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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 11: The Art of Dragging
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00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:13We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh my god, look who's here.
00:29I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance
00:45for our relationship to work, I'm going
00:47to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:03It's like, you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done.
01:15I'm done, like.
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:22You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance
01:27class, we might have even bigger problems
01:30than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:51How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:54I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:07That was pure madness.
02:09How'd you like your lap dance?
02:11Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:13Good.
02:13I'm glad.
02:14I'm kidding.
02:15Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:19and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:22Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:25and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:29I unleashed the beast last night.
02:32You were a wild and crazy man.
02:34The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:38Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:43I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:47So, yeah.
02:50So, what are we going to do today?
02:53I plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:55Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:57It's a surprise, but we need to get going
02:59because the reservation's coming up soon.
03:01OK.
03:01Let's hit the road.
03:03Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella,
03:06and my brother, Nick.
03:08Do we have a car picking us up?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Are we walking?
03:12We're walking.
03:13Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:15Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:18but I'm hoping everybody can have fun, just let their guard down
03:23because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger
03:26and I really need for everybody in my family,
03:30especially Bella, to be on board.
03:33Nick!
03:34Nick!
03:35Oh, hi.
03:36Hey.
03:36How you doing?
03:37How are you?
03:39I'm doing good.
03:40Oh, nice to meet you.
03:41This is Gino.
03:42How you doing? Nice meeting you, finally.
03:44Nice meeting you, too.
03:45This is my twin brother.
03:47Twin brother.
03:47Yeah.
03:48Yeah.
03:48She's a pretty twin.
03:49Yeah.
03:51No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:54I can see the resemblance.
03:56First time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
04:00Everything was a nightmare.
04:01She was calling me, crying all the time.
04:04And, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:06So, when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:09I thought she was crazy.
04:10This is going to be a whole huge drama mess,
04:13like every other relationship she's been through.
04:16We're going to see some entertainment.
04:18Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:20Drag show?
04:21I haven't...
04:22I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:24You're in for a treat.
04:25Oh, yeah.
04:26Is Bella there already?
04:27Have you talked to her?
04:27I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:29You haven't talked to her?
04:31Not since yesterday.
04:34I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:38Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:42she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:46I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:51Okay.
04:52I texted.
04:53All right.
04:54So, we're good to go?
04:55Yeah, let's go.
04:56We're going to miss the show.
04:58Okay.
04:58Stop worrying.
04:59I'm not.
05:00Yeah, don't worry about anything.
05:01It's not good for that pretty face.
05:03Stop.
05:06I'm a girl you see on the street.
05:08Drop a little boy down to my feet.
05:10I like when you're underneath.
05:12What?
05:15How's everybody doing today?
05:19Are you all ready to get started?
05:22Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Drepper!
05:31I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:34Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:46And they're putting their in my face.
05:54This is what I love about Natalie.
05:57She brings me out of my shell or even out of my comfort zone.
06:01She can do that to me.
06:11Yeah!
06:12We all had a good time with us today?
06:14Yeah!
06:14Oh, yeah!
06:16Happy birthday, everybody.
06:17I'm sure.
06:17Oh, wow!
06:22After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:24Yeah.
06:25Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:26She's not responding to me.
06:29Really?
06:29That's weird.
06:32She's not a company.
06:33She texted you?
06:35Yeah.
06:39Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:41And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:44She just doesn't like Gina.
06:46She doesn't trust him.
06:47All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:50And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:54I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:57It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:59You think so?
07:01She's told me she does not like him.
07:03And that's the reason why she did not come.
07:05I mean, you're still married and your ex attacks Natalie.
07:09That's ridiculous.
07:10We came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:15But she hasn't gone past it.
07:17That's the problem.
07:18So we don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:21So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:26Like we are having fun together.
07:27So have you filed for divorce?
07:37Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:40And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:46So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:52I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:54You're still married to another woman.
07:57And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:59I get it.
08:00She wants to look out for me and I love her and I appreciate that.
08:04But I still would like her to give him a chance.
08:08You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:15She comes first.
08:17She comes first.
08:19Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:23They are toxic.
08:25They're liars.
08:26They're not honest.
08:27I had an ex that was a serial cheater and I knew it.
08:32So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:36I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:42You're going to have to win her over.
08:44She's the hard one to win over.
08:46Yeah.
08:47And don't piss her off.
08:52Trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:57I'm so tired.
08:59Six, seven.
09:00Walk her through.
09:01We go one, two.
09:02We go forward, tap.
09:05What the ?
09:06I just don't freaking get it.
09:22I asked you if you want to dance and you said no.
09:25So then I told you I'm going to dance with somebody else and I did.
09:28And then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance.
09:30So I wanted you to have fun and I wanted you to come into my world.
09:35I was.
09:35I enjoyed the dancing.
09:36I was having fun.
09:37So what's the problem then?
09:38I mean, we just talked about coming to his class, learning how to dance and social was
09:45out of nowhere.
09:46And all of a sudden we talk about that and then you storm off, find some Vin Diesel guy
09:50or actually a guy who looks just like your ex and you're just having a good time.
09:55Are you kidding me?
09:55So here's the thing.
09:57You're going to Ibiza in a couple of weeks.
09:58There's going to be many socials in Ibiza too.
10:00And there's going to be many socials in Croatia as well.
10:03So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
10:06What I'm trying to say is like if you're going to dance with random guys, what's going to happen?
10:10And they want to have a good time.
10:13They want to have a good time.
10:14So because they want to have a good time, I need to be punished.
10:17And I'm going to be.
10:18Punished?
10:18And I'm going to be.
10:19Yeah.
10:19So you're trying to accuse me of something that I haven't even done yet.
10:22So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want.
10:24I just don't understand, Tony.
10:26Because it's like a vacation.
10:27Listen, I danced with a guy after a dance class after you said that you don't want to dance.
10:31And now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys in Ibiza and like potentially cheating on you.
10:36You just said you would.
10:36You just said you would.
10:37Well, like you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:40I never said that.
10:44He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:48He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:51I feel like at this point in our relationship, he should trust me.
10:54He should know who I am.
10:56He should know what I stand for.
10:57He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him or put our relationship in jeopardy.
11:03Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me.
11:07And I'm really hurt by that.
11:09I don't think I deserve it.
11:11You don't see a problem here at all.
11:13You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all.
11:15I don't see a problem.
11:21This is my everyday life.
11:22This is what I've been doing for years.
11:23This is my passion.
11:24I see it as this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:27That's the problem.
11:28So you're stopping me from being who I am because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:32No, I think there's compromise.
11:33There's compromise.
11:34We're not having it.
11:35We're not having compromise.
11:36This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:37No, it's not.
11:37This is really.
11:38It's not.
11:39It's compromised.
11:40You ruined everything.
11:41So I hope you're happy.
11:43I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:45I'm taking an Uber home and this is it.
11:47I'm done with this .
11:52She's been single for a very long time.
11:54She still does things her own way.
11:56I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture of when you're in a relationship,
12:01it's about compromise.
12:02And to me, dance is very sensual.
12:04Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
12:06And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
12:10You just gonna storm off again?
12:11No, I just, I'm done, Tony.
12:13I'm calling an Uber and I'm going home.
12:15I brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys and other clubs.
12:19And she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative is to have fun.
12:23Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me when I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with
12:28her.
12:29So that's it.
12:30That's it.
12:30She's gonna storm out again.
12:31Yeah.
12:33Really?
12:33Yeah.
12:33There's no compromise.
12:34There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:37What compromise is there?
12:38Really?
12:38You're accusing me of being somebody who has nefarious intentions in mind.
12:43And I don't.
12:43You said you can do whatever you want.
12:44You said I can have fun.
12:45I can dance with whatever.
12:46What's, what do you want me to do?
12:49Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:51Maybe you should enjoy.
12:53Enjoy an visa.
12:54You know.
12:55We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:59Is, what, now you're threatening me.
13:01What?
13:05You obviously don't trust me and I'm going home.
13:20Seriously.
13:24This guy is acting like a complete control freak.
13:28Trying to tell me how to live my life.
13:30It is unacceptable.
13:31I'm a grown woman.
13:32I can make my own decisions.
13:34I'm not going to be told what I can and cannot do.
13:36Will you go watch me?
13:41I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them.
13:44I mean, what else do you think is going to happen here?
13:48This is really making me worried about our relationship going forward.
13:51Because if this is how Tony is acting when we're together,
13:55I cannot even imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks.
14:00It's really scaring me.
14:02We have other people here.
14:16SIZZx!
14:17Mama did embrace no fool.
14:19She let me walk in my own shoes.
14:21So double down and let me lose.
14:23There ain't no more mountain, I can't move.
14:37now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them
14:42I'm gonna put them back huh hey we're on a diet yeah I'm gonna get a cabbage we're gonna make
15:01some
15:01cabbage rolls so I talked to Colt oh my gosh where is he at no he's in Brazil he went
15:09to Brazil yeah
15:10to see the other woman yeah for the last month I haven't been in touch with Colt because I needed
15:17a break from that dumpster fire of a relationship but he called me out of the blue this morning from
15:24Brazil did he go back to Canada when no I guess I guess he went straight from Florida to Brazil
15:31oh
15:31my gosh seriously yeah I thought Colt went to Canada to live with his mom I found out the
15:39whole time he's been in Brazil with Diana the woman he's been sending videos to okay they're
15:47saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced so he has to have another surgery but he said
15:52he's
15:53found a doctor here that will accept the insurance and stuff here yeah in Orlando so I guess he's coming
15:59back he's not staying he's not staying at our place no no okay oh my gosh one thing we've learned
16:08from this experience is there's no stranger's gonna stay at our house again ever it's not gonna
16:14happen it's not gonna happen is he still in the wheelchair or is he yeah well I guess the doorways
16:20are small there so he's been using crutches because the wheelchair and walk are too big how's
16:24he gonna get around yeah he can't drive no I thought I'd go pick him up and like help him
16:29get situated in
16:30the hotel picking up Colt from the airport is gonna be torture you know we had a really strong
16:37connection there's still some type of bond which is maybe really dumb but I feel responsible for him
16:45does he want to try to get back with you I don't know what he wants don't don't let it
16:50happen
16:53he's not gonna be faithful yeah yeah no I think he's gonna lie and keep lying and lying I don't
17:00trust
17:00him so it's like how can I be with somebody I don't trust when he you keep lying about stuff
17:08you're not sincere yeah I don't see any sincerity at all to this no respect I mean leave our God
17:16her alone I mean bottom line well if it was me I would be over with it but it's you
17:27I think you're
17:28strong enough but when he casts that fishing line and reels you back in and you know he's gonna try
17:36revolve your life around him no no because he could care less about you he's just using you once
17:43again I feel he can't use me because I'm offering help I'm offering to do this for him I want
17:48to do
17:49this for him so it's like he's not using me it's like he's not playing me he's playing himself but
17:53then how far are you gonna take this yeah yeah I just want to you know get him from the
17:58airport to
17:59the hotel yeah right okay set boundaries like all the crying and stuff I've been doing I think it's
18:04just like feeling sorry for him like he might be permanently disabled so I cry more about his leg
18:10than about him dating other women I know my parents are worried about Colt breaking my heart again they
18:18see that he still affects me and like the truth is I don't know what I'm gonna feel when I
18:24see him
18:25we had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn that off I feel like Colt has some
18:33type of
18:33crazy power over me and I don't really trust myself with him life is way too short to be
18:39putting up with that fill your life with happy things I will you want the doughnuts
18:45no I think I need the wine the wine
19:00yay stockings here you can hang your own stocking up son
19:04all right boom okay there we go look at that look at that you already have stuff in your stocking
19:14is it candy oh yeah I gotta get one okay this isn't good it's been there since last year
19:24I've been naughty I've been nice Santa daddy bring me everything I like
19:28milk and cookies when I fight when I fight give me lit I want a single bell a night
19:35here we go grand Illuminate
19:38it actually looks pretty good do you remember this monkey grandma bought this for you so I'll let you
19:44hang that just hang it neck near her picture yeah it's cute huh Christmas is in a few weeks and
19:52I'm
19:52really really excited because it's my favorite holiday everything's all sparkly everybody's just
19:57nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister and previous holidays when I
20:04do
20:04stuff like this it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my grandma it was like
20:08our thing was to like decorate you know so it's gonna be our thing now I think so and I
20:12think we
20:12should include Larry in this as well because he doesn't know any of our stuff doesn't know anything
20:16you want to call him yeah Christmas is all about family and this Christmas is even more special
20:24because my family just got bigger my relationship with my son that I placed for adoption is just
20:30getting better and better we video chat all the time and it's really become a special part of my life
20:36hey what's up y'all what's up how are you I'm doing good man it looks like y'all in
20:44the Christmas spirit
20:45yeah I'm really excited to talk to him today and show him my Christmas decorations but I also have
20:51some news to share with both him and Jamal so we thought we would call you and get you in
20:56the Christmas
20:56spirit with us yeah for sure so Jamal's gonna carry you around let's go for a tour all right look
21:02so this is my little tree I like bling you know I'm all about the glitter I love the sequins
21:07and
21:07stuff so this is instead of doing a star I do a top hat isn't it cute isn't it cute
21:13it's so cute
21:16and then I do stockings am I gonna get a stocking yes you're gonna get a stocking of course you
21:23are
21:23there was never there was never a holiday a birthday or any other day in 35 years that I did
21:32not think about Larry or my daughter I always wondered like what kind of life they had how
21:38they celebrated their birthdays how they celebrated their holidays that's my hair a little flat I'm so
21:48grateful to Larry that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time I'm really glad that you
21:55can
21:55enjoy some of this with us yeah for sure so yeah and I'm glad that we have communication especially
22:01now I think the communication is a lot better now that I've been I agree I'm free so speaking of
22:06that
22:07I told you guys about the guy that I've been talking to in England and I'm going he invited me
22:14to
22:14come so I'm gonna go and meet him I mean everybody deserves a chance at love so I don't see
22:21why you
22:21wouldn't take it just don't get your hopes up no you know I'm saying a little bit your hopes too
22:26high
22:26it's a little bit of hope no no let's just stay neutral I mean just go over there with an
22:30open mind
22:31yeah I like him but I'm not I'm not doing what I did with Usman it's a totally different thing
22:36I've learned from my mistakes don't look so skeptical no I am I can't help but naturally be
22:45concerned when you take these trips for men that you haven't met you're gonna fly by yourself you're
22:49gonna be there by yourself I remember even when you go to Nigeria by yourself you would call me and
22:54be like I wish you were here why don't you go with me what are you doing no why is
23:00that not too much
23:01why don't you go you don't have to meet him like the first day but you should maybe you should
23:04go
23:04with me go Jamal yeah you should go you should definitely go I do wish I would have went to
23:10Nigeria sooner me too because maybe I could have helped in that one faster the men you've met they're
23:16so nice to you in the beginning and they they trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast
23:22so
23:22luckily when I'm there maybe I'm able to talk to her and be like just remember to not give too
23:28much in
23:28the beginning because you do that yeah in the past once my mom really starts to like a guy she
23:35starts believing whatever they say so I really do hope Wayne is this nice guy that he's been telling
23:42her that he is because my mom's heart cannot take much more I feel like now everybody everybody's in
23:48place I'm working on myself it's time for me to go and find love well I think you've had a
23:53lot off
23:54your shoulders yeah like telling you about your sister and everything telling me about him then
24:00telling him about her yeah speaking of um sister I reached out to the adoption agency like we all
24:07agreed upon to try to find her and well they sent me a letter her adopted mom had wrote me
24:12a letter
24:13so I have the letter it's like 10 pages long and I was waiting for an opportunity to just kind
24:18of
24:18bring it out I want to see it all right when the adoption agency told me they had a letter
24:24about my
24:25daughter from when she was six years old I was stunned this was dated November 26 98
24:34okay it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter R she came home with us in January of
24:4293
24:42she was then and has continued to this day to be a healthy and happy child
24:49I can't read this yeah I want something this is crazy
25:13I haven't seen Tony since our dance class a few nights ago and obviously things ended on a really
25:19bad note I'm really nervous it's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and then off
25:26I go for
25:27half a month
25:45Tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because I'm leaving for two and a
25:52half week
25:52vacation to Europe this is not how I wanted to leave things between us
26:00hi
26:08I uh I made us a little snack so have a seat I'll go grab it
26:14having seen Tony and his reaction during the dance class it has me worried that this kind of
26:21jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while I'm gone and it could be the end of us
26:32so how are you feeling
26:34I mean
26:37I know you're leaving soon so I thought we at least talk about you know what's going on and
26:44I just don't want this tension anymore
26:48so what's what's what's on your mind
26:51I do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left
26:57and I'm like wow are we really just throwing it away
27:03yeah I agree that that wasn't the best thing to do I shouldn't have done what I did like stormed
27:10out
27:10but I you know I was I was very upset
27:14but at the end of the day you you mean the world to me and I want to make sure
27:20that when I'm away
27:21that you feel comfortable that you're not you know thinking what am I doing what's going on
27:26am I putting our relationship in jeopardy because I would never do anything like that
27:34thank you I mean that means a lot to me I'm not trying to say hey listen to either you
27:40dance or
27:40it's me I just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward and you know
27:46this
27:46upcoming trip I just don't want it to be about us not talking a lack of communication or if there's
27:52tension I just don't want it to just linger I agree we're not going to go sleep angry we're not
27:59going to let the day end with us not having a resolution okay I like that okay I'm just going
28:06to put this in the kitchen and then we can skedaddle we both took responsibility for what we did wrong
28:14and I'm feeling a little bit more secure one I'm going to help grab your luggage okay okay thank you
28:20all right but at the same time our relationship is just starting to take the next step we even started
28:26saying I love you to each other and now I'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks
28:31I mean this gives us no time together to hug and kiss and just be good
28:38oh it sucks
28:53baby I'm gonna miss you so much oh my god I can't believe we're here already
29:01oh my god I'm gonna try as much as possible let's keep in touch right
29:07welcome baby
29:10welcome baby
29:15next trip is gonna be a together trip
29:18absolutely okay okay I miss you already
29:21I miss you too baby all right
29:24bye bye
29:25bye babe
29:28I feel like our relationship is so new that there is worry
29:33the last few weeks we've had a great foundation and I really hope this trip is not going to test
29:38it
29:38to the point where she's going to realize that the single life is better for her
29:42I would be in shambles if I lost Vanya it would break me apart
29:48there are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip
29:52and I hope we can get through it but I would be lying if I said I wasn't concerned
29:57because if he has another meltdown while I'm away
30:00I don't think our relationship can survive
30:23to the birth mother of our beloved daughter are I can't read this this is crazy
30:42this letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because I moved around a lot
30:46I was in the military so I just never received it
30:50it's very emotional for me because it's like me getting to know her
30:54it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up
31:00I got it
31:03her developmental skills progress normally except in one area where she proved exceptionally gifted
31:09she's very verbal I guess she talks like her mama right
31:13ours vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
31:20we hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it
31:23ours favorite food is pasta pasta pasta that's her Italian side
31:28she is also a great vegetable eater we have a large vegetable garden
31:32she loves to go out and pick vegetables for dinner
31:36she had a pretty nice life
31:40I think reading this letter and finding out these things about her
31:44like now we know her name starts with an R
31:45we know she had a vegetable garden we know she went to private school
31:53sorry
31:58and it's like a bittersweet feeling right like
32:01it makes her more real to me and it just makes me so happy to know that she was raised
32:06so well
32:09we are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love her very much
32:18that's really intense
32:20I'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why I did what I did you
32:25know
32:25because I know I couldn't provide that for you or her like I can't say like I regret what I've
32:31done I can't say that now I can say that the way I handled it was up but I can't
32:36like I can't like feel bad for what I did you know
32:41yeah and that's what I keep trying to tell you since you know day one so I'm glad you finally
32:46kind of you know seeing it for yourself too
32:49yeah
32:51the decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions I've ever had to make in
32:57my whole life
33:00now
33:0234 years later I can honestly say I'm at peace
33:06I feel like
33:07I did what was best for my children
33:12and really at the end of the day that's all that matters to me
33:16all we can do now is just wait
33:19yeah
33:20we'll see what happens I do have a feeling we're going to find her
33:24I hope so
33:25like I'm very positive about that
33:27I hope so
33:32I'm going to try calling her
33:35hello
33:35hi Bella
33:37I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
33:40I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such a troll like Gino
33:46whoa
33:47I care about Gino but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
33:53I'm dating
34:10oh you want to sit down
34:11yeah
34:12for a moment
34:13enjoy this beautiful fire pit
34:18oh they got blankets
34:20this is kind of like camping or something I don't know
34:22we just don't have a tent
34:24that was rough
34:38yeah
34:39I'm a little bit
34:40I don't know concerned now because
34:42Nick was saying that
34:45she doesn't like me
34:47well she doesn't know you
34:51one of the big reasons that I came to LA
34:54was to get to know Natalie's daughter Bella
34:57but when it was time to hang out
35:00she never showed
35:03apparently Bella's mad at me because
35:05Jasmine attacked Natalie last year
35:09you definitely want to have approval of the family members
35:12or you know the chances of this relationship working is not very good
35:18but I'm going to try calling her
35:25hello
35:26hi Bella
35:28hi
35:29it's mom how are you
35:31I'm fine
35:33um
35:34I just wanted to know
35:36why you didn't show up today
35:39I just want to say what I have to say honestly
35:42and then you can do whatever you want
35:45I love you
35:46but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself
35:49by associating
35:50you know with such a troll like Gino
35:54I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all
35:57after how badly he disrespected you in Michigan
36:01you're a grown woman
36:02you can make your own decisions
36:03but at this point
36:04don't expect me to support it anymore
36:07well
36:07and I just think you're just too beautiful
36:11and smart and successful
36:12to be with such a spineless loser like him
36:15and I wish you saw that too
36:18I love you
36:18but that's just really all I want you to hear from me
36:25whoa
36:29she does not like me
36:36are you okay
36:37no
36:41I want to throw up
36:44that was a lot of nasty words that Bella was saying about me
36:48how bad of a person I am
36:50what trash I am
36:52loser
36:53whatever
36:55she didn't even give me a chance
36:56she didn't even show up and meet me
36:58I mean come on
37:00don't judge me based on
37:02you know what you hear for one incident
37:06it's not fair
37:09after all of that
37:11you know
37:12how do you feel about me I guess
37:17my feelings
37:18for you
37:19haven't
37:19changed
37:20however
37:22I would like her blessing
37:27okay so
37:28okay
37:31so basically our relationship
37:32is kind of like
37:33on hold
37:35till you get
37:35her blessing
37:38she's my number one
37:39she's my number one priority
37:43so what happens
37:44if she doesn't change her mind
37:46and she
37:48doesn't give her
37:48her blessing
37:49what would happen
37:50you think between us
37:52I need to talk to her
37:54and then when
37:55as soon as I get the answer
37:56I'll talk to you
37:58are you gonna
38:00stay
38:01over my place
38:02I'm gonna try to
38:03go over to see Bella
38:05okay
38:05it's important to me that
38:07we don't
38:08end a conversation
38:09on a negative note
38:11okay
38:13that's fair
38:14thank you
38:15I get it
38:18I care about Gino
38:19but this is a lot bigger
38:21than
38:22my daughter
38:23not wanting to meet
38:23a guy that I'm dating
38:25all right
38:26let's
38:27let's go
38:28let's go
38:30Bella doesn't trust
38:31my judgment
38:33she's never seen me
38:34in a healthy relationship
38:35all right
38:36well let me get packing
38:39and it makes me feel
38:40like a failure
38:42as a parent
38:43that I was not able
38:44to show my daughter
38:45that I
38:47am capable
38:48of being in a good
38:49relationship
38:51and I just want to go
38:52and I want to comfort her
38:53and I want to let her know
38:55that I'm okay
38:55and safe
38:56she's my priority
38:59okay
38:59well I better get going
39:00well
39:01I had a really good time
39:03me too
39:04so
39:08the last two days
39:09have been awesome
39:11aww
39:12yeah
39:12I know they have
39:13yeah
39:14they've been awesome
39:17the hardest thing
39:18is
39:18what if
39:19my daughter
39:20never accepts him
39:21where would this
39:22relationship go
39:23and I think he knows
39:25the answer
39:27that's something
39:28I really don't want
39:28to deal with
39:28at this moment
39:32I don't want to talk
39:34about this anymore
39:35we'll have to
39:36see each other
39:37again soon
39:38yeah
39:39bye
39:40take care
39:44I thought that
39:45this trip
39:46would bring
39:46Natalie and I
39:47closer together
39:48I could use a drink
39:50I imagine
39:51hitting it off
39:52with Bella
39:53and then
39:54in the future
39:55potentially becoming
39:57a father figure
39:58to her
39:59I've always wanted
40:00to be a dad
40:01so her daughter
40:02not wanting
40:03anything to do
40:04with me
40:05it's impacting
40:06the dreams
40:08that I had
40:08for my life
40:10and it makes
40:11me really sad
40:29next time
40:30on The Single Life
40:31let me touch it
40:34oh wow
40:35okay
40:36going into this
40:37day
40:38I don't really
40:38have any expectations
40:39he's cute
40:40he's a good body
40:42it seems fun
40:42like this is literally
40:43one of the reasons
40:44I came to DR
40:44to just have fun
40:47like India
40:52whoa
40:52is that the
40:53Queen of England
40:54hello peasants
40:55hello
40:57after talking to Wayne
40:58for the past
40:59three months
40:59I am in
41:00jolly old England
41:01to meet him
41:02in person
41:02hi
41:03oh wow
41:04I'm really hopeful
41:06that by the end
41:06of this trip
41:07I do go home
41:08in a relationship
41:09now I have to ask you
41:11okay
41:11are you dating
41:12now
41:12here
41:16hey Natalie
41:17what's up
41:19after Natalie's
41:20daughter
41:21disapproved
41:22of our relationship
41:22I don't know
41:24where things stand
41:25I was hoping
41:26that at some point
41:27you would talk to Bella
41:28to see how she feels
41:30because I know
41:31at the time
41:31you were saying
41:32if she didn't like me
41:34that you know
41:35we wouldn't have
41:36a relationship
41:37has that changed
41:39at all with her
41:41I mean
41:46hey Courtney
41:49I'm going through
41:49a lot of internal
41:51conflict right now
41:52I still care about Colt
41:54and I still have
41:55love for him
41:56really it is nice
41:57to see it
41:57but then my mind's
41:58like this lying
41:59cheating
42:00manipulative
42:01son of a bitch
42:02did you sleep
42:03with Diana
42:04can't say
42:05I didn't do that
42:07well I'm glad
42:08you worked for her
42:12here we go
42:13Ibiza bitches
42:13I'm trying to go
42:15with Sanela
42:15listen to some music
42:17and then
42:17you send me a message
42:18and another
42:19and another
42:19you're ruining my night
42:21but on top of it
42:22I'm there with my cousin
42:23and I'm embarrassed
42:24in front of her
42:25all over again
42:26I need to understand
42:27what caused you
42:28to do what you did
42:29if Tony wants
42:30to be with me
42:31he's going to have
42:32to change
42:33fast
42:35do what you want
42:35to do
42:36you
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