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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:07Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:12I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:23But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:35I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:00:37to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:44And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:06Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but you might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:10I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away.
00:01:14Rather than accept Sheena as my wife, it's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:24You see it's like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:27Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:37Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:39You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:01:42Don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50But stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him.
00:01:54And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:56So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09Don't...
00:02:09It's not as bad as...
00:02:11Don't come close to me.
00:02:38Good morning.
00:02:39Hey.
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:41Okay.
00:02:43Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:45That's all right.
00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:49Yeah, you're taking chances.
00:02:51It's missing good since I want you more.
00:02:58I feel so bad.
00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you get up and get me water and...
00:03:02So, I had to sleep.
00:03:04You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight.
00:03:08And you weren't feeling the best, so, you know.
00:03:11You're such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend, Joshua, for the first time, face-to-face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:27night.
00:03:27I was coughing.
00:03:28I was shivering.
00:03:29And he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.
00:03:36Like, it's just, like, swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me, like, a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink,
00:03:59and I took my medicine.
00:04:01That's good. It's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's Vegemite.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:09This smells like sardines.
00:04:13There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:22Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:28I don't like it.
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian.
00:04:45If you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:46Tastes like .
00:04:49I hated it.
00:04:53All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:04:56All right.
00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:00Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:06Bondi.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:16Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh my God, all the guys that wear the what's the speedo thing.
00:05:30I can't, I can't, I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:40It's like really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait, I have to change.
00:05:47Towel's in my bag.
00:05:48Oh.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55How about this?
00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is off.
00:06:05Hold me, hold me.
00:06:07How do you do this part?
00:06:08All right, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Yeah.
00:06:10So, how are you going to do that now?
00:06:15Shit, hold it tight.
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:23Voila!
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:31Are you going to protect me if there's sharks?
00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best.
00:06:35Let's go, ready?
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural.
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:06:59We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.
00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff for sure.
00:07:23Holy camoly, I'm cold.
00:07:26It's funny, you see adults in there freezing and then you see like little kids and they're just like
00:07:31following you around for hours.
00:07:33Even when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:39Okay.
00:07:39But then in the afternoons, we'd be like doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:45I love learning about you.
00:07:47I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:49Yeah, good.
00:07:49I want to know the heart.
00:07:50Like I want you to open up.
00:07:51I feel like you're reserved.
00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.
00:08:00I was, yeah.
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up and then having it use like against me.
00:08:09Yeah, it's okay, you know.
00:08:13In my previous relationship, we dated for seven years.
00:08:17But I never felt secure.
00:08:19I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:23She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:27And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:35She could just end it at any time.
00:08:38And ultimately, I had my heart broken.
00:08:40And I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:44Like, are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind or like it's just...
00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:08:50Always, always thinking.
00:08:51What's your top thought right now?
00:08:53This is, I like that you're sort of asking these questions, but you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:03No, I get it.
00:09:04Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:08But you know what?
00:09:09You made me feel safe already.
00:09:11Really?
00:09:11That's like an early, early call.
00:09:15So hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you too.
00:09:21Hi.
00:09:22Hi.
00:09:28I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:30Like, guys have said a lot of things to me, but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:35It feels good.
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:42So yeah, the plan was to wait, but like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:47He's so attentive to me.
00:09:48He's letting his guard down.
00:09:49Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:09:52So we'll see.
00:10:07It's not.
00:10:09It's not as bad as.
00:10:10Don't come close to me.
00:10:13Daniel.
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian.
00:10:19Listen.
00:10:20Don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:22Listen to.
00:10:22Don't even come, don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:24Listen, I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:30I want it all out.
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:39Daniel.
00:10:41Daniel.
00:10:42Don't come close to me.
00:10:44Please try to understand.
00:10:47You don't know how hard it was to.
00:10:49You have a lot of secrets.
00:10:51I have no more secrets.
00:10:52Just listen, please.
00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:10:57Jesus Christ.
00:10:58I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:00I'm not straight.
00:11:02I'm not bisexual.
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:06People should love people by their soul.
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:11Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:18You told me you have had a series of, you know, relationships.
00:11:21I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:24Same sex.
00:11:26Yes.
00:11:28And you have been lying to me.
00:11:31I'm sorry.
00:11:34You are evil.
00:11:37I'm not evil.
00:11:38You know me.
00:11:39I take care of people.
00:11:40And I've even taken care of you.
00:11:42I'm not evil.
00:11:43I have a good heart.
00:11:45And I'm a good person.
00:11:47What makes you a good person?
00:11:49Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:11:57The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.
00:12:00I love you.
00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:04I love you.
00:12:05Don't, don't, don't, don't say that again.
00:12:07You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:17But I'm telling you.
00:12:19Shut your mouth.
00:12:19You have been tortured by a woman.
00:12:21Not even woman.
00:12:22Women.
00:12:26You are a liar.
00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:37Don't.
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No.
00:12:41Hold the ring.
00:12:44I've seen that from your head to toe,
00:12:46it's full of secrets and lies.
00:12:48So you're full of evil.
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all, but she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:20I didn't think he'd call me evil.
00:13:23I'm not evil.
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:29And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40him.
00:13:41him.
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney.
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines,
00:13:58and I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:17We are likely.
00:14:31This one is right now, so we can see.
00:14:35We are here.
00:14:37I'm tired.
00:14:38This is going to rest.
00:14:57So this is going to be like a village environment, right?
00:15:01Yeah.
00:15:03Yesterday, we traveled from Nusi Bay to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:09We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel.
00:15:13And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:23We used water.
00:15:27We had a big fight last night.
00:15:30I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:15:42I don't want to run this vacation.
00:15:45But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:15:53I went a little overboard.
00:15:55I'm sorry for that.
00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:02It's just I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:09I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:19Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:25Okay.
00:16:26We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:32I want them to accept you, because I want this relationship work.
00:16:39I do too.
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday.
00:16:45It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.
00:16:54I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:02There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:12So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:17What?
00:17:18No!
00:17:19No!
00:17:23Let's go now.
00:17:29Nice tuk-tuk right here.
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:45It's quiet, you see?
00:17:47Not much fickle.
00:17:48Not what I expect.
00:17:53This is rough roads.
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:00Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:13Everything is just simple.
00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet.
00:18:21But everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.
00:18:27Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me.
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:18:36I don't know.
00:18:37I don't know.
00:18:38What do you mean?
00:18:39They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:18:42And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:18:51Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:01My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:05Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:09When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:14Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:19I'm worried.
00:19:20He doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:26Is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here.
00:19:30There's no turning back.
00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:19:46Oh, you're going to have to.
00:19:47How's that?
00:19:48How's that work?
00:19:49Well, you can see those signboards.
00:19:51Uh-huh.
00:19:51Just have to find the right location.
00:19:54So then, we just have to go para.
00:19:56Ah.
00:19:56Para is the south.
00:19:57Oh.
00:20:02It's out here.
00:20:03Oh, here?
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:05There.
00:20:07All right.
00:20:08We're officially on the GP.
00:20:13Oh, there it is.
00:20:14The big part.
00:20:16Ah!
00:20:17Woo!
00:20:18Oh!
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:23Yeah.
00:20:24It's hot.
00:20:25It smells like diesel.
00:20:29It's been a couple of days since I proposed to Sheena.
00:20:31And we are just over the moon in love with each other.
00:20:36But not everyone's happy.
00:20:38Oh!
00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena
00:20:44against her guidance.
00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:20:54Oh, my gosh.
00:20:56So this is the bond here.
00:20:58All right.
00:20:58Here we go.
00:20:59We're getting off.
00:21:00Yeah.
00:21:01Thank you so much.
00:21:02Well, it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself.
00:21:05Right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.
00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:09And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:15Good morning.
00:21:16Do you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:21Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila.
00:21:24Just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:26Hi.
00:21:27Oh, hi, sir.
00:21:28Hi.
00:21:29Hi.
00:21:29Good morning.
00:21:30Hi, I'm Mrs. Sheena.
00:21:32Hi, her.
00:21:32How are you?
00:21:33Nice to meet you.
00:21:33Nice to meet you.
00:21:34Nice to meet you.
00:21:36Good afternoon.
00:21:37Good afternoon.
00:21:38Yes, sir.
00:21:38Welcome to our office.
00:21:39And welcome to the Philippines.
00:21:42I've been enjoying my stay.
00:21:43Okay.
00:21:44So for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:21:49Of course.
00:21:50Sure.
00:21:50If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:21:53Yeah.
00:21:53Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:21:57Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:59Seven years.
00:21:59Mm-hmm.
00:22:00And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:03No.
00:22:04Okay.
00:22:04Scree clean.
00:22:05Scree clean.
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:07When I watch, you can hear.
00:22:08Yeah, so are you working right now?
00:22:13Currently, I'm not working, but I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:20Okay.
00:22:21I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:22:28live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:22:35I see.
00:22:36So I have to be very clear here.
00:22:41You know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as income.
00:22:49The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.
00:22:57Now, is that shared between the both?
00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:00Only the petitioner.
00:23:01That's for the petitioner, okay.
00:23:04So if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:14My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment,
00:23:19then you can proceed.
00:23:24I'm in complete shock right now.
00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly
00:23:32does not count towards the amount that I need to bring to the United States.
00:23:38To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended
00:23:52awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:23:57But my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job,
00:24:03our entire dream of bringing Gina to the United States is done.
00:24:08So let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.
00:24:13Yeah.
00:24:13How long is enough to have the stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:19So yeah, you need probably a year employment history.
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:27And then you will meet another year at least
00:24:31to have the petition approved and bring your fiancé to the U.S.
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability,
00:24:58it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a job long term.
00:25:03Is there any other options?
00:25:06So depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here,
00:25:16there is no requirement of financial capacity.
00:25:18Okay.
00:25:19Okay.
00:25:19So there will be a 100% chance that the petition will be approved.
00:25:25Okay.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:28So these options will depend on your goal.
00:25:34At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:25:56I don't know.
00:25:57I'm just real pissed off.
00:25:58And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:26:01I don't know how to move forward.
00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:14Nope.
00:26:16I don't care.
00:26:17Don't talk to me.
00:26:18Don't come to me.
00:26:26You think you can just treat me this way.
00:26:27You will leave me all the time.
00:26:30All right.
00:26:30I'm going to just give you space.
00:26:31All right.
00:26:32We'll have another coxo.
00:26:34All right.
00:26:34We're here.
00:26:45Cool.ioni.
00:26:47All right.
00:27:02Oh, my God.
00:27:05I'm going to...
00:27:06I'm going to leave my husband there.
00:27:15There's her, oh.
00:27:21Oh.
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But of course, he needs to ruin the moment
00:27:47because it's not Juban if he doesn't.
00:27:58Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:01No.
00:28:03No.
00:28:03No.
00:28:18We're just going to leave him for now.
00:28:20Just give her space, man.
00:28:22So she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:30I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:28:33because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna
00:28:37that I can be romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place,
00:28:44and it's just...
00:28:45I don't know.
00:28:46I'm just real pissed off that she would make a scene
00:28:48in public like this.
00:28:50And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:28:54I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, are you day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:02Every time we're having a good time,
00:29:05he would do this to me.
00:29:07Right in front in public.
00:29:10It's so humiliating.
00:29:12I don't think he's powerless.
00:29:14The fact that he could upset me this much
00:29:17definitely has our obvious relationship.
00:29:24Hello.
00:29:27How was your baby, Anna?
00:29:32I've been married with Joanne.
00:29:34Why?
00:29:35It's not a bad trip.
00:29:37Why?
00:29:38Because she wants her relationship
00:29:40and she's a dominant.
00:29:42This way, that way, that way.
00:29:44But I felt like that way.
00:29:46One, the one had...
00:29:48Why question?
00:29:51Ah.
00:29:55Is Wan.
00:29:56You should talk about it.
00:29:57Someone's talking to me.
00:29:57Please talk.
00:29:59Wait, I don't want to talk about it.
00:30:00It's a big question.
00:30:04So do you have to blame.
00:30:06Don't lift you ang association.
00:30:09I am so, so, so tired of it, Javon.
00:30:13I have to be this timid, self-spoken woman.
00:30:18It's like I've sacrificed a lot of my life so you can be happy.
00:30:25And even when I do the things you want me to do, it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34But there's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can you have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:11Oh.
00:31:24That's you.
00:31:27So cold in here.
00:31:34I'm so cold.
00:31:35Can you have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39Never thought you would ask.
00:32:02I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean.
00:32:11And I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself.
00:32:21But Josh is just, like, so hot.
00:32:23And we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind, I do have some questions.
00:32:29And I do want to see more of him and more of his life.
00:32:32But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:32:35So, I bought some massage oil.
00:32:38And then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax.
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay.
00:32:43Perfect.
00:32:53Babe, are you coming?
00:32:55Yeah.
00:33:00Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We just draw on to each other, which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:09We had an amazing day together.
00:33:10And I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:13Now's the time to pour some wine, you know, light a candle and, you know, show that I've got skills.
00:33:24Wow.
00:33:24Oh, look at this.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:31Welcome to Sydney.
00:33:32Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:37Cheers.
00:33:41Feel like a massage?
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm going to light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48That's okay.
00:33:48I didn't mistake it.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:53Okay.
00:34:00Is that all right?
00:34:02That's okay.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:17You're like trying to be like a little respectful, but come on.
00:34:22Give me a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me like everything.
00:34:25Slap on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:32It ripped me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:37It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:41Are you nervous?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:46You reckon?
00:34:54All right, guys.
00:34:59What the are you doing?
00:35:05The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I can't stop on my car.
00:35:16I'll get another wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:23I'm naked right now.
00:35:25But, you know, there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area as well.
00:35:29Half naked massage.
00:35:30Yeah, you know what?
00:35:31You're absolutely right.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:32But, you know, I think I was just blind with lust.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:38You just have to say it's so weird for, bro.
00:35:43All right.
00:35:44Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:51This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:35:56Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:05Who is that?
00:36:06Who would have?
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris walks in as your hands are groping my body.
00:36:14And it's, like, such a sexual, nice night.
00:36:16And, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:19Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:31Okay.
00:36:36Andrews?
00:36:37Andrews?
00:36:38Andrews, Andrews, the head.
00:36:38Wait, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Atom toilet.
00:36:43Oh, hell no.
00:36:45Yeah.
00:36:46I'm a little bit...
00:36:47I'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father.
00:36:51Paper for this, isn't it?
00:36:53Wait, this is paper to write on.
00:36:56Who...
00:36:56You wipe this...
00:36:57Yeah.
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Well, babe, this is where you grew up?
00:37:22Yeah, it's here.
00:37:35Hey.
00:37:36Yeah.
00:37:37Is that your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine.
00:37:40By my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:37:46I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:52Ooh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trisha because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:38:08good person.
00:38:09And maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14Oh, this is it?
00:38:15Yeah, this is my house.
00:38:19Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:21Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:23I didn't get to meet her.
00:38:27She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:34And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:36Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yeah.
00:38:37Oh, my brother.
00:38:39Por favor.
00:38:40Yes.
00:38:41Hello, mother.
00:38:42How are you doing?
00:38:44Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trisha's told me that she has a huge family.
00:38:51And they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54Hi, I'm Rick.
00:38:55It's nice to meet you.
00:38:57Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:58Okay.
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:08You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:29Bye-bye.
00:39:40I didn't say you sleep down.
00:39:49And me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Okay.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:10Wait, this is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20There's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25You know, where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river or?
00:40:29Like, it's something under the ground.
00:40:32A whale?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:39I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:45Yeah.
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:40:51Yeah.
00:40:52Paper for the, uh, and then, yeah.
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:58Sit with paper to write on.
00:40:59You wipe, you wipe this.
00:41:01Yeah.
00:41:01With this?
00:41:02Rick, stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit.
00:41:05Finish.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:41:15But I'm not surprised.
00:41:18Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leave the mood out like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here.
00:41:34They're getting kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:38I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here afraid of something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:50Oh, what?
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:42:01What is this, like, a family meeting or something?
00:42:05Okay.
00:42:06Yeah.
00:42:18So they approved that you are here.
00:42:21And it's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:31Okay.
00:42:33In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41It's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having a relationship.
00:42:52It's a spring blessing.
00:42:54That's it.
00:42:54That's it, babe.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:42:58So he's coming out.
00:43:01So he's putting his company on the side.
00:43:07You're going to have a friend.
00:43:10You're going to have aée.
00:43:12You're going to have a baby.
00:43:14You're going to have a baby.
00:43:17You're going to have a baby.
00:43:19A baby.
00:43:24That's it.
00:43:45Thank you, thank you for this.
00:43:57Oh, is that his?
00:43:58Yeah, his person.
00:43:59OK.
00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:44:26until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:44:30I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:44:35he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:44:39Same sex is a disgrace.
00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:44:43Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us,
00:44:45or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:45:00Have a great day.
00:45:19Shit.
00:45:24I feel miserable, numb, really sad.
00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:45:39I just don't know what happens from here.
00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:45:47I told him everything.
00:45:48There are no more secrets.
00:45:52And he didn't react good.
00:45:53He called me evil.
00:45:55He didn't talk to me.
00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.
00:45:59He's not accepting who I am.
00:46:01So he slept on the sofa.
00:46:03I slept in the bedroom.
00:46:05I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.
00:46:10But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.
00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again and that he's going to leave me.
00:46:24But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up
00:46:28hope.
00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.
00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:46:47person he fell in love with those months ago, that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.
00:46:55But now it's up to him.
00:47:02How do you feel?
00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.
00:47:06I don't think her lies is over.
00:47:08Because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:47:12Why did you call her evil?
00:47:15Because she's evil.
00:47:16Keeping all these secrets.
00:47:18I've been thinking away of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:47:24That she has not been divorced.
00:47:27Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:47:31She's been practicing same sex.
00:47:34So, I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:47:37It's against our tradition.
00:47:48Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like, we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:01You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to thank.
00:48:06Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:19I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again.
00:48:23Bad again.
00:48:24Bad again.
00:48:26But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:36I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:39You're on your own.
00:48:40I hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside driving you insane.
00:48:52I'm not sorry.
00:48:55I can't hear anything.
00:49:02I'm not happy.
00:49:14so are you ever going to talk to me
00:49:17i am totally confused
00:49:20we dated for six months you have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me
00:49:25but you never did i was scared why didn't you tell my uncle
00:49:31because this is between me and you why does he need to know anything
00:49:35anything yeah you called it anything yeah same sex is a disgrace to any family that involve involved
00:49:43in it it's against our tradition but it's not against american tradition but you are in my
00:49:51country you are my tribe this is something that you and i cannot settle my uncle have to be involved
00:49:59are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex
00:50:03daniel if we're married i plan on marrying you for the rest of my life there's not going to be
00:50:08another woman if i'm with you i'm with you
00:50:12are you still thinking that there's a chance for us or is there no chance for us daniel
00:50:17i don't know i don't think i will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes
00:50:24i should have told you i should have told you before i came and then you could have determined
00:50:30if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me and there wouldn't be all these emotions
00:50:34involved
00:50:34and there wouldn't be all this struggle i should have just told you i was scared to tell you
00:50:39and i was scared to lose you i'm scared of losing you this all comes down to his uncle
00:50:48when he finds out that i lied about me being with women for 21 years i'm worried that his uncle
00:50:55will
00:50:55never forgive me and never accept me and this relationship will be over
00:51:02i don't want to talk about this anymore i'll say my uncle comes please
00:51:22don't help that now that does not hurt that really hurts yeah it's not that's how you know i'm so
00:51:29sexually attracted to you because i love popping your pimples i'm good
00:51:41did you sleep well i'm pretty tired i can't believe after six months i had sex i feel like
00:51:49i'm not a virgin anymore like i'm a little mad at myself that i should have waited longer but it
00:51:56felt
00:51:56right it was a lot of fun do you think chris hurt us uh possibly how many times do you
00:52:07have sex last
00:52:08three twice it was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it
00:52:15flowed it was
00:52:16like missionary it was great and then like to the side was the other one did you get a glimpse
00:52:23of the
00:52:23picture of chris above i forgot that painting was in the room well you didn't even me doggy style
00:52:28so i couldn't even see the pink thing yesterday last night yeah i feel like we're an old married
00:52:35couple yeah like i'm so comfortable with you like usually like at home like if i like sleep with a
00:52:42guy like i just want to like go leave the next day but like i'm stuck with you and i'm
00:52:46here with you and
00:52:47they're like i'm happy that i'm here and like i came you know did you i did chris walking in
00:52:57when
00:52:57i'm on the couch getting massage that definitely brought the mood down he had a lot of making up
00:53:02to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it up it was everything i could have
00:53:06dreamed
00:53:06of and more everything about this man is so sexy except this uncircumcised
00:53:14it's a little weird it's like you know but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use
00:53:26the extra skin but like like i'm not complaining about it i can deal with that i'm glad that
00:53:38you felt comfortable very quickly i did i'm like one part of me is like super happy but the other
00:53:46part of me is like i should have i should i want to know more than and then but whatever
00:53:50like i
00:53:51shouldn't be so hard on myself just ask anything you want do anything you want say yeah yeah okay
00:53:57i'll start asking don't hate me okay yeah so i'm confused about this rental situation like a little
00:54:05annoying that chris like walked in during that like why is he even here with you renting it in
00:54:11the first place because last i knew is you lived with your parents um i mean like we were living
00:54:19together and then we sort of had to get out after we moved out i dropped my stuff to my
00:54:24parents and
00:54:24sort of stayed there for a week but then you know i um i've been living with nat
00:54:33i've been staying at hers because you know she lives a lot closer to work so why i feel like
00:54:40i'm
00:54:40a detective and i'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle because you've confused me so
00:54:45much i know now we've talked on the phone a few times but living together i think their relationship's
00:54:53a little weird if it's so platonic and you're just friends why would you have to lie to me about
00:54:58it and
00:54:58tell me you're living with your parents this just smells fishy to me um i just i mean to me
00:55:07it's a little weird that you're living with a girl and like you talk about her a lot too and
00:55:14like
00:55:15i just i don't know like she's my friend you're here you're my you're my girlfriend so it's it's
00:55:22exactly the same as chris i would treat exactly the same as i do chris you know like do you
00:55:27guys like
00:55:27share her bathroom like does she see you naked like like how does that work why is that funny
00:55:32no it's funny because you know i get it that's you know i get why you would ask those questions
00:55:37um
00:55:37yeah of course we share a bathroom but but um she hasn't seen me naked her and i are just
00:55:42friends
00:55:43she's like you know she's a really good friend but you know she knows about you and that you're my
00:55:48partner and you know um i really want you guys to get along because it's important for me well you
00:55:52must
00:55:53feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her
00:56:00maybe as a part of me you know not wanting you to get you know jealous and back out of
00:56:04this before
00:56:05you got here so how do you know when you're telling me the truth well that's your job to
00:56:10believe me and it's my job to prove it to you
00:56:14i'm supposed to meet josh's friends tonight including that so i need to take advantage and get the
00:56:20whole picture of him i want to see how joshua treats me in front of her see what she says
00:56:24to me
00:56:25if there's any skeletons in the closet that joshua hasn't told me that i'm gonna find out it's like
00:56:30what else do i not know that i should know i want to give joshua the benefit of the doubt
00:56:35but i don't
00:56:36fully trust him after this at the end of the day like you know you're you know you're mine and
00:56:42you're my
00:56:42number one priority so
00:56:43i don't know if you have fit it all with me oh oh i'm i'm 52 52.
00:57:06they want babies
00:57:27you can help okay
00:57:32that's a goat we call it awoosh
00:57:59i don't know if i can hold my legs like this
00:58:01okay i'm gonna sit like your aunt i'm gonna try that
00:58:12only women are allowed to sit like this she's not gonna sit like this till the end just serving the
00:58:18food so far everything is seemed pretty good with rick and my family even though he's acting like an old
00:58:27man my father said you have to use to do it but i know my family is going to be
00:58:39asking him a lot of
00:58:40questions and i don't know how rick is going to respond
00:58:52like what is the intention to me i look at her as being a prospective wife
00:59:10i love her very much and i'm hoping that that she could possibly love me the same
00:59:36how old are you oh i'm i'm 52.
00:59:4752
00:59:53you have the same age as him
01:00:24you have married
01:00:27you have married yes yes i've been married twice
01:00:33i know but now i'm not married
01:00:38do you have a child yes i have two babies and then i have three adult
01:01:09they want babies
01:01:19uh trish and i have been talking about whether or not we're
01:01:24gonna have kids and yeah i'm just not ready to make that decision yet
01:01:29i don't want to make that decision
01:01:33i don't want to make that decision
01:01:59have time.
01:02:29I understand that, and now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront
01:02:36of my mind.
01:02:47When are you going to decide it?
01:03:10Trish, you warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.
01:03:16But now the heat is on, and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:22My feelings have grown so much for Trish that I couldn't picture a life without her at this
01:03:28point.
01:03:30But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:03:34I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:03:41Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44I thought you knew that.
01:03:45I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:03:48I've tried that.
01:03:48It's never succeeded.
01:03:49Oh, no.
01:03:49I have so many guy friends.
01:03:52Let's put two and two together.
01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.
01:03:55Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:03:58So are you jealous of me?
01:04:33I'm so frustrated with Javon, but it makes me feel good when I look good, so I'm just gonna do
01:04:40my own thing.
01:04:44And we talk.
01:04:53That's all we do, talk. So frustrating.
01:05:02I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never gonna resolve this problem.
01:05:09Really can't do this submissive thing.
01:05:14I'm afraid that he's trying to change me.
01:05:19But I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out.
01:05:27We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:05:39Hey.
01:05:41Hey.
01:05:46I like your outfit.
01:05:50Thanks.
01:05:52I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:06:00Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard. You know, I know you want
01:06:14to come off like, you know, I'm not gonna be pushed around. You're gonna hear me. It...
01:06:21It causes more fights than it solves.
01:06:24I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:06:30I am not the type of woman who would just say yes, just to have peace.
01:06:36Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:06:45Mm-hmm.
01:06:46The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:06:53And I promised myself that's not gonna happen to me.
01:06:58Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes, I mean, we argue.
01:07:06My initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father. I don't raise my voice at you and I'm not
01:07:21this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:07:23I know you're not my dad. The point is, you're hard on me.
01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it. You know, I know I've married a strong woman, but
01:07:34you're a little bit too strong.
01:07:37And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:07:43I grew up with an abusive father.
01:07:47He died long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad, I learned from a very
01:07:57young age when to speak up.
01:07:59If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:08:15I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was...
01:08:23And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:08:36All right? Deal? All right. Come on. Be all right.
01:08:43I'll work it out, okay?
01:08:47Oh, let's go to the room. We're at school, man. All two?
01:08:50Yeah. All right.
01:08:54I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:09:01Thank you so much, boo-boo. Thank you.
01:09:06I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:09:12Oh, yeah?
01:09:16Yeah.
01:09:17Take me a minute.
01:09:19Catch y'all.
01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?
01:09:42Absolutely perfect.
01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a...
01:09:49Jacket?
01:09:49Yeah.
01:09:50And guess what?
01:09:51What?
01:09:52I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:09:54So I have to carry it?
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56That's not great.
01:09:57Am I the one you wanted?
01:10:02Am I the one you wanted?
01:10:04Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:10:07A little nipply.
01:10:08A little nipply.
01:10:10Do you want to jump off?
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:13Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:10:17Um, is there upstairs?
01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out in the city
01:10:23in the harbour.
01:10:24I am excited but nervous, more so.
01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she was not happy about it.
01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:10:40Are you falling?
01:10:42Yeah.
01:10:42Falling for you.
01:10:45That was cool.
01:10:47Wow.
01:10:50This is, like, stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?
01:11:11Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:11:13It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:22Hi.
01:11:24Hello, hello, hello, hello.
01:11:26Hello.
01:11:27Hi.
01:11:28Nice to meet you.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:30I'm beautiful.
01:11:31Oh, you're your person.
01:11:32I'm Tal.
01:11:33No, I'm your.
01:11:34Not Tal.
01:11:35How are you?
01:11:36How are you?
01:11:36How are you?
01:11:36Nice to meet you, finally.
01:11:39Nice to meet you.
01:11:39And I know you.
01:11:41I know you.
01:11:42I know you.
01:11:43Ugh.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:45Keep back.
01:11:45What's it, Neil?
01:11:47Did you rock it?
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:50We're all sitting alone, man.
01:11:51I don't know.
01:11:51We're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by seagulls.
01:11:53Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:12:00This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:04I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:14Uh, okay.
01:12:14To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before.
01:12:24And she comes across lovely.
01:12:27But she comes across very Miami.
01:12:30Like a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well, no, yes.
01:12:35Very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct, correct.
01:12:37But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:38Yeah.
01:12:4016 hours, I'm so jet lagged.
01:12:42I'm in this way.
01:12:43You guys, I don't lie, I don't lie.
01:12:45They're sitting too far away, so.
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?
01:12:48Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48Okay, come on.
01:12:53Are we gonna go in here?
01:12:54Yeah, yeah, we're gonna go.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her,
01:13:07I'm like, is there something, like, I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection,
01:13:12but, like, I think it's weird.
01:13:13I think it's so weird.
01:13:17Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:21So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27Why are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Why are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:30Bondi beer, sugar beer.
01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:36Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:40Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah, he was staying in a drink a little bit.
01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:50He was kind of between places and I was like,
01:13:52why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:57And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00Um, and I needed, um, to be, I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to, to.
01:14:04Short.
01:14:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So, it was, it worked out well.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:19I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay.
01:14:22That's great as well.
01:14:23I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26There's probably a little bit different.
01:14:27It's a culture.
01:14:27It's a culture.
01:14:28It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:28It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:30Or, like, back.
01:14:31We're a bit more easy about it.
01:14:32Yeah.
01:14:32We trust more, I think.
01:14:34Yeah.
01:14:34We trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:41Yes.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So, I find it very weird.
01:14:46Yeah.
01:14:46I think our lives are insecure.
01:14:48Yeah.
01:14:48And hopefully, they'll grow together and grow through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's gonna have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:15:02honest.
01:15:07So, are you jealous of me?
01:15:08And our relationship?
01:15:11I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Yeah.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully, that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:20Yeah.
01:15:20I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Like, are you letting them live there for free?
01:15:24Yeah.
01:15:25I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:29Great, but, um...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I've been generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person.
01:15:32And I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah.
01:15:35Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of...
01:15:41No.
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no.
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:58That's...
01:15:58It's temporary.
01:15:59Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00Well, I should've been more clearer and I should've been more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:11Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:16:17That's disgusting and weird.
01:16:19Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:44Sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry, Ashin.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah.
01:17:00I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that, my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:17:38years.
01:17:39This is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:45There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:51Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country? That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for you to stay here, you got a Filipino visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:33Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:35I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:46With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes you upset is, like, he love his mom, his family.
01:19:02I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me? I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:30I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you.
01:19:35That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:03I'm sorry. I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:09Oh, Keith, John.
01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day, I feel kind
01:20:22of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:20:31This, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:20:35She's my second half. I know she's the one for me.
01:20:40And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.
01:20:46I won't give it away. I won't keep trying.
01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:21:03Ah, you're going to play.
01:21:04Oh, you're sorry.
01:21:05This is kind of turning me on, babe.
01:21:08I did not know.
01:21:09Rolling some panthera could be sexy.
01:21:12I'm so hungry.
01:21:14You have pregnancy cravings?
01:21:15Ooh.
01:21:17I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:21:19How would you feel if I was?
01:21:25Tell me you love her.
01:21:27If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
01:21:30Dude, you made a move. You blow it.
01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:34Laura made a move on me.
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life, and you are keeping secrets from me.
01:21:41This is betrayal.
01:21:45Oh, no, no.
01:21:47Oh, no, no.
01:21:48Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:50This water is cold.
01:21:52Ha, you can survive.
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying, and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:10Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.
01:22:13I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:22:19Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is gonna go.
01:22:27Until my heart's racing.
01:22:34Why did you just leave?
01:22:37You're upset.
01:22:38So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:22:41So you just walk away from me?
01:22:43After what I found out about Nat, my mind is just in so many directions, and I'm freaking out.
01:22:51I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.
01:22:55I want to go home.
01:23:00She has gotten married five times.
01:23:04And for 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:23:09Why am I hearing this one now?
01:23:12This is an abomination.
01:23:14No.
01:23:14I can't help with my past.
01:23:16I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:23:20I can't believe you.
01:23:22Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:23:27Thank you, please.
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