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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, OK?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed
00:00:15to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice
00:00:21is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother,
00:00:25she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:34Go in peace.
00:00:36You are clear from today.
00:00:38I don't know what the just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted
00:00:43as husband and wife, then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, they forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on
00:01:03because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable
00:01:10that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:17Every time you do something for me,
00:01:18you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her,
00:01:26I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:35This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:37Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet
00:01:55whether or not I want another child.
00:01:58No, I'm one, I'm one, I'm one.
00:02:00Today, not yesterday.
00:02:01You have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man
00:02:10living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys!
00:02:14Am I crazy?
00:02:15Or is my guy living with a girl
00:02:16and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:20She's a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:33But that , I'm done.
00:02:57Go to the gym?
00:02:58Nah, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at her, you know,
00:03:07in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off!
00:03:12She stands up and she's like,
00:03:14how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26Look, I'm confused.
00:03:33It's gonna be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:43There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realises she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:05So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:10I'm hurting.
00:04:12I'm just angry, angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:21How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a sorry?
00:04:46I'm sorry. I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:49Like, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realise what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:05:01I acted cool and I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:05I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:13me.
00:05:14And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:17And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon. I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:09I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, whatever.
00:06:13We can go to the zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:27he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40Let me get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:44Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am, I'll have time to like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:33Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:38Yes, I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:40Scent, yep.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:49Can I touch her?
00:07:49We can't touch her here.
00:07:51We are completely hands off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bear.
00:08:00He is like a little teddy.
00:08:01Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact.
00:08:13I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:17Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:22Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Any time.
00:08:24Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:40everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet or are we okay?
00:08:58Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you.
00:09:12You know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:14And then what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20That was completely wrong.
00:09:22And I will own that.
00:09:23And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like,
00:09:27that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:39You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her.
00:09:42You embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The thing is, like, I'm, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:56Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her.
00:10:16And it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just.
00:10:19You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:24You got answers.
00:10:25You just, you're not willing to accept them.
00:10:33I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:14We can, yeah.
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance
00:11:29and, uh, not throw this all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:52What should I do?
00:11:54What should I do if I can do this?
00:11:56What should I do if I can do this?
00:12:02What should I do to see if I can do this?
00:12:03Why should I run this?
00:12:12Get Yellowstone.
00:12:12Where's going with your next day?
00:12:34Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:08How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:18Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:27Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:41I'm curious.
00:13:42I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that.
00:13:52That's a relief to hear.
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you're not so good.
00:14:04Why?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:21There is one person I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:27That one person was your best friend.
00:14:31Yeah.
00:14:32That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:36I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:45He's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not avoid it.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were
00:15:20watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:25Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:29And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:44And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael, because I knew if I did, he
00:15:50would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06Yes.
00:16:07You tried to kiss him.
00:16:08Okay?
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:09I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for him.
00:16:13If you wanted something, you couldn't have it.
00:16:18Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He's still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:24Nothing happened.
00:16:28And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him.
00:16:46But he refused me.
00:16:47But we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:06Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:24I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:35That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:46Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit,
00:18:04you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You're one of the young husband.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:15I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:22Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:29I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:33Mm-hmm.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:46I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:48Okay.
00:19:04There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What is that?
00:19:10Oral sex.
00:19:12Her fellow women have been giving her oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my .
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning,
00:19:30sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can
00:19:36just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:40We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her
00:19:44that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:49It's time for you to grow up and be a man,
00:19:51not just following her orders around.
00:19:57When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a note.
00:20:09It looks like we aren't going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo! Banana?
00:20:14You going to put me at the plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:24Yeah.
00:20:27Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:32Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:32Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir,
00:20:37because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:40We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:41All right, thank you.
00:20:42Yeah, thank you.
00:20:45Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:48No.
00:20:48If you want, ma'am.
00:20:49It's okay.
00:20:50It's okay.
00:20:51Last night, she and I,
00:20:53having the night away with each other,
00:20:55getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:58that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:21:01And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:21:05Light out, ma'am.
00:21:06Light out.
00:21:06Okay.
00:21:07Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:21:10and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:21:16And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:21:20Very great.
00:21:22Oh, wow.
00:21:23I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:21:27I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:31This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:35and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:38Which is, most people in my country,
00:21:40they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:43It's kind of funny.
00:21:46How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:48Pretty good?
00:21:49It's okay, sir.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:51I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:55Tamale, bro.
00:21:56They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:57I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:22:00They're going to steam you.
00:22:02This is so strange.
00:22:03Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:22:07Oh, my goodness.
00:22:09But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves
00:22:14and unable to move as the sun blasts me in the face
00:22:19and melts off my woes.
00:22:23It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:22:27Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:22:30Yeah.
00:22:30I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:32And it's starting to rain.
00:22:35Oh, yeah.
00:22:35I love the rain.
00:22:37Yeah.
00:22:38Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:40Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:44Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:50I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:53And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:58And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:23:05Wow.
00:23:07I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:23:09I love you, baby bear.
00:23:12I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:23:15I would try to help you find a job.
00:23:18If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:23:22I'll do what I can, my love.
00:23:25Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:23:31But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:37It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:41I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds.
00:23:50It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:56out my soul.
00:23:58I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:24:05You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:24:10And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:24:18us only.
00:24:21Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:24:27Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:24:33I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:41That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:48My mom has always been a very controlling person and I'm terrified to tell her and Deb that I'm planning
00:24:54on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:58I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:25:01Babe, mom would strangle you everything as she can just to get rid of our relationship, even though I happen
00:25:10to try to do many things for her.
00:25:12It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:25:17do some things that you wanted to do.
00:25:19Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:25:23You have to make your own decisions.
00:25:28My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:35I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:42from my mother.
00:25:44Hello, ma'am, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:46Okay, thank you.
00:25:48But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do.
00:25:55And I'm scared.
00:25:59I'm tired of waiting and I'm ready to start our lives together.
00:26:03It's your time to shine, honey.
00:26:05I'm there for you.
00:26:18You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:26:32You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:41Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:47Just want you to stand for the owners all so you don't mind.
00:26:52How will we avoid all this?
00:26:59Do you stay here?
00:27:06Well, let's go.
00:27:13You just want the answer.
00:27:16You want to have a baby or not.
00:27:32My uncle said we are strict about having children
00:27:37because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:42That's what we believe.
00:27:44And it's not going to change.
00:27:46So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:52In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:59I understand that, and I would hate for Trish
00:28:01not to be respected by her community over this.
00:28:05If Trish didn't have a baby, I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:28:12I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:28:26But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:28:34I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:47I know how important it is to the family,
00:28:52and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:57If we're going to be together and get married,
00:29:02then I want to make you happy.
00:29:05I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:29:10So...
00:29:13I have to say yes.
00:29:18So you're saying yes now?
00:29:21Yes.
00:29:22Why do you change your mind like that?
00:29:25I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:47I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:55Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:30:02And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:30:12So when are we going to have the baby?
00:30:20I will file for the visa.
00:30:23It's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:30:27And then once she's approved, after we get married,
00:30:30then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:30:36And we're going to have to say yes we own our people together today.
00:30:47Yeah.
00:30:47So I'm just trying to put that married.
00:30:48We're going to have to stay at now that we love our family together.
00:30:54And also when we're busy together with the kids now,
00:30:55we're going to talk about the future of what happened,
00:31:01like father's bathroom,
00:31:02He wants to live with hillside out,
00:31:03Hey...
00:31:03Hey.
00:31:05Say quick, quick, and make peace, quick.
00:31:12So what if he's after 20 years, he'll start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months,
00:31:20then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:31:29and he will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction it's been going
00:31:35in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:57They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:06I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision
00:32:14because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:32:18and the only way that I would be able to
00:32:22is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:32:32it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:32:40of having this family with Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother.
00:32:48And I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:52and things are looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:00It's all I want.
00:33:01It's all I want.
00:33:04It's all I want.
00:33:06It's all I want.
00:33:08It's all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America,
00:33:10you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that.
00:33:14But you do know I can't keep sending
00:33:16as much money as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore.
00:33:26I'm done.
00:33:39We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:33:41One last snuggle.
00:33:45Show me your love.
00:33:46Show me your love.
00:33:47Let me show you my love.
00:33:49Show you your love.
00:33:50Say how you carry my own.
00:33:52I don't have moral sex with you.
00:33:53Before you go.
00:33:54Before you.
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:59Let me see.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What's that?
00:34:08Moral sex.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:12Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15And you've been talking.
00:34:16You've been hammering on that.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:53Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I will make it up to you.
00:35:06I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You gotta start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:41I don't want to go home.
00:35:44Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I thank you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:55So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to
00:36:00America, right?
00:36:02I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:20That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay? So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22That's okay.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:36:50That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is. Okay? So maybe I have to call you and ask you
00:36:58for assistance.
00:37:01Thanks.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:37:14Yeah.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now.
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore. Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of
00:37:33the money she's giving me. No.
00:37:35I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me. She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babe, this is so funny.
00:37:51You gonna wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They would say, your wife is weak.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause. She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love. And she has been giving it to me.
00:38:19I would miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:38:23I would miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband. I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I knew it was gonna be hard. I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this.
00:39:11I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this.
00:39:15I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:23I don't want to go.
00:39:27I don't want to go.
00:39:27Do I have to go?
00:39:31I can't wait to be with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:37Look, love.
00:39:47Shh.
00:39:51Shh.
00:39:52I love you.
00:39:53Shh.
00:39:55Shh.
00:39:55Shh.
00:39:56It's okay.
00:39:57Shh.
00:39:58It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:08we'll be together soon
00:40:15I feel that I will not see her again
00:40:23because anything can happen
00:40:26she might go back to her country
00:40:28and she might change her mind on most of the promises
00:40:31like bringing me to her country
00:40:33you know, the visa
00:40:36I am hoping she will do it
00:40:38but we are not married legally yet
00:40:41so it's very hard for me to say goodbye
00:40:45I miss you so much
00:40:49I love you baby
00:40:50I can't do it
00:40:50you have to walk away from me
00:40:52I can't do it
00:41:06okay, I'll go
00:41:07I'll go
00:41:12it's very hard
00:41:13I feel like I'm not going to see him again
00:41:15even though I know I'm going to
00:41:16I'm making these plans
00:41:18but I'm thinking
00:41:18what if they fall through
00:41:22what if it's more than six months
00:41:24what if it's more than a year
00:41:25what if
00:41:26what if
00:41:27what if it's two years
00:41:30what happens
00:41:31between Daniel and I
00:41:32I don't know
00:41:49this is nice
00:41:50it's a big house
00:41:52we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise
00:41:57and how she acted at the bar the other night
00:41:59but she's trying to make it up to me
00:42:01you know I've never used a kitchen in my house
00:42:03so the fact that I'm doing this
00:42:05must mean I really like you
00:42:13you said let's turn the heat up
00:42:16I said you play with my heart
00:42:18you said you're fine with the cheap stuff
00:42:20it tastes the same in the dark
00:42:22in the light of the cold grey
00:42:25cries for the old days
00:42:28it's a match in the dark
00:42:30okay we have everything you think
00:42:33yep
00:42:34okay to a trip just us
00:42:36Chris gets the place to himself now
00:42:39silence is coming soon
00:42:42it's finally peaceful
00:42:45on the moon
00:42:52what's this?
00:42:55it's called deodorant
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise
00:43:02and how she acted at the bar the other night
00:43:04but Elise has realised she was in the wrong
00:43:06and she's trying to make it up to me
00:43:07and she's organised a two night stay
00:43:10at the Blue Mountains
00:43:11take me away
00:43:13the Blue Mountains are known for their hiking
00:43:15and waterfalls
00:43:16and it's a different part of nature
00:43:18besides the beaches that Sydney has
00:43:20so I'm excited
00:43:21you know
00:43:21I've never even been
00:43:23I wouldn't say all is forgiven
00:43:25but she's trying
00:43:26and this is a good start
00:43:38oh my god are we here?
00:43:40we are here
00:43:42it's nice
00:43:43it's a big house
00:43:44we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:43:48yes we can
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing
00:43:54about the Blue Mountains
00:43:55but Josh has always spoken about it
00:43:57and how much he wanted to go
00:43:59so I decided to book us a trip
00:44:01and there's hot tubs there
00:44:02so I was like
00:44:03love that
00:44:05look baby
00:44:06look what I got us
00:44:07whoa
00:44:08oh wow
00:44:09a lot of space
00:44:11for a lot of activities
00:44:13you're the best
00:44:14I know
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea
00:44:17to get out of Bondi
00:44:18away from Nat
00:44:20away from Chris
00:44:20away from boats
00:44:22I just want for us
00:44:23to really unplug
00:44:24and just be with each other more
00:44:28get out of the kitchen
00:44:29I was cooking for you
00:44:33you know I've never used
00:44:34the kitchen in my house
00:44:36so the fact that I'm doing this
00:44:38for you must mean
00:44:38I really like you
00:44:39that does mean a lot
00:44:41this should be fun
00:44:43oh
00:44:48baby
00:44:49what have you done
00:44:51baby
00:44:52this is not the part
00:44:53stuff I thought
00:44:54was going to be in my mouth
00:44:55oh no
00:44:58baby
00:45:01I'm crying
00:45:02this is
00:45:03ew ew ew ew ew ew
00:45:04ew
00:45:06oh that was process
00:45:08half of it went in my mouth
00:45:10my face
00:45:11my boobs
00:45:11maybe
00:45:12should I take it out
00:45:16why isn't this coming to a boil
00:45:18I don't know how to turn on the stove
00:45:20oh
00:45:22which pasta do you want
00:45:24that's so embarrassing
00:45:26what packet was that in
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta
00:45:31perfect
00:45:36nope
00:45:36not ready
00:45:37oh god
00:45:38this feels really good
00:45:43oh my god
00:45:47I read somewhere
00:45:49I heard that
00:45:50you'll know if pasta's ready
00:45:51if it sticks to the wall
00:45:52so like if you
00:45:53cook pasta
00:45:54and then it sticks to the wall
00:45:55then you know it's ready
00:45:56yeah but I don't think
00:45:57that's the same
00:45:58with penne pasta
00:46:01let's throw in the pasta
00:46:05oh my god
00:46:06there's water in here
00:46:07oh
00:46:08I think I just ruined the sauce
00:46:11baby
00:46:13the kitchen is definitely
00:46:15not her element
00:46:16but I love seeing the side of Elise
00:46:18that's doing something
00:46:19that she's not used to doing
00:46:22I don't like that
00:46:22Elise
00:46:23she keeps me on my toes
00:46:26I don't like it when things
00:46:27get stagnant
00:46:28or boring
00:46:29or stale
00:46:29and I know
00:46:30it's not going to be dull
00:46:31let's see how we go
00:46:34is it good?
00:46:35it's not that bad
00:46:42it's horrible
00:46:44be honest
00:46:45I'm not picky
00:46:46it was the most fun
00:46:47I've had making dinner
00:46:50I laughed my head off
00:46:51and I needed that
00:46:53me too
00:46:54you know what's so cute
00:46:56about Josh
00:46:56when I fuck up
00:46:58or I do something stupid
00:46:59or I feel really awkward
00:47:00like he makes so light of it
00:47:02I don't know
00:47:03it's the little moments
00:47:04like then
00:47:05that I'm like
00:47:06you know what
00:47:07I feel like he could be my forever
00:47:10but there's just one thing
00:47:12he hasn't followed through on
00:47:13and it's been constantly
00:47:14playing in the back of my mind
00:47:15I don't know
00:47:17if I can go back
00:47:17to Florida
00:47:20not having met your son
00:47:22to see how you are
00:47:24as a father
00:47:25you would have
00:47:25you would have met him already
00:47:26I would want you to
00:47:27but he's moved away
00:47:29so for now
00:47:30like
00:47:31can we FaceTime?
00:47:32will that work?
00:47:34yeah
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again
00:47:36after everything
00:47:37that we've went through
00:47:38but I'm leaving soon
00:47:40and I haven't met anyone
00:47:41in his family
00:47:42I haven't met his son
00:47:43and this is a huge part
00:47:45of his life
00:47:45that I'm completely
00:47:47missing out on
00:47:47so I really really hope
00:47:49that it can happen
00:47:50before the end of my trip
00:47:53pretty full
00:47:54me too
00:47:59we're looking for wedding bands
00:48:01I like classy stuff
00:48:04it is really important
00:48:06for me
00:48:07to have the wedding ring
00:48:10$268
00:48:10I think he's not sure
00:48:14I don't want some man
00:48:16mistaking me
00:48:17you know
00:48:18still available
00:48:19single woman
00:48:20take it happy
00:48:21okay
00:48:23okay
00:48:33it's disastrous
00:48:39sure
00:48:40why not
00:48:43we have a wiener
00:48:45yeah
00:48:47you really wanted that
00:48:48don't you
00:48:54ready boo
00:49:19that was fun
00:49:20yeah
00:49:20that was so fun
00:49:22oh look at those jobs
00:49:24that's where you can find
00:49:26very nice wedding gowns
00:49:28and dresses
00:49:29like really pretty
00:49:31nice
00:49:33can't wait for the anniversary party
00:49:35yeah
00:49:36yeah
00:49:39things with Jovonne and I
00:49:41are really good
00:49:42and now in a couple of days
00:49:44we're having our anniversary party
00:49:46where we're going to renew our vows
00:49:51since we never had a wedding in person
00:49:53basically it's just like
00:49:55a second wedding to me
00:49:56you know
00:50:00because last time
00:50:01we didn't get to touch each other
00:50:03face to face
00:50:04I've been dreaming about this
00:50:07and now it's happening
00:50:08and now it's happening
00:50:09and I just can't wait
00:50:12okay boo
00:50:16are you ready?
00:50:17yeah
00:50:18I guess so
00:50:21now that we're going to
00:50:23renew our vows
00:50:24good afternoon
00:50:27we decided to look at rings
00:50:31we've been married almost three years
00:50:33and sometimes I still can't believe
00:50:36that Jovonne hasn't put a ring on it yet
00:50:40I feel like I'm the only woman in the world
00:50:43that got married without a wedding band
00:50:47hi
00:50:48hello
00:50:49what are you looking for?
00:50:50uh
00:50:51we're looking for wedding bands
00:50:53we have different styles
00:50:54okay
00:50:55what are you prepared for?
00:50:57well I'm okay with a simple
00:50:58plain wedding band
00:51:00I want it more
00:51:02classic
00:51:03I like classic stuff
00:51:09this one
00:51:14it is really important for me
00:51:16to have the wedding ring
00:51:18my symbol of love
00:51:19you need a ring to symbolize that?
00:51:22I assume you don't want
00:51:24some men mistaking me
00:51:25as you know
00:51:26still available
00:51:27single woman
00:51:28they can have you
00:51:29okay
00:51:31okay
00:51:31she's on the market
00:51:33I'll go
00:51:33I'll go
00:51:34I'm playing
00:51:35relax
00:51:36when is your wedding?
00:51:39well
00:51:39we're actually married already
00:51:41but we don't have an official wedding rings yet
00:51:45we did our marriage online
00:51:46that's why
00:51:47online
00:51:49you know
00:51:50to be fair
00:51:51you know
00:51:52I did get you a ring
00:51:54okay
00:51:55you sent me your money
00:51:57and I bought a ring
00:51:58that's under $100
00:52:01that's turned my finger green
00:52:03but that's what you wanted
00:52:05I thought
00:52:06no
00:52:06I thought it's just a substitute ring
00:52:10how about
00:52:11for sure
00:52:11what do you think?
00:52:13when it comes to bands
00:52:14like
00:52:15I prefer
00:52:16like
00:52:17black like this
00:52:19silver in the middle
00:52:20kind of sporty
00:52:21but
00:52:21they don't sell that
00:52:22I already bought myself
00:52:27a non-expensive ring
00:52:29before we got married
00:52:30and I like it a lot
00:52:33I'm not a jewelry person
00:52:35and I really don't want to spend money
00:52:37on something
00:52:38I don't need or want
00:52:42this one is good
00:52:43it's just that
00:52:45it's too
00:52:47skinny
00:52:48like do you have something
00:52:50that's a little bit wider
00:52:52I have different kind
00:52:53I have different kinds of designs
00:52:54okay
00:52:54this one
00:52:58this one is good
00:52:59I like this one
00:53:00more simple
00:53:02but really looks like
00:53:04I'm married
00:53:05you know what I mean
00:53:07how much is this?
00:53:10per gram no?
00:53:1115,510 in peso
00:53:1315,510
00:53:15how much is that?
00:53:15that's 268
00:53:17in dollar
00:53:19268
00:53:20yeah
00:53:20do you have anything budget?
00:53:22no we didn't really have a budget
00:53:25but
00:53:27she's not
00:53:28she's not sure
00:53:30are we going to buy this?
00:53:33what do you mean today?
00:53:35yeah
00:53:37I have to come back
00:53:38well
00:53:45you can come back
00:53:47yeah
00:53:49because I got to sort out my bank stuff
00:53:51okay
00:53:55why would you bring me ring shopping
00:53:58if we're not going to buy anything anyway?
00:54:02what's the point of going out?
00:54:05just to get an idea of
00:54:06what you want
00:54:15thank you so much
00:54:17bye bye
00:54:19I feel so humiliated
00:54:22that I can't even have the cheapest ring
00:54:26it's not just a jewelry
00:54:28it's a symbol of our marriage
00:54:32I waited six years
00:54:34to be together in person
00:54:36he never applied for a spousal visa
00:54:39and now
00:54:40I still don't have a ring
00:54:44once again
00:54:46he is making me feel
00:54:48like he's not invested
00:54:49in our relationship
00:54:52that was embarrassing
00:54:55a little bit
00:54:57you just don't care
00:54:59I don't know why he insists
00:55:09that I'm in love with you
00:55:11I really don't
00:55:12I mean you did
00:55:13jump on a plane
00:55:14and come to my rescue
00:55:17I don't think he's the only person
00:55:18that thinks that
00:55:21there's a lot of layers there
00:55:24and I mean
00:55:44oh
00:55:45hey
00:55:45hey
00:55:47no concern from that phone call you gave me
00:55:49yeah
00:55:50me too
00:56:01I'm assuming you've talked in beer con
00:56:03yeah I did
00:56:04it was super great
00:56:05thanks for that
00:56:07I kind of partly blame you
00:56:10okay
00:56:13I don't know
00:56:14he's
00:56:14you don't know
00:56:15I don't know
00:56:16what was said between you and him
00:56:18I only know my end of the story
00:56:20okay
00:56:21so
00:56:21we have to come together
00:56:22okay
00:56:24super curious
00:56:25what was going through your head
00:56:27telling him
00:56:28that I
00:56:29hit on you
00:56:30like
00:56:31I don't understand
00:56:32how that even came up
00:56:34we never did anything
00:56:36and he's pissed off about it
00:56:38because I didn't tell him
00:56:40told me that he
00:56:41wishes he never met me
00:56:43and I kind of feel like
00:56:44there was zero reason
00:56:46for you to bring that up
00:56:48okay
00:56:49and I'd like to know
00:56:49why you did
00:56:50okay
00:56:53I'm brought it up
00:56:54because beer con
00:56:55was under the impression
00:56:56that I
00:56:57was in love with you
00:56:59that man
00:56:59kept pushing
00:57:00and pushing
00:57:01and pushing
00:57:03and at some point
00:57:04I need him to understand
00:57:06that
00:57:07I said no
00:57:09to us having a relationship
00:57:11but you were the one
00:57:12that asked
00:57:12and from that
00:57:14he got very upset
00:57:15and I tried to reassure him
00:57:15it was a year ago
00:57:16it didn't
00:57:18I mean it was before
00:57:19you met him
00:57:19I feel like
00:57:20honestly
00:57:21it feels like
00:57:23a backhanded way
00:57:24of trying to sabotage it
00:57:27how long have you been
00:57:28here with him
00:57:30how long have you been
00:57:31here with him
00:57:32two and a half weeks
00:57:33and in two and a half weeks
00:57:34you cannot convince him
00:57:35that was not a threat
00:57:43but that's not on me
00:57:44I did everything I could
00:57:45to diffuse that situation
00:57:49I don't know why
00:57:50he insists
00:57:51that I'm in love with you
00:57:53I really don't
00:57:54I mean you did
00:57:55jump on a plane
00:57:56and come to my rescue
00:57:59I don't think
00:57:59he's the only person
00:58:00that thinks that
00:58:05there's a lot of layers there
00:58:07but
00:58:08no that's
00:58:09not something
00:58:10I want to happen
00:58:10anyhow
00:58:13we're friends
00:58:15I don't want to anymore
00:58:18at the end of the day
00:58:19I want you to be happy
00:58:21all I ever heard
00:58:22was little stories
00:58:23here and there
00:58:23about him from you
00:58:24you said
00:58:25all these bad things
00:58:27and just
00:58:28why does she keep
00:58:29talking to this guy
00:58:30so I came to meet him
00:58:31to see all the other
00:58:32good stuff
00:58:34and
00:58:34you don't have to worry
00:58:35about him and I anymore
00:58:37you just need to make sure
00:58:38that he's the right guy
00:58:39for you
00:58:40before you make
00:58:41a commitment
00:58:42I don't even know
00:58:43what to do right now
00:58:44like there's part of me
00:58:44that just wants to like
00:58:45go have another conversation
00:58:46with him
00:58:47but I don't even know
00:58:47what to say
00:58:48because he just told me
00:58:49he wishes he never met me
00:58:51okay
00:58:51but
00:58:51the opposite of love
00:58:52is not anger
00:58:53it's apathy
00:58:54so angry means
00:58:55he still loves you
00:58:58I don't believe Michael
00:59:00when he says
00:59:01he doesn't have
00:59:02any feelings
00:59:03for me at all
00:59:04romantically
00:59:05but I think ultimately
00:59:07he does have
00:59:08my best interest in mind
00:59:09and I think he does
00:59:10care about
00:59:11the future
00:59:11of my relationship
00:59:13with beer con
00:59:14beer con is the person
00:59:16I need in my life
00:59:17and
00:59:18I want to fix this
00:59:20I just
00:59:20don't really know
00:59:22how to go about it
00:59:23so what do I do
00:59:25I feel like he
00:59:26never could understand
00:59:27that I didn't feel
00:59:28like that was that
00:59:29big of a deal
00:59:29you acknowledge that
00:59:32he felt the way he did
00:59:33it didn't matter
00:59:34whether he was right
00:59:35or not
00:59:36no I never said that
00:59:38at the end of the day
00:59:40the relationship
00:59:41is more important
00:59:42than the argument
00:59:45which means
00:59:45somebody has to say
00:59:47I'm sorry
00:59:49it's amazing
00:59:49how the words
00:59:50I'm sorry
00:59:51when said truly
00:59:52can diffuse a situation
00:59:55I see your point
00:59:58I guess I'll go
00:59:59give him a call
01:00:00and see if I can
01:00:01fix that
01:00:03thank you
01:00:08I'll let you know
01:00:09how it goes
01:00:10thank you
01:00:28how are you
01:00:31I'm good
01:00:33how are you
01:00:35I'm okay
01:00:38I was just
01:00:39wondering if
01:00:40we could talk
01:00:45not today
01:00:47I'm sorry
01:00:48did you say
01:00:49not today
01:00:51yeah
01:00:55am I not supposed
01:00:56to come back
01:00:56to the apartment
01:00:57I'm sorry
01:00:59just give me the space
01:01:04okay
01:01:04I guess
01:01:06I will
01:01:07get a room somewhere
01:01:09okay
01:01:10we both need
01:01:11time
01:01:13yeah
01:01:14and we both need
01:01:14to think about
01:01:15what's going on
01:01:16mm-hmm
01:01:20okay
01:01:22okay
01:01:23bye
01:01:26bye
01:01:32I don't want to force you
01:01:34but like
01:01:34am I ever going to meet your son
01:01:37when Elise asked to meet my son
01:01:38I can see that she really really cares
01:01:40but honestly
01:01:41after all the fighting with Elise
01:01:43I've had my doubts
01:01:44about trying to let her in
01:01:46to the most important part of my life
01:01:56oh my god
01:01:57oh that's hot
01:01:59oh that's hot
01:01:59it's not hot
01:02:00oh it's really hot
01:02:03that's burning me
01:02:04oh you found the champagne
01:02:06I thought
01:02:07it did
01:02:08sounds good
01:02:08I think you should open it
01:02:14wow
01:02:16cheers to that
01:02:25what a perfect ending
01:02:26to
01:02:26a perfect little night
01:02:28good drive
01:02:31good cooking
01:02:34it's so funny
01:02:35huh
01:02:35so funny
01:02:36okay
01:02:37I tried
01:02:39so am I making it up to you
01:02:40am I doing a good job so far
01:02:42yeah
01:02:43absolutely
01:02:45well
01:02:46have I made it up to you enough
01:02:48that like
01:02:49you can let me in your own world
01:02:52you have
01:02:54well
01:02:55I want to be with you
01:02:57and
01:02:57I'm scared that
01:03:00I've came literally around the world
01:03:01and all I've met is like
01:03:02a few friends
01:03:04and
01:03:05I don't want to force you
01:03:06but like
01:03:07am I ever going to meet your son
01:03:14when Elise asks to meet my son
01:03:16or you know
01:03:16talk to my son
01:03:17I find that endearing
01:03:19but honestly
01:03:20the last couple of days
01:03:21after all the fighting with Elise
01:03:23I've had my doubts
01:03:24about whether I'll introduce him or not
01:03:27obviously I'm very protective of my son
01:03:29so I want to be confident
01:03:31that this relationship
01:03:32is going to work
01:03:34I understand he's young
01:03:36and it's like
01:03:37a video call
01:03:38and it's probably like
01:03:39a lot to explain to him
01:03:41yeah
01:03:42I do want to prove
01:03:43how much you mean to me
01:03:45but um
01:03:47that's been
01:03:48playing on me heavily
01:03:51what's been playing on you heavily
01:03:53explain that
01:03:55it's just been
01:03:55a tough year
01:03:58I didn't
01:03:59I didn't move him away
01:04:00but you know
01:04:01he's an hour and a half
01:04:02plane ride
01:04:03and
01:04:04I don't see him as much as I want
01:04:08I still feel like
01:04:09he thinks I can get up there
01:04:10a lot more than I can
01:04:11so
01:04:11it's just
01:04:15a guilty feeling for me
01:04:16at the moment
01:04:18I miss him
01:04:20you know
01:04:21especially when you're here
01:04:22you know
01:04:23really?
01:04:24well yeah
01:04:24well because when you're here
01:04:25I think you know
01:04:26if he was here as well
01:04:27it'd be like
01:04:28I'd love you two to get along
01:04:29and then it'd be like
01:04:31perfect little world
01:04:35I guess it's just painful
01:04:36to
01:04:38to think about it
01:04:40it's okay to have feelings
01:04:42it's okay to be upset
01:04:45if you weren't emotional
01:04:46about your son
01:04:47and you didn't feel this way
01:04:48I would be worried
01:04:49I'd be very very worried
01:04:52that means you're a good dad
01:04:53and it means you care
01:04:59you know
01:04:59it's like
01:05:00having a son's responsibility
01:05:01and like excitement
01:05:02and you do things with him
01:05:03and then
01:05:04when something like that
01:05:05gets taken away from you
01:05:06you're like
01:05:07I feel like I lost myself
01:05:10yeah I feel like I've sort of
01:05:11lost a bit of myself
01:05:15my relationship with my son
01:05:17we're really tight
01:05:18I've been there since he was born
01:05:20he's my little partner in crime
01:05:22we go camping
01:05:23we go fishing
01:05:24surfing
01:05:25you know
01:05:26we kick footballs
01:05:27we go and play golf
01:05:28it's such a good part of my life
01:05:30so
01:05:31it really did hurt
01:05:33this year
01:05:34when I didn't have that
01:05:37I want to help
01:05:38make you feel like
01:05:39you're back together
01:05:43I want to be that rock for you
01:05:47I can do that
01:05:50be there for you
01:05:51support you in any way I can
01:05:52but you have to let me into your life
01:05:55I can't do that
01:05:56without getting brought into your life
01:06:01this is very emotional
01:06:02because being away from my son
01:06:04affected me
01:06:05you know
01:06:05more than I thought
01:06:07but I don't want that
01:06:08to hold me back
01:06:09from bringing Elise
01:06:09fully into my life
01:06:10I can see that
01:06:12she really really cares
01:06:13she's shown that
01:06:14she's worthy of
01:06:15you know
01:06:15getting to know my son
01:06:18but at the same time
01:06:19it is scary
01:06:20to let her in
01:06:21the most important part of my life
01:06:23what if things don't work out
01:06:24you know
01:06:25that's going to be
01:06:25pretty devastating
01:06:26for all of us
01:06:28well I'm here for you now
01:06:43why didn't you do this
01:06:44because she
01:06:45told her to be
01:06:47why
01:06:52I mean
01:06:53after getting her family's approval
01:06:59I just
01:07:01it up
01:07:03I don't want anything
01:07:05to approach
01:07:24I don't know
01:07:26I don't know
01:07:26I don't know
01:07:28I don't know
01:07:29I'm here
01:07:35My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:07:48Hello, man.
01:07:50Thank you for your blessings.
01:07:52Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:07:54Hello, man.
01:07:57I'm nervous.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes, that I'm willing to have a child, but it felt great
01:08:07to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family, but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice warm shower together and not have
01:08:24to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see all of them?
01:08:33Wasn't it?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off after I said, then after I agreed to have
01:08:42that baby.
01:08:44They're so sweet.
01:08:46Gonna miss them.
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby.
01:08:52But what if you change your mind?
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially ready to
01:09:21have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could put Trish in a very bad
01:09:31situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her.
01:09:36So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:09:50Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:54It looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:03Yeah.
01:10:05Do, man.
01:10:07Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:10:20Do you have to eat in the restroom or anything?
01:10:23No, I don't eat anything but just, uh, already chicken.
01:10:27I'm kind of thinking.
01:10:28Yeah, what do you want to do?
01:10:32Let's do it.
01:10:33Well, damn.
01:10:35My flights are in the lane.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:38We wait for one hour.
01:10:41Hope this bad boy is going straight to Tanner.
01:10:45A couple of days in Tanner before my baby is gonna go back.
01:10:55That's really sad.
01:10:58Sad story.
01:11:01It's just all beginning.
01:11:04Oh, God.
01:11:28We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:11:38I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:45And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:11:52It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone,
01:12:00and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:06Is this the same ex you went to see in Columbia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:24A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:12:31And she was telling me that, you know, she misses the times that we had together,
01:12:38and I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:12:47Why did she tell her your message?
01:12:52It was Wednesday.
01:12:53Today is Saturday.
01:12:55Why?
01:12:58I would never hide something.
01:13:00This is what I'm talking about.
01:13:02You never told me what's really.
01:13:04I just told her.
01:13:05You didn't tell me if I didn't ask.
01:13:10Why?
01:13:11How?
01:13:17Why?
01:13:18He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:13:22That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:26But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:42It makes me sad.
01:13:51Like, I love him.
01:13:53We talk about the babies, the future, and my dad just give him blessing.
01:14:09I don't want anything from you.
01:14:18I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything just felt different than it did the whole couple weeks prior.
01:14:29How did I come so close to getting what I wanted?
01:14:34And then I just up.
01:14:40I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:14:44And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:14:58Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:15:04We are leaving tomorrow.
01:15:06I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:15:11to ensure Shana and I are together.
01:15:13I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:15:18This is our choice.
01:15:20What the s*** you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:45What the s*** you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:48Is it bad at the star pool?
01:16:02So when I talked to Forest, he's like, oh, surprise mom.
01:16:06I went and met with a lawyer and the lawyer says, he has to have, like, certain amount of income,
01:16:12something like that.
01:16:14He didn't do anything right at all.
01:16:18I'm upset right now, Forrest is coming back, and for the last few days, Dev and I haven't
01:16:24heard anything from Forrest or Sheena, and we've just felt like we've kind of been left
01:16:28in the dark.
01:16:30You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous
01:16:37romantic vacation, I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:16:45Hey, we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow, and we're not sure what they're thinking or
01:16:52planning at all.
01:17:01Hey, Mom.
01:17:04How's things going?
01:17:06It's going pretty good.
01:17:07How are you guys?
01:17:12Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:17:24Today is supposed to be my last day in the Philippines, but Sheena and I have made the decision for
01:17:30me to stay here and basically start a life here with her.
01:17:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it, but she has to understand that I'm not the
01:17:46child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:17:49I have changed a lot this trip, and I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena
01:17:55and
01:17:55I are together.
01:17:56Sheena and I have a daughter.
01:17:57Sheena and I have a daughter.
01:17:58She's a daughter.
01:17:58I'm a daughter.
01:18:00She's a daughter.
01:18:01She's a daughter.
01:18:02Oh, my God.
01:18:03Wow.
01:18:04Look at that.
01:18:06They moved to every place.
01:18:09Great swan.
01:18:10Look at that.
01:18:15It came originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put
01:18:21their feet, and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:18:25It tells a whole story.
01:18:27Yes.
01:18:27It's just a damn.
01:18:28I agree.
01:18:29Oh, my goodness.
01:18:30Oh, look at that.
01:18:32Yay!
01:18:33Oh, thank you.
01:18:35Oh, that's beautiful.
01:18:36That was great.
01:18:37Good job, guys.
01:18:38That's awesome.
01:18:39Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to
01:18:45be in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time, kind of like life.
01:18:50Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:18:57Yeah, definitely.
01:19:03So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:19:07Actually, there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:19:12Oh.
01:19:17Thank you so much.
01:19:19Thank you so much.
01:19:21So, with the, the, um, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:19:28the details.
01:19:30Um, yeah.
01:19:32I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded in more ways than one.
01:19:39Mm-hmm.
01:19:47You had sex, didn't you?
01:19:52You know what?
01:19:53Yeah, we did.
01:19:58I enjoyed it.
01:19:59It was fun.
01:20:01Yeah.
01:20:04You guys, uh, think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:20:10Yeah.
01:20:11Yeah.
01:20:12I feel like our souls are really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:20:22I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity, finally, you know.
01:20:28Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:20:29Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:20:33Then also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects,
01:20:39including sexuality.
01:20:42Well, that's good.
01:20:44I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:20:47That's...
01:20:47Yeah, Mom.
01:20:52Well, you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:20:58tomorrow.
01:21:00But it must be very painful.
01:21:02But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:21:14Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:21:19Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:21:25Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday.
01:21:29With the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:21:37So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:21:47Forrest?
01:21:47What?
01:21:48I'm tired of being alone.
01:21:50Oh, my God.
01:21:52I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:21:56Oh, you didn't expect it full.
01:21:59I want my love with me in my second half.
01:22:01This is our choice.
01:22:04What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:07Mom.
01:22:08Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:22:11Was that in between the ?
01:22:13Excuse me.
01:22:15You could say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him.
01:22:18He had me.
01:22:19I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:22:21I want to be here for my son.
01:22:21I'm doing my best for my part for your son.
01:22:22I want to be here for my son.
01:22:22Because I love your son, and I've worked everything hard for him.
01:22:25For our future.
01:22:27I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:22:33I trust my son.
01:22:35I don't trust you.
01:22:41I'm sorry.
01:22:42I just want to need space.
01:22:44I'm sorry.
01:22:46I'm sorry.
01:22:47I'm sorry.
01:22:47Excuse me.
01:22:54Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:57When do you plan on applying for the fiance visa so I can live in bodies?
01:23:02I thought you were going to apply for me in the US.
01:23:07No.
01:23:09Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the US.
01:23:12It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:23:14It's just really weird timing.
01:23:16You won't be able to make any money.
01:23:17I'm sorry.
01:23:18You're going to be my sugar mama.
01:23:21I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:23:24You've been texting with him this morning?
01:23:26What has he been saying?
01:23:27I asked him if we could talk, and he said sure.
01:23:31I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:23:38Michael.
01:23:39Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
01:23:42I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:23:49Can you do that?
01:23:53Are you excited about today?
01:23:55I think I should ask you that question though.
01:23:58I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:24:02It's just going to be like the basics.
01:24:05I just wanted today to be full of love, but it just feels like any other day for him.
01:24:14I don't know.
01:24:15I can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:24:21I love your son, and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:24:24Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:24:27You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:24:31It's not going to work.
01:24:32It won't work.
01:24:34How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:24:37Where are you going to live for us?
01:24:39Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:24:43I don't know what to do.
01:24:47All the messages in the text.
01:24:49Why did you betray me?
01:24:52Why don't you block her?
01:24:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:24:59That I'm with you.
01:25:01I love Trish, but love isn't so black and white.
01:25:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:25:11I don't know what to do.
01:25:15Oh, my God.
01:25:17It's stunning.
01:25:18I don't think Elise realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:25:21Come on!
01:25:22Come on, baby.
01:25:24Come on, baby.
01:25:27What do I do?
01:25:28At first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:25:33And I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:25:35Go кого!
01:25:38Hey, you're the best coach for me!
01:25:39Help me down!
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