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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 05: Nearest Exit May Be Behind You
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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Good night.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40You can meet her.
00:01:42I'll go with energy, homer.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it here.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
00:02:06It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still doesn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on and I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:29I'm gonna break the rules so...
00:02:32I'm gonna break the rules so...
00:02:33I'm gonna break the rules so...
00:02:34I'm gonna break the rules so...
00:02:37I'm gonna break the rules so...
00:02:42Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh, yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want.
00:02:45Then we can haggle, okay?
00:02:47How do we go?
00:02:48How do we go?
00:02:49How do we go?
00:02:57Hey, Shin.
00:02:58Yeah?
00:02:58What do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:09I've been in the Philippines for a couple days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Shina every day is amazing.
00:03:19Thank you, thank you.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:24Well, I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her, it's just something
00:03:35I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh.
00:03:47Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:48Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:53I'm sorry, I'm a giant man.
00:03:54Oh, yes.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Shina was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:03it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:12Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15If you have a t-shirt, you can use a shirt.
00:04:17I'm going 2X.
00:04:182X?
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:21She won 5X.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen in my life.
00:04:48Wow.
00:04:49You look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:52You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54Hey, it's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:56See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Yeah.
00:05:00Oh.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts
00:05:05and a pair of on days on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:09But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines,
00:05:33it's been kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:42So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents
00:05:58and not actually saving anything.
00:05:59I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing we can do.
00:06:28It's time to be independent.
00:06:30It's time to be strong.
00:06:31And I'm going to be behind you and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that,
00:06:52sorry, we don't have that much money, but we're trying to stay because you have a lot of plans for
00:06:57us.
00:06:58And I will have to move with you to the U.S.
00:07:01Just show them that you are a very sincere person, what kind of person you are.
00:07:06Because in my culture, parents are the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So, if my parents would approve then, it would be much easier for just to have a better future for
00:07:23us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So, now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically numbered
00:08:01with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about,
00:08:12what if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents?
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion,
00:08:26then things doesn't apply to work.
00:08:33So, you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:40I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right.
00:08:51But my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom out of
00:09:09the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena.
00:09:12And I believe that this is just going to make things worse.
00:09:15And I'm scared.
00:09:23My titties hurt.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat that's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be done with my
00:09:37titties because they're hurting.
00:10:04Today is my big day.
00:10:06My girlfriend is coming.
00:10:09So that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16I barely slept last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Hawaii.
00:10:22That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of, you know, kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa booked a hotel for she and I to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes.
00:10:40Oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:28years.
00:11:28Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruition.
00:11:35I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:45But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:57Oh, touchdown.
00:12:07Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:14Oh, my God.
00:12:20I have been so desperate.
00:12:22So eager to see her.
00:12:25Edward's son is ready to wake up the love of my heart.
00:12:30The love of my love.
00:12:33I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane,
00:12:43and my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:48Oh, my god.
00:12:54Freshly acoustic hand.
00:12:56I have boob sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have boob sweat.
00:13:01I'm gonna wash my crotch area, so I don't
00:13:03want to stink down here either.
00:13:12I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:17I think he's going to be as handsome as ever,
00:13:20and I think he's going to look at me and say, oh, my god,
00:13:22she's older than I thought she was, because everything
00:13:25with this heat, I can't camouflage anything.
00:13:29And my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:34Oh, my god.
00:13:35It was such a long flat.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video,
00:13:48I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just
00:13:55where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:08In a few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:17I will see.
00:14:29I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to Faye?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:44What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:46Dude, I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here. I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
00:15:04All right, here we go.
00:15:17What's she taking a deep breath for, man?
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:30Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:40It's hard for you to have a child like that.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:46Okay.
00:15:47The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:15:55my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:20The only time you're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:29Call it a love, hey, baby.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:36You're driving me.
00:16:37All right.
00:16:38Love you, too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:50Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today is the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need
00:17:28to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41Can't wait to see her.
00:18:06Can't wait to see me.
00:18:08Let me see your future.
00:18:16Oh, OMG.
00:18:19Cute.
00:18:21Sexy.
00:18:23Oh, look.
00:18:26Hey, Juvon, it's me, your wifey.
00:18:42I'm Annalyn, and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines.
00:18:48I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative, but there's also a hard-working part of me as
00:18:58well.
00:18:59I went to university and I studied mass communication because I like talking, sometimes a lot.
00:19:08But I decided to stop working full-time because Juvon and I are on opposite time zones.
00:19:15So I have to change my sleep schedule.
00:19:19And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job.
00:19:24Thankfully, Juvon sends me $400 to $500 once a month.
00:19:30Ma! Ma!
00:19:31Tignan!
00:19:32Buksan mo ko, yung gate.
00:19:34Uh-uh.
00:19:34Ha?
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other.
00:19:40And she has a small store.
00:19:44Ma, may mga binili ako. Tignan mo.
00:19:46Ano yan? Patingin?
00:19:49I feel like we're more like best friends.
00:19:52But she's a very timid, shy woman.
00:19:55And I'm more like...
00:19:57Yeah!
00:19:58Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:20:02Hmm, this horse, I'm fine.
00:20:05Ha, ha, ha.
00:20:05Kailangan ko ng pandag-dag ng height.
00:20:08Kasi si Juvon mataas yung height difference namin.
00:20:13Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:20:13Ha, ha, ha.
00:20:15Ha, ha, ha.
00:20:15Nagbuk ako kasi sa...
00:20:17Sa Missybis.
00:20:18Missybis Bay.
00:20:19Hi!
00:20:20Wow.
00:20:22Tomorrow morning, I'm traveling to Beagle to meet Juvon.
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon.
00:20:31This will be the first time that we get to spend time together physically.
00:20:36And intimacy wise, we'll be able to discover a lot more about each other.
00:20:41So, yeah, good luck to us.
00:20:45Ha, ha, ha.
00:20:48Grabe excited na ako, Mama.
00:20:50Pedyo kinakabahan din ako.
00:20:52Hmm.
00:20:53Kasi ang tagal...
00:20:54Ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to.
00:20:56Kasi nga nandito na...
00:20:57Ma, anim na taon na, ano?
00:20:59Grabe, anim na taon.
00:21:00Bala ko nga, hindi na mangyayaring darating yun.
00:21:04Six years na yan.
00:21:07Umikot na lang ang buong buhay mo, ang mundo mo sa kanya.
00:21:10Nakakahintay ang mga tawag niya.
00:21:13Hindi ka na nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos.
00:21:17Hindi ka na nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo.
00:21:21Mahirap kayo pag masdan mo ang anak mong ganyan.
00:21:26Ang alam ko, may tampuhan kayo ni Juvon.
00:21:29Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:32Technically, hindi pa talaga namin nasusog fully yung problem.
00:21:41Naisip ko, magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay.
00:21:46Lalo na sa first time meeting namin.
00:21:48Saka ako na lang siya ididiscuss later on.
00:21:53Juvon and I had a fight recently because he told me that he's been talking to this woman that he
00:21:59used to have feelings for.
00:22:02Even though we talk about it, I feel like he still doesn't understand why it feels like a betrayal to
00:22:10me.
00:22:11But at the same time, Juvon and I have some problems that are way, way worse than this.
00:22:19Natutunan ko dito sa relasyon na ito, hindi siya madali.
00:22:23Hindi siya para sa mga marupok.
00:22:27Ikaw, ano ka eh? Madali kang mainis.
00:22:30At sya kanda siya yung luminanti si.
00:22:34Juvon ang gusto niya siyang masusunod.
00:22:39Juvon and I have a lot of struggles and at times we fight a lot.
00:22:43Juvon thinks I changed, but how I see it is that he's the one that really changed.
00:22:52What happened was, after we got married, he started watching podcasts about masculinity and stuff.
00:23:02They teach the man to find women that's soft, feminine and submissive.
00:23:09Suddenly, you have this idea in your head that I should be like this as a woman.
00:23:13Like, what the hell?
00:23:15We were not like this before.
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to change me to a person that I'm not.
00:23:22He thinks that even if I don't agree with him, I should just be quiet.
00:23:27And I'm a type of woman that I just don't agree, I question things.
00:23:33Atay yung gumagawa ng kapalara natin. Ito yung pinili ko eh.
00:23:37So, kailangan kong panindigan.
00:23:40Pakasal ka nga. Wala naman siya dito.
00:23:45I love Juvon and I know he loves me, but my biggest fear is Juvon will come here and we
00:23:54can't get along.
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend, I'm meeting a husband.
00:24:00I can't just, you know, give off after everything I did for six years.
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues and we fight the whole time, what am I gonna do?
00:24:14Sana lang patutunguhan yung kahintay mo sa kanya sa loob ng habang taon.
00:24:41How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest, I was really frustrated, disappointed, because I went to bed alone.
00:25:01When I got here, there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward, like we were not sure what
00:25:08to say.
00:25:10And it, I internalized those things.
00:25:13And so, last night, I decided to go out into the living room and see if I could have a
00:25:21little bit of a conversation with Bearcon.
00:25:24I felt really disconnected that whole first day.
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking, oh, my worst fear that he's just not attracted to me in person has
00:25:39just come true.
00:25:42It didn't.
00:25:44Yeah. We ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:25:49Good times.
00:25:53We have time to explore this further as we get to know each other better.
00:26:00But, you know, I am still kind of feeling a little, like, unsure about the situation because he decided to
00:26:07put the brakes on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried because we have some things to do later today that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:29More rain.
00:26:31Yeah. God loves us.
00:26:34I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:36We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:40I think this is where we're going.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:26:54my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:27:00Hi.
00:27:00Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:02Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Please take a seat.
00:27:06Okay.
00:27:06Okay. Thank you.
00:27:07Before I came to Turkey, I had been researching skin removal surgery, and Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately, I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:22But, unfortunately, the only appointment they had was for today.
00:27:29This is so awkward.
00:27:32Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:35So, you want me to come inside with you, or you want to do it alone?
00:27:42If you want to come, you can.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:45A few weeks ago, I asked Bjorkan to come with me because I kind of want to see how our
00:27:51future could look together as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:27:56But now I kind of think it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night, I am still feeling insecure about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:12Laura thinks too much about her appearance.
00:28:16It is a curse that you always try to be perfect, but nobody is perfect.
00:28:24If you ask me, I'm happy with my teeth because it is my teeth.
00:28:27I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:29So, who cares?
00:28:30But this is her body, and she's not happy with that.
00:28:34That's why I support her.
00:28:36Hi.
00:28:37You must be Laura.
00:28:38I am.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:39Nice to meet you.
00:28:39You come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:41Please, take your seats.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:44So, I'm Dr. Amar.
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:49I have recently lost 140 pounds, and so I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking
00:28:57to have removed.
00:28:58Which areas bothers you the most?
00:29:00Mainly in my stomach area.
00:29:02It's my least competent spot.
00:29:05Uh-huh.
00:29:06So, I will take you to the studio.
00:29:08Okay.
00:29:08For some pictures, if it's okay for you.
00:29:10That's fine.
00:29:10And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:13Okay.
00:29:13I love that.
00:29:13And we can figure out a treatment plan for you.
00:29:16I love that.
00:29:16Alright.
00:29:16Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready.
00:29:22Okay.
00:29:22I will come in.
00:29:23Alright.
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:32I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish.
00:29:38I just wanted to touch.
00:29:40You can't blame me, guys.
00:29:48I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Perfect.
00:29:52This is going to be enough for me.
00:29:54Okay.
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer?
00:29:57Perfect.
00:29:57Okay.
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down.
00:30:01A little bit more.
00:30:02Okay.
00:30:02Yeah, this is an area that I want to look at.
00:30:06Yeah, I got it.
00:30:06I got it.
00:30:07Okay.
00:30:08Perfect.
00:30:08No.
00:30:09Nothing is seen.
00:30:11Perfect.
00:30:12Alright.
00:30:14Okay.
00:30:15Just a few pictures.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:17And it will be over.
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that.
00:30:21Thank you very much.
00:30:23Good.
00:30:27This part as fast as possible.
00:30:34I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:41Perfect.
00:30:42Same thing to the other side.
00:30:45I have worked my ass off literally and figuratively.
00:30:50And the fact that I still have the loose skin has been really hard.
00:30:56Thank you very much.
00:30:56That's great.
00:30:58When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:14So, the problem at the tummy part is actually really common after losing so much weight.
00:31:24Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:28Mm-hmm.
00:31:32So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:31:37Mm-hmm.
00:31:37We should cut vertically.
00:31:41I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws and project
00:31:50them for everyone to see like that.
00:31:53I am immediately regretting having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:07This is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:12It's awful.
00:32:19So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:32:32It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:32:47Hello.
00:32:50How are you?
00:32:51Salam.
00:32:52Do you know where I can buy, like, hair oil?
00:32:54Like, to make my hair shiny?
00:32:57No, speak English.
00:32:59Oh.
00:33:00Excuse me?
00:33:01Do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:04No, not like hair oil.
00:33:06Not spice.
00:33:07Down there?
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10Okay.
00:33:11Maybe here?
00:33:12No.
00:33:14No.
00:33:16Bags.
00:33:16Not oil.
00:33:19Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:22Here?
00:33:22Oh, really?
00:33:23Here?
00:33:23Perfect.
00:33:25Do you want tea or puppy?
00:33:26I love tea.
00:33:36We're going to be cooking today.
00:33:41Shokran.
00:33:42This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:33:44It's fine.
00:33:45It's just, it's for cover, your outfit, so you don't need...
00:33:50This morning, I took a walk through the Medina to try and clear my head.
00:33:55This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57Right now, I'm feeling really concerned about everything that's happened since I landed.
00:34:03Ziad's been very distant with me, emotionally and physically, the whole time that I've been
00:34:07here, and it's making me a little suspicious.
00:34:11I'm actually really excited for this.
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today, and I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:34:26And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:35Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:43Uh-huh.
00:34:46Can you tell me what she's saying?
00:34:48We start with lemon.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:53Oh, you peel it.
00:34:54Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:06She said you make it...
00:35:08Perfect.
00:35:09Perfect.
00:35:14Ooh.
00:35:15Can you try it?
00:35:17No.
00:35:19Careful, two fingers.
00:35:20Got it.
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:25I'm cooking.
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:26This is like real wife material.
00:35:29This is actually a lot of fun.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31I like this.
00:35:32I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you.
00:35:37I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:35:38You are cooking.
00:35:39You are cleaning.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:41No.
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Dinner lunch.
00:35:48How did you leave if you don't?
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:59For lunch, I can cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's, yeah, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:16It's sushi.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Aw, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25We don't meet in-house or, no.
00:36:28If you want to eat, we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to.
00:36:33So you don't eat in the house?
00:36:34No.
00:36:35Just for myself.
00:36:37Or for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco, Ziad mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad that Ziad finally told them.
00:37:04But I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:09I want to know more about him and understand him a little bit more.
00:37:12And I feel like meeting his family is the best way to do that.
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:19Uh, I don't know which time they will be free or they will be there.
00:37:26For example, my father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:37:33Maybe, yeah.
00:37:34That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:40It is, it is.
00:37:41Like, I'm not seeing your apartment.
00:37:42I'm not meeting your family.
00:37:44It is.
00:37:44Every one of my brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love and that I want to be with.
00:37:55It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me or hiding something about his life.
00:38:05And that's not okay.
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:11A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12No, no, no.
00:38:13The girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from, like, Europe or...?
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah.
00:38:36I know.
00:38:37I was matched with a loss, of course, but I don't talk.
00:38:40We don't, we didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight
00:38:54because I found out that he's still talking to a woman online.
00:38:57He told me that he wasn't cheating on me, but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
00:39:07And it shows you, in order, who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer, and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:39:25They're all from different countries.
00:39:27I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:39:31It feels like everything is hitting me all at once, and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me, or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:39:52I still really want to talk to your family.
00:39:55It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first.
00:40:00So they could have a better understanding.
00:40:03I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:08I need to be there with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest.
00:40:23For LAURA BU andapan of the Holocaust.
00:40:24This is Callow.
00:40:25So this is the area where there's a lot of, you know, um, street clubs.
00:40:31Mhm.
00:40:33That's somethin' we're gonna have to do, you guys.
00:40:35I don't need to see that. All I need is my find.
00:40:39Forrest.
00:40:39It's not the point of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things.
00:40:47I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:40:52I don't even go to those in the States.
00:40:55On my construction job, that was our lunch,
00:40:58because they cooked the best hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was amateur day.
00:41:03Oh, man.
00:41:13Look at that tree coming right out of the wall.
00:41:15That's me, man.
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday forced me to reevaluate
00:41:21how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:41:24And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first
00:41:27without my mom and dad.
00:41:29So what other things are in, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural rules.
00:41:33So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:41:37It's like a Spanish piece.
00:41:39Oh, man.
00:41:39I just have such a thing for history,
00:41:42because you have to learn from history.
00:41:44Yes.
00:41:45Because history repeats itself.
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen
00:41:50if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:41:56I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now
00:42:04that her family is trying to get the hooks into me.
00:42:06Like, I'm going to go the first day,
00:42:08and they're just going to set me down.
00:42:09They're going to open up my brain,
00:42:11and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice
00:42:13directly into my soul.
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail
00:42:18to allow herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are at the intramuros.
00:42:25Whoo!
00:42:28So this, you can see, it's like a garrison for Spanish governors.
00:42:33For all the important guys.
00:42:35Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era, yes.
00:42:39Mostly like 1600s.
00:42:40That is neat.
00:42:42Hey, mom, look at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's good stuff here.
00:42:45Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to see?
00:42:47It's so beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:49You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore.
00:42:51Yeah.
00:42:51You can see the constructions, the variation.
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time
00:42:56is we'll look at a rock, and we say,
00:43:00you know, imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's credit, she really is making the effort
00:43:15to show us the best of her country.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yeah.
00:43:19Hard.
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably a thousand years.
00:43:21I don't know.
00:43:22Yeah, you could try to open.
00:43:23Maybe something will pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to open it.
00:43:26But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena
00:43:29the other night like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats.
00:43:35Mom and her hats.
00:43:37Yeah, that's what it look like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey.
00:43:39That's perfect.
00:43:41I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:43:44Yeah.
00:43:45Oh, oh.
00:43:45You look so handsome.
00:43:46But we're just sitting here, stirring in the pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:43:53And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:43:58There.
00:43:59There.
00:44:00That's there.
00:44:01There.
00:44:02That's the monkey's walk.
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:06All right.
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:08Oh, God.
00:44:10This is all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes.
00:44:17Thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:44:24Mm-hmm.
00:44:25But there's still one little piece of the puzzle, and that's with your family.
00:44:32So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:44:39Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents,
00:44:52and how it's important that I meet them before Mom and Dad meet them.
00:44:57So, Mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family, but we would
00:45:03really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:07Forrest.
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:45:18I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:45:24If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do, with the whole tradition and the first
00:45:32oldest daughter thing,
00:45:34and that we're broke, then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:45I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:45:53Just, we will come in and say our greetings. Hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming, I promise.
00:46:02And so, I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:15Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there.
00:46:18We want you to be there. We just want you to go the next day.
00:46:23Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things, but we live in reality,
00:46:31okay?
00:46:32And in reality, you are a very hardcore person.
00:46:36You know you are going to go and look for anything to be said.
00:46:43And I'm an adult. You need to treat me like an adult. I am not a child anymore.
00:46:49And you should be able to trust me and Sheena and our judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet. She has not trusted.
00:46:56This is the perfect opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust you now.
00:46:59This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest. He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:16This is total bull .
00:47:23Only moments away. This is so surreal.
00:47:27I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:47:29I have a feeling that we're going to have some communication problem again. I don't know.
00:47:38Come on. Bobby, where are you?
00:47:44Bobby!
00:47:47Wait...
00:47:48want via…
00:48:07Beautiful but classy.
00:48:11Whoo...
00:48:12Today is the day that I'm going to meet my...
00:48:16loving husband
00:48:18and I'm so excited.
00:48:20It's just so surreal.
00:48:26After being married for three years
00:48:28in a relationship for six years,
00:48:31I finally get to meet my husband
00:48:34in person for the first time.
00:48:37So crazy.
00:48:41Hi, hello, good morning.
00:48:43I'm finally picking up my husband.
00:48:45Could you please bring us some champagne later on?
00:48:49I suggested that we start this trip on our honeymoon.
00:48:53So this morning,
00:48:54I checked into this beautiful resort in Bicol,
00:48:58but it's been raining ever since I showed up.
00:49:02Some people would think that it's a bad sign,
00:49:06but you know, I'm Catholic
00:49:08and for us, water is cleansing.
00:49:11For me, it's a blessing.
00:49:11Some breath spray for the first kiss ever.
00:49:16Thank God.
00:49:18Javon, here I come.
00:49:22Can I go to the airport, please?
00:49:25Wow, I feel like puking.
00:49:30There's just so many emotions going on in my system right now.
00:49:35I feel happy, I feel excited, I feel intense.
00:49:40It's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband,
00:49:44not just any man.
00:49:46At the same time, I have a feeling
00:49:48that we're also going to have some communication problem again.
00:49:52I don't know.
00:49:54But I don't want to be negative
00:49:57because this moment is very special to me.
00:50:00I've been waiting for a long time.
00:50:02So for today,
00:50:04I'm going to focus on the positive,
00:50:07which is the love and the feelings we have for each other.
00:50:19I'm just touched down.
00:50:20I'm very, very excited
00:50:23about what's about to happen.
00:50:25This is so surreal.
00:50:28I can't believe that
00:50:29even though we've almost been married for three years,
00:50:32I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
00:50:34This moment is huge
00:50:36because it's been a buildup over years.
00:50:39I'm excited, but also I have a lot of anxiety
00:50:43because things are far from perfect right now.
00:50:47I would love to get back to the place
00:50:49where me and Anna can have fun and laugh together
00:50:53and be happy in our relationship,
00:50:56like how it was in the beginning.
00:51:04This has been like an overdue dream for me.
00:51:08I would always daydream of how it's going to be,
00:51:12how it would feel like.
00:51:13I wonder how it feels to touch him, to hold him.
00:51:18Oh my God.
00:51:20The nervousness is just leveling up.
00:51:24It's like ordering something online
00:51:26and when it finally arrives,
00:51:29you're just excited to unpack the package.
00:51:42Just past customs.
00:51:43I'm one step closer to seeing Anna
00:51:46and I'm just so ready.
00:51:50I'm waking up today
00:51:52and I'm finally seeing the sun
00:51:54Come on.
00:51:56Poppy, where are you?
00:52:10Mommy!
00:52:10Mommy!
00:52:11Mommy!
00:52:11Mommy!
00:52:11Mommy!
00:52:11and I won't get out of anything I want, cannot begin.
00:52:17Take every day as it comes.
00:52:25Mommy!
00:52:31Oh, man.
00:52:41All right.
00:52:43Okay.
00:52:46Look at you in pink.
00:52:48Like a peach on a window sill.
00:52:51Yeah, I told you.
00:52:53Yeah.
00:52:55Happy, huh?
00:53:00Stop crying, it's okay.
00:53:02You're supposed to be happy.
00:53:04I'm happy.
00:53:06Here's some joy.
00:53:10I've rehearsed the moment in my head a thousand times of how I was going to approach her and what
00:53:16she was going to look like.
00:53:17And she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more.
00:53:23Oh, my God.
00:53:26You're so fluffy.
00:53:28You're very handsome and tall and, yeah, perfect.
00:53:34It just feels like a dream.
00:53:36It feels surreal.
00:53:37Like, I still can't believe it, but I just want more kisses.
00:53:44Yeah.
00:53:47It's still not enough.
00:53:50I got you some chocolate.
00:53:53Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:53:55Very smart.
00:53:55Yeah.
00:53:57Like, I can't even wrap my brain around it that I am standing next to my wife.
00:54:04It just feels amazing.
00:54:06And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:54:18You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if you're okay with this.
00:54:23Everything is fine by me.
00:54:24I'm comfortable with everything.
00:54:26Seeing your photos is just...
00:54:29It is just...
00:54:30Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:54:32Are you?
00:54:39I will just show you some pictures.
00:54:51So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here that we should cut vertically.
00:54:57We call it abdominoplasty, but in public it's called thumbtack.
00:55:01Okay.
00:55:02So, fix this area here and here in this part.
00:55:06We can remove it.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08When we do an FDL tummy tuck, we have to cut in the middle of your tummy.
00:55:13So, it's almost impossible to hide it.
00:55:15Right.
00:55:15Okay.
00:55:17You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if...
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything.
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:25Are you?
00:55:32Didn't...
00:55:33Made me uncomfortable.
00:55:36It kind of surprised me, but it's just...
00:55:39It is just...
00:55:41People's life, you know?
00:55:44Which is not a problem for me.
00:55:50So, overall, all for $7,175.
00:55:56Okay.
00:55:57That's pretty much all.
00:55:57The healing period...
00:55:59That's what I was about to ask.
00:56:00Usually the patients...
00:56:00Usually the patients ask.
00:56:01So, six weeks.
00:56:03Okay.
00:56:03All right.
00:56:04So, like anything I do at the gym pretty much would be done for six weeks.
00:56:08Yes, almost.
00:56:09But approximately two to three weeks later, you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:56:15Excellent.
00:56:16And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:56:19Of course.
00:56:19It's already printed out.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:22Thank you very much.
00:56:22But we'll be in touch.
00:56:24Yes, absolutely.
00:56:25And if you have additional medical questions, feel free to ask.
00:56:29I love that.
00:56:30I was just going to ask if there was an email.
00:56:31I'd love to meet you.
00:56:32I appreciate your time.
00:56:36I'm glad I did it.
00:56:37But I feel really embarrassed about going to this appointment with Birkan.
00:56:44I'm not fully confident that he's, like, physically attracted to me.
00:56:51And having him in there with me has made me more insecure than ever.
00:56:59So, what are you thinking about surgery?
00:57:03It's something that I've thought about for a long time now.
00:57:05Yeah.
00:57:06I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of myself, and I feel like I don't look any
00:57:11different than I did 140 pounds ago.
00:57:13And I hate that.
00:57:15Yeah.
00:57:16Okay, I see.
00:57:18If you feel more confident when you do it, just do it.
00:57:23This is your life.
00:57:25You have to make your own decisions.
00:57:29That shows you how brave you are.
00:57:32You know?
00:57:33I don't feel like it's brave, though.
00:57:36This feels exactly the opposite of brave.
00:57:38I feel, like, scared and embarrassed.
00:57:42And, like, it's not brave.
00:57:47But you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed.
00:57:53You have the power to change your life.
00:57:57You wanted a better body.
00:57:59Now you have it.
00:58:01You lost all the weight you want.
00:58:04This is the best part.
00:58:06You just go into a surgery and enjoy the rest of your life.
00:58:11You know?
00:58:12And you are gorgeous.
00:58:18I will always be on your side.
00:58:21Okay?
00:58:26Okay.
00:58:27Okay.
00:58:28Okay.
00:58:30I appreciate that.
00:58:33I love how supportive Birkan is.
00:58:37His words are so touching.
00:58:42I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:58:50And I can trust what he's saying.
00:58:52You wanna go?
00:58:53Mm-hmm.
00:58:55Now let's go.
00:58:56Okay.
00:59:01You're the best.
00:59:02I know.
00:59:04That's my mojo.
00:59:13Since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
00:59:18No, I don't.
00:59:19I just don't want us to have any secrets.
00:59:21So what about you?
00:59:22When we match, we're talking and one day, we just go away.
00:59:27Can you just give me some details while you're just praying?
00:59:40Cute!
00:59:42That is so cute!
00:59:45That's like the cutest thing I've ever seen.
00:59:48Can we eat now?
01:00:01This is so pretty!
01:00:03Yeah, it's so nice.
01:00:04Do you wanna sit over here?
01:00:05You can sit right at this table.
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple days, he's just been
01:00:13changing his story.
01:00:14He's been telling different things to me online and in person.
01:00:18Oh, this is what we made.
01:00:19This is so solid.
01:00:20And then seeing what Sietta is doing on social media, I feel like he has something that he's hiding or
01:00:26that he doesn't wanna tell me.
01:00:29This is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking.
01:00:35I would never like show up at someone's house in the middle of the night.
01:00:38Like that's like creepy stalker status.
01:00:41But, you know, like some light digging is like totally normal.
01:00:47I investigate.
01:00:48I don't stalk.
01:00:53We did a really good job.
01:00:56Yeah.
01:00:56Should we try it?
01:00:59Tastes it all.
01:01:02Mmm.
01:01:03That's really good.
01:01:05Do you like it?
01:01:07It's so delicious.
01:01:08Good.
01:01:17You don't eat yours.
01:01:20Yeah, I'm eating.
01:01:21No, you eat nothing.
01:01:22You just...
01:01:25I have a lot on my mind.
01:01:27I'm thinking.
01:01:28For example?
01:01:31I don't know, I'm just like thinking about...
01:01:34About what?
01:01:35Just like the whole...
01:01:40Argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:01:42What?
01:01:43When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:01:47And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:01:49No.
01:01:50So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:01:52Social media?
01:01:53It's...
01:01:54Just people who know me.
01:01:56I've been looking at your page.
01:01:59Every day.
01:02:00Mm-hmm.
01:02:01You follow new girls.
01:02:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:02:04And?
01:02:05No, no, there is not...
01:02:05Yeah.
01:02:06And it's like thousands of people that you follow.
01:02:08There is...
01:02:08It's like respect.
01:02:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:02:11So what if they message you?
01:02:12Do you respond to messages too?
01:02:14Mm.
01:02:15Just people who...
01:02:16They know me or I know them.
01:02:18If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:02:20I would say thanks.
01:02:21That's all.
01:02:22Or...
01:02:23So since we've been dating...
01:02:25...have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:02:28I'm...
01:02:29I speak only with you like something romantic because you are my girl.
01:02:37So...
01:02:37So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:02:42No, I don't.
01:02:43You would never cheat?
01:02:44No.
01:02:45Or lie?
01:02:46No.
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:02:50For me, everything on me, I say to you.
01:02:54I don't hide nothing.
01:02:58Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:03:02But in the beginning of our relationship, she did something that confused me.
01:03:08And I never ask her about it.
01:03:11Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talked with me.
01:03:15It's like she has, like, secret or something inside here.
01:03:20It's like I feel it.
01:03:23I want to feel like I can trust you.
01:03:26And that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind my back.
01:03:29Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:03:31I don't hide nothing.
01:03:34So...
01:03:35What about you?
01:03:37Do you have some secret to me?
01:03:43No.
01:03:44Sure.
01:03:49Because...
01:03:49I remember, when we match, we're talking and one day...
01:03:55Where is she?
01:03:56I don't know.
01:03:57We just go away.
01:03:59So, when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:04:03You didn't talk.
01:04:06Can you just give me some details while you did this prayer?
01:04:14Um...
01:04:15I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:04:16So, no.
01:04:18In the sad moments, when we talk, you still with someone or by yourself?
01:04:23I was going through a breakup.
01:04:26When we're speaking the first time, you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:04:32You know?
01:04:33Yeah.
01:04:33And you are not.
01:04:34You are still with him.
01:04:35Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:38Breakup.
01:04:39I mean, you're still talking with him.
01:04:40Like, going through a breakup means...
01:04:42Still talking with him.
01:04:44We were going through a breakup.
01:04:46I have to repeat again.
01:04:47I have to repeat.
01:04:48No.
01:04:49So, you don't want to tell a couple of us.
01:04:50Babe, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:52That's my answer.
01:04:53I was going through a breakup.
01:04:55Okay.
01:04:55I wasn't in the right headspace to start a relationship.
01:04:59Ah.
01:05:01Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:05:07So, I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:05:11I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work
01:05:16with my ex.
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed.
01:05:24But I feel like with the way Zied is, like, badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take
01:05:30it well.
01:05:33So, I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:05:38That was a long time ago.
01:05:40Right?
01:05:41No, I want to listen to the details.
01:05:44I'm here with you now and I want to be with you now.
01:05:46I'm not talking with now.
01:05:47Yeah, what I know is...
01:05:48Yeah, what I'm talking about now.
01:05:49Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now, us being together.
01:05:55She's being weird.
01:05:57She don't want to tell me everything.
01:06:00And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:06:10Right now, I see, like, she hiding a lot of things.
01:06:15And I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:06:27Wow, would you do all this?
01:06:29Yeah.
01:06:30I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:06:36Okay.
01:06:38Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's gonna go?
01:06:45Jovan, you ready for me?
01:06:50Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:06:56Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:06:58Now the story changes again.
01:07:01Lying.
01:07:02Not keeping her story straight.
01:07:04That's where I have an issue.
01:07:06I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:07:11They're gonna have you snooker before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:07:26I'm so happy.
01:07:27Really?
01:07:28Yeah.
01:07:29What?
01:07:30I can just look at you all night.
01:07:53I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:07:57Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:08:00This is freaking huge.
01:08:03Right now, we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked.
01:08:07And it's a very surreal feeling.
01:08:11Before I met you, I have a lot of thought about this.
01:08:17Daydream about this.
01:08:19Wild dream about this.
01:08:20Yeah.
01:08:21Wet dreams about this.
01:08:23But then, it's funny because even though we're married, I was a bit worried about it.
01:08:28I was thinking like, oh my God, like, am I gonna be shy?
01:08:32Mm-hmm.
01:08:32But I feel like I can fart over here right now.
01:08:38Shh.
01:08:39Oh.
01:08:40Anna's personality is a big ball of energy.
01:08:43And she's a little wacky.
01:08:45And she can literally hold a conversation all on her own.
01:08:50Pretty much the opposite of me.
01:08:52But what can I say?
01:08:54That's my wife.
01:08:57So am I what you were expecting?
01:09:00You're exactly what I was expecting.
01:09:04My beautiful, chatty wife.
01:09:06No.
01:09:10Here we are.
01:09:15This is really nice.
01:09:17That's why I picked it.
01:09:19It's got good taste, you know.
01:09:21Yes.
01:09:22So.
01:09:23Ready?
01:09:27OK.
01:09:28You got it?
01:09:28Yeah.
01:09:29Good.
01:09:30No.
01:09:31You heavy.
01:09:34No, don't throw me away.
01:09:36Don't throw you?
01:09:38No.
01:09:39You may look tiny, but you heavy though.
01:09:42Oh.
01:09:42Wow, would you do all this?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:45OK.
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years.
01:09:50It's our honeymoon and seeing the rose petals on the bed.
01:09:54And, you know, the environment's right for us to, you know.
01:09:59To?
01:10:01Get it in.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:07Boo?
01:10:08Hmm?
01:10:08This is yours.
01:10:11You can take off your...
01:10:13These come with the room?
01:10:14Yeah.
01:10:15OK.
01:10:15You can take this off.
01:10:16Oh, I'm kind of scared to take my socks off.
01:10:19Yeah.
01:10:20Yeah.
01:10:23Ooh.
01:10:24I can smell that.
01:10:28Ooh.
01:10:30Boy.
01:10:33I was wearing boots.
01:10:35I haven't taken a shower in like...
01:10:36Why would you wear boots...
01:10:3733 hours?
01:10:38On a 33-hour flight.
01:10:43Get a big whip, man.
01:10:44That's what you're going to have to deal with on a day-to-day basis.
01:10:46You want to take a shower?
01:10:48Please do.
01:10:50All right.
01:10:51OK?
01:10:51I'll be right out.
01:10:54I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jibon,
01:10:58but I did not expect that the feet would smell so badly.
01:11:07It smelled terrible.
01:11:09Mmm.
01:11:12Oh.
01:11:13OK.
01:11:15I am very nervous because...
01:11:18Oh, my God.
01:11:19I've never been with a man for a long time.
01:11:22It has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:11:27OK.
01:11:28Yeah!
01:11:29Look at you.
01:11:30Better.
01:11:30I am worried a little bit.
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him.
01:11:35I don't know.
01:11:38What if the positions have changed?
01:11:41Do I still know how it's going to go?
01:11:44Like...
01:11:44I don't know!
01:11:50Jibon!
01:11:52Mmm.
01:11:52You ready for me?
01:11:55Hey.
01:11:56Yeah!
01:11:57Look at you.
01:11:59Mm-hmm.
01:11:59Good, boo.
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks,
01:12:07but so far, Jibon and I are off to a really romantic start.
01:12:12All right, you ready?
01:12:12You ready?
01:12:13Yeah!
01:12:14But...
01:12:15Oh, my God.
01:12:16I've never seen any married couple that took three years before doing it.
01:12:23Wish me luck.
01:12:26Three.
01:12:37Sheena, if we go and meet your parents, I agree to not speak out of turn.
01:12:46You...
01:12:47I don't believe you're going to do that.
01:12:49And we cannot mess this up with Sheena's family.
01:13:04Okay.
01:13:06Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:13:12The cultural thing and the duty of the family.
01:13:16Now, how is it all of a sudden, under one day, you can miraculously change and stand up to your
01:13:22parents?
01:13:23Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:13:26It's just that probably got misunderstood.
01:13:29Oh, but now the story changes again.
01:13:31Again.
01:13:32You told me yourself...
01:13:34Yes, ma'am, but...
01:13:35...that you are pressured and you're scared of your family, remember?
01:13:40I am a full grown adult.
01:13:42You're scared of your family.
01:13:43And I could know...
01:13:44But now you feel totally safe and...
01:13:47Yes, I understand more.
01:13:49Ah, how that switches.
01:13:51Sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people, it's like, what?
01:13:57What are you saying?
01:13:58That's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along.
01:14:03Oh, they're mistreating me, they're gonna kick me out, they call me names, all of this, and now the story
01:14:09switches.
01:14:10It's hard to think bad of your parent.
01:14:13You can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents.
01:14:17Where my problem is, is her lying, not keeping her story straight.
01:14:22That's where I have an issue.
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:14:30It would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys.
01:14:35Your family, of course, doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States.
01:14:40So you get forced to come over there, and then it's twice the amount of money to your parents.
01:14:47And he will be the grunt just like you are.
01:14:51Stop, don't. I don't do that.
01:14:53I love my person, I love your son, I love more than anything.
01:14:56I have self-respect for your son.
01:14:57But I'm just saying, my fear is, Forrest is gonna say and do anything just to keep your love,
01:15:04and then find out that it was all a con.
01:15:09Mom, you acting this way has proven my point.
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family.
01:15:20That was it.
01:15:21And look at where we're sitting right now.
01:15:23You can't even hold your temper.
01:15:26My mom is saying things that are way out of line.
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in danger
01:15:36or hurt me.
01:15:36I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice.
01:15:43But instead, she's always just nuking it, which makes everything worse.
01:15:50Mom, I don't think one day is truly going to change everything.
01:15:56Forrest, it's not even the point.
01:15:58We can't even have a decision.
01:15:59We've gone beyond that.
01:16:00It's already gone beyond that.
01:16:01You know why it's gone beyond that?
01:16:03Because of the fact that you don't trust me.
01:16:11I have busted my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her.
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you that I would bring you all the way here to the Philippines?
01:16:25Of course.
01:16:26We've lost a lot of trust to bring you here.
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me, that I won't blow up.
01:16:35The reason why I blow up has always been to protect him.
01:16:41But to see how he's taken that protection and made it a problem, it's painful.
01:16:52And I will not be anybody's problem.
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom, they're not trying to hurt you.
01:17:02They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:17:07So, good luck, guys.
01:17:08Good luck.
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best that she's not coming.
01:17:28Oh, my God, is it really you?
01:17:36He devoured me.
01:17:39When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:18:01I don't mind being here for morning to night.
01:18:05I will wait.
01:18:08I will wait.
01:18:09I will wait.
01:18:09I will wait.
01:18:25I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel.
01:18:28Excuse me.
01:18:31Hello.
01:18:32This is a beginning chapter.
01:18:35No matter what it is, whether it's good or bad, it's going to change everything in my life right now.
01:18:57Oh, my God.
01:19:01Oh, my God.
01:19:03Oh, my God.
01:19:09Oh, my God.
01:19:21Oh, my God.
01:19:25I don't even have words for how I felt when I first saw Daniel.
01:19:28He started running towards me, and I was like, oh, my God, that's him.
01:19:31And my heart just exploded, and he devoured me.
01:19:38Are you sure?
01:19:41Daniel.
01:19:42Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:19:46When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:19:49No.
01:19:54Oh, my God.
01:19:55You better stop.
01:19:57Oh, my God.
01:19:59Oh, my God.
01:20:00Oh, my God.
01:20:00Is it really you?
01:20:01Is it really you?
01:20:02Oh, my God.
01:20:14Don't cry.
01:20:15Don't try not to cry.
01:20:17Don't you cry.
01:20:18No, Mama.
01:20:19I'm happy.
01:20:22She's more gorgeous than I think.
01:20:24More beautiful than the flowers I gave her.
01:20:28Really?
01:20:29Yeah.
01:20:30No.
01:20:30I'm a mess.
01:20:31I've been on a plane for hours.
01:20:32No, baby.
01:20:33Come on.
01:20:34You're such an irresistible beautiful angel.
01:20:37Oh, my God, baby.
01:20:39I love you.
01:20:43Oh, my God.
01:20:44I don't know what to do.
01:20:45I don't know what to do next.
01:20:47OK.
01:20:47We should go.
01:20:48Let me get my...
01:20:48Are you going to get the luggage?
01:20:50I will get this.
01:20:50You get that one?
01:20:52Yeah.
01:20:52Which way?
01:20:53There.
01:21:00What the heck?
01:21:07Baby!
01:21:11Did you do this for me?
01:21:13Did you really do this?
01:21:37I walked out and there's music and it's loud and there's dancers dancing around and I'm
01:21:44thinking, what the hell?
01:21:45Is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country?
01:21:49But no.
01:21:50This is about me.
01:21:52Daniel set this up for me.
01:21:53What the hell is going on here?
01:21:56This is nuts.
01:21:57Yes.
01:22:00Yes.
01:22:00Yes.
01:22:00Wait a minute.
01:22:01Hold this.
01:22:01Let me try.
01:22:02Wait.
01:22:02Hold the flowers.
01:22:04Wait.
01:22:08Is that right?
01:22:09Yes.
01:22:10Am I doing it?
01:22:10Yes.
01:22:11It's her.
01:22:15I can't do it.
01:22:16I'll have that loud.
01:22:19I plan to welcome her like a queen, that's why I invited traditional dancers.
01:22:25I am happy that she joined the dancers and the way she's laughing.
01:22:32I am very sure about Alisa at this moment.
01:22:43Oh, my God, that was so amazing.
01:23:01What are you doing?
01:23:08I learned.
01:23:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:23This one is for you, Ariba.
01:23:27That's the one.
01:23:29Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
01:23:34They have a lot of questions for you.
01:23:36First, it's your career.
01:23:38The truth is, I'm quite frustrated for us.
01:23:42I haven't saved anything for a future.
01:23:44You're an adult. You can find a job. You have to be man out of it.
01:23:49I brought condoms too, baby. Go take your shower. Get everything ready.
01:23:54It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.
01:23:57Let me attack your shower.
01:23:58I want it to happen.
01:24:00Wait.
01:24:00What if I want it, and he doesn't want me?
01:24:08When we first started talking, he was so sweet, calling me his wife within like 10 minutes.
01:24:15So you are looking to get married?
01:24:17Yes.
01:24:24She lied about something.
01:24:27Sometimes, you overstep just a little bit.
01:24:30We had the argument, and you called my sister.
01:24:34I love you, but you are a little bit unhinged.
01:24:38Oh, my God.
01:24:40I can't believe you're born right now.
01:24:42You done?
01:24:43Done with this conversation.
01:24:48Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
01:24:50Like, stop.
01:24:50Can you just calm down?
01:24:52Because I wanted to...
01:24:53You've been holding a secret for, what, four months now?
01:24:55Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to do with her ex.
01:25:01The wizard I didn't told you is trying to get me back.
01:25:10I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
01:25:14So with my debts, I am just broke.
01:25:18Did you say your debts?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:21How much is it?
01:25:25I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31I've heard her..
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