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00:00:09I'm not really nervous about meeting Jordan. He loves me for my personality and my values,
00:00:15but I'm a little bit nervous about just making sure I don't, you know, fall over or do anything
00:00:20crazy. I was able to brush my teeth, so hopefully that goes over quite well because I had roast
00:00:27beef for lunch, but I think he'll love that, too. He's a big food guy, so.
00:00:35I hope that she finds me attractive, obviously. Definitely would make a good impression. Hopefully
00:00:40I don't fall or tear my pants when I get down to propose, but I just want to go see
00:00:45her.
00:00:53Wow.
00:00:57You look incredible.
00:00:59You're so beautiful. Come here.
00:01:05How crazy is this?
00:01:07You're gorgeous.
00:01:11Oh my gosh.
00:01:16Got something for you.
00:01:18Let's see what you think.
00:01:20Amber.
00:01:22Amber.
00:01:22Amber.
00:01:24Amber.
00:01:25Amber.
00:01:25Amber.
00:01:27Will you marry me?
00:01:34My hands are shaking. Oh my gosh.
00:01:42Is your heart beating out of your chest like mine? Oh my gosh. Let's go out some champagne.
00:01:48Oh my gosh.
00:01:50Damn.
00:01:51Oh wow.
00:01:53What do you think?
00:01:54Yes.
00:01:54Do you like what you see?
00:01:55Yes, I do.
00:01:57You're so beautiful.
00:02:00I've already fallen in love with Amber and then for her to be just like absolutely beautiful.
00:02:05I've never felt anything like this before.
00:02:08Wow.
00:02:09You're absolutely beautiful.
00:02:14They're very handsome.
00:02:16Let's get in here.
00:02:18Whew.
00:02:19Let's see.
00:02:19We look good together.
00:02:21Yeah.
00:02:23We do.
00:02:24Wow.
00:02:28Heart is pumping.
00:02:31So weird matching your voice with your face.
00:02:34It's so weird.
00:02:34Was it not what you were expecting?
00:02:36I didn't.
00:02:36I couldn't expect anything.
00:02:38You're gorgeous though.
00:02:41All right.
00:02:42Yes.
00:02:43Whew.
00:02:46Cheers.
00:02:47I can't wait for the future with us.
00:02:49I can't either.
00:02:52Cheers.
00:02:54I definitely don't think it would have mattered what he looked like but he has this smile that
00:02:59just is so incredible and amazing and these eyes that just really light up whenever he
00:03:05talks and just is so amazing.
00:03:09Wow.
00:03:10I'm so lucky.
00:03:12I am too.
00:03:16Love you.
00:03:17Love you too.
00:03:21I'm stunned.
00:03:23You're absolutely gorgeous.
00:03:24I am glad that I was like nervous.
00:03:28I mean you get nervous.
00:03:29I'm walking in and I'm like I don't even know if he's going to.
00:03:32I know my heart was like beating out of my chest and I was like faint in the door.
00:03:39I've got this for you too actually.
00:03:42This is what I read to you yesterday.
00:03:44I want you to keep it.
00:03:46You're so welcome.
00:03:47I am so happy.
00:03:48Me too.
00:03:49Like I didn't care what you look like.
00:03:51Now you're this handsome man.
00:03:53Oh thank you.
00:03:54Thank you so much.
00:03:56I love you.
00:03:57I love you too.
00:04:00This is like crazy.
00:04:02I know.
00:04:04The second best moment of my life.
00:04:06The first was having Emma but this is the second.
00:04:08I love that.
00:04:12Me too.
00:04:13I am holding a letter.
00:04:14It says to my love, the most beautiful person I've never seen.
00:04:19Your strength is inspiring.
00:04:21Your charm is intoxicating and your confidence radiates.
00:04:25You're a fighter.
00:04:26You're a caretaker.
00:04:27You're a role model.
00:04:29Thank you for showing me who you really are and accepting me for who I am.
00:04:33To the love of my life.
00:04:35I love you.
00:04:37Amber Catherine Morrison.
00:04:38He wrote this to me before he ever saw me.
00:04:42That makes me feel incredible.
00:04:45Especially after I had Emma like I never thought I would.
00:04:47You know I saw like all my friends lives going different ways and they were all getting married and engaged
00:04:52and stuff and I was like that's probably just like out of the picture for me.
00:04:55You know what I mean at this point of my life.
00:04:57I never thought it was going to actually like happen.
00:04:59It happened.
00:05:01It happened look.
00:05:02It happened.
00:05:04There you go.
00:05:05There you go.
00:05:08Like it happened.
00:05:11I feel so good right now.
00:05:14This is so incredible.
00:05:16Love you.
00:05:17Me too.
00:05:23Bye bye.
00:05:55I don't wear rings.
00:05:57I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:05:58I bought.
00:05:58You'll get used to it.
00:05:59I bought a little like ring off of Sheen to like practice having it on and I was like this
00:06:04is so uncomfortable.
00:06:05Why are you here?
00:06:07For a husband.
00:06:10I've been manifesting this for sure.
00:06:14I bought a wedding dress.
00:06:16I loved the dress.
00:06:18It was on sale and I got a wedding dress so I don't have a choice.
00:06:23I'm getting married.
00:06:25Good morning.
00:06:26How are you?
00:06:27I'm good.
00:06:28How are you Javonte?
00:06:29I'm doing well.
00:06:30Thank you for asking.
00:06:31I know it's still like early but I am feeling stuff so.
00:06:34You can tell who you want to focus your energy on.
00:06:37Exactly.
00:06:38I want my wife to know the most about me walking out of this.
00:06:41Yeah.
00:06:41Yeah.
00:06:42What's one thing you noticed about me?
00:06:44Do you want the truth?
00:06:46Yes.
00:06:47Your voice is a little nerdy.
00:06:50But obviously it didn't scare me away.
00:06:54Right.
00:06:55Obviously I do photo and video.
00:06:56Yeah.
00:06:57We're all a nerd about something in our life.
00:06:59My brothers are both really into photography.
00:07:02Sounds like we have a dynamic team already.
00:07:05We do.
00:07:05You come from a big family.
00:07:07I come from a big family.
00:07:09And listen I'm a nerd when it comes to labor and delivery.
00:07:12Like I will talk about it all day long every day and not be ashamed.
00:07:17People are always like so you don't think it's nasty like seeing vaginas all day long.
00:07:22Seeing babies come out of there and I'm like no I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world.
00:07:26I love that.
00:07:27Yeah.
00:07:28What else do you nerd out about?
00:07:29When the wobble comes on, electric slide, I am 100% out there.
00:07:34So you won't be embarrassed if your husband does like the worm.
00:07:37It's going to depend on where he decides to do the worm.
00:07:40At a wedding.
00:07:42Right.
00:07:43Do you baby.
00:07:45I just picture you being like this guy's going to do the worm down the aisle.
00:07:49Like oh dear god.
00:07:50Like isn't that your husband?
00:07:51I'm like huh?
00:07:52I don't know who that is.
00:07:53I'm not actually sure anymore.
00:07:55I don't have a husband.
00:07:57You got me confused with that other lady over there.
00:07:59Oh you're funny.
00:08:01I'm excited to be a husband and like something that stood out to me like early on with you.
00:08:06It has a lot to do with like how excited you are about the idea of like seeing like your
00:08:10man be a father.
00:08:12I'm ready to be married because I am established in my career.
00:08:16More importantly it's like I don't think I've ever known myself this deeply.
00:08:20For me marriage is like it's a forever thing.
00:08:23Imagine if our grandparents gave up on some of the stuff you hear people give up on in today's world.
00:08:29It's just like we wouldn't even exist had like our parents grandparents not gone through the hard times together.
00:08:34When I get married I want my wife to know like you can't leave me until I die.
00:08:38Right.
00:08:39Like because listen you said we're in this so we're in it.
00:08:44I do want to share something a little personal with you.
00:08:47Okay.
00:08:48I got pulled out by production and my grandfather passed away.
00:08:58I'm so sorry.
00:09:00If I stay here it's important to me like I am here for the right reasons because I have every
00:09:06reason to be gone right now.
00:09:10I understand if at any point you're like emotionally I need to step away.
00:09:16Yeah.
00:09:16Or you just want to be with your family.
00:09:17I completely get that.
00:09:24I had a chance to like talk to my brother as I was talking to him and like my grandma
00:09:29like something that you know they both said to me is like this is like what my grandfather would want.
00:09:35I want to like continue on with this and you know hopefully I find my lifelong partner like my grandparents
00:09:41did.
00:09:42I wouldn't be here if I wasn't ready.
00:09:56Have you all seen the movie A Bronx Tale?
00:09:59It's an older movie.
00:10:00I don't think so.
00:10:01There's a line in it and he just says like you get three great women in your life.
00:10:05Your first love's the one that it's like puppy love.
00:10:07The second one breaks you and then the third one fixes it type thing.
00:10:10And that's the one that kind of lasts with my connection with Ashley.
00:10:14That makes sense to me for sure logically.
00:10:16Ashley and I are getting along phenomenally.
00:10:18One of the biggest parts of a relationship in my opinion is opening up and being emotional.
00:10:22It's incredibly difficult as men.
00:10:25So being able to kind of bring that emotion in a safe place with the woman that you're you know
00:10:29attracted to emotionally is what I've been looking for in a wife for a long time.
00:10:33Obviously a soccer coach is not what I planned on right after college but it's what I love to do.
00:10:38And I've said before like as a kid I really locked in on soccer and that became you know my
00:10:42identity growing up.
00:10:44Do you mind if I ask you like why you had to stop playing like did you get injured or.
00:10:47Yeah so I had four knee surgeries at the wrong time.
00:10:51Oh my God.
00:10:52Draft day was the worst day of my life because you're supposed to fly out to LA and wear a
00:10:56suit and put the scarf on that the team drafts you in and stand up on the podium and say
00:11:00thank God for getting here.
00:11:02It's supposed to be you know signing bonus day and all of these things you worked 20 plus years for.
00:11:08And for me it was.
00:11:10I'm sitting on a couch in North Carolina with my college soccer team at this point who I spent four
00:11:16and a half years with with my leg in a cast.
00:11:18What I mean on the Percocet because I have to be.
00:11:21Yeah.
00:11:22Watching on a laptop and you know the entire team is there my mom's there in the other room making
00:11:27cookies and one of my best friends on the team he got drafted I think it was 13th or 14th
00:11:31overall which is great.
00:11:32You know for me I was.
00:11:34That sounds arrogant when I say that I was supposed to be a top five pick most likely a top
00:11:3910 realistically.
00:11:42I will remember this till the day I die.
00:11:44I was so happy for him to get drafted but the loneliest part what because he was at in LA
00:11:49you know doing exactly what I just explained.
00:11:52And the loneliest part was the entire team.
00:11:55Was so excited they stood up like dude I got to go play I got to go I want to
00:11:59go to the field and just play.
00:12:01And the entire team left.
00:12:03And everyone left me kind of there to watch my name get called.
00:12:07And it kind of shows you like it like those were supposed to be my boys like the the you
00:12:12know support system that you had.
00:12:13And for them to kind of leave before my name is called was pretty tough.
00:12:17I mean they sent me a couple text afterwards but it's like oh we're not really that close.
00:12:22I got it like we were just friends because I was good at soccer not because we're actually friends.
00:12:25Yeah.
00:12:26But I was still drafted I was 23rd overall which is nothing to scoff at but it's not how I
00:12:31you know dreamed it up.
00:12:32The fourth knee surgery came through after the the team that drafted me said hey you're not going to play
00:12:38again.
00:12:39Oh my god.
00:12:40So that was a tough one for me.
00:12:42You can imagine like that mental kind of aspect when you lose what you had been kind of working for
00:12:46for that long.
00:12:47It's very very difficult to overcome but when you get through that spend the time to actually develop as a
00:12:54person outside of just being an athlete.
00:12:56So I think that's one of my better accomplishments realistically.
00:12:59I want you to feel comfortable coming to me and like your darkest days or with any problem that you
00:13:05have and that's when you really feel loved.
00:13:08But that's why we're here right exactly.
00:13:11It's the way we talked about things we want on set all night.
00:13:18I've been waiting for you.
00:13:20I've been waiting for you.
00:13:23I've been waiting for you.
00:13:25You alright?
00:13:27I'm so sad but I'm just...
00:13:31What happened to you?
00:13:32If you want to talk about it you don't have to.
00:13:34It's just...
00:13:36I mean I went there with my number one, opened up to her like how I'm having feelings for my
00:13:43first date.
00:13:44She didn't take that love.
00:13:45Oh fuck.
00:13:46She walked out.
00:13:47Damn.
00:13:50She's gotten left?
00:13:54Yeah.
00:13:55Oh wait but you're crying.
00:13:58I am but I fucking...
00:14:00I have to know what the fuck I'm worth and I'm not dealing with this shit.
00:14:03Oh yes.
00:14:03Let's go.
00:14:04I'm not dealing with that shit.
00:14:05I'm not living.
00:14:06You need to clap out.
00:14:07You need to clap out.
00:14:08Right on you.
00:14:09I can't.
00:14:10Bye.
00:14:11Bye.
00:14:12We'll see you.
00:14:13We'll see you in Ohio.
00:14:15Group hug.
00:14:16I'm not doing that shit again.
00:14:23Honestly the lounge is insane right now.
00:14:28Emotions are high and I have seen her tears about this situation and that is gut wrenching.
00:14:38I love y'all.
00:14:40I love you.
00:14:40I love you.
00:14:41I love you.
00:14:43Woo.
00:14:44Jesus.
00:14:44We are both amazing women.
00:14:49You know?
00:14:50Oh.
00:14:51Yeah.
00:14:51Come here.
00:14:52That's a good man.
00:14:54I know your man.
00:14:56I think I know your man.
00:14:58That's a good man.
00:14:59Just need a second.
00:15:00I'm sorry.
00:15:02I'm a grown ass woman.
00:15:03Like I signed up for this experiment.
00:15:06You signed up for this experiment.
00:15:09Let's not play victim.
00:15:10The victim game here.
00:15:18He talked about, you know, having a stronger connection.
00:15:21And then he went on with the whole you so great speech.
00:15:24I'm not sitting through that shit again.
00:15:26I'm not.
00:15:27I'm not.
00:15:28So I'm going to leave.
00:15:30He said the other connection was stronger?
00:15:33He's, no, he didn't say it was stronger.
00:15:34But he said like after his first date, like I'm feeling strong connections.
00:15:39I'm going to make the decision for you.
00:15:41And I'm going to leave.
00:15:43But isn't that what you've done in the past?
00:15:46Like.
00:15:46It is.
00:15:47What I did in the past was leave.
00:15:49I don't know.
00:15:49I was just struggling.
00:15:50I was just having a hard time explaining.
00:15:53Like.
00:15:54I mean, the good thing is if her reaction was that, like, immediate, that means she's
00:15:59got some pretty strong feelings for you.
00:16:01Yeah.
00:16:02If I go back in that pod, I'm just going to be silent.
00:16:04If you don't want to go back in, you don't have to.
00:16:06But there still is, you know, a lot of times left on the page.
00:16:11I don't even know if that man would want to come back in that day.
00:16:16I can ask about that.
00:16:18Mm-hmm.
00:16:24Redo.
00:16:25Oh.
00:16:26What?
00:16:30Not a redo.
00:16:35All right.
00:16:42Hey, Tyler.
00:16:44Hi.
00:16:46Thank you for coming back, for being, you know, talking to me.
00:16:49You're welcome.
00:16:51Thank you for coming back.
00:16:53Yeah.
00:16:55I'm sorry, Tyler.
00:16:56I did not mean for, you know, to trigger you or to, you know, make you feel like you
00:17:02had, you know, to storm out.
00:17:03I'm choosing somebody over you.
00:17:05That's not what I was trying to say at all.
00:17:07Just was expressing just my, you know, thoughts and feelings.
00:17:11That's all.
00:17:12Thank you for the apology.
00:17:13For sure.
00:17:16Oh, man.
00:17:17And I'm sorry for slamming the door on you.
00:17:19No, you're fine.
00:17:21What do you need as you think about how you're going to make your decision?
00:17:26I need to just have, make it, like, it's comfortable.
00:17:30It feels natural.
00:17:31It feels safe.
00:17:32It feels like this is fired up.
00:17:35Like, we are doing this.
00:17:36Like, it's go time.
00:17:38That's really what I've, you know, kind of been looking for.
00:17:42We have had an amazing connection.
00:17:46And, yes, Tyler, I definitely feel that bond.
00:17:52Do you think you'll be able to get there in this experiment?
00:17:54I definitely think it can happen.
00:17:56Yeah.
00:17:56You know, I definitely think that there are, you know, qualities in you that I see that,
00:18:01you know, could potentially be able to do that.
00:18:04For me, what I would need to say yes if somebody proposed to me is, like, I need to know
00:18:09that me and you have time to lock in without distractions of somebody else.
00:18:14And I don't want that to be the day that you say, you know, will you marry me if we
00:18:19get to that point?
00:18:20Like, there needs to be some time where it's like, okay, locked in.
00:18:24Like, first of all, I need to be a girlfriend before I'm a fiance.
00:18:26Like, you gotta ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:18:28But I just want to offer you some validation.
00:18:30Like, I think if you were to get married tomorrow to whoever, like, you would be an incredible husband, an
00:18:34incredible partner.
00:18:36Like, I think you have evidence in your life of being a great person to other people.
00:18:41I think you are a great man that is already prepared and has all the things that he needs to
00:18:46be a great husband.
00:18:47I think the question for all of us is like, okay, to who?
00:18:50Like, I'm going to make that clear.
00:18:54Okay.
00:18:55Yeah.
00:18:56Okay, Kevin.
00:18:59I'm so curious at what your smile looks like.
00:19:04I'm like, can I just get a picture of a smile?
00:19:06Oh, man.
00:19:08It's a good smile.
00:19:09Can't wait, can't wait.
00:19:12I'm sorry.
00:19:17I'm sorry.
00:19:20Tyler.
00:19:22I'm sorry for bombarding you earlier outside.
00:19:24I didn't mean to bombard you like that.
00:19:26It's okay.
00:19:26That was kind of fucked up.
00:19:27It's okay.
00:19:29Emotions are high.
00:19:30I know.
00:19:30It happened.
00:19:32It was like that though.
00:19:34You want to hug out?
00:19:35Yeah.
00:19:36I love you.
00:19:37I love you.
00:19:38I love you.
00:19:39I love you.
00:19:40I love you.
00:19:40I love you.
00:19:41I love you.
00:19:42I love you.
00:19:43I love you.
00:19:43Yeah.
00:19:47What in the world?
00:19:48Yeah.
00:19:57Do you feel good about your people?
00:19:58Yeah.
00:19:59Good.
00:19:59No, I do.
00:19:59I love you.
00:20:00I think the hardest thing for me, it's like, each individual person, I'm connecting with
00:20:04them for different reasons.
00:20:05Yeah.
00:20:05But it's like, am I really going to get the whole package?
00:20:07I know.
00:20:08I'm attracted to you.
00:20:09I would be attracted to you.
00:20:10I would absolutely date you.
00:20:11But like, you're missing this.
00:20:13And then I go over here and I'm like, you have all this that that guy's missing, but I'm
00:20:16not like that connection over here.
00:20:18What am I going to find someone that does everything?
00:20:19I know.
00:20:20You'll find them.
00:20:22I know.
00:20:23I have Connor and I have Chris.
00:20:25Both really fantastic guys.
00:20:27Connor has been, from the start, my number one.
00:20:30It was like an electric connection from the beginning.
00:20:32Like, no way.
00:20:33Like, this is crazy.
00:20:34There's no way, like, we had this much in common.
00:20:37That's insane.
00:20:38I was the coach's son.
00:20:40I want to be my son's coach.
00:20:44Yeah.
00:20:44I'm going to take what my dad taught us and that's exactly what I want to be.
00:20:49I love that.
00:20:50My dad coached me in softball.
00:20:52My mom coached me in cheerleading.
00:20:53My dad coached my brother in football.
00:20:54I actually can just fast forward and envision that life for me.
00:20:57I absolutely want a family.
00:21:00And like, I think I'm meant to be a mom.
00:21:01I'm full of soccer mom.
00:21:03Kids get in the car.
00:21:04We got to make like 10 stops.
00:21:05So you want, you want a van?
00:21:06No.
00:21:07Would you get the ick if I said I wanted a van?
00:21:09Stop it.
00:21:10I kind of do.
00:21:11Connor.
00:21:12What?
00:21:12You can drive the van.
00:21:13I will happily drive the van.
00:21:15Oh my God.
00:21:16I've visualized like my whole life with Connor, but he's a slow burn.
00:21:20And something that I really love about Chris is not only does he make me feel comfortable,
00:21:25make me feel safe to kind of really connect at a more intimate level.
00:21:30But I know that he would be a partner for me that would challenge me and push me.
00:21:34What are you wearing today?
00:21:35Everyone says orange is my color.
00:21:37And I'm actually wearing orange again.
00:21:39Is it like an orange?
00:21:40It's like a romper.
00:21:42Oh.
00:21:42I don't know if I should say something to you or not.
00:21:44What do you mean?
00:21:45I'm actually kind of scared to say it.
00:21:47Why?
00:21:48I don't want to like say something someone else told me, but I feel like I should.
00:21:52Go for it.
00:21:53So there's this person on the other side in your guys' lounge.
00:21:56Okay.
00:21:57One of the girls.
00:21:58There was a girl.
00:22:00And I met with her today.
00:22:03And like I knew for a fact like we weren't a match.
00:22:06And I told her that.
00:22:08I think she's great.
00:22:08But she's like, I think I know who your person is here.
00:22:12Stop it.
00:22:13Like what?
00:22:13She said, I think I know who the person you're like meant to be with.
00:22:17Really?
00:22:18Yeah.
00:22:19She said that to me.
00:22:20She was like, the way you talk to me, she goes, this person would be perfect for you.
00:22:25And I was like, don't not say a name to me, please.
00:22:28But that person you were talking about, what was she wearing today?
00:22:31She was like, she was wearing an orange romper.
00:22:34I was like, no fucking way.
00:22:38I was like, what?
00:22:40These girls trying to play matchmakers in here.
00:22:42I know.
00:22:43I know.
00:22:43I just feel like I had to tell you that.
00:22:44Okay.
00:22:45And now I understand why you asked me that.
00:22:46Yeah.
00:22:46And now you're trying to debunk it.
00:22:49No, I'm not.
00:22:49You were trying to figure out who it was.
00:22:51Who was the orange romper?
00:22:53Yes.
00:22:54It was me.
00:22:55I'm in the orange romper today.
00:22:57I know.
00:22:57Well, I can tell you.
00:22:58It brings me to another question.
00:22:59I want to ask you.
00:23:00Here we go.
00:23:01When it comes to a long-term commitment, like marriage, what are some qualities you need
00:23:06to see in somebody?
00:23:07I can tell you one that I know that I would definitely be able to give you.
00:23:12Oh, and what's that?
00:23:14I love the fact that you're very independent.
00:23:17You're very driven.
00:23:18But I feel like maybe I could take that to the next level with you and show you things,
00:23:23maybe to challenge yourself to new things that you have not tried yet.
00:23:26And it could be anything, right?
00:23:27It doesn't have to be something that's financially or monetary.
00:23:30But whatever it is in life, whether it's emotional or maybe helping you grow as a person
00:23:35Yes.
00:23:35And really listen to like maybe problems that are going through your day or like goals
00:23:39that you have.
00:23:40Maybe we could help each other like work on those.
00:23:42Yes.
00:23:42I would love to like challenge you like every day in a good positive way.
00:23:45I love that.
00:23:57That's what I'm looking to find in this experience is like, what does that look like?
00:24:01Is it masculine energy?
00:24:03I don't know.
00:24:04Sure.
00:24:05Yeah.
00:24:05Because like that's the whole point of this experiment.
00:24:07Like that was a physical thing for me before.
00:24:09Okay.
00:24:09Yeah.
00:24:10So like, how does someone bring me into that feminine energy on an emotional level?
00:24:14Because I don't feel like I let myself feel that way a lot.
00:24:17I'm like, I can do it myself.
00:24:18I got it.
00:24:19Like I'm always planning the trips for my friends and like doing the reservations.
00:24:22I get that vibe a little bit.
00:24:23Yeah.
00:24:24I can guarantee you'll never have to worry about booking a restaurant reservation.
00:24:28I'll just tell you what time.
00:24:29That's what I'm saying.
00:24:30Like that stuff.
00:24:31Yeah, I know.
00:24:32Like I think that stuff is like how I want someone to show up for me.
00:24:36I want to be there.
00:24:38I would be the person to like do that for you.
00:24:40I love that.
00:24:40Well, that makes me feel even more attracted to you.
00:24:44Listen, I'm attracted to you, Jubilee.
00:24:47Yeah.
00:24:47I don't even know what you look like, right?
00:24:49You're going to be like, yo, this dude is ugly, man.
00:24:52Even if you were ugly, I would still be attracted to you about like this swag or like, I don't
00:24:58know.
00:24:59I don't know how to describe it.
00:25:00I love it.
00:25:00Keep telling me.
00:25:01But like, you know what I'm saying?
00:25:03Like I could be a great girlfriend.
00:25:06I know you would be.
00:25:08You guys would like all be great boyfriends.
00:25:11Like we would have a ball.
00:25:12But like, who's my husband?
00:25:14You know?
00:25:14It helps me feel my beating heart.
00:25:17It's been calling from the start.
00:25:20Saddle up boys.
00:25:21Like, this is it.
00:25:22Like, who's kind of that boyfriend material versus like, who do I want to spend the rest
00:25:26of my life with?
00:25:27It's the joys of dating two men at the same time.
00:25:31Oh, they just smash them together and make it one.
00:25:37So you have one more tonight?
00:25:38I think so.
00:25:39If she didn't go home, I don't know if she's staying this late.
00:25:41Oh, okay.
00:25:42Okay.
00:25:43Bree's a great connection.
00:25:44We get along so well.
00:25:46We relate on a similar level of banter.
00:25:50She's just a great person, like to her core.
00:25:52But at the same time, another great connection I have is with Jess.
00:25:55She's super kind.
00:25:56She's so funny.
00:25:57She has like a calming sense about her.
00:25:59She seems very intelligent.
00:26:01I think she's great.
00:26:02Crunch time, crunch time.
00:26:04This is gonna be interesting.
00:26:06What?
00:26:07How this all like, plays out.
00:26:08I know.
00:26:09I have two.
00:26:10You have two.
00:26:11Kevon has two.
00:26:12Wow.
00:26:13Mm-hmm.
00:26:18I have to realize as well, like, these girls are dating other guys.
00:26:22Brianna has always been like, on my top.
00:26:25It's gonna be fine.
00:26:26Gonna be fine.
00:26:27But I think Jess is more open with her emotions.
00:26:32It's the only, you know, thing I think about too, is like, Jess is 38.
00:26:36So, she's six years older than me too.
00:26:40Ann Bree is younger.
00:26:42It's just...
00:26:45Decisions.
00:26:46It's tough.
00:26:47Is this my husband?
00:26:48Right.
00:26:49But I never really, you know, factored in age as like a super important thing.
00:26:53Like in my dating life anyways.
00:26:55I think it's more about, you know, personality.
00:26:58You know, their emotional intelligence and who they are as a person.
00:27:02Hello.
00:27:03Hi.
00:27:04Is that a sleepy boy?
00:27:06No, I'm fine.
00:27:07I'm glad to talk to you.
00:27:09Ugh, same.
00:27:10I've been waiting.
00:27:12I've been waiting.
00:27:13I'm emotional right now.
00:27:14And like, I'm just trying to like, figure this out.
00:27:16I just feel like...
00:27:21I feel like in this experience, there are like two big hurdles.
00:27:26Hurdle number one is finding somebody.
00:27:28And the second hurdle is figuring out if the two of you can get to that next step together.
00:27:37Hmm.
00:27:41And I just feel like I could only like, see that possibility with one person and that's you.
00:27:50Wow.
00:27:51I mean, let me just take that in for a second before I respond directly to you, Jess.
00:28:01Since day two, I've only had one number one.
00:28:04And it's my favorite person that I could possibly ever even consider in my entire life.
00:28:12Literally ever.
00:28:14Without even knowing what the hell you look like.
00:28:17It's Jess.
00:28:19Like, I was like, it's literally Jess.
00:28:20And, um, the fact that you said that just makes it even better.
00:28:25I just, I had zero intention of telling you that.
00:28:29Just FYI.
00:28:31Okay.
00:28:31Because my worst fear was that you had another connection that you were working on.
00:28:40And I didn't want to color that.
00:28:43And I would never ever want you to pick me because I picked you.
00:28:51Hmm.
00:28:53Okay.
00:28:53So totally honest.
00:28:54Mm-hmm.
00:28:55I mean, there's one other person that I'm talking to.
00:28:58Yeah.
00:28:58But, like, the other connection that I have, it's like a dude almost hanging out with me.
00:29:06And it's like, yeah, that could be my friend.
00:29:08I don't want to say that.
00:29:09I don't want to give too much of that.
00:29:10Yeah.
00:29:11Please don't.
00:29:11Yeah, but whatever.
00:29:12Whatever.
00:29:12You probably know who it is anyways.
00:29:13I don't.
00:29:14I don't.
00:29:14Okay.
00:29:15Anyways, that's fun.
00:29:16Mm-hmm.
00:29:17Like, I feel like me and you, it's like, it just feels, like, so good.
00:29:21It feels so different.
00:29:21And, like, I think, like, long-term things, right?
00:29:24Like, I feel like we, like, me and you.
00:29:28Mm-hmm.
00:29:28I feel like it's just different than anything, anyone else that I have talked to.
00:29:34Me too.
00:29:35That means a lot to me.
00:29:36I think you are so kind and compassionate, empathetic.
00:29:40And, like, I resonate with that.
00:29:43You say, you know, you're okay with never having kids.
00:29:45But you say you're, like, open to it if somebody wanted to.
00:29:48And it's weird because, like, I am okay with never having kids.
00:29:52And you're okay with never having kids.
00:29:54Mm-hmm.
00:29:54And the best part, the craziest part is you would make such a great mom, though,
00:29:58if you wanted to be a mom.
00:29:59Um, I don't know.
00:30:00I just never.
00:30:01That means so much to me.
00:30:01I can't even tell you.
00:30:03What?
00:30:03That means so much to me.
00:30:05Yeah, I really do mean that.
00:30:07Wow, this is wild, Chris.
00:30:11I feel, like, a little bit like my, like, heart's gonna beat out of my chest.
00:30:19It's nuts.
00:30:24I try to picture, I'm like, okay, what does Jess look like?
00:30:28I have no idea.
00:30:29I know.
00:30:29It's fucking wild.
00:30:30Wild.
00:30:31You could literally have blue hair.
00:30:32I have no idea.
00:30:33I could.
00:30:34I'm not telling you.
00:30:35I definitely want to learn more about your style.
00:30:37I'm like, she's eccentric.
00:30:40To say the least, I want to be barefoot if I can.
00:30:44Yeah.
00:30:45But I love all my, like, heels and shoes.
00:30:47I was just picturing you with six inch heels.
00:30:49I'm like, thinking that.
00:30:50That is wild.
00:30:52Six inches is diabolical.
00:30:53It's not.
00:30:56If you're, like, five seven, you're literally gonna be fucking six one.
00:31:00I'm gonna be like, yo.
00:31:03Oh, my God.
00:31:04Okay.
00:31:06All right.
00:31:06All right.
00:31:07I'm just trying to figure it out.
00:31:11Self-conscious over here.
00:31:13Oh, my God.
00:31:15If you had, like, a physical type, like, what would you think it would be?
00:31:19Just, like, you could be super broad, right?
00:31:21No, no, no.
00:31:21A guy with a beard.
00:31:22A guy with a tattoo.
00:31:24I, um, if you lined up every person I've ever dated, you would be absolutely bewildered at
00:31:31the fact that the same person dated all of them.
00:31:34Really?
00:31:34Like, nothing alike physically.
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:38I literally don't care.
00:31:39I swear to God.
00:31:40What about you?
00:31:41I don't know.
00:31:41Like, dark features, brunette.
00:31:44That's, like, normal.
00:31:45But, like, I've also, like, dated other people that were blonde or, like, you know.
00:31:51I don't know.
00:31:52It's like, okay, you've done pageants, dancing.
00:31:57Singing.
00:31:58Singing.
00:31:59Musical theater.
00:32:00We definitely never would have talked ever.
00:32:03I know.
00:32:03Like, no shot.
00:32:04I would have never found you.
00:32:06No.
00:32:07Like, nothing.
00:32:08Never.
00:32:09And, like, um, it's just crazy to think about.
00:32:12I know.
00:32:13It's crazy.
00:32:14It's crazy.
00:32:15That is, like, the fucking beauty of this.
00:32:22Sweet dreams.
00:32:23You too.
00:32:24Good night.
00:32:25I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
00:32:26Yeah, I'll see you tomorrow.
00:32:29I'll see you tomorrow.
00:32:32Just, like, this spark and energy when I walk into the pod and I know it's Alex.
00:32:37He's saying the right things.
00:32:38We're matching up pretty well.
00:32:40Mm-hmm.
00:32:40So, we'll see.
00:32:43Mmm.
00:32:45Alex is a very beautiful soul.
00:32:47I love our conversations.
00:32:48We have a beautiful connection.
00:32:49It's just so fun with him.
00:32:51Do you like to read?
00:32:51I do really like psychological thriller type mystery.
00:32:55Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:32:55I'm a books guy.
00:32:56One I think you would probably like is The Alchemist.
00:32:59Oh, my God.
00:33:00I love that book.
00:33:02Have you read that book?
00:33:02Of course I've read that book.
00:33:04I'm always trying to, like, make people laugh.
00:33:06Whether it's, like, I'm just dancing, looking like a fool.
00:33:08If I make someone smile like that.
00:33:09Are you funny on purpose or on accident?
00:33:11Do you know what I mean by that?
00:33:12Both.
00:33:13Both? Okay, perfect.
00:33:14Oh, my God, both.
00:33:15Perfect.
00:33:15I'm such a klutz.
00:33:17Yes.
00:33:17I fall constantly.
00:33:19My dad used to call me Crashly when I was a kid.
00:33:21I'm the same way.
00:33:22I'm relatively klutzy.
00:33:23If you give me a ball in a field, I'm good to go.
00:33:25Yeah.
00:33:26But outside of that.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:27We'll be tripping over ourselves.
00:33:28It'll be all right.
00:33:28Great.
00:33:28I literally can, like, trip standing still.
00:33:31People are like, what did you just do?
00:33:32I'm like, I don't know.
00:33:35I want my kids to stay or be at home as much as possible.
00:33:39So you want to have their friends come over and play soccer in the backyard and be the
00:33:42watermelon, you know, delivery person?
00:33:44Yes.
00:33:45I'm here for that.
00:33:45You'll be out there, backwards hat.
00:33:47Yes.
00:33:48Teaching them a thing or two.
00:33:49Oh, for sure.
00:33:50The backwards hat will be there.
00:33:51I'll be just drooling in the kitchen.
00:33:53That's fine by me.
00:33:54My past relationships.
00:33:55I adapted to the toxic environment and I've been numb to a lot of feelings.
00:34:02I guess it's just, like, easier for me to feel nothing than to take the risk of feeling something and
00:34:10getting hurt again.
00:34:14And with Alex, I'm like, I'm very ready to take that risk.
00:34:19Hello.
00:34:20Hello.
00:34:21Is that my girlfriend over there?
00:34:22It's me.
00:34:23How we doing?
00:34:23Can you believe it?
00:34:24I do believe it.
00:34:25I do believe it.
00:34:26I'm glad you're here.
00:34:27I'm glad you're here.
00:34:28I'm so excited to talk to you.
00:34:30How'd you sleep last night?
00:34:31Oh, like a rock.
00:34:32Yeah?
00:34:32How'd you sleep?
00:34:33Very, very well.
00:34:34One of the things that we've really connected on is the book The Alchemist.
00:34:42Mm-hmm.
00:34:43And, you know, for me, Santiago is a shepherd that, you know, sacrifices his career and leaves home in search
00:34:49of treasure and, you know, finds himself instead.
00:34:54He finds that his treasure was 15 feet from him the entire time, which is wild.
00:34:57Sounds very familiar.
00:34:59Mm-hmm.
00:34:59And I think, you know, our journey has been very, very similar to that.
00:35:04I have so much confidence in us and that our treasure is here.
00:35:17Ashley Carpenter, I am on one knee.
00:35:19Ah!
00:35:20And I would love it if you will marry me.
00:35:33I would absolutely love to marry you.
00:35:36Yeah?
00:35:36Or your wife.
00:35:37Yes?
00:35:39Yes.
00:35:42Awesome.
00:35:42A thousand percent.
00:35:43Yes.
00:35:45I love you, Ash.
00:35:46I love you.
00:35:47See you soon?
00:35:48Yes.
00:35:49Alright.
00:35:49That was so quick!
00:35:50That's the only time you're gonna say that.
00:35:53Keep gliding, keep trying, hold on, cause I try to...
00:35:59I'm engaged, though.
00:36:00Hey!
00:36:00Hey!
00:36:03Hey!
00:36:07Hey!
00:36:13Hey!
00:36:14Hey!
00:36:16Hey!
00:36:17Hey!
00:36:18Hey!
00:36:18Hey!
00:36:18Hey!
00:36:19Hey!
00:36:21Hey!
00:36:21What are you wearing?
00:36:23I have some gray sweatpants on.
00:36:25Woof!
00:36:26Gray sweatpants boy,
00:36:27women's kryptonite.
00:36:28I don't understand that.
00:36:30You don't need to!
00:36:32I'm excited for your assed hat.
00:36:33Oh, my God.
00:36:34I forgot I told you that.
00:36:35It made me like, even more.
00:36:36Are you just like, dating me at this point to like, get to the end, just to see my assed
00:36:40hat?
00:36:40I need to see this.
00:36:42What if we see each other and I'm not, like, your type?
00:36:46Hmm.
00:36:47I feel like we get each other on an emotional level,
00:36:50and I think physical attraction can grow.
00:36:54Do you have an idea of what I look like?
00:36:55No.
00:36:56That's pretty cool.
00:36:57Do you?
00:36:59Eh, kind of.
00:36:59What if, like, I'm not your type?
00:37:02Well, the nice thing is I don't have an exact type.
00:37:05Okay.
00:37:05Second, because of how much has, like, kind of made sense
00:37:08and how close we've gotten.
00:37:10Yeah.
00:37:11Emotionally.
00:37:11I don't know, I just, like, feel attracted to you.
00:37:14And if it's not exactly, like, each other's type,
00:37:16I think the physical attraction can definitely grow.
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:20I don't know, I guess it's just, like, a gut feeling
00:37:21that I think we're going to be attracted to each other.
00:37:24And if it's not exactly what we were, like,
00:37:26envisioning or wanting, that it's not going to be, like, an issue.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:29I, like, came in here not knowing what I wanted.
00:37:31Like, I've dated a lot of, like, different guys.
00:37:33Yeah.
00:37:33Different, like, heights and types and looks.
00:37:36You think we'd have cute kids, though?
00:37:39I think we would.
00:37:40Me too.
00:37:42We've talked about my stance on kids, right?
00:37:44Yeah, I'll be completely honest.
00:37:46I mean, I think that'd be tough.
00:37:47Yeah.
00:37:47Because it's something I am passionate about.
00:37:49I know I'm going to be a good dad.
00:37:50I know, yeah.
00:37:51And I can feel that you'd be a good mom, too.
00:37:53So I think that might be, like, a little frustrating
00:37:55because I know how good of parents we'd be.
00:37:57Yeah.
00:37:59I mean, I'd still love you, but...
00:38:00Yeah.
00:38:01I would hope that we could get to the point
00:38:02where kids would be in our lives.
00:38:06So I guess we have something to think about.
00:38:08We'll figure it out.
00:38:09We'll figure it out.
00:38:10And at the altar.
00:38:13Smooth operator tonight.
00:38:14I know.
00:38:15It's working.
00:38:16I'll see you tomorrow.
00:38:17I had fun.
00:38:18All right, good night.
00:38:19Night.
00:38:19Bye.
00:38:25My number one at the moment is Emma.
00:38:29At the moment.
00:38:31Some days we just absolutely blow each other's socks off.
00:38:36But what is married life going to look like for us?
00:38:39Is this a real thing?
00:38:43And with Breezy, she annoys me.
00:38:50She makes me laugh.
00:38:52Constantly.
00:38:53At the end of the day, I sell dumpsters.
00:38:59I'm a guy just looking for love.
00:39:01Do I call your dad G-Man or Mr. McNeese?
00:39:04G-Man.
00:39:05My guy.
00:39:06You gotta go Mr. McNeese first.
00:39:08I'm an old-fashioned guy.
00:39:09Like, I still call a lot of my friends mom and dads, like,
00:39:12Mr. and Mrs.
00:39:13And they're like, Connor, stop it.
00:39:15I'm like, I'm just an old-school guy.
00:39:16I love that.
00:39:17And the thing about G-Man is when I did finally tell him,
00:39:20I might get engaged on the TV show, he's like, what?
00:39:23I feel like he didn't believe me for a while.
00:39:26I mean, I wouldn't either.
00:39:28But he's like, I trust you.
00:39:30That's so nice.
00:39:31How'd your mom take it?
00:39:32She's pumped.
00:39:33I didn't tell my parents until two weeks before I left.
00:39:35No, you didn't.
00:39:36Connor.
00:39:36So I called my mom first, and she's like, I mean, I trust you.
00:39:40A day or two later, called my dad, and he was ecstatic.
00:39:44I find out within 24 hours that they started binging the show because they had never seen it.
00:39:50And then my dad calls.
00:39:52He's like, did you know that they can't see each other?
00:39:54And I'm like, what are we doing here?
00:39:56So then my dad's like, do you know that they go to your house?
00:39:59And I'm like, yeah, I do know that they go to my house.
00:40:02He's like, is it clean?
00:40:03What about the garage?
00:40:04I'm like, if she wants to divorce because my garage might be just a little bit of a mess, that's
00:40:08fine.
00:40:09I'm good with that.
00:40:10Okay, noted on the garage.
00:40:12So the day before I left, I get like three cards in the mail.
00:40:17All three from my mom.
00:40:19First one's a birthday card because this will be the first time I've ever not talked to her on my
00:40:23birthday, I think.
00:40:24Then another card just telling me how proud she is and how I'm pretty courageous for trying something like this.
00:40:31And she knows how serious I'd take this and not waste anybody's time, especially good people's time.
00:40:37And then the last card just kind of saying that she loves me.
00:40:41Both my parents kind of worked their whole lives and still do.
00:40:44My mom started out as just like a receptionist and she just slowly started just working her way up.
00:40:50And then like two years ago or three years ago, she goes, I just got promoted to be a data
00:40:54analyst.
00:40:54At like 50 years old, she gets a new job and works hard enough to get promoted like multiple times.
00:41:00Okay, love that.
00:41:00That like, oh God, I'm getting emotional.
00:41:03I'm like so fucking proud of her for that.
00:41:05That's amazing.
00:41:05And my dad did the same shit like 10 years ago, got a new job and kills it.
00:41:09I love that.
00:41:10And, uh, yeah, they're both my motivation.
00:41:15Whenever I'm like, well, I'm waking up at this job or something.
00:41:18But like, you fucking do it.
00:41:20You just put your head down to work.
00:41:22So that like others around you are taken care of.
00:41:25And they've never done anything except for work hard and try and instill good values in us.
00:41:31And I'll never fucking forget that.
00:41:35Oh, Connor.
00:41:37Well, shit.
00:41:37Parents are like the best though.
00:41:39I love that.
00:41:40We're just normal people.
00:41:42And like, just being a normal fucking person with like good values, I think is just super underrated these days.
00:41:46And with you, it feels just normal.
00:41:49Normal is kind of underrated.
00:41:50When I think about the future, you're in it.
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:54You know?
00:41:55Yeah.
00:41:56Like in everything.
00:41:57It's just been a weird kind of confidence and calmness.
00:42:01Yeah.
00:42:01I do have to, uh, attribute a lot of that to you.
00:42:04Um, the being like a partner and all this and never making me feel anxious.
00:42:10You've always kind of told me where you were at.
00:42:11You've always been reassuring.
00:42:13You've always had my back.
00:42:14That has honestly meant everything to me.
00:42:16And I would not be able to be myself.
00:42:19I wouldn't be able to honestly probably be here.
00:42:22Yeah.
00:42:22Still without you.
00:42:24I love that.
00:42:25Same.
00:42:28I feel like I have such clarity, but like I'm also dating like somebody else.
00:42:33Yeah.
00:42:33But I'm like at the end of the day, like Connor, you're the only person I think about.
00:42:38I'm kind of thinking the same thing with my other connection.
00:42:41Connor, like sitting here with you after all of this, like I will feel so gross going in and hanging
00:42:46out with him.
00:42:47No.
00:42:47No.
00:42:48Believe me.
00:42:48I feel like we're both saying the same thing.
00:42:50We are.
00:42:51I feel like you know what to do.
00:42:53I do.
00:42:53Just don't ghost.
00:42:55No, never.
00:42:56Be nice.
00:42:56It's going to suck.
00:42:57I'll feel bad.
00:42:58I know.
00:43:00Every single time I talk to you, it's just an absolute fire is lit.
00:43:03I know.
00:43:04This is the.
00:43:05I'm a nerd.
00:43:06I know.
00:43:07I'm like Connor, this is what I'm saying though.
00:43:09After meeting you, like my whole life's going to change.
00:43:11I've needed to find you.
00:43:12That was the thing.
00:43:14Now I have to, I have to do some things.
00:43:17I think we both do.
00:43:18This is going to suck.
00:43:20You're driving me nuts.
00:43:21I'll probably drive you nuts too.
00:43:23You already do.
00:43:24Why?
00:43:25I don't know.
00:43:26You just do.
00:43:26She's perfect.
00:43:27No, you're not.
00:43:28What?
00:43:28Yeah, you're my perfect.
00:43:29I can't believe I just said that.
00:43:31I'll see you tonight.
00:43:32All right.
00:43:33Yeah, I'll see you tonight.
00:43:33All right.
00:43:34Good luck.
00:43:34You too.
00:43:35Thanks.
00:43:36Bye.
00:43:36I'll see you tonight.
00:43:36This is a story.
00:43:39It is yours and it is mine.
00:43:50I trust you all.
00:43:53I never thought that I would be sitting here ready to meet my future husband.
00:43:58and it's crazy.
00:44:00I finally think I've found someone
00:44:01who makes me feel safe and secure,
00:44:03and I'm ready to finally put a face to his voice.
00:44:10It does sort of feel like a fairy tale.
00:44:12You know, all these girls have been saying like,
00:44:13oh, you're so much like Barbie, but I want to find my Ken,
00:44:16and I want to have that perfect little love story.
00:44:18My Ken, the Ken to my Barbie.
00:44:29I think I've mentioned before,
00:44:31I wouldn't really approach women
00:44:32unless I had the visual that I was interested in.
00:44:35Your perfection.
00:44:37While the physical is necessary, it's become secondary.
00:44:41So I'm excited to kind of see if my emotional connection
00:44:44matches my physical standards.
00:44:45But even if it doesn't, I'm happy to get married to Ashley.
00:44:48That's who I want to get married to.
00:44:49But I know what I look like, and I have a feeling
00:44:51that based off of her heart, I have a good idea
00:44:54as to what she may look like.
00:44:57I am just excited to, like, feel his arms around me.
00:45:01That's just something I've been craving
00:45:02since we first started talking.
00:45:04I'm obviously very physical.
00:45:06And not to say that I need that aspect
00:45:08to be in love with him.
00:45:09I think it'll just really be, like,
00:45:11the last little puzzle piece in this crazy story
00:45:14of me falling head over heels in love with Alex.
00:45:18The looks will just be the last part of the puzzle.
00:45:22Unless he's breaking up with me today, but I doubt it.
00:45:27I was an athlete, and I hang out with, you know,
00:45:30ex-professional athletes or professional athletes as well.
00:45:32And I think a lot of women probably look at social media
00:45:35and the way that professional athletes treat their women,
00:45:37and they look at that as something that's attractive
00:45:39without really diving into what that relationship is.
00:45:42And then they get to 35, and the guy's done playing sports,
00:45:45and she's not really looking necessarily the way she used to.
00:45:49And they realize we're not really meant to be together.
00:45:52I understand that this is just a shell.
00:45:54And yes, I've been blessed with a very good one
00:45:56to chase athletic dreams and accomplish most of them.
00:46:00And I do hear quite a bit from other people
00:46:02that it's a very good shell, but it's one of those things
00:46:05that doesn't mean that I'm a good person yet.
00:46:08I think that's almost more important
00:46:10than how I look with a girl on my arm.
00:46:14Being myself is the most important thing in a relationship,
00:46:17and I think that's been accepted by Ashley.
00:46:18I mean, finally, crossing that pathway with the woman
00:46:21that you want to spend the rest of your life with
00:46:24is everything.
00:46:29Dreamer, living in a dreamer.
00:46:38Oh, my God.
00:46:40How are we doing?
00:46:42Hi.
00:46:43You're beautiful.
00:46:44You look so handsome.
00:46:45Goodness.
00:46:46Oh, my God.
00:46:47What's going on, Ash?
00:46:47Hi.
00:46:48Fighting soul.
00:46:52You felt like coming home.
00:46:56What's going on?
00:46:57What's going on?
00:46:58Oh, my God.
00:46:59My God.
00:47:04You look gorgeous.
00:47:06You're so handsome.
00:47:07You're so beautiful.
00:47:08Oh.
00:47:10Ashley Carpenter.
00:47:13Oh my God.
00:47:14Will you marry me?
00:47:15Yes.
00:47:17Oh, my goodness.
00:47:17I'm shaking.
00:47:20Oh, my God.
00:47:21That fits perfect, huh?
00:47:23Yes.
00:47:23You feel like coming home.
00:47:24Oh, my God.
00:47:24You feel like coming home.
00:47:28If Ashley wasn't, you know, physically gorgeous, it wouldn't have mattered to me as much, I
00:47:32don't think, anymore, based off of the priority shifts that I've had personally.
00:47:36Oh, my goodness.
00:47:37Wow, you're gorgeous.
00:47:39Oh, my goodness.
00:47:40Oh, my God.
00:47:40You nervous?
00:47:41You feeling all right?
00:47:41Yes.
00:47:42I feel so good.
00:47:43You're beautiful.
00:47:44That looks good on you.
00:47:45I like the dressing, too.
00:47:48Yeah?
00:47:48Want me to get some champagne?
00:47:49Yes.
00:47:50Let's do it.
00:47:50Setting up that emotional connection ahead of time is everything you can ask for, and
00:47:54probably how you should do it anyway, so advice to the young guys out there, really,
00:47:57you know, try that out and see what happens, because I think it does work.
00:48:01This is for you for later.
00:48:03Got some cologne on it, so we'll be all right.
00:48:05Oh, it's so nice.
00:48:06Yeah, right?
00:48:08Wow.
00:48:09Wow, wow, wow.
00:48:10Come here.
00:48:15I feel like home.
00:48:16Yeah.
00:48:18I'm so excited to spend the rest of our lives together.
00:48:20Cheers.
00:48:21Cheers.
00:48:24Mm-hmm.
00:48:26That's exactly what I thought it would be.
00:48:28Yeah?
00:48:28Yeah.
00:48:29You thought I was brunette.
00:48:30I thought you were blonde.
00:48:31No, you didn't.
00:48:32I did.
00:48:32No, I maybe thought it.
00:48:33Going back and forth.
00:48:34Going back and forth.
00:48:35I'm happy you're blonde, though.
00:48:36Yeah?
00:48:37Yeah, absolutely.
00:48:38Absolutely.
00:48:39You look beautiful.
00:48:40I was right.
00:48:41Told that I can answer.
00:48:42Yeah, spot on.
00:48:43I was telling everybody, I was like, he has such a hot voice.
00:48:45I don't know how to explain it.
00:48:46Yeah?
00:48:47Yeah?
00:48:49I'm just going to stare at you the rest of the time.
00:48:50I see the treats and gays.
00:48:51Yeah.
00:48:52Don't look at me like that.
00:48:53Dangerous eyes already?
00:48:54Careful.
00:48:55We're in public right now.
00:48:56Seriously.
00:48:57Oh, my God.
00:48:58Here's the lab, too.
00:48:59Holy shit.
00:49:01I'm in trouble.
00:49:02I'm in trouble.
00:49:03In the best ways.
00:49:04I was so nervous.
00:49:05Yeah?
00:49:06And then as soon as I touched you, it was like...
00:49:08Safe?
00:49:09It was perfect.
00:49:09That's how it should be.
00:49:11Get used to it.
00:49:12Mm-hmm.
00:49:14Come here, man.
00:49:20Don't make them grabbing my neck already.
00:49:23I was listening.
00:49:23I was listening.
00:49:28Dangerous over here.
00:49:31I cannot stop looking at you.
00:49:32Holy shit.
00:49:33You're finally here.
00:49:36Want me to shave?
00:49:37No.
00:49:37Keep it?
00:49:38I like it.
00:49:39Yeah?
00:49:39You're perfect.
00:49:40You're perfect.
00:49:42You're happy?
00:49:43I'm going to ask you 15 more times today.
00:49:45I can see it in your eyes.
00:49:46What color do you think they are?
00:49:48I think they change.
00:49:49Mm-hmm.
00:49:50Right now, they're a little light green, but they're usually...
00:49:52Green usually is...
00:49:54Yeah?
00:49:54Happy.
00:49:55Is it?
00:49:56Yeah.
00:49:56You put that together?
00:49:57No, when they're, like, gray, it's kind of when I'm, like, down in the dumps.
00:50:00I learned that pretty quick.
00:50:02Keep them green as much as possible.
00:50:04Mm-hmm.
00:50:04Yeah?
00:50:05Mm-hmm.
00:50:06God, they're beautiful.
00:50:08Come here.
00:50:14What a man.
00:50:15Literally, he's this tall, dark, handsome.
00:50:18He looked like James Bond sitting here, like, goodness gracious.
00:50:21I was like, that's Alex.
00:50:23Like, that's the man that I've been waiting for.
00:50:25We're going to have so much fun together.
00:50:27Mm-hmm.
00:50:28And I bet we both arrived at the same time.
00:50:32And I bet the thermostat said it's 6-9.
00:50:38And I bet it's even better than mine.
00:50:44I couldn't keep my hands off of him.
00:50:46It was amazing.
00:50:47I didn't want it to end.
00:50:48I love you.
00:50:52It's exactly like winning the championship.
00:50:54And I'm about to go celebrate with my boys.
00:50:56And hopefully, you know, Ashley is as soon as possible.
00:50:59I kind of just want to go hang out with my girlfriend now, to be honest with you.
00:51:03I got to say that.
00:51:04My fiancé now.
00:51:05Holy crap.
00:51:06Holy crap.
00:51:07I feel like I'm talking like an idiot in here.
00:51:12See you soon.
00:51:13I love him.
00:51:14I can't wait to marry him.
00:51:16And I am officially off the market.
00:51:40You guys did good.
00:51:41I won't lie.
00:51:53Are you doing okay?
00:51:54It's really, really wild.
00:51:56Yeah?
00:51:57Yeah.
00:51:57Yeah, we'll talk about it.
00:51:59Okay.
00:51:59I'm like, well, you look beautiful.
00:52:01Doing it.
00:52:03Kill it.
00:52:05Yes, of course.
00:52:12So, transparently, I had to come in here and have a hard conversation with you, which I'm
00:52:19not going to be good at.
00:52:19I feel like we've had an amazing connection, but I feel like I'm kind of at that point that
00:52:25I just, like, want to focus on my other connection.
00:52:29And I, like, hate doing that.
00:52:31Why?
00:52:32Because I hate doing this.
00:52:34No, it's great.
00:52:34I actually, I'm glad you did, because I was actually going to have the same conversation
00:52:39with you.
00:52:40Stop it, Chris.
00:52:40I swear.
00:52:41Oh, my God.
00:52:43Honestly, like, full transparency for me, I made my decision last night.
00:52:47Stop.
00:52:48After my conversation with my person who I want to give every single ounce of energy
00:52:53to.
00:52:53Okay.
00:52:55I know 100%.
00:52:56Okay, Chris.
00:52:57That's so exciting.
00:52:59Mm-hmm.
00:52:59It's like, you really kind of know, like, this probably isn't the strongest one.
00:53:05Like, for me, I don't know.
00:53:06And you just kind of feel it.
00:53:08I don't know.
00:53:08It sounds like you feel the same way, though.
00:53:11Yeah.
00:53:11I mean.
00:53:13Right?
00:53:14Like, it's just hard because I'm, like, where there's maybe some things that, like, I wasn't
00:53:19feeling with my initial connection.
00:53:21It's, like, with you, I was feeling, but, like, we didn't have, like, the initial, like,
00:53:25oh, my God, like, right off the bat.
00:53:27Mm-hmm.
00:53:27So, it's just, like, I hate, like, the comparison game.
00:53:30I mean, you know it's Connor, so I can say his name.
00:53:32But.
00:53:33Oh, yeah.
00:53:33I'm, like, it's Chris and Connor.
00:53:35Like, you guys are great guys.
00:53:36Yeah, Connor's awesome.
00:53:37I know.
00:53:38And.
00:53:40Chris, I need to know who you're going on a date with now.
00:53:42I want to know.
00:53:43Oh, man.
00:53:45Tell me about your girl.
00:53:47Oh, man.
00:53:48Who do you think?
00:53:49Jessica?
00:53:50It's my girl.
00:53:51Oh, my God, Chris.
00:53:53What?
00:53:54I love her.
00:53:55She's the sweetest.
00:53:57Yeah, she's amazing, so.
00:53:58I'm obsessed.
00:53:59Yeah.
00:54:00Wait, that's so exciting.
00:54:02This is good.
00:54:03This is, like, best case.
00:54:04Oh, yeah, it's great.
00:54:05Okay, I love this.
00:54:06All right, bye, Chris.
00:54:07All right, Bri.
00:54:07Have fun tonight.
00:54:09Oh, yes.
00:54:16I am so happy.
00:54:18I'm excited.
00:54:19I think I know who are my number ones, but I'm going to keep them private because people.
00:54:22Okay, okay.
00:54:23Coming into this journey, I honestly did not know I was going to be sitting here being like,
00:54:28I have feelings.
00:54:29I am excited.
00:54:31Connor and I have expressed that we have deep feelings for each other.
00:54:40Feeling the feels, man.
00:54:41Feeling the feels.
00:54:42But I do know that there are other people dating the same guys I am, and Bri came into
00:54:48the room so glowing and so happy.
00:54:52My feelings.
00:54:53I feel like my whole, like, body, like, feels something.
00:54:56I'm like, what is going on?
00:54:57I know.
00:54:57Like, it's just, like, really intense.
00:54:59Can we just fast forward to Mexico?
00:55:01So then are you down to one or two?
00:55:02One.
00:55:03You're down to one?
00:55:04Mm-hmm.
00:55:05That's really fun.
00:55:06Exciting.
00:55:06I was like, you're going to change my life, like, literally in all aspects.
00:55:11We have not disclosed who we are seeing.
00:55:15I am nervous that if I wait too long, I am going to lose the right guy.
00:55:21I just, like, feel like, ah!
00:55:23This is where it just gets unhinged.
00:55:26With Connor, I have such a strong feeling about him.
00:55:34So what is reeling in my head, though, is, like, is he seeing that with other people
00:55:39as well, or is it just me?
00:55:42I didn't think it was going to get to me, but it got to me today.
00:55:44Things are crazy right now.
00:55:46Yeah?
00:55:46I mean, we're two days from potentially, uh, getting engaged.
00:55:56I want you to continue exploring your options.
00:55:59Yeah.
00:55:59But for me, my gut is telling me it's you.
00:56:09As we've both come to know, we've always been kind of up there for each other,
00:56:12but it's like, shit can change.
00:56:14There might be things that you talk about or unsure of,
00:56:18and it could be kind of life-altering, or, I mean, if you want to get married to him,
00:56:23I mean, your number ones can change at any moment on any conversation.
00:56:29Yeah, I don't fucking know.
00:56:36The second person I've been talking to is amazing and it's great, but, like, it's not
00:56:39fair to him that I think so much about you.
00:56:42But I have a feeling that you have a strong connection with someone else.
00:56:49Yeah, um, I'm not even good at dating one girl, but I do have another connection that's strong.
00:56:56I just have this strong pull to you.
00:57:00You make me feel calm.
00:57:01You make me feel secure.
00:57:02You make me feel validated.
00:57:03But you also make me laugh.
00:57:05And I want to know where your head's at.
00:57:13Yeah.
00:57:14What a fucking experiment.
00:57:19I'll be 100% honest with you.
00:57:23I feel like I do have a stronger connection, but you and my other connection have been a
00:57:28pretty solid, like, tops at my list the whole time.
00:57:35It's either engagement or not, so I haven't decided anything.
00:57:55I told you where I'm at.
00:57:57Like, I think I know where you're at.
00:57:59I think we just need to say what we want to do.
00:58:02In the dead of night, everything's so quiet.
00:58:09Nothing's what it seems.
00:58:11Oh, yeah.
00:58:25Fuck.
00:58:43Are you afraid of the dark?
00:58:50Are you afraid of the dark?
00:58:56Are you afraid of the dark?
00:59:13From the darkness.
00:59:41Are you afraid of the dark?
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