11that you have a little day
00:15:13and you have a good experience
00:15:17and it is just fun
00:15:19that what I have done
00:15:22and that is what I have done
00:15:24in my life
00:15:27and that's true
00:15:27I have a good experience
00:15:30but I have a good experience
00:15:32I have a good experience
00:15:34Your experience
00:15:36my experience
00:15:37all of you
00:15:39are the common team
00:22:21This apartment was built from the house as she was in the house.
00:22:23She was in the house because she had a son. She had a job.
00:22:26She had a job and everything.
00:22:28She knew that she was going to get to the car.
00:22:30She took everything from the TV and left her home before.
00:22:35She came out to the house and said,
00:22:37she didn't have anything.
00:22:41Let me see that I was at my mother.
00:22:45My mother had a police.
00:22:47She didn't have a job.
00:22:49So he took the remote and said that he took the TV and took the driver and said that he took the TV, so he took it.
00:22:56So he took the police for a while.
00:23:00He said that we will go home at the same time.
00:23:02The whole house is in his house.
00:23:05The police said that he didn't say anything about it.
00:23:09My son is my son.
00:23:11The police said that he didn't say anything about it.
00:23:17When you listen to these stories, we are hearing a lot.
00:23:21It's crazy.
00:23:23We can't live without these people.
00:23:27We have so much work in our lives.
00:23:31So we can't live without these things.
00:23:37But the water is above the head.
00:23:40The food is a lot of things.
00:23:43But if we can't reach any other problems,
00:23:46we will have something after the break.
00:23:49Good morning.
00:23:50I was just concluding.
00:23:57Welcome back.
00:23:59Good morning Pakistan.
00:24:00And now we'll say, why are you the police there?
00:24:07What's the police's work?
00:24:09This is a big task for you.
00:24:10So hard work is a lot in the past and that,
00:24:11we'll never say the police in it.
00:24:13However, we have to ask a police also.
00:24:14Even the police can do it after us.
00:24:15So there goes the police.
00:24:17Dr. Manisha Ropetta,
00:24:21I have to tell you the truth.
00:24:23I have to tell you the truth.
00:24:25Dr. Manisha Ropetta,
00:24:26SDPO GULBERG,
00:24:27Sindh Police.
00:24:28What is the name of the doctor and police?
00:24:33I am a medical graduate by qualification
00:24:36and I was while in university when I was in medical
00:24:40so I was always enthusiastic and passionate
00:24:43that I have to go for a competitive examination
00:24:46so I prepared the exam and when I qualified
00:24:49I was the first 24 police
00:24:51so it was like a doctor turned police
00:24:54you will be confused, like I have seen a card and said
00:24:57this is a police, doctor, what is this?
00:25:00so very good, very good
00:25:02so today's topic is what you know
00:25:04you are also involved in our panel
00:25:06before I talk to you, I want to talk to you
00:25:09I want to talk to you with a psychologist
00:25:11Dr. Sana, there is a psychology
00:25:16and there is also observation
00:25:19so what psychology is that
00:25:22which is helping hands with you
00:25:25what is in your opinion?
00:25:27and when you work in office
00:25:29the employees also have a psychology
00:25:32that there is an employer
00:25:34and they are standing behind, they are standing behind
00:25:36they are standing behind
00:25:37or that it will be someone's
00:25:39so if you generalize this
00:25:42then you will get to know some points
00:25:45what do you think?
00:25:47I want to talk to you
00:28:57Yes.
00:29:17Yes.
00:29:19Yes.
00:29:23Yes, I don't think I have any thoughts on them.
00:29:28And you have to look at them all.
00:29:31For example, you have to look at them all.
00:29:36And you have to say, oh, my God, this is a big mess.
00:29:40And you are telling them, oh, this is so much, this is so much,
00:29:44I have to go from here, I have to go from there.
00:29:47And you don't know unconsciously what things are in their mind,
00:29:51and they have to trigger themselves.
00:29:54And so what happens is you have to do stealing cases.
00:29:58We see how we are, we have to stay in our own way.
00:30:03We have to take a look at our young girl.
00:30:05And in this case, we have to say that God has to be evil.
00:30:09And we can see these enemies.
00:30:12And it's like this one that comes to us.
00:30:17I was very happy that I had only one who had a story that I heard a story.
00:30:23One time I did it that the police was shocked, the lipstick and the check was gone.
00:30:29The security alarm was hit.
00:30:31One time I told them that they were in uniform and they would be scared.
00:30:36They would come and see the whole house.
00:30:40They are saying that they are not saying that they are not saying that they are not saying.
00:30:43They came and saw their whole house and said that was who?
00:30:47I told them to ask them.
00:30:49Who is that?
00:30:50I said they are not saying that they are not saying that they are not saying their own story.
00:30:54They are talking about their own story.
00:30:55Everybody is scared.
00:30:56She was so sad for the girls.
00:30:58She was so sad for her.
00:31:00She was so sad for me and she was so sad for me and she won't be a child.
00:31:05She told me that they are not a child.
00:31:07That is why she was saying that my parents have the eyes of her.
00:31:11I'm sitting here, I'm sitting here, I'm doing my own.
00:31:14And at which time I took my suit?
00:31:16No, I said yesterday,
00:31:19I had a program at the Maid's last time,
00:31:22which is not the Maid's entire empire.
00:31:25Police came from the police,
00:31:28and we saw a detailed video,
00:31:32which was viral,
00:31:33that they made their car.
00:31:34So I went to the house,
00:31:36and the cameras came,
00:31:37and I said, come here,
00:31:39I put my camera on,
00:31:41and my camera is like,
00:31:42there's an app on my mobile,
00:31:44and it also has an app,
00:31:47and it also has an app.
00:31:48And my child,
00:31:49who is 11 years old,
00:31:50has downloaded it.
00:31:52And what happens,
00:31:53it's fun to come,
00:31:54because there's a mic on the app,
00:31:57so we can hear from the camera,
00:32:00what are we doing in the kitchen?
00:32:01What are you doing?
00:32:03What are you doing?
00:32:04We're sitting on the floor,
00:32:06and sitting on the floor,
00:32:08there's a picture on the room,
00:32:10and you can see a camera,
00:32:11and where you may be telling it,
00:32:13but like you are getting a camera,
00:32:15and you can see a camera.
00:32:16You have to move first,
00:32:17and you have to make a look.
00:32:18And even after that,
00:32:19you have to talk to someone,
00:32:21and then you can hear some noise,
00:32:22and you can hear your sound.
00:32:24And your sound can also go straight.
00:32:27My husband was in the house,
00:32:29and he was back home,
00:32:30and came back to the team.
00:32:32I also thought that I would like to talk to myself.
00:32:36I was so excited to see this.
00:32:39One benefit is that the camera is going to look at it.
00:32:44It's not a big thing.
00:32:48The mates, the helpers, they know that we are under observation.
00:32:54So they don't even think.
00:32:57They know that they are connected.
00:33:01They know that we can monitor you.
00:33:08That's why you stop.
00:33:14When there is fear of accountability,
00:33:17those things stop.
00:33:19But if we don't have a fear of accountability,
00:33:22then we come in the same way.
00:33:25But in this way, we are cautious.
00:33:27It's not so much that the other person thinks that we have to lose control.
00:33:34This is also the irritation.
00:33:36I would like to ask you one thing.
00:33:38Dr. Manisha.
00:33:40Dr. Manisha.
00:33:41Dr. Manisha.
00:33:42Even the one thing is thinking
00:33:47In other words, there is something that has come to you in front of the people who have come in front of you.
00:33:53Yes, it comes in. Most of the times, we have tempering with cameras.
00:33:59Because there is a whole group.
00:34:02There is a lot of drivers and helpers.
00:34:07They all have met.
00:34:09Most of our last observations, when I was in SDP, in the defense area, were prevalent.
00:34:19Most of them are in one place.
00:34:22For example, in one city, in Punjab, in one person, their background is the same.
00:34:27They have a lot of affinity.
00:34:29If they are in one place, they are in one place.
00:34:34The driver is the same.
00:34:36The driver is the same.
00:34:37The other helpers are the same.
00:34:39They are working in the house sales.
00:34:41They are also from their home.
00:34:42So, they become a whole gang.
00:34:45And the other thing is that the cameras are very good for deterrence.
00:34:51At least, it is very helpful for us.
00:34:54At least, we get to know who was accused, who came or who went.
00:34:58Where there are not cameras, we have issues in detection.
00:35:02So, this is the advantage of it.
00:35:04It is not necessarily that if anyone is in the house and there are cameras on.
00:35:08They will stop the cameras and they will be able to get out of Punjab or some other.
00:35:13So, they will not come back in many cases.
00:35:17They were 15 days, we came to the hospital and they have been able to get out of jail.
00:35:22They were able to get out of jail and they have taken out of jail.
00:35:23So, there are also issues.
00:35:25As a preventive measure, this is very good that cameras are installed in the house.
00:35:31But it is not important that if there are cameras, they will not be able to get out of jail.
00:35:35Okay.
00:35:36And the second thing is that the most important thing is that the most important thing is that is the trust.
00:35:42That is the trust, which has a gap in your police and public.
00:35:45Because we have a system called Tenant and Employee Registration System.
00:35:53So, if you have any questions that you have to keep in mind, then you have to register in the house.
00:36:02If you have any questions that you have to register in the house, you have to register in the house.
00:36:04So, this is the second thing that you do make sure that you need to register in the house.
00:36:06It is very important that your employer has a card for your home.
00:36:11I will tell you that many children have a child that has not made a card for their parents.
00:36:22It happens to be more and more because they don't get jobs.
00:36:28In my colony, you can't keep someone in my home if you don't make a card.
00:36:34After coming to the house, it is very difficult because every employee who works in our colony has a card.
00:36:43There is a police file, police history, your address.
00:36:47There is a lot of safety.
00:36:50In my house, I had a divorce from my house.
00:36:55I had a divorce. I had a divorce.
00:36:58I had a divorce.
00:37:00I had a divorce.
00:37:01Where did you get a divorce?
00:37:02Because there are cameras on the roads.
00:37:04There are also cameras on the gates.
00:37:08There are all the supervision of the guards.
00:37:12So the police in the house
00:37:19The maid has got a Meta-nature.
00:37:21The driver has got a disaster.
00:37:22And they have allowed a car to drive in the house.
00:37:25They have to sleep on the cleaned the floor.
00:37:28The driver pleases the whole night.
00:37:29They say, they have to sleep on the inside town in the house.
00:37:31Precisely on the north of the house.
00:37:33Yes, sir.
00:38:03Basically, he has a gun, he kept his car, and kept his car.
00:38:08Now, this case is like that anyone concerned victim was given timely information to the police.
00:38:15So, it was working, so it was traced.
00:38:18I tell you that we have a camera in the house.
00:38:21We were leaving a month before the house, and we were outside.
00:38:26So, we didn't know who came back.
00:38:29We were so much of the people who were working back.
00:38:32So, first of all, we have targeted a lot of awareness, targeted campaigns in the police
00:38:38that at least you have a servant's card, you have to know that you have a criminal record
00:38:44that you have not had previous criminal record.
00:38:48So, this is the biggest challenge in these cases, that the owners don't have a card.
00:38:56They say that they have a need for us and that they don't have a basic work.
00:39:01But when they are desperate, they don't have a lot of time, they don't have a job.
00:39:08So, they just have to keep their hands.
00:39:13My mother has always been in my house, she always kept her home, she always kept her home.
00:39:26There was a lot of complicated female children.
00:39:28But she was at a desperation.
00:39:30She had married to her house.
00:39:32And then she died.
00:39:34She took her ass and kept her lying.
00:39:36She said, what are you doing?
00:39:38She's got four or five days.
00:39:40She took my wife and took her the vest.
00:39:42Because of the way, she was desperate.
00:39:44So, when we are desperate,
00:39:46it will be the same thing.
00:39:48She won't happen.
00:39:50She won't take anything.
00:39:52It's not possible to do anything, but it has to be a trauma.
00:39:59I am with Farah and I will ask what to share with you.
00:40:05Thank you, Farah.
00:40:07My husband has a big job.
00:40:10I don't keep the money in the bank.
00:40:13They give me everything in my hand.
00:40:16I keep it in my locker.
00:40:18I keep it in my pocket.
00:40:20When we lived there, we knew them.
00:40:23Now, when we shifted to Nazmabad,
00:40:25I don't know anyone there.
00:40:27I know one or two people.
00:40:28I need my mother.
00:40:30I have a child with my mother.
00:40:32I asked her for two months.
00:40:34She did a very good job.
00:40:37I didn't trust her.
00:40:39The girl comes to the shop and gives me money.
00:40:42I go to the house and lock it in my pocket.
00:40:45I have a lot of money.
00:40:47She doesn't do anything.
00:40:49She doesn't work.
00:40:51She doesn't work.
00:40:52She doesn't work.
00:40:53She doesn't work.
00:40:54She doesn't work.
00:40:55She doesn't work.
00:40:56I have a lot of money.
00:40:57I'll take some money.
00:40:59I'll come to the house until Jamila bhaji comes in.
00:41:02The house is this,
00:41:03so I say to my daughter,
00:41:04I will open the door.
00:41:06She came to the door.
00:41:08She came to the door and opened the door.
00:41:10And she opened the door.
00:41:11I started working in my work.
00:41:12When I was in work, I was holding a button and said to me, I would like to give a child to my child.
00:41:19I took a child to the inside.
00:41:22Then I opened the door and opened the door.
00:41:25I opened the door and I said, what would you do with Jamila?
00:41:28I took my head and two men were standing.
00:41:31And the ungodly men were standing on my head.
00:41:34Then I came and the child was scared and cried.
00:41:37I was scared and cried.
00:41:40I was so fast that I was working.
00:41:43You are not saying that your voice is not working.
00:41:45I was scared of this way.
00:41:48My child started to cry and I would cut my head.
00:41:51Then I got the door.
00:41:56I wanted the door to the door.
00:41:59I didn't have money.
00:42:02I opened the door and opened the door.
00:42:05I was dropped in the door.
00:42:07I was like, how did you get the door?
00:42:08Then she gave me the door and said, where are the other people?
00:42:11I was like, what am I not found.
00:42:12So I left the door and disappeared.
00:42:14All in the door and ended the door and went.
00:42:18I went out and walked back to iguana, where did I go?
00:42:20But I didn't see anyone or anyone.
00:42:23I well went out and I hadn't been gone.
00:42:26I didn't know them.
00:42:27I was sitting and my husband came.
00:42:29He said the truth was changed.
00:42:33Good morning Pakistan
00:43:03Welcome, welcome back, Good morning Pakistan
00:43:05In the previous segment, they have been here
00:43:09They have been in desperation and stayed in a home
00:43:13And because of that, two strangers entered their home
00:43:21And in such a place where people don't know where the locker is
00:43:27Where the money is, where the money is
00:43:29Like they have a hand in their home
00:43:33Which we have heard in the previous segment
00:43:35Dr. Sana, I am asking you
00:43:37That when we hire a new person
00:43:43So basically
00:43:45When you are not mature
00:43:47You can't do their face tweet
00:43:49You can't observe
00:43:51You can't ignore them
00:43:53You can't ignore them
00:43:55You can't ignore them
00:43:57Please, please
00:43:59As pointers
00:44:01What are the things we need to do
00:44:03Observation
00:44:05That's
00:44:07That's
00:44:09That's
00:44:11That's
00:44:13That's
00:44:15That's
00:44:17You can't
00:44:18That's
00:44:20That's
00:44:22That's
00:44:24That's
00:44:26That's
00:44:28That's
00:44:30That's
00:44:32That's
00:44:34That's
00:44:36That's
00:44:38That's
00:44:40That's
00:44:42That's
00:44:44That's
00:44:46That's
00:44:48That's
00:44:50That's
00:44:52That's
00:44:54that they put their money in the locker room.
00:44:57And that's what we've said.
00:44:59Like he said, my husband was paying me out in the house,
00:45:04and I was in the locker room,
00:45:05and I was in the locker room,
00:45:07and I had a problem at home with everything.
00:45:09When an issue is concerned with you,
00:45:11then you'll realize that there is something.
00:45:13But when he comes to that,
00:45:15not from his own,
00:45:17but you'll be concerned about it.
00:45:20And if you're concerned about it,
00:45:21right
00:45:21and
00:45:36before
00:45:38you
00:45:40So, when you have a lot of things, you can't do so much with your family.
00:45:45Or, you can't do so much with your husband.
00:45:49You can't do so much with your husband.
00:45:53So, when we have so much bonding, strengthen, and share our own things,
00:45:59then, you can't do so much with your husband.
00:46:02You don't need to overlook this.
00:46:05People say that it's a small dog.
00:46:08This is a big dog.
00:46:12So, if you have small things or red flags,
00:46:16then, at least, you can confront it.
00:46:19Like I said before,
00:46:21when there is no fear of accountability,
00:46:23you can't stop that.
00:46:26So, please, don't do this.
00:46:29If you want to give it,
00:46:32you can't get it.
00:46:34If you want to give it,
00:46:36you can't give it.
00:46:38Because if you want to give it,
00:46:40you can't tell us that you need to ask us.
00:46:42You can't tell us that you need to give it.
00:46:46But the whole thing is good.
00:46:48So, you can't share it.
00:46:50You can't do it.
00:46:53I'm going to ask you that
00:46:56So, as you said, when you hire someone, you can see the things that you hire them.
00:47:03You can tell me that you can tell the police that we need to observe our security for someone to hire them.
00:47:13First of all, the best and effective way is that you have to keep them in mind and verify them.
00:47:21You can see that when you have verification, then you will take them to the ground and they will have bio-metrics.
00:47:29So, it will be full of fear.
00:47:32It will be clear that when I went to the ground, my picture is on the ground,
00:47:38my card is on the record, so I will go out today, not tomorrow,
00:47:42because my record will come here.
00:47:44This creates a lot of deterrence.
00:47:46We have a lot of people, even officers or others,
00:47:51because all of them are very busy in their professional lives.
00:47:55So, they say that you just do the same thing.
00:47:58How do we do the same thing?
00:48:00So, I always keep telling them,
00:48:02if you take the pens that you do the proper verification,
00:48:06it will save you a lot from future losses.
00:48:09And also, that employee knows that my process is already under verification
00:48:15because my record is still in the ground.
00:48:18So, this is a great deterrence and preventive factor,
00:48:21which is why we are telling people a lot of time,
00:48:24that you are going to do the same thing.
00:48:26The other thing is that, as they said,
00:48:28that the patrons noticed,
00:48:30as they first shared their case,
00:48:32they said that they opened the door and opened the door,
00:48:35and they saw that the door opened.
00:48:38But what she chose to do,
00:48:40is that they took the child into the door,
00:48:42and they were able to see themselves.
00:48:44So, you have to see the door open.
00:48:45Why did the door open open?
00:48:47Why did the door open open?
00:48:49When the door opened,
00:48:51the door closed and closed.
00:48:53The other thing is that,
00:48:55it may be that everyone can afford it,
00:48:57but still cameras are long-term investment for your security.
00:49:03And the other thing is still trying to stop it.
00:49:04The other thing is,
00:49:05it does happen.
00:49:06So, when I was looking into the door open,
00:49:07there are two cameras,
00:49:09there are 18,000,
00:49:10and now I just mentioned,
00:49:12there are the two cameras in,
00:49:13there have been some,
00:49:14I mean,
00:49:15I've got my app,
00:49:16where I am going to say that,
00:49:17there are about three billion,
00:49:18there are people in the need,
00:49:19it's not so low-term investment.
00:49:20But,
00:49:24there are people in theirision,
00:49:25and now there are no more quality
00:49:26to work.
00:49:27There are people in the way they collect
00:49:28the capital,
00:49:29that they are going to wifi, something happens to them, so there is a fear that we are under observation and there are recordings of them.
00:49:43For us, it is very easy to detect cases. There were many cases where cameras were detected.
00:49:50I want you to see an interesting case here.
00:49:53One time, we had an attempted house robbery and the family was not here in Pakistan.
00:49:59However, when they reached out, it was the case of the defense.
00:50:05When we went, it was the first time when we were there.
00:50:08It was the case of an intoxicated condition.
00:50:17According to him, it was the case of an intoxicated condition.
00:50:22It was the case of an infidelity.
00:50:24It was the case of an adult.
00:50:26It was the case of an adult.
00:50:28It was the case of a victim in the senior citizen.
00:50:31It was not a case of a victim.
00:50:34It was not the case of a crime.
00:50:36We were told that we had to complain about our work.
00:50:39We had reported that this group had been taken by the city.
00:50:42so we have done all the things
00:50:45you can believe that the work was going on
00:50:4825 days later
00:50:50we had geofencing
00:50:52and the numbers
00:50:53and everything
00:50:54we had found out
00:50:56that the watchman
00:50:58was related to the gang
00:51:00and they were from the same place
00:51:03and that was the whole
00:51:05cooked up story
00:51:07and that was standing
00:51:09in front of us
00:51:11that was all a drama
00:51:14you were sitting in the house
00:51:16and that's why the police didn't get there
00:51:18no, the police didn't get there
00:51:20the police didn't get there
00:51:22the police didn't get there
00:51:24there was a locker
00:51:26which watchman assumed
00:51:28that there was a lot of things
00:51:30they had so much security locks
00:51:32that they tried to sit down
00:51:34but they didn't open
00:51:36and there was more documents
00:51:39and there was no belongings
00:51:41and there was no belongings
00:51:42but because it was so
00:51:43like in the old
00:51:44house
00:51:45there was a locker
00:51:46that there was all your
00:51:47sins
00:51:48so it left an impression
00:51:49that it was a very heavy locker
00:51:51and there was a lot of belongings
00:51:53but that was
00:51:55that that was
00:51:56that I just think
00:51:57that there was a lot of documents
00:51:58that are very important
00:52:00there is nothing
00:52:01that there is nothing
00:52:02that there is nothing
00:52:03that there is no belonging
00:52:04but however if
00:52:05if someone else has a house help
00:52:06or employees
00:52:07they are
00:52:08they are
00:52:09foreign
00:52:39I don't see it in a special way, but it's not a real thing that it's changing.
00:52:48It's not a real thing that it's changing.
00:52:52Seriously, I'm just saying that it's changing.
00:52:55It's a real thing that it's recording.
00:53:01So those things are a time bomb.
00:53:05that you think you can think about your hands, who are your kitchen, if you have done it,
00:53:10then you can go to where you can go.
00:53:13This toxic environment to create a toxic environment,
00:53:17this is a very alarming thing.
00:53:22Yes, I would like to say,
00:53:25we have a victim.
00:53:27We have a victim,
00:53:29and we have a counselling.
00:53:31We will see a material loss,
00:53:34but we are thankful that you have lost your knowledge.
00:53:38I remember the answer today.
00:53:40They said, no,
00:53:41this is not something coming and going.
00:53:43It was my hard-earned money,
00:53:45which I had spent my entire life,
00:53:47my hard-earned money,
00:53:49and maybe you have a lot of possessions,
00:53:52but it's your hard-earned money.
00:53:55We don't realize every day
00:53:58that we have so many efforts
00:54:00and at the end of the month,
00:54:02what you earn or we earn,
00:54:04we have all our efforts,
00:54:06our every day.
00:54:08Whether it's worth,
00:54:10efforts,
00:54:11time,
00:54:12investment,
00:54:13it's a lot of emotional torture for a victim.
00:54:17Yes.
00:54:18Yes.
00:54:19Yes.
00:54:20Yes.
00:54:21Yes.
00:54:22Yes.
00:54:23Yes,
00:54:24Yes.
00:54:25Yes.
00:54:26Yes.
00:54:27Yes.
00:54:28Yes.
00:54:29Well,
00:54:30that's good,
00:54:31yes,
00:54:32how much do you realize that?
00:54:33It was such a beautiful and antique jewelry.
00:54:40As a woman, there was a lot of possession of someone's life.
00:54:47We recovered 50% of them, but 50% of them were sold in such places.
00:54:53Because they didn't sell in one place.
00:54:56They had a little jewelry, a little different jewelry,
00:55:00and they had a lot of jewelry and jewelry.
00:55:03So we recovered 50% of them,
00:55:05but 50% of them were sold.
00:55:07They had so many jewelry,
00:55:09and they had so many jewelry and ornaments.
00:55:12So you can see their properties.
00:55:15I had a lot of messages that you recovered 50% of them,
00:55:19but the 50% of them,
00:55:21I can't tell you how much I can invest.
00:55:24I can't get back to that jewelry.
00:55:27So it is a heavy loss on their part.
00:55:30So it is a heavy loss on their part.
00:55:32So now we have a lot of trauma and trauma.
00:55:37We have people who can't live without us.
00:55:42Exactly.
00:55:43So, with me, Sana.
00:55:45Sana, what do you share with us?
00:55:47Assalamualaikum.
00:55:48Assalamualaikum.
00:55:49My story is that I am a working woman.
00:55:52I also work in office.
00:55:54I sit at home and work on my own.
00:55:56My husband also goes to the office in the morning.
00:55:58I was a daughter in the morning.
00:56:00I was a daughter in the morning.
00:56:01I was a daughter in the morning.
00:56:02Then I was conceived again.
00:56:03I wanted a full time.
00:56:05I wanted a mate.
00:56:06Because now it is very difficult for me.
00:56:08Home, children, office,
00:56:09all I have to manage.
00:56:10So I have to see my small needs.
00:56:13So I was searching for it.
00:56:15So I got to get to Shamim Bhaji.
00:56:17Now I believe that my life was easy.
00:56:22I was a child.
00:56:23I felt so happy.
00:56:25I am very happy there.
00:56:27But I did not keep cooking for my daily routine.
00:56:30I feel like I was making a food.
00:56:32I also made a food.
00:56:33I made my children.
00:56:34I felt so happy.
00:56:36I was a good time.
00:56:37I managed everything.
00:56:40I was making a lot of tension.
00:56:42I just wanted to focus on my work.
00:56:44So, when I was at home,
00:56:47I shared my feelings with them.
00:56:49no one wants to share my own feelings.
00:56:51I was telling my mom that I am not going to get away.
00:56:54She gave me a question.
00:56:57What did she say?
00:56:59She said, my mom didn't want to be wrong.
00:57:02I wanted to say, she said.
00:57:04She said, okay, you do it.
00:57:07You should be fine.
00:57:09I wanted to share my own feelings.
00:57:13I also wanted to share my own feelings.
00:57:15foreign
00:57:45then when it was 2-3 months ago, but now I'm so happy that I made it so much, so I was so happy that I did it.
00:57:54So, it is so much time that I have to do so quickly, so I have to do it.
00:57:58I have to give life a few times and one time I have to do it.
00:58:03I have to do it, I have to do it.
00:58:05I have to do it.
00:58:07so I got 5,000, 10,000, 15,000, I got paid for it, so I gave it.
00:58:12I said, my son, I get so much money, I get so much money, I get so much money.
00:58:16So I will think about it.
00:58:18I said, I have to think about it.
00:58:19I mean, I have to go.
00:58:22I don't have to go.
00:58:23I don't have to go.
00:58:23When he came, he came from my house, my world.
00:58:28The last thing I realized was that I have been sick.
00:58:35I was sick of many times.
00:58:38I was sick of 24 hours.
00:58:40When I was sick of my mother, my mother was right.
00:58:44My parents were clear.
00:58:47My husband was on daily basis.
00:58:50I was also on the sort out.
00:58:53I thought that this was the result of my children.
00:58:58I shared my stories.
00:59:01And they gave me so much negativity to me, that I had so much regretted it.
00:59:09It was bizarre.
00:59:11But when they left, all the things went to their own place.
00:59:16My negativity was destroyed.
00:59:18My aunt had a lot of data.
00:59:20And she said that you had your own home.
00:59:23And you were very happy.
00:59:26And you were very happy.
00:59:27And you were very happy.
00:59:28This was all of them.
00:59:30And you were so angry that you would be so angry.
00:59:34My parents were okay.
00:59:37My parents were happy.
00:59:38We are having a discussion after break,
00:59:40over the last break.
00:59:41That is so important.
00:59:44To make it so much better.
00:59:46To make it so much better.
00:59:48These are all things to my family.
00:59:51I have also made so many things to my family.
00:59:54Some things to make it so much better.
00:59:56If you don't have any real problems.
00:59:58Good morning.
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01:01:52Good morning Pakistan.
01:01:54Good morning Pakistan.
01:01:58Good morning Pakistan.
01:02:00Good morning Pakistan.
01:02:04Good morning Pakistan.
01:02:06Good morning Pakistan.
01:02:08Good morning Pakistan.
01:02:10that you have to write yourself, that you will interfere with your life.
01:02:15Then, if you have shared a conversation with someone,
01:02:18then you will see what is mental capacity.
01:02:21That you are educated, and that you talk to which you are asking.
01:02:26If you have a mindset, you will give a mindset?
01:02:30Yes, absolutely.
01:02:31So, that's enough.
01:02:32And that you should rely on them to rely on them.
01:02:35But because you have trust so much,
01:02:38that you were blind, and you felt good about it, and you felt good about it,
01:02:44and you felt good about it.
01:02:46You were talking very sweet about it.
01:02:48So, your eyes were completely closed.
01:02:50Whatever you were saying, they were very good.
01:02:52So, this is why you have to look at the next thing,
01:02:56which decision or which you have to do,
01:03:00which is how valuable you are,
01:03:02and how much you have to work and how much you don't.
01:03:05Then, look at the patterns.
01:03:07We are just listening to the patterns,
01:03:10and we don't identify the patterns.
01:03:12If you have a decision or a decision,
01:03:15if you have a harm done,
01:03:17then you have to keep your eyes open.
01:03:19So, you have to keep vigilant,
01:03:20that you have to do another one.
01:03:22Two or three times.
01:03:23I thought that young children are very influential.
01:03:26They are very influential.
01:03:28Because when I was married,
01:03:30we lived in a combined family.
01:03:32When I was married,
01:03:34when I was married,
01:03:36I was a very young person.
01:03:39So, we hired a huge woman.
01:03:41And it was a small apartment that worked all my house.
01:03:45And I was very smart.
01:03:47I was very smart.
01:03:48When I was eating the food,
01:03:49I was doing everything and everything.
01:03:51She was very honest, she was also her children, I was very young and young girl.
01:04:02She was very honest and she was very honest, she was very honest.
01:04:10I thought without her, she didn't start her.
01:04:13I felt like I could trust her.
01:04:15She was always the mother-in-law or my mother.
01:04:17So this man, I didn't talk to him, I didn't talk to him, I didn't talk to him.
01:04:21I didn't talk to him. I felt like my and my in-laws started a riff.
01:04:27My mother didn't talk to me about this, but I felt a riff.
01:04:33Why are these people behaving like me?
01:04:36Our love started to come back.
01:04:40So one day, my husband told me to talk to him and his mother and his sister.
01:04:47And when we started talking to him, I realized that the woman was a double game.
01:04:54My mother-in-law and my sister-in-law had my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law.
01:05:00And after we started talking together, I realized that the woman was a double game playing at my mother-in-law,
01:05:07I was ecstatic because of my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law.
01:05:12For example, why am I saying it? Hawaii, that is.
01:05:17But my mother-in-law was always esquucken, because of my mother-in-law.
01:05:23I mean, it's weird that this is what they're talking about.
01:05:27It's very beautiful, that I'm going to hate on my mother.
01:05:30This is a real jail.
01:05:32The things that they put into their minds,
01:05:33they didn't know what to understand.
01:05:36And then all those things were clear.
01:05:38But at that time, I had one hand of my husband.
01:05:41This is absolutely right.
01:05:42Because the world knows a lot of things,
01:05:44and we don't know a lot of things.
01:05:46He cleared all the things, and I started to look at them.
01:05:50That I was in the sea.
01:05:52And my life was completely wrong in the sea.
01:05:56It's very necessary to identify patterns.
01:05:59And they saw that if there was a pattern that was disturbed,
01:06:03then they should be able to communicate.
01:06:06There are many problems that are resolved in communication.
01:06:10But someone should be vigilant.
01:06:13They all get blinded.
01:06:15And that's why these are problems.
01:06:17You've never happened to anyone in the sea.
01:06:19You've never happened to anyone in the sea.
01:06:23I think that the people in the sea are all alone.
01:06:28They all get more of their things.
01:06:30I've always been in a joint family.
01:06:31So there's never been a chance to get them.
01:06:34In the joint family system, there are more of them.
01:06:37Because of the mates.
01:06:39There's something to be here.
01:06:40There's something to be here.
01:06:41There's something to be.
01:06:43I'm very happy to be here.
01:06:44You've had two things.
01:06:45You don't give this.
01:06:46You don't give this.
01:06:47I'm very conscious of that.
01:06:50When an helper is being a little bit of a talk.
01:06:55I feel like this is a bad thing.
01:06:57And there's something to be here.
01:06:59I think that's a good relationship.
01:07:01But, Alhamdulillah, I know that there are good relationships with me.
01:07:07I think that this is my vehem.
01:07:09Yes, that's what I think.
01:07:11I remember that my daughter and I were in the beginning of the year,
01:07:17she had a good relationship to me.
01:07:20She had a good relationship to me.
01:07:24She had a good relationship to me and I grew up with her.
01:07:33It was my pleasure and I still had a good relationship.
01:07:36She had a good relationship with me.
01:07:38She was the one who was so happy.
01:07:43She was a good relationship.
01:07:46She was so happy.
01:07:48She was so happy to stay in bed.
01:07:51Yes, you can do it.
01:07:53Yes, yes.
01:07:55Yes.
01:07:57Yes.
01:07:59Yes.
01:08:01Yes.
01:08:03Yes.
01:08:05Yes.
01:08:07Yes.
01:08:09Yes.
01:08:13Yes.
01:08:23Yes.
01:08:25Yes.
01:08:27Yes.
01:08:29Yes.
01:08:31Yes.
01:08:33that if you have your mother and your sister and your sister,
01:08:38you will set your boundaries.
01:08:43You will not listen.
01:08:46If you don't listen to your family,
01:08:48you will go and leave.
01:08:50If you don't listen to your family,
01:08:52then you will say something about your family.
01:08:55That's right.
01:08:57These are small things that you can learn from your family.
01:09:01but also you have to open your eyes, if you have given them a shut-up call,
01:09:07you can manipulate them and not say anything.
01:09:12So that's why you have to be vigilant to keep your communication channels open
01:09:19so that you can influence or manipulate them.
01:09:26Absolutely.
01:09:27What do you want to say?
01:09:29Assalamu alaikum, my name is Fazeela.
01:09:32When I run a Polar, I had two children for 24 hours.
01:09:36I had a sister and a sister.
01:09:38I needed a mate for 24 hours.
01:09:40So I had to say to my friends.
01:09:43Then they recommended me and recommended me.
01:09:47So when they came, their name was Kausar.
01:09:49So when I put them in my house,
01:09:51I made a note that,
01:09:53I was a good friend.
01:09:54I was a good friend.
01:09:56I was a good friend.
01:09:57Because I had to see my clothes and the mother's clothes,
01:10:00I had to see them too.
01:10:01Because I was in the morning and I was in the morning,
01:10:03I was in the morning and I was in the afternoon.
01:10:04I didn't have to stay with my in-laws.
01:10:06So they just wanted to see all the children,
01:10:08and they were all the same.
01:10:09And the children were very good,
01:10:10so they were also doing all the time.
01:10:12so that everything is good but after my husband
01:10:17said that these children are very attached to the side of the side of the side
01:10:22and I said that they are very good and they are very good
01:10:26because they are very much aware of it
01:10:29because they are very much aware of it
01:10:31I was 9 years old
01:10:33so my daughter can understand that she has worked here
01:10:36for 3 years in my house
01:10:39So, if we go to the house or dinner, we will go to the house or dinner.
01:10:47If we go to the house or the house or the house, we will not go.
01:10:52If I had a conversation or my husband had a conversation, then we will listen to our children.
01:10:56Then we would say to him, he would listen to his husband.
01:10:58Then my husband would say, leave it, I can't leave it.
01:11:01I can't leave it, I can't leave it.
01:11:03My children are good and have children.
01:11:05Then my mother was in Islamabad for a few days and came to my home.
01:11:10Then I also told her that she would love her.
01:11:15It was just this thing that they would say, I can't say anything.
01:11:20Then I would say something, I would say something, I would say something.
01:11:22Then my husband would say something like grocery.
01:11:24I used to say something like 15 days.
01:11:27Like 15 days, fish, fish, nuggets.
01:11:30foreign
01:11:58foreign
01:11:59.
01:12:29Oh my God!
01:12:59She used to work on it. We didn't hear anything about it.
01:13:03And now she's becoming more normal.
01:13:06But now she remembers that I have to meet her with her.
01:13:11I don't understand.
01:13:13I'll come back to you.
01:13:16But I want to tell you something.
01:13:18Mashallah, I've done PhD on Mates.
01:13:22Because I was three children,
01:13:24who was my little child,
01:13:26who was my life show.
01:13:28So I had to stay with a babysitter.
01:13:31But since my son was born in a mature age,
01:13:36I had to handle my things.
01:13:39So I never had to be attached emotionally.
01:13:44I used it as a helper.
01:13:47I used it as a helper.
01:13:49Do it.
01:13:50Do it.
01:13:51Do it.
01:13:53So when you eat them,
01:13:57eating them through the arm internally.
01:13:59I used it as a entrepreneur.
01:14:00So when it comes to me,
01:14:01I used to go to my kids with a loved ones.
01:14:05So I used to have a drink of equality,
01:14:07and I used to have masks for kids.
01:14:09If you don't need it,
01:14:10once it comes to me and I used to be doing it.
01:14:13So, my child has never been able to go for 2-2 years, and my child has never been able to go for a while.
01:14:25So, I thought that I would listen to the children who are ill.
01:14:30This is a balance.
01:14:32So, I thought that this doesn't happen.
01:14:36Why didn't it have a difference?
01:14:38Because it's going to happen and it's been a big time.
01:14:44So why didn't it happen?
01:14:45Then I observed that maybe it's not that I put it on my own.
01:14:50I put it on my own and put it on my own.
01:14:56Yes.
01:14:57This balance is the work of mother.
01:14:59Yes.
01:15:00Because I work for 24 hours, I couldn't keep it.
01:15:04It's not my own.
01:15:06I'm not gonna sleep with my child.
01:15:10I'm not gonna sleep with my own.
01:15:12I'm gonna sleep with my own, but I'm not gonna sleep.
01:15:16But it's still a story.
01:15:18My mother and baby also had to leave her.
01:15:21She was around 3-3 years ago.
01:15:24So, she had a house with a girl,
01:15:25she hadn't opened her house.
01:15:27She could have a house.
01:15:29She has a helper.
01:15:31that he knew that he had to put his child in the injection and he had to ask for that.
01:15:37It was so sad that I had to listen to him.
01:15:43There are a lot of people who ask for the poor,
01:15:46but he had to sleep.
01:15:48He had to sleep.
01:15:50He had to sleep.
01:15:51He had to sleep.
01:15:53He had to sleep.
01:15:56We had a child who worked, it was a live show.
01:16:00His marriage was also after the show.
01:16:02His children were also after the show.
01:16:05He was young and was always here.
01:16:08He was young and was young.
01:16:10He gave a little leverage to say,
01:16:12that you can't bring anything to the child.
01:16:14Our family has also been here.
01:16:16But he felt a little tired,
01:16:18but he felt a little tired.
01:16:20He felt a lot of his mother.
01:16:21He also had a combined family.
01:16:23He didn't have any children.
01:16:25She had to bring her to the live show. Then she kept her maid. She was desperate. She got a little girl and she kept her.
01:16:33After a show, she didn't know that she had a baby. She reached the house before her time.
01:16:41She reached the house. She reached the street. She cried a lot. She cried a lot. She cried a lot.
01:16:48that she was running. When she was running, she saw that the maid had killed her daughter,
01:16:53she was lulling her hair, and she had lost her hands.
01:16:59She was a 7-8 months old. What did she tell you?
01:17:03If she didn't see her daughter, she didn't hear her, she didn't know.
01:17:07Because she was a big child, she was being abused,
01:17:11and she was saying to her, she didn't tell her.
01:17:14She was a child. She said to her, she said, I will run away.
01:17:19But I said, it was her little child. She got the trauma.
01:17:24She was a child. She killed her. She was killing her.
01:17:31She killed her. She killed her. She killed her.
01:17:34You have a child. She lost her job.
01:17:39And a lot of trouble happens.
01:17:42That is why they leave home, that they give their children a good life.
01:17:46They don't have to be able to get a good school.
01:17:50But you want to get a good school.
01:17:53This trauma goes with their whole life.
01:17:56So a working lady decides what time they have to do in their life.
01:18:03What time they have to do in their mother's duty.
01:18:07Because this is a very big duty.
01:18:09If you have a doctor or an engineer or a pilot or anything.
01:18:12The profession is not running away.
01:18:14But this is the age of children.
01:18:17After a break, we will come back.
01:18:23Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.
01:18:26So the last discussion was released.
01:18:31That there are babysitters.
01:18:33If you hire a child, if you hire a child.
01:18:37How do you handle it?
01:18:39And the most important thing is that,
01:18:40When any of you are in a brothersntown in your home.
01:18:44Then you stay at an eye.
01:18:46And if you are in a family.
01:18:49You stay at a family.
01:18:51You stay at some of your children.
01:18:53Just think that we want to be able to help you.
01:18:55it's more costly because the employer has no one has enough to keep their relationship
01:19:01with that, you are always living in our own work.
01:19:06You should say something about this.
01:19:08Yes, but it's been very difficult, like you said you talked about your children
01:19:13emotionally dependent in that case.
01:19:15Either they're in a case for another, they will never be emotionally dependent on their
01:19:19children.
01:19:20Not to replace their presence.
01:19:24Yes.
01:19:25Yes.
01:19:26Yes.
01:19:27Yes.
01:19:28Yes.
01:19:29Yes.
01:19:30Yes.
01:19:44Yes.
01:19:45that they can share everything with you.
01:19:48Another thing is that we have to make boundaries for our children.
01:19:53Yes.
01:19:54And our mates.
01:19:55Where is your height?
01:19:57Where is your height?
01:19:58I said to my child, don't love my child.
01:20:02Yes.
01:20:03I will give them the needs and the emotional needs.
01:20:08Yes.
01:20:09Help us, but I don't love my child.
01:20:12Absolutely.
01:20:13There is a lot of things.
01:20:14Emotional needs and physical needs.
01:20:16If you want to eat or anything else,
01:20:19immediate gratification.
01:20:21When someone gives us immediate gratification,
01:20:25we automatically get our attachment to our children.
01:20:29The child will give us immediate gratification.
01:20:33The child will automatically go to their parents.
01:20:35So, parents should not do fake promises with parents.
01:20:39Like, if they are going to work,
01:20:41if they are going to work with you today,
01:20:43I will give you this.
01:20:44And the day will never come.
01:20:45Right?
01:20:46So, in this place,
01:20:47the mates will replace everything.
01:20:49The mates will replace everything.
01:20:50The mates will be given.
01:20:51So, the emotional dependency will automatically develop.
01:20:54So, you have to set these things yourself.
01:20:56And you have to set these patterns.
01:20:58You will need to set your children.
01:20:59They will balance your children to support them.
01:21:01What should they be able to get back to them?
01:21:02But later,
01:21:03as a result of your children.
01:21:04Why should they be able to set the boundaries?
01:21:05And then they will clear your children.
01:21:06That is why you are going to set them down.
01:21:07OK.
01:21:08Absolutely.
01:21:09Actually, a child should also look at the same things.
01:21:12For example, many mothers are working,
01:21:14they are making a time table,
01:21:15they are drinking water, what do they do?
01:21:17A child should also look at the same things
01:21:19that my mother is saying.
01:21:21She is only one hand.
01:21:23If she is not in my clothes,
01:21:25she will sit there,
01:21:29but she will listen.
01:21:31In her mind,
01:21:33my mother knows that my mother knows.
01:21:35I have to eat this,
01:21:37but my mother is dictating her
01:21:39and she is doing all the work of a puppet.
01:21:41Not that the child is looking at it
01:21:43that my mother is not happy,
01:21:45and my food,
01:21:47and my clothes,
01:21:49all the things are supported to the woman.
01:21:51Then,
01:21:53the child is very dependent on the child.
01:21:55The child is influencing.
01:21:57That I need everything I need.
01:21:59In that case,
01:22:01we have seen this,
01:22:03that the child is not at home,
01:22:05but the quality,
01:22:07the time,
01:22:09the time,
01:22:11the time,
01:22:13the time,
01:22:15you have to spend it.
01:22:17You have to do all the work.
01:22:19with the child,
01:22:21and the child needs to be told.
01:22:23Really,
01:22:25the child needs to be a better job.
01:22:27You have to do all the work that you need to do
01:22:29with your child's needs.
01:22:31So, you can create a system that you can create a system, when you become a system and discipline,
01:22:38then you don't have to come.
01:22:41And the system always follows.
01:22:43If you become a day and follow, then you don't know.
01:22:46If you follow one or two, you don't know.
01:22:48You should be completely different.
01:22:50What do you want to say?
01:22:51Hina, as-salamu alaykum.
01:22:53I'm a housewife.
01:22:56So, I'm doing all my work.
01:22:59But now, I have a problem with my husband.
01:23:03So, my husband told me that I'm a problem with sitting and sitting.
01:23:07So, I have to hire someone.
01:23:10So, I was one of my friends.
01:23:13He was a daughter.
01:23:16So, I kept her in my house.
01:23:19So, I kept her in my house.
01:23:21So, she had a mobile.
01:23:23And then, she used to use the mobile thing.
01:23:26So, it was just that time she got locked.
01:23:27And, like my husband was coming out of my house.
01:23:30So, she had a house, when she交ing around the room.
01:23:32So, she was running outside the room.
01:23:33So, when she came out of my husband, she was going out of the window.
01:23:36So, she was talking talking about something on the phone.
01:23:37At the night, she came back from 2 to 3,
01:23:39So, my husband came to the door.
01:23:41She came back at the door.
01:23:42Because, she's talking about what she's doing doing.
01:23:44So, I said, let's go.
01:23:45And, in the morning, I asked him.
01:23:47I asked him, at the morning,
01:23:48I asked him.
01:23:49Who are you talking about this night?
01:23:50So she said that she is my cousin, my sister, and my sister's son.
01:23:55I was talking to her, but I didn't tell my mother, like my mother.
01:23:59Because she tells me that she doesn't have to talk to her before.
01:24:02So that's how the time goes.
01:24:04I have two daughters here, masha'Allah.
01:24:06So that's how the time goes.
01:24:08One day, I had to go to my daughter, so I had to go to my daughter.
01:24:12So I left my daughter at home.
01:24:14My children went to college.
01:24:16Then I called my daughter at 2.30am.
01:24:20I said, I'm from college, so there's no one at home.
01:24:23So I said, I have to go to my daughter.
01:24:27I have to go to my daughter.
01:24:29She said, no, there's no one at home.
01:24:31She had to go to my daughter.
01:24:33I said, I'm not at home.
01:24:35So I left her home.
01:24:39So I came to my daughter.
01:24:41Then I called my mother.
01:24:43She was a child, she was a child.
01:24:46She was a child.
01:24:47She loved her.
01:24:48She had to cry and cry.
01:24:49She said, I'm sorry, this is what happened.
01:24:52But then, she was in the police.
01:24:56Then I told her to go to my daughter and go to the police.
01:24:59Then it was happened in two or three months.
01:25:01And then I came to my house, I was in the house.
01:25:04They were all married.
01:25:05He was married.
01:25:06I was with my daughter.
01:25:08So, after 2-3 months I got to know that someone called a girl
01:25:13and then she went with the girl.
01:25:15And then she got to know that?
01:25:17Yes.
01:25:18That's the reason why the children leave my house
01:25:24and we need to get to know what to do.
01:25:29I just got to know that I didn't inform her.
01:25:33I just got to know that I didn't tell her.
01:25:35because she said that you don't tell my mother,
01:25:37but it will be wrong that I didn't tell her.
01:25:40I want to help a little policing factor aid,
01:25:43because there are many cases that I have,
01:25:45and they are very difficult for me,
01:25:47because any girl's family,
01:25:50they are all responsible for the honors,
01:25:54and they also nominate them,
01:25:56because they have done our children,
01:25:58and raped, and raped,
01:26:00and those who are.
01:26:02So, if you do not,
01:26:04if you do not,
01:26:06if you do not,
01:26:08if you do not,
01:26:10if you do not,
01:26:12if you do not,
01:26:14if you do not,
01:26:16if you do not ask your family,
01:26:18I do not ask your family,
01:26:20for example,
01:26:21a child from Punjab,
01:26:22or outside,
01:26:24they do not give you 5-6 months,
01:26:28so,
01:26:29there are many reasons,
01:26:30suspicion in the radar, first of all, the family is coming, so when things are proven,
01:26:35the family of the owner, the owner of Bangalore, the owner of the family, the owner of the family,
01:26:39they suffer from these things, especially in the children's situation.
01:26:42So, always the first hand information, if you can convey,
01:26:47and you provide the police with F.I.R. and information,
01:26:51it is very helpful in these cases.
01:26:54Thank you so much for coming to the show.
01:26:57Thank you so much for you.
01:27:03Thank you so much.
01:27:17Thank you so much.
01:27:19I am very happy and proud of you because actually your whole game is your mind and if you use your mind in the right way, then you can save many things.
01:27:33If you don't have two days, there will be a big disaster. Good morning Pakistan and Khudhafiz.
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