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💑 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017) - Season 8 Episode 16
The journey nears its climax. In Episode [X], [brief hook: see episode-specific hooks below]. As visa deadlines approach and emotions run high, couples must decide: is this love strong enough to cross oceans, or will distance tear them apart?
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• [E16 Hook: "A heartbreaking conversation forces [couple] to confront their future"]
• [E18 Hook: "With time running out, one couple makes a life-changing decision"]
• Relationship milestones: visa interviews, family meetings, commitment talks
• Cultural tensions: traditions clash, expectations collide, compromises tested
• Emotional confessions: tears, truths, and the courage to choose love—or walk away
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality Dating / International Romance / Documentary-Style Series
• Original Network: TLC / Discovery+ / Max (International)
• Series Launch: 2017 | Season: 8 | Episodes: 16 & 18
• Focus: Couples Before K-1 Visa Journey – Long-Distance Love Stories
• Setting: Global – USA, Colombia, Philippines, Russia, Middle East & more
• Language: English (Original Audio + Subtitles for foreign segments)
• Runtime: ~90 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
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#90DayFiance #BeforeThe90Days #B490D #RealityDating #TLC #S8E[X] #LongDistanceLove #InternationalRomance #BingeWatch #90DayFamily #VisaJourney #LoveWithoutBorders
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The journey nears its climax. In Episode [X], [brief hook: see episode-specific hooks below]. As visa deadlines approach and emotions run high, couples must decide: is this love strong enough to cross oceans, or will distance tear them apart?
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• [E16 Hook: "A heartbreaking conversation forces [couple] to confront their future"]
• [E18 Hook: "With time running out, one couple makes a life-changing decision"]
• Relationship milestones: visa interviews, family meetings, commitment talks
• Cultural tensions: traditions clash, expectations collide, compromises tested
• Emotional confessions: tears, truths, and the courage to choose love—or walk away
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality Dating / International Romance / Documentary-Style Series
• Original Network: TLC / Discovery+ / Max (International)
• Series Launch: 2017 | Season: 8 | Episodes: 16 & 18
• Focus: Couples Before K-1 Visa Journey – Long-Distance Love Stories
• Setting: Global – USA, Colombia, Philippines, Russia, Middle East & more
• Language: English (Original Audio + Subtitles for foreign segments)
• Runtime: ~90 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
🎧 Prefer audio? Listen to 90 Day Fiancé recaps & reality TV podcasts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
👉 Enjoying the series? Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and comment: "Which couple's story hit you hardest? 👇💑" Turn on notifications 🔔 so you never miss the next update!
#90DayFiance #BeforeThe90Days #B490D #RealityDating #TLC #S8E[X] #LongDistanceLove #InternationalRomance #BingeWatch #90DayFamily #VisaJourney #LoveWithoutBorders
⚠️ Copyright Disclaimer: This video is shared for promotional, review, and informational purposes only. All rights to "90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days" belong to TLC, Discovery Communications, and Sharp Entertainment. This upload complies with Fair Use guidelines (Section 107, U.S. Copyright Act). No copyright infringement intended.
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:09I'm a pregnancy Caribbean.
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro, we had plenty of sex
00:00:16without a condom the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:26The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa
00:00:30is $26,500 USD.
00:00:34And, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for you to stay here, got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09Where is the honesty of up to 20-something years
00:01:12with your fellow woman?
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18Is there a way we can solve this?
00:01:24Maybe I'll go and seek advice from the elders and chief priests.
00:01:30Tell me, sir.
00:01:34You got that final warning at work, and Nat's helping you out.
00:01:39These question marks make me feel like it's super unstable.
00:01:42I'm just sick of the peppering and peppering, peppering.
00:01:44You're flogging the same hole.
00:01:45It's like...
00:01:45Because when I get a warning like that, when you send me...
00:01:48It happened, but now I still have a job.
00:01:51Okay, but it makes me worried that you could be using me.
00:01:55If you think that, then I would not expect anything less than you wanting to go.
00:01:59So, please, please, let me know.
00:02:09Are you kidding me?
00:02:11He said he has a fiancé.
00:02:16How dare he dump me and leave me alone in the desert, Mohammed standing me up.
00:02:21Like, I'm just so over it.
00:02:23F*** this ring and f*** everything that it represented.
00:02:27I will find love somewhere else.
00:02:30Oh!
00:02:30F*** this ring, baby.
00:02:45I've died
00:02:45Alright, it's nosso cujo todo!
00:02:55I'm sorry my love, I'm just feeling Kangri arms grew bear.
00:03:01When I'm hangry, I'm moody.
00:03:03I see that.
00:03:04You want some nuts?
00:03:07I feel like I'm a chipmunk.
00:03:12Yep, I'm a chipmunk, Shane.
00:03:21I just want to stay here like this.
00:03:26Yesterday, Shane and I met up with an immigration attorney,
00:03:29and we learned some disappointing news.
00:03:31Turns out, I don't make the necessary income
00:03:33to bring Sheena over on a K-1 visa,
00:03:36and that could take years to build up.
00:03:39So the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here
00:03:43so I can get my Filipino visa instead.
00:03:48But I'm not sure I'm ready to just pick up
00:03:50and move to another country.
00:03:55Sheena, we have some real big decisions.
00:03:58We have to make.
00:03:59But I'm looking forward to tonight,
00:04:02and I really just want to put that down for tomorrow.
00:04:06I understand my love.
00:04:09I can't write to, you know, visit the beaches.
00:04:12At least no one's going to disturb us.
00:04:17I'm bringing forth the Batangas,
00:04:19the province along the south area.
00:04:21It's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches.
00:04:25Since talking to the immigration lawyer,
00:04:28it causes a lot of emotional stress.
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing
00:04:33and that it will give me the opportunity
00:04:36to get him to really consider living here with me.
00:04:43Also looking outside here.
00:04:45Mm-hmm.
00:04:46Nice and peaceful here.
00:04:46One thing I don't like about the beaches.
00:04:49Jailfish.
00:04:51Well, let's hope that we don't get started by jellyfish.
00:04:53But turns out I didn't bring the jelly.
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight.
00:05:00Oh, that would be great.
00:05:05I'm going to have to ask you
00:05:07if mom approves about this.
00:05:11Mom's going to be there watching
00:05:13and cheering the entire time.
00:05:15You're creeping me now.
00:05:18All right.
00:05:19I think this is it.
00:05:20Nice.
00:05:21It's a very tight fit.
00:05:24Oh, that's tight fit?
00:05:26Oh, my gosh.
00:05:29Sheena and I talked about it
00:05:31and now not having anybody
00:05:34to kind of hold us back,
00:05:36I think now is the perfect time
00:05:38to kind of let our sexual tensions go.
00:05:41Lead away, honey.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:45Oh, look.
00:05:46There's a hammock, honey.
00:05:47Wow.
00:05:48This is such a beautiful place.
00:05:50Oh.
00:05:51Oh, wow.
00:05:55Did you prepare this, honey?
00:05:57This is so sweet.
00:05:58I did.
00:05:59To be honest,
00:06:01I am quite nervous
00:06:02to lose my virginity
00:06:04and I'm quite excited as well.
00:06:06I was like,
00:06:07oh, that's so, wow.
00:06:09Hey, baby.
00:06:11Boom.
00:06:13I'm quite happy
00:06:14because I wanted to give this
00:06:16to the person
00:06:17that who had loved me
00:06:19for the longest years.
00:06:21and I think
00:06:22Forrest
00:06:24deserved that kind of love
00:06:25more than anyone else.
00:06:28Oh, wait.
00:06:29You know what?
00:06:30I had to freshen myself
00:06:31on and get some
00:06:32sexy lingerie.
00:06:35Mm, okay.
00:06:37It's C-Turl.
00:06:39I don't know what you are.
00:06:41I don't know what you are.
00:06:41No.
00:06:42When I was younger,
00:06:44I always thought,
00:06:45you know,
00:06:45my first time
00:06:46would be great
00:06:46and extravagant
00:06:47and amazing.
00:06:48And I got older
00:06:50and it wasn't happening.
00:06:52I did worry
00:06:53that that's just
00:06:54one of those
00:06:55life experiences
00:06:56that other people
00:06:56just get to have,
00:06:58but not me.
00:06:59So, going into this
00:07:02love nest
00:07:03that I have made
00:07:04for Sheena and I,
00:07:05I am extremely nervous
00:07:07on what to do
00:07:09or how to do things,
00:07:11but I have no doubts
00:07:12that I'm doing it
00:07:13with the right person.
00:07:22I can't stop
00:07:24the feeling
00:07:25I've got to
00:07:27You're looking so
00:07:28sexy.
00:07:29You love my rest.
00:07:30What do you think
00:07:30about me?
00:07:31Oh, yeah,
00:07:31you look so handsome.
00:07:32I got it all ready
00:07:33for you.
00:07:34You're so making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally
00:07:41getting to be
00:07:42with the woman
00:07:43of my dreams,
00:07:44the vixen
00:07:45of the internet.
00:07:48And I'm glad
00:07:49that I'm getting
00:07:49to give you
00:07:50my virginity.
00:07:52And I wouldn't
00:07:53want to give it
00:07:53to anybody else
00:07:54but you.
00:07:55You're going to have
00:07:55to help me get this
00:07:56on, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:57Oh, my God.
00:08:00Oh, there it is.
00:08:00Oh, what?
00:08:02It's not amazing.
00:08:03You're ready to go,
00:08:04honey?
00:08:04Ready.
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:08Well, wait.
00:08:13You're going to have
00:08:13to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:19Oh.
00:08:23Oh.
00:08:24The sweetest,
00:08:25sweetest,
00:08:25home variier?
00:08:26Yes, ma'am.
00:08:28Oh, yes, ma'am.
00:08:47I wish I was a princess.
00:08:48You're so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:57I kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:01I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So yeah, it's scary.
00:09:17You look handsome.
00:09:30Is this where we're going?
00:09:33This is a big market.
00:09:41OK, we'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders.
00:09:48And he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat, two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:09And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy.
00:10:17But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:24This is what I put in this suit.
00:10:28So that's how they prepare.
00:10:31Be careful.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:37This is my case.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This place is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:44The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now they don't do that anymore.
00:10:48So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:57But what are the yams for?
00:10:58The two yams, it's what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen it before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:19This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24All right, Tom.
00:11:25I think this is the biggest.
00:11:26This one we need.
00:11:27How much is this here?
00:11:28How much is this here?
00:11:29Five, five.
00:11:30Five, five hundred?
00:11:32For one or?
00:11:33One.
00:11:33One.
00:11:34Ah.
00:11:35This is expensive.
00:11:37But, baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40We're giving 10,000.
00:11:42This tree.
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43OK.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:4510,000.
00:11:4610,000?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:57He spent $10,000 on two yams, and I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel's a good negotiator.
00:12:04Look, look, look, look.
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This one's female.
00:12:16This one's female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:25What?
00:12:27$200,000 for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30I don't know.
00:12:32A lot less than that.
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying $200,000 for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:40No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not $200,000, no.
00:12:44$100,000.
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God, we are not paying $100,000.
00:12:48We are paying $70,000, please.
00:12:53Oh, my God, we just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:07Are you sure this is the right way?
00:13:09Oh, God.
00:13:11What the smells, honey?
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed, and that will be the end of everything.
00:13:23I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35Just be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:43Oh, my God, baby.
00:13:48He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Leave your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:13Damn bitch, I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29All right, should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant, but if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:42Oh, my God.
00:14:43I love it.
00:14:45Yeah.
00:14:47Yeah.
00:14:56Yeah.
00:15:06There we go.
00:15:07I love it.
00:15:12to me, and after talking to my parents,
00:15:15I am just so confused.
00:15:18My parents think that I'm judging Josh too harshly,
00:15:21and like, I don't know, I am the queen at self-sabotaging,
00:15:25but I'm just trying to protect myself and my family,
00:15:27and it sucks because my heart wants one thing,
00:15:30my mind's telling me another right now, and it's scary.
00:15:46You all right?
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:49Are you?
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:53I'm gonna get out of the apartment.
00:15:56Okay.
00:15:58Cool.
00:16:01I'm still feeling hurt by Lise.
00:16:03I'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping.
00:16:07I know I've fallen for her, but I don't want to be in a relationship
00:16:10where I have to explain myself 400 times.
00:16:12If she thinks that I'm using that, then I could use her,
00:16:15and that's not the case, and I would never want to use someone.
00:16:20It feels like she's attacking my integrity.
00:16:26So, like...
00:16:29Plus, I sucked.
00:16:31And I know you've got these worries, right?
00:16:33But, like, I don't want you to think that, you know,
00:16:36I would use you, you know, or I'd be like your past relationships.
00:16:40I'd take advantage of you.
00:16:42Like, that's what angered me.
00:16:44You know?
00:16:45Because it's the last thing I want to do.
00:16:47Okay.
00:16:48I just...
00:16:49I really like it.
00:16:51You know, I feel when you sort of say, you know,
00:16:54that I'm dependent on other people, and I might be dependent on you.
00:16:58You know, and that, you know, she gave me a place to live.
00:17:00That's...
00:17:03That's weird.
00:17:03It's not weird.
00:17:04It's weird.
00:17:06You know, you've said it.
00:17:07You've made your point.
00:17:09I have nothing to hide with her.
00:17:11Have you...
00:17:11Let me ask you a question.
00:17:12Have you given me a reason for me to trust you?
00:17:15No.
00:17:15Do you not trust me?
00:17:17Not right now, no.
00:17:19I want to.
00:17:20I do.
00:17:20But let me earn that trust then.
00:17:22By showing you that, you know, I can look up for myself.
00:17:24I can depend for myself.
00:17:25I can be a partner for you without having to lean on, you know, friends or, you know...
00:17:30Please.
00:17:31I'm telling you right now.
00:17:32Please.
00:17:34If you can't let me prove it to you, then you just don't trust me and that's not going to
00:17:37work.
00:17:44Okay.
00:17:48I am sorry.
00:17:49I do sometimes poke and prod.
00:17:52Yep.
00:17:52That's just a character defect.
00:17:54I just don't want this to be words.
00:17:57Like, words are great to me and that's made me settle in my entire life with every relationship.
00:18:03I fell for words.
00:18:04And, like, I don't want to fall back into that.
00:18:06Like, I've been engaged 30 times.
00:18:07Like, I'm 32.
00:18:08I want to get married and I want to have kids.
00:18:10And it scares me because I do like you.
00:18:15And I didn't expect to like you so much so soon.
00:18:19It's good to hear.
00:18:20Because I didn't plan on, like, falling for you as hard as I've fallen for you so quickly.
00:18:26I don't want you to feel like you've, um, you know, you've settled and I've, I've roped you in.
00:18:31I've made you fall in love.
00:18:32And then I'm some, you know, I'm a, I'm useless.
00:18:35You know, I wouldn't let you feel like you've made the wrong decision.
00:18:39I won't.
00:18:43Like, I'm, I'm crazy about you, to be honest.
00:18:48I'm glad that Elise is having a little more faith in me.
00:18:52The relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic, taped down mentality that I
00:18:57can see that she's doing.
00:18:59I'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because I do see a future with Elise.
00:19:04So, I think we get that out of the way and then we can just get stronger and stronger.
00:19:11Well, you know what?
00:19:13Isn't it really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off?
00:19:16I'm hoping it gets a bit windier.
00:19:17I'll go wherever you are, follow you this far.
00:19:24I'll go wherever you are, follow you this far.
00:19:42Moment of truth.
00:19:44Moment of truth.
00:19:47Okay.
00:19:48How you feeling, babe?
00:19:51I'm freaking out.
00:19:53I am too, actually.
00:20:02Alright, should we get it over with?
00:20:04I'm gonna go in there alone.
00:20:07Why?
00:20:08Because I just want to do it on my own.
00:20:11How long does it take?
00:20:13I don't know, it's in Spanish.
00:20:14Oh my.
00:20:18It just feels so surreal thinking about how far Stig and I have come over the past few weeks.
00:20:23Come on, let me get a little good look at this.
00:20:27A few days ago, I was convinced we were breaking up.
00:20:30Now I'm taking a pregnancy test.
00:20:32So much has happened.
00:20:34But I'm leaving in less than two days and I have a lot of mixed emotions.
00:20:38I would love to find out that I'm pregnant and get this incredible news, but leaving Stig is gonna be
00:20:46really difficult.
00:20:48After this, I might be no drinking, no partying, none of that.
00:20:52For you too?
00:20:54No, no, no, no.
00:20:55Hmm.
00:20:56If it's positive, I gotta celebrate later on.
00:20:59Hey, whatever.
00:21:02I would be excited about all this.
00:21:04We would make beautiful kids.
00:21:06They would.
00:21:07And I would love to have a son, and by the grace of God, he wants to sing.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:13I'm not saying he has to be an artist because that's what I did.
00:21:16No, I agree.
00:21:16Nothing like that.
00:21:18I'm scared.
00:21:21All right.
00:21:22We'll do your thing.
00:21:23Okay.
00:21:25I just like boys because I know they're, like, mama's boys and they...
00:21:30They're gonna be daddy's boys.
00:21:31What are you talking about?
00:21:32No, no.
00:21:33The girls always favor the dad.
00:21:34That's what I heard.
00:21:35The boys always favor the mom.
00:21:36That's what I heard.
00:21:36I've seen it.
00:21:37Not to sound bad, but I don't want the sins of my past to fall on me, so I'm scared
00:21:41to have a daughter.
00:21:42I don't want to have to kill anybody.
00:21:45Whatever.
00:21:46Gives me baby fever.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:55Let's see.
00:21:57I really want to know now before I leave.
00:21:59I don't want to find out when I'm back in Arizona without him, because that would suck for him and
00:22:04me.
00:22:10Even though we only had unprotected sex for, I don't know, four to five days, I still just feel like
00:22:18I might be pregnant.
00:22:20I just have that feeling.
00:22:25Babe.
00:22:27How's it going? Are you done?
00:22:29Not yet.
00:22:31Be patient.
00:22:34Here goes nothing.
00:22:36The moment in truth.
00:22:41I'm talking.
00:22:45I'm talking.
00:23:04I'm talking.
00:23:07I'd be a little relief.
00:23:10Babe.
00:23:11Oh, my God.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:19Una y cinco minutos.
00:23:22So you gotta wait one to five minutes.
00:23:24Right now, I don't think we're ready.
00:23:27So, it's a little scary.
00:23:30If there's one line, it's negative.
00:23:32Two, it's positive.
00:23:35Well.
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:23:47I think this has shown me I just want something different.
00:23:50I'll just be a few minutes.
00:23:53Before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:24:21Oh, thank you.
00:24:22Sorry, I have a lot of stuff.
00:24:26Thank you so much.
00:24:28Thank you so much.
00:24:44Yesterday was another emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up by Muhammad.
00:24:51I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore.
00:24:55And I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:25:07And I think the best thing to do in this moment is to just get back home as soon as
00:25:12possible.
00:25:13So, I am flying back to the US today.
00:25:20Last night, when I got back to my hotel, I received a text from Muhammad.
00:25:27And he said, are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco for someone else.
00:25:32Not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan all along.
00:25:38To bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here for someone else and he was really mad about it.
00:25:47So, he just had me running around Morocco and jumping through hoops for him like I always used to do
00:25:53in the past.
00:25:54And I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Muhammad.
00:26:01But at least now, I don't have to wonder about any more what ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:26:34Hi.
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace after both of these failed relationships.
00:26:43So, when I changed my flight, I decided to let Ziad know.
00:26:48And he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay, how are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04This day, you're going to travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:10So, I wish you a good word.
00:27:14And that's all what I have to say, so.
00:27:17You don't want to say sorry for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:21To me, we should say sorry.
00:27:23I mean, I think we both have things to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:28What do you want to find out?
00:27:28Yes.
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened.
00:27:35I came here because I loved you.
00:27:37And because I wanted to be with you.
00:27:40Did you ever love me?
00:27:44Before you come here, I was in love with you, really, yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here, we see each other in the reality how we are.
00:27:50Everything about us, it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:58It's fine.
00:28:01Yeah.
00:28:04Okay, well, thanks for everything.
00:28:07Thanks for you, too.
00:28:09So, yeah.
00:28:11That's all.
00:28:14Okay.
00:28:19Bye.
00:28:21Goodbye.
00:28:23I tried to ride on love again
00:28:25But it took me down a dead end street
00:28:29I thought I struck the gold mine
00:28:31I can't turn back the clock rewind
00:28:35Because it's too late, you know it's too late
00:28:39Shame about the land we left behind
00:28:41Cause we were so great
00:28:43And we were so great
00:28:45Talking to him didn't make me feel better
00:28:47It's almost like it doesn't matter to him
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more
00:28:53Too late
00:28:56This has definitely been a learning experience
00:28:59I think this has shown me and taught me what I don't want
00:29:02In a relationship
00:29:09Thank you so much
00:29:15Thank you
00:29:16Thank you
00:29:17Thank you very much.
00:29:20Hello.
00:29:23I want to go home and focus on becoming the best version of me
00:29:31How many bags?
00:29:32Three.
00:29:33A lot of makeup.
00:29:34Thank you so much.
00:29:36Thank you so much.
00:29:39Thank you so much.
00:29:40But, I'm not giving up on my search for love
00:29:42I'm a hopeless romantic
00:29:44I love love
00:29:46And no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me
00:29:50That's never gonna stop me because I know true love is real
00:29:54And I know somewhere in the world my person does exist
00:29:59Who's happy to be with me
00:30:01Who's happy to be with me
00:30:03And I know that I'm gonna find it
00:30:05I know I'm gonna find it
00:30:07And, um
00:30:10I'm not gonna stop until I do find it because I know it's out there
00:30:17And this isn't the end of my journey
00:30:20And you never know
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow
00:30:25Or on the plane
00:30:30Morocco has been real
00:30:31A lot of ups and downs
00:30:33But, I'm ready to go home
00:30:36I'm ready
00:30:38So, goodbye Morocco
00:30:45This is the water
00:30:47Yeah, yeah, let's do this
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here to fit in
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59You remember you called me boozy? I'm not boozy
00:31:02I think I gotta take that back
00:31:06My wife-to-be had an affair with half a little woman
00:31:13Woman, is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes
00:31:19This is totally sacrilege
00:31:22Listen, it's over
00:31:24Where is she going?
00:31:26Go, go, go
00:31:28You're in Malaya, Africa
00:31:31Whoa, whoa, whoa
00:31:33Soma, Africa
00:31:48I love the door
00:31:50I love the door
00:31:50I love the door
00:31:52Yeah
00:31:54That, yes, that's it
00:31:56I can do some squats with this
00:31:58Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:32:09Oh
00:32:09It's up one more time, OK
00:32:13All right
00:32:16It's my second day with Trisha's family.
00:32:19And I've been trying to make myself useful today,
00:32:23helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:29All right, let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often do you do this?
00:32:35Every day, or?
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:36Macaron Sanani, every day.
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:39Yeah.
00:32:40You cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:42Yeah.
00:32:42So you got to get the water for laundry,
00:32:46for cooking, everything.
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here to fit in,
00:32:51to do some of the chores that they do.
00:32:55Here's my shoulder.
00:32:56Oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:32:59What up, Mura?
00:33:02Slut.
00:33:02Man.
00:33:03Hey, babe.
00:33:06Check out your man, baby.
00:33:10You good?
00:33:11This is not easy.
00:33:12Put it in there.
00:33:12Bring the water here.
00:33:14Ah.
00:33:14OK.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chetik.
00:33:19Show her.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:26Yeah, this is not my soap here.
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29You have to.
00:33:33It's going to take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:39I have never washed my clothes to the machine.
00:33:43Hey, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51Yeah.
00:33:52I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you call me boozy.
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Man, I think I got to take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this .
00:34:05Man.
00:34:08So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:12Oh, yeah.
00:34:14But we didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies or I don't know.
00:34:22Nah, I thought it was best just to leave that subject
00:34:26alone for now.
00:34:29He's not going to leave the subject alone.
00:34:32He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:46He wants that you should decide it before you go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad would do if I don't come up
00:34:57with an answer about it in the next couple of days?
00:35:02I don't know, Rick.
00:35:05But it's not just my dad.
00:35:08To me, having a baby means a lot.
00:35:13I want the mother-child relationship
00:35:16that I didn't get to have.
00:35:17You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:30When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have child together and the girl decided
00:35:52to marry it with another man, she cannot touch the baby.
00:35:59She cannot see the baby unless her husband buy animals and she has to cut the throat.
00:36:10The blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:24So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy and she didn't care.
00:36:34She left me with her.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:45I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54like how how she could not love a baby it's cute though she left i was just one years old
00:37:05and i know you're precious
00:37:06you had a daddy that loves you more than that's why i want i want to make them happy
00:37:18they want grandchild i think that trish is trying to fill a void and i want her to heal and
00:37:28have the
00:37:29life that she's envisioning she deserves to be a mom and i don't ever want to take that away from
00:37:35her
00:37:36but at the same time i'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child
00:37:44my worst fear is to lose trish and it hurts me to think that i might have to let her
00:37:52go
00:38:04hi you look sexy driving that boat today josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats
00:38:12but he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joyride and crashed it
00:38:16i have so many questions this whole boat thing is just super confusing to me squared away so
00:38:22you can be at ease and put it to rest joshua it was twenty thousand dollars worth of damage
00:38:27how did you pay for that
00:38:46chris yes i think i have to poop could you leave just pretend i'm not even here no you have
00:38:52to leave
00:38:52i haven't gotten seven days you look like a serial killer
00:39:17i feel so much better i could finish shaving i sprayed don't worry it doesn't smell
00:39:24uh yeah i like chris i do he's a great roommate really fun and he's like a brother that's hot
00:39:34whatever
00:39:36but i'm not dating chris i'm dating josh and things have been a little rocky with josh and i the
00:39:43past
00:39:43few days hopefully this red light mask did wonders i need to get cute to go on this boat
00:39:50we had an intense conversation at the beach the other day but ever since then things are starting
00:39:55to move in a better direction and today josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats
00:40:01you'll have a fun day out there it'll be awesome it's a it's a fun job well i know it's
00:40:05fun a little
00:40:06too much fun please focus on the positives let's have a positive day period i like that i'll give you
00:40:13a report card tonight okay i get along well with elise i like elise but she's definitely looking for
00:40:18problems since she's been here i've seen them go up and down very quick and very fast almost like a
00:40:23perfect little toxic relationship so uh short term i think it's gonna be fine but uh long term i don't
00:40:30know i don't know
00:40:42thank you have a good day
00:40:52hi does do you guys know if josh is here he's not here right now no but he works here
00:40:58right yeah he
00:40:59does yeah okay yeah that's it that's actually his desk this one yeah should i sit at his desk yeah
00:41:04go
00:41:04for it go for it that's his desk that is where the magic happens hi i'm joshua
00:41:11you just go down here turn right straight down to the right
00:41:25hey you look sexy driving that boat
00:41:37i know elise has been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes i
00:41:41made
00:41:42of course the main part of my job is selling boats but i wanted to see with her own eyes
00:41:46that i've
00:41:47still got a job and you know she's got nothing to worry about are you ready i'm ready baby
00:41:54it's so pretty around here wow yeah it's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man
00:42:02so when i walked in looking for you today i went into your office and i met someone and i
00:42:08sat at your
00:42:08desk did you yeah did you get some work done no not at all it was fun to show off
00:42:16a little bit i do
00:42:18like being out on the water any chance i get that was my first impression of you when i saw
00:42:22you on
00:42:22social media she's on the front of a boat looking fabulous i think it was on the back actually you're
00:42:29on the front okay he would know both better than me yes can i see outside yeah i got some
00:42:37champagne
00:42:37smart boy this was like an ideal day for me i'm glad
00:42:46well i'm happy you took me on the boat did you ask your boss or i did yeah and he
00:42:52gave you permission
00:42:53yeah before i got to australia josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from work
00:43:00because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends and crashed it
00:43:08he has to pay back the damages he owes twenty thousand dollars so yeah i'm happy he still has a
00:43:13job but i feel like what he did was a hundred percent irresponsible i have so many questions and i
00:43:19still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet listen it's like i'm not here to make you feel
00:43:25any worse but this whole boat thing is just super confusing to me so what happened that night
00:43:39nat and a few other and not another few friends they have friends who were going to become clients of
00:43:46and those clients who i'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come to me
00:43:52when
00:43:53they want to buy a boat so i took them out on one of our company boats and on our
00:43:59way back here so i
00:44:01got a bit too shallow and flipped through rock then i was bricks but you know it could have been
00:44:08way
00:44:08worse it got fixed straight away joshua you told me it was twenty thousand dollars worth of damage
00:44:19well look when i first when i first did the damage i thought that it was you know going to
00:44:24be a little
00:44:25bit more damaged because i didn't know exactly i couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened
00:44:29but no it was like it was a couple of grand thank god you know and is that paid off
00:44:34yeah it is paid off
00:44:36how did you pay for that well before you got here i sold a boat i sold a share in
00:44:41a boat so
00:44:42that commission did not go to me the money that you sold you didn't get that money it went to
00:44:46that
00:44:46damages so that squared away so you can be at ease and put it to rest i'm still working i'm
00:44:54still got
00:44:54a job i'm responsible i can i'm trusted and i got worried about it but all in all you know
00:45:01i have my
00:45:02together yeah okay well i understand that and i'm really happy i came on the boat
00:45:12but i guess the only thing that's like really on my mind and like
00:45:17putting a damper on this is the knot situation okay why can i drop the nothing
00:45:24i didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night and like this emotional connection you
00:45:29would have with her the financial hold she has on you i don't want to have to keep
00:45:3410 times having to tell you something and you're not believing it you're not letting things go no i'm
00:45:39letting it go i just didn't it doesn't seem like you are i'm i'm trying to get down to the
00:45:44bottom of
00:45:44this okay let's go and see how let's us three hang out so it's just us three and you know
00:45:49hopefully i can
00:45:50put your mind at ease we'll do it tonight okay of course she was on the boat did she pay
00:46:00for the
00:46:00damages should have been my first question i mean josh clearly still has a job but he depends on that
00:46:07financially i'm just still really confused so i'm really glad that i'm gonna see not tonight
00:46:12so i can get some answers and just finally put this to rest
00:46:30i swear to god i am about to be cursed i am scared this is no priest i have ever
00:46:37seen in my life
00:46:37it will come after you so i gotta wait one to five minutes
00:47:07so two lines is pregnant one line is not
00:47:19all right all right there we go
00:47:23it's a pretty strong dark one line not two
00:47:32two means pregnant two means pregnant you think it's gonna just stay negative i think so
00:47:43i actually feel really disappointed stick and i have had so much fun the past few weeks we've gotten
00:47:49closer i've gotten to see a side of him i didn't know before and i was really excited to think
00:47:55about
00:47:55having our baby and starting a little family i'm really sad i'm really bummed
00:48:02don't worry i feel more let down than i expected i don't know i thought it would be
00:48:09a perfect end to the our trip i don't know if we could you know i just don't know when
00:48:15i'm gonna see
00:48:15you next oh why are you saying that like you're acting like well we're gonna break up when you
00:48:20leave or something that would just i feel like make things happen quicker like i would have motivation
00:48:26to hurry up move instead of go home and don't stress yourself out don't think about it so deep
00:48:37it's really hitting me that i'm going home and i just have no idea what to expect
00:48:42without a baby it's hard to know how serious he is about our future
00:48:50i'm worried that after i leave belize he's not going to be around me anymore and stig is going to
00:48:57go just right back into his old partying ways i just feel a little unsure about what the future holds
00:49:04and it's giving me a lot of anxiety
00:49:42this is so not what i expected this is a small tiny cubby hole it is hot
00:49:49the priest is yelling and screaming at me and i don't know what he's saying
00:49:56i know this is supposed to cleanse me for my lies but i swear to god i am about to
00:50:02be cursed
00:50:02i am scared this is no priest i have ever seen in my life
00:50:09tell me why they are here
00:50:23you
00:50:41You know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, I have
00:50:43seen it.
00:50:46Somehow he knows when he throws these shells and they land in a certain way, I'm there for a cleansing.
00:50:52this is craziness
00:50:56who is this man
00:50:58he's to be my husband
00:50:59why are you here
00:51:02I love Christ
00:51:03my wife to be
00:51:05I'm affair with her fellow woman
00:51:12woman
00:51:14yes sir
00:51:15is it true what your husband said
00:51:19yes
00:51:22there's more though
00:51:23I also lied
00:51:25to everybody
00:51:26I wasn't married twice like I had told
00:51:29Daniel I was married five times
00:51:31and we're waiting on
00:51:33the divorce of the fifth one
00:51:37this is totally sacrilege
00:51:42in Africa
00:51:44any woman
00:51:45that committed a
00:51:46accommodation there is something we call sacrilege
00:51:49it requires I clean them up
00:51:52by the ghost
00:51:53directing us
00:51:54we are just the mouthpiece to the ghost
00:51:58and if they mess up
00:51:59the cleansing
00:52:00the ghost will say no
00:52:19give him all of what you have in your pocket that I gave you
00:52:22give him all of it Daniel
00:52:23put it there
00:52:24don't put it there
00:52:30what is your response
00:52:34what is your response
00:52:40you are bringing gold
00:52:46you are bringing young
00:52:47there is another thing you're going to do
00:52:51that is what they
00:52:53will say
00:52:58hmm
00:53:02what is
00:53:03this is your husband
00:53:06what is
00:53:07this is you
00:53:08leap it after me
00:53:10me and my husband is one
00:53:12me and my husband are one
00:53:14forever and ever
00:53:15forever and ever
00:53:17no man no woman
00:53:18no man no woman
00:53:19put us under
00:53:20put us under
00:53:21that is what I promise
00:53:22that is what I promise
00:53:23kiss it
00:53:24give it to her
00:53:25you have a great
00:53:33you are crying
00:53:34yes
00:54:03I wish I knew what
00:54:05what is going on
00:54:06this is terrifying
00:54:08I'm telling you
00:54:09this is voodoo magic
00:54:13after this cleansing today
00:54:15will you mess up again
00:54:18no
00:54:19it's an agreement between you and
00:54:21if you misbehave
00:54:23they will come after you
00:54:30you need to remove the rubber
00:54:49taking off the rubber from the goat
00:54:51signifies that she has been cleansed
00:54:54that is our tradition
00:54:56embrace your husband
00:55:04thank you
00:55:05am I clean
00:55:08hmm
00:55:10you are cleansed from today
00:55:13thank you
00:55:15thank you
00:55:16peace
00:55:17the cleansing is over
00:55:21thank you
00:55:22thank you
00:55:22thank you
00:55:29I don't know what the just happened
00:55:31I know I'm cleansed
00:55:33I don't care about anything else
00:55:34point is
00:55:36if it's enough for us to be accepted
00:55:38as husband and wife
00:55:39then that's all I wanted
00:55:41well done
00:55:44maybe I love you
00:55:45love you too
00:55:54I am extremely happy that
00:55:56we are we are cleansed
00:55:58we can go ahead and get married
00:55:59I really appreciate
00:56:10can we have sex
00:56:15why not come on
00:56:16when you share it
00:56:19share it
00:56:20sharing happy
00:56:31last night was more
00:56:34sloppy
00:56:36than what I thought it would be
00:56:39I am not a virgin anymore
00:56:41it's way better than what I thought
00:56:42me and my hand
00:56:43I'm sorry
00:56:44we're gonna have to break up
00:56:45I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed
00:57:05sheena
00:57:05I feel
00:57:06lots of weight off my mind
00:57:08yeah
00:57:10last night
00:57:11just being able to
00:57:12touch you and feel you
00:57:14just
00:57:15makes me so
00:57:16so happy
00:57:20it was the most special
00:57:22moment
00:57:22that I've ever had with you
00:57:27I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed
00:57:30you're so happy
00:57:39you tied me out
00:57:41yeah it's like you took the driver's seat
00:57:42and just kept going
00:57:44as of today
00:57:45I'm not a virgin anymore
00:57:47it was a great sensation
00:57:49I never
00:57:50it's way better than what I thought
00:57:52okay
00:57:52way better than what I do at night
00:57:54by myself
00:57:56me and my hand
00:57:57I'm sorry
00:57:57we're gonna have to break up
00:58:01I really enjoyed it last night with you
00:58:03and I'm so so happy
00:58:05and I'm so glad
00:58:06that we've been come to this stage
00:58:09yeah
00:58:10I was thinking about
00:58:11how it'd be
00:58:13before
00:58:13sleeping with you
00:58:14and I thought it'd be like
00:58:16this magical thing
00:58:17like
00:58:17there was gonna be like sparks
00:58:19and fireworks
00:58:19and last night was exactly
00:58:21kind of what
00:58:22I thought
00:58:24well
00:58:25more
00:58:26sloppy
00:58:28than what I thought
00:58:30it would be
00:58:31when you got on top
00:58:33and started going
00:58:36my legs were so
00:58:37I felt like I needed
00:58:38a life preserver
00:58:40to make sure I don't drown
00:58:42it was the best
00:58:4335 seconds of my life
00:58:45no okay
00:58:46I lasted a little bit longer than that
00:58:48but Sheena
00:58:48man
00:58:49she went and hopped on top of me
00:58:52and just
00:58:52showed me who was the boss
00:58:54I didn't do that
00:58:56oh yeah you did
00:58:56you took charge
00:59:01I'm happy because you're quite gentle
00:59:03you're quite the gentle one for me
00:59:04I mean
00:59:05so
00:59:05I felt the respect
00:59:06and the love from you
00:59:07I didn't want to hurt you
00:59:09so that's kind of why
00:59:10I kind of laid back
00:59:11and let you go
00:59:15I was to be honest
00:59:17I didn't know how to put a condom to this
00:59:20you know
00:59:21but
00:59:22I couldn't say the right word
00:59:24there's a lot of learning
00:59:27but I think that we have it
00:59:29and giving all myself to Forrest
00:59:32I felt amazing
00:59:33it's hard to describe
00:59:36how would you rate me
00:59:37one to ten
00:59:39well let me say around one
00:59:41well just
00:59:42eleven perhaps
00:59:43for me
00:59:47sex was great
00:59:48yeah I know
00:59:49but the connection that we got afterwards
00:59:51after
00:59:52is definitely something I was not expecting
00:59:55I just feel like you know
00:59:59the world is
01:00:01revolving around us now
01:00:03yeah
01:00:04it's like a magnet
01:00:07and I really feel like
01:00:09even though we're not
01:00:11legally married
01:00:12we can work out the paperwork later
01:00:14but
01:00:16last night
01:00:17you became my wife
01:00:19you are
01:00:20my wife
01:00:22till the end of the earth
01:00:25and
01:00:27if I go back now
01:00:29then I won't have you
01:00:30and I won't have
01:00:32basically my wife with me
01:00:34so
01:00:35this has made me
01:00:36even more committed
01:00:37to
01:00:38you know
01:00:39do everything in my power
01:00:40to be with you
01:00:43having sex with Sheena
01:00:44definitely has
01:00:46changed a lot of things
01:00:48I feel like
01:00:49our heart and our souls
01:00:50are
01:00:51one and the same
01:00:53but
01:00:53I only have a few more days
01:00:54left here in the Philippines
01:00:55and
01:00:56I'm just extremely
01:00:57torn right now
01:00:58because
01:00:58you can go and you can be like
01:01:00oh I love you
01:01:00I love you on the phone
01:01:02but it's not the same as
01:01:03holding the person in your arms
01:01:07I'm starting to feel
01:01:08like maybe
01:01:09the right choice
01:01:09is to
01:01:10stay here
01:01:11in the Philippines
01:01:13but I know that
01:01:14my mother
01:01:15she's not going to have
01:01:16a good reaction to that
01:01:19it's going to be like
01:01:20a typhoon
01:01:20hitting a hurricane
01:01:21and kind of just
01:01:22blow everything up
01:01:28I love Trisha very
01:01:30very
01:01:30I need more time
01:01:35I'm not prepared
01:01:37to do so
01:01:50Do you want to go see
01:01:52the mind of her today?
01:01:53yeah
01:01:53what happened?
01:01:55you still in a bad mood?
01:01:57a little
01:01:59there's plenty of time
01:02:00I'm going to make
01:02:01babies stop tripping
01:02:15excited to see these
01:02:16yes it's amazing
01:02:20this is our very last day
01:02:22together on this trip
01:02:23so I want to make it come
01:02:24I want it to be special
01:02:26so today
01:02:27I decided to take Aviva
01:02:29to the Mayan ruins
01:02:30one of Belize's
01:02:31main attractions
01:02:34you're going to love this
01:02:35I'm going to be
01:02:36your official tour guide
01:02:40I'm glad we're at this place
01:02:42this is very spiritual
01:02:44for me
01:02:44so I want to experience
01:02:46this with Aviva
01:02:59at one point
01:03:01this used to be just like
01:03:02imagine just mountains and hills
01:03:05and somebody
01:03:06some bright mind came and said
01:03:08yo maybe we should
01:03:08check it out
01:03:09and dig and dig
01:03:10and imagine finding
01:03:12all this stuff
01:03:14where's your stage babe?
01:03:16front and center
01:03:17go see
01:03:17this is one right?
01:03:18back in the day
01:03:19I would be right here
01:03:21performing for
01:03:21and I would have been
01:03:22the groupie in the front row
01:03:23ah
01:03:26I'm going to remember
01:03:27your daughter
01:03:32I hope you're seeing that babe
01:03:33that I do want kids
01:03:34with you
01:03:35I do want a family
01:03:35this is not
01:03:37something
01:03:38just regular for me
01:03:39not just a little vacay
01:03:40you visited me
01:03:41this is
01:03:42more than that for me
01:03:44alright?
01:03:46it makes me happy babe
01:03:47I love you
01:03:47I love you too
01:03:52I was feeling pretty upset
01:03:54about the negative
01:03:55pregnancy test
01:03:56but now
01:03:57Stey and I are
01:03:58joking around
01:03:59having a good time
01:04:00and he's just making me
01:04:01feel so special
01:04:03look at the tree
01:04:04pretty right?
01:04:05it's super cool
01:04:06walking around the Mayan ruins
01:04:08it's beautiful
01:04:09so much history
01:04:10and I just love
01:04:11spending this quality time
01:04:13with him
01:04:16wow
01:04:18that's huge
01:04:19that is so cool
01:04:23I know
01:04:25people go
01:04:26all the way to the top
01:04:28that is beautiful
01:04:29we should
01:04:29for sure
01:04:30you want to go to the top?
01:04:31hell yeah
01:04:31me too
01:04:33this feels
01:04:37I'm full of gratitude
01:04:38at this point
01:04:40we've been through
01:04:41so much
01:04:42and
01:04:43there were days
01:04:44when it looked dark
01:04:44when we thought that
01:04:46you know
01:04:46maybe this is it
01:04:48I'm gonna race you
01:04:48to the top now
01:04:50but
01:04:51look at us
01:04:52I think opposites attract
01:04:54like she's the missing
01:04:55piece of the puzzle
01:04:56I feel like we're
01:04:57a perfect balance
01:04:59and I can see the future
01:05:00clearly
01:05:02want to go to the top
01:05:03for real?
01:05:04yes
01:05:04let's do it
01:05:05let's go
01:05:07way way up there
01:05:13babe
01:05:14maybe you should
01:05:16stop
01:05:17for real
01:05:18I want to tell you something
01:05:22since the first time
01:05:23I met you babe
01:05:24at the airport
01:05:25something just made me feel
01:05:26like you're the one
01:05:27for real
01:05:28I knew I was gonna do this
01:05:29I know you were scared
01:05:31but
01:05:32I actually fell in love
01:05:33with you
01:05:33and I want to be with you
01:05:37for the rest of my life
01:05:38that's so sweet
01:05:40will you marry me?
01:05:48yes
01:05:49she said yes
01:05:54that's so sweet
01:05:59love you
01:06:01love you
01:06:04she got me
01:06:07she's shaking
01:06:08is this on
01:06:10this left?
01:06:11left
01:06:13hopefully it fits
01:06:14yes
01:06:17what?
01:06:24I've engaged a stick
01:06:25the artist
01:06:26like how cool is that?
01:06:31you are full of surprises
01:06:32but this is definitely
01:06:33the best one
01:06:34this is the most nervous
01:06:35I've ever been
01:06:36for real
01:06:36for real
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now
01:06:41I've been carrying around
01:06:42this engagement ring
01:06:43for a while
01:06:43but at first
01:06:44I wasn't too sure
01:06:45because
01:06:46I felt like
01:06:47she was questioning me
01:06:48and who I am
01:06:48you know
01:06:49that made me a little sad
01:06:51but then closer
01:06:52leading up to today
01:06:53I felt sure
01:06:54in my heart
01:06:57you still want to go to the top?
01:06:58of course I do
01:06:59let's go
01:07:00let's go
01:07:02this is my fiancée
01:07:03Aviva
01:07:03this is my fiancée
01:07:05Stig
01:07:05thank you
01:07:09you're walking in sync
01:07:12you gotta call
01:07:12I have to tell you
01:07:15it's spring
01:07:16oh no
01:07:17I'm gonna marry
01:07:18your niece
01:07:23it's so cool
01:07:24I'm alright
01:07:25babe
01:07:26there's always gonna be people
01:07:27spreading rumors
01:07:28trying to get into your mind
01:07:31forget about all that
01:07:32right
01:07:32I got you
01:07:33we're a team now
01:07:34I'm not gonna lie to you
01:07:35okay
01:07:36promise you
01:07:37I definitely believe you now
01:07:47I love you baby
01:07:48I love you too
01:07:50you make me love you crazy
01:07:58woo
01:07:58woo
01:08:00woo
01:08:01woo
01:08:01woo
01:08:01woo
01:08:02woo
01:08:06woo
01:08:06woo
01:08:11oh look baby
01:08:12that's some bananas
01:08:13let's get something for your family
01:08:15you want bananas
01:08:17I think your family likes Vidalas, too, don't they?
01:08:27So the dark green one isn't better?
01:08:30Yeah, this is better.
01:08:33Tonight, Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo.
01:08:37Yeah.
01:08:39There he is, thank you.
01:08:41These past few days, I've seen more sides to Trish.
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her,
01:08:49but I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
01:08:54This is my grandma used to sell fruits before.
01:09:00This was her stand right here?
01:09:01Did you sell stuff out here?
01:09:04Yeah, like fruits.
01:09:06Oh, my God.
01:09:07I just cannot picture you doing that.
01:09:09Yeah.
01:09:10I know how important it is to Trish and her family,
01:09:14but I think the best solution to this
01:09:18is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time.
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy
01:09:25and maybe they could ease up a little bit.
01:09:53Yeah.
01:09:56No. Dad wants to talk with us.
01:10:04OK.
01:10:24What's the knife for?
01:10:29That's the knife for?
01:10:30Thank God.
01:10:31I don't know what that knife was for. I didn't see nothing to cut.
01:10:41What is it?
01:10:45Oh!
01:10:48That's a struggle run.
01:11:00You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful. I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:23That's good.
01:11:36That's good.
01:11:38Mm-hmm.
01:11:50Um, what about your answer?
01:11:56How about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:14Um, but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:28Um...
01:12:30I love Patricia very, very much.
01:12:35My nose, I will.
01:12:37And not that the problem.
01:12:39About the kids now.
01:12:42I need more time.
01:12:45Your decision today, not yesterday, not what?
01:13:01You have to decide it, yes or no.
01:13:03But if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like...
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So, why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping me financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:27If you said that one more time, I'm gonna leave.
01:13:29I don't wanna f***ing think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:33Want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35No, no, no.
01:13:35Hey, guys!
01:13:36Let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions!
01:13:39Just go with the sidecar.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need to shower.
01:13:58I think...
01:13:59Maybe you don't need a shower.
01:14:01Right now.
01:14:02I'm feeling it right now.
01:14:05Let me show you how.
01:14:08Well...
01:14:10You look f***ing good.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar?
01:14:16Or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today,
01:14:22and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat,
01:14:26but, like, driving his company's boat?
01:14:28It's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered,
01:14:31but the Nat situation is not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's, like, the one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:37So we set up tonight for us to just all get together
01:14:39and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship,
01:14:54but, like, Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day,
01:15:06throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't, like, looked at the messages,
01:15:18but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on
01:15:24because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favor.
01:15:39Don't kick off.
01:15:41Can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:49How are you, though?
01:15:49How are you?
01:15:50Good, good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's still cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05I bought a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking a concern seriously.
01:16:23And that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me.
01:16:29Especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Gil?
01:16:31To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realize that we're just friends.
01:16:36And that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was...
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And there's so much to digest.
01:16:49You know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:56One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily.
01:16:59But, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You were even on the boat together that night he damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone if I wouldn't emotionally talk with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm gonna be honest, like, I'm scared.
01:17:33He's so close financially with Gil.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say rent.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:05I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me to be
01:18:13supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the like her?
01:18:17Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman.
01:18:21And she's helping you financially.
01:18:23I wanted to like, no, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you say that one more time, I'm gonna leave you.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:32But then what's your game plan?
01:18:35What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are gonna go look with Nat.
01:18:39Yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short term.
01:18:51I don't wanna think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a female?
01:18:57I think it's weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person in there?
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't be embarrassing for you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a .
01:19:09Hey guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
01:19:24Did you know?
01:19:25No!
01:19:26She's lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33It's been six months.
01:19:34I hadn't met until just recently though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be!
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:53Your mummered a bit, your mummered a bit.
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the f*** are they supposed to do?
01:19:57Tell them half the story.
01:19:58But you're not yelling in a bar where I live.
01:20:00You're not here!
01:20:01This girl's a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic, f***ing sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07F*** you, bitch.
01:20:08F*** you, bitch.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a f***ing psycho.
01:20:17What the f***?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:18Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:23That's...
01:20:24Yeah.
01:20:24That's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, Matt.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute, you guys are together.
01:20:37Good.
01:20:38So f***ing cute.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So f***ing cute.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's both...
01:20:45Do you wanna go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47F***ing asshole.
01:20:51Oh, I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love though.
01:20:57But that s***...
01:20:59I'm done.
01:21:02Like...
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22Our fellow women have been given her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my d***.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, boo?
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42We're looking for wedding bands.
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56Make it happy.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03F***ing that.
01:22:06I'm f***ing angry, angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be the end.
01:22:19Hey.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that s*** that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Is it okay?
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59He's a good guy.
01:23:01But it turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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