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00:00I'm moving to Wisconsin.
00:02Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin?
00:05I really want us to be together, you know,
00:07and I really want to be up there.
00:08If I move my life and then Tegan says no,
00:12that's just a risk that I'm willing to take.
00:15A few days ago, me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
00:19I have a lot of guilt from what I did.
00:22So it's just a matter of if we can unscrew what I screwed up.
00:26I really don't know if I will get her back.
00:30That really scares me.
00:32Have you dated anyone yet?
00:35I have not dated anybody yet, right?
00:38I've been waiting for him to, like, you know,
00:40say he's going to start dating.
00:42It's like, yeah, it's about time.
00:46I'm here in Wisconsin.
00:48I drove over here yesterday, and she doesn't know I'm here.
00:50To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen
00:54is she finds out, and then she thinks you're really weird.
00:57I would seriously consider talking to Tegan.
01:12Tegan knows you all in this car.
01:14Oh, yeah.
01:17Are you purposely not?
01:19That was her.
01:20No, it wasn't.
01:21Yeah, it was.
01:23I don't think she saw me, though.
01:25She never took her eyes off the front of the road.
01:29I just can't believe how lucky I was that she didn't see me.
01:34I didn't tell Tegan that I was moving up here
01:37because I wanted to have action already behind it,
01:41which, like, a place that I've already found that I'm going to live,
01:44you know, skin in the game pretty much, and then tell her after.
01:51I'm sure it looks impulsive, but I spent months thinking about it every day,
01:59and I couldn't let it go.
02:06I want to get her roses, but I don't know if I just leave the roses with a note
02:14or, you know, if I'm there.
02:16I guess I haven't figured that out.
02:19I'll do this one.
02:23I'm just, of course, a little nervous because I haven't seen her in a few months now.
02:28I haven't talked to her in forever.
02:30I don't know what's going on in her life.
02:33If, I mean, anything could have happened.
02:37What did you do that she's no longer your girlfriend?
02:42We pretty much summarized in putting her last on the list for, like, a year.
02:47At least that's how she felt.
02:50Yeah, not good.
02:52That's not good.
02:53The ladies at the flower shop, they're asking me, you know,
02:56like, who I'm getting the roses for, and they're like,
02:58do you think these will get her back?
02:59I was like, no, I don't think getting a rose is going to get her back.
03:05I could see it in both their eyes.
03:07They're like, oh, God, another one.
03:10That's how I felt.
03:12I mean, if you run a flower shop, you probably see that every day.
03:15Dudes coming in screwed up and, you know,
03:20aren't going to apologize unless they have some flowers.
03:24She doesn't know I'm here, and I drove past her on the road this morning.
03:28Really?
03:28Yeah.
03:29And she had no idea.
03:30She didn't see me as far as I know.
03:32I love that.
03:34I think I'm just going to drop the flowers off with a note.
03:37I don't know if it's a little exciting,
03:39because it could be the start of a new chapter,
03:40but it could also be a hard no if I don't know.
03:45I'll be rooting for you.
03:47You have to come back and let us know.
03:48I will.
03:49But either way, I'm just excited to get to see what happens,
03:53even if it was a no.
03:55Good luck.
03:55Thank you very much.
03:56I appreciate it.
03:56Thank you, guys.
03:58Have a great day.
03:59You too.
04:00No worries.
04:13All right, guys.
04:14You ready?
04:15Just be ready to sweat.
04:16Yeah.
04:18Today we're at the gym, and it's a HIIT class session.
04:21So it's just a lot of high intensity workout stuff
04:25until you basically puke.
04:27We got four rounds for time.
04:29So you know that means fast as you can go, hard as you can go.
04:32We're going to get you sore today.
04:34Jason is the instructor, and he's a motivator, right?
04:37And so he likes to push us.
04:39Let's go.
04:39Go.
04:40Come on.
04:41Nice.
04:42If your butt don't touch, it don't count.
04:45All right, tie flips.
04:46If you're ready, 25.
04:48Go.
04:49Nice.
04:55Five years ago, I wasn't working out at all, right?
04:58And then the divorce happened.
04:59I needed an outlet.
05:00And then all of a sudden, it became what it is today.
05:03Ready?
05:04Go.
05:05We got a good group of people with the HIIT class.
05:08Barry, you touch that line.
05:10What?
05:12Come on, guys.
05:13What do you mean?
05:14You got to touch it?
05:15Yes, Barry, touch it.
05:16If you don't touch, the ground don't count.
05:17Everybody's such a legalist around here this morning.
05:20Yeah, Allison, she's the unofficial drill
05:23instructor of the HIIT class.
05:25Everybody knows you always touch the line.
05:28We love Barry.
05:29I mean, we kid with him.
05:31We joke with him.
05:32Come on, Barry.
05:33Round two.
05:34Let's go.
05:34Come on, Barry.
05:35You're going a little slow today.
05:37You must have partied too hard last night.
05:39We've always known Barry because he kind of comes
05:42to the gym.
05:42And, you know, he didn't talk a whole lot.
05:45You know, he didn't conversate with people.
05:47And then all of a sudden, he comes in,
05:50and he had on, like, a tank top.
05:51And we were like, look at the muscles.
05:53What happened to this guy?
05:55Like, he's, like, jacked up and, like, oh, my god.
05:59Oh, my gosh.
06:11Barry has a nickname in our family, and he's called Plath Daddy.
06:16He is Plath Daddy, and he will always be Plath Daddy.
06:20So here's the name of him.
06:22Plath Daddy.
06:23Plath Daddy.
06:24He does not know that, y'all.
06:27He does not know that.
06:29He's about to find out.
06:30Barry.
06:32Come over here.
06:33Do you want to know your nickname?
06:35You are officially nicknamed Plath Daddy.
06:41That's good.
06:43So somebody ginned up the term Plath Daddy.
06:47Maybe it came from, you know, some youngster or two or three.
06:52Who knows?
06:53Plath Daddy.
06:54Easy.
06:55There we go.
06:57Maybe give them some eye candy.
06:59Sometimes they like the bulging biceps.
07:03We got a great group, don't we?
07:04You guys are great.
07:05You killed it.
07:07Congratulations.
07:08So I was thinking of dipping my feet back in the dating pool again.
07:13That'll be good.
07:14So I think I'm about ready to try.
07:15You want to find somebody that's your best friend, right?
07:17Yeah, exactly.
07:18That we love doing like that.
07:20Mm-hmm.
07:21Would you think Barry's a catch?
07:23Yeah, he's a good looking older guy, right?
07:26We're trying to push him about him getting out there, dating.
07:29Just do a speed date.
07:31I'm not going to do a speed date.
07:33That way you don't have to spend but a minute with each one or so.
07:37Yeah, it's like a sampler platter.
07:39Yeah.
07:40I think Barry's going to be picky because he was married for so long.
07:43He knows what he wants and what he don't want now.
07:46We try to keep an eye out, but, you know, in a small town,
07:48it's hard to find somebody really compatible.
07:52I mean, really, it is, to me, a lot about common interests.
07:55Well, you just need to find somebody that likes to work out.
07:58That would be fun.
08:00I'll keep you posted.
08:01Yeah, man, that feels good!
08:04Ugh!
08:11Since we broke up, I've just been thinking about all this
08:15over and over and over and over again.
08:17In my heart, I didn't really know what I should do
08:19and what I shouldn't do
08:21because I didn't know how she felt.
08:23You know, I didn't know if she would think
08:24it was maybe inconsiderate to move up here.
08:30I mean, it's very possible that it's too late,
08:36but I don't know if I'll ever have an answer to us
08:39if I don't do this.
08:42You have a bunch of flowers sitting in the car.
08:47What's the next move?
08:49I don't know.
08:51I guess next move is to call her and tell her.
08:55But she's going to start asking me,
08:56well, are you here?
08:58And then I don't know what I'm going to say.
09:02I just didn't want to call her up and be like,
09:04hey, I haven't talked to you in forever.
09:05I'm going to move there now.
09:07I fully realized that not telling her could backfire,
09:10and so I'm definitely nervous to call her.
09:13And part of me is hoping that she doesn't pick up.
09:34Oh, she's calling you back.
09:40She's calling you back.
09:42You got this.
09:48Hey.
09:49Hey, are you good?
09:50Yeah.
09:51I had something to ask of you.
09:55Okay.
10:01If we get up far enough, I'll let you run.
10:04Oh, my gosh.
10:05I moved to Montana, and now my life is perfect.
10:07It's not at all perfect.
10:10This is some snow.
10:12Being so scared of the future
10:15sometimes ends up holding you back.
10:18And trust me, I spent a lot of years running.
10:20I would know.
10:23Today I'm out here to meet Kaylin.
10:25I never really knew how much she meant to me
10:27until she was gone.
10:29She's ready to meet up,
10:30so I'm really anxious and nervous.
10:47I had something to ask of you.
10:49Okay.
10:53Um.
10:56Well, I have something for you.
11:00Uh, just whenever...
11:03I'm sure you're probably busy tonight.
11:06Yeah.
11:07Anyways, just let me know
11:10when you go pick it up.
11:14I was just wondering...
11:15When I can pick it up?
11:16Yeah.
11:17Yeah.
11:18At the park that we used to go to.
11:23Pick it up from there?
11:24Mm-hmm.
11:29Okay.
11:30Uh, probably tomorrow night.
11:33Okay.
11:33I'll make sure it's there by then.
11:38Okay.
11:42Okay.
11:44All right, well...
11:48That sounds like a plan to me.
11:50Just let me know.
11:52Kay.
11:53I'll call you in the morning.
11:55Okay.
11:56That sounds good.
11:57Kay.
11:58Bye.
11:59Bye.
12:00Love you, bye.
12:02She didn't ask if I was here.
12:03That's good.
12:05I love her dearly,
12:06and I want nothing more than
12:08to spend the rest of my life with her,
12:09but I'm not expecting her to
12:11just pick it up right where we left it off.
12:13I'm perfectly fine and happy
12:15starting from square one.
12:19I think it was good,
12:20because she didn't hang up
12:21or, like, make me tell her everything,
12:23you know?
12:25Do you think she knows you're here?
12:28She could.
12:29It's not impossible.
12:31I think the call was very good.
12:33Surprisingly, she didn't push me too hard.
12:36I was like,
12:36I'll make sure that it's there.
12:41It definitely leaves me feeling hopeful
12:44and excited.
12:59If we get up far enough, I'll let you run.
13:01Or you're not going to run and terrorize anyone.
13:05I moved to Montana growing on nine months ago.
13:09Montana has been so healing,
13:12so good for me.
13:14Starting over really did teach me
13:15to trust myself again
13:16and have more confidence in myself,
13:18knowing, like,
13:19I did it all alone.
13:22Ah, Blackjack loves it out here.
13:24Isn't this pretty, Jackjack?
13:27Well, I didn't do it all alone.
13:29I had God, and I had people
13:31who came into my life
13:33and just looked out for me for no reason.
13:35And that was what I needed.
13:41Oh, no, your jacket.
13:45I still have my moments.
13:47I'm not saying, like,
13:47oh, my gosh, I moved to Montana,
13:49and now my life is perfect.
13:51It's not at all perfect.
13:53This is some snow.
13:56Well, you're being good.
13:58But I remember one day
13:59I was driving home.
14:00I was smiling and just, like, happy.
14:03I was like, nothing special had happened
14:05that made me happy, you know?
14:07I'm just, like, happy.
14:13It feels so good to have found a place
14:16that I realized, like,
14:17this isn't temporary.
14:19Who knows?
14:20There might be a time in the future
14:21I got to start over again.
14:22But at least I know I can do it.
14:24There you go, honey.
14:27Ethan and Isaac have kept their promise
14:29and they're coming out to see me.
14:32I was absolutely heartbroken
14:34finding out that Galen and Isaac
14:36broke up and called Isaac and told him.
14:40I was like, I don't want to tell you this,
14:42but I think this is a bad decision.
14:46I think he feels right now
14:47like he's just not in the place
14:52that he wants to be.
14:54But you're never going to be ready.
14:57And don't let anyone pressure you,
14:59but if you wait your whole life
15:01to be ready for things,
15:03you're going to regret not taking certain leaps.
15:06Buddy!
15:08Come here!
15:09Bye!
15:10Whoa!
15:11That's just one of the ways
15:13that you end up building a great life
15:15is by taking chances
15:18and taking leaps
15:19that you don't feel ready for.
15:21And I'm not saying get married now.
15:24I'm not saying propose to her now,
15:26but being so scared of the future
15:32sometimes ends up holding you back.
15:35And trust me,
15:35I spent a lot of years running.
15:37I would know.
15:40Blackjack, here you are.
15:53Today I'm out here to meet Kalen
15:54and just talk about, you know,
15:57everything that's happened lately.
16:03There were a few reasons
16:05why I broke up with her
16:06that, you know, were running around in my head.
16:09But I never really knew
16:11how much she meant to me
16:12until she was gone.
16:14All I've heard from her
16:15is that she wanted to take some time.
16:17I didn't know if it would be a week, a month.
16:19But it's only been a few days
16:20and she's ready to meet up,
16:22so I'm really anxious and nervous.
16:42So Isaac has been texting me
16:44and I just didn't necessarily know
16:47when would be the right time to talk.
16:50Just because him, you know, dropping me
16:54like out of nowhere,
16:55I do kind of feel like that was a little bit...
17:01Yeah.
17:03Just wondering what the heck is going on.
17:08Hey, Kalen.
17:09Hey.
17:12You want to sit in my truck and talk?
17:14Yeah, we can.
17:15Okay.
17:31Well, over the past few days
17:33I've talked to a bunch of my family members
17:35and they're like,
17:37well, after what you just told me,
17:38it sounds like you shouldn't have broken up with her.
17:41And then I realized, I mean, they were right.
17:51And I'm just really sorry I put you through that.
17:54You don't deserve that.
17:56You said that you were overthinking
18:00about a lot of stuff,
18:02about what happened with Ethan and Olivia
18:05and Micah and Veronica
18:07and that kind of got to your head and...
18:10Yeah, I know.
18:11I know that's different lives.
18:14There's nothing to do directly with me
18:16other than just seeing that
18:17for the past several years
18:18just kind of scared me.
18:23I try to be a very understanding person
18:25and try to see it from both sides.
18:27You should have just communicated with me about it.
18:30I know I should have
18:31and I don't want anybody else.
18:37The thought of trying to build something
18:40with somebody else makes me sick
18:42and I don't want that.
18:44The ball's in your court.
18:46I'm just letting you know where I stand.
18:50I don't take bull crap.
18:52I know my self-worth.
18:54I know what I will and won't take.
19:13I would give anything to be able to have
19:17one more chance to make it right
19:19because I know that that's what I want.
19:22What else were you, like, overthinking about?
19:24Like, because you had mentioned something about marriage.
19:29Like, did you think that
19:31I wanted it, like, right away or something?
19:34Well, not right away,
19:36but with you being older and stuff that, you know...
19:40You know, like, I mean,
19:41obviously marriage is on the table for me one day,
19:43but I never pressured you about marriage
19:46or really anything.
19:49I know.
19:50I just got caught up in my head about certain things
19:53and that's what it led to,
19:55but I really got a bunch of questions
19:58and a bunch of thoughts I was having
19:59all cleared up and answered in just the past few days.
20:03I just hate that I had to hurt you,
20:04you know, in the process.
20:07The day after it happened,
20:09obviously, you know, I was crying.
20:10I was upset.
20:12And he called my parents.
20:14And I was like,
20:15why the heck did he call you?
20:17Mama was like,
20:18Kaylin, you could tell he was really confused
20:20and he was hurt and really bad
20:22and he was really upset, too.
20:24She was like,
20:25I could tell that he kind of thought,
20:27shoot, what did I do?
20:30There are trust issues now
20:34and it's not something that you just give away.
20:37It's something that you have to earn
20:39over time with your actions.
20:41I know.
20:45Are you even willing to earn
20:46that trust back and everything?
20:50I'm willing to do whatever it takes.
20:53Actions over words.
20:57I can tell, you know,
20:59just from the way she's looking at me
21:02that, you know,
21:02she's not here to mess around.
21:04I know I've done a number on her.
21:06You know, it's up to her.
21:08I put myself in this situation.
21:10I can't...
21:11I got to be able to accept the results.
21:15And then, you know,
21:16one conversation's not gonna...
21:18Obviously not.
21:20Yeah, I don't care if it takes a year.
21:22I mean, it doesn't matter what I have to do.
21:24All I need is one more chance.
21:33I don't give second chances out easily.
21:37I know in my heart that I do still love him
21:39and I, you know,
21:41I want to back together with him,
21:43but I think right now
21:45I am just trying to set some boundaries
21:47just because
21:48I just don't want to get hurt again.
21:52I'm willing to try every day
21:54to do better than I did the day before.
22:05Okay.
22:07Okay.
22:12Well, I won't let you down.
22:14I promise.
22:16Better not.
22:17Better not.
22:18I won't.
22:20Better not.
22:22He's my best friend
22:24and
22:26we were just so close so fast
22:28and
22:30obviously I do want to get back to that.
22:32I know for a fact he sweated it out some,
22:35even if it was for a short while,
22:37but I'm not gonna sit here and drag it on
22:39because that's not fair to me.
22:40That's not fair to him
22:41and I don't want to...
22:42I don't want to do that.
22:44I'm just hoping it's one of those things
22:45that will end up bringing us closer.
22:50I don't know.
22:51I'm at a loss of words.
22:52I don't know what to say.
22:53I really don't deserve a second chance,
22:54but
22:56that just gives me all the more,
22:58you know,
23:00motivation to be the man she needs.
23:03Would you want to
23:04get out and walk around a little bit or?
23:07Yeah, we can.
23:08It's really nice out.
23:09The only thing I want is to be able to
23:11build something real with her.
23:14I'm gonna, you know,
23:16just be honest with her,
23:17communicate with her
23:18and stay true to her.
23:20But it's really good to just, you know,
23:23be able to hold her hand again
23:24after thinking I may never see her again.
23:27I mean, we're not in Hawaii.
23:29Right.
23:30See, that looks good.
23:33You're squishing it now.
23:35No, it's fine.
23:50I texted Tegan.
23:52And she texted me like 10 minutes later
23:54and said,
23:54what's tomorrow about?
23:55And she texted me and said,
23:57okay, do I get a hint about
23:59what it's about?
24:01Because I'm mildly stressed out
24:02with the
24:04sweating emoji.
24:06Now I don't know what to say.
24:16I kind of need somebody to talk to.
24:18Like, if there's something seriously wrong,
24:20that's a flag I'm not seeing to tell me.
24:26Hi.
24:26Hey.
24:27I was just gonna ask you a question.
24:29I got some roses for Tegan
24:32and I'm gonna meet her tomorrow
24:34and give her the roses
24:35and tell her what my plans are.
24:37But I asked her if she could
24:39come to the park at some point
24:41because I had a surprise for her.
24:43But now she's all stressed out
24:44about what the surprise is
24:46and she wants a hint.
24:47I don't know what to tell her.
24:49You could just say,
24:51I'm in town visiting
24:52and I just wanted to see you.
24:54Does she know you're in town?
24:56No.
24:58She knows you're gonna be in town tomorrow.
25:02No.
25:04She knows she's meeting you
25:07at the park tomorrow?
25:08No.
25:11You gonna tell her
25:12that you're gonna meet her at the park?
25:15No, I wasn't going to.
25:17I was just gonna surprise her.
25:19Just tell her you're having flowers
25:21delivered to the park tomorrow.
25:23Okay.
25:24And then she knows that
25:25it's headed in a direction
25:26of something sweet.
25:28Mm-hmm.
25:29You know?
25:29But then when she sees
25:31you're the one delivering the flowers,
25:33that'll be her surprise.
25:35To me, it's important to not lie.
25:37Yeah.
25:38And that's something that you could say
25:40that is true.
25:42What do you think?
25:43I'll just read you what I wrote
25:44and I haven't sent it yet,
25:45but you tell if it's good.
25:47Well, I don't want you
25:47to be stressed out or anxious,
25:49so I'll give you a hint.
25:50I'm having flowers
25:51delivered to the park
25:52on the bench we sat on in July
25:54along with something else
25:55I think you'll like.
25:56Do you think that's good or no?
25:57Yeah.
25:58My mom, bless her heart,
26:00she's been very supportive.
26:03It means a lot to me that she's there.
26:05Just for like a woman's perspective,
26:07you know?
26:08Let me know how it goes.
26:10I will.
26:11Okay.
26:12I've waited for many months.
26:13You know,
26:14it's not like waiting another day
26:15is going to kill anything,
26:18but I am like pretty nervous,
26:22so I'm going to have to sit
26:24with that nervousness for another day.
26:27But that's okay.
26:29Thanks.
26:29Bye.
26:35The plan is I'll just stay,
26:37you know, in my car.
26:39Why not just get a hotel?
26:40You can afford it, no?
26:42Yeah, but that's the thing.
26:44Like even if you have money,
26:47if you get a hotel,
26:48that's still money you could keep,
26:50which why not?
26:50What I really want to do with my money
26:52is be able to very comfortably
26:56take care of the person I love
26:59and have, you know, family and all that.
27:02I just stay dressed, wrap up in a blanket.
27:04It's very comfortable.
27:04I just can't stretch out.
27:07You're asleep anyway,
27:08so you don't know if you're in a hotel
27:09or if you're in a car.
27:13I feel a little anxious about tomorrow.
27:16It's not easy,
27:17but I'm definitely willing to meet her
27:20where she's at and just see where things go.
27:27Kaelin said she wants me to prove to her
27:29with my actions.
27:30I am kind of nervous, you know?
27:36I've had a few of my close friends
27:39tell me, you know,
27:40just move on and remember it for what it was.
27:45But I just can't.
28:05Kaelin is going to be here soon.
28:06I got a lot of flowers.
28:08I got some candles as well.
28:10Tonight I'm here at my mom's apartment
28:12that she uses as a vacation rental
28:14to do something a little nice for Kaelin.
28:17I think she definitely deserves it.
28:19I am kind of nervous, you know?
28:21Kaelin said she wants me to prove to her
28:23with my actions.
28:24Part of me is doing this because I said I would,
28:26but making her happy makes me happy,
28:29probably even more so than her.
28:30So the least I can do is something like this for her.
28:41Hey, honey.
28:42Hi.
28:42Here you go.
28:44Oh, my God.
28:49I spent a little time putting stuff up.
28:54Isaac, he's always been a romantic,
28:56but I would say, you know,
28:59him building back that trust,
29:00it's a work in progress, you know?
29:02It's not something that you can have overnight.
29:04It's something that you have to work on.
29:06But honestly,
29:07I've never had somebody do something like this for me,
29:09so I think it's like very, very sweet.
29:22What do you think, baby?
29:24Oh, I love it.
29:26It is a portrait of us,
29:29and you paint it with numbers and stuff like that,
29:33and that's actually what I had gotten him
29:35before we broke up, so...
29:37Well, where's that painting now that you got him?
29:42In the dumpster.
29:44I know the story of you getting the other one
29:47and why you threw it out and everything,
29:49but I hope you like this one and this picture,
29:52because I picked a different picture,
29:53but I did like this picture of us.
29:54I do like that picture, too.
29:57Oh, I just saw that!
30:00That's cute!
30:01What?
30:02Where it says, I love you.
30:03I thought you would have noticed.
30:05No, I didn't.
30:06Until now.
30:07Kaylin's really happy, and that makes me feel like I've done a good job,
30:11and I'm glad she appreciates it.
30:12She sees and appreciates what I do,
30:14and that's why I continue to do it.
30:17Are you excited to go to Montana?
30:19I'm very excited.
30:20I've always wanted to go to Montana.
30:22Definitely looking forward to seeing Mariah and Ethan in the big skies.
30:27Isaac invited me on a trip to see Mariah in Montana a few months ago,
30:32and I am so excited because it feels like it's been forever since I've seen her.
30:37I'm sure you heard Ethan's moving to Wisconsin.
30:40Yeah.
30:42They're going to try to work stuff out again or something,
30:44because he's going back.
30:45Were you surprised when you heard that Ethan was going to be moving back up there?
30:49A little bit, but I also figured he would at some point,
30:53since he didn't seem to be able to move on from her.
30:56I am, you know, a little worried because Olivia was the whole s*** over several years,
31:00and then it kind of got rough with Tegan after Olivia, and then they broke up.
31:05I want him to be able to stand up for himself.
31:07Yeah, I'm going to miss Ethan, him being around so much,
31:10but you never know, he may move back.
31:12I do think that Ethan's been a little bummed out.
31:15I know that he does love Tegan, and he wants things to work out,
31:18but I do have sympathy for Tegan with everything that's gone on,
31:23but certain things that have been said and done, I don't agree with that she has done.
31:28I just want to make sure that, you know, like, motives are what they should be
31:34and that everything works out the way she wants them to
31:37and how Ethan wants them to and that they're both going to be good.
31:42I guess he has to go shoot his shot and see.
31:44He's doing what he thinks is right and following his heart.
31:48I am very glad that you did this.
31:50It was really, really sweet.
31:52You're welcome.
31:53It turned out beautifully.
31:56Well, I tried.
31:57Can't say I didn't try.
31:59That does remind me, I do have...
32:06Something for me.
32:08Wait, wait, wait.
32:09Oh, that is a huge shot.
32:11There's two of them.
32:12Two?
32:13Uh-huh.
32:13Figured I'd get two, so that's one for you and one for you.
32:17I would say this date night is a 10 out of 10.
32:20He gets a lot of brownie points for this one.
32:23I just hope that this makes our relationship even stronger
32:27and I'm looking forward to a lot more dates, just like this.
32:43I'm going to go to the park and hopefully see Tegan in a minute.
32:54I haven't seen her in a long time, so I'm just really excited.
32:57I don't even know what I'm going to say.
33:00I'll say something.
33:02Yeah, I was just going to drop the roses on the bench when she says she's coming over
33:06and then I'll pull away so she doesn't see me there right away.
33:10And then I'll wait for her to get there and pick him up and then I'll pull up and get
33:18out and say hi.
33:21What do you think she's thinking?
33:23Well, I think she's thinking he's probably here and is up to something.
33:30I think Tegan may maybe just not say much or be really happy and excited or
33:39I don't know, I feel like I'm invading her personal space.
33:42I don't know.
33:45I really, really hope with everything that I am that there's a little something left
33:50and could maybe give it another shot and do it better and, you know, be who Tegan needs in a
33:55relationship
33:56and be there for her mentally, emotionally, physically.
34:06I hope that she is open to hear what I have to say and we just go from there.
34:12That's about all that I'm hoping for.
34:25It's an option that I could do all this and, you know, that door is closed.
34:29The chapter is over.
34:31I mean, that's a very real possibility.
34:32But I certainly hope and pray that that's not the case.
34:38If she called me, I was like, okay, I've thought about it.
34:41This just isn't going to work.
34:43Don't come.
34:45I still would, you know, just to show her, like, at least for once, I was serious
34:55and I did do what I said I was going to do.
35:20I've had a few of my close friends tell me, you know,
35:25just move on and remember it for what it was, but I just can't.
35:35And if nothing ever happens, then I guess that's my answer.
35:43But I'll never know unless I try.
36:08It's mic is not on.
36:32I feel the air go cold on this empty road.
36:40Oh, no way I can turn around.
36:46This is crazy.
36:49In a good way, hopefully.
36:52Last night, I was a nervous wreck.
36:55We went to my car and we started talking.
36:58After not talking to each other, seeing each other for so long, it was good to have a
37:02deep conversation about where both of us are at and me moving there and everything.
37:10I was just shocked seeing him.
37:14I don't know.
37:15I think just too shocked to really feel anything else.
37:18You know, nice seeing an old friend.
37:21I don't know what to say.
37:24Yeah, just shocked.
37:26And I mean, we aren't dating.
37:28So he's supposed to be down in Georgia, not here.
37:36So I told him when we broke up that I would never date him again if he wasn't living here
37:42or nearby.
37:43So that was and is a deal breaker for me.
37:46I also talked to him when we broke up.
37:48And I reminded him last night that I don't want to date him if he's still married.
37:53And so those are just the two main, I guess, deal breakers, per se, with him.
37:59Exactly.
38:02Um, is he still married?
38:05Uh, Ethan is still married as far as I know.
38:09There's a good rock to stand on.
38:10I know, but I gotta get there.
38:16Now that I'm here and I've told Tegan everything, she's waiting to see me actually move here.
38:27Is that right or no?
38:28Uh, yeah, I just mean, like, I'll believe it when I see it and that our current relationship
38:34isn't gonna change for the time being.
38:37And so if he moves here, he moves here.
38:39If he doesn't, he doesn't move here, move to Minnesota, stay down there, move to Africa.
38:45Like, whatever you need to do.
38:47Move to Africa?
38:48Yeah.
38:49I am moving here.
38:51Okay.
38:56I don't think it's a matter of believing or not.
38:58I don't think you should distrust people.
39:01I think you should just trust people based on what they've showed you.
39:04So, like, just, I trust already how he is.
39:07So, we'll see if the patterns change, I guess.
39:11I don't really know.
39:15That's perfectly fair.
39:21I think it's just a personal choice I need to make.
39:24This all happened yesterday, and so I sort of need some time.
39:30Have you changed your mind in any way, Ethan?
39:33Or are you sticking to the plan?
39:35No, my plans have not changed at all.
39:37I'm just very excited.
39:39I can't wait.
39:40Regardless of whatever our future looks like, I know it's what I need to do.
39:44It's what I'm gonna do.
39:45And I want to, very much.
39:50Okay, well, I should probably get going.
39:52So, maybe see you in Montana.
39:55I really hope you do come.
39:57We'll see.
39:58Maybe.
39:58Ethan and I talked about going to visit Mariah in Montana before we broke up.
40:03I've never been to Montana.
40:05I enjoy his family, so I sort of want to go.
40:10But on the other hand, that's a lot of time with Ethan.
40:13And I know I can be friends, but I'm more worried about can he be not weird and just be
40:18friends.
40:22Mom?
40:23Can I hug you please?
40:25Nope.
40:27Goodbye.
40:28Goodbye.
40:29I hope you have a safe trip back down.
40:32I will.
40:34Good.
40:35Goodbye.
40:36Goodbye.
40:47Yeah, I think there's definitely a possibility he doesn't move.
40:51It's just Ethan Plath, so I never really know what to think.
40:54You know, sometimes when you get told things, you know, time and time again, it's sort of hard to believe
40:59them.
40:59So, I'm just, I'll believe it when I see it.
41:17I'm seeing you again.
41:22I'm seeing you again.
41:26I'm seeing you again.
41:26Time and 계ef with Paul Three.
41:32Cheers to being back in the farm.
41:35Hear, hear.
41:38If we were a host and a cowboy, who would ride who?
41:44What's more family friendly answer?
41:46All this vibrating is causing my butt to itch.
41:50Dad has recently started talking to ladies.
41:53All I knew was you were blonde and very good looking.
41:57Keep these compliments coming.
41:59I like what I see.
42:01Montana is going to be fun.
42:03Well, you know, I asked Tegan to come.
42:07Are you friends?
42:08I don't like you behind me.
42:10You're so close.
42:11Back up.
42:12What do you think?
42:14Why come to a whole different state with your ex-boyfriend and his family
42:19if you're not going to make that effort?
42:22Oh, my God.
42:23What am I doing here?
42:26Kim is definitely dealing with some guilt and some shame.
42:29You've got to release it because it's time.
42:33Is this a bad conversation?
42:36I've heard things just around, you know, a lot of money you've spent with her.
42:41Apparently, you and Zach have sat down people and explained to them
42:45that they weren't godly enough or whatever.
42:48They're only going to end up alienating themselves from the family,
42:51and I don't want that.
42:53Do you know what Zach told me about you?
42:57I don't care.
42:58That definitely pisses me off.
43:00I'm experiencing something wrong,
43:02and I feel the need to speak up about it.
43:06We are all family, so we're going to talk about each other.
43:10Lydia and Zach are doing what they asked us not to.
43:12It's just not always pleasant
43:14when you are given a list of things that, like, someone doesn't approve of.
43:19You're exporting your opinion into lands that don't want to import.
43:23Man, so I'm a problem for the whole family.
43:25God, cool.
43:26Zach, you're a part of the family now.
43:29I'm trying to build a relationship with you,
43:30and you're making it hard to do that.
43:33Am I supposed to just wrestle them and just have a...
43:36I don't know.
43:37I don't know what to do.
43:41This is going to be uncomfortable.
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