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First Dates Ireland S11E10 (2026)
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00:01this is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:10garçon okay breathe is possible but you piqued my interest
00:18there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool an instant attraction
00:25your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all moth what
00:49what happens next is up to them
00:55would you like to see each other again romantically
01:10hello my love again
01:15yes it's doyle bringing so much sexy back it's a potential fire hazard
01:24this is going to sound very self-absorbed but i'm hot
01:37you drop two hot people in a place the temperature is going to increase so it's basically science
01:46so i'm going to align my energies my chakras you know to make sure that i like embody
01:54the kind of person i want to be and i want to meet
01:58you never learn buddy huh
02:02we call it the humble doors mister you look familiar do i yeah well you do yeah thank you
02:10do i look familiar to you very familiar here we go now all right let's see you again
02:23oh yeah did you learn anything from the last time just be yourself smile like hopefully this
02:31time has something in store for you oh let's see now my new mantra is kind of like nothing
02:37is that serious mr doyle is back mr doyle's been jacking up has he yeah you know we tried
02:43we tried nice to see you but the family's back family is back how are you feeling really scared
02:50actually really more than the last time more than the last time which is really weird
02:53lewis beautiful boy beautiful skin love that really funny looked like a great match last time
03:01you know he got a boyfriend oh did he he did yeah harder than you i find that hard to
03:07find i wish
03:08we love a happy ending but i am still single maybe someone slightly older not too old
03:22behold benicio an absolute stunner if you catch him on a good day some days i'm five sometimes some
03:29days i'm going i'm gonna be 10. i'll give myself a 10 because if i don't give myself a 10
03:34who give me
03:34a 10 and i need a 10. today i'm feeling 10. nobody thinks that i'm an affection person because i
03:46look
03:46very tough i look like a big mountain but inside like i'm just like a dedicated flower so mr nice
03:57to
03:57meet you nice to meet you judging by the name brazilian yes sao paulo sao paulo yeah good look
04:05a fella it doesn't matter how you look if you look amazing if you don't have the confidence you don't
04:11look attractive and i think that's the most attractive thing no hello hey nice to meet you how are you
04:20i'm an easy away from brazil doyle where are you from nigeria nigeria i'm 25 nigerian the name is
04:29very nigerian do you think and how important is that initial sexual attraction a hundred percent
04:36because if you don't if you don't have the sexual chemistry you just get a friend oh you're very
04:41pretty i think you're you're gorgeous too thank you yeah when someone is talking and i love what
04:46they're saying i just kind of move around like this i'm in a flow state i'm just enjoying what
04:52they're saying hi how are you i'm good thinking yourself you look well oh god you're matching
04:57tank tops galore here i'd love a bit of romance i'm a bit of a sock like you know flowers
05:04oh
05:09my time will come
05:13whatever happens next won't surprise bria she's already considered every possible outcome
05:21my physical comedy is going to peak i can see it already like oh there she comes i would have
05:28thought about like now don't fall don't walk past the door that'll all go out my brain and i'll walk
05:33up
05:34oh it's heavy i definitely overthunk the situation already i'm so sorry i made so much noise there a
05:41second ago i didn't hear nothing what's your name lovely ria look lovely thank you likewise a bit of
05:47leopard the hopper feisty the animal in me is coming out i i'm thinking like if i wear heels am
05:55i kind of
05:56limiting myself then because i'm tall and like what if i make it awkward then with the hole the fears
06:01in
06:01my eyes i won't let it get into my spirit you're good looking girl you had your dates before no
06:06you
06:06had your days before so you know how to do this i'm good looking to me i think that's the
06:10main thing
06:11like i find myself attractive to myself i went and i did the camino last week try and find myself
06:19right
06:19oh you can meet that whole walk thing is it how was it i did the whole walk and i
06:23didn't find myself
06:23anywhere oh yeah i mean it's hard to find yourself walking i find i know i got the tattoo though
06:29oh did you
06:30show me look oh geez it's tiny it's tiny i know i went with 50 women right yeah 50 women
06:3915 of us
06:40can't imagine tattoos oh wow everyone's type is tall dark and handsome like that's the easy answer to
06:48give but like there's always a bit of leeway there you'd like the height you'd like the handsome you'd also
06:53like the dark hair but like you'd take a ginger if you had to back home elliot struggles to express
07:02himself up here he's unleashed i think i was just i was doing other things people wanted me to do
07:09so
07:10i want to find who i am i know it sounds a bit cringy but yeah i actually can't go
07:15i can't deal i can't breathe hello nice to meet you what's your name is a little bit nervous a
07:22bit
07:22nervous yeah well you should be i hope not i love that you dress nicely thanks very much yeah
07:30i wouldn't like to dress like amber that's like charming like i thought but then i'm like
07:33come up here and like you wouldn't stand out but you go home importantly do you think you're the king
07:39nice to meet you i'm bria nice to meet you lovely to meet you are you nervous i'm so scared
07:45i'm here
07:47and eddie i think eddie is his name he brought me a porn star martini now i have to say
07:52they're divine
07:53if you want to get a drink i actually wasn't going to get a porn star martini honestly you're unreal
07:57where are you from elisha what's your name uh vicarstown no i don't know that it's near
08:02traveling oh jesus we're very midlands people aren't we jesus do you know uh derva scully oh my god
08:10she's my cousin first cousin yeah she's my first cousin i went and i did the camino with her there
08:15last
08:15week that's good like it's a very small world and do you live in vicarstown then yeah yeah the chances
08:23of being related to someone from awfully is so high i live in duggan so i don't live in oh
08:29yeah no i don't
08:29live in awfully anymore jesus oh too good for awfully though no i don't think i'm too good for awfully
08:34do you know i think it's just like there's nothing to do yeah i was so bored release is the
08:38exact same
08:39as soon as i lock eyes with someone like my brain and my mouth just disconnect and i'm just like
08:45blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah what do you think my name is eddie eddie oh you're spot
08:50on
08:51it was eddie no it's not an eddie at all it's neil
09:03so that's your second time in the show yeah it is yeah okay so and you're looking for love okay
09:09i feel
09:10so bad now that you know i've been on the show before i'm glad that you're black because i love
09:15black people hey like if i have to choose between ten white guys and one black guy i use the
09:21guy i'd go for
09:22one black guy because i love black growing up in brazil brazil is like so racist and i always wanted
09:30to be white that was my dream growing up as a black person and a queer person in brazil was
09:36very hard
09:37all i knew was as like as a gay man was sex because we never experienced love like i've never
09:45seen like
09:46a couple when i was a kid now it's different because you have like people that represent ourselves
09:51like you know but like love was my mom and my dad when was all of this like process happening
09:59mentally
09:59was it happening in brazil or when you were here it took me 34 years to love myself it was
10:03like only
10:04like two and a half years ago i was actually getting prepared to go to the gym and i stopped
10:11to look at
10:12the mural and i felt something that i never felt before i just loved myself for the very first time
10:19after so many years of you know therapy and you know analysis i am very confident and i love myself
10:26that is so beautiful yeah but it's beautiful and sad at the same time 34 years love myself is so
10:32much
10:32i get that moving on to the latter topics yeah what do you want to eat today okay so you
10:38have been here
10:39before so you tell me oh no don't put me on the spot like that i'm in my clothes legs
10:44era
10:46so i'm very much more into like get to know me there's a church together you know i want to
10:53be
10:53quoted and i also want to court you know i also want people to feel special as you make me
10:57special
10:57the prime iris me strip loin yeah yeah because you're very beefy i'm obsessed with your the most i don't
11:06know what they are here uh shoulder muscles here i'm trying to grow mine yeah no i was in a
11:10cruise
11:11last like three weeks ago and i haven't gone to the gym in a gay cruise yeah when it took
11:17us from
11:19athens how long seven days seven days is a lot of days in a world and before that i was
11:26in madrid for
11:27the gay pride oh so it's almost a month that i don't go to the gym and i'm eating like
11:31a pig so
11:35where am i going i'm feeling a little lost james not to worry every journey has to start somewhere
11:44i got the door right yeah that's a good start nice to meet you mr james james nice to meet
11:50you how you
11:50keeping james not too bad not too bad i like barbara man i have same one at home yeah yeah
11:55it's a cool
11:55jacket yeah i couldn't afford the full thing that's the job that's the job i made new year's resolution to
12:00put myself out there more because i've never been a date apart from last year and by god i did
12:04hate
12:05so uh that's when i started like realizing what i liked and what i didn't like and hi how are
12:10you
12:10how are you getting on i'm james james james just very quickly there's not enough room for two moustaches
12:15at the bar one of us has to go this bar isn't making up for two okay i don't know
12:19i know how are you
12:21feeling not too bad not too shabby alonso that's a new one i like that i like that okay you're
12:29set for
12:29the fire buddy all right xavi alonso see you soon i probably need to be all and end all because
12:33i'm a
12:34bit mad in the sense like i'm just a bit a bit of crack and all this one i'm not
12:38like i am but i'm also
12:40like i can be really serious all the same like if i need to be where are you from uh
12:44a wee place
12:45called far just beside dundalk fart fart not far say that again far heart
12:52far heart for heart for heart okay so you're what you're in nordy are you no i'm on the south
12:57side
13:01i'm northern to you south to me i know you sound or your accent is amazing thank you very much
13:05really nice appreciate that so what are you hoping for this evening sabrina carfano
13:13my mom's delighted that i'm single well she did tell me to go on first date emma's ideal date long
13:21before she meets him she'll hear him i usually go for the loudest person in the room someone who's
13:30smiley outgoing well look at you huh you look lovely thanks damn girl you look lovely hey your
13:39name is emma beautiful emma so are you mateo well it's not about me it's about you today she's
13:45got a microphone in her hand covered in diamonds she has an espresso martini i mean what are the
13:50chances this happened he's gonna be nervous when he sees you yes this is where he's gonna be is
13:57the other over there yeah okay yeah well like going on a date in general is going outside your
14:01comfort zone never mind a blind date that's even scarier hello nice to meet you nice to meet you too
14:09emma emma nice to meet you nice to meet you emma you look stunning thank you wow you look like
14:13a
14:14classy lady well you said dress to impress yeah well i didn't of course i did yeah yeah i do
14:22love a
14:22mustache but only if you can rock it i think it shows that you're confident i guess what are you
14:29doing anyway i'm in college yeah yeah i'm doing international commerce in ucd very good is that
14:35language as well yeah french no that's class what are you doing yeah social care oh okay i'm such a
14:40worker so i work with children care about lovely where are you from uh don't talk okay just a bit
14:47outside the first thing i'd look at is actually what they're wearing you're looking at what someone's
14:51wearing and you can get a good depiction of them so i look at that and then you subconsciously make
14:55away this person's about x y or z you're nervous no not really not really no oh he was absolutely
15:04crapping it here i was actually crying just okay oh it is right so you're not having one of us
15:09oh right
15:10fine okay all right you guys do a great day folks yeah well best of luck
15:19thank you very much so what do you do what's your job oh i'm a social worker and my own
15:25kids like
15:25really that's so cool i think so that's so cool cook them dinner i clean the house like
15:32look after them the funniest job i've ever had like um i love working with the kids like so what
15:36do you
15:36want to end up doing like i want to be an educational psychologist like that's so cool the looks only
15:43get them so far it does until they open their mouth and then you're like oh how's camino actually
15:49camino oh my god yes i just already told you yeah yeah i just come up with that myself i
15:53know it's like
15:54i actually pre-stocked your instagram that'd be so weird that'd be so weird i was like i actually
15:58believed you i was like i don't even have instagram so i'm like what do you don't have instagram no
16:02no
16:03that's a green flag oh is it yeah yeah that's all right it'll be so obvious that i can't see
16:08them
16:08like i'll be awkward like i won't make sense my sentences will not make sense on the camino
16:15we're gonna go we're walking i love the vitamins right 5k into the cafe coffee
16:22takeaway sangria dervla yes my joke so yeah yeah that's so i can't believe she's your cousin
16:30honestly like it's like you proper know each other like she lives literally across the road
16:34oh really yeah so if you get pissed i'll text her and be like by the way dervla i'm leaving
16:39your cousin
16:49i was so afraid so like i was on tiktok this morning and like someone a gentleman in his
16:5840s came up and he was like prepping for a flying date yeah and i literally was like what if
17:05that's
17:05it and then you know like not in a bad way but i was kind of like right i need
17:09to prepare you're an
17:10ageist no i'm not an ageist if you when you said when they were asking you like who are you
17:15looking
17:15for you like open anyone kind of yeah not really i did say that as well they said i wanted
17:20uh someone
17:21who could talk i'm glad sorry oh yeah i i actually like i i do stop only when there's food
17:28in my mouth
17:29but in fairness a couple like they're best friends i always think like if you can spend all
17:34time together like it's pretty nice like one guy literally tried to enlist me into the army oh
17:42what he basically was like jesus you have a good bit of fitness on you now you'd be great in
17:45the
17:45army i was like huh and he started asking how much money i made and compared it to how much
17:49money he made and he had no accommodation to pay for or no food to pay for or no gym
17:53to pay for
17:53what was he saying like he was going to go to lebanon or something he's like and you have great
17:56travel opportunities i was like yeah in the lebanon yeah i was like pass hard pass
18:02will i get you another drink uh yeah i want to be fancy now because of that character in front
18:08of me
18:08yeah uh mojito no can i get an old-fashioned old-fashioned you can't please great choice thank
18:14you perfect no bother on the way for you i've actually never had one i just want to act fancy
18:18i've never had one in my life i just know whiskey's in it yeah yeah is that spinach in it
18:25mint all right
18:28i'll just get my spinach in my drink it's nice hey it's elderflower and mint
18:33not spinach once again just no not no spinach in there no papa isn't there no spinach in there
18:38unfortunately everyone in my family is like jesus do you know what it's james let him add it out
18:44my parents are going to see me flirt and i don't flirt whatever way i do flirt they're going to
18:50see
18:50it my sister was like don't put out too big of an accent when you're going to stay oh what
18:54don't say
18:54hey and don't say bye and don't say aye and really hey bye yeah you can't say it
18:58what for your accent your accent i know you can't hide that i know i probably do it it probably
19:03does
19:03amplify a wee bit when i'm a wee bit nervous oh nervous i'm not nervous nervous
19:09i'd say my accent is amplified if i'm like passionate about something you're like
19:13you're passionate about so i don't know if i was like in an argument or like if i was getting
19:18like
19:18really into something i'd be like that is spinach that is spinach that's not spinach it's not it is
19:24it's not you're passionate so you see if we're having a laugh that would be how you know that i'm
19:29having a good time showing a lot of interest in the things that they say or things that they're
19:32interested in but yeah i get it a lot in the coffee shop you've been like where are you from
19:36i've uh
19:37i've actually never drank coffee
19:42what i'm a hot chocolate and tea man okay tea yeah coffee never why what's the reasoning
19:51uh any reasoning just hasn't happened i just don't like the thought of it i have enough energy as it
19:54is i don't need coffee right you could have decaf no i just don't want it there's just something about
19:59it i okay i've said tomorrow to the people i'll do everything i will do everything in life
20:04apart from two things let's take meth and drink coffee what you're that passionate about i will not
20:12drink coffee really no not a chance oh okay good for you yeah thank you stand by that thank you
20:19don't
20:19let people tell you what to do it's never right actually coffee's great though if you can have a
20:23laugh and like take the piss out of someone and they can they can give it back and they can
20:27take it
20:28i think that's great yeah okay hot chocolate this friend with all the shavens yeah marshmallows and cream
20:34everything myself yeah i deserve it yeah i like the people they're very nice like the brazilians
20:44you know they love party they like drinks they're very loud they love that being here in ireland
20:52it was life-changing event because when i came here i couldn't speak english i didn't know anyone
20:58here so i had to start a new life and being in an environment that you cannot speak the language
21:05you
21:05don't feel the culture it's so hard and that makes me the person that i'm today did my irish citizenship
21:12in december i remember thinking i wasn't gonna cry but then i was at the ceremony she said something
21:19about how like oh we're thinking for choosing ireland and then i said to myself oh my god i actually
21:25chose this country like i chose here to move actually ireland chose me it happened because i
21:31went to a fortune teller then she said that's me and you you're gonna live abroad you're gonna live in
21:37a country that you've never been before and because i was very poor there was something that was like
21:42impossible for me and then at some point someone in the same company that i was working
21:49said they were coming to dublin and so i i want to go as well and before i never heard
21:55about ireland
21:56before ireland wasn't like nowhere in the map and everything happened so to be here i i always felt
22:04home here always always and if you write my name backwards and take e is all sing
22:18is it taking you ages to eat this or is it just me also taking ages no i'm just taking
22:27ages because
22:28like i feel like conversations flowing like we have way too much to talk about you see it's probably not
22:33the worst thing to complain about like it's like queue the 15 minutes of silence and it's just me
22:37going i didn't have a girlfriend until i was like 21 and i was in that relationship until the
22:49started this year i've never been with that young girl i don't know i i just can't do it no
22:55i feel
22:56like there's something there stopping me as well like yeah like i'd be like a mommy do you know what
23:00i mean
23:05like i literally would be like oh my god do you want me to butter your bread for your ham
23:08sandwiches
23:09even if like a month older like it's all in my little brain like yeah yeah oh no i would
23:14say i wouldn't go with a girl older me though because of that like because she'd be like mommy i
23:19wouldn't be like that take me off like mommy milkers
23:32it's all so my apologies interrupting uh chicken it's for me it's for me chicken dinner thank you
23:45i'm gonna be really weird and put them to the opposite sides yeah i just did that oh did you
23:50yeah did you didn't cop it no i'm not left-handed though you left-handed no this is classic you're
23:55the
23:55only person you've ever met that does that you're the only man you've ever met yeah oh my god what
24:01the
24:01hell so why do you do that screw up like it i suppose same but i'm like mad at my
24:06parents that they never
24:06corrected me because like it's seen as like not correct like it's not the right way to eat yeah
24:13can you pick up an extra where did i get this extra knife from oh that's party for the steak
24:18i'd like to cut the steak oh wow it is yeah just always a magician yeah you're like great magic
24:24trick
24:28when was your last relationship uh relationship relationship relationship
24:32you say situation because uh situation was a year ago it just broke my heart
24:39what do you do it's very complicated it's gonna take three days six days to go it was a year
24:44ago
24:44a year ago he's not in ireland anymore no okay that's fair so no competition no competition
24:50i don't have many requests like you know it's just like free confident lovable
24:58funny beautiful inside and outside i think for me i like older guys i don't discriminate we love a good
25:07you know a good younger guy but i'm not into older guys i want to make sure at least we
25:15have chemistry
25:16and have a good laugh and get shot and everything else would be a plus my family is everything for
25:24me
25:24i love my family have you met any of your exes yes my ex-husband oh yeah i've been married
25:31i was
25:32married uh since 2016 until 2021 i was i'm separate for him like four years interesting concept how vulnerable
25:43does dating make you feel it's very vulnerable actually because you're opening yourself to someone
25:48that you don't know even though you're not going to tell your whole life you're just exposing some
25:54parts of your life that you wouldn't but it's an exchange thing you know if you give you receive you
26:00know i'll do a situation for six years situation for six years is too long it should be a relationship
26:07it's called love baby is it i know right it's not it's not it's not so yeah six years i've
26:14five years and not defining what you have it's too much it's not love growing up game
26:22can be an extremely lonely experience it was black i was in the closet
26:30i i really found myself respect last year and i was like this has to end yeah because i remember
26:35like when i met him i was what like 24 or 23 and now i was 30 and we couldn't
26:41even say like
26:42i love you i could say i was saying it well whatever i would say he just look away i
26:49know i know
26:52yeah i do feel lonely quite a lot actually romantically yeah but like having some relationship
27:01or situation with someone in the closet it's never gonna work i thought i would be the one
27:08no you cannot change people yeah that's why i love when people are like themselves because that's so
27:15much power being new it's power
27:29anyone looking to get guard and nicky's motor running will need to obey the rules of the road
27:36my motorbike yeah that's very much my space my nobody can get through to me on the phone
27:46i'm very very independent i do find it hard probably to let people do stuff for me
27:52you know just because i don't need somebody to do it doesn't mean i don't want somebody to look after
27:56me a little bit hey hi there how are you welcome welcome your name please nicky nicky where you come
28:01from cork oh cork lady a little bit a little bit you don't you don't you don't show them you
28:07don't
28:08no no me okay till you make it yeah yeah i probably come across as more confident than i actually
28:15am
28:19yeah what would you like to know everything let's start from childhood let's go the whole
28:24oh jesus how long have you got yeah start with your hobbies what you like to do in your free
28:29time
28:30walk dogs uh ride my motorbike oh wow is that how you say it motorcycling or motor riding
28:37riding riding yeah yeah what we all think that we like about by don't we um i think i just
28:47somebody
28:47who groans me how old are you do you want me to ask you you are not just since february
28:52yeah well jesus
28:53you look amazing i would never have said that in a million years oh god wow jesus fair play to
28:59you
28:59it must be the motorbike can take years off emmett's hoping the girl of his dreams will take him
29:07to a magical place wonderland he's smiling like a cheshire cat too
29:15hi that's face your name please uh emmett emmett pleasure to have you emmett thank you
29:21you're a little bit nervous are you yeah a little pleasure come on you good looking fella there is
29:25no problem with you come on man confidence that's all what you need just bring me there you know
29:32i know in within a couple of minutes like whether you're attracted to the person or there's some
29:38sort of connection kind of would you want someone that's from cork well i'd want someone that's not
29:42in donegal because i'm definitely not like do you believe in love at first sight
29:51i'll tell you later hi how are you how are things good thanks nickley it's nice to meet you emmett
29:56how are you how are you how are you good would you like a drink bottle heineken
30:02bottle heineken absolutely where's your accent from mullingar mullingar okay we're on the right
30:07side of the tracks no where are you from quark all right just discussing like if i was set up
30:13with
30:13somebody up north leg that's a bit of a track yeah a bit of a track well in garth's not
30:18far no and
30:20you're probably going to leave it as well so most people aren't you know
30:25you know i think as i get older i get that i'm not everybody's cup of tea you know so
30:33i do
30:33um hsc care assistance oh very good intellectual disability yeah lord yeah what do you do look
30:41great oh lovely not the usual reaction lovely i do think some men are probably a little bit
30:50intimidated it's not funny anymore that the first question they ask is did you bring your handcuffs
30:54and do you bring them everywhere so here we are i was planning to come in with a different outfit
31:10totally different from where did you choose this last minute i schedule outfits three months in advance
31:18i did a little you know check back when he was walking in because i just wanted to know and
31:25when
31:25i saw his arms i was like why is that me like i i felt like i was i was
31:30in back in time like watching
31:31myself walk walk into the restaurant everyone is so scared about turning 30 but i kid you not best
31:38thing to ever happen to me yes because now i'm much happier on my 30th than when i was yeah
31:45because i know
31:45who i am he's quite chaotic like it's like chaos but it's a nice way i love that he's very
31:53confident
31:53the other days that you had was better than this i think there's a clear difference i think obviously
32:00you're older and he's younger so our date was more comical more humorous yeah i think with you
32:06our date is so much more revealing i think it's more deep good would you like to see each other
32:14again
32:15yes yes yes of course yeah we can definitely see each other again definitely that's a nice quick
32:21answer guys i like that i like that you're black first of all i like that you dress well have
32:29good
32:29sense of fashion i love that you're loyal to friends i also know that he loves being gay yes
32:36a lot of gay guys a lot of gay guys actually don't really no i love me he just loves
32:43me all right so
32:44if you're happy to follow me yeah and you can take your blankets off what do you think you would
32:49do for
32:50a second date i'd say something active actually i know not like that i meant like
33:01you have no rush i feel like us being like older we know that you don't rush things like that
33:08you
33:08let's kind of feel to not sure yeah oh i'm so excited let me open the door for you thank
33:16you
33:27did you go from mollinger yeah just outside it worked with my dad at windows and doors
33:33nine or ten years okay i had a bike accident that kind of put me out of service for a
33:38while
33:40this is perfect here's the juicy stuff pete you are there oh what kind of bikes are we talking
33:46how about i move you to a table and then we'll get into the really juicy stuff
33:50okay yeah before news starts filling these secrets i know yeah yeah yeah watch out for this one
33:57yeah ideally if he was into bikes that would be involved there would be a motorbike right right
34:02so back to the bike episode yeah going out through one day and just carpooled out and that was it
34:09lights out oh so i came to on the road but i don't remember anything bar waking up next day
34:16so broke me femur pelvis right wrist left shoulder so i was wheelchair so i had to move home then
34:23as well
34:24landed myself in a wheelchair for about four months had a lot of time to think about life and what
34:31i
34:31wanted to do so while before i kind of got up on one but yeah i have two now
34:38i have two now so i'm back into them like oh yeah yeah well i suppose it's like
34:46there's no kind of in between with them yeah yeah they're like they don't yeah
34:55what's your opinion on motorbikes yeah so i bought my first bike um last october yeah yeah
35:02yeah um i was telling you i went to um the tt last june yeah with a group of friends
35:08and my ex
35:08and when we came back from there i was like i'm buying a bike i'm buying a bike you know
35:14yeah it's
35:15different or when you're over there like you understand the bravery of them yeah i'm going to
35:21the island in two weeks time yeah for the manx yeah yeah class yeah i think relationships probably
35:30flourish on trust i suppose obviously spending time together what sort of a bike did you buy
35:36i bought um 100 transel oh yeah yeah good yeah there's no comparisons to like driving a bike and
35:45just having the wind yeah that kind of sense of freedom yeah yeah it's lovely yeah it really is
35:53but yeah no i like the coffee shop but yeah after college i don't know what i'm gonna do i
35:57found it
35:57really really cool that you can speak irish yeah do you really cool no i did my leaving certain irish
36:03that is yeah i went to an irish secondary school that's okay well i'm running a cafe in december oh
36:08really
36:09might not hopefully get those people there as well yeah but i don't understand the word of irish they
36:13speak uh different their accents like i actually that's like whoa you should be asking questions
36:21and not just talking about yourself don't start showing me your camera roll
36:32oh that doesn't look like you at all
36:37oh this is an sse arena in belfast wow and then ep last year
36:46there's a mary ball is that you yeah i love a crowdsour fight what the hell how do you get
36:52up
36:52there two big fellas and you'd be like let's get me off and they're like on our shoulders like no
36:57no
36:58so you go to the lads beside you catch me and you just have to trust in the people and
37:01you just go
37:02get me back i i love it there's a few jacks to me try it you know i keep it
37:06close to me
37:06chest when they need to come out they don't come out like they're fake flowers they're fake
37:10smell it actually you know i do a big garden at home as well like vegetables and flowers and stuff
37:16like what have you got i've got like look basically we're on the cabbage and carrots and uh
37:22i actually don't know why you didn't say that yeah uh loads of stuff like obviously
37:25down my farm there's a little greenhouse like down there like and do you like cook them and all
37:29like yeah i love it yeah i'd make like stews and stuff i'd love to be able to do that
37:33but like
37:33like i said we're not going to do it over here i suppose well that does smells like shy
37:37i live with three guys which definitely doesn't help with looking for a partner because well
37:45they do everything but make me attracted to men to be honest or like our garden at home was a
37:51shithole right so i was like right lads having a house party middle of july i'm inviting my friends
37:58you can invite your friends leave it with them to do the garden put in four days they didn't stop
38:04drinking every evening i saw a tick tock there the other day and it's kind of like um these men
38:10in my
38:10generation have been handed everything their whole life that they don't know what it's like to actually
38:18settle these starters or i think mains and desserts yeah just because my daughter told me i have to get
38:24the heart oh yeah definitely how many kids have you two okay two yeah uh so my daughter's 14 and
38:36my
38:36son is 12. oh lovely yeah yeah my son he is 11 going on 12 so they're teenagers and pre
38:45-teenagers so
38:45they don't really want to spend that much time with me anymore it's important if possible like to
38:51have not a relationship but like to communicate or to be able to communicate let's say you know
38:57it's heartbreaking because the only people we suffer are absolutely kids yeah 100 and like that
39:02like we didn't you know it was amicable especially it wasn't as if anybody did anything to
39:06i think i was probably very young getting into that um and i sort of matured out of it
39:13so how do you find ben gart um i love it yeah i actually do like it's never boring no
39:23no there's
39:23no two days the same you know yeah and it's what i always wanted to do oh yeah yeah yeah
39:31yeah yeah how
39:32did you get into what you're doing now in the mix of you know different types relationships i guess i
39:37did
39:37have one pretty crappy one going back a few years ago yeah um yeah think of some of the worst
39:44things
39:45yeah yeah um but i don't regret any of it um i learned so much about myself from it i'm
39:52really i
39:52suppose geared towards growth at the moment and i'd like to meet somebody who also has that kind of
39:58mindset one of the lads at work that we mined didn't have a passport and was never on a holiday
40:03never out of the country we flew to the iron islands from connemara airport so kind of took
40:08pictures and sent them like an eight person playing evening yeah um so that worked well then we're like
40:17right next stop is spain and they had a ball they loved it oh it's a bit of culture yeah
40:24exactly
40:31yeah i literally i'll go 50 50. not a chance like oh yeah not a fucking chance joined by the
40:37whole
40:38thing no no oh my god another bogger but like not another bogger but like another bogger like
40:45it was a looker wasn't he thank you very much gentlemen gentlemen of course i bet i think i'm basing
40:52my
40:52stuff on like oh she likes me if she likes me i'm like yeah probably would like to see her
40:56again
40:56but i'm like if she didn't like me i'm like oh you have jackets or coats or anything you had
41:00a jacket
41:00yes thanks very much very much bye
41:12would you like to see each other again romantically
41:17i would i would i would i would say i'd be covered but yeah i'd love to see her again
41:21yeah
41:23there's no point in doing the whole oh my god you don't miss my goodness
41:27no i'd literally get sick i'd be like oh no because then it leaves it leaves too much anticipation
41:32yeah no i would yeah well like when i saw you first i was like oh my god he's cool
41:38and he's really
41:39good style right you started talking i was like oh he's a bogger as well i was like okay right
41:44i'm
41:44comfortable like i was like i don't need to like start doubling to find myself not that i do but
41:49i do
41:53well obviously she's very pretty good looking like um actually i never even thought about that did you
41:58i don't know i don't know uh well i don't know
42:08and is there a bikes in family no no no no no no no no no no no have you
42:14her father would be disgusted if i buy her a bike next year yeah i have a big family um
42:19okay
42:19i lost my mum when i was very young and um when i was 12 so obviously yeah um so
42:26my sister looked after us
42:27um and my dad he just wasn't around from when i was very young yeah geez my 19 year old
42:36sister had
42:37to step up and take us on my dad had been gone since since i was a baby and um
42:43he just yeah he didn't
42:47step up i guess and i suppose look if she wasn't there you know we'd have just been separated and
42:53put
42:53into care homes and and who knows but look i suppose that's probably why i chose the job i chose
43:03you know there wasn't too many people that we could have looked up to in that time you know
43:08made it who you are today 100 yeah that's the way i look at it so you know what there's
43:12nothing
43:13we can't do anything about no where we come from like 100 definitely no
43:19so there was two girls three boys and then me so i suppose that's where my masculine energy comes
43:25from jenny it's funny because like last week i went off on the bike and went down to um one
43:31of my
43:32favorite beaches in west cork and i sent my sister a picture and she was like oh looks fabulous i'd
43:36have
43:36gone and i sent it back a picture of the big bike and i was like no you wouldn't she
43:39was like no i
43:42i brought the first one home okay and there was war father went out with a shotgun
43:49i was gonna do shoot the bike oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah shoot
43:54the
43:54fellow who's sold it to you like no
44:02it's the right time to say i don't like strawberries
44:04are you having a laugh are you messing are you messing no you don't like strawberries i really like
44:10you should have said that why'd you let me do it i don't care i'd eat it i'd eat it
44:14i think we're
44:15both chatterboxes i think the time just flew like we were chatting away there's a mustache a bad thing
44:22or a good thing good thing good thing yeah okay okay i said i liked mustache oh yeah yeah yeah
44:28she's
44:28gorgeous gorgeous girl i'm not really a picky eater but like i have notions what are the notions cabbage
44:35turnip get them away from my face no okay don't even love fish and beans get them away from my
44:40face
44:40now i was gonna order fish wasn't stick no fish and beans no like baked beans or any beans kidney
44:48beans
44:48all the beans kidney beans and a chili is nice though no would you ever spill them oh yeah i'd
44:55be
44:55but i wouldn't be eating the beans
45:02neither of us knew each other i don't think that's fair it's different if someone's like
45:05i'm gonna take you out but this is i would really like i would really like to pay for this
45:09meal
45:09and i'd appreciate it if you'd like me to do so would you like to see each other again romantically
45:15ladies first i think we got on really well but i don't think it's there romantically i agree
45:21yeah really okay okay great i was gonna say i got more drink later but i didn't
45:26think okay it was like i need to get you okay i'm glad you feel the same yeah great grand
45:33man came prepared he's insisting he was super chatty and i think he's a great guy and i think
45:40really funny and i loved all things he was saying but i don't think it was quite there for me
45:45don't look at our secret our secret messages
45:49prick
45:51you're gonna go crowd surfing with him i don't know i'll see you at the agravize
45:56yeah yeah i'd like to picnic see ya see ya see ya
46:07see ya now
46:14hi hi
46:15grand how are you how's it going it's all chat anyway
46:19my thoughts was he's not my usual type
46:23yeah just gonna drop this on the table there for you i'll let you guys work it out
46:27not really my usual type no but um yeah become good work he has a son who is um 11.
46:39um he's two motorbikes oh did you have much in common no
46:48i'll get this oh for god's sake no now that i've sat and chatted with him and relaxed a little
46:56bit
46:57yeah yeah so have you any plans for the rest of the evening no no all this time to myself
47:04pity i
47:04bring the bike i give the whole evening free would you guys like to see each other again romantically
47:13i'm gonna let the lady answer first here we go
47:18i'm gonna say yeah yeah
47:21did you guys fancy each other yeah yeah perfect man has spoken absolutely don't argue
47:31calm seems genuine it's just easy to talk to guys thank you so much
47:37thank you again see you there was some sort of spark there yeah do you think nikki is girlfriend
47:44material she will be yeah
47:52i definitely think he could be boyfriend mature
47:57what would day two look like
48:09date may continue possibly yeah
48:14pretty good job good job
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