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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 22
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01I'm done with this experiment.
00:00:02Stephanie and Tyson's time in the experiment came to a dramatic end.
00:00:09Our couples continued to grow and learn from the experts.
00:00:13You guys showed me that I was in the wrong very, very much.
00:00:17And while romantic progress was on display...
00:00:20You're grinning from ear to ear.
00:00:22Stella and Phillip's stalemate on who will say I love you first continued.
00:00:27A man has to say it first.
00:00:29What is holding you back, Phillip?
00:00:31It's, I don't know. Yeah, we'll see.
00:00:32Feeling hatred at times.
00:00:33Are you even listening to what I'm saying?
00:00:35Don't speak over Alessandra.
00:00:37Show some respect.
00:00:38Juliet was held to account...
00:00:40You talk in a very toxic fight style.
00:00:42You can't say sorry.
00:00:43I apologise.
00:00:44Not very well.
00:00:45And despite her choosing to stay, Joel drew his line in the sand.
00:00:50I will always treat you with kindness and I expect the same treatment back.
00:00:54Giving the couple one more week to turn their marriage around.
00:00:58Tonight.
00:00:59It's hard to say things like this.
00:01:01I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings of emotions.
00:01:05Alessandra had a good point, yeah?
00:01:07Why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know?
00:01:09Will Phillip finally say those magic words that Stella's been dying to hear?
00:01:15His leg is shaking. It's okay, baby.
00:01:18And then...
00:01:19Yeah!
00:01:20It's time for the annual couples retreat.
00:01:23Wee!
00:01:24Woo! Yay!
00:01:25Very, very content right now.
00:01:27How good is this?
00:01:28Our newlyweds are loving the brand new location.
00:01:32Let's get away from it all.
00:01:35And the happy couples are all singing Kumbaya.
00:01:38I feel like the group vibe's quite nice.
00:01:41Ladies and gentlemen!
00:01:42Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:01:44Until...
00:01:45It's the first night of retreat.
00:01:46We've had...
00:01:50One...
00:01:51Bad...
00:01:52Joke...
00:01:53I just wanna leave.
00:01:54Sends the retreat into meltdown.
00:01:57Stop!
00:01:57You called her a liar.
00:01:58I'm not being manipulated by you!
00:02:00What is the punchline...
00:02:02Guys, guys!
00:02:03...that will break bonds...
00:02:05She is a liar!
00:02:06I'm so sick of this.
00:02:07Stop attacking K-pop and walk away.
00:02:09...and derail the course of the experiment...
00:02:12Get me out of here.
00:02:13...forever.
00:02:14It made me feel like a piece of shit.
00:02:16It worked.
00:02:24We've crossed the halfway mark of the 2026 Married at First Sight experiment.
00:02:30And many of our couples are forming strong romantic connections.
00:02:35Working together to overcome relationship hurdles...
00:02:38...and crossing significant milestones in their marriages.
00:02:42One couple in particular...
00:02:44...is waking up after reaching an exciting new milestone of their own.
00:02:52Oh, what's so funny?
00:02:56Why are you gigging?
00:02:58So, mine and Stephen's relationship is really good.
00:03:06This is...
00:03:06Why aren't we clicking today?
00:03:08This is really bad.
00:03:10This is really...
00:03:11We're usually good at this.
00:03:14Yeah.
00:03:15Yeah.
00:03:15I know why.
00:03:17It's because it's something that we don't want to talk about.
00:03:22Big weekend that me and Rachel had.
00:03:25We're definitely moving things along.
00:03:31We haven't...
00:03:32We haven't had sex, but we've started fooling about.
00:03:37So that's fun.
00:03:39We get to talk about it and everyone's going to be asking questions
00:03:42and we're going to be saying, yeah, it was fantastic.
00:03:45What was fantastic?
00:03:50Despite sharing a positive emotional connection,
00:03:53the couple's most significant challenge so far
00:03:57has been forming physical intimacy.
00:04:00And Stephen's reluctance was highlighted during intimacy week.
00:04:10I can kiss you, Rachel.
00:04:13But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something.
00:04:24Meeting with his family,
00:04:25Stephen was presented with some valuable insight
00:04:28from his brother, Dylan, and mum, Anna.
00:04:31I feel like she's like this on Steve
00:04:34and Steve's just sitting here like this.
00:04:35Yes. Yeah.
00:04:37Come on, dude.
00:04:37She obviously is really into you
00:04:40and I feel like maybe you've got to let your wall down a little bit.
00:04:45At last night's commitment ceremony,
00:04:47Stephen's newfound focus on his connection with Rachel
00:04:50didn't go unnoticed by the experts.
00:04:53Oh, look at you two all cuddled up on the couch there.
00:04:56Ooh, that's cosy.
00:04:58We noticed that.
00:05:00What's changed? What's going on?
00:05:02You know, we had a pretty good kiss
00:05:03and a bit of a chat and a cuddle on the bed last night
00:05:06so it's definitely a step in the right direction.
00:05:09Me and Rachel have developed intimacy just a smudgy more.
00:05:14It felt natural.
00:05:16Alessandra did say bring some more romance and stuff to it.
00:05:21And yeah, we both had fun.
00:05:23The girls would be really excited.
00:05:25Interrogating?
00:05:26No, I don't think the girls would be interrogating
00:05:28but there'd better be bottles of champagne or something
00:05:30because we would be wanting to pop some bottles and celebrate.
00:05:34I'm not going to go into detail but yeah,
00:05:36last night we just sat on the bed
00:05:38and we had like a really good chat about intimacy
00:05:41and then essentially Stephen had a shower,
00:05:44came back to bed and I just...
00:05:46took off.
00:05:48Yeah, you can tell the boys.
00:05:49Tell the boys.
00:05:51I can do this, hey boys.
00:05:52I made second base.
00:05:55Jesus Christ.
00:05:57I don't think he understands what the bases are.
00:06:03Stephen said for him to want to increase intimacy
00:06:07and want to go further with someone he has to have that,
00:06:10you know, emotional attraction.
00:06:12So he must have it.
00:06:13Which is really exciting.
00:06:22Very happy girl.
00:06:23Do what I can.
00:06:30Unfortunately, not everyone is happy in their marriage.
00:06:33Joel is feeling the effects from last night's tumultuous
00:06:37commitment ceremony.
00:06:38I've woken up this morning feeling pretty shit.
00:06:41The experts revealed some of the things Juliet said about me
00:06:44and that was like a knife through my heart.
00:06:47Your behaviour last night, it was mean and cruel.
00:06:54You called him a liar.
00:06:55You said he wasn't a man.
00:06:57You called him a little boy.
00:06:59You said he was embarrassing.
00:07:00And you found him unattractive.
00:07:05Is there hope moving forward with Juliet?
00:07:09I actually don't know.
00:07:10The onus is definitely on Juliet to repair the relationship.
00:07:13There's no doubt about that.
00:07:23Hey.
00:07:24Hey.
00:07:25How are you feeling?
00:07:26Been better?
00:07:28How are you feeling?
00:07:29Um, look I'm just really sorry.
00:07:35I guess I didn't realise how much you were hurting.
00:07:39Um, when I say words like that, it's when I'm really, really hurting.
00:07:44and I guess I use it as a way of releasing my pain,
00:07:51not recognising who's on the other side of that release.
00:07:55And I'm really sorry for my actions.
00:07:58I feel shit.
00:08:02I was wondering this morning what Juliet's next step would be
00:08:06and I think she took the right one.
00:08:08She came and apologised and it was heartfelt.
00:08:12Well, it was a really, really intense confronting session
00:08:16for both of us last night.
00:08:18We can all say things that we don't mean even to loved ones
00:08:21when we're angry or whatever,
00:08:23but I don't like to see you in pain.
00:08:26I accept your apology.
00:08:28Thanks.
00:08:29It's OK. It's OK.
00:08:32I was expecting him to be a lot more angrier and upset this morning
00:08:38considering how angry he was on the couch last night.
00:08:42I appreciate you forgiving me.
00:08:44I think I just need to take some time to take care of my heart as well
00:08:48in this experiment.
00:08:50It's been very emotional for you and for me too.
00:08:54But we're in this experiment together
00:08:56and I think that the best way forward
00:08:58is just to leave everything in the past, you know,
00:09:01and start fresh.
00:09:04I think this morning showed the compassionate,
00:09:07empathetic side of Juliet
00:09:08and that gives me hope for the future.
00:09:10It's not in my nature to hold grudges
00:09:12and I'm willing to let the past stay in the past.
00:09:15Forgive.
00:09:16Thanks, babes.
00:09:18And move forward.
00:09:19New page.
00:09:20Throw the old book out.
00:09:25Down the hall,
00:09:27David is still feeling blindsided
00:09:29after Alyssa's revelation
00:09:31at last night's commitment ceremony.
00:09:33David, he gives me a lot,
00:09:35but there's some things that he can't give me.
00:09:38I function at a high frequency
00:09:41and I feel like we're six weeks in.
00:09:44I'm missing that stimulation,
00:09:46that high frequency
00:09:47that I would normally get from my relationships
00:09:50to make me happy.
00:09:53Yeah, I don't like the use of the word stimulated.
00:09:56Like, I don't think, you know,
00:09:57that is appropriate
00:09:58when you're explaining that
00:10:00it's because, you know,
00:10:01you miss your friends and family
00:10:02and all the noise in the outside.
00:10:04I mean, we're all here for the same reasons.
00:10:07We all have all the noise in the outside.
00:10:09Your own experience is your experience,
00:10:11but someone on the outside listening in
00:10:13could take it differently
00:10:14because they don't know
00:10:16how you feel inside of being unstimulated,
00:10:18but if they think Alyssa and David
00:10:20are hanging out together,
00:10:21spending every day with each other
00:10:24and Alyssa feels unstimulated,
00:10:26it's like, uh, who else?
00:10:28It's like David's fault
00:10:29because he's being boring.
00:10:31I feel like, babe,
00:10:32I feel like you're overthinking it
00:10:33because I sat down in front of the experts
00:10:35and I literally said,
00:10:36this is a me thing
00:10:37and I don't know why
00:10:38you're dragging yourself into it.
00:10:40I'm really not dragging myself.
00:10:41I'm just having the conversation.
00:10:42This is a me thing, babe.
00:10:43Yeah, I understand.
00:10:44And I'm a more high-functioning person than you.
00:10:47My brain's like,
00:10:48all the time.
00:10:49Like, my frequencies vibrate higher than yours,
00:10:53whereas you're more chill.
00:10:54Yeah.
00:10:54You know, you're the opposite of me.
00:10:56What do you mean by your frequencies vibrate higher?
00:10:57Like, I'm a more louder, outgoing,
00:11:00sort of busy sort of person.
00:11:02I feel like frequency, again,
00:11:03is the wrong with stimulation.
00:11:05That's something that I'm funny with frequency.
00:11:07You are in a foul mood today.
00:11:09I feel like...
00:11:09You are in a foul mood today, babe.
00:11:11You are taking everything so personally.
00:11:14I feel like I can't get my word across to David.
00:11:17Okay, so obviously moving forward,
00:11:19I think for the lack of stimulation
00:11:22that I'm not getting in this, you know,
00:11:25in this environment,
00:11:26then I'm going to do things for myself.
00:11:28Yeah.
00:11:29You know?
00:11:30Like, obviously we do amazing dates together,
00:11:33but for me personally,
00:11:34I feel like maybe that might be a bit of self-care.
00:11:37You know?
00:11:38Massage, facial.
00:11:39There are other ways that I can fill my cup up
00:11:42and, you know,
00:11:44get that stimulation that I need in other ways.
00:11:47But I will always tell you.
00:11:48Yeah, no, I appreciate that.
00:11:50That's good.
00:11:53I feel like David and I are on the same page.
00:11:55I feel like he finally understood what I meant at the table,
00:11:58but it took him a while.
00:11:59We got there.
00:11:59We got there.
00:12:00You are hard work today, boy.
00:12:04Honestly.
00:12:13As a brand new week gets underway...
00:12:16How are you doing?
00:12:17Yeah, good.
00:12:17I'm pumped.
00:12:18Today's the day.
00:12:20I'm packing my activities.
00:12:21Our couples are preparing
00:12:23for the next step in their relationships.
00:12:26Retreat day.
00:12:26Retreat day.
00:12:27The relationship retreat
00:12:29is an exciting and important phase of the experiment.
00:12:32It's a chance for our couples
00:12:34to leave their normal day-to-day
00:12:36and get a fresh perspective on their marriage
00:12:38in a different setting.
00:12:40Getting away and spending time in a new environment
00:12:42will help breathe life into relationships
00:12:44that might be in a rut.
00:12:46It can help break negative patterns
00:12:48and progress the relationship.
00:12:51Going on a retreat.
00:12:52We're getting out of here.
00:12:53Don't get me wrong,
00:12:54this is a palace over here,
00:12:55but we're going to be substituting it
00:12:57for hopefully a little bit of coastline,
00:13:00a lot more sun,
00:13:01and I think it's just going to be a good break
00:13:03from whatever the experiment's been dishing out.
00:13:06I can see you've got all the essentials there.
00:13:07I've got the cards, I've got the games,
00:13:09I've got the football ball,
00:13:10the skipping rope, the booty band.
00:13:12I'm bringing another card as a game.
00:13:14I also packed astrology book
00:13:15to check everyone's matches too.
00:13:18Yeah.
00:13:21Do you know the magician gets the hat out
00:13:23and it just keeps coming?
00:13:24It just keeps coming.
00:13:26We've got uggies,
00:13:27a couple warm dresses,
00:13:28a couple...
00:13:29Warm, cold,
00:13:31toiletries and stuff,
00:13:31you've got all...
00:13:32Yeah.
00:13:33You've got to do that.
00:13:35Oh, my God.
00:13:36Are you excited?
00:13:37I'm super keen.
00:13:39Scott and I are pretty solid,
00:13:40as usual.
00:13:41We had a really good weekend.
00:13:42I just want to get away,
00:13:43have some sun,
00:13:45relax.
00:13:46This is going to be so fun.
00:13:47Who are you looking forward to seeing?
00:13:49I think I want a chance to meet everyone.
00:13:51I think being a later couple,
00:13:53like, they're all...
00:13:54have bonded with each other a lot.
00:13:56I'm actually excited.
00:13:57Like, when I'm in a social environment with Chris,
00:13:59it's actually when I feel closest to him
00:14:00because we both, like, love that environment
00:14:02and I see the best side of Chris.
00:14:03Yeah, it'll be awesome.
00:14:05I've got no beef with anyone.
00:14:06You've got no beef with anyone.
00:14:09I just want to steer clear of it all.
00:14:12I'm just going to sit back and watch.
00:14:13Danny and I are in a really, really good place at the moment.
00:14:16So, like, you know, I just...
00:14:17I just want to protect our peace.
00:14:19Yeah, no grenades being dropped by me.
00:14:21You're sure you're not going to drop any?
00:14:23No.
00:14:23It's been a week.
00:14:24You must be getting...
00:14:25Daniel.
00:14:26Getting the edge.
00:14:27Daniel.
00:14:30No-one thinks you're funny.
00:14:32There's drama.
00:14:34Watch me sink back into the, like, Homer Simpson
00:14:36and into the bush.
00:14:37Like, I don't want to be involved in any of it.
00:14:40Do you reckon there'll be any news?
00:14:41I think the most interesting one will be
00:14:43the dynamic between Juliet and Joel.
00:14:46They might be head over heels in love by now.
00:14:48I'm...
00:14:49You never know what's going to happen on this experiment.
00:14:50Surely not.
00:14:53Across the hall, having packed for the couple's retreat,
00:14:57there's something on Philip's mind.
00:14:59What did you think of last night?
00:15:01It was great.
00:15:02It was a great little chat.
00:15:04What did you think about their feedback?
00:15:06Kind of what they were telling us?
00:15:07I love that I needed to give a high-five to Alessandra
00:15:11for the same views that the man needs to say I love you first, so...
00:15:15Oh, really?
00:15:16Yeah, love it.
00:15:17Love that.
00:15:17You agree with that?
00:15:19I...
00:15:21There's something that I've been thinking about
00:15:23for the last few weeks.
00:15:24I think there was one thing that she did kind of say
00:15:27that I was just like...
00:15:29Oh, yeah, you're right.
00:15:30It was kind of brought forth on the commitment ceremony
00:15:33when Alessandra was like,
00:15:34I don't understand the confusion here, what's happening?
00:15:36Like, you guys are obviously feeling it.
00:15:38You were mentioning that you guys feel things
00:15:42and that you know because you know
00:15:44and you're communicating that by Morse code and looks.
00:15:47But no words?
00:15:48Oh, yeah.
00:15:51We're tiptoeing around.
00:15:53In this environment, in another environment,
00:15:55if you're feeling, then you're feeling.
00:15:57And I think that needs to be celebrated.
00:16:02It's hard to say things like this.
00:16:04I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings
00:16:06or emotions, you know?
00:16:08So there was something that kind of etched in my mind last night.
00:16:12Alessandra had a good point, yeah?
00:16:15You either feel it or not,
00:16:16why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know?
00:16:19If it's that obvious.
00:16:21So the hesitation was a little bit of fear.
00:16:24His leg is shaking.
00:16:25It's OK, baby.
00:16:27I haven't said this to anyone in six years.
00:16:30What if you're coming on too strong
00:16:32and it's only you feeling it?
00:16:34I had to think about what she said
00:16:36and, yeah, you are different.
00:16:40You're special.
00:16:43And I am in love with you.
00:16:50I knew.
00:16:51What?
00:16:52I knew.
00:16:53Good job.
00:16:56Of course I knew.
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:58I can tell.
00:16:59It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
00:17:02It doesn't bloody take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
00:17:05And I haven't said that in a while, so...
00:17:09Where do you stand?
00:17:11Same spot.
00:17:12So what is that?
00:17:13Being in love.
00:17:15Yeah.
00:17:22Coming up...
00:17:25Um...
00:17:26What's got Stella holding back?
00:17:28When we started to have those chats,
00:17:30it kind of all got very, very serious.
00:17:32And that's becoming hard.
00:17:35Oh, God, I feel like I'm going to cry.
00:17:43This year, for the very first time,
00:17:46the annual couples retreat
00:17:48is heading two hours south of Sydney
00:17:50to the picturesque town of Kiama.
00:17:54Located on a sprawling property,
00:17:56a stone's throw away from the coastline.
00:17:59It will be a chance for our couples to embrace nature
00:18:03and gain further perspectives in a new environment.
00:18:07And, as always,
00:18:09staking claim to a bedroom is top priority.
00:18:23It was chaotic.
00:18:25Oh, I'm fighting.
00:18:28I'm going as hard as I can,
00:18:30and they're just pulling away.
00:18:33Me and my short little stumpy legs
00:18:35and everyone's seven foot tall,
00:18:37their one step is equivalent to six of mine.
00:18:43Oh, f**k!
00:18:51Oh, yeah!
00:18:54I've got it.
00:18:56Scott, he's got the...
00:18:57He's got the King's Palace up there.
00:18:59He's got the bathtub looking out here,
00:19:01sun shining through,
00:19:02bed in the middle.
00:19:03He's got a kitchenette.
00:19:05No place to like home.
00:19:06Oh, my room's pretty good.
00:19:10Coming at the perfect time
00:19:12for their intimacy development,
00:19:14Stephen has secured a secluded room
00:19:16for he and Rachel.
00:19:18So we've got the guest house.
00:19:20And it's away from everyone as well.
00:19:23Sorry, son!
00:19:24Keep it up for the boys!
00:19:29Your boy did it!
00:19:30You did!
00:19:31I've delivered!
00:19:32I brought home the bacon
00:19:34in the oven!
00:19:36We got it!
00:19:37Go, go, go, go, go!
00:19:39This is nice.
00:19:40This is so cute!
00:19:41This is a lot.
00:19:42I'm so happy, boo!
00:19:44Babe, you did so good!
00:19:48I can't believe we're on the retreat, guys!
00:19:51Woo!
00:19:52We're a couple's retreat!
00:19:53Yay!
00:19:55There you go!
00:20:00Oh, keep it clean, baby!
00:20:03We got the best room!
00:20:04Oh, this is comfy.
00:20:06Princess.
00:20:07Wow.
00:20:07Best room in the house.
00:20:08Oh, yeah.
00:20:09Very, very content right now.
00:20:11He did very well.
00:20:14Honestly, we're so lucky.
00:20:15I feel like this retreat's gonna keep me and Gia close.
00:20:19Yay!
00:20:20Inseparable.
00:20:21And, like, we're just here to enjoy this retreat
00:20:24as if it's a honeymoon.
00:20:28Hello!
00:20:33Hey, what a nice little area to chill.
00:20:35There's a little swing here.
00:20:37Oh, higher, Daddy!
00:20:38Higher, Daddy!
00:20:39Yeah, it is a pretty sweet pad, though.
00:20:41This is unreal.
00:20:42The view, like, so splooted.
00:20:44Cool.
00:20:44Should be a good few days.
00:20:49How stunning is that?
00:20:52Last week was a really, really tough week.
00:20:55And I think this week I'm just focusing on having tunnel vision
00:20:59of just me and Joel.
00:21:00So, that's the goal.
00:21:03This is cute!
00:21:04Yeah, this is a change of events.
00:21:06Yeah, it cleared the air.
00:21:08Did you?
00:21:09Yes!
00:21:10This is so good.
00:21:11I'm excited for you.
00:21:12No, no, no, no.
00:21:12Me too.
00:21:13No, no, no, no.
00:21:13Joel and Juliet.
00:21:14Um, wow, they've come lengths and bounds.
00:21:17I did not expect to see that.
00:21:19Uh, what is going on there?
00:21:21Are we good at the moment?
00:21:22At the moment, hopefully forever.
00:21:25What you're seeing is, uh, is, is genuine.
00:21:27Okay.
00:21:28Good.
00:21:29So, how are you feeling about, um, you know, a few days of the retreat together?
00:21:32Well, I think it's come at the perfect time.
00:21:34Perfect.
00:21:34I agree.
00:21:35You know?
00:21:35Um, yeah, wow.
00:21:39Yeah.
00:21:39So, this will be the first night in the...
00:21:41Together.
00:21:42...bed in...
00:21:43First night sleeping together since the first night of the honeymoon.
00:21:45Okay.
00:21:45So, uh, I think, uh, this is, uh, honeymoon version two.
00:21:49I already feel like we're very vibey with each other.
00:21:53More power to you, Queen, but, like, I don't know how you've turned it around from that dinner
00:21:56party to now, but, hey, this could be the beginning of a beautiful love story.
00:22:02Perplexed, but could be the beginning of a beautiful love story.
00:22:05Like, it feels completely different, which was what I wanted.
00:22:08Natural?
00:22:08It feels natural.
00:22:09Yeah, good, good, good, good.
00:22:11And you feel good?
00:22:12I feel great, yeah.
00:22:12You look good.
00:22:13Oh, good, guys.
00:22:14Yes.
00:22:15It's puzzling to me how you can go from really hating your husband at a dinner party to completely
00:22:19flipping that round.
00:22:22However, if it's genuine, more power to you.
00:22:24We're all here for love, so it might have been to kick up the butt she needed.
00:22:28You can't fake this.
00:22:29Yes!
00:22:29You can't fake it.
00:22:30You can't fake it.
00:22:31I know.
00:22:32It's the bounce back of the century.
00:22:33This is exciting.
00:22:35Put your legs up.
00:22:37Don't set me flying, though.
00:22:39It's so peaceful now, you know.
00:22:41You can only hear the birds singing.
00:22:45No, I don't know what that even was.
00:22:47Was that a kookaburra?
00:22:48Or a pigeon?
00:22:51Was it a pigeon?
00:22:55As the sun sets on the first day of the retreat, our couples are coming together for the first
00:23:01night welcome drinks it is the first night I am so excited to connect with
00:23:13all the couples it's like being close to the real world I wanted to share an
00:23:19update in mine and Stephen's relationship
00:23:25I think you all know like we've had obviously our trying times but last night
00:23:30as our intimacy levels increase I think reading for Rachel and Stephen since day
00:23:52one so I'm sorry sorry happy that they are taking their relationship to the next
00:23:55level Rachel is so happy like I feel like you guys are on the right track and I'm
00:24:01really happy for you guys oh great thank you so much cheers to that I've watched
00:24:06them go through this journey and they vulnerably sat down with us tonight said
00:24:10hey we're at this stage in that relationship me and Stephen like we've
00:24:14just hit this really nice trajectory and I'm like I'm really excited about it so
00:24:19obviously that was a huge milestone for Rachel to be intimate with Steve and she
00:24:25is such a sensitive beautiful soul I'm just really happy for them
00:24:32there is so much love in the air tonight I feel like it's the country it brings
00:24:37people together it's good energy it's good vibes I love that that's why I love
00:24:44the country hang on has anyone asked how these two are going yet hey Philip Stella we
00:24:49haven't heard from you guys yet what's going on so when we're on the couch at the commitment ceremony
00:25:00Alessandra was just saying I don't get what's going on with you guys you guys
00:25:04seem to keep doing the dance feel like with your words and stuff like that and I
00:25:08just said I just got something to tell you I'll go I don't know how to say this but I
00:25:14love you
00:25:35what's going on everyone's getting along this perfect it's great it's great it's time it's
00:25:40great it's all very nice it's a fun night tonight guys yes I know I yeah they're married it I'm
00:25:49just so telling what you think about it you know the comment from Beck is it's just assuming like we
00:26:00never went into detail the comments like we did that action and it's you know it's just yeah it's just
00:26:08a
00:26:08vulgar thing to say oh yeah that's just the classic Beck has a very like I guess like crude sense
00:26:32of
00:26:32humor to be honest like I'd be a bit like oh you know like a little bit frustrated it made
00:26:47me feel I
00:26:48guess a little bit awkward I mean I'm not very you know open about my you know sex life
00:26:59yeah I feel a little bit awkward around Beck I've felt awkward about Beck since day one really
00:27:07um look I don't like the comments but I said I feel like I'm just yeah
00:27:15I feel like I should have could have just said to Beck look let's not say the say it that
00:27:22way can we
00:27:22just be a bit more respectful and not say it's like that it's just like we progressed ladies and gentlemen
00:27:38right can I have you guys over here please guys I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight
00:27:48it's
00:27:48the first night of retreat and we've had I love you we've had a couple that I thought could not
00:27:56come
00:27:57back from the brink of hell bounce back and we've had finger bangs so like
00:28:32right can I have you guys over here
00:28:38please
00:28:39guys I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight it's the first night of retreat and we've had
00:28:46I
00:28:47love you we've had a couple that I thought could not come back from the brink of hell bounce back
00:28:55yeah and we've had finger bangs so like
00:29:11anyway guys I just wanted to say that I think this has been a great night of retreat night one
00:29:22Jesus okay I think we need to cheers to new friendships and getting to know each other drink up
00:29:32let's go to bed because tomorrow's a big day
00:29:40I didn't think it was funny
00:29:44she turned something that Steven and I was so excited about telling others about and where we're at
00:29:50he's on the B. I don't know it's way behind it into a joke I get why Rachel got offended
00:29:59it's back she speaks like that it's just I don't know is it necessary it's not
00:30:11You know Rach is a sensitive girl and she opened up and we know that she wouldn't really appreciate that
00:30:17sort of sense of humour
00:30:18So it doesn't really matter how you mean to say something
00:30:22If someone takes it a certain way and doesn't take it the way that you intended by saying it
00:30:27It deserves an apology
00:30:28Bec, a quick apology to Rach
00:30:36Oh Rach, I'm so sorry, I apologise
00:30:38No, it's alright, don't worry about it, no, it's fine
00:30:40Oh, it was meant to be a bit of fun
00:30:41Well it's not funny, like I shared with you guys openly that we took intimacy to a new level
00:30:46Which is really important for Stephen and I and you just made a joke of it
00:30:50No, I did make a joke of it
00:30:52Well you did, and everyone laughed
00:30:57Sorry if I offended you for me laughing, babe
00:30:59It wasn't you guys who made the joke of it
00:31:01Becs were there and made a joke
00:31:03It's not a joke, darling
00:31:04We all celebrate you and your wins and we've been here through this and I have been here through this
00:31:10You're very, very quick to turn
00:31:15No, no, no
00:31:16No, I think it was inappropriate
00:31:19I'm with Rach, it was inappropriate
00:31:21I have been here, my husband has been here
00:31:25Rach, you're very quick to turn
00:31:27It was not that it was nullis at all
00:31:30In that moment she could have like come to me and be like, I'm really sorry
00:31:34But instead she wanted to turn around and make a fight out of it
00:31:39Go fight in the mirror, sweetie
00:31:41You're going to get more joy
00:31:42I'm not going to scream at you
00:31:44I have every right to sit there and say, that was not okay
00:31:47You just made it a joke of my relationship
00:31:50We're here celebrating you
00:31:52It wasn't, it didn't fail
00:31:53In that moment it did not feel like a celebration
00:31:56I apologise, it never meant to
00:31:58We celebrate you all the time
00:32:00That's what we're doing
00:32:01Stop talking
00:32:03Jesus Christ
00:32:04Rach, Rach, Rach, Rach
00:32:05Yeah, cool, anyway, I'm done with tonight
00:32:08Yeah, thanks guys
00:32:09Have a good night
00:32:11I mean, Ho's husband's helped him get there
00:32:13Mine
00:32:15How do you think it got to this point?
00:32:17My husband going off the beers with him
00:32:18Yeah
00:32:23Get over her
00:32:24Mate, she needs to calm down
00:32:27She pops off so quickly
00:32:29I'm over her
00:32:31Look at her, going nuts
00:32:33She's going off her head nuts right now
00:32:35When Bec said that, I felt really hurt and disappointed
00:32:42It felt vulgar
00:32:44And it felt just, like, I just felt like a piece of shit
00:33:00I was so excited
00:33:02For a treat
00:33:05I just don't even want to be around here anymore
00:33:09It just made me feel like a piece of shit all over again
00:33:13I just
00:33:14Don't feel that way, please
00:33:17We've worked so hard
00:33:20We've worked so hard in our relationship
00:33:24And we're on this amazing trajectory
00:33:26And I was so excited to share it with everyone
00:33:28I just didn't expect that someone
00:33:31Would just stand up there and cheapen it
00:33:35She needs to relax
00:33:37Jesus Christ
00:33:39She's sensitive to it
00:33:41She's sensitive
00:33:42We're celebrating her
00:33:43Always
00:33:44Don't push anything more onto it
00:33:46Do you know what I mean?
00:33:48It's just like
00:33:48She's sensitive to it
00:33:50Honestly, she's too
00:33:51She's just really hard work sometimes
00:33:53Oh, God, she's going off her head
00:33:56She's going absolutely off her head right now
00:33:58Look at her in there
00:33:59She's going off her head in there
00:34:01I have supported her all night
00:34:04I've supported
00:34:05My husband is the one sitting with her husband every night
00:34:08Encouraging him to do it
00:34:13I shouldn't laugh
00:34:14She's really upset
00:34:19I shouldn't laugh
00:34:20But, like, what planet am I on right now?
00:34:23Like, I understand, okay?
00:34:24Your feelings are valid
00:34:26You don't want me to make a joke of it
00:34:27I'm not
00:34:28My husband is the one that's encouraged your husband to finger bang you
00:34:31Darling, okay?
00:34:32So, let's just calm down
00:34:34I'm going to get a t-shirt with finger bang across it
00:34:36I'm going to wear it everywhere
00:34:37Like, f*** me
00:34:38Who would have known?
00:34:39But I can't be bothered with it
00:34:41Like
00:34:46I'm so happy finally you've got some
00:34:49You know?
00:34:50I'm celebrating you
00:35:09Okay, well, we'll talk
00:35:11We'll talk to Beck
00:35:12And we're going to get through it, okay?
00:35:22After last night's welcome drinks ended in emotion
00:35:25Stephen is supporting Rachel
00:35:28As she tries to understand why Beck made a joke of their intimacy
00:35:32My personal opinion is that I found Beck's comment just
00:35:36Look, it's just disrespectful
00:35:37And a bit vulgar
00:35:42I don't know if I believe that she was, like, intentionally trying to hurt us
00:35:46I just think it was a very bad choice of words
00:35:49And it was disrespectful
00:35:50She could have just said
00:35:51I'm happy for, you know, Rachel and Stephen
00:35:55That they've increased their intimacy over the weekend
00:35:58And I'm very happy for them
00:36:00Well, it was a big thing for us to share
00:36:02Like, we're being vulnerable with the group
00:36:03I shared it as a celebration
00:36:06And while she didn't do it with malice
00:36:09We were a punchline in a joke
00:36:14If Stephen and I were standing there
00:36:17Speaking about our relationship
00:36:19In front of everyone in that way
00:36:22Go for it
00:36:23But we weren't
00:36:25It made me humiliated
00:36:27To being vulnerable with the group
00:36:29And sharing what I thought was exciting news
00:36:33Yeah, I'm more than happy to hear what Beck's got to say
00:36:35But Beck's also got to hear what I've got to say
00:36:37And she's actually got to listen and understand
00:36:39And put herself in my shoes
00:36:41When people have said things to her
00:36:43About her relationship
00:36:44And when I understand
00:36:45It's completely different from what was said
00:36:46She was quite upset
00:36:47And that's okay
00:36:49Last night I got upset
00:36:50And the first thing she wanted to do
00:36:52Was turn and try and fight me
00:36:54I would never stand up in front of a group
00:36:57Ever
00:36:59And do that
00:36:59Because if I did that to her and Danny
00:37:02I'd be six foot under
00:37:03And you wouldn't find the body
00:37:04I regret telling the group
00:37:07I regret celebrating
00:37:09Something in my relationship
00:37:13Oh, morning
00:37:14Morning
00:37:16How are we?
00:37:17I'm good, how are you?
00:37:19Good, thanks
00:37:20You slept so good last night
00:37:21So well
00:37:22You sleep good in the country, don't you?
00:37:25Yeah, it's beautiful
00:37:26How funny was last night, babe?
00:37:28It's a funny night, isn't it?
00:37:30Oh my God, full-blown meltdown
00:37:31Um, yeah, obviously
00:37:33There's a little bit of drama now
00:37:34That drama involves me, unfortunately
00:37:37Hopefully she can maybe just
00:37:39Move, move past it
00:37:40You need to calm down
00:37:42What was said as a joke in jest
00:37:45I'm a woman
00:37:46We do that
00:37:49Oh, what a beautiful day
00:37:52It's like, get a personality, will you?
00:37:54Oh, f***ing hell
00:38:06Go ten
00:38:07Go ten
00:38:08Go ten, you do ten?
00:38:09Yep
00:38:09Great work, brother
00:38:12I'm gonna perv
00:38:13Shirt's off, guys
00:38:15Shirt's off
00:38:18Yeah, baby
00:38:19Come on, you two
00:38:20Chop, chop
00:38:21Chop, chop
00:38:22Last one, guys
00:38:23Last one
00:38:29Hey, come on
00:38:31Come on
00:38:39Come on
00:38:40I need to come off
00:38:45After an emotional night
00:38:47Rachel and Stephen
00:38:48Have taken some time away
00:38:50From the group
00:38:50To reconnect
00:38:52I can see Rachel and Stephen
00:38:55Having a little chit-chat over there
00:38:59Maybe something really bad
00:39:00Has actually happened
00:39:00Because she's walking around
00:39:01Really upset
00:39:04Maybe she didn't get enough attention
00:39:06From the announcement
00:39:07That she made
00:39:09And then when I said it
00:39:10It was like
00:39:10Oh, ding, ding, ding
00:39:11Here's my chance
00:39:12To get angry at someone
00:39:14And now everyone's
00:39:15Gonna be talking about me
00:39:16And there's the attention
00:39:18You can't walk around
00:39:20Like this all day
00:39:21Like
00:39:22Like
00:39:23The joke has been
00:39:24Amplified that much
00:39:25That it's actually
00:39:26Affecting their relationship
00:39:28But do you think
00:39:29Steve-O wants to be
00:39:30Down there
00:39:30Trying to cheer her up
00:39:32Because like
00:39:32Because his finger
00:39:33Back
00:39:34Like, f*** me
00:39:35It should have
00:39:36It should have
00:39:37It should have
00:39:37Made her happier
00:39:39It's made her sadder
00:39:40He's probably
00:39:41F*** that
00:39:42I'm not gonna
00:39:42Finger blast her
00:39:43Ever again
00:39:44I can't take the risk
00:39:47It's mad
00:39:48Nothing bad
00:39:49Actually happened
00:39:49It's a good thing
00:39:50It's a great thing
00:39:51It's a good thing
00:39:52I'm really happy for you
00:39:53There was a joke
00:39:54Made about a good thing
00:39:55Yeah, a good thing
00:39:56We just need to move forward
00:39:57It's gonna live on
00:39:58Forever
00:39:59Forever
00:40:01It's just
00:40:02I don't know
00:40:03I'm gonna get merch
00:40:04I'm gonna get
00:40:05I'm gonna get caps
00:40:05And t-shirts
00:40:10Anywho
00:40:11Merch coming
00:40:12I didn't really do anything wrong
00:40:14Like, everyone knows
00:40:16That I did not mean that
00:40:17With malice
00:40:18And then all of a sudden
00:40:19It's World War 3
00:40:20Like, what is going on?
00:40:22I don't understand
00:40:23Merch coming
00:40:24February 2026
00:40:28Oh my god
00:40:29Yes, Sam
00:40:30All right
00:40:31Will you buy my merch?
00:40:33What is it?
00:40:34It's a merch?
00:40:35It's called
00:40:35Fingerbang merch
00:40:36Oh my god
00:40:37Absolutely not
00:40:38Keep me out of that merch
00:40:40Don't want any bad juju
00:40:42Around me, babe
00:40:43F*** off bad juju
00:40:44Calm down
00:40:45Calm your phone, bro
00:40:48I'm gonna send it to you anyway
00:40:49You're gonna wear it, bitch
00:40:54I think some girls
00:40:55Can just be a lost cause
00:40:57The shit-talking she was doing
00:40:58About rage on the sunbeds
00:41:01She's already been making jokes
00:41:02About putting that tagline
00:41:04On a t-shirt
00:41:05And selling it as merch
00:41:06All of it was so unacceptable
00:41:09This is very Beck
00:41:10Behaviour
00:41:11She kept going on
00:41:12About these disgusting comments
00:41:13And making merch for it
00:41:14It wasn't nice
00:41:19I'm literally doing it
00:41:20You're the main model
00:41:21In the men
00:41:22You still don't feel it
00:41:24Beck is not someone
00:41:25I would be friends with
00:41:26In the outside world
00:41:28I feel like I have
00:41:29A lot of empathy for her
00:41:30She tries a lot
00:41:31But she just keeps
00:41:32F***ing it up
00:41:33By
00:41:35Just thinking about herself
00:41:36It's really quite selfish
00:41:37It will be interesting
00:41:39To see how the whole
00:41:40Beck and Rach situation
00:41:42Develops
00:41:43Hopefully it comes to an end
00:41:45But you definitely never know
00:41:48Coming up
00:41:49It was disrespectful
00:41:50It was disgusting
00:41:51And it wasn't
00:41:52It was a joke
00:41:53How will Beck respond
00:41:56To questions from the group?
00:41:58But when are you gonna be
00:41:59Accountable for repeated behaviour?
00:42:08It's the Married at First Sight retreat
00:42:10On the New South Wales South Coast
00:42:12And our couples are getting ready
00:42:14For their Boys and Girls Nights
00:42:20And Joel is embracing Mother Nature
00:42:23To ensure all areas are well maintained
00:42:26And we're done
00:42:29Woo!
00:42:31Nice and groomed
00:42:32A social event
00:42:34Separating our couples
00:42:35Is an integral part of this retreat
00:42:38It allows them to speak freely with their peers
00:42:41And gain some outside advice
00:42:43For their relationships
00:42:45Girls and Boys Nights
00:42:46Yeah I know
00:42:47You've chosen the girls
00:42:48I've been stolen away to the girls
00:42:50For the night
00:42:50I am excited for tonight
00:42:52Hang out with the boys
00:42:53Whatever happened last night
00:42:55Between Rachel and Beck
00:42:56Do you think that that's
00:42:57Is that still a thing?
00:42:59Is that something
00:42:59That's gonna be spoken about tonight?
00:43:01It's definitely gonna be spoken
00:43:02Okay
00:43:02Definitely
00:43:03Yeah
00:43:03Because they haven't spoken today
00:43:05All day
00:43:05Okay
00:43:06Yeah
00:43:06They've been quite frosty with each other
00:43:09But Beck's been pretty good with you today
00:43:10Hasn't she?
00:43:11She has said like a few comments again
00:43:13About how she wanted to make merch
00:43:16Oh merch
00:43:16Yeah she said she wanted to make merch
00:43:18I think she's just joking though
00:43:20Like she's not actually gonna make merch
00:43:21You know
00:43:21But it's also just like
00:43:22Why are we still talking about this
00:43:24When we obviously know
00:43:25Rachel's so upset
00:43:26Yeah
00:43:28I'm wondering if
00:43:30Beck's gonna apologise to Rachel
00:43:31I think she should
00:43:33But how many times
00:43:33Is she gonna keep saying sorry
00:43:35And then doing the same thing again
00:43:36To everybody
00:43:36So like I think people are over it
00:43:38I think people are too
00:43:39Yeah
00:43:41I'm not right now
00:43:42That's going to girls night
00:43:43We obviously still have the hangover
00:43:46Of last night
00:43:47Between myself and Beck
00:43:50I think what I really need to see
00:43:51From Beck tonight
00:43:52Is like
00:43:53Empathy
00:43:54Like help me understand
00:43:55That you understand
00:43:57But standing up for myself
00:43:58For some reason
00:43:59Is hard
00:44:02Oh this is cute
00:44:05I'm excited for girls night
00:44:06I think it's gonna be
00:44:07A fun night
00:44:09And
00:44:09I think everyone seems
00:44:10To be in a pretty good place
00:44:11So I don't know
00:44:12If there's gonna be
00:44:13Any argy-bargy
00:44:15Woo
00:44:16I feel like Rachel
00:44:17Has put a bit of a cloud
00:44:18Over the day
00:44:19Like
00:44:19I'm perplexed
00:44:20As to how
00:44:21It has
00:44:22Affected her so much
00:44:24It's very weird to me
00:44:49And so what's the girls
00:44:50How's everyone else's
00:44:51Relationships going
00:44:52Good
00:44:53I know the double J's
00:44:55Which I love
00:44:56JJ
00:44:57I love a J
00:44:59Honestly
00:45:00Like I'm so shocked
00:45:01At the turnaround
00:45:02About our emotional connection
00:45:03I've only shared a bed
00:45:05With Joel once
00:45:06Since starting
00:45:07The experiment
00:45:08So last night
00:45:09Was the second time
00:45:10Nice
00:45:11Hello
00:45:13Yeah
00:45:14So look
00:45:14Vibe check with Juliet
00:45:16Vibe is good
00:45:17Juliet and I
00:45:18Had some romance last night
00:45:19We shared some kisses
00:45:20Yeah I was excited
00:45:21When I saw him
00:45:22In his get up tonight
00:45:23And the clean shave
00:45:24And I was like
00:45:25Hottie patottie
00:45:25Thank God
00:45:28Cheers for that
00:45:32Cheers
00:45:32Cheers
00:45:33Cheers
00:45:33Cheers
00:45:34Let's celebrate
00:45:34Stella and Phillip
00:45:35Where we are with Phillip
00:45:37It was obvious
00:45:38Obviously how we are
00:45:39Like we obsessed
00:45:40With each other
00:45:41We're so affectionate
00:45:42We do plan
00:45:43Our future together
00:45:44When we started
00:45:44To have those chats
00:45:45It kind of all
00:45:46Got very very serious
00:45:47And
00:45:49Falling in love
00:45:50As I realise
00:45:51When it's a right person
00:45:53And when I think
00:45:54You're ready
00:45:54It's not that hard
00:45:55What comes after
00:45:57That's becoming hard
00:46:00Oh God
00:46:01I feel like I'm going to cry
00:46:02Oh
00:46:04Good
00:46:05Because
00:46:06The way I look at him
00:46:07I do want him
00:46:08To be my forever partner
00:46:09And I do really want to work
00:46:11On those things
00:46:11To that level
00:46:12Yeah
00:46:13But it's so much
00:46:14More deeper
00:46:15And that's what I'm dealing
00:46:16Right now
00:46:17Fear of rejection
00:46:17Not rejection
00:46:18Abandonment
00:46:19Right
00:46:19So I'm dealing
00:46:20With that right now
00:46:21So
00:46:21My parents had me
00:46:25Extremely young
00:46:25My dad then left
00:46:27To live
00:46:28In UK
00:46:31My role models
00:46:33And people who raised me
00:46:34Is my grandmother
00:46:35And my auntie
00:46:36Growing up in Lithuania
00:46:38Shaped me to be
00:46:39Quite independent
00:46:41Even though
00:46:42That I know
00:46:43I'm craving
00:46:45Connection
00:46:46Like I know
00:46:46I'm craving connection
00:46:47That's
00:46:52That's me getting teary
00:46:57You just realise
00:46:58That it's a
00:46:59Self-protection
00:47:00Preservation
00:47:00Yeah
00:47:02Initially
00:47:02I wanted to
00:47:04Kind of
00:47:04Distant myself
00:47:05And
00:47:07I was like
00:47:08Why do I want to
00:47:08Distant myself
00:47:09From this human
00:47:09That he's such
00:47:10A beautiful human
00:47:11Yeah
00:47:14Why do you think
00:47:16This is coming up here
00:47:17Is it
00:47:18Because things are
00:47:19Getting serious
00:47:20With you and Phil
00:47:21That is the only reason
00:47:23Why it's coming up
00:47:23Because it is getting
00:47:24Serious
00:47:25And that is a
00:47:25Coping mechanism
00:47:26For me to
00:47:28Maybe staying
00:47:29In a protective mode
00:47:30Of not getting hurt
00:47:31If you know
00:47:33People decide to leave
00:47:35Yeah
00:47:36That's I guess
00:47:37My trauma response
00:47:39So
00:47:41Yeah
00:47:41It's a lot more
00:47:42Than just
00:47:43Oh yeah
00:47:44I'm in love
00:47:44You know
00:47:45Thanks for sharing
00:47:46I know
00:47:47I didn't expect
00:47:48To cry to be honest
00:47:49I'm a crier
00:47:52But when it hits
00:47:53It hits
00:47:54It hits
00:47:55You needed it babe
00:47:55We love you
00:47:57We love you
00:48:02So
00:48:02Steven and I
00:48:03Are really good
00:48:05As I shared with you
00:48:06All last night
00:48:06And the intimacy
00:48:08With Steve and I
00:48:09Has increased
00:48:10Which is really
00:48:11Really exciting
00:48:11And even though
00:48:13You know
00:48:13Last night
00:48:13Ended the way
00:48:14That it did
00:48:15It's actually
00:48:15Brought Steve and I
00:48:16A lot closer
00:48:17Even earlier
00:48:18That tends to happen
00:48:19That tends to happen
00:48:20He really had me
00:48:21And like
00:48:21He could see
00:48:22How upset I was
00:48:23And just being able
00:48:25To come
00:48:25And support me
00:48:26And even though
00:48:27I was like
00:48:28Breaking down
00:48:29Like he just
00:48:30He had me
00:48:30And I've just
00:48:31I really appreciated
00:48:33That in a partner
00:48:34And like you know
00:48:35Going to bed
00:48:36And like getting
00:48:36Really worked up
00:48:37He's like sweetie
00:48:38Like he's like
00:48:39He's like holding my hand
00:48:40And he's just like
00:48:40Rach I just need you
00:48:42To breathe
00:48:43Just breathe for me
00:48:44In that moment
00:48:45I feel like
00:48:47Coming here
00:48:48Has really
00:48:49Helped me value
00:48:50Those small moments
00:48:52With Steven
00:48:54She's
00:48:54She's
00:48:55Been hysterical
00:48:56Been
00:48:57The same way
00:48:58All day today
00:48:58And it's like
00:48:59What are you on about
00:49:01Ugh
00:49:04Everything's really
00:49:05Really good
00:49:07So I'm
00:49:07I'm very happy
00:49:08Steven makes me
00:49:09Really really happy
00:49:10We're so mixed
00:49:11And like
00:49:12And silver lining
00:49:13That last night
00:49:14Has brought you guys
00:49:15Closer together
00:49:15That's really lovely
00:49:16That's definitely
00:49:17The silver lining of it
00:49:18While last night
00:49:19Should not have happened
00:49:20At all
00:49:21And
00:49:22It is the silver lining
00:49:23And I do appreciate
00:49:24That I have
00:49:25An amazing husband
00:49:26Who is able
00:49:26To support me
00:49:28Give it a rest
00:49:29Relax man
00:49:31Get a personality
00:49:33She's hard work
00:49:34Rachel's hard work
00:49:36To be friends with
00:49:36Being like
00:49:37Aren't you happy
00:49:38I even mentioned you
00:49:38In my speech
00:49:39Appreciate it
00:49:40Thank you
00:49:41Cheers guys
00:49:41Appreciate it so much
00:49:46I'm going to apologize
00:49:47She's going to go
00:49:47And I'm going to go
00:49:49No worries
00:49:50Hug her out
00:49:51And be done
00:49:52Like I'm
00:49:52Honestly
00:49:53I'm over it
00:49:54Yeah
00:49:55Just I wish
00:49:56I cared more
00:49:56To be honest
00:49:57With you
00:50:03Girls night
00:50:03And boys night
00:50:04Is well underway
00:50:05And the dramatic
00:50:06End to last night's
00:50:08Welcome drinks
00:50:09Is on everyone's mind
00:50:10Steve
00:50:11How did you feel
00:50:12About Bec's comment
00:50:14Yesterday
00:50:14What did it
00:50:15How did I sit with you
00:50:16Yeah so
00:50:18With Bec's comment
00:50:19Last night
00:50:19Everyone saw it
00:50:20Really upset
00:50:22Rachel
00:50:23Yeah
00:50:23Like severely
00:50:25And what made
00:50:26The situation
00:50:27Sort of worse
00:50:28Was not just
00:50:29The comment
00:50:29It's just
00:50:30I think
00:50:30The reaction of
00:50:31Bec
00:50:31Really upset
00:50:33Rachel
00:50:33So do you think
00:50:34She's blown it
00:50:35A bit out of proportion
00:50:38Not to put words
00:50:39In your mouth
00:50:39I'm just genuinely asking
00:50:41Personally
00:50:41Personally
00:50:42I didn't think
00:50:43She'd be
00:50:44That upset
00:50:44To be honest
00:50:45Like I understand
00:50:46I understand
00:50:47The walking out
00:50:48Because it's in the heat
00:50:49Of the moment
00:50:49I really want to get an answer
00:50:50Do you think
00:50:51She'd blow it out of proportion
00:50:52Or not
00:50:52Yes or no
00:50:53I don't think she did
00:50:54Because this means
00:50:55So much
00:50:56To Rachel
00:50:57And speaking to the group
00:50:59And getting the feedback
00:51:01From the girls
00:51:02You guys
00:51:03This progress
00:51:04Means a lot
00:51:06To Rachel
00:51:07I did need to
00:51:08Stress to the boys
00:51:09That Rachel
00:51:11Was really upset
00:51:12By this
00:51:13And this was special
00:51:14For her
00:51:14Doesn't matter
00:51:15What you think
00:51:15About it
00:51:16She's upset
00:51:17By it
00:51:17You've got to
00:51:18Take that on board
00:51:19It's not about
00:51:20You're the spectator
00:51:21This was aimed
00:51:22At her
00:51:23So they need
00:51:23To understand
00:51:24That as well
00:51:25Steve-o
00:51:26Did you find it funny?
00:51:28Be honest
00:51:29Be honest
00:51:31Look
00:51:32I know that
00:51:33Bec didn't have
00:51:34Ill intention
00:51:35She wasn't attacking
00:51:37The relationship
00:51:37I believe it was
00:51:39Just a case
00:51:39Of really poor judgment
00:51:41Poor choice of words
00:51:43Probably looking
00:51:43For a little bit
00:51:44Of a laugh
00:51:45You didn't answer
00:51:45The question
00:51:46Did you personally
00:51:47Find it funny
00:51:48Or how did you
00:51:48Find it?
00:51:51I didn't
00:51:52Look
00:51:52I didn't find
00:51:53Me man
00:51:54I don't find it
00:51:55I don't find it
00:51:56I don't find it
00:51:57Funny
00:51:57Like it's just
00:51:58It's just a
00:51:58You know
00:51:59Poor comment
00:52:00I just wanted to
00:52:01I just wanted to get
00:52:01Your opinion on it
00:52:02Because that's
00:52:03Sort of the
00:52:03Common theme
00:52:04With Rachel
00:52:05That she blows
00:52:05Things out of proportion
00:52:13So Rachel
00:52:14So Rachel
00:52:14I wanted to
00:52:14Obviously address
00:52:15Like I think
00:52:16We should start off
00:52:17With you
00:52:17Tell me how you feel
00:52:18Like towards me
00:52:19About it
00:52:20Talk to me
00:52:49Becky
00:52:51Sorry
00:52:51I've got to be honest
00:52:52I feel like you were
00:52:53Just saying sorry
00:52:53Because I brush it off
00:52:55I left because I was humiliated
00:52:58Right
00:52:58Okay
00:52:58And my relationship
00:53:00Is not a joke
00:53:01No
00:53:02And that's why I was so upset
00:53:05Because I was like
00:53:06That's my friend up there
00:53:08And that's why I left
00:53:09Because I was humiliated
00:53:11I think the thing for me Rach
00:53:13Is that
00:53:15I thought that you would know
00:53:16Like it was not meant to be
00:53:20Mean towards you
00:53:21It was actually just
00:53:22A throw away comment
00:53:24And it was the wrong wording
00:53:26And I apologise to you
00:53:27For the wrong wording
00:53:28That was used
00:53:30I did not think
00:53:31That it would be
00:53:31As big of a deal
00:53:32As it was
00:53:33I never would have said it
00:53:34It is a big deal though
00:53:35I never would have said it
00:53:36It's happening to you back
00:53:37It's happened to me
00:53:38I understand
00:53:38I never would have said it
00:53:40It's a bound to situation
00:53:41And I do apologise
00:53:42It was disrespectful
00:53:43The word finger bang
00:53:44It was disgusting
00:53:45And it wasn't
00:53:46It was a joke
00:53:47You know that I support you
00:53:49And Stephen
00:53:49Do I?
00:53:53You think it's intended
00:53:54With malice
00:53:55And it wasn't
00:53:55I never
00:53:56I have said repeatedly
00:53:57The joke was not intended
00:53:59With malice
00:53:59Never
00:53:59But when I told you
00:54:00You hurt my feelings
00:54:01You turned on me
00:54:03Instantly
00:54:03And wanted to fight
00:54:04Every two seconds
00:54:05You're angry at me
00:54:05The majority of our relationship
00:54:07No that is a lie
00:54:07When are you going to be
00:54:08Accountable for repeated behaviour
00:54:09Thank you
00:54:11It's a pattern now
00:54:12It's like how many times
00:54:13Are you going to do the wrong thing
00:54:13And say sorry
00:54:15Sure
00:54:17I feel bad for Rachel
00:54:18Thank God
00:54:18Us girls are there
00:54:19To listen to her
00:54:21And make her feel validated
00:54:22For her feelings
00:54:23Which are very normal
00:54:25I think Beck needs to face the music
00:54:27You can't do the things you're doing
00:54:28And not take accountability
00:54:30For your actions
00:54:31You can't throw shit
00:54:32That you're throwing
00:54:33And not take the full force
00:54:35Of consequences
00:54:36I just don't think that's fair
00:54:38Let's call bullshit
00:54:39Because if you support the relationship
00:54:41Why are you going around
00:54:42At the pool with Juliet
00:54:43And I saying
00:54:44You want to get merch
00:54:50It was a joke
00:54:51No but you carry the joke
00:54:53On to the next day
00:54:54That was bad
00:54:55That part was really
00:54:56You can't be sorry
00:54:57But then carry it on the next day
00:54:59And like keep going
00:55:00It's one thing to
00:55:01Do the wrong thing last night
00:55:03And apologise
00:55:04But Beck took it
00:55:05On a whole other level
00:55:06By talking about it all day
00:55:07And she tried to cover her ass
00:55:09Saying
00:55:09Oh well you know
00:55:10I take accountability
00:55:11I'm sorry for what I said last night
00:55:13Okay
00:55:13But be sorry for what you said
00:55:15Continuously throughout the day
00:55:16You're not sorry
00:55:17Why did today
00:55:18You kept making jokes
00:55:19About the merch
00:55:20Because it was a joke
00:55:21I didn't understand
00:55:22That that was the level
00:55:23Of her feelings
00:55:24I thought she was upset
00:55:25About one word
00:55:26But you knew that
00:55:27You said this morning
00:55:27Rachel's upset
00:55:28And she needs to get the
00:55:29Over it
00:55:30I'm making finger banging merch
00:55:31And you're going to
00:55:33Wear it bitch
00:55:34You said that
00:55:35But be accountable
00:55:36For the whole thing
00:55:37It was a joke
00:55:38But be accountable
00:55:39For the whole thing
00:55:40Not just
00:55:40I didn't know
00:55:41That you were
00:55:42So upset
00:55:43Guys that's enough
00:55:46I'm hurt
00:55:48I'm the one
00:55:49You're talking about
00:55:50And it's disgusting
00:55:51Stop talking about it
00:55:53I just
00:55:57You humiliated me Bec
00:55:59Yeah
00:55:59And I know
00:56:01You're apologising
00:56:02And I honestly
00:56:03Like I said to you
00:56:04And you don't have to be my friend
00:56:05Let her talk
00:56:06We don't need to have
00:56:07You don't need to worry about it
00:56:09Because you would only worry about it
00:56:10If it was your friend
00:56:11It's fine
00:56:11Like I get it
00:56:12But this has got to stop
00:56:14We can't keep having
00:56:15These apologies
00:56:16Around this kind of stuff
00:56:18Because
00:56:18I apologise to Alyssa
00:56:19And I apologise to Joel
00:56:20Yeah but aren't you sick
00:56:21Of apologising babe?
00:56:24Alyssa
00:56:25I need to apologise to you
00:56:27Because my delivery
00:56:29Of what I said to you
00:56:30Was unacceptable
00:56:30The way I spoke to you
00:56:32Last night
00:56:33I need to take
00:56:34Accountability
00:56:34For how cruel I was
00:56:37Obviously like
00:56:38I came in really angry
00:56:40Last week
00:56:40Yeah
00:56:41I was angry
00:56:42Yeah
00:56:43And I came in here
00:56:45And I dropped bombs
00:56:45On everyone
00:56:46And I do apologise
00:56:48I'm genuinely sorry
00:56:49That your name
00:56:50Has been brought up
00:56:51Because at the end of the day
00:56:53We shouldn't be talking
00:56:54About your relationship anyway
00:56:55Bec
00:56:56This is two weeks in a row
00:56:58Why are you talking
00:56:59About their relationship?
00:57:01Do you know what?
00:57:01You're right
00:57:02I know I'm right
00:57:03But what I don't know
00:57:04Is why you're doing that
00:57:07Thank you for apologising
00:57:09But again
00:57:09My concerns is in
00:57:10Sure
00:57:11The repeat behaviour
00:57:14Bec's always saying sorry
00:57:15I didn't mean it
00:57:16Rachel's trying to address
00:57:18The reoccurring behaviour
00:57:20When is she going to wake up
00:57:21And just
00:57:23Think before she speaks
00:57:25I honestly feel like
00:57:27Honestly last night
00:57:28I was like
00:57:28My number was up
00:57:29It was my turn
00:57:30To be put to tears
00:57:31By Bec
00:57:32Sure
00:57:32And I'm kind of like
00:57:33When does this behaviour change?
00:57:35When do the I'm sorry's
00:57:37Actually become real?
00:57:42I'm out of here
00:57:44I am
00:57:45I don't want to see you
00:57:46You shouldn't have to go
00:57:47Oh it's fine
00:57:47I'm f***ing good
00:57:49Come back
00:57:49Can you come back?
00:57:56You can't go around
00:57:57And consistently talk shit
00:57:58About everybody
00:57:59That you're friends with
00:58:00And they get mad
00:58:01That they have a reaction
00:58:02To what you're doing
00:58:03It's not okay
00:58:04And I think
00:58:05Again tonight
00:58:06Is another example
00:58:07Of Bec's new target
00:58:09Getting pissed off
00:58:10And her not handling it
00:58:12And walking off like a PR move
00:58:13This is what she does
00:58:14There's nothing more to say
00:58:18Get me the f*** out of here now
00:58:19Don't leave Baba
00:58:20Get me out of here
00:58:21Don't leave
00:58:21Now
00:58:28Boring f***
00:58:30F***
00:58:41F***
00:58:41Danny how are you and Bec going?
00:58:43Like honestly
00:58:44It's just gone from strength to strength
00:58:46It's proved
00:58:46You can build sexual chemistry
00:58:48You can work through really hard problems
00:58:51You can talk for hours
00:58:52And solve
00:58:52Solve shit
00:58:53Complex issues
00:58:54We have to
00:58:54It's taught me so much
00:58:55That like
00:58:57Me and Bec are
00:58:58At this moment in time
00:58:59We're in a really good place
00:59:00Daniel
00:59:02Here she is
00:59:03A what?
00:59:04A speaker of the devil
00:59:05Jesus Christ
00:59:06A speaker of the devil
00:59:08A speaker of the devil
00:59:16Out of the horizon
00:59:19And then next thing
00:59:20Ambers start flowing into my face
00:59:22The smoke's in my eyes
00:59:24Bellowing in my eyes
00:59:25We all said Bec into the fire three times
00:59:32What happened Bec?
00:59:33How's the girls
00:59:34I need to grab him for a second please
00:59:35Oh God
00:59:38Clearly there's been some drama
00:59:40At girls night
00:59:40If Bec is rolling up
00:59:42Dragging me out of there
00:59:43How are we?
00:59:45Not good
00:59:50You have no idea
00:59:51What I've just gone through
00:59:53What just happened?
00:59:55What just happened?
00:59:56We just
00:59:56We just lost a man
00:59:58Okay
00:59:59So I'm just going to fill you in quickly
01:00:01Because I've left
01:00:02Girls night
01:00:03Obviously
01:00:04Because it was just like
01:00:06Gang up completely
01:00:08Um
01:00:08Basically
01:00:09I'm just letting you know
01:00:10Rachel got up
01:00:12And she goes
01:00:12Last night
01:00:13Was the most humiliating
01:00:14Night of my life
01:00:16I have been made
01:00:18To be
01:00:19My relationship
01:00:20Is a joke
01:00:22And I've never felt
01:00:24So upset and humiliated
01:00:26In my life
01:00:27She's just sitting there like
01:00:29Hysterical
01:00:30Being like
01:00:30It's you
01:00:31You need to change
01:00:32Your actions
01:00:34Alright
01:00:35I was just like
01:00:35Alright
01:00:36Like whatever
01:00:40It's like
01:00:41The worst thing that's ever happened to anyone
01:00:43Rachel is still upset
01:00:45Grow up
01:00:46It was a passing comment
01:00:48Grow up
01:00:49Move past it
01:00:51And Gia
01:00:53Was
01:00:54Like a dragon
01:00:55Breathing fire
01:00:56Wouldn't look at me
01:00:58And
01:00:59Juliet came at me
01:01:00But like
01:01:01It was no point tonight babe
01:01:03Like
01:01:03They were just
01:01:04It was just all like
01:01:05Me
01:01:06At me
01:01:07And that's fine
01:01:08Like I can handle it
01:01:09Like
01:01:10I'm not upset about it
01:01:11But I just wanted to tell you
01:01:12What happened
01:01:12And
01:01:14Yeah
01:01:15I feel a bit frustrated
01:01:16To be honest
01:01:17With finding out
01:01:18What's going on
01:01:18At girls night
01:01:19Because it seems
01:01:20Like a gang up
01:01:22And ganging up
01:01:23On someone
01:01:24I don't think that's right
01:01:25To be honest
01:01:27I'm pissed off
01:01:28At Steve
01:01:29Oh
01:01:29He's a
01:01:30I've helped a bloke
01:01:32He's a cherry case
01:01:33You don't
01:01:34You don't need to
01:01:35You don't need to
01:01:35Have an argument
01:01:36Let me have it
01:01:37I want to text my wife
01:01:38And get away with it
01:01:39Not without me being there
01:01:40If you're going to attack her
01:01:41We have the big boss there
01:01:43What's all that about
01:01:45Who
01:01:45It's like someone
01:01:46Kicking your little brother
01:01:47He kicks me
01:01:50That shit
01:01:51Pisses me off
01:01:52Like
01:01:54Oh she's foul man
01:01:59Let's do a chat
01:02:00Let's do two on two
01:02:01And let's have it like men
01:02:07Hey fellas
01:02:08Looks like there's a storm
01:02:08Do you want to do it?
01:02:09Let's go
01:02:10Let's go
01:02:11Great
01:02:11Let's go
01:02:12Let's go
01:02:13Get heavier
01:02:14Let's go guys
01:02:15Let's go
01:02:15Let's go boys
01:02:16Let's go
01:02:17Quick
01:02:19Oh
01:02:19Oh
01:02:19Can we have a chat
01:02:21With you
01:02:21Me and Ben
01:02:23Sorry guys
01:02:24Can you all go
01:02:24Because we're going to
01:02:25Have a chat
01:02:25Is that okay
01:02:27I'd love to say
01:02:28I'd love to say
01:02:28I'd love to say
01:02:28I'd love to say
01:02:28I guess we'll go
01:02:28That's okay
01:02:32That's okay
01:02:32Where's
01:02:33Is Rachel
01:02:34Can we get Rachel?
01:02:35But let me just explain to you
01:02:37I think we get Rachel before you explain
01:02:39Okay
01:02:39I think we do
01:02:53That Beck's not here for this
01:02:54Yeah
01:02:55Because I think
01:02:56I think
01:02:56No no no
01:02:57Regardless of what happened
01:02:58At the start of the night
01:02:59It's a shame that she missed this bit
01:03:00And it's really sad
01:03:01That one of us
01:03:02Is not here
01:03:03But she chose to leave
01:03:04No I get that
01:03:05But regardless
01:03:06It would have been nice
01:03:07If she was sitting here
01:03:08Having these moments
01:03:08And she can
01:03:10Another day
01:03:11When things will feel better
01:03:13Hey Rach
01:03:14Well hello
01:03:15We've got Stephen
01:03:16Up at the house
01:03:17And I think
01:03:17The four of us
01:03:18Need to have a chat
01:03:19Oh okay
01:03:20Well
01:03:21Let's go
01:03:22I guess guys
01:03:23I'm leaving girls night early
01:03:25That's not my choice
01:03:26Fantastic
01:03:27You don't have to go Rach
01:03:29If you don't want to
01:03:29No it's fine
01:03:29You guys have pulled me out
01:03:30I'm coming
01:03:32Well I don't think
01:03:33That this is actually
01:03:34Really fair
01:03:34Like anyway
01:03:37Hold on a minute sweetheart
01:03:38We're coming to get you
01:03:40Out of respect
01:03:41Because we don't want to
01:03:42Talk without you being there
01:03:43We want to speak
01:03:44All four of us
01:03:45We don't want to speak
01:03:45Three of us
01:03:46So cut out the comments
01:03:48There's no need
01:03:49For the bullshit comments
01:03:50Just leave the room
01:03:52Like a lady
01:03:53That's fine
01:03:53Thank you all
01:03:54Have a lovely evening
01:03:55It's a resolution
01:03:57No well
01:03:58I just
01:03:58Anyway
01:04:00Where's your head at babe
01:04:01Just come
01:04:02Leave the room
01:04:03Be respectful
01:04:05Love you all
01:04:09Don't know why
01:04:09You've got to make
01:04:10Comments like that
01:04:22The four of us need to have a chat
01:04:24Oh okay
01:04:24Well
01:04:25Let's go
01:04:27I guess guys
01:04:28I'm leaving girls night early
01:04:30That's not my choice
01:04:32Fantastic
01:04:32You don't have to go Rach
01:04:34If you don't want to
01:04:35No it's fine you guys have pulled me out
01:04:35I'm coming
01:04:37Well I don't think that this is actually really fair
01:04:40Like anyway
01:04:41I'm good
01:04:41I'll just
01:04:41No that's fine
01:04:42Thank you all
01:04:43Have a lovely evening
01:04:44It's a resolution
01:04:46No well I just
01:04:47Anyway
01:04:49Love you all
01:04:52Don't know why you've got to make comments like that
01:04:54I can't
01:04:55I can't
01:05:14You don't have to go
01:05:29firstly i want to say rachel the comments you just said in there wasn't called for
01:05:34we brought you here out of respect because we wanted to have a four-way conversation so
01:05:39comments like that i'm being dragged away and all that no no because of us it's respect can i step
01:05:44in can i step in great all i'm saying is we came in there polite and said can we have
01:05:49a conversation
01:05:50you didn't have to make a big melee out of it when you're leaving the group we pulled you out
01:05:54there
01:05:55for respect because we didn't want to have this conversation everyone just attacked me
01:06:02i pulled danny aside tonight and i can hold my own right i understand that i made a comment that
01:06:08was a throwaway comment that as we've all agreed daniel you and rachel and i all agree that the
01:06:16term that i used was
01:06:20not used with malice but the poor choice of words but
01:06:25it wasn't done in malice and i you know that you know that rachel knows that right no worries
01:06:34i think what hurt me tonight the most was that you've let everyone attack me but when it's okay
01:06:42for you because you're being backed up everyone's allowed to do that to me that's not okay you have
01:06:48to practice what you preach honey it just felt aggressive everything's on their terms it's got
01:06:54to happen on their time even though the actions of beck are what have you know caused me to feel
01:07:02this
01:07:02way i'll be honest and this is my opinion i think you've made a mountain out of a molehill because
01:07:08you
01:07:08kicked off in front of everyone you went in front of the whole group in front of the whole did
01:07:13you
01:07:13or did you not say in front of the whole group it's on camera i i didn't kick off though
01:07:17you
01:07:17shouted you you went i didn't i didn't kick off i think okay saying i kicked off is a bit
01:07:21and that's
01:07:22i was upset and i said hey you've just made a joke of my relationship you didn't what was your
01:07:27words what you just said i was like you've just made a joke of my relationship you just said she
01:07:30didn't make a big deal yeah but you did yeah look this means a lot to rachel it means a
01:07:37lot to me for you
01:07:38you know it means it means so much that's why she brought it up that's why she sold everyone
01:07:43that's why she at the very beginning of the party she brought this up then it turned into
01:07:48attacking then rachel removed herself so she wouldn't make a big deal out of it she removed
01:07:54herself from the situation yeah she was incredibly hurt you guys can say and do whatever you want
01:08:01i can have a bunch of girls come at me and i can sit there i'm sorry at the end
01:08:06of the day i'm
01:08:07getting so many different stories to the point where i'm told i'm a joke because of things that
01:08:13you've said who said that jia well there you go okay jia and juliet are lying to you it's a
01:08:20lie
01:08:20you're saying one thing to me and said another thing to them i never would have done that so you've
01:08:26got
01:08:26lies bullshitting you and you're going to take it and then and then i didn't take any of that
01:08:31come on you know she's a liar
01:08:36steve-o do you think that what i said was said with malice because i'm confused
01:08:43i'll answer the question i said this to rachel last night
01:08:47i don't i believe the con the comment was disrespectful bad taste just a poor choice
01:08:53of words and all the above i don't believe there was any malice behind it i don't believe there
01:08:58was malicious content behind it thank you i said that to rachel last night but it doesn't it doesn't
01:09:03excuse the fact that it was still disrespectful and it was still a poor choice of words and all
01:09:08that everything there still stands and i agree with you i spoke to him this afternoon i sat down with
01:09:13him in our lounge room and spoke to me and said you know what beck i really love you and
01:09:17i really
01:09:18love rachel why are you talking to my husband off camera did i know that you two had a conversation
01:09:25this afternoon no because you didn't tell me did you speak to beck this afternoon
01:09:34did you did you guys speak this afternoon and patch all this up we didn't patch it up
01:09:40i just said to her what i thought her comment was was disrespectful and everything exactly
01:09:44everything i said just then i repeated the conversation lasted 60 seconds it doesn't matter
01:09:50i'm actually feeling a little bit betrayed a bit here babe i've got to be i'm gonna stop this
01:09:55conversation right now i do feel let down by steven tonight i feel really let down just like you
01:10:01needed to leave girls night i now need to leave this i feel quite hurt and disappointed you know we
01:10:09keep talking how we're united we've got each other's back you didn't have my back babe you didn't
01:10:17and so now i'm kind of like what else are you saying about me behind my back
01:10:32tomorrow night no one's spoken to me at all today beck and danny isolated from the group a comment
01:10:39has been taken out of proportion so much wherever that goes misery follows and gia and juliette
01:10:48seize the opportunity to further stir up the tension i do not know why she does this i don't think
01:10:54i
01:10:54could ever ever ever trust her again i respect the victim can a romantic beach date help calm stella's
01:11:03anxiety has i love you been sad i really would appreciate if everyone just drop it do you think
01:11:10that i did this to hurt you and then at the final night drinks you're not understanding mic drop see
01:11:16you later tell me you don't accept my apology or accept it and move on lingering group tension you
01:11:23two have both done wrong by me and my wife how sends the retreat into turmoil let's go bring it
01:11:29on i'm so
01:11:30sick of this you're the puppeteer i'm done being manipulated no one knows who you are stop manipulating me
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