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#video #Unexpected - Season 7 - Episode 02: What Tests Will I Have?
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom, it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:11We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was
00:24going to take care of the baby, and he's not even trying.
00:27Are we together or not?
00:28I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the frickin' moon.
00:33Leave, I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40Oh, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, OK?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you
00:56steal everything that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:02It's time to push.
01:04I can't.
01:05I'm scared, Mom.
01:14No.
01:16You OK?
01:17No.
01:18I'm scared.
01:19I can't tell you for a minute.
01:21I'm sorry.
01:21No.
01:23It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25You're making me more ready than you want the strength to push.
01:27Come on.
01:28That's fine.
01:30Woo!
01:31Let's go!
01:36Oh, I'm scared.
01:38No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41No, no, no.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:43It's OK.
01:44No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My butthole.
01:47It's OK.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the vapor going to vapor.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point.
01:59And here goes Amaya.
02:02I got it .
02:03No.
02:04I don't know if that's what she said.
02:05There's pressure in her butthole.
02:08And I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't.
02:11I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No.
02:14It is time to push.
02:16We're about to have as a baby.
02:18Yeah.
02:19We are not ready.
02:20I know, I know, I know.
02:22I don't want to do it.
02:24No, no, no, no.
02:25Just started to realize, oh, this is not a joke.
02:28And she had to push throughout the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural, she's still
02:33feeling pain.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:36Just freeze my hand.
02:37No, it hurts.
02:38It's OK.
02:39No, it's not.
02:41I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:45I was thinking, like, 100 things all at once.
02:49100 things?
02:50What are those 100 things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby,
02:54if something happened to her, something happened to both of them.
03:01You need help?
03:02I said, bro.
03:08Is that normal?
03:10No.
03:11No.
03:12So they come in to reposition Amaya and the baby's heart rate
03:16just drops.
03:18And there wasn't a little drop.
03:20And my heart dropped with it.
03:22Go ahead and come back to me.
03:24OK.
03:25I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:28So baby's heart rate didn't look down,
03:31but baby's heart rate went up again, OK?
03:33If the baby's heart rate was down again,
03:36that means we have to go for an emergency C-section, OK?
03:39I'm going to go call the doctor, OK?
03:42I'll be right down.
03:43Nurse said, if that happens again,
03:45there's no other conversation being had.
03:47We're going straight to the emergency room, you know,
03:50for an emergency C-section.
03:52And that's it.
03:54You can do this.
03:55You're made to do this.
03:58You're Sammy's mama.
03:59You got this.
04:02This is not OK.
04:05My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section
04:07and the baby won't make it.
04:15And I just don't want her to go through that.
04:22Or have to experience that,
04:24because it's not easy.
04:27At all.
04:45What's wrong?
04:47What?
04:49What?
04:51Okay.
04:56So last night, me and Bryce was talking about how he should get a job,
05:00and he had the audacity to tell me that I should be working.
05:04It's common sense.
05:06You got to get a job.
05:06And why don't you get a job, too?
05:08I cannot believe you just said this.
05:10Be real.
05:10Who's going to keep our kid?
05:12You.
05:13I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now,
05:18because he's not trying for anything.
05:20And I don't know if it's a maturity level.
05:22I don't know.
05:22But I'm worried that he'll never understand what he needs to do
05:27in order to fix the problems in our relationship.
05:34I guess we'll talk more about how our conversation went after we do this.
05:43That's fine.
05:45Because I don't want to get mad again and be in a bad mood.
05:49You seem to get mad no matter what.
05:51Now you're going to make me mad.
05:54What?
05:54I don't get mad for no reason.
05:56I get mad because I have logical things to get mad about.
05:59You get mad about a lot of things that aren't logical.
06:01My feelings are valid, and you're trying to discourage my feelings.
06:05Like, they don't matter.
06:08I never said that.
06:10That's how you act.
06:12I guess.
06:13Can you pull over for a second?
06:16Yeah.
06:16So I agreed to go to Bryce's nan and papa's house,
06:19but I don't know how it's going to go,
06:20because me and him still haven't figured anything out.
06:25You think the world revolves around you?
06:26If it's not on your timing and what you want to do?
06:28If it's not on your way, it's not right.
06:30It's an argument.
06:32You're not doing .
06:33What are you doing?
06:34I do my school.
06:35I clean my mom's house for her, because that's my job, you know?
06:40Because my mom pays for everything for me.
06:41Yeah.
06:42So that's what she expects from me, so that's what I do.
06:44I watch Truly.
06:46What are you talking about?
06:47You don't even watch her aftertouch.
06:49She just comes in your room and you make her food when she asks.
06:55Like, I do stuff with her.
06:56We color.
06:57My neck's hurting.
06:58We paint.
06:59I'm over with this conversation.
07:00My neck's hurting.
07:00Okay.
07:02Because you're a crybaby.
07:04Yeah.
07:05You are.
07:06Yeah.
07:06Glad you finally admitted it.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Keep saying yeah.
07:09What about it?
07:10I know I'm a brat, but don't make me a brat.
07:13Like, there's a reason I act like a brat.
07:15I'm not just a brat for no reason.
07:17Bryce expects me to just sit there and take, like, whatever.
07:21Probably because that's how his Nancy is, and she just takes everybody's bull
07:26and she don't stick up for herself.
07:29It's learned behavior.
07:31Whatever it is.
07:33You've changed ever since I got pregnant.
07:38Okay.
07:39I'm sick.
07:40You have.
07:40No, I'm not.
07:41Yes, you have.
07:42No.
07:42Yes, you have.
07:43No.
07:44What do you mean, how?
07:45No.
07:46Because we never fought this much.
07:49At this point, I'm like, all right, what are we arguing over?
07:52It's, like, just stupid things.
07:54And I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy.
07:57Like, taking care of a kid and doing schoolwork is definitely hard.
08:00I will give it to her.
08:01And I'll make sure, no matter what, that I'll find a way to make money.
08:05But I want her to understand that I need to do things my own way without her harping on me.
08:12But it's like talking to a brick wall.
08:15When have you ever said it was your fault?
08:16Ever.
08:17Ever.
08:18What is my fault?
08:19Like, what do I do that's my fault?
08:21That's my fault.
08:22I get mad over...
08:22What have you changed for me?
08:23I get...
08:24What have you changed for me?
08:25I don't know.
08:25How do you expect us to sit here and talk if you can't even...
08:28Because you can't let me talk ever.
08:29You never see my side.
08:32I never see your side of what?
08:33No, never.
08:34Of what?
08:35Of anything.
08:36It's always my fault.
08:36My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:38My fault.
08:38I don't do nothing but sit in my bed.
08:40How is it ever my fault?
08:42Okay.
08:42That's the problem.
08:44Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I talk.
08:47It's going through one ear and right out the other.
08:50Like, I just can't get through to him.
08:52You know, I feel like Bryce is this way because there's nobody telling him what he's doing
08:56is wrong except Isabella.
08:59Because his dad died and his mom, she's worthless.
09:02So his grandparents are the only people he has to hold him accountable and to tell him,
09:07you're wrong.
09:08And if they can't understand and get it through his head, then I'm done.
09:10Whatever, Bryce.
09:15I see your belly.
09:17I'm Mia.
09:18I'm 16.
09:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
09:19They're headbands.
09:21Oh, my goodness.
09:22Oh, that's cute.
09:23Today, me and my friends are going to talk for the baby shower.
09:26Oh, Lord.
09:28And hopefully, my dad doesn't flip out.
09:30How much you spend on all this?
09:32800.
09:33800?
09:34What?
09:36Hard, hard, four, six, seven.
09:40With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did, I mean, the heart, it can stop at
09:44any moment, you know?
09:45And go.
09:46To the count of seconds.
09:47Go.
09:47Come on.
09:48I killed my breath for that long.
09:50I killed.
09:51I was very scared.
09:53She may have to have a C-section.
09:55Go.
09:56Come on.
09:56Push.
09:56Go.
09:57Push.
09:57Hard.
09:58Hard.
09:59Hard.
10:10What's your making?
10:11You got okay.
10:12I think we need more butter.
10:13I mean, more milk.
10:14OK, let's see.
10:16I'm Mia.
10:17I'm 16.
10:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
10:19It's still so crazy to me.
10:21Like, even I think, like, oh, this baby's
10:23about to call me mom.
10:24Now I'm 16 years old.
10:25Like, I'm, like, I still call my mom mom, you know?
10:28It's just so crazy.
10:29Like, this little baby, like, it's depending on me.
10:34Let me move.
10:35OK.
10:36Guess your belly's going to hit the cupcake.
10:40I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge.
10:41I make $13 an hour.
10:44I start it at $9.50.
10:46So I'm earning a little over $500 per week before taxes.
10:50I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks,
10:54which they are so beautiful.
10:55They are so cute.
10:57Every time I get paid, I put half of my savings,
10:58and then I put the other half in my account just
11:01for me to be able to spend.
11:03Because I'm not going to work all this
11:05and just put it all in my savings
11:07and get nothing from it.
11:08Because that's stupid.
11:13I miss Michelle.
11:16Hello, my beautiful ladies.
11:18Hello, Mia.
11:20Hello, hello.
11:22I see your belly.
11:24Oh, my gosh.
11:26My pregnancy has been going very well.
11:29I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant,
11:32besides, like, my belly got a lot bigger.
11:35Yeah.
11:36And then my face has gotten fatter,
11:37and my fingers have gotten fatter.
11:39Because if you see and you look where my ring's at, you see that?
11:43That wasn't, that didn't happen before I got pregnant.
11:46Like, there wasn't a big old mark there and, like,
11:49an indention in my finger.
11:51Now it's hard to push my ring back on.
11:53Who's that ring from, Jessie?
11:58Wait, what?
11:59Where's that ring from?
12:01Oh, because I promised to marry her one day.
12:06I'm Jessie, I'm her boyfriend, and I'm also the dad.
12:09And me and Jessie have been dating for a year and four months.
12:14But we've known each other for, like, two and a half years.
12:21I was the first person to say, I love you.
12:24Like, I kissed her, and it was just, like,
12:26our whole future played in my mind.
12:28I see, like, us being together probably
12:30till death do its part.
12:36So what do you plan on getting?
12:38I want to do, like, the pink and brow counter print.
12:41Do you have, like, an inspo pic?
12:43No.
12:44No?
12:44OK.
12:44It's just in my brain.
12:46Today, me and my friends are going to go and shop
12:49for the baby shower, which is in a few days.
12:51We are having around 50 people at my house.
12:56And I'm going to try to stick to a budget of around $300.
13:03So where do you want to start?
13:04We've got to find the Western.
13:06Western.
13:07Western.
13:08OK.
13:09Oh.
13:09I see cow prints.
13:11Oh.
13:11Perfect.
13:12I may have found it.
13:14Three, four, one.
13:15There are headbands.
13:16Oh, my goodness.
13:17Oh, that's cute.
13:18So cute.
13:18One, two, three, four, five, six.
13:21Yeah, and then get these.
13:23I'd say five.
13:24And then get, like, the pink, like we were saying,
13:26like, get the pink and go in the middle.
13:27OK?
13:28When I first found out I was pregnant, I freaked out.
13:31And I cried and cried for, like, weeks and weeks.
13:36And then I found out I'm having a girl.
13:38And I'm super excited I'm having a girl because me and my mom, we
13:42never had a very good relationship.
13:44And I want a relationship.
13:46Like, I want it with my mom.
13:47I want with her.
13:48You can't be a 100% perfect mother, you know?
13:51But I think I'm going to be a pretty good mom.
13:54OK.
13:55We can put Jesse in some chaps.
13:57Look, something like this.
13:58Did you see him in that?
14:00That is terrible.
14:01I think he'll go with the thing.
14:02After I found out she was pregnant,
14:04I was sad and worried and frustrated.
14:06But after the first few days, it was like, OK,
14:08I can actually do this because I've always wanted to be a father
14:11because I never really had one.
14:12But I've always wanted to be one.
14:14Well, yeah, but he wants to play good cop, bad cop.
14:16And he wants me to be the bad cop.
14:17And he wants to be the good cop all the time.
14:21He's a sucker.
14:25What are you texting on your phone?
14:27I'm texting Jesse.
14:28Well, we're having a fun time.
14:31What's he mean?
14:32He's supposed to come to the house when we're done.
14:33And he's stressed out because he don't have a ride
14:35to the house and all that.
14:38And he keeps texting me.
14:39Well, he's putting up stress on me.
14:41Whatever.
14:43I'm practically planning this baby shower
14:45and doing this baby shower by myself
14:47because my mom hasn't really helped during my pregnancy.
14:51And even though me and my dad are a lot closer
14:53to me and my mom, he just don't understand
14:55because he's a guy.
14:55And then Jesse's mom has bought a few things
14:59to help me decorate and everything.
15:00But my mom can get kind of jealous.
15:03It would just aggravate her a little bit
15:05if Jesse's mom helped out.
15:09Yep.
15:10It's a lot.
15:12Good morning or afternoon.
15:14How are y'all?
15:15How are you?
15:23I'm going to grab another phone.
15:25Two of these?
15:26Yes.
15:29Is this in budget mail?
15:31As I'm checking out, the numbers are steadily going up.
15:33And we do exceed $300 by a bit.
15:41$871.91.
15:44That's over your budget.
15:47Oh, Lord.
15:49I might have went a little overboard
15:51with spending for the baby shower, but it's my money.
15:53I do what I want with it.
15:55I just hope I didn't spend all that money
15:56for it to be a day filled with drama.
16:00Only because our moms haven't met yet,
16:02and the first time they're supposed to meet
16:04is at the baby shower.
16:05I don't know how I feel about that.
16:07Me either, because when you put my family
16:09and Jesse's family together,
16:10who knows what's going to happen.
16:12Oh, my God!
16:20Come on.
16:22Come on, push.
16:22Go!
16:23Push, hard, hard.
16:24So it has been 24 hours since me,
16:28Maya, and Mama G have been in that labor room.
16:32Maya's just in that constant pain, just trying to push.
16:35That's it.
16:35Hard, hard, force.
16:38Six, seven.
16:39With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did,
16:42I mean, it can, the heart, it can stop at any moment,
16:45you know?
16:46And so she may have to have a C-section,
16:51and that's my biggest worry.
16:54And go to the count of 10.
16:55Go!
16:55Come on.
16:56I killed my breath for that long.
16:59I killed.
17:01Just like that.
17:03All right, congrats.
17:04OK, Maya, so here's what we're going to do.
17:06OK.
17:07OK.
17:07OK, no more shouting.
17:09Don't get to talking.
17:10They're going to be you and me.
17:11OK.
17:11OK?
17:12Listen to me.
17:14Nice, quiet delivery.
17:15It's better for you and better for baby.
17:17OK?
17:18All you have to focus on is holding that breath
17:21and bearing down and pushing as hard as you can
17:24for that 10 seconds.
17:25OK.
17:26OK.
17:26Very good.
17:28Oh, man.
17:29The doctor had to tell everyone to shut up.
17:33I mean, I get it.
17:34We are a very loud family.
17:37You know, he puts his foot down, to be honest,
17:39and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:41and let him do his job.
17:43But Lord knows I'm praying and just hoping
17:46Amaya's going to be able to push
17:48and can deliver this baby vaginally.
17:51Oh, my God.
17:53Feel that pressure?
17:54Yes.
17:55Good.
17:56Take a deep breath.
17:57OK.
17:57Come on.
17:58I am.
17:59Yes, you can.
17:59Deep breath.
18:00You're doing it.
18:011, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 3.
18:09Good job.
18:11I was scared.
18:13I was scared, too.
18:14I was very scared.
18:16Because it's been a long 24 hours for all of us.
18:20And Amaya was like, come on.
18:22You got to do this.
18:24It's go time.
18:25And you got to put your all into it.
18:28The nurse told her it could be three hours of pushing.
18:30She was like, oh, hell no.
18:33At that point, it kind of put a little fire under her
18:35and, you know.
18:36Yeah.
18:371, 2, 3.
18:381, 2, 3.
18:39Ewww!
18:401, 2, 3.
18:421, 2, 3.
18:451, 2, 3.
18:461, 2, 3.
18:471.
18:482, 3.
18:491, 2, 3.
18:521, 2, 3.
18:532, 3.
18:542, 3.
18:54He's got his hair, mama.
18:56Oh, my God!
18:58Oh, my God!
19:18Oh
19:49Yes, please
19:50Just put your scissors like that. There you go.
19:55Cutting the umbilical cord was weird. It was like full of like blood. It's the thing where you don't cut
20:01it just one and done. You have to keep going. And it was like, ugh.
20:06Oh
20:06Okay
20:09Keep my hands right there, okay?
20:11That's okay.
20:12Oh, my God. You did it.
20:18Oh, my God.
20:21Oh, wow.
20:23Maya pushes Sammy out and 40 minutes doctor gave him a pat on his back. He started crying and I
20:30was happy.
20:31At 8 10 a.m. Sammy comes into the world. He was born. Finally.
20:39Oh, my God.
20:40It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam. He was seven pounds and
20:5114 ounces. Oh, my God. Seven pounds. I know how big my baby was. I can't believe I just forgot
20:56that.
20:56It's okay. I got it. 14.
20:58He was seven pounds and 14 ounces. I thought he was 13.
21:01Almost eight pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom because
21:04I have pictures. Clearly they don't even.
21:05You wanna bet? He's a big boy. I don't wanna bet.
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man. You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money. He was seven pounds and 14 ounces. Okay.
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him. Beautiful.
21:26We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
21:31The little king of our, the little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socares.
21:44He's so tired.
21:45Say hi.
21:46Oh.
21:47Oh.
21:49Oh, look. He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no. He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him back?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him. Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers, and he has both of our last names.
22:10And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:20Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:34Like, he's really there, and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:38It was like, I don't know, there's no better feeling than that.
22:44Oh, my goodness.
22:46You did it, baby. I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're going to be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh. Don't say that.
22:56She's already an amazing mom.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom. That's all you did.
23:04Exactly. Sorry.
23:04The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12You, mama.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandbaby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off, and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for, was that her and the baby make it through, and everyone be healthy.
23:32Aw.
23:34But now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
23:39We're, it's not a game anymore.
23:42Let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are going to want to talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not going to talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Let's go.
24:11Put your seatbelt on.
24:11Let's go.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite.
24:24So, hopefully.
24:25Choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's going to love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:30You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab legs.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:35This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents, and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:41My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43Like, I don't know, they play both the roles, so.
24:46We started raising Bryce when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot and, you know, not real responsible.
24:57And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
24:59And then a few years later, sadly, his father passed away.
25:04It's a sad situation, and I just thought it would be better if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate, you know, to make up for hard times in his life when
25:21he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did.
25:25But he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:31All righty.
25:35You know, Bryce is just so closed off these days that doesn't really talk about anything, so.
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Yeah.
25:44Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:47Deer in the headlight look?
25:48Yeah.
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58Are you going to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07At least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09And, uh...
26:10Get to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know, before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change, and, uh, I don't know.
26:32It's a very emotional thing.
26:35Yesterday he was a little boy, and now he's, like, this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant, me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know, we did everything we could.
26:46But it is a shock.
26:48It was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did?
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good? You good?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:06Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pop-up, ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine. Everything's fine. Everything's fine.
27:23There he is, yeah.
27:24So, we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So, we're hoping to get, ah, some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44Gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad and, yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:01To have protection and to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:09How would you do it?
28:14Because I don't know is all I said
28:19Rewind the time so I could change it
28:23Oh
28:26Hey, babe. What you got going on right there?
28:29All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:31That's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34OK, well, just a little bit.
28:41I'm going to show you everything I've got, but I've got to pee.
28:43I'll be right back.
28:45I'm Keith.
28:46I'm 47.
28:46I'm Mia's dad, and I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant,
28:52I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know, because I knew he was going to be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
29:00I mean, going through my head when I found out was everything.
29:06It's like, kind of like, I guess,
29:09her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
29:14Seeing her little bitty growing up,
29:16and then all of a sudden, out of left field, 100% this.
29:21But I do feel some type of way responsible.
29:25Because I dropped the ball, I feel like,
29:27and I should have went and got her on birth control.
29:29And I mean, that's on me.
29:31I mean, you know.
29:33But she wasn't knocking down my door either,
29:35saying, hey, Dad, hey, did you forget?
29:37Because I forget stuff, you know?
29:38And I mean, unfortunately, this is one of them things I forgot.
29:44Okay.
29:45Hi.
29:47So these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:50They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute.
29:52So what else you got?
29:53These are going to be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ, $4 for some frickin' balloons.
30:01How much you spend on all this?
30:05$800 and...
30:06$800?
30:07What?
30:08$75.
30:10$900.
30:12It's like the $900 she spent on the baby shower is a prime example of how she's not ready
30:17to have a baby and she's clueless about life.
30:20That's just money down the drain.
30:22Psh, psh, psh, psh, psh, psh.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do.
30:26I have good grades in school.
30:27I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work.
30:30It's going to be hard, man.
30:33It sucks.
30:34Struggling is hard.
30:36I don't want that on anybody.
30:39Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jesse and all of them are going to be here.
30:46And then...
30:47Mom.
30:49She said she was going to be here, but I don't know.
30:54That's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot.
30:59She's just...
31:00She's more absent.
31:01But, um, we don't have a good relationship and she, um, we don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:13But, I mean, it's that she's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially, like, split up, split up, like, two and a half years ago,
31:23and that's when I started living with my dad.
31:25Yeah.
31:26My mom isn't stable.
31:28She, uh, she doesn't have a stable work environment.
31:34She doesn't have a stable place to live.
31:36She, um, she has a lot to figure out.
31:39And I just knew, like, with my dad, I'd be in a stable, stable house.
31:44That's my daughter.
31:45That's my baby girl.
31:45I mean, you know.
31:47I love him.
31:48I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just, I don't know.
31:52I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know?
31:55That's a sore subject.
31:59Oh, what else you got?
32:01So, we're going to put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:05And then we're going to put, like, the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully this is, uh, not going to happen anytime soon again.
32:16How are you going to prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me.
32:20She's talking to you.
32:23So, how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for after having the baby to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I want to get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because, like, we did use protection in the beginning, but Jesse took off the condom.
32:44Wow.
32:49What?
32:50Why?
32:51I don't know.
32:53Hmm.
32:55Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:03Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking other human being that you're
33:19responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:23It dumbfounds with me.
33:25It really does.
33:25I mean, it really, it's ridiculous.
33:29You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I hope not.
33:33But you need to be, hey, bro.
33:35I mean, do what you got to do.
33:37I don't want to get into all that s***, but, I mean, golly.
33:40It's kind of obvious.
33:42Just saying.
33:44I was still children.
33:45Whether you're having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:53And it, eh, whatever.
33:56I'm sorry.
33:56I'm sorry I made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
34:10Hello.
34:11Hello.
34:12Hello.
34:13Is your dad still saying no to me coming over, or am I coming here?
34:16Come over.
34:16All right.
34:17I love you.
34:18Love you, too.
34:19Bye.
34:21How long is he staying?
34:23Until tonight.
34:27He's not staying here, that's all I can say.
34:30No.
34:32I'm just telling you how I feel.
34:35It's awkward having Jesse around, because I don't really care for him.
34:39I don't want him in my house.
34:41I'm just trying to get over the, that s*** I just heard earlier.
34:50Anyway.
34:56Bryce is going to get a job.
34:58Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
35:00$10 won't do nothing.
35:02You would just make an effort.
35:03It would not.
35:03That is all my mom is asking.
35:04It's a waste of my time.
35:05Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
35:08I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
35:10You know, that's not right.
35:11That's not the life he dreamed of.
35:13They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything, and he does because he helped
35:17make this kid.
35:31What's up, boy?
35:34I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get a s*** together, I'm done.
35:38Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
35:41I mean, I've tried, my mom's tried, there's fixing to be a baby here, so hopefully Bryce's
35:47grandparents can get through to him.
35:53Mmm.
35:55That's good, man.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:00Kevin.
36:01What?
36:03You're blocking the sunlight.
36:04Mmm.
36:06How's your mom doing?
36:08Oh, she's doing fine.
36:10Working.
36:13Good little sister, you've been looking after her or what?
36:16Yeah.
36:18You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
36:21Maybe more than most.
36:23At your age.
36:28Isabella seems a little standoffish previously.
36:32She was always nice and smiling, and tonight she just doesn't seem very inviting.
36:40Or there's a wall there, I feel like, between us.
36:46She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
36:52But I just shook it off as...
36:54We haven't seen her.
36:55I haven't seen her in a while, and she's nervous, and, you know, we'll see what happens.
37:01Well, what's y'all's plans?
37:03What do you want to do?
37:04I got no clue.
37:05What do you mean?
37:07Plans for what?
37:07As far as where y'all are going to live, are y'all going to try to live together?
37:10No.
37:11You don't want to live with Bryce?
37:13No.
37:15Not at anybody's house.
37:16Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
37:21Oh, yeah, but...
37:22Or get married or whatever.
37:25My nanny and papa had felt like that we should get married because we're really religious.
37:31Well, my family's Christian, too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just
37:35because we was having a kid.
37:36If we can't financially support a baby, why would we get married?
37:40It's not like I'm going to go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock.
37:47So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
37:53Or ever?
37:55Not anytime soon.
37:57Gotta get a job first.
37:59Right now, we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought.
38:03I mean, she has a couple outfits that my mom's bought.
38:06You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything.
38:09What about having a baby shower?
38:11Are you interested in that at all?
38:14No.
38:14I don't want a baby shower.
38:16People bring you and give you gifts.
38:18It's not about the gifts.
38:19It's just more about, like, support.
38:21It's crunch time.
38:22Like, this isn't going to happen, and there's just, like...
38:25Hey, that baby's not going to hurt for nothing.
38:27I can promise you.
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything.
38:34It has everything to do with...
38:37They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
38:40and he does because he helped make this kid.
38:43We're willing to do whatever we can, and Bryce is going to get a job.
38:47Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
38:50No, you have to have a decent job.
38:52You have to crawl before you walk.
38:54Like my mom said, you don't have to work...
38:55$10 an hour won't do nothing.
38:56Okay.
38:57It won't.
38:58You would just make an effort.
38:59That is all my mom is asking.
39:01It's a waste of my time.
39:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
39:06I'm still her daughter, and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating,
39:12but me feel like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Paisley.
39:16That's just not...
39:16Like, it don't make any logical sense.
39:19I think her mother's sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do.
39:23You know, that's not right.
39:24He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to raise a family, okay?
39:29Not just anything.
39:34Bryce has a future, a bright future, okay?
39:37He's smart.
39:37He's very smart.
39:38But it takes a little time.
39:41You can't just get that overnight.
39:42And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job, that's what you're doing is just settle
39:47it for that.
39:48That's not the life he dreamed of.
39:50He wants to have a life, too, you know, and a good life.
39:54What I'm asking is they tell Bryce to get his head out of his ass and get a job.
40:00But oh well, who cares?
40:02Not them, because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them.
40:06It falls on my family.
40:09It'll be all right.
40:10Relax a little bit.
40:11Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry because...
40:13I understand.
40:14I understand.
40:15But it's Bryce's baby, too.
40:18Let's not forget that.
40:19Okay, well, let's make an effort.
40:22We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella.
40:30And I feel like I have been under attack the whole time.
40:36It's getting dark out here.
40:37We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
40:40So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and try
40:49to form a plan that works for everyone.
40:53Well, I hope so.
40:55But I'm not holding my breath.
41:03Close the door, bud.
41:04Next time on Unexpected.
41:06When I first met Jessie, I kind of didn't like him.
41:10Then this happened.
41:11I definitely don't like the kid now.
41:13Can Jessie stay the night?
41:14No.
41:15He's making it hard.
41:16He is making it harder than it has to be.
41:18I don't know why he don't let you sleep over.
41:20Ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
41:24Let's go.
41:25He's ready.
41:25You want some clothes on?
41:26Jose!
41:28Jose, you going to help her over here?
41:30Taking Sammy home is really scary because it's, like, really setting in that this is my whole
41:35life now, you know?
41:36Um, can you get a band-aid?
41:39We don't have band-aid.
41:40Okay, can you call them and ask for a band-aid, please?
41:43I have to go back to work.
41:45And so you need to be able to do this.
41:48Have fun, Hunter.
41:49We'll see you all later.
41:51Today, Hunter's going to see his dad, but I am worried that he might not show up.
41:55When I was away in there, it's going to be, like, 30 minutes.
42:02He's a piece of s***.
42:03When does the disappointment stop?
42:05I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
42:08He's a 13-year-old boy about to have a child of his own, but his dad needs to be
42:12consistent.
42:13I don't want to hurt.
42:15I'm done with this stupid ass s***.
42:17Mel, stop.
42:18Wait.
42:18Dinner.
42:19It was f***ing miserable.
42:21I'm not going to sit in the room with a little crybaby because y'all unable his f***ing behavior.
42:29She's going to regret this.
42:31It's on now, okay?
42:32We can do it like that.
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