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00:04Previously on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, I get something, whatever you want me to get on me.
00:08Let's surprise each other.
00:10Hey, Michelle, put Lily on the phone real quick.
00:11I want to show her something.
00:13Showing tattoos to Michelle is disrespectful.
00:17Why the is Bambi coming to the studio?
00:19She said she had something to talk to me about, about the kids.
00:22My ex-husband, he'll just, you know, talk about would I ever consider getting back together.
00:26The fact that you're not saying hell no, no, is like...
00:30You're going through something, you're going to a show.
00:32I'm very aware of the reality of what could possibly happen.
00:36I'm not putting no negative thoughts on it, no negative nothing on it.
00:40Man, who's that handsome guy right there?
00:42That pretty girl.
00:44I'm not saying I want to be back in a relationship with you.
00:47I just want to be your friend.
00:49I want to be clear on what that means.
00:51I woke up this morning and you was in the bed with me.
00:53Never in your bed.
00:55You're going to wake up in my bed this morning?
00:56No, I don't know what you're talking about.
00:59I want to fight for my marriage, but we both are not doing the right thing.
01:03Wait, Sierra, what is this?
01:04Who said that?
01:06Some anonymous bitch.
01:07Who said that?
01:18It's a night out of control
01:20It's a night out of control
01:22It's a night out of control
01:25It made my way to the top and it ain't no stopping
01:33I'm not fighting on my own
01:37I hate watching you go
01:43Hey, my girl
01:45How are you doing?
01:46I'm back
01:47Again
01:49Unfortunately, but fortunately
01:51So today is a bittersweet day because I am officially divorcing Zay
01:56Let me just make something very clear
01:58Zay was the one who wanted the divorce
02:00I wanted my marriage
02:02But one thing I'm not gonna do is fight for someone or something
02:06Who don't want to fight with you
02:08It's not even been a year yet, have you thought about that?
02:11Um
02:11Yeah
02:14I'm just saying I'm not trying to change your mind
02:17I don't think that he was genuinely ready for this
02:21That's what I was trying to tell you
02:23Every time you get a boyfriend, get married
02:25You was like, stay out of my marriage
02:27Even though my mama had all the to say about Zay, I made this decision on me
02:59I'm not embarrassed
03:02I went through last year
03:03With the miscarriages, I refuse to let you break me down
03:08But you know, I gave it a try
03:10I'm not upset
03:11So do you think you should talk to Zay first?
03:14No, I feel like when he gets served
03:16Then that's when he'll just, he'll find out
03:19Cause remember the last one
03:20It was only after he was served that he wanted to communicate
03:23Eric Whitehair, right?
03:24Nah, who's asking?
03:25Who's asking?
03:27What's this?
03:28Talk to you later
03:28What the is this?
03:30What's this?
03:30See, you playing
03:33See, I don't like that
03:34No
03:35I'll see you in court
03:36Stop running from your problems
03:39I'm tired of you
03:40Like getting married over and over
03:42I understand when my mom's saying she's tired of me getting married
03:45You know what, baby?
03:47Being married, I'm not that great at it
03:49But I'm really great at, you know, getting a divorce
03:52Y'all don't think I deserve a coupon?
03:55Give me one, Gavin
03:56Thank you
03:58So since I got one, two, three divorces
04:02I deserve a mother freebie
04:05At the end of the day, this is just the beginning
04:07This is not our first rodeo
04:09Uh-uh
04:10This is my first rodeo
04:19I woke up in the morning like this
04:22I woke up in the morning type it, ooh
04:27I woke up in the morning like this
04:31How you doing? Can I get a table for two?
04:33Absolutely
04:34After my disastrous tattoo date
04:37I decided to do a little whining and dining
04:39And just get our mind and our hearts in the right place
04:42Going here because I wanted to make things better
04:46Apologize about the other day at the tattoo shop
04:50I'm apologizing for taking a moment that was supposed to be special to us
04:55And letting my baby mama ruin it, you know?
04:59Your baby mama didn't ruin it
05:01I think that you are just so comfortable
05:04Like just sharing everything with her
05:07And you don't know how to set boundaries
05:08That's what upset me
05:10I'm sorry
05:10And I promise you that never happen again
05:13Okay?
05:14Remember we're moving in this new house
05:16We already said no arguing
05:18I don't want to go into the new house with bad energy either
05:21So as long as we can keep it co-parenting
05:25And just about the parenting
05:26And I think then
05:27It won't happen
05:29As much as I appreciate Zane taking me out to dinner
05:31And I accept your apology
05:33Deep down
05:34I feel like you really just don't get it
05:37You've cheated on me with her before
05:40They don't have any boundaries
05:41And I feel like Michelle still wants to be with him
05:44Well look I have something more important to talk to you about anyway
05:47What?
05:48So my mom called me
05:50Cause you know Mike has to have a transplant
05:52And basically she wants everybody to go get tested
05:54To see who's a match
05:56And honestly
05:59I don't do right with doctors
06:01I love my brother to death
06:02But I feel like right now I just got a lot going on
06:05If this is something that you decide you're not going to do
06:07You know you might change your mind later
06:09I don't know
06:09You know I think that you should pray about it
06:11And let God guide you in this situation
06:14I don't want my brother to think that I don't love him
06:17I don't want anything to happen to him like
06:19It's just a lot man
06:21I don't know what to do
06:22No
06:22You know what I mean?
06:23So
06:24But I gotta be honest
06:25I've been so stressed out
06:26You know what I'm saying?
06:27I decided to invite Mendeecy's out for boys night
06:30What?
06:31For real?
06:31I think I'd rather you hang with Jock than Mendeecy's
06:33But I actually invited Scrappy too
06:35I don't know if I
06:36I mean
06:36No
06:38It's weird right?
06:39That's awkward
06:41It's crazy
06:41I know Zane's going through a lot
06:43But going out with Scrappy and Mendeecy's
06:46The two men that have the most relationship issues
06:50Is not sitting well with me
06:51Well anyways
06:52Let's cheers to you setting boundaries
06:55To setting boundaries into new beginnings
06:58No arguing
07:02Coming up on Love & Hip Hop 11
07:04Let me ask you something
07:05Is it real
07:06To go for
07:08What don't works with you
07:10Or go backwards
07:11What works with you
07:12So you wanna get back to
07:13With Bambi?
07:15When you gonna mend things with Ciara?
07:17You should definitely talk to her
07:19You did all that to embarrass me
07:20You did all that because you thought you was exposing this man
07:22And I was gonna be laid out on the floor crying
07:23At your grand opening?
07:25And you telling me I need to talk to her?
07:27Goodbye
07:28Yo, he actually has six attorneys now
07:31It took six attorneys?
07:32Jesus Christ
07:33Well, when you have a death penalty charge
07:35A what?
07:36You lying
07:40My way to the top
07:41And ain't no stopping
07:42My way to the top
07:47And ain't no stopping
07:49She getting to the bed
07:51Yeah, I like that
07:51She don't be the bitch
07:52Yeah, yeah, I like that
07:53She don't be the bitch
07:54Yeah, I like that
07:55Yeah, yeah
07:57I like that
07:57Yeah, I like that
07:59You ain't like that
08:00Yeah, yeah
08:03S, S
08:04Give me all of that
08:05Come on
08:07Yes, this is your time.
08:08It came from Sonia.
08:10Yeah, she snatched on like, bro.
08:12So I'm diving up the road like macho.
08:15I like that right now.
08:17Hey, man, let's get it.
08:18Let's get it. Oh, really? Yeah, we like that.
08:20A little spicy. That was good.
08:23Yeah, I'm turning your partner.
08:24You know what I mean? My first
08:26production, like, what?
08:28And it's a good song. Like, I believe
08:30in this song. I feel like it's a real
08:32hit record. I respect that.
08:34By the way, how was Jamaica? There's
08:36a lot of people in Jamaica that's homeless right now
08:39because of Hurricane Melissa.
08:40So I have a foundation called Grace Hamilton
08:42Foundation, and I've just been,
08:44you know, doing the best I can to build back
08:46houses, because I feel like that's more important.
08:48Because, you know, we can give them food and all of that,
08:50but they don't have nowhere to sleep.
08:52It's sad to see my country go through
08:54this Category 5 Hurricane Melissa.
08:56Where's your house?
08:59I'm gonna give you
09:00one truckload that can build back
09:02this house. You're gonna build back
09:04stronger. It was just devastating,
09:06and I just went down there immediately
09:07just to give people the opportunity
09:10of hope to build back
09:12their homes. I have to do what I can do
09:14to help my people. But, enough
09:16of me. What's going on in the palace?
09:18Everything's going on in the palace. You know what I'm saying?
09:20Mama D, the queen, is
09:22on rest. She just had surgery
09:24on her hip. You know, I got Brittany,
09:26my girl. Of course I know Brittany.
09:28How's she been? Well, let me explain
09:30what's going on. I went to this
09:32fashion show that Sierra
09:34and Zay had, and
09:36I walked in, and I seen
09:39Erica,
09:40the money mama,
09:42with Britt's ex-boyfriend,
09:45Bocce.
09:46Erica and Bocce have nothing going on.
09:48They're trying to get back at you or something?
09:49I don't know. I ain't had no relation with her in a minute,
09:52so I don't care. I just care about my baby.
09:54Does Brittany still talk to Bocce?
09:56So that's what I'm saying.
09:58I have some distrust. Like,
10:00she even told me she was still talking to Ellen.
10:02I don't know. Should I talk to her again and
10:04anything? I mean, what do I do?
10:06Do you want her to be your wife?
10:08Do you see a future with her?
10:09Because that's what's gonna tell you your answer.
10:12But let me ask you something.
10:14Is it real to go
10:16for what don't works with you
10:18or go backwards what works with you?
10:21So you want to get back with Bambi?
10:24I'm just asking you a question. I didn't say that.
10:26Did I say that? Why are you asking? Why are you talking?
10:28That's crazy.
10:29What I really think, like, really spinning the block,
10:32you know what I'm talking about, with the Bambster, you dig?
10:33I mean, especially after Brittany
10:35threw the little water on me.
10:36Man, they're trying to slide.
10:38And Spikes don't even really need to know that,
10:40you know what I'm saying?
10:40Cuz, I mean, Spikes got enough to hold over my head.
10:43You feel me?
10:45Hey, before I forget, she done holler at Rennie lately?
10:48Oh, I never seen nothing. What happened to her?
10:50Dude just got hit with the Rico.
10:52What?
10:52Yeah, he with the PTT.
10:57What?
10:58Man.
10:58I gotta call her.
11:00Yeah, nah, he's up right now.
11:03Why you been ever telling me?
11:04That's what you should be talking about.
11:05You telling me about Bambi and all that .
11:07Rennie's my friend.
11:08That's the first thing you should have told me.
11:10I gotta go.
11:11Come on, Liz.
11:12We gotta get this club seat out the way.
11:30Do I just lay down?
11:32Anywhere, thank you.
11:34like this is healing right uh-huh these are sound bowls that are tuned to the
11:39frequencies do y'all play trap music because i'm like no we need we need like healing healing
11:49everybody knows that me and my mom and sisters has had a very strange relationship but when
11:54me deciding to divorce day i really want to make peace with everybody that i'm not in great ties
12:01with and you know i'm just hoping that this healing spiritual bath would heal us from all of these
12:07toxic traits because we got a lot of them welcome thank you for making the time for yourselves tonight
12:15we're going to walk you through a guided meditation tonight go ahead and lay down get comfortable
12:31we are healing we are doing the work we are breaking the generational curses so that mean
12:38we're gonna get along now
12:43is that mama snoring my mama snoring my sisters keep laughing that ghetto is here that was so
12:52relaxing i am a psychic intuitive i play for the group's needs so the bowl that i was drawn to
12:58the
12:58most is the throat chakra so i recommend speak up more did one come up with speaking less because
13:06my mama she speak a lot so i'm gonna let you guys have a minute to talk i'm trying to
13:14figure out what
13:14i'm wrong about at the end of the day we all just need to be a family yeah for real
13:18please and it's
13:19gonna take time tonight was our first time all being in the same room in one year i miss my
13:26girls
13:27y'all miss you but i miss y'all sierra yes i didn't get a chance to tell the girls
13:33where
13:33well we went the other day and maybe maybe you want to probably tell them about it so i decided
13:39to
13:41divorce zay my god what amen we all don't like him every time you get married you separate yourself
13:49every time you get a relationship you give us your ass to kiss
13:53yeah i do why do you feel that way it's just been too many times when i get married or
13:59i get in a
13:59relationship y'all just be so damn messy but i just want to say i'm i apologize about for that
14:07i'm very happy that sierra is apologizing because she really turns her back on us like every time she
14:16get a guy friend and i just hope that sierra is like not doing this only because she's getting rid
14:22of zay i was in a bad spot in my life i was falling out with people i cuss yendi
14:29out i cussed this girl
14:30selma out i really have been working on myself as just being a better person and just taking
14:37accountability so you see the problem i see the problem i see the problem and i wanted to fix it
14:43and not only with y'all but the people around me as well so so it's giving christmas together
14:48yeah okay or maybe new year's christmas a little too close
14:53coming up on let me hear poppy lana can i ask you something is that too about yendi like
14:59does she have a relationship with somebody else that's the main hard question oh
15:05they think they want something and then they realize like this is safe like but it's not safe over
15:12here yeah well now it's not not if i feel like you're playing with my heart all i know is
15:16the
15:17stuff that i did text you like i be thinking that for real so since we've been divorced you're telling
15:23me that you have not had a real connection with anyone else you the last real connection i had
15:52to some kind of high energy day in situations like everything i do with this girl has had
15:57something to do with dancing i gotta get ready and make sure my knees is intact you got mega knees
16:02i gotta make a mouth
16:08hey hey how we feeling y'all good y'all not sweating it up for me though
16:18take five y'all take five
16:22oh girl let's see the attorney yeah okay carly i just wanted to let you know the charges have been
16:29dismissed thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you steve i'll call you
16:38right back
16:42are you serious yeah that was a happy dance
16:46wait a minute hey hey go carly a go carly
16:54i am now free it is dismissed leave my ass alone this is some i told y'all was bull
17:01shout out to my attorney
17:04any burglary charge or anything the lies that was told against me it didn't even make it to court
17:10because you didn't deserve that nah you didn't deserve that at all i didn't deserve a lying
17:15ass cheating ass i'm gonna leave i'm vindicated like like and it is dismissed dismissed b-i-x-m-i
17:23-x-f-d-c
17:25speaking of jail and dismissed and charges and all of this stuff i actually just visited
17:30rennie in south carolina because i seen in the blogs that her child's father he got arrested
17:38oh my god what did he get arrested for it it's a it's a wrap it's a long i know
17:44she is devastating
17:45rennie when she going through she going to hold like she don't hear from her nothing and i was just
17:50like let me go and check on this girl she seemed like she wanted to put a facade over her
17:58face like
17:59everything's fine everything's fine that's how we do oh lord i can't believe you're keeping it
18:05together with everything going on with that i'm glad you came she has a baby by him and everything
18:10remember when you were there for mendeces a hard life oh i hate hearing this about rennie to get
18:17the call that the feds are coming for someone you love you almost have to grieve the death of a
18:24relationship because you never know if they're ever going to come home again and then if they come
18:27home will they come home the same we all need to just like get together i might try to meet
18:32with
18:33her when she come to atlanta soon for sure anyway when you gonna mend things with sierra you should
18:37definitely talk to her i should talk to her y'all should talk to each other i should it's been
18:42some
18:43time that's passed you don't feel like you don't feel like she had enough calm down you don't feel
18:46like she said enough and you standing in the middle of a club yelling at me about living in my
18:52truth
18:52you did a lot to embarrass me you did a lot because you thought you was exposing this man i
18:55was gonna be
18:56laid out on the floor crying at your grand opening and you telling me i need to talk to her
19:00goodbye but guess what dismissed oh yeah dismissed this man everybody dismissing my best man
19:10that's right that's right that's how mad it pull up and try to guess it baby come with me
19:19get out of town we'll figure it out just you and me
19:24oh hi what's all this what's happening hi mama hot mama what okay i got you i got the book
19:31bags
19:31and some groceries the babies the whole nine this evening we're gonna do a little more than co-parenting
19:37man i brought some grocery rides you know i'm talking about now i ain't gonna lie to y'all that
19:41last little situation with brit definitely brought me to the fact that damn i do miss the bam
19:47so you you brought groceries over here for me to cook for us to cook you know i get down
19:53a little
19:53bit we're cooking dinner yeah okay thank you your little mama fit is it yeah so scrappy showed up
20:02with groceries and he wants us to make dinner together i'm just like is this anywhere in this
20:08new co-parenting handbook that you done created and i might just put him to work while he here
20:14i got a little situation down here my garbage disposal it ain't disposing you didn't call a
20:22plumber or nothing why call a plumber when you got a baby daddy i'm a baby daddy now i've been
20:29a baby
20:29mama number two to be exact you're not a baby daddy that's right thank you that's right that's right
20:37baby that's right you grew up i grew up can you get a pot so we can start boiling the
20:44noodles
20:45so out of all the people you got in your life this is what you came back to nowhere else
20:52you and
20:53your kids go get some food nope at one of them other people house nope because you had a conversation
20:59with britney it wouldn't have been i got water threw on me a big argument you want to see some
21:05water
21:05you can see some water
21:09so what actually happened when you and britney talked she told me i was something oh did you text
21:15bam uh that you want your family back and stuff like that and i was like i don't know i
21:20was probably
21:21drunk i don't know i maybe did so you said you didn't know when all you had to do was
21:26look in your
21:27phone she tried to look at my phone but the thing is with that ain't nobody going to her phone
21:32to see
21:32what hun shawty talking about hun so are you still you're still in a relationship practically i don't
21:37know what i'm in right now for real for real like what is this what's this hit it and spin
21:43it okay you
21:44just need to spin it you don't need to be hitting nothing we know how you do what hit it
21:50and spin it
21:51and spin the block yeah hit it and spin it spin your block we ain't spinning no blocks over here
21:58okay pull up on you pull up on you oh my gosh all i know is the stuff that i
22:05did text you like
22:06i be thinking that for real let me tell you something yeah tell me please enlighten me it ain't been
22:11a real
22:11connection with me and britney you know what i'm saying it's been like who hasn't been a real
22:15connection with you with you the last real connection i have you know since we've been
22:23divorced you're telling me that you have not had a real connection with anyone else it's been
22:28connection but not real if i were to spin the block with scrappy i have a imaginary palace list
22:34that he would have to do you have to be out of a relationship for at least one year no
22:39girls in a
22:40hotel room even if y'all just playing parcheesi draw up some papers and let the palace know
22:46that he's gonna be making his own decisions okay i'm confused it's like you were just in a full-on
22:52relationship and then now all of a sudden it's not really shipping anymore you know never say never
23:01but i would really like to keep things as cool as possible because i like this space hey you heard
23:09it
23:09right here ladies and gentlemen she said never say never that's not a no one thing i love about
23:17scrap is when he's in dad mode he is an amazing dad showing our kids that we're getting along together
23:23we're coexisting i truly love this for all of us all right tell your children to come eat you want
23:30some fruit or something until your tacos get done see this is all i ever wanted feel me
23:42you know coming up on loving your popular i'm gonna be honest with you when i saw the live
23:49i was shocked like damn did she know what it's like to be in this position how are you dealing
23:56with
23:56all of this i'm just praying my oldest son was the same age when his dad went away history is
24:03repeating
24:03itself
24:03i'm
24:05i'm
24:10i'm
24:12i'm
24:15i'm
24:18i'm
24:19i'm
24:19i'm
24:34i'm
24:35i'm
24:47i'm
24:49i'm
24:50i'm
24:50No liquor tonight.
24:50No liquor tonight?
24:52Hey, yo son, for real, B?
24:54You gotta clean your head.
24:55No matter how much I drink,
24:56my problems ain't gonna go away.
24:58What problems you got?
24:59Girl, you good, you single.
25:01Being single and breaking up with a family
25:03is never a celebration.
25:05It's never, it's never, it's never.
25:06So then how did the car maze go?
25:08Not good.
25:09I told Yandy that I wanted to take it back
25:12to where we was friends.
25:14Once your friendship gone, it's gone.
25:15But she took it as I'm trying to friendzone her.
25:18Can I answer something?
25:18No disrespect, is that cool about Yandy?
25:22Like, did she have a relationship with somebody else?
25:25That's the main question.
25:27Oh.
25:28See, you can't give us that 24 hours, man.
25:31Like, I'm sick of it, I'm sick of it, I'm sick of it.
25:33It's like we're always gonna be together no matter what.
25:36No, that's 24 hours, you're taking the 24 hours.
25:39I told you my .
25:39I don't want you to tell me everything,
25:41but I just wanna ask you how you feel.
25:44If she's saying she cheated emotionally, right?
25:49What kind of emotion is it?
25:51But cheating emotionally is worse than cheating physically.
25:55So whatever it was, it wasn't none of that.
25:58I know who she emotionally cheated with.
26:01I know him very well.
26:02So for Yandy to forget that we both dating other people,
26:05I don't know what she's waiting for,
26:07a grand proposal, for confetti to come out.
26:09That is crazy.
26:10And speaking of family, though, you know what I'm saying?
26:13Like, I talked to Bam the other day,
26:14and I told Bam that I wanted my family back.
26:20Does that mean, like, you wanna be with her?
26:23That's not what I'm saying.
26:24What I'm saying is I want all the baby mamas
26:27to be around me, I want them to be with me,
26:29like, together, because that's a family.
26:31She want all four of them under the same roof at one time?
26:35Yes.
26:35You sure you ready for that?
26:37No.
26:38Well, at the same time, Mendeezy did it.
26:40I did it.
26:41Are you telling me that Mendeezy's is saying
26:44that Samantha, Erica, and Yandy lived under the same roof?
26:47Hey, we seen a reunion.
26:48I don't believe that happened.
26:50What about you, Ashley, and Michelle?
26:52Ha!
26:53Me, Ashley, and Michelle living under one roof would be insane.
26:57You know, I think Scrappy and Mendeezy are tripping.
27:00I don't know what they on.
27:01How did it work?
27:02How did it turn out for you?
27:04It wasn't.
27:06It wasn't.
27:07I was like, oh, my God.
27:10We're moving into the tunes, going up and down the bones.
27:12She doing it for the goons, ha-ha.
27:14I'm cool, bassoon, what I'm bassoon,
27:15a flu and everybody moving, I'm trying to get a bit with the-
27:18Hey!
27:19What's up, Ashley?
27:21Hey!
27:21Oh, wow.
27:22Hey, girls!
27:22It's a party.
27:24What's up?
27:25Hi, y'all.
27:25How y'all doin'?
27:27What's going on?
27:28How y'all doing?
27:29Good morning.
27:29How are you?
27:30Nice to meet you.
27:31Going good.
27:32Hey!
27:33Yeah!
27:33Oh, right outside.
27:35Outside.
27:35We're outside outside.
27:37You got me outside.
27:38I do.
27:39I got you outside.
27:39This is cute.
27:40It is cute.
27:41Cheers.
27:43Girls made an hour.
27:44Hey.
27:46So I'm stepping out tonight with my newly single friend, Yandy, for a girls' night.
27:52Despite everything that's happening right now, I'm just glad to see that Yandy is pulling
27:56herself together.
27:57She's outside.
27:58She's glowing.
27:59That natural hair is popping.
28:01And you know, she's just going to do what Yandy do.
28:03And that's just keep it moving, keep it pushing.
28:06And figure it out.
28:07Hi.
28:08Hi, Tarnia.
28:09Okay, party.
28:11I'll do not be outside at all.
28:13I know.
28:14That's like...
28:14That little one drop down got my knees hurting.
28:16You got to get out some more.
28:18It's been a long time.
28:20I've been single momming.
28:22How has that been going?
28:23Anyway, like...
28:25Is it doing still the same?
28:27I mean, before the corn maze, everything was great.
28:29Yeah.
28:30Since the corn maze, I just had a goal to hear me.
28:32You know, to be honest, I'm just so disgusted.
28:35Like, that whole friendship gesture, the denying the fact that you woke up right next to me,
28:41it just made him really look like a creep and a liar to me.
28:44And those are two things I never, ever, ever looked at him as.
28:48They think they want something, and then they realize, like, this is safe, this is comfortable.
28:54But it's not safe over here.
28:55Yeah, well, now it's not.
28:56Not because you're playing with my heart.
28:58Right.
28:58So what's going on with you?
29:00Girl, everything.
29:02Everything?
29:03So Scruffy comes to my house.
29:04And the other night, he invites himself in, bringing over groceries and wanting us to cook together.
29:10It was kind of like, I don't remember how we got on the topic.
29:14But he told me that I'm the only person he's had a connection with.
29:18Oh, wow.
29:19Yeah.
29:20I don't want to give him, like, full of hopes.
29:23Yeah.
29:24But, um, I also talked to Ciara.
29:29Okay.
29:32I invited Ciara to come here.
29:34Why did you do that?
29:36I'm setting up this meeting between Yandy and Ciara because after seeing Ciara the other night of dinner, I've had
29:41enough of this petty bull .
29:43That same call she wanted from Rashida?
29:46I feel like she could have gave me that same call.
29:48I think that it would be great for you guys to talk and for you to understand her perspective a
29:55little bit more.
29:56I agree.
29:56In order for me to make this happen, I've had to be a little sneaky about it because I just
30:01don't think that if I told Yandy, she would agree to it.
30:04Hi.
30:04Hey, girl.
30:06How are you?
30:07Hey, Yandy.
30:08How are you?
30:09How are you?
30:10How are you doing?
30:11I'm actually doing great.
30:13Good.
30:17Coming up on Love & Hip Hop Atlanta.
30:20I've never been through this process and it being so serious.
30:25Because I'm, no, I'm not crying.
30:27I'm not, I told you I was not doing it.
30:30I'm way to the top and it ain't no stopping.
30:35I'm way to the top and it ain't no stopping.
30:45Hi.
30:46Hey, girl.
30:47How are you?
30:48Hey, Yandy.
30:50How are you?
30:50How are you doing?
30:53I'm actually doing great.
30:54Good.
31:00So, you know, I had a conversation with my sister and my mom, so my next person who I want
31:07to apologize to is Yandy.
31:09And I actually went to dinner with Bambi and she was just telling me, you know, Yandy is already going
31:15through a lot right now.
31:17And I never want to be a person to kick a woman while they're down.
31:21Just thinking about what happened at night instead of just talking like an upgrown adult and just communicating the right
31:31way.
31:31And so I want to say that I apologize for the way I came at you.
31:37Like, the way I came home, I want to apologize.
31:40Whatever happened at the club, I had nothing to do with that.
31:42I'm going to be honest with you.
31:44When I saw the live, I was shocked because I was like, why she ain't calling me and telling me
31:47this?
31:48But I can't.
31:49At 2, 3 in the morning, who's picking up the phone?
31:52Had I saw it, I would have most certainly intercepted that before the live went out there.
31:57Yeah.
31:57Because that was hurtful.
31:58I didn't say anything about you.
32:00It's saying things about Little Mendeecy's dad.
32:03It's saying things about Amir's dad, Skylar's dad.
32:06And that is what hurt me.
32:08It's not about him.
32:08You understand how it is to already be scrutinized by people.
32:12I think the biggest takeaway is, like, us learning how to, like, control our impulses when like that happened.
32:19Because I do understand, like, you being in a heightened, like, state or whatever.
32:25They was even mad.
32:26But, yeah, when you take it to the live, to the internet, that's when it's, like, beyond, like, repair.
32:31And I'm not going to lie, that live is so lame.
32:34It paid that lame.
32:36And I felt horrible the next day.
32:38But all I know is that I wanted to be the bigger person to apologize, to say, you know what,
32:44that, that, that, that, I, I didn't approach that situation the right way.
32:46I just want to forget that is, I'm always done.
32:50We, we apologize.
32:51You accepted my apology.
32:54Oh.
32:54There you go.
32:55You accepted your apology.
32:57You crazy.
32:58Oh, my gosh.
33:00It takes too much out of me to have beef with a person.
33:03So, I am going to kind of put this behind me, but I'm very clear on where Ciara and I
33:09stand, and I will never forget this situation, ever.
33:13What's going on with your situation?
33:15I decided to file for divorce.
33:18Oh, my gosh.
33:19For real?
33:20Come out.
33:22No Fs, ands about it.
33:24No.
33:24That's done.
33:25No.
33:25A long story, but.
33:27I don't want to waste my years on this world, and somebody that's not sure of what they want to
33:34do.
33:35You know what I'm saying, because I was sure what I wanted.
33:37I'm like, when you ready, call me.
33:40Who knows?
33:41So, y'all don't live together no more?
33:42We don't, uh-uh, hell no.
33:44Baby, my ex-posit, he had a big, beautiful walking closet.
33:47Oh, my goodness.
33:48And y'all should come over.
33:51Oh, my goodness.
33:52You owe me a meal.
33:53You owe me, like, a back massage.
33:55Girl, no, a back massage.
33:57You owe me a few.
33:57We ain't gonna have a massage.
33:59Well, then you gotta pay for it.
34:12So glad Rennie's coming, because I've been very worried about her.
34:16I decided to invite Carly and Rennie over to my content house, because I really want to check in on
34:21Rennie.
34:22Obviously, I just know what I've seen in the blogs.
34:24They're saying that Zach got arrested on some RECO charge.
34:27I can't imagine what Rennie's going through.
34:33Let me get Odori.
34:34I must be Rennie.
34:37Hi, Rennie.
34:39Hey.
34:41I'm so glad you came.
34:43I bought your favorite food.
34:47Hi, Boki.
34:48I'm mad at you.
34:49I'm mad at you.
34:50I'm mad at you.
34:51I'm mad at you.
34:51I'm mad at you.
34:51I'm mad at you.
34:52If Spice's not mad at me, you should not be mad at you.
34:54Exactly.
34:55I ain't talked to Spice at all.
34:57I'm here.
34:58Oh, so you did see my message.
34:59You see how it's not easy.
35:01But I saw it days later, because I've really been having my phone like only my kids in
35:06the jail can get through, just because it's a little overwhelming.
35:10It's okay.
35:11I just had it.
35:12Okay, I want to eat those.
35:13Okay.
35:14I'm really horrible at communicating when I'm going through things, so I'm very appreciative
35:19to have two people like Spice and Carly to call friends, because they actually make sure
35:24I'm okay.
35:25How's the kids?
35:27They're good.
35:28My son started working.
35:29And the baby, most importantly, that baby.
35:31He's big and running the house and walking everywhere and getting into everything.
35:36Oh, he know how to twist the lamps on and off now.
35:39He locked me out the bathroom.
35:42Not locked me out the bathroom.
35:43Is he doing better, even though Zach is fine?
35:45Um, so he has like his little routine.
35:47So I show him video for his daddy every morning, so he like can still like see him and be
35:51familiar
35:51with that.
35:52And he'll kiss the phone, and his daddy got his little hats around, so he put his daddy
35:55hat on, say, da, da, da, walk around the house.
35:57But he do for him, I guess, what makes him comfortable.
36:01Is he going to the door like, da, da, da, da?
36:04Well, he does go down to like, say this, we have a downstairs area, and that will be the
36:08door to it.
36:08So he will walk under there, and they used to play and put their fingers up under the doors each
36:12other.
36:12So he still do that looking for his finger, but, you know, this is just looks for everybody.
36:18So what's happening since I left South Carolina?
36:21Right now, it's just the lawyers going back and forth right now about certain things.
36:25So you guys did pick a lawyer?
36:27Yo, he actually has six attorneys now.
36:29It took six attorneys?
36:30Jesus Christ.
36:31Well, he had three of his own, but when you have a death penalty charge.
36:36A what?
36:39Mm-hmm.
36:41Wait a minute.
36:42That's allowed?
36:44Mm-hmm.
36:44They just had an execution, I want to say, a week ago.
36:46You lying!
37:02It took six attorneys?
37:03Jesus Christ.
37:05Well, when you have a death penalty charge.
37:07A what?
37:10Oh, my God.
37:11Remy.
37:13They just had an execution there.
37:16He does have a charge that carries the death penalty.
37:19I believe it was the racketeer in charge is the murder for hire racketeer in charge.
37:24I first found out that some of Zach's charges could carry the death penalty the day he got
37:28arrested.
37:29It kind of has set up public opinion to already condemn or assume to be guilty.
37:35How are you dealing with all of this?
37:38I'm just praying, and I'm still speechless.
37:42I don't even know what to say.
37:43So how are the kids managing with school and everything?
37:46It's just crazy because I didn't think this would be such big news to everybody, and it
37:52was really mind-blowing because the kids' principal to their school even called to, like, make sure
37:58they were okay, like, see if they needed some time away, because it was literally just everywhere.
38:05There's a racketeer in charge, murder for hire, attempted murder.
38:11It's so many of them.
38:13Honestly, they read the indictment over the news and posted it, and I've never seen that done
38:19before, but, you know.
38:21And it's just crazy because my oldest son was the same age when his dad went away.
38:26Really?
38:28That he's literally the same age that Junior is now.
38:32Wow.
38:33History is repeating itself.
38:35At least you're able to, like, go throughout your day, you know?
38:39Well, this is really my first time going through this.
38:42This is my first time with something as severe as this, but I did get engaged to somebody while
38:48they was doing a federal time.
38:49But I've never been through this process and it being so serious.
38:54And we have a child together.
38:56That's just what makes it a little different at heart.
39:00So I'm used to attention and I'm used to the blogs, clearly.
39:05But when it comes to something so serious, it's kind of hard to deal with because it not
39:11only just affects me, it affects Zach, it affects my children, it affects his children, not just
39:15Junior.
39:16Zach has three other children.
39:18And that is why it's really important to me to just stay positive.
39:21It's life and none of us know what's going to happen.
39:24You got back to the music.
39:26You promised me.
39:27Oh, listen, it's so funny because the first time we talked on the phone, he looked like,
39:30I want to hear some music by the end of the week.
39:31You've got to get back into the studio, though.
39:33You've got to.
39:34No, I am.
39:35I am.
39:35I think even with what's happening, it's always good to put the beat on and just write.
39:41This might be the first time, like, I just don't know what to say.
39:44Yeah.
39:44Like, for what do you want me to rap about?
39:47I mean, well, you want my help.
39:47For real.
39:48You know, I can always help you.
39:49I can always guide you.
39:51I can always...
39:51I probably need it right now.
39:53Well, I'm here for you, so how can we help?
39:55When stuff like this is...
39:57Like, then I get in front of people and it's like, I don't want to...
40:02Why?
40:03You don't want to what?
40:04I just rather deal with it myself.
40:07Oh, you don't have to.
40:09You don't have to, friend.
40:11You don't have to.
40:11Let me hug you.
40:13Because I'm...
40:14No, I'm not crying.
40:15I'm not...
40:15I told you I was not doing it.
40:18You don't have to be strong.
40:19It's okay.
40:20It's okay.
40:21You do have to be strong.
40:23But it's okay to cry.
40:24It's okay to let it out.
40:26I'm tired of crying.
40:27Crying don't get no better outcome.
40:37Next time on Love and Hip Hop and Lancer.
40:40So how have things been?
40:41You is what we're worried about.
40:43How's your eating habits?
40:44Are you okay?
40:45You can't do it.
40:46I'm kidding.
40:46No, but I'm...
40:47I mean, you're not pregnant, are you?
40:50My brother's about to go in the hospital.
40:52My mom wants me to go get Tessie.
40:54To see if my brother and I are a match to donate a kitten to him.
40:57I ain't even gonna lie to you, bro.
40:59Like, I'm gonna terrify the doctor.
41:01That's your brother, though.
41:02But what if you're a match?
41:03You're not willing to...
41:06This whole management situation with my husband, I want to fire him.
41:09Do you think that he does not want to see you bigger than him?
41:13That's always a thought in the back of my head.
41:15I don't know.
41:15She ain't making me no money.
41:17Whoa.
41:17Don't act like I'm just a broke-ass bitch and I ain't making no money.
41:22When I walked in that club, you was already on 10.
41:25I never, in my whole 35 years of living, seen a arguing and name-calling a woman.
41:32First time for everything.
41:34Yeah, best bitch.
42:20I never, in my whole 35 years of living, seen a woman.
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