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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:05Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was, one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:23Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:32So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure.
00:00:37So, I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:44Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about gambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05Okay.
00:01:07We should solve our problem right there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So, you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:15I already told my dad that you are here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:22I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit, but it feels like I'm
00:01:31hanging on by a thread.
00:01:35I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Slipping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in a scammer?
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's a real scammer.
00:01:47You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:50You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:01:59So, you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy before you.
00:02:04Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:13You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:17You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:19You're an asshole.
00:02:21I did all of this to try to be with someone and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:44Okay.
00:02:46I'm going to run.
00:02:55I'm going to run.
00:02:58How are you feeling?
00:03:00I don't know if I'm going to run down.
00:03:02Hangover.
00:03:10I couldn't sleep.
00:03:12I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel
00:03:17and what's going to happen next, and I don't, I don't know.
00:03:24I don't know.
00:03:26Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times and I'm still married.
00:03:32He didn't react very well at all, so I decided to get another room.
00:03:38I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:40I've lost respect.
00:03:42I feel hopeless.
00:03:44What am I going to do now?
00:03:47Did you see him?
00:03:48I tried to call him, and then about 11.08 p.m., I said, I love you with all my
00:03:53heart.
00:03:54He says, I don't think you do.
00:03:57Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:03:59I said so many fears.
00:04:01He's asking me fears of what, and I say fears of losing you.
00:04:05He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:07He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:10Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:16I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:29Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days, and we're supposed to
00:04:34leave today.
00:04:35It's a really bad time for me to tell him all this when I've already paid me plans to take
00:04:40him somewhere special, and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:44So, what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for, and hopefully he'll
00:04:53come with me.
00:04:55And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:03Last night, I couldn't sleep because of what transpired.
00:05:08She was drunk.
00:05:11And she left the room, so I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:23She wanted to talk to me this morning.
00:05:26I would talk to her, but I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:32I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:35I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:38And I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me, and he's
00:05:44heartbroken.
00:05:46So, I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:50I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:05:54This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:14I can't say it enough.
00:06:17I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:25Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:28No.
00:06:30Around 5 a.m.
00:06:31Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:34Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:39I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:42I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:45I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:47Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:06:59I'm not adjusting you yet.
00:07:03Okay?
00:07:04But, um, we have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:11This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:14You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:17Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:24I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:27I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:31Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:33I'm asking you.
00:07:35You.
00:07:39I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:43But, at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:49I don't understand.
00:07:50It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:07:55Well, you have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:57If I didn't talk to my uncle about this, the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:08Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:12I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:16And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:24Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:26Today.
00:08:32Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:34I had already planned it.
00:08:36It wasn't...
00:08:37It's...
00:08:37There's no agenda.
00:08:39It's just me and you together.
00:08:41I planned it.
00:08:42I paid for it.
00:08:43I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:45And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:08:55Okay.
00:09:00I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:04But I still love Lisa.
00:09:07She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:09She spent the money,
00:09:11and she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:16It's been a long time.
00:09:18So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:22You should start packing.
00:09:24The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:28That's fine.
00:09:34Before his uncle knows about my lies,
00:09:37I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:41I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing
00:09:43and then have to go back and tell him again.
00:09:45Let's go.
00:09:47Whether he forgives me or not,
00:09:49I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:10I love mountains.
00:10:12I do too.
00:10:14This is the mountain by me.
00:10:16This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:18I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:22From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:26That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:28You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:31Boobs, mountain.
00:10:40I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like
00:10:44and surprised me with them.
00:10:47I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:10:51So sweet of you.
00:10:52We are mixing everything.
00:10:53History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:10:58Everything on this trip.
00:11:00It's fantastic.
00:11:02Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:05after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:09And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:28I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:33But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:36I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:40It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:43And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:11:48And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:11:55Oh, chick.
00:11:56Oh, my God.
00:11:58This is amazing.
00:12:03Today, we visit Ephesus.
00:12:06We have obsession with marble.
00:12:10It's, like, so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:17It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:25Yeah.
00:12:25That's adorable.
00:12:28The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:35This place is huge.
00:12:37This place trying to talk.
00:12:40Nobody to listen.
00:12:42I love this place.
00:12:44I love this place, too.
00:12:46Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:12:51And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:12:54It's so good.
00:12:56Every single surface is, like, carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:01The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:06Let's take a picture.
00:13:07Let's take a picture.
00:13:07Okay.
00:13:08With the hearts.
00:13:09Well, it's mine's heart.
00:13:11Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:12There it is.
00:13:12There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:15Love it.
00:13:16That's adorable.
00:13:16I like it.
00:13:21Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:26I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:31You know?
00:13:31Yeah.
00:13:32Chats.
00:13:33You want to have a seat?
00:13:34Okay.
00:13:37Okay.
00:13:38Okay.
00:13:39Okay, that's cold.
00:13:39It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:41Yeah.
00:13:43Um...
00:13:46I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:13:55Yeah.
00:13:55That makes two of us.
00:13:57But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:06So...
00:14:07The other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:12Why?
00:14:13Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns.
00:14:19And the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:23Yeah.
00:14:23Do you have concerns?
00:14:25Yeah.
00:14:26About our relationship?
00:14:28I have concerns.
00:14:29And now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:31I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:38And talking about our relationship.
00:14:42He has no place in our relationship.
00:14:49Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:00He already bought a flight.
00:15:04He already bought a flight.
00:15:08What?
00:15:11He's coming.
00:15:14Yeah.
00:15:17Without asking.
00:15:20Without telling anything.
00:15:23Nothing.
00:15:24This is ridiculous.
00:15:31You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:34Yeah.
00:15:34But, um, you know, I'm glad you came.
00:15:36Because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:38Cheers.
00:15:39Cheers.
00:15:40I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:15:44Yeah, it was.
00:15:45Thank you for coming.
00:15:46I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:15:50Who does that?
00:15:54So you ready to meet my family?
00:15:56I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:00I told you, yes.
00:16:02So what else do you want?
00:16:04It seems like you are hesitating.
00:16:06Just tell me.
00:16:19Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:21Maybe put that little one in the bag.
00:16:24Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so I can get in the car because I'm really
00:16:28full.
00:16:28Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:29I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:31Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:35Thank you, boys.
00:16:37That's why I have two of you.
00:16:39Two boyfriends.
00:16:40Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:16:41We could be a trio.
00:16:43Jesus Christ.
00:16:44You give, give, give me a heart.
00:16:49You pump it through my veins.
00:16:51You make me feel alive.
00:16:54Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:16:56I'll back it for you.
00:16:57And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not, not watching it.
00:17:01You're an idiot.
00:17:03What do you mean?
00:17:03I'm going to win.
00:17:04No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:05Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:06I'll give you the names and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:09Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:10Okay, what's the name?
00:17:12Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa.
00:17:17No.
00:17:18Buckaroo.
00:17:18I like Buckaroo.
00:17:20That was cute.
00:17:21There's 24 of them.
00:17:21Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:22Yes, I do.
00:17:22Okay.
00:17:24It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:28Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:30I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:17:35I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:17:37So we're taking her out on the town to see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:43But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:17:46Traffic today sucks.
00:17:49What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:17:51It's cute.
00:17:52Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:17:54Oh, you scared the out of me.
00:17:56No, we're not.
00:17:57We're in Australia.
00:17:59F***ing hell.
00:18:00I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:02Oh, that scared me.
00:18:04At least 200 metres to our rise to the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:08What metres?
00:18:10Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:12F***, I don't know.
00:18:14I'm excited to see it.
00:18:20You're f***ing ding-a-ding.
00:18:22Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:24Oh.
00:18:26But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:27Good.
00:18:29Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:31I'm going to get drunk.
00:18:34We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:18:38We're here.
00:18:40But honestly, I don't care.
00:18:43I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:18:49There'll be another one next year.
00:18:50Think about me for a moment.
00:18:51I lost money.
00:18:53I came to the airport for now.
00:18:54I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:55Nah.
00:18:59Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:00I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:03That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:06Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:08Yeah.
00:19:09Perfect.
00:19:20Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:22Yep.
00:19:23We're not that, we're not that down the line.
00:19:24We're not that third world.
00:19:25Third world?
00:19:26We have healthcare.
00:19:34Y'all, thank you.
00:19:35Cheers.
00:19:36Oh, this is much needed.
00:19:38Yo.
00:19:39Thanks.
00:19:40Thanks.
00:19:40Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:19:42Yeah, my cheers is, I was about to do it.
00:19:43So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:19:47Yeah, yeah.
00:19:48But, you know, I'm glad you came, because you're one of my best friends, and, you know, as soon
00:19:56as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:01So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:03Cheers.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Cheers.
00:20:08I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:12Yeah, it was.
00:20:13Thank you for coming.
00:20:14Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:16I'm like, hold on.
00:20:19I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:24I'm lost.
00:20:25Like, who does that?
00:20:27Okay.
00:20:28I'll start again.
00:20:29I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to get
00:20:33here.
00:20:33So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:20:37So, this cheers is to you.
00:20:41To you.
00:20:44Thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:20:48I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:20:50It's a national thing.
00:20:51We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:20:52It's the rules.
00:20:54I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:20:56It is wild.
00:20:57I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:20:59But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:03down.
00:21:04Don't get me wrong.
00:21:05Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:09Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:13Um, we party a bit, yeah.
00:21:18Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:20It's part of my job.
00:21:22He's, he's, he's out, you know, he's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:25His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:21:29Okay.
00:21:30I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:21:33I think I've found it.
00:21:35Yeah?
00:21:36Yeah.
00:21:39Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:21:43But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with me
00:21:47and my cat and snuggling.
00:21:49And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:21:53On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially.
00:21:58But he parties a lot.
00:22:01I'm, like, I'm concerned.
00:22:02Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:04I just got here.
00:22:05I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that, yeah.
00:22:10Yeah, all right.
00:22:11Cheers.
00:22:12Cheers.
00:22:13To not party anymore.
00:22:16I'm not choosing to that.
00:22:21No, no, no, no.
00:22:39How is he?
00:22:41He's okay.
00:22:42Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:22:52He seems better today.
00:22:55Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:22:58Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:01A little dirty.
00:23:03We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we
00:23:10had to run him to the vet.
00:23:12I look at you and your comb.
00:23:14You don't like the comb.
00:23:16Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:17Yeah, obviously.
00:23:19Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:21I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:23:26And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:23:35Oh.
00:23:38Giovanni!
00:23:41What?
00:23:42Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:23:46It's clog.
00:23:49What happened?
00:23:50What did I do wrong?
00:23:52No tissues in the toilet.
00:23:54It's not going to flush.
00:23:56I don't remember doing that.
00:23:58Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:02Why?
00:24:03I don't want to keep looking at your big American poop.
00:24:07Are you crazy?
00:24:09Okay.
00:24:10My bad, then.
00:24:12Here's the thing.
00:24:13The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:17Mm.
00:24:19Oh.
00:24:19That's why I put this here.
00:24:21I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:24:28That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:24:31How do I do it?
00:24:33Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:24:38Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:24:41Water was created to clean your butt.
00:24:46I'm going to go wash up Mama's house.
00:24:49All right.
00:24:49Okay.
00:25:02Oh, Mama, you cooked.
00:25:05Looks good.
00:25:08Morning.
00:25:09Yeah, good morning.
00:25:10It's a lot of food.
00:25:12Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:13Yes.
00:25:14Oh, okay.
00:25:17You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:20Tilapia.
00:25:21Okay.
00:25:23And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:25:28Oh, okay.
00:25:29And, of course, we have some rice.
00:25:31Okay.
00:25:32Biggie.
00:25:34This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:25:37I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:25:40But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:25:45-law.
00:25:47Jigon.
00:25:48Hmm.
00:25:49Musta naman yung tulag mo kagabi?
00:25:51My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:25:55My sleep was okay.
00:25:56The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:25:59The rooster.
00:26:01The karaoke.
00:26:02Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04Tapit bahay.
00:26:06Yeah.
00:26:06Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:10She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:12Okay.
00:26:13Gailan hanggang gailan ka dito?
00:26:16Till when you're staying here?
00:26:19I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:26:23Ang bilis naman na, no?
00:26:25She said it's too fast.
00:26:26I don't know.
00:26:27Hindi bang one year?
00:26:28Why not one year?
00:26:32Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:26:33Kailangan pa rin kasi umu.
00:26:35I don't want to.
00:26:36Al, naman tong anak ko.
00:26:37It was about my daughter.
00:26:40Sama mo na to.
00:26:45Saya ako na nakarating na si Gabon dito, sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:26:52Pero ang nararamdaman ko, simpre, ang tagal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas, na ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na
00:27:05yung anak ko.
00:27:07Sa six years na paghihintay ng anak ko, alalang-alala ako para sa kanya.
00:27:13She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:18I was so worried about her.
00:27:20Kasi parang nawawala na rin siyang pag-asa at ako.
00:27:23Because she was sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:27:26And also me.
00:27:28I'm sorry it took so long though, but I'm gonna make it up.
00:27:32I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:27:34I promise, okay?
00:27:35Alright.
00:27:36Na yung tingdahan mo?
00:27:37Mm-hmm.
00:27:38Oh?
00:27:39Maraming na kasinggan ang nangyari.
00:27:41Na ano?
00:27:42Na pangakong nakapako.
00:27:47Kung nasasakta ng anak, mas masakit sa ina.
00:27:52I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:27:56I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:27:59And we've been married for three years.
00:28:02And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:08He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:12What does that mean?
00:28:15We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:28:21I don't want to.
00:28:22Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:28:31Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:28:36Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:28:44What is it?
00:28:45Mohammed.
00:28:46Oh, my God.
00:29:10I don't believe that.
00:29:21It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:29:28I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with the Ed.
00:29:32It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:29:37Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:29:40Um, I'm looking for a Riyadh, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:29:49Um, just one person. I just got dumped.
00:29:56Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:08And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:30:17But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:30:43What's up? What's wrong?
00:30:46What? Can you tell I'm sad today?
00:30:47Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:30:49No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:30:51I, like, don't want to—wait, I don't want to cry already. Hold up.
00:30:56Sorry.
00:30:57What happened?
00:31:00Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:08And it literally, Maddie, went to s**t.
00:31:11Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:31:17and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:31:21This is odd.
00:31:22Yeah.
00:31:25Like, I knew he—
00:31:40He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts, like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar
00:31:50and, like, this horrible monster.
00:31:56And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:31:57Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:00You know, it's, like, I did—I did all this, like, again, and, like, just to get, like, treated like a
00:32:05piece of s**t.
00:32:08Like, what? Like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:10You're a catch, and for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:32:15Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco?
00:32:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:32:29Don't be mad.
00:32:32But don't be mad.
00:32:35What?
00:32:36So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:32:43Emma, Emma!
00:32:44Maybe.
00:32:55Why are you doing this to yourself?
00:32:58I mean, I don't know.
00:33:00I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:06Because—
00:33:06That was terrible.
00:33:07Because he was just as bad.
00:33:10Yeah.
00:33:10But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:33:16was in Marrakesh.
00:33:17So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:33:19Are you going to go see him?
00:33:22If he wants me to.
00:33:25Oh, my God.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:27What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:33:29I mean, is your—
00:33:30Are you going there to get closure, or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:33:39I don't know.
00:33:40My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:33:43I mean, I don't know.
00:33:44I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:33:47Stop, Maddie.
00:33:49Stop.
00:33:50I just don't want you to get hurt again.
00:33:52Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:33:54Stop.
00:33:54I just don't get it.
00:33:55Like, it makes it so sad.
00:33:58Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:00You deserve that.
00:34:02Muhammad hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:04It's like, I just—
00:34:05I just want you to come home.
00:34:08Please don't cry.
00:34:08Like, April, too.
00:34:09Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:34:13Yeah.
00:34:13I don't know.
00:34:15I guess we'll see.
00:34:26Uh, girl.
00:34:27Uh, Emma, interview.
00:34:29I'll take money.
00:34:31Who is it?
00:34:32Muhammad.
00:34:33Muhammad.
00:34:36I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:34:40Hello?
00:34:42Hey.
00:34:45No?
00:34:47I don't have a boyfriend.
00:34:50I swear I don't.
00:34:53Why?
00:34:53You want to see me?
00:34:56So, do you want to talk?
00:34:57We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:02All right.
00:35:03Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:35:04I'll call you when I'm here.
00:35:07Two.
00:35:08Bye.
00:35:15What did he say?
00:35:18So, Muhammad just asked me—
00:35:20Oh, my God, hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:35:24Really?
00:35:24I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while, so it's like—
00:35:28Um—
00:35:29What did his voice sound like?
00:35:30He sounded cute.
00:35:33He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:35:36I told him no.
00:35:37He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:35:39I said no.
00:35:41He wants to see me.
00:35:43He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:35:48I don't know.
00:35:49It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:35:53Me and Muhammad have been through a lot, and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:00So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:04And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:36:12I mean, you keep talking about—you keep talking about your ex.
00:36:16You keep bringing him up after I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:36:22I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:36:27So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:36:46So, are you ready to meet my family?
00:36:49I think I'm ready.
00:36:50I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:36:53Just relax.
00:36:55You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:36:59It seems like you are not happy.
00:37:02Are you sure you want to go?
00:37:05Are you sure you want me to go?
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:08I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:37:14I told you, yes.
00:37:16So, what else do you want?
00:37:19Hmm.
00:37:26It's like you were hesitating.
00:37:28Just tell me.
00:37:29Make things clear, Rick.
00:37:31Please.
00:37:34I mean, you keep talking about—
00:37:37You keep talking about your ex.
00:37:38You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:40I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:46Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosee Bay to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
00:37:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around, and she gets to talking about this great place that her
00:37:59ex took her to when they were here.
00:38:01That upset me.
00:38:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:38:09I did.
00:38:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous, and it's a game for you.
00:38:18Shut up.
00:38:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you bragging about—
00:38:24Yeah, because you said, like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you, and this is cheap.
00:38:30I like it.
00:38:31I like the place.
00:38:33And you keep bringing it up.
00:38:34Because I like it.
00:38:36I love it.
00:38:37I enjoy—
00:38:38But do you think I want to hear that?
00:38:41Where's the problem with that?
00:38:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:38:48That's what it is.
00:38:49So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:38:55I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:38:59I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:01Oh, okay.
00:39:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:03Because that's what you did.
00:39:06I'm not like you.
00:39:07I'm not.
00:39:07I will never be back to that ex.
00:39:11I'd rather—
00:39:11Then leave him alone.
00:39:13Then stop talking about him.
00:39:14I don't want to hear it.
00:39:16Because you had your ex?
00:39:17No, I don't want to talk about my ex, and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:39:21Because you're hiding your ex.
00:39:22No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:39:24You went to call him there for your ex.
00:39:25I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:39:28I'm trying to work on us.
00:39:30I want a relationship with you.
00:39:33That's the goal.
00:39:38You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:39:42You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:39:48This is so ridiculous.
00:39:51I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:39:57That's it.
00:39:58It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him, or I'm still with my ex.
00:40:05I didn't cheat on him.
00:40:08That's his action, not me.
00:40:13So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:40:16If you want to stay, stay here.
00:40:20I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:40:26If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:40:38Okay.
00:40:43I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:40:49But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:40:55Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:41:03what I did.
00:41:05And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:41:12I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:41:16This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:41:26I am miserable.
00:41:28Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:41:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:41:35She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:41:38You don't respect me.
00:41:40That's not true at all.
00:41:41And now I have doubts.
00:41:43This, us, could be a mistake.
00:41:50Michael, he's coming.
00:41:53Yeah?
00:41:54Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:42:09He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:42:19I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming.
00:42:22But I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:42:33The other night in Cheshme, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:42:40relationship with Birkan.
00:42:42I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:42:48and said he booked his flight.
00:42:52Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:43:00Birkan and I have made.
00:43:03But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:43:09If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:43:21Is he out of his mind?
00:43:22Is he out of his mind?
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:24No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:43:29Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have this.
00:43:35Am I right?
00:43:37Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:43:41He's very logical.
00:43:43He's very insightful.
00:43:45And I value his opinion.
00:43:49Your friends have scoped me out.
00:43:52So why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get
00:43:57along with them?
00:43:58My friends doesn't want to me.
00:44:02He made that move.
00:44:04It's over.
00:44:05He has no chance.
00:44:09Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:44:15And he said that I am the obstacle, those two having a relationship.
00:44:20I took it as a move.
00:44:23She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:44:29This is his opportunity to break us up.
00:44:33While she is confused about our relationship, this is a strategy.
00:44:40Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:44:47I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:44:55Maybe you should try to calm down and just meet him.
00:45:05I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:45:19I feel like I have no choice.
00:45:27He's already coming.
00:45:28He didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:45:32I just hope that Michael doesn't up my entire future and my relationship.
00:45:41Let's go.
00:45:42We have a reservation.
00:45:45Okay.
00:45:54You can speak Turkish.
00:45:58Maybe I can speak English.
00:46:00Okay.
00:46:01You know what the Turkish say?
00:46:02Cheers.
00:46:03How?
00:46:04Cheers.
00:46:05I'm just cheering.
00:46:07To your honor.
00:46:12Cheers.
00:46:18Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:46:21Yeah.
00:46:22After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:46:27We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins, but
00:46:35BeerCon's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:46:43You don't seem like you want to taste like you want to taste like you're pounding it like a shot.
00:46:47Yeah.
00:46:48That's not a wine tasting.
00:46:50Yeah.
00:46:51I am miserable.
00:46:53You're miserable.
00:46:54I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:47:01This is 13.5 person alcohol.
00:47:05This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:47:09Okay.
00:47:10Let's try.
00:47:10Cheers.
00:47:11You're welcome.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:13Do you want to talk about this?
00:47:37That's not true at all.
00:47:39And now, I have doubts.
00:47:43When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:47:48That could be my worst mistake.
00:47:51I don't know.
00:47:53What could be your worst mistake?
00:47:55This.
00:47:57Us.
00:48:01Here we are.
00:48:03It's a nice place, I hope.
00:48:05I have booked a resort.
00:48:07The pictures online looked really nice.
00:48:10So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:48:14What is it?
00:48:16It's moving!
00:48:17Kill it.
00:48:19Step on it.
00:48:20Get rid of it.
00:48:20Take it outside.
00:48:22No!
00:48:23Ah!
00:48:24Daniel!
00:48:26Daniel!
00:48:35Guys, where are we going?
00:48:37Left here and we're there.
00:48:38Just up here on the left.
00:48:40Here we are.
00:48:41Well, it looks super cute.
00:48:43Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:45Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:46Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:47Get what you see.
00:48:48Everybody like that.
00:48:51I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:48:54We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:48:59Cute.
00:49:00Wow.
00:49:03At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:49:09I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar and now I am beyond thankful we're at
00:49:14the rental and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:49:17Guys, I really have to pee.
00:49:19Where's the bathroom?
00:49:20And then you can show me around.
00:49:21I'm really excited.
00:49:22Someone didn't make their bed.
00:49:23Joshua?
00:49:24Someone else?
00:49:26Oh, her.
00:49:27Oh my God, this is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:49:29Oh no.
00:49:31Yes.
00:49:31This is too small.
00:49:34I'm going to die here.
00:49:36You will not die.
00:49:38I'm trying to put my best foot forward and like be positive and show him that like I'm not a
00:49:42complainer.
00:49:43It's small as ****.
00:49:45Sounds positive.
00:49:47I'm super appreciative of like Josh getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:49:52Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial and like I would have settled for a smaller place without
00:49:58a roommate.
00:49:58Like no offense.
00:49:59Love you, Chris.
00:50:00This is your room.
00:50:01Oh!
00:50:04Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:50:05What?
00:50:06It's the Moaning Lisa we call it.
00:50:08You wanted this picture.
00:50:09Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:50:10No, I put it up.
00:50:12Did I?
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:14Why would you let him do that?
00:50:17Oh, I didn't let him do that.
00:50:19But I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:50:20So like when we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:50:23That's **** weird.
00:50:24When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:50:29Yeah?
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:34So I'm really confused.
00:50:36Like you could have put a picture of me.
00:50:38Didn't have one in such high def.
00:50:40All over my social media.
00:50:43It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:50:46She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone.
00:50:49So it'll be interesting to see how, you know, we both react to living together.
00:50:55Where do I put everything?
00:50:57I'll find space.
00:50:59I asked you to get a steamer.
00:51:01Did you get a steamer?
00:51:02Steamer?
00:51:02Yeah.
00:51:04Do you think we should get like a closet organizer here?
00:51:08Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:51:13Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:51:17There's like literally only one towel in here.
00:51:21I'm going to need more pillows.
00:51:24Uh, we can organize that.
00:51:27Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:51:29We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:51:32I'll write it down.
00:51:32Set yourself up for success.
00:51:33I'll write it down.
00:51:34Promise.
00:51:34Okay.
00:51:35Let's go to bed.
00:51:36Okay.
00:51:36Come on.
00:51:37All right, guys.
00:51:39Good night.
00:51:40All right.
00:51:42This is your bed.
00:51:43Okay.
00:51:44I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:51:46Yep.
00:51:46And go to bed.
00:51:47And we're-
00:51:47Okay, perfect.
00:51:48And I'm on the couch.
00:51:49Okay.
00:51:51Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow.
00:51:54So he's going to sleep on the couch.
00:51:56That way we're both avoiding temptation.
00:51:59Okay.
00:52:02Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:52:03Like, he's hot.
00:52:04Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:52:06But like, I came here wanting to do things differently.
00:52:09Like, not leading with sex.
00:52:10But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
00:52:15be getting.
00:52:22Josh!
00:52:28Are you going to come say goodnight?
00:52:30Absolutely.
00:52:32Why such a serious look?
00:52:34Because it's, uh...
00:52:37You know why?
00:52:38You look like someone killed you.
00:52:41Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:52:42Painful.
00:52:43All right.
00:52:43Well, come take a night to me.
00:52:57Good night.
00:52:58Good night.
00:53:00It's going to be hard sleep on the couch.
00:53:02But yeah, it's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level off the bat.
00:53:07I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:53:11But would you want to have sex?
00:53:13In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:53:14As soon as I saw it, I would.
00:53:16Rolled on the airport floor.
00:53:17But, um, you know.
00:53:20I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we met.
00:53:26But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:53:29I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my life that
00:53:33she's not exactly happy with.
00:53:35I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person.
00:53:37You know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:53:39And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:53:42Oh my gosh.
00:53:57Okay, we have to pack.
00:54:10Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:54:13Um, yeah.
00:54:15Yeah, sure.
00:54:17Since I'm not settled with Lisa, I'm still really hot with all the offense she have committed by telling lies.
00:54:26But I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:54:30I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:54:31I don't know.
00:54:32I don't think so.
00:54:33I think we're good.
00:54:35This is going to be difficult, but I will try my best to have a good time.
00:54:49Long ride.
00:54:51We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:54:53And what is the place like?
00:54:55It's a lake.
00:54:56Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do.
00:55:02So I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:55:08You're welcome.
00:55:19You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:55:22You know what we call these in America?
00:55:24The boonies.
00:55:25What is she?
00:55:26The boondocks, where there's no real civilization, it's just, it's just woods.
00:55:35Here we are.
00:55:36It's a nice place, I hope.
00:55:41I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:55:46It's the western part of Lagos.
00:55:48The pictures online looked really nice, and it's in my price range.
00:55:53So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:55:59Oh, wow.
00:56:00I like it.
00:56:02What do you think?
00:56:05Nice little space, right?
00:56:07It's nice.
00:56:07It's fine.
00:56:08It's nice, huh?
00:56:09Oh, my God.
00:56:12What is it?
00:56:14Yeah, it's a spider.
00:56:15No!
00:56:17That could be poisonous.
00:56:18I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:56:23Oh, I have.
00:56:25I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:56:27I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:56:30This thing is in Africa.
00:56:32This could be dangerous.
00:56:34Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:56:40Is it dead?
00:56:41Just my spits.
00:56:42It's moving!
00:56:45Kill it.
00:56:46Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:56:49No!
00:56:52Daniel!
00:56:54All right, stop.
00:56:55Leave it.
00:56:55I will kill it myself.
00:56:58No, don't kick it again.
00:57:00Stop!
00:57:00Stop kicking it!
00:57:05Where'd it go?
00:57:06Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:57:09Okay.
00:57:10Don't kick it at me.
00:57:12I have a phobia of spiders.
00:57:14It's just a spider.
00:57:16No, it's not just a spider.
00:57:18It was huge.
00:57:19It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:57:22You are so rude.
00:57:25I am terrified of spiders.
00:57:26I told you to kill the spider.
00:57:28Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:57:30I have spandled arms.
00:57:31Just spider.
00:57:31Ordinary spider.
00:57:32It's not an ordinary spider.
00:57:33It's a vicious spider.
00:57:35This is room you paid for.
00:57:36You know where the spider's coming from.
00:57:38Kill the spider.
00:57:38Kill it.
00:57:39No, you kill it.
00:57:41We're here now, right?
00:57:45So, what are we here for?
00:57:49It's a romantic getaway.
00:57:51Romantic, yourself?
00:57:52Yes.
00:57:57She wants us to have a romantic trip.
00:58:01But it's very hard for me.
00:58:03I am feeling tense.
00:58:07Because I don't know what my uncle is going to do.
00:58:10Whether he will cancel this marriage.
00:58:13I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:58:16You should enjoy it.
00:58:18You came.
00:58:19Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:58:21Honest.
00:58:22You know why I'm here, right?
00:58:23No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:58:26No.
00:58:27I'm here because, um, I didn't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West.
00:58:35That's the only reason why you came.
00:58:40So, no, um, no sex.
00:58:43No kissing.
00:58:50Why don't you just wait a couple days?
00:58:53Just a couple days.
00:58:54We can, we can make this work for a couple days.
00:58:57Daniel, I need a couple days.
00:58:59To do what?
00:59:00Just to get my head together.
00:59:02And then we call your uncle.
00:59:07I need a couple days because I have to come cling to Daniel about the rest of everything
00:59:11before he goes to his uncle.
00:59:14But he's already so angry with me.
00:59:18How am I going to get through it?
00:59:20I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
00:59:25I need a day or two.
00:59:27That's all I'm asking for.
00:59:29I want to have a day or two with you.
00:59:32Fine.
00:59:37This is what never ends.
00:59:40Why do you do this?
00:59:41Is your mom always just bossy?
00:59:44You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:59:48Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
00:59:51You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
00:59:54You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:59:56Don't be a asshole.
01:00:21You know, I don't want a bitchy wife.
01:00:26I'm just done with this.
01:00:37what's wrong
01:00:40really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:00:47this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:00:55it's been nice having Javon in my house but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:01:02long-distance relationship on top of that now that Javon and I are living together in one house
01:01:11slowly a baby I get to see how he is he's very messy and I just put
01:01:21the clothes and the towels everywhere I feel like I have a toddler and I always have to pick up
01:01:29stuff from male to male is your mom always is bossy
01:01:35what I heard that we just haven't got time I heard that no me too loves me
01:01:43yeah well I love you too Nana I mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy
01:01:47what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks there's nothing wrong with that
01:01:52Anna it's how you're delivering Anna what do you want from me instead of coming in the room say
01:01:58Javon pick up your stuff you know you can just say boo if you don't mind could you just pick
01:02:04up your stuff
01:02:07Javon yeah no matter how much I put it if you really would like to pick up that sucks you
01:02:12would
01:02:12have see you don't see that I do actually you do but you don't do it no
01:02:22and like every time I talk to you you leave the room
01:02:36we all we do is that's all we do all right well I'm gonna try a little action today would
01:02:44you like
01:02:44to go get our like a manicure like a feet done well you definitely need a pedicure okay
01:03:04I feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:03:08damn how bad do you think my feet is Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough
01:03:16but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:03:24to do something nice for Anna to show her you know what I appreciate what you do
01:03:28I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here
01:03:37so it's like Barbie threw up in here
01:03:41so she's so well look at you yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink I like it I know
01:03:49you do
01:03:52there you go yeah
01:04:00it just feels weird oh that's nice oh my god boo that's a lot
01:04:08you doing okay over there
01:04:17is this being romantic yeah did I pass the test today kind of okay yeah thank you some cool points
01:04:26I like that
01:04:29you still have to be nicer to me though and I'll do more nice things
01:04:35like if I leave like underwear or socks on the floor you know will you be nice
01:04:43no no I mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:04:53I know but Anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:04:59with
01:04:59me you know what I think it is it's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and
01:05:04you got
01:05:04comfortable
01:05:08being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well I got this person
01:05:14I don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:05:20don't ever get too comfortable ever
01:05:27I don't understand where did this come from you get it from those videos that you've been watching
01:05:34about masculinity and other things no that's my that's that's that's all my idea I take full credit
01:05:42for that
01:05:46it's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed
01:05:53and I love who you are
01:05:57I know this is who I was when you first met me
01:06:00no you're not you were not that prideful before
01:06:04I feel like your idea of being a husband changed you see it like a power I don't have any
01:06:11that's the
01:06:12problem like I feel like probably you need to feel powerful no I feel like I have all the
01:06:18responsibility with no authority because when I tell you to do something you don't listen to me so
01:06:22what are you talking about you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you I always have
01:06:31to take care of everything financially so as your husband I feel like having to say is nice you know
01:06:38it just means you just respectful ah just done with this conversation
01:06:50why did you bring me here well I wanted you to have a good time yes but if you were
01:06:56I look
01:06:56like I'm having a good time but you set me up you asked me questions and I just answered them
01:07:01honestly you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so cease from
01:07:06asking dumbass questions and you don't want to bitch your wife don't be a asshole I can just sit
01:07:17here and get my feet done like I don't have to then just stay here okay don't come home you
01:07:24need to
01:07:24calm down I don't want to see you ever again don't come home ever
01:07:45all right I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey he said to tell you hi I'm not saying
01:07:55I got it you want to open it hey hi friend oh my god
01:08:21I have a phone call
01:08:27hello
01:08:29good morning how are you
01:08:47it's totally fine with me I mean I was just gonna say I can drop you my location
01:08:53yeah okay I will uh I will see you soon and wish for walking in your direction
01:08:58all right be careful
01:09:02thanks bye bye
01:09:03bye
01:09:13I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here
01:09:15now now now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey my stomach is about to explode
01:09:24on itself I'm incredibly nervous and I feel like I'm about to die
01:09:34hey hey that was Michael what is he saying
01:09:41he said to tell you hi what why because I'm not saying hi well he's gonna be here at this
01:09:55apartment
01:09:55this apartment and about Turkey is okay but this apartment
01:10:07I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey he dropped everything to get on a plane for me
01:10:15I mean it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that but it is definitely
01:10:22wild
01:10:24and complicated
01:10:27so you think this is normal
01:10:33I think he's just concerned about me
01:10:38yeah sure
01:10:41that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:10:44yeah I believe him
01:10:47he's such a good heart
01:10:54I'm not five years old I don't eat that
01:10:56your friend is trying to this connection and you're like yay
01:11:05okay
01:11:07it's like I don't get it
01:11:10I never wanted him to come and I still don't want him to come
01:11:14I think he's coming in Turkey to mix up Laura's mind
01:11:19maybe talk some about me
01:11:22give Laura more doubts
01:11:25but if our relationship is gonna end because of Michael
01:11:31I don't blame Michael
01:11:33I will blame Laura
01:11:40you want to open it?
01:11:42yeah I do actually
01:11:44thank you
01:11:50hey
01:11:51hi friend
01:11:52oh my god
01:11:53I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:11:55is it safe to come in?
01:11:58yes
01:11:58oh my god
01:11:59wild
01:12:00oh my god
01:12:01are you making a palatine?
01:12:09I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:12:11I know
01:12:11this is amazing
01:12:13it's the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life
01:12:15I have
01:12:16and I do it for you
01:12:17I do it for you
01:12:20so
01:12:21oh my god
01:12:23absolutely
01:12:24oh wow
01:12:25yeah this is fantastic right?
01:12:28I hope my hotel room looks like this
01:12:29holy cow
01:12:30hi Michael
01:12:32nice to meet you finally
01:12:34I've heard so much about you
01:12:36yeah
01:12:37you probably heard
01:12:40okay
01:12:45make yourself at home
01:12:47okay
01:12:49you want something to drink
01:12:51tea?
01:12:51yeah anything like that?
01:12:53okay
01:12:53just have a seat right here
01:12:54I don't know how it works
01:12:55yeah
01:12:55do the women make tea here
01:12:57or do the boys do it?
01:12:59boys
01:12:59the boys make the tea?
01:13:02they call men
01:13:03if they are grown up
01:13:04oh okay
01:13:08um
01:13:09would you like anything?
01:13:12nope
01:13:12I am perfect
01:13:14thank you
01:13:27so bunny what you watching?
01:13:30Scarface
01:13:36do you like American classic movies?
01:13:39no
01:13:43I like mob stuff
01:13:45I enjoy pretty much violence
01:13:53do you like?
01:13:55do I like this movie or?
01:13:58violence
01:14:03uh
01:14:05golly
01:14:05I
01:14:06I'll be honest with you
01:14:07I don't know what to make of beer con
01:14:09um
01:14:09I know I just kind of dropped it on him
01:14:11but
01:14:11he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:14:13if that's truly who he is
01:14:15then
01:14:16I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura
01:14:19my first impression of beer con
01:14:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:14:22than I think
01:14:22uh
01:14:23than beer con and she are
01:14:24so
01:14:25I want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:14:34I love you so much
01:14:36but
01:14:36stop telling me that
01:14:37stop
01:14:38which hurting some secrets
01:14:40all I can think about
01:14:41is how
01:14:42there is more to tell him
01:14:44and I have to get it said
01:14:45before he goes to his uncle
01:14:47it has to be tonight
01:14:48so I have more to tell you then
01:14:51more to tell me
01:14:57is this really how it is
01:15:01can we go back to where it all began
01:15:05all I really want for this
01:15:10is to go back to where you love me
01:15:14good morning
01:15:17good morning
01:15:17good morning
01:15:21you're going to sleep
01:15:22you're going to sleep or I
01:15:23you kept me awake
01:15:24I tried to night
01:15:25I know
01:15:26I didn't mean to keep you awake
01:15:28I couldn't help it
01:15:28I was sad
01:15:29now you almost went to bed with tears
01:15:33not everybody
01:15:34not everybody
01:15:36not everybody
01:15:37not everybody
01:15:38why were you crying
01:15:39I feel bad
01:15:40about everything that
01:15:42transpired
01:15:43but I feel better
01:15:44this morning
01:15:45yeah because
01:15:46I
01:15:47I cuddled you
01:15:47right
01:15:48and you were crying so loud
01:15:50so I have to
01:15:51have to cuddled you
01:15:53you know
01:15:56last night
01:15:57I cried myself to sleep
01:15:58and all I could think about
01:16:00is how I have to tell Daniel
01:16:01my secret
01:16:02and I'm scared
01:16:03I'm going to lose him forever
01:16:04but Daniel held me all night
01:16:07so I'm waking up
01:16:08feeling a little hopeful
01:16:10today is a new day
01:16:12and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:16:14and have some fun together
01:16:15so what are we breathing
01:16:17I'd like to look at the lake
01:16:19and I'd like to walk around
01:16:20and see what else there is
01:16:22that's fine
01:16:23all right
01:16:23let's get dressed
01:16:35come on
01:16:35let's go down
01:16:37towards the water
01:16:40oh my gosh
01:16:43this is a whole resort
01:16:45and there's nobody here
01:16:53it's not like it's pictures
01:16:56it's pretty desolate actually
01:17:00and it's a bit run down
01:17:03can you smile a little bit
01:17:06but maybe that it's desolate
01:17:08is gonna help me with Daniel
01:17:13maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:17:15for the two of us
01:17:18water is so big
01:17:20yeah it's so big
01:17:22the water
01:17:25oh look at this
01:17:27this is neat
01:17:28let's have one
01:17:30two please
01:17:34I feel that things
01:17:35are going back to normal
01:17:36like
01:17:36Lisa is trying to rebuild
01:17:38our relationship
01:17:41oh wow
01:17:43delicious
01:17:44let's go for a bike ride
01:17:46can you ride a bike?
01:17:48I don't know
01:17:49I will try
01:17:51to me
01:17:52I welcomed it
01:17:53I want us to be together
01:17:54because I love her
01:18:11I feel so light
01:18:17and so good
01:18:18in this moment
01:18:19with Daniel
01:18:19he is having fun
01:18:21and seeing the smile
01:18:22on his face
01:18:23as he's doing it
01:18:24I really feel like
01:18:25where were you connecting
01:18:27are you having fun?
01:18:29yes I am
01:18:30see this is exactly
01:18:31what we needed
01:18:34I want to just enjoy myself
01:18:35but I can't
01:18:36because all I can think about
01:18:38is how there's more
01:18:40to tell him
01:18:40and I have to get it said
01:18:42before he goes to his uncle
01:18:43it has to be tonight
01:19:06it's a bonfire honey
01:19:08we're dancers
01:19:10I'm enjoying the song
01:19:14this is beautiful
01:19:16have a seat
01:19:17let's watch them
01:19:18let's enjoy it
01:19:22it's beautiful
01:19:23isn't it
01:19:27thank you
01:19:28thank you
01:19:32this is nice
01:19:34are you glad
01:19:35you gave me one more day?
01:19:39I'm enjoying
01:19:40spending time with you
01:19:41this is what
01:19:42this few days is about
01:19:44do you feel like
01:19:45you're reconnecting
01:19:45with me a little bit?
01:19:47yeah
01:19:47I really want us
01:19:48to reconnect
01:19:50you know
01:19:51I miss
01:19:51the way we used to be
01:19:53but
01:19:54I'm trying to
01:19:55respect our tradition
01:19:57we have to call my uncle
01:19:59when I call him
01:20:01I will beg
01:20:01on our behalf
01:20:03I love you
01:20:04I want to make you
01:20:07I want to
01:20:08you know
01:20:08love you forever
01:20:11stop telling Mila
01:20:12stop
01:20:13with her
01:20:14some secrets
01:20:16okay?
01:20:17I understand
01:20:18okay
01:20:21so I have more
01:20:22to tell you then
01:20:24more to tell me?
01:20:29what do you mean?
01:20:31so
01:20:32like
01:20:33in Nigeria
01:20:33it's not legal
01:20:35for
01:20:37men to marry men
01:20:38or women to marry women
01:20:39right?
01:20:40it's not legal?
01:20:40it's not
01:20:41in America it is
01:20:44yes
01:20:44I've had of that
01:20:48so
01:20:50my last marriage
01:20:51wasn't with a man
01:20:55I'm divorcing a woman
01:20:56Daniel
01:20:59and
01:21:00I've been with
01:21:00more than one woman
01:21:04you're the first man
01:21:05that I've been with
01:21:06in 21 years
01:21:11because I'm
01:21:17it's not
01:21:19it's not as bad
01:21:20don't come close to me
01:21:25next time on
01:21:27before the 90 days
01:21:33having female friends
01:21:34can be hard to juggle
01:21:35but I want to prove to her
01:21:37that she has nothing to worry about
01:21:38today I found out
01:21:39that he was living with you
01:21:40yeah
01:21:40yeah I think that she has
01:21:41a financial hold on you
01:21:43that's making you feel
01:21:44some struggle
01:21:44no way
01:21:45financial hold
01:21:46big words
01:21:47are you jealous of me
01:21:48and our relationship?
01:21:54we're officially on the GP
01:21:57I only have a week left here in the Philippines
01:21:59and I don't want to waste any time
01:22:02in bringing Sheena to America
01:22:03so I have to be very clear here
01:22:06if you file today
01:22:09for the K1 visa
01:22:10it will be denied
01:22:16I just feel really hopeless
01:22:18because I'm putting in massive effort
01:22:22and at this moment
01:22:24I'm at a crossroads
01:22:25I don't know how to move forward
01:22:32I'm excited to see my family
01:22:34do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:22:37yeah to see me
01:22:38what about me?
01:22:39I don't know
01:22:41I feel scared
01:22:43my family won't accept Rick
01:22:46when they don't like something
01:22:48they are really aggressive
01:22:51Rick doesn't know
01:22:52what he's in for
01:22:53they want babies
01:23:06you have a lot of secrets
01:23:07I have no more secrets
01:23:09shut your mouth
01:23:10you have been touched by a woman
01:23:12not even women
01:23:15women
01:23:16what a range
01:23:19Daniel's not going to accept
01:23:20me for who I am
01:23:22you know what
01:23:24him
01:23:25him
01:23:28he's us
01:23:29you
01:23:30he's
01:23:31he's
01:23:31I don't know.
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