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90 Day The Single Life Between the Sheets S05E09

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00:00Okay, are you guys ready to play Balls Deep?
00:02Oh!
00:03Oh, darn it!
00:05Oh, my God!
00:06I'm highly competitive.
00:08I know, I can see you're going to push me out the way.
00:10Whoa.
00:11Athletic, I told you.
00:16Look at me taking charge of the conversation.
00:19Ooh!
00:20God, he ruins it for other men, dude.
00:22I swear to God.
00:23You see, I love a current name.
00:25Can I slap you right now?
00:27Just backhand you one time.
00:28Wait till the end of the clip.
00:29Okay.
00:33You knew what I was doing the whole time.
00:35She was doing permanent makeup on me.
00:37I couldn't talk, and you got upset because I couldn't talk.
00:39You hung up the phone on me.
00:41It's very childish.
00:42Yeah.
00:43And I feel like that happened, like,
00:45with me and Pedro in the beginning stage.
00:46Like, I went in the shower.
00:48By the time I came out, I had, like, 20 missed calls from him.
00:50Ooh, 20?
00:51Yeah, 20.
00:52Not being dramatic.
00:53When I was like, hey, like, what happened?
00:55He's like, oh, you didn't answer me.
00:56Damn.
00:59Do you think I'm a player?
01:01Yes.
01:02I think that you definitely have a roving eye.
01:05He's trying to shop around.
01:07It's just an addiction.
01:08Really?
01:09That's addiction to talk with other women?
01:11Like, if you get all this attention from people,
01:13you need that attention, the high off you get.
01:15It sounds like you're cold.
01:16I think you are having this addiction.
01:22Via and I, we got into, like, sex talk and flirting.
01:25Definitely said I won't do anal.
01:27You make my dad upset.
01:29Oh, my God.
01:30I feel, like, honored.
01:33I probably shouldn't admit it, but Liz and I pretty much,
01:36we explored the third one, the third hole.
01:39He wasn't in there.
01:46Whoo-hoo-hoo!
01:47Let's go!
01:49All right, we're ready.
01:51Are you?
01:51We're ready.
01:51Are you?
01:52That's the question.
01:52Let's go.
01:54Let's go.
01:55If you're going to put my finger there,
01:56you're going to be hurt?
01:58Yes.
01:58Keep it right there.
02:01All right, the first clip we're going to watch
02:02is Liz, Julia, and Sophie making up at a rooftop bar.
02:06Oh!
02:07And it includes some never-before-seen footage.
02:10Whoa!
02:12Whoa, I want to see these now.
02:18Hi, ladies.
02:19How are you?
02:22Oh, my lips look so big.
02:25You are?
02:25My lips look huge.
02:27They look huge.
02:28Them are big.
02:28Did I get them done there?
02:29No, I feel like they look huge.
02:31It's been a lot, and I know I came a bit too hard on you,
02:35and I apologize for that.
02:38Like, I was, like, being too much.
02:41I was actually really shocked right now.
02:45You know, it wasn't just about because you spoke to Pedro.
02:48I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
02:53I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
02:55I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
02:58Yeah.
02:59So I'm sorry.
03:01I hope you do know that.
03:03I appreciate you saying sorry, and I'm sorry, too, if I seemed like I was emotional.
03:09I was shocked to get this apology from Sophie just because I felt like I was just blamed
03:15for all the drama on the trip, and then somehow...
03:18Maybe she don't have to blame you.
03:19She can't blame my family.
03:20That's why now everything's good with you.
03:23There's someone new to blame?
03:25Yeah.
03:25Maybe.
03:26Oh, no.
03:26There's no way for...
03:27I take everything negative I said about your sister.
03:30Tell her thank you.
03:31Yeah.
03:33How did the birthday go?
03:36Oh!
03:38The sister comes to me.
03:40She goes, Pedro buys you flowers.
03:44And she's like, you posted that so Rob would see and he would be jealous.
03:48And they're not even dating.
03:50She's probably posting the flowers to make him a little jealous.
03:54If I wanted to make Rob jealous, it wouldn't be flowers, girl.
03:58I would be on a yacht right now.
04:00I'd be throwing ass on the yacht.
04:02I'd be like, hey, put someone's watch on my wrist.
04:05Like, I have done that before.
04:08I have done that before.
04:10No, it was ages ago.
04:13I told her.
04:14I said, like, trust me, if I wanted to be with Rob, I'd be with Rob.
04:16Bitch, if I wanted to make Rob jealous, I can go afford my own bouquet of flowers.
04:22Girl, I would go with you to the grocery store tomorrow.
04:27I wouldn't actually use another man to make a guy jealous.
04:30It's more so stuff on, like, social media.
04:32Or, like, I'll hit up, oh, I've hit up one of my friends before.
04:35She gets, like, spoiled by men.
04:37So I'll be like, hey, can you send me one of those pictures of your gift so I can post
04:41it?
04:41And she'll, like, send me, like, the car or something.
04:44And it's like, I've posted one of their pictures.
04:46Your friends have a car gift?
04:47Oh, my friends have, like, they get spoiled by guys.
04:51I don't know.
04:51Why we are so losers?
04:53Where is our car?
04:54I'm like, I don't have anything to post that would make someone jealous.
04:58Maximum, I post a freaking choke out and says, like, oh.
05:01And I ask my friend to write the comment.
05:03And it's like, oh, Brendan spoiled you.
05:08Bia and I did have a conversation.
05:11We got, like, we got into, like, sex talk and flirting.
05:13Them have a sex token.
05:15I know.
05:15I'm, like, the biggest team.
05:21Listen, I will take the plantanol and huevos and the eggs.
05:26I will take, when she's, I'll take the two eggs and everything.
05:30Just tell me, how is sex talking?
05:32What is that?
05:33Well, I definitely said I won't do anal.
05:35OK.
05:36That's good to know.
05:36That's good to know.
05:37Thanks, Liz, for sharing that with all of us.
05:39Us.
05:41Oh, you had it?
05:41Oh, you like talking, like talking.
05:44I won't do anal, either.
05:45I'm just going to say it.
05:46That is not my vibe.
05:48Sorry.
05:48No.
05:49I don't know.
05:50I did it one time, and it hurt so bad, I was, no.
05:54Sorry.
05:54A little TMI.
05:55One and done?
05:56One and done.
05:57Not even a one, it was a quarter done.
06:00Do you like anal?
06:02Sure.
06:03OK.
06:04Men like it.
06:05Why is that?
06:06Because.
06:06It's not supposed to be in there.
06:08Oh, forbidden fruit.
06:09Literally.
06:10Pretty forbidden.
06:11I'm sure men would not want, I mean, being pegged is different than being the pegger.
06:15The peggie?
06:16Pegger?
06:17You're a pirate now.
06:18Pirate.
06:19Yeah.
06:19I mean.
06:21That's like all I'm doing when you say ping pong.
06:24You make my dad upset.
06:26Oh, my God.
06:28Liz.
06:31I feel, like, honored.
06:33I probably shouldn't admit it, but Liz and I pretty much.
06:40Yeah, we explored the third one.
06:42The third hole.
06:45So I feel kind of special.
06:48So I have tried anal with Ed and Ed always thought he was like the booty.
06:55But he wasn't in there.
06:56He went into like the , and he thought it was , but I just played it off.
07:02Sorry, Ed.
07:03You never made it .
07:06OK, Colt.
07:07The next clip we're going to watch is you video chatting with Diana.
07:11Oh.
07:11And it has some bonus footage in it.
07:13Bonus footage with Diana?
07:16Let's see another girl disappoint.
07:17Locking out memories with a hidden black heartbeat.
07:25Hello?
07:26I'm here.
07:27Hey.
07:31She's kind of looking like me when I did it with my glass and the hair.
07:36It's so great to see you.
07:42I didn't know what to do.
07:43I felt like either direction wasn't the best direction.
07:49It could be great with Diana, but it could be terrible as soon as I meet her.
07:52Or I could work things out with Courtney and be happy as I've ever been.
07:56Or it could be unhappy marriage for the rest of my life.
07:58I don't know.
08:00You know, I was just hurting both women and hoping one of them would leave, maybe.
08:05And just leave.
08:06OK, well, I guess you're the one that stayed.
08:08You're the winner.
08:09Here you go.
08:13So, how you been?
08:16I'm angry.
08:18Girl, just block him.
08:20Get over with.
08:21I didn't exactly lie to Diana.
08:24I told her that Courtney and I were not having sex.
08:26And we haven't.
08:28I just didn't tell her that we were having oral.
08:32God, Colt.
08:36Is that really sex?
08:37I don't know.
08:39Yes, it's sex.
08:40We have this like conversation.
08:41Oh, my God.
08:41Let me at him.
08:42Let me at him.
08:44I think about you.
08:46I don't understand you.
08:48Or sex is sex.
08:49Are you kidding me?
08:49You can't say, oh, I didn't cheat because I just my .
08:53Like, that's still cheating.
08:54Yeah.
08:54He knows it's still sex.
08:56He's just saying, oh, I didn't know.
08:57It wasn't full sex, bro.
08:59I've never done this before.
09:00It's just like, he plays stupid and naive and weak.
09:03And it's like, he knows it's still sex.
09:05It's so stupid.
09:06How Diane, after hearing this, just like, OK,
09:11let me call you tomorrow.
09:12So stupid.
09:13I'm feeling very stupid because you say, I love you,
09:17Courtney, when you say, I love you, Diana.
09:21Can I slap you right now?
09:23Just backhand you one time.
09:25Wait till the end of the clip.
09:26OK.
09:26Why?
09:26I just feel bad.
09:28It's not love for Colt.
09:30Colt did the same thing that he's doing with Courtney
09:32and Diana.
09:34So it's the same story, same situations,
09:36just changed the person.
09:38I was the Courtney, and Diana was the Vanessa.
09:42He said to me, he's loving me.
09:43And also, he said he love Vanessa.
09:45And then he said he love both.
09:47It's crazy.
09:48You're not going to learn anymore.
09:51I love Courtney.
09:54But I love you.
09:55And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you.
10:00He's not a serious person.
10:01You're not going to be, like, telling, I love you.
10:03I love you.
10:04I love you.
10:05If you love Courtney, you want to her.
10:07You want to say naked pictures.
10:08Yeah.
10:09Yeah, you wouldn't send naked pictures.
10:10You wouldn't be online.
10:11Because you love that person.
10:12You want to take care of that person.
10:14Totally agree with that.
10:15Maybe we need to have a talk with him.
10:17And I don't need to have a talk with him.
10:19And he had to go to the ayahuasca with the shaman or something
10:22over there.
10:23He changed his mind.
10:25Because he's not going to change.
10:26Yeah.
10:26True.
10:27Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
10:33No!
10:34Say no!
10:36I'm feeling like you're the last option.
10:41Baby doll, you're the last option.
10:43Don't.
10:43No, no, no.
10:44I'm sad.
10:45I'm sorry that I've hurt you.
10:48He's making every girl around him sad.
10:50And he's just there like, I'm cold.
10:53Wheel me away.
10:55I'm glad you told her.
11:01Like you told her.
11:02That shows me you might be on a path to being honest.
11:05And I like that.
11:06After the fact, I told her something.
11:07After the fact.
11:08But you told her.
11:09You didn't have to.
11:09You could have hid all that .
11:11I'm telling both of these girls I love them, basically.
11:14Cole, do you want to look like a douchebag?
11:17I'm not trying.
11:18No.
11:20I have to go.
11:22Bye.
11:23I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
11:26Which one?
11:30Good question.
11:32What?
11:49Oh, God, he ruins it for other men.
11:52Dude, I swear to God.
11:54Men like that.
11:57Oh, boy.
11:59Well, that sucked.
12:02Cold, to me, exhibits exactly what's wrong in the dating world nowadays and why so many of us are single.
12:08It's because you choose to go into a relationship with somebody and you give it your all and then you
12:13only find out later that this guy's been messaging people behind your back, telling them that he loves them, showing
12:19them his D pics and videos, which is freaking gross.
12:23Sorry.
12:24Like, are you kidding me?
12:25It seems like he doesn't have.
12:27I'm sorry.
12:28Hold on.
12:29Hold on.
12:30Say it louder for the people in the back.
12:33Say it louder.
12:34Go out.
12:35Preach, Manya.
12:36Preach.
12:36It's just like these men who have zero conscience.
12:41They take zero accountability.
12:43They don't think anything they're doing is wrong.
12:45And they're just like, oh, I wonder why I'm alone.
12:49Male loneliness epidemic.
12:50Really?
12:51You're causing it your freaking self.
12:53So who do you have to blame for it?
12:55Yourself, buddy.
12:56Nobody else.
12:57Amen, sister.
12:58Boom.
12:59Are you guys willing to do a trust fall?
13:01Yeah.
13:02You remember you and me did this trust fall after therapy.
13:07You remember this?
13:08In a BTS for last resort.
13:10We did same and you didn't catch up me.
13:13Yes, I did.
13:13No.
13:14You did?
13:14I think I'm full.
13:15So can we do this again?
13:16Okay.
13:16I'm scared.
13:17Okay.
13:18Let's go.
13:19I'm terrified.
13:19Okay.
13:20Okay, let's go.
13:20Oh my God.
13:21I'm terrified.
13:21I hold you.
13:22Okay.
13:22Oh my God.
13:23Are you ready?
13:23Ready?
13:23I'm coming.
13:24I'm falling.
13:24I'm falling.
13:31You're stopping yourself.
13:32No, I fell.
13:33Okay.
13:33She fell.
13:34Yay.
13:36All right.
13:37The next clip we're going to watch is Gino and Natalie having a nightcap at his house.
13:40Oh Lord.
13:41Okay.
13:41And it includes some never-before-seen footage.
13:44Yes.
13:44Ooh.
13:45This is going to be sexy.
13:46Yeah, let's do this.
13:48Detroit, the sexiest city on the planet.
13:51Yes.
13:52Ooh, a nightcap in Detroit.
13:54Woo.
13:58Cheers to...
13:59The future.
14:00The future.
14:01There we go.
14:03What was your favorite part of the day?
14:06What I think was just hanging out with you today.
14:09Aww.
14:11My favorite part of the day was when you came to me and told me that you have decided
14:16not to talk to other women.
14:18Yeah, I'm glad Natalie liked my proposal not to speak to other girls.
14:23Can you do that though?
14:24Can you do that?
14:26Are you going to be able to do that though?
14:27I don't know.
14:28See, that's the thing.
14:29No, I'm just kidding.
14:30That's not what you want to hear.
14:32You're not kidding.
14:33I'm just kidding.
14:34I don't think Gino can be a one-woman man.
14:36I think as soon as Gino and Natalie have a fight or a difference, and Gino feels upset
14:42or sad, he's going to run back to his girls and feel better.
14:46It's just an addiction.
14:48You can be, you know...
14:48Really?
14:49That's addiction to talk with other women?
14:51If you get all this attention from people, you need that attention, the high off you get.
14:55It sounds like you're cold.
14:57I think you are having this addiction.
14:58I definitely have some bad habits, you know, so I'm definitely trying to do better.
15:03Okay.
15:05The thing is, is like...
15:09It's hard to find a good quality woman that has like good qualities like you have.
15:13Yeah.
15:14Gino has the same script prepared.
15:17You have a good heart, you're caring, you're kind.
15:20I feel like I'm watching myself.
15:22You know, the fact that you are into me, like I feel like you are, that's a big deal too.
15:30It feels like a deja vu, like exactly the same word by word he's telling Natalie.
15:35He used to tell me in those initial, you know, stages of our relationship when we were falling in love,
15:41and he was telling me what I, every woman wants to hear.
15:44And I was thinking exactly the same as Natalie.
15:48You know, I'm feeling the same, like he's so sweet, so naive, so charming.
15:52You know, it's like, oh, he's adorable.
15:55But he's not.
15:56He is using his tactics, the same tricks.
15:59He does it with everyone.
16:00So no, you're not special.
16:02I can clearly see Gino sitting on his computer and writing these phrases
16:06and memorizing them and saying them to women.
16:11I like spending time with you.
16:13I mean, I hope it doesn't bite me in the ass later, but...
16:16Why would it bite you in the ass later?
16:18I don't know.
16:19Are you worried about me?
16:20You know, I know.
16:21Well, you're still married, sir.
16:23There's that.
16:24I'm not worried.
16:25Do you think I'm a player?
16:28Yes.
16:29Oh, no.
16:31What?
16:33I think that you definitely have a roving eye.
16:37Gino, I think that you're a player.
16:39Do you think I'm a player?
16:41Yeah.
16:41Really?
16:42Yeah.
16:43How many guys you got in your DMs?
16:49Um...
16:50I show you mine, you show me yours.
16:54Maybe five to eight girls.
16:57Are they DMing you?
17:01I mean, I might be having conversations like five to eight girls.
17:05Some...
17:05Are they?
17:08Yeah.
17:09What?
17:13Bro, that's a lot of times it's been the fuck.
17:15I know.
17:16I don't do this when I'm in a committed relationship.
17:19I can't...
17:19I tried that one time.
17:20It's not worth it for me.
17:22I talk to one girl and I forget what this girl tells me.
17:25And then I say, oh, you know, uh, did you do this today?
17:30And no, I didn't do that.
17:31What are you talking about?
17:33Or, you know, so I get it all mixed up.
17:44I think you appreciate beauty and women's beauty and all that kind of stuff.
17:49I think you're a little naive in the fact that, you know, what women's intentions are.
17:54Does he have a type or is he just going for everybody?
17:57He just looks at everybody, like any attractive woman.
18:00I saw Colt, like, filming ugly women too, though, so...
18:05I think you get a lot of online attention.
18:08And I think that, um, not every woman online has the best intention.
18:14And I don't think that you can see through that.
18:17I think, do you know, 100% is the biggest, biggest hoe online?
18:23I don't know.
18:25Colt may have been beat.
18:26Okay.
18:26And it's like, why are you doing this?
18:29And you're telling me you love me.
18:30It's like, why are you throwing everything away?
18:32So you looked at the DMs?
18:33Yeah, I looked at the DMs.
18:34See, I've never done that.
18:35Yeah.
18:35I've never went and looked.
18:36You probably don't want to.
18:37No.
18:38But he definitely...
18:38We need to hoe off between Colt and Gino.
18:41Who?
18:41And I love to see these girls.
18:43Like, I'm dying to see who on earth.
18:47And it's like, I want to see these girls.
18:48Not, I don't even want to see their pictures.
18:49I want to see them in person.
18:51Yeah.
18:53Our connection has been very mental.
18:55And it hasn't really been physical.
18:58So...
18:58That totally makes sense, baby.
19:00Okay.
19:04Oh.
19:05That wasn't ready.
19:07Ugh, God.
19:08Oh, they went straight to it.
19:13Ooh.
19:15He is a good kisser.
19:16Where?
19:18I don't see it yet.
19:26Oh, God.
19:27We're gonna...
19:28Hey, Gino's going...
19:34Ooh, thank you.
19:35You're welcome.
19:36See.
19:37You want something more from me, don't you?
19:40So what happened after the camera's cut that night?
19:43He finally stopped talking.
19:47You know, what happened after the camera went off?
19:50Well, I guess instead of telling you, I could probably show you.
19:53Okay, show me.
19:55Um...
19:55Things got...
19:57A little bit...
19:58Well, things got intimate.
20:00Ooh.
20:01Yeah.
20:02A little like...
20:05Yeah, baby.
20:07She's like, oh, Poppy, oh, Poppy.
20:10Oh, Poppy.
20:12We had a good time.
20:14Let's just put it that way.
20:15You can't even deal with it.
20:18Did you call you Poppy?
20:23All right, guys.
20:24Welcome to your next game.
20:25Ready?
20:27Let's put on your big girl and big boy pants.
20:30Ooh, what is this?
20:31Holy, how am I gonna fit in that?
20:35You look ridiculous.
20:36Man, why did I look so stupid?
20:37I feel weird.
20:38You guys look stupid too.
20:40Okay, are you guys ready to play Balls Deep?
20:43Woo!
20:43Yes, let's get Balls Deep.
20:45This is inspired by Gino and Natalie's night together.
20:48Ooh!
20:51You will have to catch a ball in your pants.
20:54I love it!
20:55Let's go!
20:55The person who does not catch the ball
20:57will have to answer a spicy question.
21:00Okay.
21:00On your marks...
21:01Get set!
21:02Ball!
21:04Oh!
21:06Oh!
21:08Oh, darn it!
21:09So, Kim, where's the weirdest place you've had sex?
21:12In a movie theater.
21:13I think that's where I got pregnant with one of my children.
21:16What?
21:16Yeah, yeah.
21:17In the jacuzzi while Norma was still awake.
21:20Oh, yeah!
21:21I like it.
21:22It's kind of scandalous though,
21:23because we never knew she was gonna walk out onto the patio.
21:29Oh, yeah!
21:30Got it!
21:32Ha!
21:34Okay, what's the most amount of times you've had sex in a single day?
21:38Oh.
21:39Five.
21:40Oh, yeah, that's normal.
21:42Ten.
21:43Ten.
21:43Ten.
21:44Ten.
21:44That's a minute man right there.
21:47Because it's like, you don't have to finish.
21:50Oh.
21:51She got it.
21:52Courtney, what is something non-sexual that turns you on?
21:56When a guy pulls out his credit card, it's like...
21:59It's like...
22:02Ah!
22:03She got it!
22:06Whoa!
22:07Nice.
22:08Athletic, I told you.
22:10All right, Gino.
22:11What's the craziest thing you've ever done in bed?
22:13I tried to have anal sex with one of my past girlfriends.
22:18I didn't bring the lube, you know?
22:20So, um, it was...
22:23It didn't happen.
22:25Have a threesome.
22:26Yeah.
22:27Really?
22:28Yeah, I've only had one.
22:29I don't think I want to do it again.
22:31It's a lot of work for me as a man.
22:33It was with two women.
22:34Let's make that queer.
22:35That was my next question.
22:36Just a lot of liquids everywhere.
22:40Oh!
22:40Oh, my God!
22:42Okay.
22:43She said don't.
22:44I'm highly competitive.
22:44I know.
22:45I can see you're going to push me off the way.
22:47Okay.
22:47Because you haven't noticed.
22:48All right, Kim.
22:49What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you during sex?
22:52I farted during sex one time.
22:54Like, was it like a really loud one?
22:56It was a stinky, loud fart.
22:57Yes.
22:58And I thought I was going to myself on the bed.
23:00Oh, no!
23:01That night.
23:02Yeah.
23:04One, two, three, four, I declare thumb war.
23:08Okay.
23:09Boom.
23:11Stop cheating.
23:13You got to keep your elbows straight.
23:14How am I cheating?
23:15What do you mean?
23:15They are straight.
23:18You're moving your arm, bro.
23:19Look at your cheating.
23:21Your whole arm, dude.
23:22You're literally using your other arm now.
23:24One, two, one, two, three.
23:28Hell no.
23:29My thumb started getting sweaty.
23:31Your hands are nasty.
23:33Sorry.
23:33Amy, can you please leave?
23:35I have things to do.
23:36Bye.
23:36Bye.
23:37Okay.
23:38The next clip we're going to watch is the ladies in the DR doing water aerobics, and it includes some
23:43never-before-seen footage.
23:45Ooh.
23:46Ooh.
23:47Ooh.
23:47I always get nervous about what did they capture.
23:52I got this feeling in my body.
23:54I love Julia's pregnant and in a thong.
23:59Okay, ladies.
24:00If you haven't found your man yet, may try to hug yourself.
24:05Aww.
24:07She has a size.
24:08I like that.
24:09I like that.
24:12That's my swimsuit.
24:13That's my swimsuit.
24:13That's your swimsuit.
24:14You do not look pregnant at all.
24:17Sophie, whoa.
24:18Participating in our Zumba class.
24:21We'll see you in the next hangover, Zumba.
24:23Yes, tomorrow.
24:24Oh, I like water aerobics.
24:26I've never done water aerobics.
24:26I've actually done them because I have a really bad hip, you know?
24:29I should probably do them.
24:29So you do, yeah, you can just swim like that.
24:32And then you can move your-
24:33Yeah, there you go.
24:34Move your legs at the same time.
24:36I'm like a baby dolphin.
24:37Can you-
24:40To the side.
24:41To the side.
24:42To the side.
24:43Ooh.
24:44Ooh.
24:45It looks like you are fighting the water.
24:47Ooh.
24:50I think that's it.
24:51Feels good.
24:52The hardest part was the, like, the jumping jacks in the water.
24:56Ooh.
24:56The jumping jacks in the water.
24:57Here.
24:59Now look at you in the shower.
25:00Ooh.
25:02Ooh.
25:04And since we're here by ourselves, we're alone.
25:08We're alone.
25:09We're alone.
25:09And in the circle.
25:10And in the circle.
25:12Woo!
25:15So many hot people here.
25:16There's a lot of, like, hot guys at this resort.
25:19A lot of hot guys are gay.
25:20It's very unfortunate.
25:21I nearly had a love and a marriage in London.
25:24Really?
25:24My best friend had a gay friend.
25:26What?
25:26We slept together.
25:27He's gay.
25:28Like, he's fully gay.
25:29He's not bi.
25:30You don't know he's gay.
25:31So this is how it happened.
25:33So when I was in England, we were both, like, 80, 90, and I started working at a pub.
25:38I got this friendship with this guy.
25:39Then one time, we hooked up.
25:42I slept with him.
25:42Because I'm like, we were friends, but also, he was really hot.
25:46And so I was like, oh, like, does this mean, like, we're official?
25:48I just slept with him.
25:50And I went to work the next day, and one of my co-workers, I told her, and she was
25:54laughing.
25:55And I'm like, why do you keep laughing?
25:56And she's like, he's gay.
25:57And I was like, what?
26:02And she was like, no, he's gay.
26:03I was like, he was not gay last night.
26:06He was very straight.
26:08But my question is, is this good?
26:10Yeah, I mean, it was, like, straight sex.
26:12Like, it wasn't, there was no point where he was like, oh, what do I do with the, he was
26:17just doing it.
26:17So I had no idea.
26:19So does this sex better with straight, man?
26:21Literally, I can't tell a difference.
26:23Okay, same.
26:23Same.
26:24I would say, yeah, I've had better for sure.
26:28But it was just, like, so weird because, like, just really looking at it, I'm like, I don't understand how
26:33he was gay because it just was, it was just so straight.
26:39I didn't know he was gay.
26:41Did he sleep with you?
26:42Yes, because I confused him.
26:43Because we had such a good friendship.
26:44We had such a close friendship.
26:46And one day we slept together, and then next day he was like, oh, I'm gay.
26:48And I'm like, what?
26:50If she's talking about who I think she's talking about, she definitely lied to me about who this guy was
26:54to her, as well as lying to me about the guy, Callum.
26:58He'd never slept with anyone.
27:00So he virgin?
27:01Oh, my God.
27:02He gay, and he sleep with you, and you attack his virginity?
27:05I guess so, but it doesn't count if he's gay.
27:09So when Sophie and I first started talking, she had a gay best friend.
27:14That's all there was to it.
27:15This is just my gay friend.
27:17So they hung out all the time.
27:18But never was I ever told that they had hooked up.
27:21So along with lying to me about Callum that they hooked up, the Callum thing was like, this is your
27:28straight guy best friend?
27:30And she said they never dated.
27:32And then happily ever after, that's the first thing he said to me.
27:34She did not need to lie about either of them.
27:36Because both of them, I'm assuming, would have happened before her and I were together.
27:40You know, being bi, it's like, for me, it's more men.
27:44I would say I'm like 60-40.
27:46Like 60% men, 40% women.
27:51Good for her.
27:52Yeah, good for her.
27:53She didn't sleep with him yet, and she got out.
27:56Really?
27:57Yeah.
27:58I'd say now I'm becoming more open to it.
28:02Where it's like, should I try dating women?
28:05Because clearly it's not working.
28:06But then I had a gay guy friend tell me like, no, Courtney, you are not going to be pegging
28:12a girl every day.
28:13Like, I don't think you should be a lesbian.
28:16Oh my God, I'm dead.
28:18He's like, I think you're too lazy to be a lesbian, basically.
28:23Yeah, guys are easier too.
28:25Yeah, because guys usually do the work, but if I'm the lesbian, I probably have to...
28:30Expected to pull equal kind of effort.
28:32Yeah.
28:32Expected to do equal effort or...
28:36Or like, put on a strap on and I don't know.
28:41Would you like to sit next to me?
28:44Are you ready for...
28:47Oh, is that better for you?
28:50How's that?
28:52She's so cute.
28:53You're so cute, baby.
28:55Who is that girl?
28:57This is Pamela.
28:59Go away!
29:01She don't like you.
29:04Go away.
29:06Bitch.
29:08The next clip we're going to watch is Vanya, you and Tony getting into an argument at the beach.
29:13Yay!
29:14Boo!
29:15This is going to be interesting.
29:17It's okay.
29:18Let's watch.
29:30Why are you so quiet?
29:34Something on your mind?
29:35Yeah.
29:37You hung up the phone on me and you got upset at me.
29:41Yeah, when I get mad, I'll hang up on people, so...
29:45Not my cousin.
29:46He got upset at me.
29:49What didn't make it on the show, I've been trying to talk to him and he was avoiding me.
29:54Mm-hmm.
29:55And I just...
29:56I wanted to put a stop to it before the situation kept escalating.
30:00Because we're here to celebrate my birthday.
30:02This is supposed to be a happy time.
30:04And I just felt my heart just like...
30:08Because I didn't even know what I was going to lead with, what I was going to say.
30:12We weren't even looking at each other.
30:14It was this awkward tension of silence.
30:16Mm-hmm.
30:17And I just couldn't hold it in anymore.
30:19I was just like, okay, I have to say something.
30:22And I didn't do anything wrong.
30:24You knew what I was doing the whole time.
30:26It's very childish.
30:27Yeah.
30:28I couldn't talk and you got upset because I couldn't talk.
30:32I actually can relate to Vanya in some ways because I don't know, I feel like...
30:36Like, blowing up someone's phone in general, it is a toxic trait.
30:39For sure.
30:40And I feel like that happened, like, with me and Pedro in the beginning stage.
30:43Like, I went in the shower and obviously I'm not on my phone.
30:45By the time I came out, I had like 20 missed calls from him.
30:48Oh, 20?
30:49Yeah, 20.
30:49Not being dramatic.
30:50Like, just...
30:51And when I was like, hey, like, what happened?
30:54It's like, oh, you didn't answer me.
30:55And when I tried to set the boundary of like, hey, so if I don't reply, can you text me
30:59to call you back?
31:00And just not call me a bunch of times.
31:02And then, like, he was like, oh, like, you're really mad today.
31:04So if you're this, you're really angry.
31:06Like, kind of laughing.
31:07But I was like, I don't think that's funny.
31:09So I feel like she had that stress of a man blowing her up.
31:12But then she calls back and he hangs up.
31:14How he's treating her, it's kind of with her head.
31:19I mean, I'm in a new place, a new setting.
31:23You know, you have your family here.
31:25I have no one here, so...
31:26But you're a grown-ass man, Doc.
31:27Yeah.
31:29I overreacted.
31:30And one of my issues, one of my flaws is I like to be in control, done right, correctly.
31:33But you can't go with life thinking that things are going to go exactly how you planned.
31:37And you have to roll with the punches.
31:38And in the process, you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
31:45This has happened to me so many times in the past.
31:47A guy starts out one way, and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time.
31:52And they were just hiding their real personality.
31:54So is this who you are?
31:56You think this is a real me?
31:58Yeah.
31:58You think this is?
31:59This guy, I don't know why she went with Vanya.
32:02Vanya is such a good woman.
32:04Vanya hasn't had much luck with some of these guys, I've noticed.
32:09She needs you.
32:10Hmm?
32:11This is mental.
32:13I mean, if you really think I'm a person that's going to truly just hurt you, then you should
32:17walk away from me.
32:18I agree.
32:22That's controlling.
32:24That's gaslighting right there.
32:26You're not supposed to say those things.
32:27Yeah.
32:28You can see when there's a connection, it's very obvious.
32:30And for them, it's kind of like they are, like, so far apart.
32:34They're so cold with each other.
32:35When you like somebody, you're really, really into that person.
32:37So even the fight, when you fight each other or whatever, it's with emotion.
32:41It's with passion.
32:43Mm-hmm.
32:44It's not empty.
32:45That was empty for me.
32:48I can, first of all, apologize for what I did because hanging up the phone is not right.
32:52And you can see I was crying so much.
32:54Like, it was red under my eyes.
32:57It was just so sad.
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it, but some of these issues should remain private
33:05and should not be going to your cousin.
33:08Looking back at the situation, I could see why he was upset.
33:13I definitely understand.
33:15However, I don't excuse his behavior because we're adults.
33:19We're going to have things that happen to us that we don't like.
33:22That doesn't give you green lights to go disrespect your significant other.
33:27You know, I wouldn't do that to him on the weekend when I'm meeting his family.
33:32If you have an issue, especially around family, swallow it.
33:37Then go home and have a conversation.
33:39You know, don't show it in front of other people that there's a problem.
33:42Because that's putting me in a bad spot.
33:44Because now Sanal is asking me what's going on.
33:46Marinko is asking me what's going on.
33:48I can't give him an answer because I don't want to make him look even worse.
33:52I was happy that we're finally figuring things out.
33:55But I feel like I was still very empty on the inside.
34:00I still felt very hurt because this was a very important weekend for me.
34:05And I felt like a part of that memory is ruined forever.
34:11Because you can't take that back.
34:13You know, I'm always going to look at that weekend, remembering how it started.
34:18It was a very start to something that should have been very special.
34:23Okay, let me teach you how to play golf.
34:26Because this is where you're going to find all the wealthy men at.
34:28So, your legs shoulder width apart.
34:33Bend back like you're sitting in a chair.
34:36These three fingers go in the club first.
34:38Then you're going to interlock your pinky.
34:41There?
34:41Yeah, and then...
34:47Yeah!
34:49Four!
34:51Okay, Liz, the next scene we're going to watch is you coming clean to Via
34:55about the other guy back home.
34:58Oh, this is where I break his heart.
35:03You want a drink finally?
35:04Let's go.
35:05Yeah, let's go get a drink.
35:06Yeah.
35:06I think you and I should talk.
35:08Okay.
35:10Let's get a drink first, though.
35:11Yeah?
35:12Yeah.
35:12Okay.
35:13I wonder what's going through his head now.
35:16Like, uh-oh.
35:16Whenever a girl says we should talk, it's never a good sign.
35:21I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me.
35:26Um...
35:27I'm really confused where I'm at myself, but I, like, I know that I am developing feelings.
35:35Mm-hmm.
35:38This conversation was so hard to have.
35:42There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
35:47You have no heart.
35:49I have no heart?
35:51I have no heart.
35:54Because you knew before that you have a...
35:58Don't say boyfriend.
36:00I'm dating.
36:02Okay.
36:03I didn't have a boyfriend.
36:04That you've been dating that guy.
36:07Talking.
36:07Dating.
36:08Yeah.
36:08Talking with that guy.
36:12I plead the fifth.
36:15No, but what happened then?
36:18Why, why you weren't sure that you didn't want that guy back in the state?
36:23So what you...
36:24What people don't know...
36:26Tell me.
36:27...is I had just moved out of the apartment that I shared with my ex a week before this trip.
36:31So it's like I'm not in any position to try to have a serious relationship with anybody
36:35when I'm trying to figure out, like, who I am and what I want.
36:41After the conversation, Viya told me that he doesn't know what to do.
36:44I also didn't know, like, if he had someone back at home or if he was interested in someone back
36:49at home.
36:50I didn't know where his head was at.
36:51I felt like that would have been a good time to, like, tell me, like, where he's at.
36:56He would fall out deeply for you and he fall in love.
36:59He was falling.
37:00It's a lot to take.
37:01Yeah.
37:02It's a lot to take.
37:05Uh...
37:07How serious, like, is this with this person?
37:11I don't know.
37:12I just don't know why she waited this long.
37:15Like, she's already waited until multiple dates with Viya and, like, they've made out and she really likes him.
37:21And then, like, that's actually not fair.
37:24Like, you should say to someone before they get feelings so then they can decide if they even want to
37:28get emotionally involved.
37:29Because he seems very emotionally involved now.
37:33I can see how it looks to you.
37:36Yeah.
37:38I just kind of feel like I'm, like, I've been wasting my time, you know?
37:42He said he wasted his time.
37:44That's up.
37:48I'm gonna use the restroom.
37:51I did know Liz was dating somebody back home.
37:54I've actually FaceTimed with him a couple times with her.
37:56I am Liz's biggest cheerleader, she will tell you.
37:59Mm-hmm.
37:59And I think that she deserves to be happy.
38:02And I think telling this Viya guy about her dating, I thought that was really honest.
38:06Yeah, it's definitely good on Liz for that.
38:08He shouldn't have said what he said to her.
38:09I don't like that.
38:10He blew it.
38:10Viya?
38:11Blew it completely.
38:12Me and you, buddy.
38:13Me and you.
38:13He sunk that ship.
38:15Mm-hmm.
38:16She laid down a challenge.
38:17I have a boyfriend, but I'm starting to like you.
38:20Mm-hmm.
38:20Can you take me from him?
38:21Like, she's offering.
38:22She's like, I'm conflicted.
38:24I don't know.
38:25But he's all like, you bitch.
38:27Basically.
38:27Or made her feel bad.
38:28Yeah.
38:28No one wants to feel bad.
38:29No.
38:30Especially when they're trying to pour their heart, tell you the truth.
38:32Yeah.
38:32Shame.
38:32Do you want to date Liz?
38:34I can make that happen.
38:35I'm good.
38:36I, my dance card is quite full.
38:39Okay.
38:46There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
38:50So, I don't really feel good right now.
38:52I feel bad.
38:54Okay, so this was supposed to be a crying day.
38:58Boy, I just met you two though, okay?
39:00Girl pair.
39:01Girl pair.
39:02Yeah.
39:05That's why the conversation had to happen.
39:07So, yeah.
39:10Ugh.
39:13Like, I feel really bad right now.
39:20For Via sitting there looking like a sad puppy, not once did he say, let's see where
39:29things go with us.
39:30Not once for someone who's literally like, Via made me feel like I was in the wrong.
39:36Like I let him on.
39:38It was a waste of time.
39:40But not once did he ever stand up and be like, I want to date you.
39:46Are you interested in seeing where this is going?
39:48Are you interested in seeing where this is going?
39:48And I think that should have been a man moment.
39:51For someone who's been such a sad puppy, he didn't give me much to fight for.
39:55Who really was the waste of time?
39:56Because I'm the one stepping up and seeing what's going on.
40:01Now, don't make me feel like I wasted my time.
40:07Yeah.
40:09Yeah.
40:11Yeah.
40:13I think that's the deal right now.
40:14Baby, I'm going to have a rug if you want.
40:18I felt like he was trying to buy me.
40:20I would love that.
40:21That's my dream.
40:23I am bisexual.
40:24B-U-Y.
40:26Sexual.
40:29Make it rain, baby.
40:31Wow.
40:32He's making it rain for you.
40:33Stop.
40:33Why is he licking the mud?
40:34Ew.
40:36Can't do it.
40:38Please pretend to care.
40:40My wife was pregnant by another man.
40:48Whoa, whoa, whoa.
40:53How was kissing the one of the 10?
40:55Everything was amazing.
40:57Kissing, 10.
40:58Kissing, 10.
40:59Touching.
41:01Eight.
41:01About el delicioso.
41:04It's my girl.
41:05Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
41:06No, no problem.
41:09I thought you were going to just dance with me.
41:13It's very frustrating.
41:15I told Tony my exes didn't care about me dancing,
41:19and then his reply to that was,
41:22well, of course they didn't care because they all cheated on you.
41:24Such a low blow.
41:26It just breaks my heart.
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