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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 07: Brace for Impact
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe, yo, what's up, would?
00:00:12She really like my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:58and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:05He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position to be sport hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:43First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:52He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:55except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:16Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on.
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very.
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:39it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it went.
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm in favor.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:27preparing, getting ready to go and wake up with you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34We have a test.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:04At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:26I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you more.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:45about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:11We're never going to get out of this bed and get out of this bed and feel free.
00:07:37Let's go ride on a trike.
00:07:40Oh, my goodness.
00:07:41Oh, my God.
00:07:43Oh, Lord.
00:07:44Oh, my God.
00:07:45Give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like, being inside of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great.
00:08:02I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:04But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:07Oh, my God.
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today, I'm going to meet Sheen's family for the first time in a province called Cavite.
00:08:33So we're almost there, though.
00:08:34We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh, man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:45She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena is going to
00:09:02completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14Yeah.
00:09:15Oh, man.
00:09:17First, she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26Well, the truth is, I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Baby.
00:09:38Baby, we can do this.
00:09:49Just be careful, baby.
00:09:51Oh, my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah.
00:10:02Forrest.
00:10:02Oh, my God.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:07Hello, sir.
00:10:09Nice to meet you.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:13Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:15Oh, thank you.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad's visa.
00:10:18This is Katrina, so…
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister
00:10:49seem nice enough. A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break from traveling? Yeah. To do that, can you show them? Yeah. Follow me,
00:11:03you want to check the gardens? Yeah. Yeah.
00:11:08So this is the place. Yeah.
00:11:15There's more improvements over the years.
00:11:20Wow. Yeah. Yeah, this is the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:27Boy. Okay, cool.
00:11:31Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof. Oh, they need money
00:11:40to
00:11:40do this. Oh, they need money to do this. That's why they're stealing all this money from me. But it
00:11:44turns out that this is a nice, fancy place. Okay, welcome to our house. Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom. This place is huge. Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolute or they are going to starve without her.
00:12:09It doesn't add up. Okay, come on, come on. It's cool. Thank you very much.
00:12:15Have dinner. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Enjoy and relax. Yeah. All right. Thank you. Thank you, guys. Thank you.
00:12:27My mind's just confused. I don't understand. So you like the place? Yeah. It was way worth the getting
00:12:36crushed in the bus. Yeah. Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah. They're great people. Okay. Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick. Yeah, sure.
00:12:50Okay. Take your time. I'm going to head in the bathroom real quick. Yeah, go great. Go real quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:13:02Mm-hmm. Yes. Which is probably my fault. Test for the water if it's good. Wash your face around. Wash
00:13:11your hands. Yeah.
00:13:18And I'm worried about what is going to be said.
00:13:23What Forrest could say, what my family could say. I'm worried that everything could fall apart.
00:13:37Do you think I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:13:42That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was that man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the
00:13:52beginning. And now I don't know. The debt is a big deal.
00:13:58You excited about my show tonight? Yeah, I am. What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:04Maria, Dan, Vicky.
00:14:08So who is, who is Vicky?
00:14:26Look at that. You can't tell me that's not beautiful. We have like the second most active
00:14:31barrier recently. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm so grateful that I live here. It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in? Okay. Come on. You know I can't swim. Don't play with me.
00:14:51You know what you need, right? Coconut water. We're good for your brains. We're good for your soul.
00:14:58That sounds good.
00:15:00Wash off that what energy. This is Aviva's second full day in Belize, and we're here in beautiful
00:15:09San Pedro because I'm going to perform tonight. Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being
00:15:15over my ex from Texas, but in the hotel last night. I do believe that I was able to calm
00:15:21her down.
00:15:21I think I'm old. How are you going to be so fine and want to trip? Huh? Stop stressing.
00:15:28That's right.
00:15:36We had sex three times. No protection again. We're risking it all. We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How is it? It's good. Mm-hmm. Refreshing.
00:15:47You got this in the States, in Arizona? No, not like this. Oh.
00:15:56You excited about my show tonight? Yeah, I am. What songs are you singing at your show?
00:16:03Marry your daughter, you know, TMTM, Vicky.
00:16:13I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig, but he mentions the song Vicky. And I
00:16:21can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me. They actually just
00:16:27did a big concert like for Valentine's Day. The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:16:33and she was at the concert, and they left together.
00:16:40So who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky is a girl I was messing with who had a man, and the man wasn't treating
00:16:54her good.
00:16:54She was married, and I was the little bartender showing her love, you know what I mean, on the side.
00:17:02So is it someone you still talk to? Is it someone that you have a past with?
00:17:06Uh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I had a past with you.
00:17:09The last year is a good one.
00:17:12So my Aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here. I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went
00:17:19to the,
00:17:20your last show with you, and you left the show with her. And I just, I'm confused, and I'm just
00:17:26hoping
00:17:27that you can clear some things up with me.
00:17:36Aviva's Aunt Spring. I never met her. I only heard about Aunt Spring, but apparently she knows me
00:17:41better than I know myself. She, the Secret Service? I don't, nothing to hide. At the concert, I was there
00:17:50with the bros, trying to make a good set, you know, trying to make sure the staff members.
00:17:56But did you go home with her? No, I did not. I didn't go home with any girl.
00:18:02You don't believe me? Apparently there was some article, or you were tagged in something,
00:18:07or she was tagged in something, um, of you guys going home together. So I'm not really sure how I'm
00:18:13supposed to believe you. Police isn't the fake news. Don't let get to your bed.
00:18:22I'm definitely going to do my best to not be in my head about it, but you're apparently going to
00:18:28sing it tonight. How do I know she's not going to be there? That's one of my biggest songs in
00:18:32Belize.
00:18:32I can't not sing that. Yeah. You don't want me to sing the song? My biggest, one of my biggest
00:18:38songs?
00:18:39Yeah. Come on, don't do that.
00:18:46All of my exes, they start off saying, I'm not going to be jealous. I got you.
00:18:51But , I thought Aviva was going to be different. And now I am worried how she's going to react
00:18:58when I perform Vicky, when I do perform it. Tonight could the whole thing up. I don't want that.
00:19:08If tonight is a problem, that's going to throw me off. I don't, you know, I don't know if I
00:19:12could
00:19:12deal with that. That's not what I signed up for. I mean, I'll do my best, but I just would
00:19:21feel
00:19:21more comfortable if you didn't perform Vicky. That's all I can say.
00:19:36I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a green card and money. And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:20:09That's what everybody else thought. Did you think that?
00:20:14Well, I don't know right now. I'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time.
00:20:20Vicky Khan just told me that he's 50K in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt
00:20:26and
00:20:26just ignore it. I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's
00:20:33just straight up using me to get out of his debt.
00:20:56I know that. But I want to make sure that I'm making a smart decision when it comes to future
00:21:03plans like getting engaged. I just gotta hustle because money is money, you know?
00:21:13You know what? I'm ready to go.
00:21:15OK, let's go. Let's go.
00:21:34What's going through your head right now?
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated. He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning. The debt is a big
00:21:45deal to me because he's talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect. And it's really
00:21:51hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:56I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the
00:22:04beginning. And now I don't know.
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:20I told you why. I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.
00:22:26Why are you mad?
00:22:28Don't be cute. That doesn't fix this.
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not going to answer that right now.
00:22:35You got to ask. No.
00:22:36You got to ask.
00:22:37I do not have to answer. You got to ask.
00:22:39You think that you're going to stop.
00:22:40Why are you mad?
00:22:49You think a couple of kisses will win me over?
00:22:5415,000.
00:22:57I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.
00:23:01But this is probably all of the fantasies I had had kind of rolled into one in that moment.
00:23:08Having a hot Turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you.
00:23:12I don't know what it is. I just can't resist him.
00:23:16You're adorable.
00:23:17I know. That's why you love me.
00:23:22You are here.
00:23:24Oh, that is hot now.
00:23:27Look, look.
00:23:29Maybe they should buy me some stuff.
00:23:32This bougie chick.
00:23:35There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:37I don't know why he act this way.
00:23:40It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:43I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:45So why are you asking for more?
00:23:48Is that what you want me for?
00:24:05Let's get out of here.
00:24:09David, they didn't give me any questions this morning, so...
00:24:13Give me a key.
00:24:15Uh-uh, watch out.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22You ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Okay, let's go.
00:24:31Oh, I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night, that's why.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough, but after we had argument about my ex, we went back to the hotel and we did
00:24:51makeup, sex.
00:24:54It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:01I love sex after argument.
00:25:04Woo-hoo!
00:25:06Excited!
00:25:07And it's in the plane!
00:25:09I know that we still have trust issues to work through, but today we are going to a romantic trip
00:25:17that Rick booked for us in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosie Bay is a really beautiful island.
00:25:26They do have loomers and a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone to spend time together, romantic, go there.
00:25:46Look how beautiful I am.
00:25:58Yeah, yeah.
00:25:59Yeah.
00:26:11Oh, very hot out.
00:26:14Really hot.
00:26:15Woo.
00:26:17Woo.
00:26:18Woo.
00:26:20It's nice and cool.
00:26:22Woo.
00:26:23Finally.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God.
00:26:30Baby, are you serious?
00:26:33OK.
00:26:34I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:42See, look.
00:26:44Look.
00:26:44Le Mans.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:52Paint sauce.
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:55We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got an expensive taste.
00:27:00You're so cheap.
00:27:04Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08This bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:18There ain't nobody's sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are a boozy girl Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:27:40And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:47I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask you for anything.
00:28:01Look.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care.
00:28:20You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:30So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:34I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the chorus seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like, uh, I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:06I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:12So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:21It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need,
00:29:27but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:38See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even...
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:33I know it was not a risk, Rick.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25Sheena's family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for you, aren't you?
00:32:00OK.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi?
00:32:26Yeah, Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:30Moilue.
00:32:32Moilue.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:42Yes.
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market, I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:52this is my first time out of the country this is nothing like the farmers markets that i have been
00:33:00to no one thinks the same okay it kind of reminds me of a flea market but a flea market
00:33:13with food
00:33:14and it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other you can buy anything and everything
00:33:21there are live poultry there is dried fish smoked fish hello there are women doing hair right there
00:33:29in the middle of the market it looks so beautiful oh i don't know if i'm buying i just want
00:33:37to look
00:33:38at them oh my goodness be careful like this hello hi hi chick chick chick chick she handed me the
00:33:50chicken as if i was going to eat the chicken no no i'm not going to kill a chicken you
00:33:55don't kill a
00:33:55chicken i had chickens they were my pets my chickens were spoiled they had a little vcr and a tv
00:34:02to watch
00:34:03your chicken watch tv yes really oh my god
00:34:12bye thank you okay let's go okay i have to take you to the stars i love fabric hello
00:34:24good afternoon good afternoon they're beautiful thank you you're welcome i would like you to check the one
00:34:30that will fit you because you know my uncle came yesterday to welcome you and he was there you saw
00:34:35him
00:34:43smart we have to pay him a visit why yeah because you know my uncle have to approve you know
00:34:50he doesn't
00:34:51know you that much so he'll ask you some questions i i'm confused what has he not given us approval
00:34:59for
00:35:00he was very happy at the engagement yes but he have not given us the blessing to marry
00:35:08the blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important
00:35:12in my culture you get blessing from your parents but my dad is not well
00:35:17my uncle i have to call my father and report back but i thought everything was said and done i
00:35:22thought we
00:35:22were ready to start planning a wedding i didn't realize there was going to be more to it that's just
00:35:27a
00:35:27proposal in america you have to get blessings before you give the ring um this is nigeria i know
00:35:33we have different cultures we have different way of life you didn't warn me about that
00:35:40you have to see you dressing um a traditional attire maybe um one of the wrapper here
00:35:48this one here this one
00:35:50you know my uncle lover he likes good things and this is colorful yes this is the hair tie you
00:36:00have to
00:36:00tie this one on your head okay yeah it's on the head i i'm confused you're confused
00:36:12okay so it gets wrapped around yeah
00:36:17and then it gets tired yeah just giving you the
00:36:21the clue on how to tie it i can't hear you it's very loud
00:36:30oh my gosh how am i gonna do this i have no clue how this wrapping thing works
00:36:36i have to do this myself when i meet his uncle and there's no way i'm gonna remember how to
00:36:41do
00:36:41everything i don't want to look like a fool i don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle
00:36:56what should i expect like how how would this be wrapped we have to cut it okay yeah we have
00:37:04to
00:37:04give it to a teller oh yes i can cut but i don't know because we are we are a
00:37:10bit fat
00:37:32i'm feeling awful and i'm i'm kind of taken aback i have to meet his uncle and i have to
00:37:38wrap myself
00:37:38up in two layers of this wrap this big headdress and i'm gonna look fat okay major please
00:37:51i have to try to impress his uncle but what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing
00:37:57what kind of questions are going to be asked
00:38:01i'm worried that i may have to reveal things that i'm not ready to reveal
00:38:06this whole thing could be a disaster for me
00:38:10so i'm i'm scared thank you you're welcome
00:38:26i'm trying to be supportive but he's dancing and flirting with
00:38:30some random girl on stage right in front of me
00:38:36what the is aviva doing
00:39:00you can't question my love for you or anything at this point
00:39:12how you feeling are we good i'm nervous don't be overthinking enjoy the show enjoy the
00:39:19entertainment okay i'm an entertainer all right all right we're good yes all right
00:39:27i'm a little frustrated with aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song but listen
00:39:31i'm still gonna go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up i don't want anything to throw
00:39:37me off my game ready so am i ready ready i have to say it like me no you can't
00:39:43say ready you gotta say
00:39:44ready ready
00:39:45uh-huh come on
00:39:55that's good brother
00:39:59trouble man
00:40:00riche mother
00:40:02all right
00:40:08welcome to all the party people tonight
00:40:10Stig the artist in the Benhamton.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Stig performing
00:40:20for the first time.
00:40:22But I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Stig's manager in Ant
00:40:32Spring had to say about Stig and other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves
00:40:38at him, at his shows.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:47Anybody from Belize, make some money nice.
00:40:51Big up to all the girls that came from far for this one.
00:40:54They're like, yo.
00:41:08This is what I'm going to say.
00:41:10I'm going to marry your daughter.
00:41:11Can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy,
00:41:18and I'm going to break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself, and I'm trying to be supportive,
00:41:51but he started playing Vicky after I asked him not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl
00:42:07and flirting with her on stage right in front of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch, and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:20Hey!
00:42:21Girl, you don't make it be easier.
00:42:25Youっと pretty, do that?
00:42:27How should i feel pretty?
00:42:29I miss you, you too pretty, do that.
00:42:32You too pretty.
00:42:33You really pretty, do that?
00:42:36You too pretty.
00:42:39Well Stiggy, Hernan has no pretty.
00:42:42Watch out.
00:42:43You know that you pretty.
00:42:44Your brown skin but you're an okay kid.
00:42:49What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:53I'm seeing a sea of people partying, having the time of their lives, and Aviva head down
00:43:03in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife, much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on the release, yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:26They want to give you love to the call, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels so right.
00:43:34Do the things you're...
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Yo, six for us. Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I forgot.
00:43:48All of me, because I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah, make this round. Make this fufu to be round.
00:44:07How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No.
00:44:16My uncle.
00:44:16No.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:20Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk? Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes. Are you walking now, man?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back. Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You're angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry, because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got not fair to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:13No, no.
00:45:14You're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:26Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:28I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit, and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, ah.
00:45:35I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:02And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:08So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:24I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Igbo land, so we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she has to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, you look good.
00:46:42You look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture,
00:46:47to impress my uncle.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:54There's a traditional way of blessing by wine, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58We have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, we have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:03The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09A woman's blessing by wine is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:15Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:34You pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay.
00:47:36Pounded one, okay.
00:47:37Mm-hmm.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:51It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:03Uh-huh.
00:48:04It's.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19B boil it again.
00:48:22All right.
00:48:24Leave your hand.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:36Oh.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I can just eat that.
00:48:45I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat fufu.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50That's what the fufu is for.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me.
00:49:03But I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:49:06I am in the nursing field.
00:49:09And I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:14It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:18It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:34Let's eat.
00:49:39Let's go.
00:49:43Okay.
00:49:46I did.
00:49:48I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:21Mm-hmm.
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:30What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:39No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper way.
00:50:51Etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:04You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31I don't recall it.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know, to help her.
00:51:41Well, Forrest.
00:52:04Are you ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:12Yeah.
00:52:14Yeah.
00:52:15Yeah.
00:52:20I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:52But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time.
00:53:34And we sat, you know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56We haven't learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like, you see.
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got, like, a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife.
00:54:22And I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She just has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:50Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53It's beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22But just, you do my need, and then that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've
00:55:36gone through in the past.
00:55:38What you mean?
00:55:40I just passed relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want
00:55:50to be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Cheney, for seven years.
00:56:09Cheney is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think Cheney had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide, and it caused a lot of issues between
00:56:23us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know, when you bring me to the country, I have to let everything in here, my life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:04Yes, but that's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15Everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:41Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you, that's why I want our relationship work.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get you the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:12That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place, but everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her, but eventually it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Ah, just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time.
00:59:19Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:25Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I'm the biggest.
00:59:57We go by size here.
00:59:58Yeah, we go.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family and so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:07For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
01:00:13And now I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go
01:00:27from there.
01:00:31So, how's your travel here from America?
01:00:34It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheena for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42And finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious, though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting...
01:01:01It's kind of hard to say, you know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking into a
01:01:11scam.
01:01:17Every, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers, no, no, no, no.
01:01:22A lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, we're not really sure if we're going to meet you in person.
01:01:50No.
01:01:51I have to say, a lot of it had to do with finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Mm-hmm.
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But the question is, uh, I don't recall it.
01:02:11What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I'm actually receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:51It covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:40I have the energy, I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable
01:03:58because it's the guy's obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And Sheena also is, you know, she's very helpful, you know?
01:04:11There, you know, so talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay, you have my blessing.
01:04:26But we're going to help her.
01:04:30And she's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:40she would help us, you know, pay like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:48Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad,
01:04:57they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing,
01:05:09but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
01:05:13What I've seen,
01:05:16it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family,
01:05:23the way they live,
01:05:24the whole money situation,
01:05:25the stories are not adding up.
01:05:28And I'm really worried that tomorrow,
01:05:31my mother is going to come in
01:05:33and going to think everything has been a lie this entire time.
01:05:38She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:52I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:05:58So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:04Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit,
01:06:09and I'm in a...
01:06:10About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:12I don't think so.
01:06:32I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I knew I killed it,
01:06:43but I forgot my lyrics.
01:06:45Middle show.
01:06:47my mind, but...
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel
01:07:01from Stig's performance,
01:07:02and I felt a little uncomfortable,
01:07:07but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together
01:07:11and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:18You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:25Mm-hmm.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:38Like...
01:07:41You guess?
01:07:42You guess?
01:07:44Yeah.
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think
01:07:50that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like
01:07:59she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting
01:08:03while I'm performing.
01:08:05I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:14Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:17When you were on your phone?
01:08:19Texting?
01:08:28It wasn't like that, like...
01:08:31Accelerate my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:33Yes, the f***.
01:08:35Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:38Yes, I'm literally performing.
01:08:41Singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:50But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman
01:08:53in front of me
01:08:54and he played Vicky
01:08:56even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So...
01:08:58It's a little annoying
01:08:59that he couldn't have just
01:09:00skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:12Sorry.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like, you have to understand
01:09:16that there is all these girls
01:09:17on stage with you
01:09:18so I'm going to talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Relax.
01:09:24You can do what you want.
01:09:26To me, that's f*** up.
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team,
01:09:32a part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:35Kind of killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like
01:09:39I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43You keep talking about
01:09:44these other girls,
01:09:44these other girls having fun,
01:09:46hyping me up
01:09:47and my girl is there
01:09:48just on her phone.
01:09:52It's my first time
01:09:53in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident.
01:09:59And I just wanted...
01:10:00You really think that's
01:10:01the best way to handle it?
01:10:12It's...
01:10:13I didn't mean to make you
01:10:14feel a certain way,
01:10:15but okay.
01:10:19BRB.
01:10:20BRB.
01:10:21BRB.
01:10:23BRB.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss
01:10:28because I am trying my best
01:10:31to not get super jealous,
01:10:34not overreact,
01:10:35but apparently
01:10:36I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that
01:10:43if he thinks I'm too jealous
01:10:44and crazy,
01:10:45he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off,
01:10:50but part of me is terrified
01:10:52that I already have.
01:10:59BRB.
01:11:00I don't want to scare him off,
01:11:03but part of me is terrified
01:11:16BRB.
01:11:16Bark at me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22Okay.
01:11:23No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is...
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot.
01:11:28Reboot.
01:11:31Reboot.
01:11:39Last night,
01:11:40I found out that
01:11:41Birkan has an immense amount of debt,
01:11:45and I was worried that
01:11:46he really just does want a green card,
01:11:50but I have put a lot
01:11:51into this relationship,
01:11:53so maybe I just need to give it
01:11:55a little bit more time
01:11:56to see how red
01:11:58the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:10There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16Today, my plan is
01:12:18taking Laura to the Nazar K.
01:12:21I wanted to show her
01:12:22different areas
01:12:23and different villages,
01:12:25and also,
01:12:26it is the place
01:12:27that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:32Sizi isterseniz böyle alalım.
01:12:34Okay.
01:12:34You there?
01:12:35Hanfendi, hanfendi böyle alalım.
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:39Evil eye beads,
01:12:40when you hear it,
01:12:41it's like something bad,
01:12:43but it is not.
01:12:44It is for good luck.
01:12:45Can işçiliği gibi.
01:12:47Tabii, tabii.
01:12:47Bu antik dönemde,
01:12:48yani,
01:12:493000 yıllık bir geçmişi var bunun.
01:12:51Çevir, çevir.
01:12:53Ah, evet, evet.
01:12:54When people see you,
01:12:56if they get jealous about you,
01:12:58thoughts about you,
01:13:00the evil eye consumes bad thoughts
01:13:02and protects you.
01:13:09Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, you did it!
01:13:11I got one!
01:13:13I know that.
01:13:14Ben çıkartayım bunu.
01:13:15Biraz soğusun.
01:13:17In Turkey,
01:13:18everybody believes that superstition
01:13:19because, you know,
01:13:21people need to believe something.
01:13:24Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura,
01:13:29she loves crafting,
01:13:30so she will enjoy.
01:13:33Sizinia, please.
01:13:35Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round,
01:13:40but that looks good.
01:13:41And I suck at every talent thing.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just roll.
01:13:58Apparently,
01:13:59I suck at evil eyebeats.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life,
01:14:09you know?
01:14:09Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something like
01:14:24that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something
01:14:27that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30Yeah, they taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk
01:14:35about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of
01:14:38dance around that topic,
01:14:39and I'd like to know
01:14:40more about them.
01:14:43Yeah, dance to that.
01:14:44We never had
01:14:44a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them
01:14:48very often?
01:14:50No, actually.
01:14:52My parents
01:14:53are
01:14:54not so happy
01:14:56because
01:14:57I'm with you.
01:15:02Birkan has been
01:15:04a little evasive
01:15:05about
01:15:05the relationship
01:15:07with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't
01:15:09talked about it
01:15:10in a lot of detail.
01:15:12So hearing that
01:15:13Birkan's parents
01:15:14don't approve
01:15:15of me
01:15:16is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already
01:15:20doesn't approve of this,
01:15:22and it's just
01:15:23kind of frustrating
01:15:25to have a relationship
01:15:26where I feel like
01:15:27everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think
01:15:32that there's a point
01:15:33where I would ever
01:15:34meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:38But I do feel like
01:15:40meeting someone's
01:15:42family
01:15:43is a good way
01:15:44to get to know
01:15:45more information
01:15:47about a person.
01:15:48My family
01:15:49is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me,
01:15:56that's how I feel
01:15:57about my friend
01:15:57Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you
01:16:08to be too close
01:16:10with him
01:16:10because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:17Well, he is very
01:16:19important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do
01:16:23everything together
01:16:24all the time.
01:16:24I will give you
01:16:27a solution.
01:16:29I want you
01:16:31to cut him
01:16:32out of your life.
01:16:35So,
01:16:36you're basically
01:16:37giving me the ultimatum
01:16:39of you or him.
01:16:41No, actually,
01:16:43it's not an ultimatum,
01:16:44you know.
01:16:45What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend
01:17:08and he's not trying
01:17:09to make me cut you out.
01:17:23I've always known
01:17:24that Birkan
01:17:25doesn't love the fact
01:17:26that Michael
01:17:27and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan
01:17:30tells me that I'm
01:17:31going to have to
01:17:31cut Michael out
01:17:32of my life,
01:17:33it absolutely feels
01:17:34like some weird
01:17:35controlling side
01:17:36of him
01:17:36that I haven't seen yet
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40this kind of
01:17:41changes my thinking
01:17:42a little bit
01:17:43and I'm in about him.
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying
01:17:49to force me
01:17:50to make a decision
01:17:50that I don't want to make.
01:17:52So,
01:17:54why don't you
01:17:55think a little,
01:17:56you know,
01:17:58I just get some
01:17:59air, maybe,
01:18:01or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked
01:18:10that Birkan
01:18:11decides to walk
01:18:12out on me
01:18:12as a way
01:18:13of ending
01:18:14our conversation.
01:18:16It's super
01:18:17disrespectful to me,
01:18:20especially
01:18:20when I've tried
01:18:22to be very
01:18:23understanding
01:18:24with the massive
01:18:26amount of debt
01:18:27that he revealed
01:18:28to me.
01:18:30This doesn't
01:18:31really feel
01:18:32like the man
01:18:34that I thought
01:18:34I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad
01:18:39at the way
01:18:40he talked
01:18:40to me.
01:18:41The way
01:18:41he's shaking
01:18:42his hand
01:18:42in front
01:18:42of my face
01:18:43and no.
01:18:44No,
01:18:44he's not going
01:18:45to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't
01:18:46come and apologize,
01:18:47I'm getting
01:18:47in the car.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better
01:19:11come and apologize.
01:19:12And if he doesn't
01:19:12come and apologize,
01:19:13I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at
01:19:15the way he talked
01:19:16to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking
01:19:18his hand
01:19:18in front of my face
01:19:19and no.
01:19:20No,
01:19:20he's not going
01:19:21to do that.
01:19:22He's not going
01:19:22to shake his hand
01:19:23in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:52Baby, why are you
01:19:52here?
01:19:56Why are you
01:19:56talking to me
01:19:57like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand
01:20:00in my face.
01:20:01No,
01:20:01I gave you
01:20:01I wanted to know
01:20:03if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did
01:20:05like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even
01:20:10going to drink it
01:20:10anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop
01:20:12can make someone
01:20:12go...
01:20:13Then why are you
01:20:14drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you
01:20:16know that we have
01:20:17traditional drinks
01:20:18in our place.
01:20:19Okay,
01:20:21and don't get mad
01:20:22at me because
01:20:22I can't pronounce
01:20:23everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel,
01:20:26you can't pronounce
01:20:27everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:29So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:33Oh,
01:20:33come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:36You are raising
01:20:36your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry,
01:20:38okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on,
01:20:41eat.
01:20:41Are you going
01:20:42to be nice?
01:20:44I've been nice
01:20:45always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat
01:20:47your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:52That's your little girl.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm
01:20:55around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:01I am so upset
01:21:03with Daniel
01:21:03right now.
01:21:05This is our
01:21:06first full day
01:21:06together,
01:21:07and I'm seeing
01:21:07this whole other
01:21:08side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving
01:21:11is giving off
01:21:11warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:18My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him
01:21:22that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not
01:21:28allowed to smoke
01:21:28as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle
01:21:34that you don't have it?
01:21:35No, you said,
01:21:36you don't talk
01:21:37about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want
01:21:39to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family,
01:21:45we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth,
01:21:48no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle
01:21:53does not give you
01:21:54the blessing,
01:21:54does that mean
01:21:55that we are not
01:21:56getting married?
01:22:00That's it.
01:22:08You told me
01:22:09you were a man
01:22:10who could make
01:22:10his own decisions.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria
01:22:12for a reason,
01:22:14and now you're telling me
01:22:15without a blessing
01:22:15that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man,
01:22:19but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family,
01:22:23we have one of our own
01:22:24the way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want
01:22:27everything possible
01:22:28to make sure
01:22:29that my uncle
01:22:29gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:33And the vaping
01:22:34is the only thing
01:22:34that you're
01:22:35very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried
01:22:50about the vape,
01:22:50but that seems
01:22:52really small
01:22:53compared to
01:22:54all the other things
01:22:55that Daniel
01:22:56doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified
01:22:59to tell him
01:23:00my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea
01:23:02if he'll be able
01:23:02to forgive me,
01:23:03and even if he
01:23:04accepted my past,
01:23:06once I reveal
01:23:06my secrets to him,
01:23:08is he going to have
01:23:08to tell all of his family
01:23:09that I've only been
01:23:10with women
01:23:11for the past 21 years
01:23:12and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle
01:23:16about that,
01:23:17I'm scared I'm not
01:23:18going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want
01:23:21to lose Daniel.
01:23:26I'm here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on
01:23:30Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute.
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids
01:23:35will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it
01:23:38if I can bring
01:23:38a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But I want
01:23:41to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided
01:23:44does not want
01:23:45to have kids,
01:23:46I don't know
01:23:47if I could be
01:23:48with him.
01:23:49You want
01:23:49what you don't want.
01:23:53Now that I'm
01:23:55in person
01:23:55with my husband,
01:23:57he's giving me
01:23:58trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what
01:24:00you promised me
01:24:01before you
01:24:02came down here?
01:24:03I was going to stop
01:24:04talking to that person.
01:24:06So,
01:24:07can I
01:24:08see your phone?
01:24:11Now?
01:24:14Tell me something
01:24:15interesting
01:24:16about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın
01:24:18bilinmeyen bir yanı
01:24:19var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:24Laura is
01:24:25already worried
01:24:26about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want
01:24:28to make things
01:24:29bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça
01:24:31onun sana olan
01:24:32tepkisini
01:24:32büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What did she say?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:42Man.
01:24:44This is so
01:24:45beautiful here.
01:24:46Holy
01:24:48what would you
01:24:49look at that.
01:24:50Sheena's
01:24:51expecting me
01:24:52to believe
01:24:52that if her parents
01:24:54don't take her money
01:24:55that they're
01:24:56going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight,
01:24:57we'll get the truth
01:24:58for Sheena.
01:25:00She told us
01:25:01if she didn't
01:25:03give the money
01:25:04that you would
01:25:05mistreat her.
01:25:06Do you say
01:25:07this?
01:25:12Uncle,
01:25:13you are not
01:25:15an Igbo
01:25:16woman.
01:25:17I want to know
01:25:18you more.
01:25:20I'm sitting
01:25:20next to the man
01:25:21I love
01:25:21and he doesn't
01:25:22know
01:25:22about me.
01:25:24I don't want to
01:25:24lie to his uncle
01:25:25but I want us
01:25:27to have this blessing
01:25:27more than anything
01:25:28in the world.
01:25:29Are you a
01:25:30practicing person?
01:25:31I have not
01:25:31always been
01:25:32but Daniel
01:25:33makes me
01:25:33into a better
01:25:34woman.
01:25:36Are you
01:25:37or were you
01:25:37a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you practice
01:25:41lesbianism?
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