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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 03: Prepare For Take-off
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Hello, Trish.
00:00:07Oh, you're here.
00:00:09I'm here, baby.
00:00:11I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:14Don't love me.
00:00:15I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:18I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:21after the ghosting incident.
00:00:23But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:27Surprise!
00:00:30Damn!
00:00:33You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:35The Chinese food out there.
00:00:36If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:39My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:42He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:46But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:49They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:51The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:53and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:57and that they left together.
00:01:00I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong.
00:01:04But there's definitely a part of me that wonders
00:01:06if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:11BeerCon is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:17straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:19I'm ready to take the next step with him.
00:01:22But I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:25has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:28You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:31but it can't go both ways.
00:01:35You said you'd never leave.
00:01:37I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:39I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:45I'm heading to the Philippines today.
00:01:47But last night, Sheena tells me she has been giving all her money
00:01:51to her parents this entire time.
00:01:53I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:02:00I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:02:03when she's alive here.
00:02:05And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:15It's a beautiful day.
00:02:33I hate packing.
00:02:35I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:36So yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:38I'm like super nervous.
00:02:40Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:42I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:45I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:47I've never left the continent.
00:02:49But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:52I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:56to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:59I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:03:01for so many months.
00:03:03And now that it's here, I'm like way more nervous
00:03:07than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:09The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more
00:03:12anxiety too.
00:03:15When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:21so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:26But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:30with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:33And that's not fair to me.
00:03:35So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:40Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:42We do a lot of things together.
00:03:43We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:45And I know that that is not really common,
00:03:49to have that kind of male-female friendship in other cultures,
00:03:54other religions.
00:03:55And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose
00:04:00between somebody who's my best friend
00:04:01and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:07It's open.
00:04:09Hey.
00:04:09Hey, how are you?
00:04:11Good, how are you?
00:04:11Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:13Are you excited?
00:04:14Yeah.
00:04:14A little terrified, actually.
00:04:16I know.
00:04:17I'm terrified for you.
00:04:20My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:22which is really nice.
00:04:24But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:27with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:32They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:37And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:41to see me end up with.
00:04:43So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:47You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:50So excited.
00:04:56I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:58I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:05:00I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:05:01Well, I wanted you to feel supported,
00:05:04but I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:09I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:13and meet a guy you never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:17It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever
00:05:20have been something that was possible.
00:05:22You know what I'm saying?
00:05:24It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:27But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:32or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:37The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:41I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:45He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:48Oh, my God.
00:05:51Laura, are you serious?
00:05:52I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:56Don't make jokes.
00:05:57Holy mackerel.
00:05:57That's not funny.
00:05:58What is he thinking?
00:06:00What is he thinking?
00:06:01I'm awesome.
00:06:02What the heck is he thinking?
00:06:02I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:04No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:09That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:13Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:15Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:18and saying all the right things.
00:06:19Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24Okay.
00:06:24Big red flag.
00:06:25Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:26That's not what love is.
00:06:29You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:30You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:36Right now, it's not love.
00:06:38It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:40To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:45That guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:46I don't...
00:06:47Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:50I agree.
00:06:51A concern?
00:06:51It's more like...
00:06:52Like ten giant red flags.
00:06:56My word in heaven.
00:06:59You actually think that there's a possibility
00:07:03that this could work
00:07:04and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:08Yeah, I do.
00:07:09You do?
00:07:10If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:12I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:15My...
00:07:15My...
00:07:17Oh, my God.
00:07:22We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:26You know?
00:07:27And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:33I feel blindsided.
00:07:35I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:39I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:44I just...
00:07:45Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:47All of it.
00:07:50I want to be happy for you.
00:07:53But I can't.
00:07:55I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:58I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:08:00And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:08:04at this point,
00:08:06it is just messing with my head.
00:08:09It keeps me awake at night,
00:08:11thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:14Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:16Don't ever settle.
00:08:31We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:33Why?
00:08:34Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:39Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:42Yeah.
00:08:42No.
00:08:42That's a show we're going to happen now.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:46I'm going to do it once.
00:08:47Do it twice.
00:08:49Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:51I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:53What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:54You're how old?
00:08:56I am 52.
00:08:58And you said you're an adult?
00:09:00I am an adult.
00:09:01You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:05My name is Lisa.
00:09:07I'm 52 years old
00:09:08and I live in King of Pressure, Pennsylvania.
00:09:10I thought you would feel better
00:09:12knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:15I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:17I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:20No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:23Is that not a playboy?
00:09:25Playboy's somebody who's like a gigolo.
00:09:28He didn't say he went out with a lot of women.
00:09:30No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:32Gigolo's a male hooker.
00:09:34No, that's not.
00:09:35That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:36That's a pimp.
00:09:37A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers
00:09:41and gets the money.
00:09:42Okay.
00:09:44I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:46where Faith lives with me.
00:09:48We live with each other.
00:09:49And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:52We talk about everything.
00:09:53Whether it's the topic of sex
00:09:58and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink
00:10:01and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:10:04I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:06What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:08How do I know what size it is?
00:10:11Has he ever told you in inch...
00:10:14Well, I guess it wouldn't be in kilometers?
00:10:17No.
00:10:19I have never used a condom before.
00:10:21Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:25I have been married five times.
00:10:27Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb,
00:10:30and it led to an annulment.
00:10:33Husband number two, he was my very best friend.
00:10:36And it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:38But, after a few years, I realized he made a better friend
00:10:42than he made a husband.
00:10:44Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:48He was a really good guy.
00:10:50So, why did I leave him?
00:10:53I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:56And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:59Let's go with the flow.
00:11:03Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:05Women are nice and curvy and soft.
00:11:10And I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:13But neither of them worked out.
00:11:15But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:18I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:22But sure enough, Daniel came along and...
00:11:27Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:32Hi, beautiful. You're my everything. You're the light in my... my soul.
00:11:39He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:44He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form.
00:11:49So, I don't know what it is.
00:11:52He messaged me on social media.
00:11:55We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:59So, at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:12:02I said, I'm not talking to you, you're not real.
00:12:05But he kept trying to talk to me, and you know what?
00:12:08He is a smooth operator.
00:12:10He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:14I love you much. You're much like a food to my soul.
00:12:18I just fell in love with him.
00:12:21He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:25I love you, Lisa.
00:12:27And I will continue to love you.
00:12:29Daniel says I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:34And he better, because this damn thing is itchy as all hell.
00:12:39And it's uncomfortable.
00:12:40Can I take it off?
00:12:51I love you.
00:12:53Oh my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:55One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short.
00:12:59And I miss my long hair so much.
00:13:02So, I wear wigs.
00:13:04Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs.
00:13:07And he was like, damn.
00:13:11So, now I wear wigs every day.
00:13:12And I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than
00:13:18a week.
00:13:19Okay.
00:13:20Here goes nothing.
00:13:21Try a flavored one. You might like it.
00:13:23No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:25You'll be ribbed.
00:13:26No, I don't know.
00:13:27No, I don't know.
00:13:30Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:34My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly, at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:42She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:44We've moved so many places.
00:13:47I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:51Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:56I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:59Oh, gosh.
00:14:02Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:06Oh, there's different sizes. Holy crap.
00:14:10Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:12We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:17But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:24They have different body parts than women.
00:14:27The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:31I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself and
00:14:39still dripping.
00:14:40That's disgusting.
00:14:41You don't have that with women.
00:14:44It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:46Oh, I'm gonna be sick.
00:14:48Um, sir?
00:14:49If you have a moment, could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:53I'm not gonna help you.
00:14:54So embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:14:55This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:57Okay.
00:14:58Yep.
00:14:58They have to be latex-free.
00:15:00I'm allergic to latex.
00:15:01I'm...
00:15:03Oh, gosh.
00:15:04When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:10Yep.
00:15:10It's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you, or, I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:15No, you're good.
00:15:16I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:17No, no, it's good.
00:15:18I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:25But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:30This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:35All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a
00:15:39lesbian for 21 years.
00:15:41Thank you so much.
00:15:43No problem.
00:15:43I appreciate it.
00:15:45A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole
00:15:50truth.
00:15:51And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:57Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself? How could I do that to God?
00:16:01God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.
00:16:05And he was disgusted.
00:16:08There you go.
00:16:10Yeah, no problem. Let me get the rest of your time.
00:16:11You can hide them in my purse.
00:16:12I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:18But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling. I'm terrified.
00:16:26I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.
00:16:31And I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:34Okay, that's over and done with.
00:16:37Thank God.
00:16:44Well, well, well.
00:16:46So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:48Yes, I am.
00:16:50I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:53Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:54I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:56So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:58I stop all the parties.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:17:01How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:05I have a check-in flight and I landed.
00:17:08But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:12You're going to need your passport.
00:17:14Let's get through here.
00:17:15I don't know.
00:17:16I left him somewhere.
00:17:17What are we doing now?
00:17:19What are we doing now?
00:17:19Oh, God.
00:17:23My flight to Belize boards in 20 minutes.
00:17:27I'm still on the other side.
00:17:30So, hopefully, we get off soon.
00:17:41I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:44I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:46It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym
00:17:49because I am having to run to my connecting flight to Belize
00:17:53to meet my boyfriend Stig for the first time.
00:17:56Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:57because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:18:01Stig's a famous musician in Belize
00:18:03and the women there love him.
00:18:06So, the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:10when I meet him for the first time.
00:18:11But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:14Four minutes.
00:18:15Just getting to my gate.
00:18:20Or maybe it was perfect timing.
00:18:23Thank the Lord.
00:18:25Next stop, Belize.
00:18:28After waiting for so long,
00:18:30I'm super nervous to meet Stig.
00:18:32But I cannot wait to get my hands on him
00:18:35and start a future together.
00:18:38My second plan to believe.
00:18:41I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:43I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:54and I'm coming for you.
00:18:59Be easy.
00:19:13Listen!
00:19:24what's up i am erlin duane i go by stig the artist i'm a musician from belomopan belize central
00:19:32america and i'm 30 years old you know the vibes i think i'm a cool guy you know i'm just
00:19:39chill
00:19:39for the most part but when i'm performing it's just a different feeling i just get alive
00:19:46i love what i do i love music i love singing for the ladies them and the girls you know
00:19:53they could
00:19:53get pretty wild at my show there's this one time this girl was literally trying to get in my pants
00:20:00she was front stage i'm like yo chill but if that's what my music gives them that that that kind
00:20:05of
00:20:05joy i'm doing the right job i can't take you off my mind about 10 years ago i put out
00:20:12my first song
00:20:13my first music video i recorded every single day in the studio i grew my fan base and now i'm
00:20:19at the
00:20:19highest level of belize as an artist so everybody recognized me and i am very grateful for the love
00:20:25and support that i get here there could only be one one you one i'm very proud of what i've
00:20:34become
00:20:35but i couldn't have done it by myself perf is my producer he produced a lot of my biggest songs
00:20:42richie is my manager six is my g is one of my best friends they're still my homies since we
00:20:50started
00:20:50everything and i know they're always looking out for me i have a special toast my gallery tomorrow
00:20:58cheers yeah world world you really like the american girls bro you really like them
00:21:04farina you like my gallery farina i just straight farina we are dead
00:21:14listen my friends they could joke around as much as they want and tease me but i'm very serious about
00:21:19my girlfriend aviva two years ago i started talking to aviva on social media at first we were both in
00:21:27a relationship but when we both became single it was way beyond friends aviva's super hot she has the
00:21:37most beautiful blue eyes but one of the most attractive thing about aviva is her personality
00:21:44she has a beautiful heart so humble and gentle and she has a cute little laugh with her i don't
00:21:51have to be stick the artist you know i don't have to impress her i can be earl and dwayne
00:21:56and that's
00:21:57why i feel like she's the person i want to spend the rest of my life with so you're really
00:22:01serious in
00:22:02this girl bro yes i am you think you'd have settled down really with this woman start a family let's
00:22:09get married let's have kids i don't know i might want to be a baby you are breathing you want
00:22:30to
00:22:41you want to stop all the party and stop all the party that's part of my life i mean he's
00:22:46you know
00:22:46like i plan to take her to san pedro for the show you're taking her to san pedro for the
00:22:53shows
00:22:53you ready for that yeah i mean i hope she's ready you know the car is san pedro right temptation
00:23:00island
00:23:02so what do you think you fix us on pedro when a hundred girls jump out to you i could
00:23:06bet you
00:23:06as you reach san pedro i want to bother you my past in the relationship i tell him like you're
00:23:15gonna
00:23:16get jealous no no no they always trip so i told aviva we're gonna see i hope you don't trip
00:23:22and she's
00:23:23like no i'm not like that i'm not jealous but i don't know i want somebody from my side you
00:23:29know
00:23:30you sit up and worry about all that kind of stuff yeah but everywhere we go people always say you
00:23:36have
00:23:37xyz girl how do you think she's going to react i hope i pray i could be the best version
00:23:45of myself
00:23:46this time i put the things a little bit different no disrespect huh i heard that sound too many times
00:23:52bro
00:23:54i can't control that i can't control that
00:24:00a lot of my relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue you know i was a
00:24:07player
00:24:07for most of my life now i actually want a family i want somebody i can go home to at
00:24:13night and and
00:24:14they're there to listen to me to be there for me i hope aviva can be that person and that
00:24:20i can be a
00:24:20faithful partner you guys are going to love aviva you know i love her so let's see how it goes
00:24:27i have
00:24:2920 percent fit damn
00:24:38so update on the food oh that's strength look at that good good stuff
00:24:46i hope she and i get good airway and food like this but then you take a flight back home
00:25:19forrest is arriving today with his parents and i feel good
00:25:24wow like super happy and excited i'm on my way to the airport now we rented a bigger apartment
00:25:33where we can all stay together so i'm carrying quite a few bags
00:25:43also i am bringing jackfruit
00:25:45i want morris and his family to taste the local goodies here in the philippines
00:25:54i really quite nervous and i don't know to react
00:26:01it's possible that i would kiss him or not i would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the
00:26:07first time
00:26:10honestly speaking we will both enjoy with each other but i'm worried regarding with molly
00:26:18that she would say bad things to me so i'm trying to get rid of my nervousness especially meeting the
00:26:26first time with the love of your life it's once in a lifetime so why not enjoy with it
00:26:41what's happening
00:26:51for us this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl yeah but she's not just any
00:26:58girl
00:27:03thank you
00:27:04all right
00:27:24after 30 hours of being on an airplane i finally made it to the philippines
00:27:30i'm feeling ecstatic i feel like i drank like six energy drinks
00:27:39where's mom mom
00:27:42what just in the middle there's my passport in there right i don't know
00:27:53great choice though it's in the ground yes i have a check-in flight and it landed
00:28:02but i'm also worried since he's not texting me
00:28:08i'm really calm
00:28:14here's
00:28:15guys with your impression you're gonna need your passport please get through here
00:28:18i don't know i left them somewhere oh my god
00:28:22nice what are we doing now i don't know deb look
00:28:27stop oh my god
00:28:37i'm starting to fall more in love with trish but i think it's important that we're completely
00:28:43transparent with each other and i wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly
00:28:51you were doing for those five days and why you weren't in contact with me
00:29:31i was really tired from what we did
00:29:42so was it everything you expected it to be even more
00:29:50yesterday night we had sex two times
00:29:56he's older and i didn't think like he can do all of the stuff he did to me like for
00:30:03the second rounds it was oh my god
00:30:23you're good yeah you're here wow so this is the market
00:30:31i only gave trish a little sample of what i could do i have some more tricks up my sleeve
00:30:38if it were up to me i'd just stay at the hotel all day but this is our first day
00:30:43in madagascar
00:30:44together and trish wants to take me to explore her city what is that fried fish right there yeah
00:30:50this is so different from anywhere i've ever been in my life
00:30:55today i want to show him everything around in antona narivu
00:31:03first i'm taking him to the market and i like kelly
00:31:09the butcher shop right here huh
00:31:14and they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration
00:31:21yeah big face yeah oh my god what is that baby what is that that's the stomach of the cow
00:31:29that's the stomach yeah yeah and then is this also like intestines or what yes
00:31:35i think i see a heart over there yeah let's see it oh my god i'm feeling like trish deceived
00:31:43me i mean this
00:31:44is our first date all this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this
00:31:49morning
00:31:51so this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat
00:31:54oh you know we'll see that in my culture we eat everything we don't waste something in the in the
00:32:04cow
00:32:05oh my god even the feet the head and testing the heart liver everything
00:32:13break it's just food relax baby i i know that's not a brain right it's rain
00:32:21would you eat that of course well baby don't put that in those stew that you cook for me please
00:32:30don't
00:32:44see you
00:32:44oh i hope somebody's gonna enjoy it wow what a view you can see all maragascar here wow i can
00:32:55see the whole
00:32:55eye in there yeah oh my gosh
00:33:08oh
00:33:21like this
00:33:52I know how to tap dance, but this is not tap dance.
00:33:55This is something foreign to me.
00:33:56I've never seen this style of dance before, but I'm realizing that there's a lot that
00:34:01I don't know about Trish just from talking to her over the phone.
00:34:04Like she's an amazing dancer.
00:34:07I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:11All right.
00:34:16Every minute I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important
00:34:21that I get to know her better and that we're completely transparent with each other.
00:34:27Wow.
00:34:28That was something.
00:34:29Was that your traditional dance?
00:34:31No, that's not mine.
00:34:32I just dance like that.
00:34:35You like it?
00:34:37Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:38The name of the place is Rufa.
00:34:41Rufa.
00:34:42Rufa.
00:34:42That means a palace.
00:34:45Oh.
00:34:46Okay.
00:34:46Now, where's the palace?
00:34:47It's there.
00:34:48Oh, that's the palace.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:49Yeah.
00:34:50It's beautiful.
00:34:52Oh, I'm tired even.
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:57This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:59I'm having such a great time with you.
00:35:04But, you know, there's some things that I want to talk to you about.
00:35:09So, I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days and why
00:35:20you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:24I already told you, like, you wanna, you want me to explain to you everything that happened.
00:35:30You know that all of these things that you're telling me, you know, kind of sounds unbelievable in a way.
00:35:39I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.
00:35:45I promise, I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
00:36:01You sent him money, right?
00:36:04Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:36:08My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:36:12She's in so much debt.
00:36:14I think this topic needs to be over, because this is ridiculous.
00:36:18Done.
00:36:31Now we got entertainment.
00:36:34Uh-oh.
00:36:36And we have fire.
00:36:38We can drive.
00:36:39What we gonna do?
00:36:40Gonna break that heat.
00:36:41What we gonna do?
00:36:42Gonna break that heat.
00:36:44Sell the competition.
00:36:45Oh, go for it, babe.
00:36:46What we gonna do?
00:36:48Gonna break that heat.
00:36:48Sell the competition.
00:36:49Oh, okay.
00:36:50I can do it.
00:36:52Oh, that was so close.
00:36:55I'm ready to go.
00:36:57Let me try.
00:36:58That was way over my head.
00:37:00That was on you.
00:37:01That was on you.
00:37:02That was on you.
00:37:04I love you.
00:37:04I'll give you a good one.
00:37:06Hold it like a baseball.
00:37:07Oh, my God.
00:37:08Bye.
00:37:10That looks delicious.
00:37:13What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:15Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:18He's always eating rice.
00:37:20Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:22I don't know.
00:37:23I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:25Where are you going?
00:37:27I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:29Wow.
00:37:30Why?
00:37:31I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet for the very first time.
00:37:36Oh, my goodness.
00:37:38Wow, congratulations.
00:37:39Good for you.
00:37:41But it's crazy.
00:37:42Is it not crazy?
00:37:43Yeah, it's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:44I would agree.
00:37:46But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:48So go for it, I say.
00:37:52I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time in just a few days.
00:37:57I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:59I must be insane.
00:38:00I really must be.
00:38:03I'm very, very nervous.
00:38:05So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter Faith and my friend,
00:38:09Juna.
00:38:11Oh, my.
00:38:12There's a volcano.
00:38:13Here it comes.
00:38:15I love TG Train.
00:38:16Woo!
00:38:18Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:20I swear to God, if she was a lesbian, Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:26Juna knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships.
00:38:30And she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:33I'm hoping this is finally more happy every year.
00:38:36I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:37What?
00:38:38That this is my happily ever after?
00:38:39Yes.
00:38:40This is the last time.
00:38:43My issue is she's saying it's the last one, as she said every other time, which we know.
00:38:48Right.
00:38:48He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:51He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:53He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:57It's a good thing that he's treating you well, but that's part of what concerns me.
00:39:02The love bomber right away.
00:39:05It's part of a romance scam.
00:39:09They go for single, and I don't mean this ever, older women who have been hurt and who are desperately
00:39:17looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments, all the love.
00:39:22Oh, stop.
00:39:24Hold on.
00:39:25Do I look like an old, vulnerable, searching for somebody, woman, on the internet?
00:39:33No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.
00:39:37But you sent him money, right?
00:39:40Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:45Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:52Daniel works in construction.
00:39:54He makes very little money, and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:59I give Daniel money for food.
00:40:01I have bought him clothes.
00:40:04I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:40:08This is my generator.
00:40:11Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two, maybe three times.
00:40:16But I give Daniel money more for myself because I want to feel that he's safe, and I want to
00:40:22feel that he's secure.
00:40:24All I know is that within the first two months, you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:30And that was two months ago.
00:40:32So how much more is it now?
00:40:35I don't know.
00:40:38How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:41Does he not have a job?
00:40:44Yes, he has a job.
00:40:46But lately, he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and other things that he has caught.
00:40:52And that's not a red flag to you?
00:40:54He meets you and now, all of a sudden, he's getting sick all the time?
00:41:00My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:41:06She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:41:08She's in so much debt, and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:14You were telling me, has Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:18She has, haven't you?
00:41:20So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?
00:41:24You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:27But it hasn't been the amount that it has been.
00:41:30It's still bad.
00:41:33Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:36I see how happy she is.
00:41:38So I have given her money to send to him, and I gave Lisa the money for the visa to
00:41:46go to Nigeria.
00:41:47I do have some concerns, because if he's scamming her, then he's scamming me.
00:41:56This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:59It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:42:03It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:42:05And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:09Juna has talked to him. Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:15No, he doesn't. But, you know, texting and talking are different things.
00:42:25There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.
00:42:27That's fine, because I know things that are inside and out more than you do, because you're not in the
00:42:34relationship.
00:42:36And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:42You've said that every time.
00:42:47This has all been an emotional wreck, and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:51And it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:54And I think this topic needs to be over, because this is ridiculous.
00:42:58It always has to be over.
00:43:01I'm done.
00:43:03I'm done.
00:43:05I'm done.
00:43:20This might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl.
00:43:25We would say one burner.
00:43:27That means you have one partner.
00:43:30Never always been a one burner.
00:43:32I used to be full of gallo.
00:43:35I need to make some changes in my lifestyle.
00:43:37But I'm nervous to handle all that.
00:43:43This is crazy.
00:43:48I'm super excited, super nervous.
00:43:50This is probably just 34 minutes until I land.
00:43:55Let me rephrase that.
00:43:5834 minutes until me and the shrimp land.
00:44:02And they actually landed on my pants.
00:44:05I have greasy, smelly sauce all over me.
00:44:09The things I do for you today, the things I do.
00:44:12You're welcome.
00:44:19Now it's getting warm in here as the beat beat crack into the atmosphere.
00:44:24Come on, let's switch gears and the power stir and go.
00:44:27Let's go.
00:44:29So today, my girl is coming.
00:44:31I want to give her a Belizean welcome.
00:44:34Beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady.
00:44:38Today, I meet my girlfriend Aviva for the very first time in person.
00:44:47Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city.
00:44:50To my apartment.
00:44:52But she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in Belize City.
00:44:55Because I want a nice little romantic stay tonight.
00:44:59But hey, this looks a little kinky.
00:45:05I have butterflies.
00:45:07I feel like a kid again.
00:45:10This might be the start of the rest of my life.
00:45:13With Aviva.
00:45:14With one girl.
00:45:15We would say one burner.
00:45:18One burner.
00:45:19That means you have one partner.
00:45:23Never always been a one burner.
00:45:24I used to be full of gal.
00:45:26But I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle.
00:45:29So I can be the man that I've always envisioned.
00:45:32And I would be.
00:45:33I just want to hide in the covers.
00:45:35Play your place.
00:45:36Play your place.
00:45:37Anybody drive over?
00:45:38Yes, sir.
00:45:38All right.
00:45:41Aviva, Aviva.
00:45:42Minutes away from picking you up.
00:45:48I'm nervous.
00:45:51I'm about to meet my manzies.
00:45:56After two years of talking and six months of dating, I am finally meeting Stig for the first time.
00:46:02We're here.
00:46:03We made it.
00:46:05I am super, super nervous and it's making me nauseous.
00:46:16The flight just landed.
00:46:19I'm ready.
00:46:23What's going on, bro?
00:46:25Like a musical.
00:46:26I appreciate it, bro.
00:46:27You have the best music.
00:46:28I would say about subscribe to you.
00:46:29Yes, man.
00:46:30No, thanks, my bro.
00:46:31Blessings.
00:46:34The ladies.
00:46:38Hey, I am going to the bathroom to freshen up.
00:46:41I'm super nervous.
00:46:43I know he's outside waiting.
00:46:47I just want to make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me.
00:46:51I'm so tired and it's stressing me out.
00:46:57I know he's around beautiful women all the time.
00:47:01And deep down, there's things I'm worried about.
00:47:04I'm so nervous.
00:47:06My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just going to
00:47:14get crushed.
00:47:17Here we go.
00:47:18This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:22Ugh.
00:47:23I'm on the list.
00:47:30This is crazy.
00:47:35Oh my .
00:47:37I'm going to throw up.
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:44Yeah.
00:47:50Oh.
00:47:51Right.
00:47:52Oh my .
00:47:52Oh my.
00:47:52Oh.
00:47:52Oh, oh my .
00:47:53Everybody's here.
00:47:53I'm freaking scared.
00:47:56I am.
00:47:57Oh.
00:48:07You're looking more beautiful in person.
00:48:10No.
00:48:11Social media don't, nah, I ain't got nothin' on you.
00:48:17She's a good kisser, you know, it felt good.
00:48:20It felt natural, it felt good.
00:48:22It did.
00:48:23You're getting red.
00:48:24You're blushing.
00:48:25You're blushing.
00:48:26I love it.
00:48:29Aw, you're here.
00:48:31I know.
00:48:33You're very beautiful.
00:48:35You look really good, too.
00:48:36And I'm super happy.
00:48:38Love that little day.
00:48:44Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:46I had no idea.
00:48:47I know she's been in the gym a lot, but what?
00:48:49I like it.
00:48:52It was like, mmm.
00:48:55Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:59No way.
00:49:03Don't eat that, don't eat that.
00:49:05Please don't, just throw it away.
00:49:07You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so.
00:49:11I mean, I brought it.
00:49:13I brought it, it's here.
00:49:14It's a little.
00:49:15I bet.
00:49:16I'm a man of my word.
00:49:17Ask anybody, ask about me.
00:49:18Okay, okay.
00:49:20Ready?
00:49:22Let's go.
00:49:23Let me get that one for you.
00:49:24I love you.
00:49:26I love you.
00:49:27I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:31I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:36It was a very magical moment.
00:49:38He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:43Please throw this away now.
00:49:45No, no, no, no.
00:49:45I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:46You'll eat steak.
00:49:47We're throwing it away.
00:49:48It's going.
00:49:49It's going.
00:49:50It's going.
00:49:50It's gone.
00:49:51Steak is just making me feel really special, and I know I only just got here, but it just
00:49:57seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up that he hasn't been exclusive with just me seem
00:50:03a little silly and not true.
00:50:06You're actually here.
00:50:08I know.
00:50:09What are we going to do?
00:50:10Well.
00:50:11I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:17Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:22Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:50:32I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:50:39All right.
00:50:44You're welcome.
00:50:46Take care.
00:50:47I'm sure to ride.
00:50:49You too.
00:50:49Don't cry.
00:50:50Don't cry.
00:50:52Just be safe, okay?
00:51:01I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time,
00:51:06and I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:12Hey.
00:51:12Love you.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:20Bye.
00:51:23There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, and everyone that was
00:51:29naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:32But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks, and if I'm not willing to take a risk
00:51:38for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:52I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.
00:51:58And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents with
00:52:06a good smutty book with some really steamy moments.
00:52:18This is the best part.
00:52:21It's darkness, you know?
00:52:22It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:25He lightens the people around him, but he's the darkness himself.
00:52:30He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.
00:52:35I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:42I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:46I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:51I had the chance to have a professional career of a football player.
00:52:55I was on the training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee, and my AC had crashed.
00:53:04I know it was over.
00:53:06But I still play football for fun.
00:53:10You know, I love the game.
00:53:12You just have to keep moving and embrace the pain.
00:53:16I just like this.
00:53:18One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:26One shot!
00:53:29After I raptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know?
00:53:35Everything I dream of, and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:41And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.
00:53:46It was destiny.
00:53:50I met Laura in Snapchat.
00:53:54We started talking and joking around.
00:53:57She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:54:00She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:54:06That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:10I am in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:15It was about third or four weeks.
00:54:18I told her I love her.
00:54:20And now Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:26Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.
00:54:31I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose.
00:54:35I don't know yet.
00:54:37I'm waiting for just meaning.
00:54:44You are good.
00:54:45How are you?
00:54:45How do you feel?
00:54:47How are you?
00:54:48Memo and Yutuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:52I'm not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:57We didn't catch the stones.
00:55:00I saw the stones.
00:55:03What are you doing?
00:55:05Good. What are you doing?
00:55:07Laura will come tomorrow.
00:55:09But we will die.
00:55:13You are the first time.
00:55:15I've seen you the first time.
00:55:18I heard your voice in your conversation.
00:55:20Hello.
00:55:23But I didn't see you.
00:55:27How old was it?
00:55:2945.
00:55:3045.
00:55:32Do you know this problem?
00:55:35Do you think this problem?
00:55:35Do you think this problem?
00:55:35Do you think this problem?
00:55:37Do you think this problem is going to be 65?
00:55:40Do you think this problem is going to be more young?
00:55:45Do you know this problem?
00:55:50She's old.
00:55:52It's okay.
00:55:53Because I dated older woman before.
00:55:55The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand.
00:56:02You know, not childish.
00:56:05And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:09She looks young.
00:56:12No, look.
00:56:20It's okay.
00:56:20It doesn't know it.
00:56:20You are known but practically.
00:56:23She doesn't know it.
00:56:26She doesn't know it.
00:56:28But it doesn't know it.
00:56:30You not know it.
00:56:31You don't know it.
00:56:31She doesn't know it.
00:56:31You don't know it.
00:56:31good when my football career is over i opened up a couple businesses eventually everything
00:56:43is failed and i couldn't find the proper job she knows that i have some troubles but she
00:56:50doesn't know how much i know that's something that i should tell her but i don't know how
00:56:58she is going to react
00:57:52i'm not comfortable with this friendship she has and if she doesn't
00:57:58got michael all of her life i don't know this relationship is going to work
00:58:08i'm supposed to be your cop now i thought that you were with somebody else
00:58:13now that we're face to face i feel like i can see the truth in her eyes i didn't tell
00:58:19you everything
00:58:20but um oh man i'm scared now
00:58:31i'm done
00:58:33i'm done
00:58:46hey you okay i can't i can't now i'm gonna get out of her i don't know what to do
00:58:53at this point
00:58:54because it always ends up being a thought every time i've tried she voiced my opinion she doesn't
00:59:03want to talk about me she doesn't want to hear me or she told me i'm not allowed to feel
00:59:09that way
00:59:10and see if we can find her see if we can fix this
00:59:25hey let me talk to you for a minute i really don't want to no look at me look at
00:59:31me please look at me
00:59:34i love daniel and i know that you're worried that i'm in another bad relationship and things are
00:59:39going to go sour and you're trying to save me from that but i don't want you to feel like
00:59:44you're being
00:59:44second choice i will always choose you before somebody else look at me i will you said do not
00:59:50marry daniel while i'm in nigeria i promise you with the bottom of my heart i am not marrying daniel
00:59:56while i'm in nigeria i'm not just give me the opportunity to do this if you break this promise
01:00:04i'm not going to break this promise if you break this promise again i can't do this no because that
01:00:12would be toxic and i'm not a toxic person anymore okay so just please give me a hug i really
01:00:19need
01:00:19some space right now okay i'll do that this was an awful lot for her today
01:00:34i have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child when she was
01:00:39little but at that time i was searching for who i was i want to show her that this is
01:00:48different i'm
01:00:49i'm a grown up i'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child and
01:00:54have
01:00:54a relationship after relationship i want my happily ever after i want this to be forever
01:01:03and fake doesn't see that yet
01:01:14can i talk to you for a minute
01:01:21i'm trying to understand your feelings and i'm trying to not fight about it is your biggest fear
01:01:27that i'm going to marry him without you knowing him and that i'm going to choose him over you
01:01:34you never listen i'm telling you to think about us first
01:01:45listen i'm understand your point of view i'm listening to you and i'm going there to get to
01:01:51know him better i'm going there to see if we are compatible i'm not going there just to
01:01:55run off and get married i'm listening to your concerns and i am going to voice them
01:02:01i promise you i will okay can i have a hug now okay come here i love you i will
01:02:09start listening better
01:02:11i'm proud of everything you do you are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring
01:02:16and you have been good to your mother regardless of what i've put you through and i'm proud of you
01:02:22and i will listen to you more okay all right i understand where faith is coming from and i understand
01:02:30that she has been down this road with past relationships over and over again i i hold her
01:02:37opinion deeply in my heart but i think daniel's different i think he's the real deal i think he's
01:02:44a very precious man who is very rare and i would be a fool not to go after him
01:02:52can we go home now
01:03:05you're welcome welcome
01:03:07sig is everything i thought you would be he looks super good there is definitely some chemistry
01:03:13you but that's a bit scary i mean i definitely want to respect your lifestyle and i don't want
01:03:20to be super jealous or crazy but i hope that you haven't been seeing other people
01:03:27just breathe you got this you're a man she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with
01:03:34each
01:03:34other and i'm hoping my mom will not fight with sheena i just don't know how to feel on this
01:03:40whole
01:03:40situation yeah there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed
01:04:00it's your boy no way i love it
01:04:07celebrities that is okay
01:04:11can i take a picture of it yeah sure lovely lovely girl
01:04:19you know you can change the world
01:04:26so where are we going i don't even know where we're going i don't know
01:04:30i don't know you don't know no i don't yes the driver you know where we're going the driver's
01:04:33just taking us you don't know where we're going either whatever i don't know but i can't tell you
01:04:37you know we're going to spend the night in villa city at a hotel tomorrow we're going to go to
01:04:43the islands i do have a show out on the islands okay um some new songs i'm excited to perform
01:04:50those
01:04:50i'm excited i kill it you know okay a lot of people are going to be there yep are you
01:04:55ready to
01:04:56be there are you ready for that i'm nervous i do want to be there even of course i want
01:05:01to
01:05:01do okay i know stig can't stop working while i'm here i would never ask him to do that but
01:05:12i'm
01:05:13really shocked to hear that i'm seeing stig perform already in just a couple days
01:05:19we're here
01:05:22i've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having him interact with
01:05:28fans in front of me and now i'm going to be thrusted into it right away and it's a bit
01:05:34scary
01:05:36hey welcome welcome i'll leave you here for now
01:05:42so we'll have an extra prize for you okay since you said that you love the flower i got you
01:05:47some
01:05:48more flowers oh well they're so pretty thank you this was to show you that you're my one and only
01:05:53you're ready and this is to show some gratitude that you're here oh thank you i like them they're
01:05:59so pretty check them out stig is everything i thought you would be he looks super good there is
01:06:06definitely some chemistry what are you gonna do with those come on over you we've been touching each
01:06:13other kissing each other so i hope the night continues on sexually let's get comfy that sounds good to me
01:06:25i'm attracted to her even more known person but i'm a gentleman i'm not gonna just push up on her
01:06:31and
01:06:32try to get some the first night we'll see how it goes i'm gonna let it play out the way
01:06:37it should play
01:06:39i'm gonna get more comfy so what about you at that a flower sorry it's not a rose what is
01:06:48it
01:06:48there's a rose what are you gonna get steak on your forehead could get it only if you get aviva
01:06:55there
01:06:57leave my ass and i have aviva big on my neck or something same how do you think i would
01:07:01feel i'm gonna
01:07:05unless you make me leave you what what would make you want to leave me oh that's a good question
01:07:12if
01:07:12you um you can't understand what i do for work and how i you know my lifestyle because of what
01:07:19i do and
01:07:20who i am yeah i mean i definitely want to respect your lifestyle and i don't want to be super
01:07:25jealous
01:07:26or crazy but but i also want to be like respected too just like i hope that you haven't
01:07:34been seeing other people because i feel like we've been talking seriously but
01:07:40why are you rolling eyes like that i don't know because like you don't trust me oh you don't trust
01:07:45me
01:07:45i mean i know your lifestyle there's a lot of beautiful women around you always so they're not
01:07:51you don't okay mr charmer oh i got to okay i do have one more thing for you that's not
01:08:07spilled chinese food okay yeah steak makes me feel really comfortable he just knows the exact right
01:08:15thing to say and steak and i just feel right together it's just a spark a connection a happiness
01:08:24all wrapped together with a bow i don't know how to explain it
01:08:35hi hi hi
01:08:44that's how you feel
01:09:00Yes, man. That is it. She's fine as s**t.
01:09:08I will be soon.
01:09:11Aviva just might be the one.
01:09:13But I don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:09:18Sometimes girls go on stage dance on me.
01:09:21You know, girls be in my DMs. Some pretty girls.
01:09:24I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:09:27She said she will, but we'll see.
01:09:34Oh, oh, oh, oh.
01:09:39All right.
01:09:40My mom lost her passport.
01:09:42Left it on the airplane.
01:09:45But we found it.
01:09:47Shut it up.
01:09:48Figured it out.
01:09:49Shut it up.
01:09:50Here we go.
01:10:00He's texting me.
01:10:02He's already here.
01:10:04Feeling so happy and floating.
01:10:08Enlightened feeling.
01:10:11All right. Here we go.
01:10:14I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom.
01:10:17Yeah.
01:10:17Go ahead.
01:10:17Oh, man. I got to find it.
01:10:18I'll see you in a minute.
01:10:19This way.
01:10:21Oh, man.
01:10:23I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:10:25Yeah.
01:10:26It's just, I mean, I think that I have these ideas of what I want to say,
01:10:30because the emotions get there, the feelings get there.
01:10:34Settle down, Molly. Settle down.
01:10:43Just breathe.
01:10:44This is going to be good.
01:10:47Everything's going to be at peace.
01:10:49You got this.
01:10:50You got this.
01:10:51You're the man.
01:10:52Keep moving forward.
01:10:54My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
01:10:58She sent text messages to Sheena that made her really upset and hurt.
01:11:05So, I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:11:10Woo!
01:11:11Hey, Mom.
01:11:12Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other,
01:11:15and I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:11:20You look good.
01:11:20Let's get this mixed up a little bit.
01:11:23Here, let me get this.
01:11:25There you go.
01:11:26You look good.
01:11:27Are you ready?
01:11:28Yeah, I'm ready.
01:11:29This is your moment, okay?
01:11:33I'm so nervous.
01:11:41Let's do this thing.
01:11:43Here it comes.
01:11:43You got this.
01:11:44You will do fine.
01:11:45You tell her hello.
01:11:46You say...
01:11:47Well, just do whatever you feel.
01:11:49Okay.
01:11:49Go for us.
01:11:50You got this.
01:11:51Go for us.
01:11:52Go.
01:11:53Go.
01:11:53I love you guys.
01:12:05Oh, my goodness.
01:12:06I love you guys.
01:12:21No, no.
01:12:24Oh, no.
01:12:27No, no.
01:12:44Our journey is about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:49I love you, too.
01:12:50Oh, I love you.
01:12:56Meeting you, and getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:13:01My everything.
01:13:03My everything.
01:13:04Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:06Sheena.
01:13:07Oh, I'm so happy, baby.
01:13:09You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:11I love you.
01:13:13It feels like heaven.
01:13:15It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:19I love you.
01:13:21Sheena, can I give you a kiss?
01:13:24Sure.
01:13:29Oh, this is so wonderful.
01:13:32Kissing you, it was ecstatic.
01:13:37She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:40Actually, I put some a lot of flavor, like, flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:45Oh, I know you're going to love it.
01:13:46Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:47I think I got it all over me.
01:13:48Oh, really?
01:13:49Yeah.
01:13:52I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:57I want us to be a big family.
01:14:00Hi, mom.
01:14:03Hi.
01:14:15Too hot to be crying, Boris.
01:14:17I know.
01:14:18I'm having a thing as you.
01:14:22Oh, boy.
01:14:23Seen Sheena cry, seen Boris cry.
01:14:26And then the big trigger was just death.
01:14:29And then, ah, it was the water works.
01:14:31You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:32You're okay, okay?
01:14:34I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:39I don't cry very often.
01:14:41And right there, I couldn't hold it back, you know.
01:14:44Kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:46I'm sorry.
01:14:48I completely apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:51Well, thank you for apologizing.
01:14:54But let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:56Yes.
01:14:56Because we're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:59We are all together, right?
01:15:01I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:15:02It's been like a family.
01:15:04We're family now.
01:15:06We're family.
01:15:07You're with family now, Sheen.
01:15:11Seeing her face to face with him, face to face with me.
01:15:15This whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:17I love you, my Sheen.
01:15:18I love baby bands.
01:15:20And you got the softest lips ever.
01:15:22Oh, really?
01:15:23And you taste like candy.
01:15:26But apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked about before we can proceed.
01:15:36That's just how I see it.
01:15:42I would call you, you would press decline, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:15:49I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:55During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I had made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:16:03What did you do?
01:16:15I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:35Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt.
01:16:44About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life, and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's
01:16:52call.
01:16:54He was really, really upset, and he caused a huge problem for us.
01:17:01Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:17:05Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:07Yeah.
01:17:07And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:09Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:11Like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:17And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:25Oh, man.
01:17:27I scared him.
01:17:29After my ex-boyfriend got robbed, my brother got an accident.
01:17:35He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:39We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic, and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:46We're paying for his food and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:51Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:56Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:59I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:18:02You would press decline.
01:18:04I didn't press decline.
01:18:06Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:07I didn't pick up.
01:18:08And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:12I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:16I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:19I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there,
01:18:25because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:28I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:30We have to work together.
01:18:32I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:33So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:38Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:41I don't believe.
01:18:42Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:44Maybe you will judge me, but yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:56I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much,
01:19:00but it's different now, because I see you.
01:19:03I see who you are.
01:19:05So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:12You okay?
01:19:20I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:24Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:29I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:33What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:39But now that we're face-to-face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes,
01:19:45and I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:51Here she is going through all these things,
01:19:54and instead of being there for her,
01:19:57I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:20:00What did you do?
01:20:08During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days,
01:20:12I talked to my ex from Colombia,
01:20:17and she said that, you know,
01:20:19why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:22I'm missing you.
01:20:23And so, you know, I decided to book a trip
01:20:28and go spend time with her.
01:20:34Even though Trish started talking to me again in my heart,
01:20:38I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:40And so I still went to Colombia.
01:20:44My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:47We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:51Did you have sex?
01:20:52We had sex all the time, the whole time,
01:20:57multiple times a day, every day.
01:21:00I feel bad for that.
01:21:04So I know that I need to tell her.
01:21:06But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:12And, uh, it might be the end of us.
01:21:20Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:23This is it?
01:21:24I can't believe I can't believe I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:27I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:29But I am nervous.
01:21:31BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:35Oh, my God, here we go.
01:21:42I love Lisa.
01:21:44She's thick.
01:21:45She has boobs.
01:21:47But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:51We don't accept that.
01:22:09We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:11Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:13I've never even met my wife yet.
01:22:16This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:18Oh, okay.
01:22:21Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:24He said that?
01:22:26No, we have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:31Okay?
01:22:34Did you guys do the old nookin' nookin'?
01:22:40You're pushing too far.
01:22:41It's in the right time or place.
01:22:44Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
01:22:48Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:54You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:59Like, the pieces aren't lining up.
01:23:06I don't like that we were fighting yesterday.
01:23:09But there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:14What? What is this? What's happened?
01:23:17I really want to tell Ziyad about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could
01:23:23move forward.
01:23:27No.
01:23:27I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:30I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
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