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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 06: Cabin Pressure Rising
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00:00:00Ah!
00:00:02Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05Look at you in pink, like a peach on a windowsill.
00:00:08I just met my husband for the first time ever.
00:00:12And we're off to our honeymoon.
00:00:14You heavy.
00:00:16But Jobon has been talking to this woman
00:00:19that he used to have feelings for.
00:00:21So that's all we have to figure out the next few weeks.
00:00:26Three.
00:00:30We should fix this area here.
00:00:32We call it abdominoplasty.
00:00:33But in public, it's called contact.
00:00:36It kind of surprised me.
00:00:38But it's not a problem for me.
00:00:41You have nothing to be embarrassed.
00:00:44And you are gorgeous.
00:00:47I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:00:51that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:00:54I'm really sorry to hurt you.
00:00:56But it's different now because I see who you are.
00:00:59I can show everything happens to my life.
00:01:03Here she is going through all these things.
00:01:06And instead of being there for her,
00:01:08I went to Colombia to see my ex.
00:01:13When we match, we're talking.
00:01:15And one day, we just go away.
00:01:19I was just going through a bad breakup.
00:01:22Right now, I see, like, she hiding a lot of things.
00:01:27I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
00:01:33You lied about the fact that you've been married to women several times.
00:01:37Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:39I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:48What are you doing?
00:01:51Can you marry me?
00:01:53She and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
00:01:57and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
00:02:02My fear is Forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep your love.
00:02:08If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena,
00:02:12who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:02:15They're going to have you snooker before you even realize it, Forrest.
00:02:36Are you married?
00:02:45Oh, my God.
00:02:46I came here for an engagement.
00:02:48I just wasn't expecting it to be in the first 10 minutes.
00:02:51I had so many other things in my head going on.
00:02:56I don't want to say yes because I have to tell them my secrets.
00:03:03Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I have been married five times
00:03:08and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:03:14I don't know what to do.
00:03:17I don't know what to do.
00:03:23Oh, my God.
00:03:27Yes, baby.
00:03:31Yes, baby.
00:04:11Oh, my God, you're my fiancé.
00:04:13Oh, come on.
00:04:14You don't mind.
00:04:22How long were you planning this?
00:04:24Almost six months now.
00:04:26Six months?
00:04:27That's when we met.
00:04:28Yeah.
00:04:28You wanted it for six months?
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:33You are a fast one.
00:04:35Of course.
00:04:36I don't have to be slow, because I know it's going to work.
00:04:39So why should I be slow and then?
00:04:41OK.
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:43So you're sure?
00:04:44I'm sure, because you're made for me.
00:04:48Remember what I used to call you?
00:04:50My God-given gifts.
00:04:56Hi!
00:04:57I love you!
00:04:58I love you!
00:05:00I love you!
00:05:00You're welcome!
00:05:01Good to see you!
00:05:02You're welcome, man.
00:05:03You're welcome.
00:05:04Thank you very well for accepting my nipple.
00:05:07Thank you very much.
00:05:08Very nice to see you.
00:05:17How do you feel?
00:05:20I am so surprised.
00:05:23The flowers were more than I expected, and then to see his uncle and his friends, and
00:05:29then the next thing I know, he's on his knee, and I'm like, oh, my God. I wasn't expecting
00:05:33any of this.
00:05:36Oh, my God, baby!
00:05:38That was amazing.
00:05:40You surprised me.
00:05:45I'm not really, really here.
00:05:50That was so much fun, but I didn't want him to propose to me right away.
00:05:55I thought...
00:05:59I said I would not be engaged to him until I came clean.
00:06:03But I wanted to say yes, so I said yes.
00:06:08I need to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:10I wanted to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:13I just hope he doesn't change his mind.
00:06:17That was unbelievable.
00:06:19That was unbelievable.
00:06:45Hey.
00:06:46Good morning.
00:06:47Good morning.
00:06:47Good morning.
00:06:48Good morning.
00:06:49Good morning.
00:06:50How are you?
00:06:52Perfect.
00:06:53Yeah.
00:06:54It was a nice night.
00:06:56Yeah?
00:06:57Yeah.
00:07:05You know, I feel like I am on the clouds.
00:07:09Also, I'm wasted.
00:07:12What?
00:07:17I was really emotional after the surgical consultation yesterday, but Birkan made me feel beautiful.
00:07:24And when we got home, he definitely showed me that he is physically attracted to me multiple times.
00:07:33You're on the clouds, but you're wasted. I don't understand that.
00:07:36Yeah.
00:07:37It's because of happiness and I'm feeling tired.
00:07:41Yeah.
00:07:42It's a good combo.
00:07:44Okay.
00:07:48The sexual chemistry is pretty great, but I do think that it does take a little bit of time to
00:07:55learn a person's preferences.
00:07:59I feel like he's a little more vanilla and I'm a little more spice.
00:08:05That's because I didn't have sex in the last four years, maybe?
00:08:09You're a little crusty.
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:11But this whole truck still works.
00:08:16True.
00:08:17Plus, he's pretty blessed down there.
00:08:25I think I'm gonna make the coffee.
00:08:27All right.
00:08:28I'll get ready.
00:08:28Okay.
00:08:35I'm so glad we're doing this.
00:08:38Yeah.
00:08:45This is so amazing.
00:08:48I just love this building.
00:08:50This is so old.
00:08:52It's, yeah.
00:08:53It's ancient, actually.
00:08:53Not old, ancient.
00:08:56Oh, my gosh.
00:08:58This is amazing.
00:09:00Yeah, it is.
00:09:01Oh, my God.
00:09:05This is part of the history, actually.
00:09:08Why don't we sit here?
00:09:09Okay.
00:09:15There's something, like, really just kind of mesmerizing about this.
00:09:19Yeah.
00:09:39Oh, so beautiful.
00:09:45Watching the whirling dervishes perform with beer con is a really cool experience.
00:09:52And I love that he's taking time to make sure that I understand.
00:09:57That's a really attractive quality that he has.
00:10:04This looks so good.
00:10:06What did you order for us?
00:10:08It's kebab.
00:10:09This one is the menameh.
00:10:11It's made of tomatoes, eggs.
00:10:19Yeah.
00:10:22You like?
00:10:23Yeah, it's really good.
00:10:26It's nice to have time like this to get to know each other better.
00:10:31Yeah, quality time.
00:10:32Yeah.
00:10:33I want to get to know everything about you.
00:10:35What are you wondering?
00:10:37I can tell you everything.
00:10:41So you were living here and then you moved.
00:10:45Yeah.
00:10:46I felt like I got bits and pieces through, like, texts.
00:10:50But I don't really know, like, the full story, what's going on.
00:10:55Yeah.
00:10:56So I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
00:11:03So I came back again without a place to stay.
00:11:09And my debts and my jobless situation, I just, I am just broke.
00:11:20Did you say you're dead?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:26How much is it?
00:11:30I don't want to give you a heart attack.
00:11:35Uh, estimately, I think 50k.
00:11:40Turkish lira, that's what, 1500 bucks?
00:11:43That's all.
00:11:43I hope it was in Turkish liras.
00:11:48So 50k in US dollars?
00:11:56Okay.
00:11:59I did not know any of this.
00:12:03It's not a big deal.
00:12:04No.
00:12:05It's not?
00:12:0950,000 US dollars, that's a lot of money.
00:12:14It feels like a little bit of a betrayal because he wasn't forthright in our online conversations about this debt.
00:12:23It is a giant concern and a huge red flag.
00:12:28I'm absolutely shocked.
00:12:34Okay, Javon.
00:12:36So we're going to start with Pinangat.
00:12:39That's a lot of chilies.
00:12:40Come on, be a man.
00:12:41Alright.
00:12:43I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk.
00:12:45That I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:12:53Did you finish?
00:12:54Almost.
00:12:55We have to go to meet with my friends.
00:12:57I know.
00:12:58You are so disrespectful for you.
00:13:00How am I disrespectful?
00:13:00You are every day.
00:13:01But I'm not going to let you say live.
00:13:04What happened?
00:13:14Good morning.
00:13:16Oh, tired.
00:13:18Tired?
00:13:19Really?
00:13:31Last night I arrived in the Philippines and waking up next to my wife, Annalyn, for the first time on
00:13:40our honeymoon.
00:13:41It's so surreal.
00:13:42Like, I get to actually cuddle with her and smell her morning breath.
00:13:48Huh?
00:13:51So?
00:13:52No.
00:13:53How did you sleep last night?
00:13:56Oh.
00:13:58Well, we didn't get much sleep last night.
00:14:02Yes.
00:14:03We made love.
00:14:06Was it good, though?
00:14:10That's a good question.
00:14:11Oh, my God.
00:14:11You hit a long ass pause.
00:14:14It is good.
00:14:15Okay.
00:14:16Well, why did you just say that in the beginning?
00:14:17Because I also think of the same question I was thinking to myself.
00:14:20How do you feel about that?
00:14:23I ain't got no complaints.
00:14:25Yeah, that's right.
00:14:27Yeah.
00:14:29Breakfast is over.
00:14:30So, you feeling lunch?
00:14:33Yeah.
00:14:34You have a spicy knife with your spicy wife.
00:14:38So, I'm gonna take you for a spicy lunch.
00:14:42You know just what I like.
00:14:44You know just what I like.
00:14:46Turn me up.
00:14:47Turn me on.
00:14:48We just get so high.
00:14:51We're here.
00:14:52Oh, okay.
00:14:53Yes.
00:14:58Hello.
00:14:59Hello.
00:15:00I actually grew up in Biko, but I moved when I was a teenager, and I've been really excited
00:15:07to show Juvon my culture.
00:15:10Would you like to sit down here?
00:15:12Sit down here.
00:15:12Wait.
00:15:13Just wait on me.
00:15:15I'm taking Juvon for lunch today to a local eatery that makes a real authentic Bicolano dishes.
00:15:24Okay, Juvon.
00:15:26So, we're gonna start with pinangat with taro leaves.
00:15:29Shall we?
00:15:30All right.
00:15:34Bicolanos love spicy food.
00:15:38I'm not really content if I don't have any chopped chilis on my plate.
00:15:43We even put chili on ice cream.
00:15:46I'm gonna try it with the chilis.
00:15:48If it's too much, I'll let you know.
00:15:51Cheers.
00:15:51Oh, that's really big boo.
00:15:53I know.
00:15:54Let me take baby steps.
00:15:55Yes.
00:15:56All right.
00:15:56You can do it.
00:15:57I know you can.
00:16:01Most of the American food that I know, it's more blonde in my taste.
00:16:05So, I don't know if he will be able to handle the heat.
00:16:11Cheers.
00:16:13Yeah.
00:16:23So?
00:16:25What do you think?
00:16:26I like this.
00:16:27I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk.
00:16:29That I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:16:35But inside, I'm definitely burning up.
00:16:38Mm.
00:16:39Ready?
00:16:40Level two.
00:16:42That's a lot of chilis.
00:16:43Come on, Jabon.
00:16:44Be a man.
00:16:45All right.
00:16:45Mm-hmm.
00:16:54Okay.
00:16:56Oh, God.
00:16:57Okay.
00:16:58I feel this one in my...
00:17:01I feel this one in my chest.
00:17:03My mouth is on fire.
00:17:05My stomach is struggling.
00:17:06I hope all the food here isn't like this.
00:17:09Because I don't want to spend too much time by the toilet blowing it up.
00:17:14Mm-hmm.
00:17:15You want me to order more?
00:17:17No, I'm good.
00:17:17I'm good.
00:17:18I'm good.
00:17:18Yeah.
00:17:25So, you know, because of Bicolanos being known for spicy food.
00:17:31Mm-hmm.
00:17:32They say that, you know, Bicolanos are just hot.
00:17:41It's like hot in what way?
00:17:42You found it out last night.
00:17:45Oh.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:48And if we're lucky enough, just the one night and it's bullseye.
00:17:57Like, what do you mean?
00:18:00Maybe I'm pregnant.
00:18:04Yeah.
00:18:05We talked about this way before he came down here.
00:18:09And we agreed that we might get pregnant on this trip.
00:18:15I feel like I always have a maternal instinct in me.
00:18:19And I'm almost 40, so it's not like I'm getting younger.
00:18:27So, hypothetically, if I get pregnant, how do you think is this going to...
00:18:35Affect us?
00:18:37Yeah.
00:18:39If you got pregnant, you know, I'll do everything in my power to be here with you.
00:18:45So, you know, but whatever it takes.
00:18:47There's no way that you're going to be over here with my kid and then I'm back home.
00:18:57So, it's like, since you're going to have a kid, suddenly you can easily find a way to come here.
00:19:06Whenever.
00:19:08Wow, you love our kid more than me.
00:19:14I sometimes feel like my wife's mood suddenly changes at the drop of a hat.
00:19:20I mean, I thought I was saying something positive, but she twists my words around like I don't want to
00:19:26spend time with her.
00:19:27Like, you're capable of this and that.
00:19:32When I'm pregnant.
00:19:33But when I'm not pregnant, why did it take years for you to come visit me in the Philippines?
00:19:39It seems to me what you're saying is that it's all just going to be for the baby.
00:19:43Does that not sound a little just out there?
00:19:48No.
00:19:48You flipped it and made it about you instead of the baby.
00:19:53Don't give me that.
00:19:57I mean, this is a prime example of the way she goes zero to 100 real quick.
00:20:03I definitely feel like I'm walking on eggshells a lot because I sometimes feel like she's looking for problems.
00:20:10It almost feels like you can't 100% be yourself without the other person getting upset.
00:20:16And that needs to change.
00:20:18Will we get there? I do not know.
00:20:21But for the sake of our marriage, I hope so.
00:20:33Emma.
00:20:34Yes?
00:20:35Did you finish?
00:20:36Almost.
00:20:37We have to go to meet with my friends.
00:20:39I know. I'm almost done.
00:20:40You look so great. Why you need all this makeup?
00:20:42I just need to touch up a little. I need to bronze my boobs.
00:20:46How you can't stay one hour behind the mirror?
00:20:49It's like two hours.
00:21:02Okay.
00:21:06This is so cute.
00:21:08I do.
00:21:09Yeah.
00:21:10My dress is winning.
00:21:12Oh, fine.
00:21:13Hello.
00:21:14Hello.
00:21:15Hi.
00:21:16Hi.
00:21:17How are you?
00:21:18I'm Emma.
00:21:18Nice to meet you.
00:21:19Nice to meet you.
00:21:19My name is Ernest.
00:21:20Nice to meet you.
00:21:21Hi.
00:21:26Hi.
00:21:27This is nice.
00:21:31I definitely think that this is showing some progress in a relationship that I'm meeting Ziyad's friends tonight.
00:21:41I'm going to take, like, grapes and chocolates.
00:21:44I guess just a cappuccino?
00:21:47I was upset about not meeting his family, but I'm starting to feel a little special in this moment that
00:21:53he's willing to introduce me to other people in his everyday life.
00:21:56And, you know, hopefully I'll get the opportunity to do a little bit of digging and get to the bottom
00:22:03of who Ziyad really is.
00:22:08Emma, how are you?
00:22:09Good. How are you?
00:22:11I'm so happy that you are with my friends.
00:22:15Aw, thank you.
00:22:16So do all three of you guys, like, hang out all the time?
00:22:19Are you besties?
00:22:21Yeah, most of the time.
00:22:22Has he said anything about me?
00:22:24Yes.
00:22:24Yeah, he told me that I met a beautiful girl from the U.S.
00:22:29Aw.
00:22:30Yeah.
00:22:31Why did you choose Ziyad?
00:22:33Well, we met on a dating app.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:36And when we first started talking, he was, like, so sweet and just genuinely kind to me.
00:22:43Like, he would text me every day.
00:22:45He would call me every single day.
00:22:46He was calling me, his wife, within, like, ten minutes of us talking.
00:22:50And I just, like, fell for him really quickly.
00:22:53So...
00:22:53So it was beautiful.
00:22:55It was, like, an instant connection.
00:22:57It was, like, an instant connection.
00:23:00Who, uh, Sokran?
00:23:12He asked me, for example, when we will go out...
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:18...and you take some clothes.
00:23:19Take over, like, open here.
00:23:21You know what I'm saying?
00:23:23Because we are in a minute.
00:23:24What do you wanna, what are you gonna do?
00:23:26Okay, can I just say one thing?
00:23:28I asked him a million questions before I got here.
00:23:32For example, I would say, when I come there, can I wear whatever I want?
00:23:36He was like, yeah, you can wear whatever you want here.
00:23:38People wear clothes like it's Europe.
00:23:41But people in old minutes, like, people...
00:23:43Yeah, but you didn't tell me that until I got here.
00:23:45Why wouldn't you say...
00:23:46I don't know.
00:23:46I didn't know.
00:23:47We will be together in the mid, you know.
00:23:49Yeah, but you could have said, certain places, you can wear whatever you want.
00:23:53But not everywhere.
00:23:56It was, it was just a misunderstanding.
00:23:59No.
00:24:00It was just a misunderstanding.
00:24:05Ziyad lied.
00:24:10I feel like he was saying different things to me online and in person.
00:24:17Lack of communication on his end.
00:24:20She lied about something.
00:24:22What did I lie about?
00:24:23Okay, the difference between...
00:24:25Why, why, why...
00:24:25The difference between Ziyad and I.
00:24:27Why you...
00:24:27I'm speaking.
00:24:27Everything I've said...
00:24:28I know, but I'm speaking.
00:24:29Everything I've said...
00:24:31When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:24:32I do respect you, but I'm so disrespectful for you.
00:24:34How am I disrespectful?
00:24:35You are, every day...
00:24:40I think you're disrespectful.
00:24:42You are, you are, you are, you are, you are.
00:24:43I think you're disrespectful, because I think you...
00:24:45Listen, I make a lot of effort just to find words.
00:24:48I'm not someone who's perfect in English.
00:24:50I know.
00:24:51And you stop at me, it's like I forget everything, so...
00:24:54But I'm not gonna let you say lies.
00:24:57What have I lied about?
00:25:24Why you walk in a relationship with someone else...
00:25:28at the same time when you are talking to the end it wasn't no no no just liar something liar
00:25:34i'm not
00:25:34a liar we were broken up when i met you're a liar oh immediately i can't be with someone
00:25:39for example in the same time i'm taken with a girl but you're on dating apps
00:25:50not only were you on dating apps but you were actually talking to girls messaging them
00:25:57you were telling girls come to morocco
00:26:03you know what we probably should bring here what my my banana hammock
00:26:08today we're traveling to meet sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married
00:26:14no banana hammock forrest i put it back well this is something you didn't tell me about stop can you
00:26:21just calm down because you've been holding this secret for what four months now now i'm thinking
00:26:26her ghost me for five days directly has to be with her ex that looks very suspicious to me why
00:26:33would you
00:26:33keep that from you
00:26:36so
00:26:43so
00:26:48so
00:27:07my first day with trish had its ups and downs we did clear the air about her ghosting me for
00:27:13five
00:27:14days and it made me feel better but i'm not quite ready to tell her what happened in colombia yet
00:27:21i'm starting to feel closer to her and i don't want to lose this this feeling
00:27:41i don't see what the problem was with trish told me that she's very sexually
00:27:48open-minded and um she let me know that she's a you know a female ejaculator
00:27:57when she gets excited she can make uh quite a mess
00:28:02so i came prepared with a little uh protection for the bed
00:28:06so we're getting charged for the sheets you know
00:28:21i know he brought that for me because i sent him a sexual video of me
00:28:29and he likes it but it doesn't seem like
00:28:36something to put on the bed it's like garbage back
00:28:41i was doing it as a surprise to show you that i was ready to go all the way with
00:28:47pleasing you
00:28:49so this is so stupid seriously so so are you gonna pay for the damages to the mattress
00:28:59it's horrible i'm going to take a shower
00:29:10even though trish didn't go for the splash pad
00:29:13but we both were satisfied last night i'm feeling like she could really be the one
00:29:20but you know i i feel like trish didn't give it a fair shot which is disappointing because they're 50
00:29:29pretty expensive for a piece of plastic you know
00:29:42well i mean you only have yourself to blame for that because you lied to me
00:29:46no i didn't you can't well you can't you kept in front you kept in front
00:29:56trish and i were about to go to dinner when all of a sudden trish is telling me that her
00:30:01motorcycle's about to get dropped off and then it got fixed i assumed it would be uh dropped off by
00:30:08a mechanic but as it turns out it was uh her ex-boyfriend's friend rick stop please this is
00:30:17something you didn't tell me about trish and this guy are going on and on in malagasy and i don't
00:30:23know
00:30:23what the hell they're saying so i started asking all these questions and he spoke some english
00:30:29so i asked if she was still in contact with her ex he's saying that they saw each other about
00:30:35four
00:30:36months ago at that point we were supposed to be exclusive
00:30:42why would you keep that from me because i wanted a secret for what four months now
00:30:48it was not really important that looks very suspicious to me i'm just i'm just telling you
00:30:54something more must have happened with with your ex i think you would have said something to me if
00:31:00nothing happened i mean i asked you i didn't lie to you i'm ready to go can you just calm
00:31:08down please
00:31:09i'm calm your reaction like oh well collected i just wanted to get my bike back and i didn't expect
00:31:18this to turn into the whole thing rick find out that i saw my ex and i don't know how
00:31:26to tell rick
00:31:27the whole story and i'm scared this one is for you aviva the sex good and the vibe good would
00:31:41i breed
00:31:41yo yes i would you really like my guy huh uh you're aware of what happened to him in the
00:31:47past right
00:31:48his girlfriend from texas if i said that he's fully over it then i'm lying
00:32:14i love it
00:32:29I'm glad you're here.
00:32:30Me too.
00:32:32I'm glad we, you know, can actually be physical.
00:32:36Like in real life.
00:32:37I know.
00:32:38I like the lingerie.
00:32:39Yeah.
00:32:40I like it better when it was off.
00:32:44Stig and I did have a long night.
00:32:50I definitely think us being intimate made us a lot closer.
00:32:54It did feel really good waking up next to him.
00:32:57You thought we made a baby last night?
00:32:59Mm-hmm.
00:33:01We'll see.
00:33:04Last night, he didn't want to use protection.
00:33:07And he knows I'm not on birth control.
00:33:09So I guess we're not trying to have a baby.
00:33:14I know it seems a little crazy and super soon.
00:33:19But I want a family and I would love to have little baby Stigs.
00:33:23He would make a great dad.
00:33:28Enjoy making love with you.
00:33:29Mm-hmm.
00:33:30It didn't feel like just sex.
00:33:32I'm hooking up with a girl.
00:33:33It really felt good.
00:33:34That's good.
00:33:35I'm just going to go with the flow.
00:33:37If she want to go all the way, we're going to go all the way.
00:33:40If she don't want to use protection, we ain't going to use no protection.
00:33:44She's fine as bruh.
00:33:46We got to enjoy this to the fullest.
00:33:49You want to see me in action today?
00:33:51You saw me in action last night.
00:33:52I don't mean it like that.
00:33:53I don't mean it like that.
00:33:54Different type of action?
00:33:55Okay, okay.
00:33:56What?
00:33:57So I want to take you to the studio.
00:33:59Have you see what I do and how I do it.
00:34:02And the guys want to meet you.
00:34:04They want to chat to you.
00:34:06After that, I have a show tomorrow.
00:34:08So we're going to hop on a boat.
00:34:10We're going to go to the island.
00:34:12Whee!
00:34:15I had a great night with Stig.
00:34:17Everything's going super well.
00:34:20And although I'm wishing I had a little bit more alone time with Stig first,
00:34:24If I plan on starting a life with a Belizean music star, I have to be able to handle the
00:34:30lifestyle.
00:34:31I've been searching all this time for a little bit of sunshine.
00:34:42So this is a studio.
00:34:43I'll just do this.
00:34:48You good?
00:34:50You got this.
00:34:56Gentlemen, gentlemen.
00:34:58Yo, yo.
00:34:59Hey, yo.
00:35:00Cool?
00:35:01Hi, I'm Aviva.
00:35:01This is my girl.
00:35:02Nice to meet you.
00:35:03Finally here.
00:35:03Nice to meet you.
00:35:04You want a hug, Shenshak?
00:35:06I think we should hug, man.
00:35:07Finally, I heard so much about you.
00:35:09I told them you're the love of my life and all that good stuff.
00:35:14Ready to see some magic?
00:35:15I'm ready.
00:35:15All right, man.
00:35:16All right, let's do it.
00:35:17I'm going to leave you with the guys.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:18No trouble, gentlemen.
00:35:20Ladies.
00:35:20All right.
00:35:22I'm excited to take Aviva to the studio to meet the homies and to show her what I do.
00:35:27I have some lyrics tossing around in my mind, but I'm inspired by last night.
00:35:32So, Aviva, first time in the studio?
00:35:34It is.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:35This is cool.
00:35:36I like it.
00:35:36Your first time you're getting a song about you.
00:35:39First time.
00:35:39I love it.
00:35:40Damn.
00:35:40You ready?
00:35:40You never put the offer a stick?
00:35:41I never.
00:35:46This one is for you, Aviva.
00:35:51The sex good and the vibe good.
00:35:54And you love me as you should.
00:35:57Would I marry you?
00:35:58Yes, I would.
00:35:59Would I breed you?
00:36:00Yes, I would.
00:36:02The sex good.
00:36:02That's all you said?
00:36:03Good night.
00:36:04You had a sad last one?
00:36:05Yes, I'm so sure.
00:36:06We did have fun last night.
00:36:08Yeah.
00:36:09Good night.
00:36:10Good night.
00:36:11Good night.
00:36:12Good night.
00:36:13Nobody ever really says I want to breed you in America.
00:36:18Really?
00:36:18I don't know.
00:36:19I'm a dancing artist.
00:36:20That's how we talk.
00:36:21Breed you.
00:36:22Yeah.
00:36:24Sweet talker.
00:36:30What the?
00:36:33All right.
00:36:34Want to hear our song?
00:36:35Yeah.
00:36:39So you really like my gun, huh?
00:36:41I do, yeah.
00:36:42A lot.
00:36:42You like the dude?
00:36:43Mm-hmm.
00:36:45I hope he likes me, too.
00:36:46You know, he's a handful, huh?
00:36:48A little bit.
00:36:49A little bit.
00:36:49All right.
00:36:50I always try to give him good advice and put him on the right path.
00:36:55Yeah.
00:36:55There's a lot of mistakes that he made in the past, you know, so I wouldn't want to see that
00:37:00happening all over again.
00:37:04From my perspective as management, I always see these relationships damage his career.
00:37:12His ex in Texas was, in my opinion, kind of horrible because we couldn't get anything out of him productive.
00:37:19I can't allow Aviva to bring any type of drama to us, especially to Stig's career.
00:37:26You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:37:29His girlfriend from Texas, she definitely did a number to my dude.
00:37:34He mentioned it to you, brought it up to you?
00:37:36We talked about it a little bit, but he probably held back, yeah.
00:37:39Yeah, but I mean, when it all started, it damaged us, and we couldn't get anything out of him, you
00:37:46know.
00:37:47For months, he was just depressed and we had a lot of international projects ahead of us, and all of
00:37:55that kind of paused.
00:37:56So, it was a tough breakup, and I believe that he had planned for a lot with her, you know.
00:38:01You know, he wanted to start a family, and then, wow.
00:38:13I didn't know that he was ready for a family with her, so that's news to me.
00:38:19Is it bothering you?
00:38:21Yeah, a little.
00:38:22I mean, I didn't know that it was that serious.
00:38:26Well, if I said that he's fully over it, then I'm lying.
00:38:32I knew about Stig's ex-girlfriend because that's how we bonded.
00:38:37We were both going through a heartbreak at the same time and found comfort in each other through that.
00:38:42But I had no idea that he was planning to have a family with her.
00:38:47Now, I definitely feel like Stig lied to me because he swore he was over her.
00:38:53And that's why I was willing to come all the way out here.
00:38:58So, now I don't know what to believe.
00:39:03We're here.
00:39:04We're here.
00:39:05Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:39:10They have a lot of questions for you.
00:39:12First, it's your career.
00:39:15I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:39:21I'm worried about their acceptance of me.
00:39:23I know.
00:39:24It's so challenging, babe.
00:39:43You know what we probably should bring here?
00:39:45What?
00:39:46We should bring sex bear.
00:39:47Just leave him alone.
00:39:49Just leave him alone.
00:39:50He doesn't want to...
00:39:51You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:52Just leave him alone.
00:39:53My banana hammock?
00:39:55No banana hammock, Forrest.
00:39:58I put it back.
00:40:09Okay.
00:40:10Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:40:17It's still a bit confusing to me to get the blessing of these people who have been mistreating Sheena this
00:40:24entire time.
00:40:26She told me that she has to give them money all the time.
00:40:30And if she doesn't give them money, they start yelling at her, mistreating her, threatening to even kick her out
00:40:35of the house.
00:40:36But I really just want to go and represent myself and show how great I am.
00:40:42And once I make a good first impression, then we'll have the real hard discussion about cutting them off financially.
00:40:49Oh, man, Sheen.
00:40:50Thank you, my love.
00:40:50Goodness gracious.
00:40:52I'll just leave that there for you.
00:40:53Okay.
00:40:53All right.
00:40:54Here you look nice.
00:40:56So, Sheena and I are about to get out of here.
00:41:00Oh, okay.
00:41:01You guys go and have your meeting the first day with your family.
00:41:06Then I can proceed to go from there.
00:41:10Yeah.
00:41:10I really appreciate you doing that, Mom.
00:41:13I wish you the best of luck, and I pray for the best outcome in this situation, all right?
00:41:20I know my mom's upset with me that I want to go see Sheena's family by myself.
00:41:26But her being my mom, I still want her opinion.
00:41:29So, I'm kind of relieved that my mom is going to come the second day and support me how I've
00:41:34been wanting her to support me this entire time.
00:41:37I just hope that she doesn't blow up everything.
00:41:40Yeah.
00:41:41Bye, guys.
00:41:42See you tomorrow.
00:41:46I am really upset that he didn't want us there.
00:41:51I think that what's going to happen is they're going to go talk to them, and they're going to tell
00:41:57me, we've got it all handled, we've got it taken care of, it's all good, and they're going to keep
00:42:02me from seeing the parents.
00:42:03That is my gut feeling, and I'm not going to accept that.
00:42:09Oh, yay.
00:42:14We just have to walk, honey.
00:42:15Yep.
00:42:16Ow.
00:42:17Sorry.
00:42:19That bus is quite big.
00:42:20Yep, that bus is going hardcore.
00:42:22That's the one.
00:42:23Oh, just be careful.
00:42:24There's a lot of rocks around.
00:42:25Yep, I will just carry the one thing.
00:42:27One thing.
00:42:27Ouch.
00:42:27Oh, my God.
00:42:28My family lives in a province in Cavite, two hours from Manila.
00:42:35The good thing about the Cavite is the nature, it's less polluted and much more peaceful.
00:42:42I usually take a bus first, then a tricycle, which is a local transportation in the Philippines.
00:42:50So it's not an easy trip.
00:43:13There's no way that Molly and Dev could figure this out on their own.
00:43:17So we're going to arrange a car for them tomorrow.
00:43:22If they happen to travel with a bus, we might never see them both again.
00:43:30You're so beautiful, Sheen.
00:43:32I love you.
00:43:32How did you go through everything not becoming a model?
00:43:35I don't know.
00:43:36Perhaps it isn't meant for me.
00:43:38That's why I'm a veteran.
00:43:40I'm so proud of it.
00:43:42We're here.
00:43:44We're here?
00:43:44Yeah.
00:43:46We're going to have to ride some tricycle now?
00:43:49Oh, we're getting to ride a trike?
00:43:50Yeah.
00:43:53We're going to have to wait.
00:43:57Oh, man.
00:44:00Are you okay?
00:44:03Well, I kind of just want to, like, regroup our thoughts here and kind of figure out what
00:44:07we're doing.
00:44:08This is the first time meeting me in seven years.
00:44:11I'm worried about their acceptance of me.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15It's challenging, babe.
00:44:16They have a lot of questions for you, so I just have to answer them honestly.
00:44:20First, it's your, what's your purpose for coming here in their country?
00:44:26Then, second thing possible, it's your career.
00:44:32Hearing that Sheena's parents are going to probably ask me about my career and how I make money
00:44:36It makes me extremely nervous.
00:44:38Honestly, because of my disability, I can't focus or do certain tasks that normal people would be able to do.
00:44:45It takes a lot for my boss to come back to me and keep telling me, hey, Forrest, you're messing
00:44:49up.
00:44:50Hey, Forrest, you're doing this wrong.
00:44:52And a lot of the time they can't do that, you know, because I'm now costing them money.
00:44:57So, I haven't had a job in several years.
00:45:00And I've been living on disability checks.
00:45:04Sheena has always understood my situation, and that's why it's been put more on her to save for our future.
00:45:12And I feel awful about it.
00:45:17I don't want your parents' disapproval.
00:45:20I'm worried that they will say that I'm not able to afford you.
00:45:25You have to be mad out of it.
00:45:27I mean, you're an adult.
00:45:29You could find a job.
00:45:30I know you proved yourself.
00:45:32And that's what I want to see from you.
00:45:34You could find a job.
00:45:37That's the only way.
00:45:39Sheena, I'm definitely going to work hard for you, and I'm going to tell them that.
00:45:46I have been helping my family for years to keep them happy.
00:45:51And the truth is, I'm quite frustrated that Forrest, as a guide, that he doesn't have work.
00:46:00It's hard for me working by myself while he haven't saved anything for a future.
00:46:06And now, I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:46:19I get emotion because the pressure on my shoulders is quite hard.
00:46:25So, I don't know what's going to happen.
00:46:28And I'm so nervous.
00:46:34All right.
00:46:36Find experience, honey.
00:46:37Let's do this thing together.
00:46:41We had that last argument, and you called my sister, and you were complaining about me.
00:46:48You were a little bit unhinged.
00:46:50Oh, my God.
00:46:52I can't believe you're born right now.
00:46:54I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:47:06Anna, can I just rest just for a little bit?
00:47:10No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:47:12Come on.
00:47:14We're on honeymoon.
00:47:16I think we both need a massage.
00:47:17Like, look at you.
00:47:18It will lessen the tension.
00:47:20Is it because of last night?
00:47:22Was I rough on you to make you feel like you need to go get a massage?
00:47:25Yeah, part of it.
00:47:27Honestly.
00:47:30Come on.
00:47:44What's up with you and massagers?
00:47:46I mean, because, boo, I don't want anybody and everybody up in my personal space.
00:47:50If you gave me a massage, I wouldn't complain, but that's you.
00:47:53You're my wife.
00:47:54Have you seen these tiny, skinny fingers?
00:47:58Yeah, but that doesn't mean they don't work magic.
00:48:01Earlier today at lunch with Anna, things got a little bit tense.
00:48:06Navigating marriage with my wife in person is a little bit more challenging than I thought.
00:48:13But we're both on our honeymoon.
00:48:16We're supposed to be having good positive vibes, so we call the truce for now.
00:48:23Hi, good evening, Paul.
00:48:26Yes, thank you.
00:48:27Okay.
00:48:28Oh, see.
00:48:31Nice.
00:48:32Now it's nice, huh?
00:48:33Yeah, it's nice.
00:48:34Face goes here, right?
00:48:37No, it's your butthole.
00:48:38Oh.
00:48:41I don't really like massages, but if it eases the tension between me and Anna,
00:48:48I'm all for it.
00:48:55How long you think it's been since you've been in a spa?
00:48:58In like a few years?
00:48:59Last month.
00:49:00Last month?
00:49:02When you have some stiff muscles, it really relaxes you.
00:49:06Also, if you have insomnia, get a massage.
00:49:10After the massage, I guarantee you, you'll fall asleep.
00:49:16Sounds like you go a lot.
00:49:19Yeah, because it, you know, relaxes me.
00:49:25For about the last five years, I've been sitting at at least $600 a month, but sometimes more.
00:49:32I'm very old school.
00:49:34I believe the man should provide financially, and the woman is supposed to be the nurturer and the caregiver.
00:49:40More content, please.
00:49:42But sometimes I feel like the money I give her is her vacation fund.
00:49:47That definitely makes me feel some type of way.
00:49:50I could have been here probably already if she just would have learned how to budget so I could send
00:49:55less money.
00:49:57Is the pressure okay?
00:49:58So good.
00:50:00It's just right.
00:50:03So, when we leave here and we visit Kavite, I'm excited to see where you live, boo.
00:50:10Have you been practicing your Tagalog?
00:50:12No, but I need to.
00:50:15How do you think you're going to communicate with my mom?
00:50:18I mean, I'm not here that long, and I got you.
00:50:23But don't you want to make some effort to have a relationship with her?
00:50:30I try to make efforts to have a relationship with your siblings.
00:50:36Well, I mean, I want you to have a good relationship with my siblings.
00:50:43But sometimes I feel like, you know, you overstepped just a little bit.
00:50:50What do you mean?
00:50:52You know, kind of like we had that last argument, and you called my sister.
00:50:59Remember that?
00:50:59And you were complaining about me.
00:51:03And you think that is what?
00:51:06I don't know.
00:51:06I mean, it's, you know, it's a bit much.
00:51:11Because, you know, she was at work, and, I mean, you kind of unloaded a lot on her.
00:51:18A little bit unhinged.
00:51:24You feel comfortable enough that you can talk to her about our problems, but you can't do it with me.
00:51:31Why is that?
00:51:33At least when I'm hyper-emotional, I just go to families.
00:51:39I mean, you're upset with me, but you run to other women.
00:51:46It's just so funny that you have the guts to call me out, that I share it to your siblings,
00:51:53yet you're so willing to share it to someone that you used to fancy.
00:51:58If you have this history, what do you think could happen?
00:52:00Well, I mean, Anna, like, once again, I'm waiting on accountability from you, to be honest with you,
00:52:07because, like, why did my husband go to another woman and talk about our problems?
00:52:14Huh.
00:52:14I wonder what made him feel like he needed to do that.
00:52:19You're saying that the reason you did this is because of me?
00:52:22So basically, it's like justifying cheating.
00:52:27I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:52:29You know that, don't you?
00:52:34Here we go again.
00:52:36Jesus.
00:52:38I'm just gonna change.
00:52:41You done?
00:52:42Yeah, I'm done with this conversation.
00:52:45You always complain about my hyper-emotion.
00:52:50You're the reason why I have it.
00:52:52I'm not doing it intentionally.
00:52:54Yeah, whatever.
00:52:57Oh, my God.
00:52:59I can't believe Juban right now.
00:53:04I thought the reason we were fighting so much was because we were in a long-distance relationship.
00:53:10But now that we are finally together, we're still fighting.
00:53:15If we're already like this on our honeymoon, what does it say about our marriage?
00:53:30Not only were you on dating apps, but you were actually talking to girls, messaging them.
00:53:36You were telling girls, come to Morocco.
00:53:46You were telling girls, follow me on social media.
00:53:47It's not I told them you can't come to me.
00:53:48You were like, let's get to know each other.
00:53:49My name is Ziyad, I'm from Morocco, I'm 27.
00:53:52You were on dating apps.
00:53:53You were on dating apps.
00:53:53You were on dating apps.
00:53:55You're talking to me tonight.
00:54:01No, welcoming someone, it's not there.
00:54:03It's not there.
00:54:05No, no.
00:54:06It was from a dating app.
00:54:09So that's a normal thing.
00:54:10Why would you welcome girls on a dating app if you're in a relationship?
00:54:12That's how we are.
00:54:13So if I was on dating apps and I was talking to a bunch of guys,
00:54:16and all the guys I was talking to, I was like, come to Los Angeles, come to Los Angeles.
00:54:19That's okay for me to say that?
00:54:21It's not, it's not, it's not the same.
00:54:23How is it not the same?
00:54:24Me, I want to, let me explain.
00:54:25Me, I'm so proud about my country, so if anyone.
00:54:30Ziyad, but you're meeting these people on dating apps.
00:54:31I'm speaking, I'm speaking.
00:54:33Don't, don't act like you're meeting people on dating apps and just want to welcome them to Morocco.
00:54:36You were meeting girls on dating apps, trying to talk to pretty girls.
00:54:40Actually, I totally understand you.
00:54:43See, your friends agree with me, right?
00:54:45You guys are on my side.
00:54:47No, they are not.
00:54:47They just do that for you.
00:54:48We are, we are with our guests.
00:54:50They want to make you.
00:54:51No, they see that I'm right, and they're on my side.
00:55:00Well, I think for me, from my perspective, it's like a lack of trust.
00:55:06Trust, yeah.
00:55:18I mean, I think we have to, like, talk about our differences, but I want to overcome our
00:55:22problems, move forward, and then get married.
00:55:29Oh, okay.
00:55:30Yeah.
00:55:30So you are looking to get married with Ziyad?
00:55:32Yes.
00:55:33Okay.
00:55:33I want to be engaged before the end of this trip.
00:55:49Zero percent.
00:55:50Zero percent.
00:55:52Zero percent.
00:55:52He asked him if, can you see him as your wife?
00:55:57And you said zero percent?
00:55:59At the moment, yeah.
00:55:59At the moment, I mean.
00:56:00So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent chance of me being your wife?
00:56:04For this moment.
00:56:08And what does that mean for the rest of the time I'm here?
00:56:11You told me before I came here you wanted to get engaged.
00:56:15I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:56:17But you're at zero?
00:56:18We need a lot of time to understand you, because we are so different.
00:56:23We need more time.
00:56:27Okay.
00:56:34I brought condoms, too, baby.
00:56:37I know, but I'm really tired.
00:56:40It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.
00:56:43Let me take a shower.
00:56:45I'm a little nervous about it.
00:56:47What if I want it, and he doesn't want me?
00:56:49Do you know what kind of a letdown that's going to be?
00:56:51Um, I'm kidding.
00:57:04You shocked me with that proposal.
00:57:07I wasn't expecting it.
00:57:09You're not supposed to keep secrets from me.
00:57:11I don't need ways to play, play, play, play.
00:57:15Don't stay too high, I'll wait.
00:57:22I can't believe I'm here.
00:57:24I'm in Nigeria, and I haven't even known Daniel, but for 10 minutes in person, and I'm engaged
00:57:33to him.
00:57:33It's crazy.
00:57:35It's crazy.
00:57:44Daniel is very affectionate.
00:57:46I've never been kissed like that before.
00:57:48Really?
00:57:48Yeah, but I liked it.
00:57:51Your lips taste as natural as honey.
00:57:53That's why I wanted to, you know, bite off the lips.
00:57:57Also, she was looking so stunning.
00:58:00I couldn't resist her.
00:58:02Oh my gosh, you're a smooth talker.
00:58:10Faith will be very happy that, um, we're going there today.
00:58:15We should call Princess Diff to know how I pull this to you.
00:58:20We will talk to her, not tonight.
00:58:23Not tonight?
00:58:24It's late.
00:58:24I want to spend time with you tonight, but we will talk to her.
00:58:28I think she will be very surprised.
00:58:30I love your manners.
00:58:33Faith is going to be furious when she finds out we got engaged.
00:58:38I told her that I was going to come clean before he proposed, and that didn't happen.
00:58:44She wants me to be very careful and not rush things.
00:58:47But tonight, the last thing I want to think about is a lecture I'm going to get from Faith.
00:58:57Oh, baby.
00:58:58This is beautiful.
00:59:01They want me to special.
00:59:04I want to show you what I got you.
00:59:06I got you so much stuff, baby.
00:59:08All right, you ready?
00:59:09We'll open it.
00:59:12There you go.
00:59:18Baby, I love it.
00:59:24I love you.
00:59:27There's more.
00:59:28Wait.
00:59:29You have to open this one.
00:59:30Okay.
00:59:33Wow.
00:59:35Let's see if it fits.
00:59:38Wow.
00:59:42Wow.
00:59:46Now, look.
00:59:50I bought oils.
00:59:54Okay.
00:59:56This one is strawberry.
00:59:57So this would, like, change the temperature as your friction.
01:00:01And I brought condoms, too, baby.
01:00:03I know, but I'm going to try it.
01:00:09Come on.
01:00:11Don't take your shower.
01:00:12You want to take your shower together?
01:00:19Take a shower.
01:00:20Tomorrow we'll do that, okay?
01:00:22Okay.
01:00:22Now we are tired.
01:00:23Go take your shower.
01:00:24Get everything ready.
01:00:26Okay.
01:00:33Is he tired or is he really just not interested?
01:00:36I'm feeling like he's not interested anymore.
01:00:40So I don't know what's going on, but I want it to happen.
01:00:44I'm nervous.
01:00:45I want it to happen.
01:00:46I want to get that part out of the way and get the new situation underway.
01:00:53Um, it's been 21 years since I've been with a man, so I'm a little nervous about it.
01:01:04Oh, God.
01:01:06Mm-mm.
01:01:13Um, I, I...
01:01:16Um...
01:01:16I think it...
01:01:21What if I want it and he doesn't want me?
01:01:23Do you know what kind of a letdown that's going to be after 21 years of not having it,
01:01:28and then all of a sudden saying, okay, I'm ready for this, and then him turning around
01:01:32and saying, no?
01:01:35That's a real possibility, and it's scary.
01:01:42Oh, you're going to come in.
01:01:44I, I don't know.
01:01:45It's, it's, it's weird.
01:01:46He's acting different all of a sudden than he did at the airport and during the engagement.
01:01:52It's confusing, but I'm not giving up yet.
01:01:58Oh.
01:02:18Baby.
01:02:20Baby.
01:02:22Oh.
01:02:23Oh.
01:02:27Hmm?
01:02:33I'm starting to think he's second-guessing everything.
01:02:38He sees my wrinkles, and he sees my saggy body,
01:02:41and he doesn't want me.
01:02:45Again.
01:02:46Yeah, yeah.
01:02:47Go to sleep.
01:02:48OK.
01:02:49I don't know what to think.
01:02:51I feel rejected, and I'm worried.
01:02:54He's going to call off engagement.
01:02:55He's going to leave me stranded here
01:02:57because he's not attracted to my body
01:02:59now that he's seen it in person.
01:03:00That's how I feel.
01:03:02I'll lay on you for a little while.
01:03:04Is that OK?
01:03:04I'm OK.
01:03:05Can I snuggle you?
01:03:06Is that OK?
01:03:07I'm OK.
01:03:08I'm fine.
01:03:16What happened with your ex?
01:03:19Is he still sending you messages?
01:03:21No.
01:03:23Would you be willing to show me that?
01:03:27Why do you think your mind goes to cheating?
01:03:29My greatest fear is that she still has feelings for him.
01:03:39So what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:03:42You kind of just went quiet,
01:03:44so I thought that you were definitely seeing your ex.
01:03:46Stig went to Texas, and he didn't invite me.
01:03:49And now, I can't help but think maybe there was a reason
01:03:53he didn't invite me to Texas.
01:03:55Can I do that?
01:04:21Do you like that?
01:04:26I want some shrimp, and I want some beef.
01:04:40I'm just so confused and a little bit irritated.
01:04:47I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend,
01:04:50because I know he has a lot of money.
01:04:52But Trisha has sworn to me that she would never
01:04:55get back with him because of how badly he treated her.
01:04:59But if that were the case, why would she
01:05:01be hanging out with him so recently?
01:05:03It bothers me that she kept that from me.
01:05:06Now I'm thinking, again, that this whole thing about her
01:05:10ghosting me for five days is directly
01:05:14has to do with her ex.
01:05:20Are you ready to talk?
01:05:23I still don't understand why you want to talk.
01:05:26Like, we were just saying hi, and that's it.
01:05:32So where was this?
01:05:33Where did you just happen to run into?
01:05:36A restaurant.
01:05:37So you just happened to be eating at the same restaurant
01:05:39as him?
01:05:40I saw him outside, then.
01:05:43And you called him over?
01:05:44Yeah.
01:05:47So, John.
01:05:55He was with his family, so I got a good relationship
01:05:59with his family.
01:06:01And we just talked a little bit.
01:06:03Then I went home.
01:06:09I don't know.
01:06:10That sounds really sketchy to me.
01:06:12Because if it was a situation like you just happened
01:06:14to run into him, I think you would have told me about that.
01:06:21Listen.
01:06:22So the reason why I didn't told you
01:06:25is you're trying to get me back.
01:06:30And he wants to get back with you.
01:06:34And how did you respond?
01:06:35And I said, no, I already have someone.
01:06:39Then he got mad because I said no.
01:06:42And I didn't say anything about it.
01:06:45Because I was really scary about your,
01:06:48how would you react of that?
01:06:50Like, maybe you would say, maybe she's still with her ex.
01:06:53Like, how you react right now?
01:06:58Have you guys been in contact since then?
01:07:06So he still hasn't gotten the message
01:07:09that you've moved on.
01:07:12And when did this conversation happen?
01:07:16Four months ago.
01:07:18And is he still sending you messages like that?
01:07:22No.
01:07:24Would you be willing to show me that?
01:07:30So if I show you, will you believe me?
01:07:34I'd have no choice but to.
01:07:45Look at the time.
01:07:47I didn't even respond, Rick.
01:07:50Look.
01:07:57I miss a boy's car.
01:07:59Yeah, I miss.
01:08:01I didn't even pick up.
01:08:02Do you believe me now?
01:08:07I see the date.
01:08:10So I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
01:08:13I'm not, Rick.
01:08:14I'm not.
01:08:14And that is, that's a big, that's a big deal.
01:08:19That makes your story a lot more credible.
01:08:24That was my greatest fear, that she still
01:08:27has feelings for him, but just shows me
01:08:31there wasn't any more text messages between her and her ex.
01:08:36Why do you think your mind goes to cheating?
01:08:39Do you wonder if that's something you're projecting?
01:08:44It's possible.
01:08:46If it did turn out that you were right,
01:08:48would that make you feel better?
01:08:50I don't know.
01:08:52I don't know if I would feel better, but, you know,
01:08:56maybe I won't feel as guilty for what I did.
01:09:05I hate when I'm telling you everything.
01:09:07I'm being honest with you, and you're just like,
01:09:10oh, I don't believe this, I don't believe that.
01:09:12It seems like it's really getting bad.
01:09:17These are just growing pains.
01:09:19We've got to get through these, you know,
01:09:21rough patches in the beginning to get to the green pastures,
01:09:24you know, that we have ahead of us.
01:09:27Yeah, I hope so.
01:09:30It's really hard for me to defend myself in front of Rick,
01:09:33because even if I explain something a hundred times,
01:09:37he's like, is that true?
01:09:39And he doesn't trust me without proof.
01:09:43My ex was always jealous and, like, really suspicious.
01:09:49But he's the one who is cheating on me the whole time.
01:09:53And now I'm worried that it's the same thing with Rick.
01:09:57What if he's hiding something?
01:10:01If someone is like that, I think something is going on.
01:10:22What's good, brother?
01:10:25Hey, can you take us to the ferry, bro?
01:10:26OK, sure.
01:10:28Hey, yeah.
01:10:29Sing like what's up, day, day.
01:10:31Time goes fast and slow, but we collide.
01:10:34You drive me crazy.
01:10:36Sing like...
01:10:37Excited?
01:10:39Yeah.
01:10:39Feel the sea breeze already?
01:10:41I do.
01:10:42I'm ready for this boat.
01:10:44Which way?
01:10:45Just keep off here and the San Pedro.
01:10:46You're going to love it.
01:10:47You guys.
01:10:49I just introduced Aviva to Richie and Perth at the studio.
01:10:53And now we're about to take a ferry,
01:10:55go to San Pedro for a couple of days,
01:10:57or have a show.
01:11:00Hello, bro.
01:11:01Nice to meet you.
01:11:03And I'm really excited about this.
01:11:04And I know she is too.
01:11:05I hope so.
01:11:10Are you OK?
01:11:12Kind of.
01:11:15How do you not know?
01:11:16I mean, I'm kind of upset about some things,
01:11:20but I mean, I just learned a lot.
01:11:22What?
01:11:23Like what?
01:11:28I'm pretty upset with Stig because his friend Richie
01:11:31shared some things that definitely made me question
01:11:35whether Stig is even being honest with me.
01:11:38Ready?
01:11:41I'm hesitant to bring up these worries already.
01:11:45I don't want this first week to be uncomfortable.
01:11:48And I want to show him that I'm not just a crazy, jealous girl.
01:11:54You good?
01:11:55However, the things Richie said brought up some previous concerns
01:12:00that I had just kind of swept under the rug.
01:12:03And now I feel like I do need to address them with Stig.
01:12:17That's a tourist village.
01:12:18I think that's where some of the cruise ships get off there.
01:12:23Mmm.
01:12:27Aviva's being weird right now.
01:12:29I don't really know what.
01:12:30She don't want to talk about it.
01:12:32That is not cool because I'm big on communication.
01:12:34If something is bothering you, tell me.
01:12:37You ever been on a cruise?
01:12:40As a kid, I really want to go on another one.
01:12:42You are a kid, so.
01:12:45You're acting like a kid right now.
01:12:46I'm acting like a kid?
01:12:47You don't want to tell me what's up.
01:12:54I don't like silent treatment.
01:12:58I mean, I wasn't trying to ruin the mood, but Richie told me
01:13:03that you were really thinking about having a baby with your ex,
01:13:08and you said that same thing to me.
01:13:11So, I'm not sure if that's what you say to every single girl now.
01:13:16So, just kind of rubbed me the wrong way.
01:13:21I mean, kind of like that.
01:13:27It is true.
01:13:29But, I mean, when I date, that's the reason I date, though.
01:13:32When I told you this, I was trying to chill,
01:13:34get off that player, playboy .
01:13:37I wasn't looking for love.
01:13:39So, of course I wanted a child of my ex.
01:13:42Of course I was looking for marriage with my ex.
01:13:43Of course that's what I wanted.
01:13:46A couple years back, I met a girl from Texas.
01:13:49She was visiting Belize.
01:13:51We worked together a year and a half, off and on.
01:13:54And she broke my heart.
01:13:56I was planning a future with this girl.
01:13:58That's not a bad thing.
01:14:01I mean, are you actually over her?
01:14:02Because Richie said he doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
01:14:05Is that true?
01:14:07Richie talking crazy.
01:14:08That doesn't mean it's true.
01:14:10So, you're going to let that get to you?
01:14:12I don't know.
01:14:13I mean, a little bit.
01:14:14Getting to me a little bit, for sure.
01:14:16I mean, it's a big deal.
01:14:17You've got to control your own feelings.
01:14:18You know it's not a big deal.
01:14:20You're making it a big deal.
01:14:29So, what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:14:35A few months ago, Stig went to Texas and he didn't invite me.
01:14:41I knew that he was busy with work and that he has family there.
01:14:46But there's a part of me that thought that Stig saw his ex in Texas.
01:14:52I thought I was just being paranoid.
01:14:55But now, I can't help but think maybe there was a reason he didn't invite me to Texas.
01:15:00And he was actually going to see her.
01:15:03They booked me for a Belize day.
01:15:07I was out there, you know, for a farm.
01:15:09I didn't even see my family.
01:15:10Much less see any other girls.
01:15:12I went with a crew of us, a Belizean crew, went for a farm.
01:15:15It was like, what, two days?
01:15:17You know that.
01:15:18Well, you kind of just went quiet.
01:15:19So, I thought that you were definitely seeing your ex.
01:15:22I don't know.
01:15:23I don't know.
01:15:23It's all just, like, not really adding up.
01:15:26So, I'm trying to figure it out, I guess.
01:15:28It's not like that.
01:15:31You guys are trusting me.
01:15:33Have I ever given you a reason to think that kind of way?
01:15:37I don't know.
01:15:37I just feel like you're a big charmer.
01:15:39And I don't know if you, like, were serious about being exclusive,
01:15:43if you were just saying that, you know?
01:15:45I don't know what, like, I don't know if what you say is real or not.
01:15:48I don't know it.
01:15:50You know?
01:15:50Like, how am I supposed to know if you're being honest?
01:15:52Because I don't like lying there.
01:15:52If I felt the other way, I would have told you.
01:15:56You really are, you want, you're like a one-woman type of guy.
01:16:00Yeah.
01:16:00Like, that's actually true.
01:16:02I could do that.
01:16:03I could do that.
01:16:05It's crazy.
01:16:05Like, I want that here.
01:16:09When I go home, like, how am I supposed to, you know,
01:16:11trust that you'll do the right thing, you know?
01:16:16Honestly, a state is really hard to resist,
01:16:18but I have to be careful and protect my heart.
01:16:22And he's not convincing me that he's telling me the truth.
01:16:26I mean, I want to believe you for sure.
01:16:28It's just, it's hard.
01:16:31Prove it.
01:16:33Trust me, babe.
01:16:35This is super unsettling because I haven't been using protection with him.
01:16:40And I don't want to start a family with a liar.
01:16:59You're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:17:02Yeah.
01:17:02And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:17:05She has a lot of doubts inside.
01:17:08That's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:17:24So 50K in US dollars?
01:17:31Okay.
01:17:33It's not a big deal.
01:17:35No.
01:17:36It's not?
01:17:45I'm not happy right now.
01:17:48I know that he's having some difficulties with money and jobs,
01:17:52but I had no idea how bad his financial situation actually is.
01:18:00Birkan told me multiple times that his intention was to be this protective provider as a husband.
01:18:08And I'm questioning how at this point.
01:18:13And I'm so worried about what else he could be keeping from me.
01:18:18I didn't let you know because I am trying to figure out everything myself.
01:18:24But I mean, if we're talking about sharing our life together, your problems would be my problems.
01:18:31And we'd be starting off together in a sizable debt, how that would all work.
01:18:38Okay, but we are not partners in that debt, no.
01:18:42But you...
01:18:43That's my debt in this country.
01:18:46If I'm not in that country, who cares how much debt I am in?
01:18:58So, you're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:19:03Yeah.
01:19:03And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:19:11I'm concerned by the fact that he would just run away from his debt and, like, flee a country to
01:19:17get out of it.
01:19:18I'm not okay with that.
01:19:19I don't want to bring Birkan to the States and be financially responsible for him
01:19:26and then be worried that he would be burning through my money.
01:19:36You don't have to worry about my debts.
01:19:39I always handle my own problems.
01:19:42Then why haven't you done that right now?
01:19:47Because I'm waiting for the right time to figure that out.
01:19:53And the time is closed, I know.
01:19:56It's just, in this country, earning money is too hard.
01:20:02If I come to America, I think I can be able to afford my debts and also provide.
01:20:10Okay.
01:20:11I can do two jobs, maybe three jobs.
01:20:14I can take care of everything.
01:20:16You know, I am hustling.
01:20:17I am trying to survive.
01:20:21I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
01:20:28because you would want a green card and money.
01:20:32And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
01:20:37She has a lot of doubts inside and I get it.
01:20:42But that's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:20:49I'm worried if she finds out how I make money when I'm not working.
01:20:57She could leave me.
01:21:05Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:08Oh, Lord.
01:21:10This is worse than the bus.
01:21:12Woo-hoo!
01:21:13I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time.
01:21:16But her family has been these ominous figures.
01:21:20I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down.
01:21:23The importance.
01:21:24You have pants, you know.
01:21:26You're going to help her.
01:21:28And she's been helping us also.
01:21:33Well, it's always.
01:21:38What is that?
01:21:45I feel very awkward because I didn't want him to do the song.
01:21:51And now he's starting with this girl.
01:21:54You're wrong skin, but you're here.
01:21:55I still have my suspicions and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
01:22:00There is all these girls on the stage with you.
01:22:03I'm disappointed.
01:22:04He are me.
01:22:08I don't trust Michael.
01:22:10I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:22:14So, you or him?
01:22:17Yes, you heard me right.
01:22:20This is some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet.
01:22:24This doesn't feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:22:28Why don't you tingle a little, you know.
01:22:31I just get some air.
01:22:35My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:22:37I'm a little nervous.
01:22:40The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
01:22:43Without dates, we can't marry.
01:22:44In my family, we are Christian, without smoke.
01:22:48We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:22:51What kind of questions are going to be asked?
01:22:53I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
01:23:02I've been waiting to spend some romantic time with my queen.
01:23:08Being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
01:23:12Like, what happened between me and my ex in Columbia?
01:23:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
01:23:18You are. You are enough.
01:23:20I really do care about trees.
01:23:23But what I did, it needs to come out.
01:23:26Not trees.
01:23:27You are enough.
01:23:27I'm not enough for you.
01:23:28I'm not.
01:23:31No, no, none.
01:23:31For me.
01:23:31I'm not.
01:23:31No, no, no.
01:23:31You
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