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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there?
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:23I really do want this to work.
00:00:25Do you love me?
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:31and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:37Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:39I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing
00:00:57for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow,
00:01:00my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister,
00:01:09and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:12I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:17I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:21Here we go again.
00:01:22Huh.
00:01:22Yeah.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much
00:01:26was because we were in a long-distance relationship,
00:01:29but we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:37I don't trust Michael.
00:01:39I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend, and he's not trying
00:01:45to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:53I am shocked that Birkon decides to walk out on me.
00:01:58It absolutely feels like a sight of him
00:02:00that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
00:02:04Michael.
00:02:06The blessing we are getting from my uncle
00:02:08is very important.
00:02:09If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
00:02:11does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:14How's this?
00:02:16I have to try to impress his uncle,
00:02:18but what kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:02:20I'm worried I may have to reveal things
00:02:22that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:24I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:02:59I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:03:00Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home
00:03:02in the province.
00:03:03And even though the family accepted me,
00:03:05what I've learned is just leaving me confused
00:03:10and bothered.
00:03:14First off, I believe that the entire time
00:03:17I was coming here to save Sheena
00:03:19from horrific, evil monsters,
00:03:21and it turns out her family has this nice,
00:03:24beautiful home and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:27So last night, I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:31You have to be honest with me.
00:03:32You described your family as almost like
00:03:35terrible monsters that were stealing from you.
00:03:37Are they just, are they just,
00:03:39is this an act for me?
00:03:42No, they're not an act.
00:03:44They're great people.
00:03:45But they're not really great people
00:03:47if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:49You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:52They gave their blessings to you,
00:03:54even though it's the first meeting.
00:03:56So it's a good thing.
00:04:00I wish her answers were more,
00:04:04you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:08Now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:13I feel like I know bits and pieces
00:04:15of the most important parts of the story,
00:04:18but there's still many other things
00:04:19that need to be uncovered.
00:04:22I do believe my mom is going to show up
00:04:24and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:26She's going to see this, this,
00:04:27and she's going to say,
00:04:28why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:31And she's going to express herself
00:04:32and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:36I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming
00:04:38because she can get the third perspective
00:04:40and see what's really going on.
00:04:46Sheena's family seems to be under the impression
00:04:48that she's going to financially support them going forward.
00:04:52So I still want to tell Sheena's family
00:04:54that we are cutting them off.
00:04:55And hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up
00:04:58and kind of just get past the big hurdle
00:05:01that is impending.
00:05:05That's strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:12Okay, Sheen.
00:05:13They should be here any second.
00:05:15Okay.
00:05:16Come on, dude.
00:05:18Okay.
00:05:18Yeah.
00:05:25Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:27Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:29I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:32I know Molly will bring up the finances,
00:05:34and it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:38But Forrest wanted to impress my family,
00:05:41so he is kinder.
00:05:43I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:48Oh, yes.
00:05:49Moment of truth.
00:05:54Oh.
00:05:56Oh, boy.
00:05:58Wow.
00:06:00Hey, guys.
00:06:00Wow.
00:06:01Hi, Mom.
00:06:02Hi, Deb.
00:06:03Mm-hmm.
00:06:03This is so beautiful here.
00:06:05Well, thank you.
00:06:06Wow.
00:06:08Wow.
00:06:10Right off the bat,
00:06:12alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:17My family is out right now.
00:06:19So come here, guys.
00:06:20I'll give you a tour.
00:06:22Here's the garden and stuff.
00:06:23Man.
00:06:26Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed and breakfast.
00:06:31So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough around the edges.
00:06:36We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:37We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:41Huh.
00:06:42I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:46Oh.
00:06:46My first reaction?
00:06:49Holy .
00:06:51Sheena, who did your grass?
00:06:53Actually, before when he got this place, it doesn't have anything.
00:06:57So you guys did all of this?
00:06:59Yes, from no scratch.
00:07:04Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money,
00:07:08that they're going to starve.
00:07:10I mean, they're living better than Forrest and I back in the United States.
00:07:16This is not adding up at all.
00:07:20And this is the pool area.
00:07:23Oh.
00:07:24Then if it's around the night time, it would have different color, light color.
00:07:28Well, would you look at that?
00:07:31So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:34At dinner?
00:07:35Yes, Mom.
00:07:36Okay.
00:07:38I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing that Sheena has told me,
00:07:44this whole story of the past seven years, and then I want to see how they react.
00:07:49I want to see if they're going to be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:07:55Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:07:58It's just beautiful.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:08:00Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:02I think I'm just going to go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:06Okay, Mom.
00:08:20It's a wrap-up.
00:08:22I wish I can tie it to my waist.
00:08:24You can. Show me.
00:08:26You have to spread your leg.
00:08:28You know, I don't have much waist, so...
00:08:30I know.
00:08:31You're tight.
00:08:32Okay. On the side?
00:08:33Yeah, on the side.
00:08:34I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:35You look beautiful.
00:08:37Oh-la-la.
00:08:48You have to fold it a little bit.
00:08:50On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:54The inner one is shorter?
00:08:55The outer one, yeah.
00:08:58Okay.
00:09:00It's okay.
00:09:02Okay.
00:09:03Beautiful.
00:09:05Look at me.
00:09:06It is not a kiss.
00:09:08Mmm.
00:09:09Yeah.
00:09:10Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:09:14And...
00:09:15And...
00:09:15I'm nervous.
00:09:17I don't know the traditions.
00:09:19I don't know the culture.
00:09:20And I don't know what his uncle is going to ask me.
00:09:22I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing and Daniel will blame me.
00:09:26You will be the one to hold the wine.
00:09:28Okay?
00:09:29When you kneel down there, you give me the wine.
00:09:31I will be the one to present it to my uncle.
00:09:33Okay?
00:09:34But I kneel with it first.
00:09:35Yes.
00:09:37I will be kneeling down with you.
00:09:39Okay?
00:09:40Good.
00:09:40You give it to me.
00:09:42Then I will hand it to my uncle.
00:09:44Okay?
00:09:46Lisa is from another country.
00:09:48She don't understand our culture.
00:09:50I have to instruct her on what to do.
00:09:52So she doesn't offend my uncle.
00:09:56Let's try.
00:09:59Sorry.
00:10:07Daniel wants me to have traditional attire to meet his uncle.
00:10:10And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:13I think I'm going to look like a clown.
00:10:15I can't hear anything because the hair tie is like plastic and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:21But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire and this is what I must wear.
00:10:25So this is going to be pretty interesting.
00:10:28Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:34I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:36I just got you.
00:10:40All right.
00:10:40Let me try again.
00:10:41I guess.
00:10:45What are you doing, baby?
00:10:48It doesn't look too bad.
00:10:50Oh, my God.
00:10:51All right.
00:10:52Can you help me?
00:10:53Oh, but you weren't there when the woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:10:56I didn't have a mirror.
00:10:57Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:10:59I had my head and I was holding it.
00:11:01You must help me.
00:11:06You put on the tie.
00:11:08Thank God.
00:11:09All these things.
00:11:09I know them from when I was growing up.
00:11:12When my mom was alive.
00:11:13I used to see her when she started.
00:11:15And I remember.
00:11:17But I never knew that someday I would be the one to help my girlfriend to tie her up her.
00:11:24You have to make a crotch or it's going to fall off.
00:11:32You got this.
00:11:34Okay.
00:11:35Okay.
00:11:36How do I look?
00:11:37You look good.
00:11:49I'm nervous.
00:11:51Why are you nervous?
00:11:53Because I am.
00:11:54This is a big deal.
00:11:57I want to impress her.
00:11:58Impress my uncle?
00:11:58Yes.
00:11:59I want to give a good.
00:12:01I want to put my best foot forward.
00:12:05I'm scared less.
00:12:07And you're not telling me anything except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:10I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:12I will do my best.
00:12:13My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:15So don't lie to him.
00:12:16I know.
00:12:16But what you're considering a lie and what I consider a lie might be two different things.
00:12:20I'm from America.
00:12:21My culture is different than yours.
00:12:22Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:28I want to show him that I am willing to go above and beyond to be a good Igbo wife.
00:12:39Igbo wife.
00:12:41Igbo wife.
00:12:46I'm trying to be positive about Lisa.
00:12:49Meeting my uncle.
00:12:51Brand lovers.
00:12:53I told my uncle a little bit about Lisa.
00:12:56But not only her weapon.
00:12:59There are some other things she told me.
00:13:01It is a big, big sin.
00:13:03She told me that she has changed for good.
00:13:05But I want to make sure she's being honest.
00:13:08And I am worried that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain herself.
00:13:16And I will have to walk away.
00:13:24Remember what you promised me that you're not going to talk to her again.
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:30I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:13:34I've been very concerned ever since it's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:13:40They really encouraged cheating.
00:13:42Can I see your phone now?
00:13:48So we're going to go meet your friends.
00:13:51I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:13:56But part of me really wants to ask them questions because there's a lot more I need to learn about
00:14:01beercon.
00:14:02Tell me something interesting about beercon.
00:14:05What are you doing?
00:14:08I'm so sorry.
00:14:09I'm so sorry.
00:14:22I'm so sorry.
00:14:48I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:14:50And me and Natalyn are on our way overdue honeymoon.
00:14:56It's a strange feeling to have all these firsts with me and my wife after three years of being married.
00:15:03First time sleeping together.
00:15:05First time eating together.
00:15:06First time waking up beside each other together.
00:15:10And then we had our first in-person fight.
00:15:14So right now it seems like I'm in the doghouse.
00:15:23Okay, she made her side of the bed.
00:15:28Anna, last night things got a little bit tense because I told Anna not to call my sister and vent
00:15:35about our issues in our marriage.
00:15:38Last night during our couple's massage, I am trying so hard to show him a good time trying to be
00:15:47romantic.
00:15:48But he's always trying to find ways to criticize me.
00:15:53I would rather Anna come to me about our issues in our marriage.
00:15:57Why can't I reach out to his sister?
00:16:00She's my family too.
00:16:01So why can't I confide to her when he can confide to any bitch?
00:16:13What?
00:16:14Are you going to brush your teeth or are you just going to look at me?
00:16:17I mean, Anna, are we going to talk?
00:16:20Talk about what?
00:16:21I mean, about last night.
00:16:23I mean, I apologize for, you know, bringing that up at the wrong time.
00:16:30I want to enjoy the trip.
00:16:32Can we do that?
00:16:39Okay.
00:16:41All right, we're good?
00:16:42Okay, I hope.
00:16:44It's all right.
00:16:45I'm happy that he apologized, but that doesn't mean all is good.
00:16:53Last night, it wasn't just really about him criticizing me.
00:16:59It's way deeper than that.
00:17:02It's about him doing things that's giving me trust issues.
00:17:09Now that I'm in person with my husband, there are things that I question about him.
00:17:14I noticed that it's beautiful out today.
00:17:18Yeah.
00:17:19You want to head to the beach?
00:17:21Yes.
00:17:21Okay.
00:17:27But I don't want to waste this moment, especially this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:17:37What's going on over there?
00:17:39Kayaking?
00:17:40Yeah.
00:17:41And this one is like a bicycle.
00:17:43Yeah.
00:17:44We definitely-
00:17:44This one is so cool.
00:17:46We definitely going to do these.
00:17:48Are we interested in renting this?
00:17:50Yeah, you can do it, sir.
00:17:51Okay.
00:17:52Have you been on one of this before?
00:17:54No.
00:17:56Are you excited?
00:17:57I'm excited.
00:17:58All right.
00:18:00Woo-hoo!
00:18:01Bye-bye.
00:18:02Go on out this way.
00:18:05Oh, it's so fun.
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:10I just love this.
00:18:12Just remember this moment.
00:18:16Look at her face.
00:18:21It's so long.
00:18:23You're like a stork.
00:18:24It's pedal right there.
00:18:27The aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable because I'm so tall.
00:18:31I couldn't-
00:18:32You have long legs.
00:18:33Yeah.
00:18:36It's difficult.
00:18:37Yeah.
00:18:40They're not built for people over six foot.
00:18:44Maybe jet skis next time.
00:18:50Oh, my God.
00:18:51That was so fun.
00:18:55Cheers.
00:18:55Cheers.
00:19:02It's pretty good.
00:19:09So, you know this is the last day of our honeymoon?
00:19:12Mm-hmm.
00:19:13So, we're about to go back home really soon.
00:19:16You're gonna meet my mom, but there's something I want to talk about.
00:19:23Okay.
00:19:25You know what we argued about last night?
00:19:28That was about my sister.
00:19:30Yeah, also because you remind me why I did what I did.
00:19:35Because you talk to this person, I don't want you to.
00:19:41I need to make sure that you keep your promise.
00:19:47Remember what you promised me when you were on the phone before you came down here.
00:19:53That you're not gonna talk to her again.
00:19:56Yeah.
00:19:57But I need you to show me.
00:19:59Okay.
00:20:00That you keep your promise.
00:20:01Okay.
00:20:02So, can I see your phone?
00:20:06Now?
00:20:11Okay.
00:20:15I know that checking Juvon's phone is bad.
00:20:18I wish I don't have to do that.
00:20:20But having an online marriage, we are not together physically.
00:20:24For me to know what is really doing.
00:20:29I have been very concerned ever since she's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:20:36Because they really encourage cheating.
00:20:41You okay?
00:20:43Yeah.
00:20:44Are you nervous?
00:20:47They really say that if he cheats, it's okay as long as he provides.
00:20:53It really scares me a little bit.
00:20:56So, for my peace of mind, I need to be totally sure that there's nothing going on.
00:21:06Wow.
00:21:24Just gonna leave me?
00:21:26You're just gonna leave me in a hut in a village.
00:21:28And you are making conversation about Michael.
00:21:32Person.
00:21:33I hate.
00:21:40I don't care about Michael.
00:21:43You don't care about a lot, do you?
00:21:45No.
00:21:49BeerCon's plan for us today was to make evil eye beads and then go meet his friends, Memo and Tuba.
00:21:56But I'm just really unsure of everything right now.
00:22:04After keeping some pretty big secrets from me, BeerCon has a lot of balls to try to tell me who
00:22:12I can and can't be friends with.
00:22:14I knew that BeerCon had a lot of issues with my relationship with Michael.
00:22:19But to tell me he wants me to cut my best friend out of my life?
00:22:24This is a whole new controlling side of him.
00:22:27And it's really concerning to me.
00:22:31You left me sitting in a hut alone.
00:22:34Because I don't like him?
00:22:37Actually, I have nothing in common with him.
00:22:39Okay?
00:22:40You both care about me.
00:22:41You have that in common.
00:22:43I think he's more than caring about you.
00:22:46But you always said you trust me.
00:22:49Yeah.
00:22:50You have to trust me on this.
00:22:53Because man knows man.
00:22:56Okay?
00:22:57Step back and see your relationship with him.
00:23:03And so you think he has some sort of intention that's other than just being my friend?
00:23:10Yeah.
00:23:11Exactly.
00:23:12I don't agree.
00:23:14Okay.
00:23:14Okay.
00:23:17So we're going to go meet your friends.
00:23:20And I want to do that.
00:23:22I would like for you to give me that same respect.
00:23:25So could you at least at some point be open to meeting him or calling him?
00:23:35You are pushing my will.
00:23:39I'm not trying to push your will.
00:23:40I'm trying to make you see the hypocrisy in it.
00:23:44Because otherwise it feels like you just get to determine who's important in our lives.
00:23:49In our lives.
00:23:50Okay.
00:23:51I don't want to talk about this discussion anymore.
00:23:54So...
00:23:55Okay.
00:23:59I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:24:05But part of me really wants to take the opportunity to meet them, to ask them questions.
00:24:11Especially since the last few days have proven that there's a lot more I need to learn about BeerCon.
00:24:32So this is my usual table. Maybe we should sit here.
00:24:36Okay.
00:24:37You know everyone.
00:24:38Yeah, I know.
00:24:43So good to meet you.
00:24:47I'm Maura.
00:24:48I'm Tuba.
00:24:49Nice to meet you.
00:24:49Hi.
00:24:50I'm Maura.
00:24:52Nice to meet you.
00:24:54Even though I am feeling bad about the argument, I think this is the best time for Memo and Tuba
00:25:00meet Laura.
00:25:02Because they're the best two people can teach her that I'm not a bad guy.
00:25:08I'm just trying to protect the one I love.
00:25:13I will translate.
00:25:14You guys are going to mix up and...
00:25:17And I'm going to ask lots of questions about you.
00:25:19Okay.
00:25:21Yeah, this sounds like a threat.
00:25:23It's not a threat.
00:25:24It's not a threat.
00:25:25Okay.
00:25:34How long have you known BeerCon?
00:25:39How long have you known me?
00:25:40Three years.
00:25:41Three years.
00:25:44Three years.
00:25:44Three years.
00:25:45Three years.
00:25:45And it's a threat.
00:25:52And it's not a threat.
00:25:57It's a threat.
00:26:08It's a threat to Laura.
00:26:10It's a threat.
00:26:11I think I'm good enough to remember Laura to be able to be together.
00:26:13This is also I fear Laura's, to raise the problem with Laura.
00:26:15There's something for relaxing.
00:26:16It's like medication.
00:26:18I have my tea.
00:26:19I have my shisha.
00:26:20I will be fine.
00:26:22While it's fun to see this side of BeerCon hanging out with his friends, it's also kind
00:26:28of eye-opening.
00:26:29He knew everyone when we walked in.
00:26:32He has a regular table.
00:26:34And now I'm hearing that he comes here literally to smoke shisha every day.
00:26:40I mean, he just told me about this massive amount of debt that he has.
00:26:43I feel like he should be doing something more productive with his time.
00:26:49Tell me something interesting about BeerCon.
00:26:54That's a new translator here.
00:26:57Nice job.
00:27:03People can't reach the inner me, you know?
00:27:07That's why people think I'm tough and I'm angry 24-7.
00:27:19But I also like the dark parts and the protective nature.
00:27:25I also like the dark parts and the protective nature.
00:27:29It's a good combination.
00:27:56You know that I want my aunt, Kate.
00:27:59So this is the time to talk about it.
00:28:01I can't put a time frame on that.
00:28:04I'm 52 years old.
00:28:05Getting up there in age.
00:28:07So I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:28:11What do you want?
00:28:16Oh, my mouth is watering.
00:28:18Oh!
00:28:20I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:28:23Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom?
00:28:25Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:28:28I want to talk about Sheena.
00:28:30There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:28:43I want to talk about Sheena.
00:28:47I want to talk about Sheena.
00:29:00Baby, I love to see that smile on her face.
00:29:06The lemurs here are kind.
00:29:08You just bring banana and you just give them and you're playing with you.
00:29:13Sounds like fun.
00:29:14Do lemurs make good pets?
00:29:16You know, like a cat or a dog.
00:29:19Oh, no, no.
00:29:21That's illegal.
00:29:23Oh, it's illegal.
00:29:24OK.
00:29:26Today, we're taking a boat to Nosikumba to see some lemurs.
00:29:31This is something that I've been looking forward to,
00:29:34because I think that Madagascar is the only place
00:29:38that you can find lemurs.
00:29:40We're here, huh?
00:29:41Yeah.
00:29:43Also, for a long time,
00:29:45that's the only thing I knew about Madagascar from the movie.
00:29:49So I'm really excited to see them in person.
00:29:53Oh, oh, oh.
00:30:00So cute.
00:30:03Look at the black flag.
00:30:04There's three of them.
00:30:05So do they ever come down?
00:30:07Yeah.
00:30:08They run like this everywhere.
00:30:09And what do they eat?
00:30:12Whenever they see the fruits like that, they eat all of it.
00:30:16Oh, really?
00:30:16Huh.
00:30:17These lemurs.
00:30:18They're cute and they're strange at the same time.
00:30:22To me, they act similar to monkeys,
00:30:25but they're not as human as, like, monkeys are.
00:30:29They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:30:33Oh, wow.
00:30:34This one's right next to us.
00:30:38Hey, man.
00:30:39What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:30:41That's their...
00:30:42Is that their language?
00:30:44I can't believe it.
00:30:47I sound more like a big...
00:30:49You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:30:53Monkey, monkey, monkey.
00:30:54Is it monkey?
00:30:55Or what did you say?
00:30:56Maki.
00:30:56Maki.
00:30:57Maki, Maki.
00:30:58Maki, Maki.
00:30:59Yes.
00:31:00You see?
00:31:00Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:02Let's get a picture.
00:31:04Come on, let's get one together.
00:31:09Man, the kids will love this.
00:31:11Yeah.
00:31:13My boys, I miss them.
00:31:16But it'll be worth it if I can bring the step mommy home.
00:31:20Yeah, I'll be there.
00:31:23I envision that we can have this family unit,
00:31:26just the four of us.
00:31:31You know that I love your kids, Rick.
00:31:34But I cannot just, you know, being a step mom, like, forever.
00:31:42I want to have my own.
00:31:46I mean, I love kids.
00:31:48But, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:31:53What's the issue?
00:31:57Well, there's...
00:32:00I know it's a hard time, but I know what it is.
00:32:03I know.
00:32:05I took care of my little brother and sister without any help.
00:32:09Like, my dad going to work, and only them and me was in the house.
00:32:15And before, when I told you that I want my own kids, then you say,
00:32:20oh, uh, we should talk about it when you're coming here.
00:32:24So this is the time to talk about it.
00:32:28You should decide you want what you don't want.
00:32:35I don't know, Trish, I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:32:43At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:32:47I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age.
00:32:52So having another child is going to be, like, starting all over again.
00:32:58And it's hard enough, as it is, dealing with my two little ones.
00:33:05And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:33:11She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:33:18What do you want?
00:33:21I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:33:33I can't put a time frame on that.
00:33:38I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:33:45I need to know.
00:33:46And it's very important.
00:33:48And not only for me, but for my family.
00:33:52In my culture, it's very important to have kids.
00:33:57And it's not a question.
00:34:00I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:34:07If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore,
00:34:11I'm not sure if I will be able to stay with him.
00:34:22I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:34:30She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys,
00:34:36that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:34:40You forced her.
00:34:42Do you just hate it?
00:35:00Do you just hate it?
00:35:01Oh, big up!
00:35:10Okay.
00:35:11Wow.
00:35:14It's not very ripe.
00:35:17Hello.
00:35:17Hello.
00:35:19Mom, Dev.
00:35:20This is my sister, Katrina, and my dad, Steve.
00:35:23Hello.
00:35:24Hello.
00:35:25This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:35:27So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:35:29This is Dev.
00:35:29Hello.
00:35:31Good to meet you.
00:35:32Steve, Dev.
00:35:33Steve.
00:35:33Dev.
00:35:34Dev.
00:35:35Dev, yeah.
00:35:36Hi.
00:35:36I'm Molly.
00:35:37So very nice to meet you.
00:35:38It's a pleasure.
00:35:39I'm Katrina.
00:35:40Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:35:42Hi, Forrest.
00:35:43Hey, Pops.
00:35:44How's it going?
00:35:45Yeah.
00:35:46So, Mom, we're just trying to show you on how we make jackboots.
00:35:49That is a knife.
00:35:50Yeah.
00:35:53Tonight, I'm worried about, you know, everything that's going to happen.
00:35:57Anyone want to try?
00:35:58Yeah.
00:35:58Oh, I sure do.
00:35:59Oh, thank you.
00:36:01I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:36:03Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom who loves and cares everybody?
00:36:07Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:36:11Want to go sit down for a while?
00:36:14Oh, yeah, that'd be great.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:15That'd be great.
00:36:16Yeah.
00:36:17But at the same time, I'm starting to get kind of tired and overwhelmed with learning new things every single
00:36:22time about Ashina.
00:36:23Yeah.
00:36:24So, I'm hoping that we can get the truth all out on the table.
00:36:30Oh, look at that.
00:36:32So, these are banana leaves.
00:36:33We use this as a buddle fight.
00:36:36Very traditional.
00:36:38This usually was practiced in the military when they went up the mountains.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43So, no plates.
00:36:44Just the banana leaves.
00:36:45Yes.
00:36:46All the food.
00:36:48Yes, it's wonderful.
00:36:50A buddle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture of everyone to eat in one whole giant leaf.
00:36:58So, it's like this.
00:36:59They have to do like this in a line.
00:37:02Ah.
00:37:02I just thought Molly would really enjoy this because she's interested in learning about my culture, especially when it comes
00:37:10to food.
00:37:11Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:37:13Ooh.
00:37:14I hope that the buddle fight is the only fight that would happen tonight.
00:37:20Next batch.
00:37:21Next batch, the whole thing.
00:37:23Seafood.
00:37:24Ooh.
00:37:25Shrimp.
00:37:25Oh, my gosh.
00:37:26Those look delicious.
00:37:28Mussels.
00:37:29The big fish goes in the middle.
00:37:31Yes.
00:37:32My first impression of Ashina's family was they're hospitable.
00:37:36They're very welcoming.
00:37:38I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:37:42Usually, make a rice ball.
00:37:45Just pick around.
00:37:46Scoop it in your mouth.
00:37:47Shove it in your mouth.
00:37:48Shove it up.
00:37:50Shove it up.
00:37:51Shove it up.
00:37:52Shove it up.
00:37:52Shove it on up.
00:37:53Mmm.
00:37:54Mmm.
00:37:56That be told, that does not line up at all from what I heard about them from Ashina.
00:38:02God, the flavors that just come through.
00:38:05Mmm.
00:38:06Mmm.
00:38:07Mmm.
00:38:09I was under the impression that they were these money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty
00:38:17much locked Shina away and wouldn't let her out only to go to work and then to hand
00:38:21over her check.
00:38:23That's what I was led to believe.
00:38:28I just want to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:38:33I'm just so grateful.
00:38:34Mmm.
00:38:34And you have created such a beautiful home.
00:38:37I must say.
00:38:40It must have been so expensive.
00:38:46But I was actually quite surprised to see how it really is.
00:38:51I expected something very different.
00:38:54But you guys made us feel very, very welcome and I appreciate that so much.
00:39:02So I wanted to ask, are you guys okay with Shina moving to the United States?
00:39:10Actually, that is already her dream years ago, to work there in the U.S.
00:39:17Oh.
00:39:18Okay.
00:39:20That's interesting.
00:39:23Yes.
00:39:25But yesterday, Forrest made it clear that he's a little low on budget also and so I don't
00:39:34know what the situation is, you know.
00:39:36Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side and I want to talk about Shina.
00:39:45There's been quite a bit of confusion and I had heard that you guys had been taking all
00:39:58of Shina's earnings and she told us that if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would
00:40:16threaten her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:40:24That you forced her.
00:40:29No.
00:40:31Did you say that?
00:40:46Did you say that?
00:40:49I'm here to make sure that Shina is a good woman.
00:40:53It is our tradition.
00:40:55You are not an Igbo woman.
00:40:58Tell me, do you drink?
00:40:59Do you smoke?
00:41:01Are you a practicing Christian?
00:41:03I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:41:06Do you know?
00:41:34I have a great idea.
00:41:36A lot of photos here.
00:41:39It's all Zoe's photo.
00:41:43My dog?
00:41:46Mm-hmm.
00:41:48I was ready to find something to prove that I can't trust him.
00:41:54Instead, I found a bunch of cute photos of his dog.
00:42:01And photos of me that I sent him.
00:42:04Actually, lots of photos of me.
00:42:07I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack.
00:42:13But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him.
00:42:18Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly.
00:42:25You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person.
00:42:30And I did.
00:42:34I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:42:36I think I never know.
00:42:41Well, now you know.
00:42:45It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone in order to feel
00:42:51comfortable.
00:42:52Anna's supposed to trust me regardless.
00:42:55She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married, you know.
00:43:02But at the same time, I watch a lot of relationship podcasts.
00:43:06And one of the hosts, he sometimes makes good points about a little paranoia is healthy.
00:43:14I mean, most women only act right when they feel like they can be replaced.
00:43:21So I'm not saying go out and cheat.
00:43:24So I'm not saying go out and cheat, but a little bit of paranoia, a little bit of fear is
00:43:26healthy.
00:43:29Are we good?
00:43:29I do want to trust you, but I'm not going to lie.
00:43:33I'm not going to lie.
00:43:35I'm not still like 100%.
00:43:42Mm-hmm.
00:43:44And if you talk to her again, I'm going to break this phone.
00:43:48I don't care.
00:43:52I mean, Anna, just look at it this way.
00:43:54I mean, I passed all your tests.
00:43:57For now.
00:43:58Okay, for now.
00:43:59For now.
00:43:59For now.
00:44:00Do you want to go through my luggage up in the rooms?
00:44:02Yes, I will.
00:44:03All right.
00:44:06Do you have extra phone?
00:44:08I'm just kidding.
00:44:09Not at all.
00:44:10I'm with you.
00:44:10I'm going to kiss you.
00:44:31As soon as I go in, do I kneel down before him?
00:44:37Okay.
00:44:38Stop being lovers, okay?
00:44:39Okay.
00:44:42I am in a very uncomfortable situation.
00:44:44I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
00:44:52He doesn't know that I'm still married.
00:44:54He has no idea I've only been with women for 21 years.
00:44:58And right now, I'm feeling scared because I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I don't
00:45:03want to tell him any of my secrets.
00:45:05I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
00:45:08I want to be with Daniel.
00:45:16We're going to do this.
00:45:18If he doesn't give me the blessing, if he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:45:36I don't care.
00:45:39I'm sorry.
00:45:44I don't know.
00:45:46You've got to be with your uncle.
00:45:47I don't know.
00:45:47I don't know.
00:45:47I don't know.
00:45:50I don't know.
00:45:51You, Dan, don't you know our culture?
00:46:03I'm here to make sure that Pisa is a good woman.
00:46:08Before I give them the approval to go ahead and hire it.
00:46:15It is our tradition.
00:46:18Stand up. Come and have your seat.
00:46:23Come on.
00:46:34Very well.
00:46:40This is the one.
00:46:43This is the one.
00:46:46This is the one.
00:46:52My good lady, how are you?
00:46:55Nervous, Uncle. I'm very nervous today.
00:47:02yes you are not an evil woman i want to know you more i will ask you some pertinent questions
00:47:15tell me who are you i am a native american i am part irish also i come from a mother
00:47:25who
00:47:26gave me up for adoption at a very young age i have a family that adopted me and they took
00:47:32very good
00:47:32care of me i am a hard worker i make sure i take care of my household i make sure
00:47:39when daniel
00:47:40needs money that i take care of his household are you a practicing christian or christian by
00:47:48a name i am a practicing christian i have not always been a very good christian but daniel
00:47:57makes me into a better woman he makes me into a stronger christian
00:48:04do you drink i do drink very not a lot but i do drink some yes do you smoke i
00:48:14do not smoke
00:48:15drink i have smoked in the past i have given it up
00:48:25are you or were you a lesbian
00:48:30do you practice laborism
00:48:31do you practice laborism
00:48:40laura is already worried about my finances and my debt
00:48:45i don't want to make things bigger
00:48:48i don't want to make things bigger
00:48:55wait what did she say
00:48:56i don't want to make things bigger
00:49:26What?
00:49:29Good.
00:49:56Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:50:02I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:09But what?
00:50:49I don't like pressure. I hate it.
00:50:59Birkan, don't do that.
00:51:00Birkan, don't do this.
00:51:01I hate that.
00:51:04Good to know.
00:51:08This is really awkward because the three of them
00:51:11are just having this conversation in Turkish
00:51:13and nobody is translating for me
00:51:16or filling in any of the gaps.
00:51:19This definitely feels kind of off and a little shady.
00:51:23I'm already feeling unsure.
00:51:26And now I definitely think it's possible
00:51:29that he's hiding something else
00:51:30that his friends know about
00:51:32and for whatever reason, no one's telling me.
00:51:37And I don't like that.
00:52:00I think we're having a picnic.
00:52:03Is that the blanket we're laying on?
00:52:06You're a splash pad.
00:52:07I mean, it's kind of...
00:52:10That would have been better.
00:52:12The splash pad would have definitely been better.
00:52:21Is this what we're going to eat?
00:52:23Yeah.
00:52:24Wow.
00:52:25Fried fish.
00:52:27They put some garlic and ginger and little salt.
00:52:32And that's what they're stirring in now?
00:52:34Yeah.
00:52:35The ginger and the salt?
00:52:36They mix it up like this.
00:52:38It makes me miss home
00:52:40because we are doing the same thing like this
00:52:42when we are home.
00:52:43Got some nice big ones in here, bae.
00:52:46Mm-hmm.
00:52:47So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:52:49Yeah.
00:52:59This type of food stands on the beach
00:53:01are very common in here.
00:53:04I love them since they have fresh seafood.
00:53:07This is how my family prepare food also.
00:53:11Lighting a fire and making a barbecue
00:53:15or frying something.
00:53:17So it's nice to have a reminder of home.
00:53:22You want to try?
00:53:24Try what?
00:53:25How to cook it.
00:53:26I don't know anything about...
00:53:27You've never done that?
00:53:29Nah.
00:53:29And I've never been fishing either.
00:53:31So I've never dealt with, you know, live fish.
00:53:34I'm going to teach you.
00:53:35And when you are in my hometown,
00:53:37you can do the same thing to impress my family
00:53:39like you know how to do it.
00:53:41I mean, that sounds like kind of a good idea.
00:53:44I'm nervous that Rick is going to meet my family.
00:53:49I hope they will love him.
00:53:51But the conversation we had earlier about kids
00:53:55is making me doubt that it's possible.
00:53:58And also, there are other things working against us
00:54:03that Rick doesn't know about.
00:54:08You saw my using it?
00:54:10Yeah.
00:54:13Are you used to squatting like this
00:54:15for long periods of time?
00:54:16Yeah.
00:54:18What's your problem, Rick?
00:54:20You don't even help.
00:54:21I mean, I'm old.
00:54:22I'm not used to being in this type of position
00:54:24for long periods of time.
00:54:26In my home, you will sit on the ground.
00:54:29Like this.
00:54:31I'm a city boy, baby.
00:54:32You a village girl.
00:54:34You want to sit on a chair?
00:54:36If there's a chair available, yeah.
00:54:38That'd be nice.
00:54:39What?
00:54:40You complain a lot.
00:54:43So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:54:47We'll ask you some questions.
00:54:49Who are you?
00:54:50What do you want from my daughter?
00:54:53What's your plan for her?
00:54:55OK.
00:54:56Hi.
00:54:57I know that this is a big step, and I feel honored
00:55:01that you wanted to introduce me to your family.
00:55:07And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:55:10You're older than my dad.
00:55:14How old is your dad?
00:55:15Fifty.
00:55:18But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:55:22Mm-hmm.
00:55:23You haven't told your dad my age?
00:55:25No.
00:55:29Mm.
00:55:31I didn't say that she already married twice.
00:55:34I didn't say that she have kids.
00:55:37Aw.
00:55:37Trish.
00:55:40My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me,
00:55:43and a man who have a lot of kids,
00:55:47and a man who already been married, divorced.
00:55:53So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about Rick.
00:55:57Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:56:02But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:56:05So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept me?
00:56:12My dad would say,
00:56:15Oh, you have to choose, then, between you and my dad.
00:56:21And if you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:56:27It's really important to my family.
00:56:31I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:56:35She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:56:39They don't know my age.
00:56:41They don't know that I've been married, have kids, nothing at all.
00:56:45I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:56:49They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:56:52And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:56:55Because at this point, I don't know if I'm ready to make that decision.
00:57:03I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:57:10And, you know, show them that I'm a good person.
00:57:14That I'm a loving father.
00:57:16And that I'm here for their daughter.
00:57:19And I'm going to treat her well.
00:57:22And do the best that I can to make you happy.
00:57:27I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:57:34I know that this trip is very important.
00:57:37I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:57:41and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:57:44But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:57:54I have to tell Trish before we meet her family.
00:57:58And I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:58:07Welcome to the Alo Alo Bar.
00:58:08We have sweet potato and gulaman, some cheese and corn.
00:58:12I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:58:16Most Americans would find that very weird.
00:58:19This is just a very delicious dessert.
00:58:23It's not like an execution.
00:58:28It's an aberration.
00:58:30And it is not in our blood.
00:58:32Uncle.
00:58:33She told me this was one time chain.
00:58:37Do you lie?
00:58:40Is she saying the truth?
00:58:51It's a nice night.
00:58:52Yep.
00:58:58You hear those waves?
00:59:00Yeah, I do.
00:59:01It seems like they're louder at night.
00:59:03Oh!
00:59:04My shoes.
00:59:07Did they break?
00:59:08They break.
00:59:09Oh, .
00:59:17Well, you can be my Trish Charming and carry me.
00:59:20In your dress?
00:59:22Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
00:59:25I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
00:59:30Well, just so...
00:59:32What?
00:59:32You're the most unromantic guy I've ever met.
00:59:35Okay.
00:59:35It's like you've never been with a woman before.
00:59:38Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon.
00:59:41And I'm glad that we were able to work through some trust issues.
00:59:45Because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives.
00:59:51And while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal with our family and friends, and hopefully that'll be
00:59:56good.
00:59:57Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:00:00You sure?
01:00:01Yeah.
01:00:02I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending, because I think the real test for us is day-to
01:00:09-day life.
01:00:10Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time without trying to kill one another?
01:00:17You know, we'll see.
01:00:19Hey.
01:00:20Say hello, hello.
01:00:22They have a hello, hello set up.
01:00:24Okay.
01:00:25Welcome to the Halo Halo Bark.
01:00:28We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:00:31We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:00:35Okay.
01:00:37Halo Halo is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:00:40Halo Halo in English means mix-mix.
01:00:43So you have to mix all the ingredients together with the milk and ice.
01:00:50It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:00:53No, cheese and corn, okay?
01:00:55Okay.
01:01:00This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:01:03It's not like an execution.
01:01:08I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:01:11Most Americans will find that very weird.
01:01:15I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:01:18However, I wish you will be more open-minded that when I suggest something, you will try it at least
01:01:24once.
01:01:25Just once.
01:01:26I mean, I try almost anything just once, but cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:01:33Really?
01:01:35But I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:01:38Yeah.
01:01:41So cold.
01:01:42Is it?
01:01:42But you enjoying it though.
01:01:45Enjoy it.
01:01:50So we just mix it, right?
01:01:52Uh-huh.
01:01:53All right.
01:01:55Mmm.
01:01:57Oh my God.
01:01:58Do you realize this is our first Halo Halo together?
01:02:02Yes.
01:02:03Really nice.
01:02:06All right.
01:02:08I mean, Anna, there's a lot going on in here.
01:02:11Mm-hmm.
01:02:12But it is good though.
01:02:15Excuse me, ma'am, sir.
01:02:16Do you need anything else?
01:02:17Ah, yeah.
01:02:18Can you please take a photo of us?
01:02:20Sure, ma'am.
01:02:21We're at a honeymoon.
01:02:23It's okay.
01:02:23Is that okay?
01:02:25Yes, ma'am.
01:02:26And one, two, three.
01:02:30There you go, ma'am.
01:02:31Uh-huh. Thank you.
01:02:32I hope you knew how to have a message.
01:02:35Look at that.
01:02:36Yeah.
01:02:37Aw, yeah. That's a good photo.
01:02:41I don't think so, but okay.
01:02:44What's wrong?
01:02:47You know, the face that you're giving me, it looked miserable.
01:02:54You know I don't mean to though.
01:02:56But I don't believe.
01:02:57You don't believe?
01:02:58This is your thing.
01:03:00Whining and being unromantic.
01:03:03Uh-huh.
01:03:05I mean, how am I unromantic though?
01:03:08Like the faces that I make?
01:03:10Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:03:16Okay.
01:03:33I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury that you can, you know, keep
01:03:41up with days like that because you're just sitting at home.
01:03:44I don't have that luxury and I'm just so drained all the time.
01:03:50Some other people are working too, but they didn't do that.
01:03:54They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:03:58Well, I'm sorry.
01:04:00Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:04:11It's frustrating because for me, this is love.
01:04:14I'm showing up.
01:04:15I'm providing.
01:04:16I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:04:20But Anna, seeing it through the female lens, she has this perception built up in her head that I have
01:04:26to be just over the top romance for her living in a fantasy.
01:04:30I don't know.
01:04:31My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation.
01:04:36I always make sure that my partner knows that I find him attractive.
01:04:41But just because you are supposed to provide and protect doesn't mean you always have to have this machismo energy.
01:04:49Like you can't show vulnerability.
01:04:51You're still a human being.
01:04:53I am afraid that Jubon is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:04:59He hears me, but he doesn't really listen.
01:05:03I just want you to have just more understanding because what I do is not easy.
01:05:09I mean, is that not romantic?
01:05:11Like making sure your lights is on because, you know, you're at home and then I'm working.
01:05:17I'm getting tired of this.
01:05:20Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
01:05:24Because you have to remind me that you're the man.
01:05:27That's what man does.
01:05:30I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:05:31I'm just trying to get you to understand, like, what I do is just not easy.
01:05:35And I can't remember everything, you know.
01:05:44Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:05:47Something you will never understand if you don't have that.
01:05:54Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:05:57It seems like I can't do anything right around you, so.
01:06:01From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:06:10I will never misdead any of my children.
01:06:13Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:06:16Sorry.
01:06:18Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:06:35She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would mistreat her.
01:06:47No.
01:06:48Did you say that?
01:06:50No.
01:06:52Did you say that?
01:06:53She said that you guys mistreated her if you didn't give her the money.
01:06:59I don't know how mistreated her.
01:07:00Well, that you, um, that you called her names and you threatened to throw her out and make her homeless.
01:07:09What?
01:07:10No.
01:07:11You know.
01:07:12That would have been...
01:07:14I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:07:18Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:07:21Sorry.
01:07:26Why do you feel like you have to lie all the time?
01:07:34I want to admit that I lied.
01:07:40Just to cover things up so I don't want to lose for us because it is hard for me to
01:07:46save money.
01:07:49I try to help you guys because you need all the help.
01:07:52But every time that I want to save, it's not even enough for me to get the visa.
01:08:02It is absolutely insane that Sheena would lie about her family in the first place.
01:08:08It makes no sense.
01:08:10And the hysterical theatrics aren't helping at all to clear any of this up.
01:08:17I'm just disappointed that we got told that we were kind of abusing you.
01:08:22I'm sorry, Bill. I do.
01:08:25And I do humbly apologize.
01:08:33I just don't understand why she would tell us stories that she's given every penny to you guys.
01:08:43Well, actually, it's, you know, she gave it to us and it's all listed, you know.
01:08:49So when the time she needs it, we can, you know, give it back to her.
01:08:56Really?
01:08:56Of course.
01:09:09Sheena, I'm really kind of surprised.
01:09:12Here I thought they were mistreating you and taking all your money and finding out that they were just borrowing
01:09:18it.
01:09:18It's a way different story than everything you told me.
01:09:22No, I, I'm sorry.
01:09:27My family need all my help.
01:09:29Thinking of being a breadwinner is hard for me.
01:09:33And I don't want to lose you.
01:09:36Because of course you told me that they have to save money, that you shouldn't give money to your family.
01:09:43But now I'm feeling even worse because your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just like throwing
01:09:52it in the trash can.
01:09:54I haven't told you the right things because I'm worried that you might give up on me.
01:10:05I mean, I, I, I know that you've been trying hard.
01:10:09I don't approve of the stories and keeping everything hidden from everybody.
01:10:14That's not something that was cool.
01:10:16But for years you've been fighting for yourself and sort of unfortunately got all mixed up.
01:10:24We, we knew that she was trying to save up for a visa, but we didn't know how would she
01:10:29even acquire that.
01:10:30She doesn't tell us what, what's the process.
01:10:34We, we're not gonna guess it.
01:10:36She wasn't really telling us the real truth, you know, the, what's really happening.
01:10:45Sheen, you need to make sure to say I'm, I'm never gonna lie to anybody again and I'm, I will
01:10:51be open with everybody.
01:10:54To everyone.
01:10:56I promise.
01:10:58I would never lie again for what, whatever I said to you guys.
01:11:03I regret for doing everything.
01:11:05I'll do my best to be much more open up to you guys.
01:11:10It hurts to find out that for the last seven years, Sheena had, you know, lied about everything with her
01:11:17family and the money situation.
01:11:19I thought she had more, more faith in me, but I'm glad that everything's out of the open now.
01:11:25And I hope that we can finally work towards our future.
01:11:31I think I'm gonna jump in here.
01:11:35Pops, let me understand here.
01:11:37So you've mentioned that you're borrowing the money, right?
01:11:41Yes.
01:11:43So, how long would it take to provide, you know, if she asked for her money back?
01:11:50You haven't given us, asked us for a certain amount.
01:11:54So we don't, we don't know.
01:11:56I'd say about maybe $4,000.
01:12:04We have to check the, our finances.
01:12:10I was surprised because if they plan to get married, it's a guy who should provide for her.
01:12:18We didn't expect she'd be asking us for that amount, no?
01:12:21Yeah.
01:12:23I was surprised when she said that she was mentioning.
01:12:26But, because when we're talking about it, it's painful for us.
01:12:32First impressions, Molly and the stepfather.
01:12:37The first impression of us is, of course, that's the same way.
01:12:43If she came and said, hey, I can't keep, you know, giving you guys loan, would you guys not be
01:12:50taking the loan?
01:12:57I think if it's feasible, you know, that for us not getting any help, we would do that, you know?
01:13:11But I just wish that she talked to us and explained it to us more.
01:13:17See, after all these years, Sheen, we could have just came and did this.
01:13:21Instead of going and, you know, making stories, putting things around about.
01:13:26I lie because I fear of losing him.
01:13:30Sheen, you're going to lose me if you don't...
01:13:33Stop lying.
01:13:34You gotta be honest with us.
01:13:35Yes.
01:13:38I'm very, very sorry.
01:13:40And I'm trying to strive my best to work hard for me to save.
01:13:44That's all I wish.
01:13:49I'm relieved that the truth is out.
01:13:51But I'm afraid that Forrest is taking everything he heard tonight at face value.
01:13:56Now, it's just to the point where I gotta just say, you need to think about what's happening in this
01:14:03relationship that all she's doing is lying.
01:14:06Maybe someday, she'll come down the road and tell us some other secret that we don't know.
01:14:10That will tear the relationship apart.
01:14:13I don't trust her as far as I could throw her, but time will tell.
01:14:26You practice the journalism?
01:14:29If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture.
01:14:35There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:14:38Please tell me the truth.
01:14:41I am so guilt-ridden.
01:14:43I just want to be open and honest and see if he'll take me for who I am.
01:14:47Are you okay?
01:15:00You practice lesbianism?
01:15:08Daniel told me that Lisa practice lesbianism in the past.
01:15:13I know lesbianism is rampant in America.
01:15:19Here, we don't do it at all.
01:15:21If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture and tradition.
01:15:30Please, my young lady, don't be offended.
01:15:35I am not insulting you for lesbianism.
01:15:40It's an aberration, and it is not in our blood.
01:15:44There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:15:50Please, tell me the truth.
01:15:55What the is happening?
01:15:58I am shocked by the question.
01:16:03I don't know what to say about it.
01:16:06My sexuality, being called an aberration, hurts me a lot.
01:16:11I am who I am.
01:16:13And I'm not ashamed of it at all.
01:16:15And I just want to be honest and tell the truth.
01:16:17But I'm struggling inside with what's right and what's not right,
01:16:21and what I want to do and what I don't want to do.
01:16:23It's an inner battle.
01:16:28I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
01:16:40You don't practice it anymore?
01:16:43No, sir.
01:16:47It was a fling.
01:16:48It was one time.
01:16:53Do you lie?
01:16:55Do you lie?
01:16:58I think everybody says a fib once in a while.
01:17:01That doesn't make it right.
01:17:04I have lied in the past, but I am not a liar.
01:17:13Is she saying the truth?
01:17:17Tell me.
01:17:17Yes, uncle.
01:17:19She's telling the truth.
01:17:23Okay.
01:17:24I am not a liar, uncle.
01:17:27Okay.
01:17:28But I will tell Daniel to monitor you.
01:17:30To make sure you never do that again.
01:17:38Why has your uncle asked me if I partake in lesbianism?
01:17:41Why would he ask me that?
01:17:43I told him that you have done it before.
01:17:46But it was a mistake.
01:17:47Yeah.
01:17:48Isn't that what you told me?
01:17:49You told him everything.
01:17:49You told him everything.
01:17:50That wasn't for you to tell anybody.
01:17:52That was between us.
01:17:53No, no, no, no.
01:17:54Yes.
01:17:54I have to.
01:17:55You're wrong.
01:17:55This is my uncle.
01:17:56I don't care if it's the Pope of the Catholic Church.
01:17:59You don't tell anybody.
01:17:59Are you trying to insult him?
01:18:00I'm not insulting anybody.
01:18:01I'm telling you, you don't tell people certain things.
01:18:04My uncle is like father to me.
01:18:05So I have to discuss everything with him.
01:18:07You don't even tell me what you've already spoken to your uncle about.
01:18:10I asked you.
01:18:11I don't have to tell you.
01:18:12I asked you what kind of questions he's going to ask me.
01:18:13And you're like, I don't know.
01:18:14I don't know.
01:18:16I don't have to tell you.
01:18:17You don't want me to know, but you want him to know everything.
01:18:20Oh, my God.
01:18:21Yes.
01:18:21Oh, my God.
01:18:24Are you OK?
01:18:27Yes, uncle.
01:18:47Yes, uncle.
01:18:48Oh, my God.
01:18:50Oh, my God.
01:18:58Oh, my God.
01:19:01It's all right.
01:19:09Sorry.
01:19:21I've been hearing from you, and I will give you guys my blessing.
01:19:33Thank you, son.
01:19:36Thank you, Uncle.
01:19:51I am thrilled I have the blessing, but I feel guilty as all hell because he kept bringing
01:19:59up the fact, are you a liar?
01:20:02We do not lie.
01:20:04We do not.
01:20:04And that's making me feel guilty because I am lying.
01:20:18Amen.
01:20:23I want Daniel, but I have the secret that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
01:20:29I have the secret that I'm married still to a woman, but it's 21 years. It's not a mistake.
01:20:36It's who I am. And I'm so scared he's not going to understand that.
01:20:40Stop crying.
01:20:41Daniel, it's yours. You are his girl.
01:20:46I am so guilt-ridden because I love this man.
01:20:50And I just want to be open and honest and get this over with and see if he'll take me
01:20:55for who I am.
01:20:56But it's getting harder and harder as the time goes on.
01:20:59I don't know how I'm going to tell him.
01:21:12Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:14I get to be the princess now in the castle.
01:21:17Now I'll always be a princess.
01:21:19We're on this surprise romantic getaway, but I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
01:21:24I'm worried he's hiding more secrets.
01:21:27Can you tell me where your debt came from?
01:21:30Do you want the truth?
01:21:32Yeah.
01:21:34When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
01:21:37I find another way to pay that debt.
01:21:42Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
01:21:46It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
01:21:49We're never going to get engaged.
01:21:50This whole trip was a waste of my time.
01:21:54I'm just at my breaking point.
01:21:56I deserve some answers.
01:21:58Am I the girl that you want to be with?
01:22:02Screwed on to the point where my wig is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
01:22:06I have to take it off.
01:22:09Oh, my God.
01:22:10I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
01:22:15I have no idea what he's going to think.
01:22:18But if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
01:22:22Hey.
01:22:24Oh, my God.
01:22:26Or a fire.
01:22:29All I hear is like you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
01:22:35I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.
01:22:37You tell me I'm not romantic.
01:22:40Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines.
01:22:43I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
01:22:47I mean, Anna, do you regret, like, marrying me?
01:22:54Baby, there's something I've been keeping from you.
01:22:58Explain yourself.
01:23:00In those five days when you weren't talking to me, I decided to book a trip to Colombia to be
01:23:08with my ex.
01:23:10Shut up.
01:23:11It was a mistake.
01:23:12Shut up.
01:23:14Ah, Jesus.
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