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00:00:00Ah!
00:00:01Hey, boo.
00:00:03Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05Look at you in pink, like a peach on a windowsill.
00:00:09I just met my husband for the first time ever.
00:00:12And we're off to our honeymoon.
00:00:15You heavy.
00:00:16But Jobon has been talking to this woman
00:00:19that he used to have feelings for.
00:00:22So that's all we have to figure out the next few weeks.
00:00:26Three.
00:00:30We should fix this area here.
00:00:32We call it abdominoplasty,
00:00:33but in public it's called tonta.
00:00:36It kind of surprised me,
00:00:38but it's not a problem for me.
00:00:41You have nothing to be embarrassed.
00:00:44And you are gorgeous.
00:00:47I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:00:51that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:00:54I'm really sorry to hurt you,
00:00:56but it's different now because I see who you are.
00:00:59I can show everything happens to my life.
00:01:03Here she is going through all these things,
00:01:05and instead of being there for her,
00:01:09I went to Columbia to see my ex.
00:01:13When we match, we're talking,
00:01:15and one day we just go away.
00:01:19I was just going through a bad breakup.
00:01:22Right now I see like she's hiding a lot of things.
00:01:27I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
00:01:32You lied about the fact that you've been married to women several times.
00:01:37Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:40I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:48What are you doing?
00:01:51Can you marry me?
00:01:53Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
00:01:57and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
00:02:02My fear is Forrest is going to say anything just to keep your love.
00:02:08If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena,
00:02:12who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:02:15They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
00:02:36Are you married?
00:02:45Oh my God.
00:02:46I came here for an engagement.
00:02:48I just wasn't expecting it to be in the first 10 minutes.
00:02:51I had so many other things in my head going on.
00:02:56I don't want to say yes because I have to tell them my secrets.
00:03:03Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I have been married five times
00:03:08and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:03:15I don't know what to do.
00:03:34I don't know what to do.
00:03:51I don't know what to do.
00:04:11Oh, my God, you're my fiancé.
00:04:13Oh, come on.
00:04:14You're mine.
00:04:22How long were you planning this?
00:04:24Almost six months now.
00:04:26Six months?
00:04:27That's when we met.
00:04:28You wanted it for six months?
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:33You are a fast one.
00:04:35Of course.
00:04:36I don't have to be slow because I know it's going to work,
00:04:39so why should I be slow then?
00:04:41OK.
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:43So you're sure?
00:04:44I'm sure because you're a mess for me.
00:04:48Remember what I used to call you?
00:04:49My God-given gifts.
00:04:56Hi!
00:04:57I know you're a little girl!
00:05:00Hi!
00:05:01You're welcome.
00:05:02You're welcome, man.
00:05:03You're welcome.
00:05:04Thank you very well for our septum, my nigga.
00:05:07Thank you very well.
00:05:08Very nice to see you.
00:05:20I am so surprised.
00:05:23The flowers were more than I expected, and then to see his uncle and his friends, and then
00:05:29the next thing I know, he's on his knee, and I'm like, oh my God.
00:05:32I wasn't expecting any of this.
00:05:36Oh my gosh, baby!
00:05:38That was amazing.
00:05:41You surprised me.
00:05:45I don't want to leave over here.
00:05:50That was so much fun, but I didn't want him to propose to me right away.
00:05:55I thought...
00:05:59I said I would not be engaged to him until I came clean, but I wanted to say yes, so
00:06:05I
00:06:06said yes.
00:06:08I need to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:11I want to tell Daniel everything.
00:06:13I just hope he doesn't change his mind.
00:06:17That was unbelievable, right?
00:06:19That was unbelievable.
00:06:21That was unbelievable.
00:06:45Hey.
00:06:46Hey.
00:06:47Good morning.
00:06:47Good morning.
00:06:49How are you?
00:06:52Perfect!
00:06:53Yeah.
00:06:54It was a nice night.
00:06:57Yeah?
00:06:57Yeah.
00:07:05I don't feel like I am on the clouds, else I'm wasted.
00:07:12What?
00:07:17I was really emotional after the surgical consultation yesterday, but Birkan made me feel beautiful.
00:07:24And when we got home, he definitely showed me that he is physically attracted to me multiple
00:07:32times.
00:07:33You're on the clouds, but you're wasted.
00:07:35I don't understand that.
00:07:37Yeah.
00:07:37It's because of happiness and I'm feeling tired.
00:07:41Yeah.
00:07:42It's a good combo.
00:07:44Okay.
00:07:48The sexual chemistry is pretty great, but I do think that it does take a little bit
00:07:55of time to learn a person's preferences.
00:07:59I feel like he's a little more vanilla and I'm a little more spice.
00:08:05Yes.
00:08:05That's because I didn't have sex in the last four years maybe.
00:08:09You're a little rusty.
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:11But this whole truck still works.
00:08:16True.
00:08:17Plus, he's pretty blessed down there.
00:08:25I think I'm going to make the coffee.
00:08:27All right.
00:08:28I'll get ready.
00:08:29Okay.
00:08:35I'm so glad we're doing this.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:45This is so amazing.
00:08:48I just love this building.
00:08:50This is so old.
00:08:52It's, yeah.
00:08:53It's ancient, actually.
00:08:54Not old, ancient.
00:08:57Oh, my gosh.
00:08:59This is amazing.
00:09:00Yeah, it is.
00:09:01Oh, my God.
00:09:05This is part of the history, actually.
00:09:08Why don't we sit here?
00:09:09Okay.
00:09:15There's something, like, really just kind of mesmerizing about this.
00:09:19Yeah.
00:09:28And the other hand is down because upside of the hand, getting something from the gut.
00:09:36The other hand is giving that to Earth.
00:09:40Oh, so beautiful.
00:09:45Watching the whirling dervishes perform with beer con is a really cool experience.
00:09:52And I love that he's taking time to make sure that I understand.
00:09:57That's a really attractive quality that he has.
00:10:04This looks so good.
00:10:06What did you order for us?
00:10:07It's kebab.
00:10:09It's kebab.
00:10:10This one is the menameh.
00:10:12It's made of tomatoes, eggs.
00:10:22You like?
00:10:23Yeah, it's really good.
00:10:26It's nice to have time like this to get to know each other better.
00:10:30Yeah.
00:10:31Quality time.
00:10:32I want to get to know everything about you.
00:10:35What are you wondering?
00:10:37I can tell you everything.
00:10:41So you were living here and then you moved.
00:10:45Yeah.
00:10:46I feel like I got bits and pieces through, like, texts.
00:10:50But I don't really know, like, the full story, what's going on.
00:10:55Yeah.
00:10:56So I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
00:11:03So I came back again without a place to stay.
00:11:09And my debts and my jobless situation, I just, I am just broke.
00:11:20Did you say you're dead?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:26How much is it?
00:11:30I don't want to give you a heart attack.
00:11:35Estimately, I think 50k.
00:11:40Turkish lira, that's what, 1500 bucks?
00:11:43That's all.
00:11:48So 50k in US dollars?
00:11:56Okay.
00:11:59I did not know any of this.
00:12:02It's not a big deal.
00:12:04No.
00:12:05It's not?
00:12:0950,000 US dollars, that's a lot of money.
00:12:14It feels like a little bit of a betrayal because he wasn't forthright in our online conversations
00:12:20about this debt.
00:12:22It is a giant concern and a huge red flag.
00:12:28I'm absolutely shocked.
00:12:34it's the same.
00:12:35it's been a big deal, so we're gonna start with Inangat.
00:12:39It's a lot of chilies.
00:12:40Come on, be a man.
00:12:41All right.
00:12:43I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk,
00:12:45that I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:12:53Did you finish?
00:12:54Almost.
00:12:55We have to go to meet all my friends.
00:12:57I know.
00:12:58You're so disrespectful for you.
00:13:00How am I disrespectful?
00:13:01You are every day.
00:13:02But I'm not going to let you say live.
00:13:04What happened?
00:13:14Good morning.
00:13:16Oh, I'm tired.
00:13:18Tired?
00:13:19Really?
00:13:31Last night, I arrived in the Philippines
00:13:33and waking up next to my wife, Anna Lynn,
00:13:38for the first time on our honeymoon.
00:13:41It's so surreal.
00:13:43Like, I get to actually cuddle with her
00:13:45and smell her morning breath.
00:13:48Mom!
00:13:51So?
00:13:52No.
00:13:53How did you sleep last night?
00:13:56Oh.
00:13:58Well, we didn't get much sleep last night.
00:14:02Yes, we made love.
00:14:06Was it good, though?
00:14:10That's a good question.
00:14:11Oh, my God.
00:14:11You hit a long-ass pause.
00:14:14It is good.
00:14:15OK.
00:14:16Well, why did you just say that in the beginning?
00:14:17Because I also think of the same question
00:14:19I was thinking to myself.
00:14:20How do you feel about that?
00:14:23I ain't got no complaints.
00:14:25None.
00:14:26Yeah, that's right.
00:14:27Yeah.
00:14:29Breakfast is over.
00:14:31So you feeling lunch?
00:14:32Yeah.
00:14:34You have a spicy knife with your spicy wife.
00:14:38So I'm going to take you for a spicy lunch.
00:14:42You know just what I like.
00:14:44You know just what I like.
00:14:46Turn me up.
00:14:48Turn me on.
00:14:48It just gets so hot.
00:14:51You're here.
00:14:52You're here.
00:14:53Oh, OK.
00:14:53Yes.
00:15:00I actually grew up in Bicol.
00:15:02But I moved when I was a teenager.
00:15:05And I've been really excited to show Juvon my culture.
00:15:10Would you like to sit down here, please?
00:15:12It's OK.
00:15:12You can't wait.
00:15:13Just wait on me.
00:15:15I'm taking Juvon for lunch today
00:15:17to a local eatery
00:15:20that makes a real authentic Bicolano dishes.
00:15:24OK, Juvon.
00:15:26So we're going to start with Pina Nga
00:15:28with Tarotis.
00:15:29Shall we?
00:15:31All right.
00:15:34Bicolanos love spicy food.
00:15:38I'm not really content
00:15:40if I don't have any chopped chilies on my plate.
00:15:43We even put chili on ice cream.
00:15:46I'm going to try it with the chilies.
00:15:48If it's too much, I'll let you know.
00:15:51Cheers?
00:15:51Oh, that's really big.
00:15:53I don't know.
00:15:54Let me take baby steps.
00:15:55Yes.
00:15:56All right.
00:15:57You can do it.
00:15:58I know you can.
00:16:01Most of the American food that I know,
00:16:03it's more blonde in my taste.
00:16:05So I don't know if you will be able to handle the heat.
00:16:12Cheers.
00:16:13Yeah.
00:16:24So what do you think?
00:16:26I like this.
00:16:27I don't want my wife to think I'm a punk,
00:16:29that I can't handle, like, a little bit of spicy foods.
00:16:35But inside, I'm definitely burning up.
00:16:39Ready?
00:16:40Level two.
00:16:42That's a lot of chilies.
00:16:43Come on, Jabon.
00:16:44Be a man.
00:16:45All right.
00:16:46Come here.
00:16:54Okay.
00:16:56Okay.
00:16:56Oh, God.
00:16:57Okay.
00:16:59I feel this one in my...
00:17:01I feel this one in my chest.
00:17:03My mouth is on fire.
00:17:05My stomach is struggling.
00:17:06I hope all the food here isn't like this.
00:17:09Because I don't want to spend too much time by the toilet blowing it up.
00:17:15You want me to order more?
00:17:17No, I'm good.
00:17:17I'm good.
00:17:18I'm good.
00:17:25I'm good.
00:17:25So, you know, because of Bicolanos being known for spicy food,
00:17:31they say that, you know, Bicolanos are just hot.
00:17:41It's like hot in what way?
00:17:43You found it out last night.
00:17:45Oh.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:48And if we're lucky enough, just the one night and it's bullseye.
00:17:58Like, what do you mean?
00:18:00Maybe if I'm pregnant?
00:18:04Yeah.
00:18:06We talked about this way before he came down here.
00:18:09And we agreed that we might get pregnant on this trip.
00:18:16I feel like I always have a maternal instinct in me.
00:18:19And I'm almost 40.
00:18:22So, it's not like I'm getting younger.
00:18:28So, hypothetically, if I get pregnant,
00:18:31how do you think is this going to...
00:18:36Affect us?
00:18:37Yeah.
00:18:39If you got pregnant, you know,
00:18:41I'll do everything in my power to be here with you.
00:18:45So, you know, but whatever it takes.
00:18:47There's no way that you're going to be over here with my kid
00:18:51and then I'm back home.
00:18:57So, it's like,
00:19:00since you're going to have a kid,
00:19:03suddenly you can easily find a way to come here.
00:19:07Whenever.
00:19:08Wow, you love our kid more than me.
00:19:14I sometimes feel like my wife's mood
00:19:17suddenly changes at the drop of a hat.
00:19:20I mean, I thought I was saying something positive,
00:19:23but she twists my words around,
00:19:25like, I don't want to spend time with her.
00:19:28Like, you're capable of this and that
00:19:32when I'm pregnant.
00:19:33But when I'm not pregnant,
00:19:34why did it take years for you
00:19:36to come visit me in the Philippines?
00:19:40It seems to me what you're saying
00:19:41is that it's all just going to be for the baby.
00:19:44Does that not sound a little just...
00:19:47No.
00:19:47...out there?
00:19:48You flipped it and made it about you
00:19:51instead of the baby.
00:19:53Don't give me that.
00:19:57I mean, this is a prime example
00:19:59of the way she goes to zero to 100 real quick.
00:20:03I definitely feel like I'm walking on eggshells a lot
00:20:06because I sometimes feel like
00:20:08she's looking for problems.
00:20:11It almost feels like you can't 100% be yourself
00:20:14without the other person getting upset.
00:20:16And that needs to change.
00:20:18Will we get there?
00:20:19I do not know.
00:20:21But for the sake of our marriage,
00:20:22I hope so.
00:20:33Emma.
00:20:34Yes?
00:20:35Did you finish?
00:20:36Almost.
00:20:37We have to go to meet with my friends.
00:20:39I know.
00:20:39I'm almost done.
00:20:40You look so great.
00:20:41Why do you need all this makeup?
00:20:42I just need to touch up a little.
00:20:44I need to bronze my boobs.
00:20:46How you can't stay one hour behind the mirror?
00:20:49It's like two hours.
00:20:50Yeah.
00:21:16Nice to meet you.
00:21:20Nice to meet you.
00:21:22Nice to meet you.
00:21:25Hi.
00:21:26Hi.
00:21:27This is nice.
00:21:31I definitely think that this is showing some progress
00:21:35in a relationship, that I'm meeting Zied's friends tonight.
00:21:41I'm going to take, like, grape and two clots.
00:21:44I guess just a cappuccino?
00:21:47I was upset about not meeting his family,
00:21:50but I'm starting to feel a little special in this moment
00:21:53that he's willing to introduce me to other people
00:21:55in his everyday life.
00:21:57And, you know, hopefully I'll get the opportunity
00:21:59to do a little bit of digging
00:22:02and get to the bottom of who Zied really is.
00:22:08Emma, how are you?
00:22:09Good.
00:22:09How are you?
00:22:10Alhamdulillah.
00:22:11I'm so happy that you are with my friends.
00:22:15Aw, thank you.
00:22:16So do all three of you guys, like, hang out all the time?
00:22:19Are you besties?
00:22:21Yeah, most of the time.
00:22:22Has he said anything about me?
00:22:23Yes, yeah, he told me that I meet a beautiful girl
00:22:27from the U.S.
00:22:29Aw.
00:22:30And, yeah.
00:22:31Why did you choose Zied?
00:22:33Well, we met on a dating app.
00:22:35Yeah.
00:22:36And when we first started talking,
00:22:38he was, like, so sweet and just genuinely kind to me.
00:22:43Like, he would text me every day.
00:22:45He would call me every single day.
00:22:47He was calling me, his wife,
00:22:48within, like, 10 minutes of us talking.
00:22:50And I just, like, fell for him really quickly, so.
00:22:53Say it was mutual.
00:22:55It was, like, an instant connection.
00:23:00Who, uh, so-
00:23:12He asked me, for example,
00:23:16when we will go out and you take some clothes.
00:23:19Like, over, like, open here.
00:23:21You know what I'm saying?
00:23:23Because we are, I mean, what are you going to do?
00:23:26Okay, can I just say one thing?
00:23:28I asked him a million questions before I got here.
00:23:32For example, I would say,
00:23:34when I come there, can I wear whatever I want?
00:23:36He was like, yeah, you can wear whatever you want here.
00:23:38People wear clothes like it's Europe.
00:23:40But people in old minutes, like, people...
00:23:43Yeah, but you didn't tell me that until I got here.
00:23:45Why wouldn't you say...
00:23:46I don't know.
00:23:46I didn't know.
00:23:47We will be together in the mid, you know.
00:23:49Yeah, but you could have said certain places.
00:23:52You could wear whatever you want, but not everywhere.
00:23:56It was, it was just a misunderstanding.
00:23:59It was just something that misunderstood.
00:24:05Ziyad lied.
00:24:09I feel like he was saying different things to me online and in person.
00:24:17Lack of communication on his end.
00:24:22What did I lie about?
00:24:23You lie about...
00:24:23Okay, the difference between...
00:24:24Why, why, why...
00:24:25The difference between Ziyad and I.
00:24:27Why are you...
00:24:27Everything I've said...
00:24:28I know, but I'm speaking.
00:24:29Everything I've said...
00:24:31When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:24:32I do respect you, but I'm so disrespectful.
00:24:34How am I disrespectful?
00:24:35You are, every day...
00:24:40I think you're disrespectful.
00:24:42You are, you are, you are, you are, you are.
00:24:43I think you're disrespectful.
00:24:44Listen, I make a lot of effort just to find words.
00:24:48I'm not someone who's perfect in English.
00:24:50I know.
00:24:51And you stopped at me.
00:24:52It's like I forget everything, so.
00:24:54But I'm not going to let you say lies.
00:24:57What have I lied about?
00:24:58What happened?
00:25:00What happened?
00:25:01I saw him.
00:25:02I talked to him.
00:25:08I said I knew.
00:25:11I had to stop.
00:25:12I had to stop.
00:25:13When I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I
00:25:18was a fellow,
00:25:18I was a friend.
00:25:18You were, I was a fellow, I was, I was a friend.
00:25:25Why you were in a relationship with someone else at the same time when you are talking
00:25:30to Zia?
00:25:31It wasn't.
00:25:32No, no, no.
00:25:33Just liar.
00:25:33Something liar.
00:25:34I'm not a liar.
00:25:35We were broken up when I met this.
00:25:37You are a liar.
00:25:38Oh, immediately.
00:25:38I can't be with someone, for example, in the same time I'm taken with a girl.
00:25:43But you're on dating apps.
00:25:50Not only were you on dating apps, but you were actually talking to girls, messaging
00:25:54them.
00:25:57You were telling girls, come to Morocco.
00:26:03You know what we probably should bring here?
00:26:05What?
00:26:06My banana hammock.
00:26:08Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing, to
00:26:14be married.
00:26:14No banana hammock.
00:26:16Forrest.
00:26:17I put it back.
00:26:18Please.
00:26:19Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
00:26:20Stop.
00:26:21Can you just calm down?
00:26:22Because I wanted to-
00:26:23You've been holding this secret for, what, four months now?
00:26:26Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to do with her ex.
00:26:31That looks very suspicious to me.
00:26:33Why would you keep that from me?
00:26:37You're welcome.
00:26:50You're welcome.
00:26:51You're welcome.
00:26:52Yes.
00:26:52You're welcome.
00:26:56You're welcome.
00:26:57I'm talking to Mo.
00:26:57You're welcome.
00:26:57I'm thinking the boss with who you are.
00:27:01You're welcome.
00:27:01All right.
00:27:03You're welcome.
00:27:07my first day with trish had its ups and downs we did clear the air about her ghosting me for
00:27:13five
00:27:14days and it made me feel better but i'm not quite ready to tell her what happened in columbia yet
00:27:21i'm starting to feel closer to her and i don't want to lose this this feeling
00:27:41i don't see what the problem was with trish told me that she's very sexually open-minded and um
00:27:49she let me know that she's a you know a female ejaculator
00:27:58when she gets excited she can make uh quite a mess so i came prepared with a little uh protection
00:28:05for
00:28:05the bed so we can get in charge for the sheets you know oh what oh my god this is
00:28:16what i like to call
00:28:17a splash pad i know he brought that for me because i sent him a sexual video of me
00:28:29and he likes it but it doesn't seem like something to put on the bed it's like garbage back
00:28:41i was doing it as a surprise to show you that i was ready to go all the way with
00:28:47pleasing you
00:28:47this is so stupid seriously so so are you gonna pay for the damages to the mattress
00:29:10and even though trish didn't go for the splash pad we both were satisfied last night i'm feeling like
00:29:18she could really be the one but you know i i feel like trish didn't give it a fair shot
00:29:23which is
00:29:25disappointing because they're 50 dollars pretty expensive for a piece of plastic you know
00:29:42well i mean you only have yourself to blame for that because you lied to me
00:29:46no i didn't like you can't well you can't you kept in front you kept in front
00:29:56trish and i were about to go to dinner when all of a sudden trish is telling me that her
00:30:02motorcycle's about to get dropped off and that it got fixed i assumed it would be uh dropped off by
00:30:08a
00:30:09mechanic but as it turns out it was uh her ex-boyfriend's friend rick stop please this is
00:30:17something you didn't tell me about trish and this guy are going on and on in malagasy and i don't
00:30:23know what the hell they're saying so i started asking all these questions and he spoke some english
00:30:29so i asked if she was still in contact with her ex
00:30:33he's saying that they saw each other about four months ago at that point we were supposed to be
00:30:39exclusive
00:30:43why would you keep that from me because i wanted the secret for what four months now
00:30:48it was not really important that looks very suspicious to me i'm just i'm just telling you
00:30:54something more must have happened with with your ex i think you would have said something to me if
00:31:00nothing happened i mean i asked you i didn't lie to you i'm ready to go
00:31:07can you just calm down please i'm calm your reaction like oh well collected
00:31:14i just wanted to get my bike back and i didn't expect this to turn into the whole thing
00:31:23rick find out that i saw my ex and i don't know how to tell rick the whole story and
00:31:30i'm scared
00:31:35this one is for you aviva the sex good and uh if i'm good would i breed you yes i
00:31:42would
00:31:43so you like my gun huh uh you're aware of what happened to him in the past right
00:31:48this girlfriend from texas if i said that he's putting over it then i'm lying
00:32:14i love you
00:32:29I'm glad you're here.
00:32:30Me too.
00:32:32I'm glad we, you know, can actually be physical.
00:32:36Like in real life.
00:32:37I know.
00:32:38I like the lingerie.
00:32:39Yeah.
00:32:40I like it better when it was off.
00:32:45Stig and I did have a long night.
00:32:50I definitely think us being intimate made us a lot closer.
00:32:54It did feel really good waking up next to him.
00:32:57He thought we made a baby last night?
00:32:59Mm-hmm.
00:33:01We'll see.
00:33:04Last night, he didn't want to use protection,
00:33:06and he knows I'm not on birth control,
00:33:09so I guess we're not trying to have a baby.
00:33:14I know it seems a little crazy and super soon,
00:33:19but I want a family,
00:33:21and I would love to have little baby Stig.
00:33:24He would make a great dad.
00:33:28Enjoy making love with you.
00:33:29Mm-hmm.
00:33:30It didn't feel like just sex.
00:33:32I'm hooking up with a girl.
00:33:33It really felt good.
00:33:34That's good.
00:33:35I'm just going to go with the flow.
00:33:37If she want to go all the way,
00:33:39we're going to go all the way.
00:33:40If she don't want to use protection,
00:33:41we ain't going to use no protection.
00:33:44She's fine as bruh.
00:33:46We got to enjoy this to the fullest.
00:33:49You want to see me in action today?
00:33:51You saw me in action last night.
00:33:52I don't mean it like that.
00:33:53I don't mean it like that.
00:33:54Different type of action?
00:33:55Okay, okay.
00:33:56What?
00:33:57So I want to take you to the studio.
00:33:59Have you seen what I do and how I do it?
00:34:02Then the guys want to meet you.
00:34:04They want to chat to you.
00:34:06After that, I have a show tomorrow,
00:34:08so we're going to hop on a boat.
00:34:11We're going to go to the island.
00:34:12Whee!
00:34:15I had a great night with Stig.
00:34:17Everything's going super well.
00:34:20And although I'm wishing I had a little bit more alone time
00:34:24with Stig first,
00:34:25if I plan on starting a life with a Belizean music star,
00:34:29I have to be able to handle the lifestyle.
00:34:42So this is a studio upstairs.
00:34:48You good?
00:34:50You got this.
00:34:56Gentlemen, gentlemen.
00:34:58Yo, yo.
00:34:59Hey.
00:34:59Cool.
00:35:00Gentlemen.
00:35:01Hi, I'm Aviva.
00:35:01This is my girl.
00:35:02Nice to meet you.
00:35:03Finally here.
00:35:03Nice to meet you.
00:35:04Hey, Aviva.
00:35:04You want a hug, Shenshek?
00:35:06I think we should hug, man.
00:35:07Finally, I heard so much about you.
00:35:09I told them you're the love of my life
00:35:11and all that good stuff.
00:35:14Ready to see some magic?
00:35:15I'm ready.
00:35:15All right, then.
00:35:16All right, let's do it.
00:35:17I'm going to leave you with the guys.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:18No trouble, gentlemen.
00:35:20Ladies.
00:35:22I'm excited to take Aviva to the studio
00:35:24to meet the homies
00:35:25and to show her what I do.
00:35:27I have some lyrics tossing around in my mind.
00:35:30You know, I'm inspired by last night.
00:35:32So, Aviva, first time in the studio?
00:35:34It is.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:35This is cool.
00:35:36I like it.
00:35:36Your first time you're getting a song about you.
00:35:38First time.
00:35:39I love it.
00:35:39You know, we put our first steak.
00:35:41Right, let's do it.
00:35:47This one is for you, Aviva.
00:35:51The sex good and the vibe good
00:35:54And you love me as you should
00:35:56Would I marry you?
00:35:58Yes, I would
00:35:59Would I breed you?
00:36:00Yes, I would
00:36:01The sex good and the sex good.
00:36:02You going to send all you to sex?
00:36:03Goodbye, kid.
00:36:04You going to send it last for you?
00:36:05Yeah.
00:36:06It's not true.
00:36:06We did have fun last night.
00:36:13Nobody ever really says
00:36:14I want to breed you in America.
00:36:18I don't know.
00:36:18Really?
00:36:18I don't know.
00:36:19I'm a dance hall artist.
00:36:20That's how we talk.
00:36:21We breed you.
00:36:22Yeah.
00:36:24Sweet talker.
00:36:33All right.
00:36:34Want to hear all that song?
00:36:35Yeah.
00:36:39So you really like my guy, huh?
00:36:41I do, yeah, a lot.
00:36:42Like the dude?
00:36:43Mm-hmm.
00:36:44Yeah.
00:36:45I hope he likes me, too.
00:36:46You know, he's a handful, huh?
00:36:48A little bit, a little bit.
00:36:50I always try to give him good advice
00:36:53and put him on the right path.
00:36:55Yeah.
00:36:55There's a lot of mistakes that he made in the past, you know,
00:36:58so I wouldn't want to see that happening all over again.
00:37:04From my perspective as management,
00:37:06I always see these relationships damage his career.
00:37:12His ex in Texas was, in my opinion, kind of horrible
00:37:16because we couldn't get anything out of him productive.
00:37:19I can't allow Aviva to bring any type of drama to us,
00:37:23especially to Stig's career.
00:37:26You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:37:29His girlfriend from Texas,
00:37:30she definitely did a number to my dude.
00:37:34He mentioned it to you, brought it up to you?
00:37:36We talked about it a little bit,
00:37:37but he probably held back, yeah.
00:37:40Yeah, but I mean, when it all started,
00:37:43it damaged us,
00:37:44and we couldn't get anything out of him, you know.
00:37:47For months, he was just depressed and nana,
00:37:50and we had a lot of international projects ahead of us,
00:37:54and all of that kind of paused.
00:37:56So it was a tough breakup,
00:37:59and I believe that he had planned for a lot with her, you know.
00:38:02You know, he wanted to start a family.
00:38:06And then, bam!
00:38:13I didn't know that he was ready for a family with her,
00:38:17so that's news to me.
00:38:19Is it bothering you?
00:38:21Yeah, a little.
00:38:22I mean, I didn't know that it was that serious.
00:38:26Well, if I said that he's fully over it,
00:38:30then I'm lying.
00:38:32I knew about Stig's ex-girlfriend
00:38:34because that's how we bonded.
00:38:37We were both going through a heartbreak at the same time
00:38:40and found comfort in each other through that.
00:38:42But I had no idea that he was planning
00:38:45to have a family with her.
00:38:47Now I definitely feel like Stig lied to me
00:38:50because he swore he was over her.
00:38:53And that's why I was willing
00:38:55to come all the way out here.
00:38:58So now I don't know what to believe.
00:39:03We're here.
00:39:04We're here.
00:39:05Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family
00:39:07with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:39:10They have a lot of questions for you.
00:39:12First, it's your career.
00:39:15I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:39:17the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:39:20I'm worried about their acceptance of man.
00:39:23I know.
00:39:24It's challenging me.
00:39:43You know what we probably should bring here?
00:39:45What?
00:39:46We should bring sex bear.
00:39:47Just leave him alone.
00:39:49Just leave him alone.
00:39:50He doesn't want to...
00:39:51You want me to wear my Speedo?
00:39:52Just leave him alone.
00:39:53My banana hammock?
00:39:55No banana hammock, Forrest.
00:39:58I put it back.
00:40:09Okay.
00:40:10Okay.
00:40:11Today, we're traveling to meet Sheena's family
00:40:12with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
00:40:17It's still a bit confusing to me
00:40:19to get the blessing of these people
00:40:21who have been mistreating Sheena this entire time.
00:40:26She told me that she has to give them money all the time.
00:40:30And if she doesn't give them money,
00:40:31they start yelling at her, mistreating her,
00:40:33threatening to even kick her out of the house.
00:40:36But I really just want to go and represent myself
00:40:39and show how great I am.
00:40:42And once I make a good first impression,
00:40:44then we'll have the real hard discussion
00:40:46about cutting them off financially.
00:40:49Oh, man, Sheena, goodness gracious.
00:40:52I'll just leave that there.
00:40:53Okay.
00:40:54All right.
00:40:54Here, look, guys.
00:40:56So, Sheena and I are about to get out of here.
00:41:00Oh, okay.
00:41:01You guys go and have your meeting
00:41:04the first day with your family.
00:41:06Then I can proceed to go from there.
00:41:10Yeah.
00:41:10But...
00:41:11I really appreciate you doing that, Mom.
00:41:13I wish you the best of luck,
00:41:15and I pray for the best outcome
00:41:17in this situation, all right?
00:41:20I know my mom's upset with me
00:41:22that I want to go see Sheena's family by myself.
00:41:26But her being my mom,
00:41:28I still want her opinion.
00:41:29So I'm kind of relieved that my mom
00:41:31is going to come the second day
00:41:33and support me how I've been wanting her
00:41:35to support me this entire time.
00:41:37I just hope that she doesn't blow up everything.
00:41:40Yeah.
00:41:41Bye, guys.
00:41:42Bye.
00:41:42See you tomorrow.
00:41:47I am really upset
00:41:49that he didn't want us there.
00:41:52I think that what's going to happen
00:41:53is they're going to go talk to them,
00:41:55and they're going to tell me,
00:41:57we've got it all handled,
00:41:59we've got it taken care of,
00:42:00it's all good,
00:42:01and they're going to keep me
00:42:02from seeing the parents.
00:42:03That is my gut feeling,
00:42:05and I'm not going to accept that.
00:42:09Bye.
00:42:14You just have to walk, honey.
00:42:15Yep.
00:42:16Ow.
00:42:17Sorry.
00:42:19That bus is quite big.
00:42:20Yep, that bus is going hardcore.
00:42:22That's the one.
00:42:23Oh, just be careful.
00:42:24There's a lot of rocks around.
00:42:25Just do it.
00:42:25Yep, I'll just carry the one thing.
00:42:27One thing, ouch.
00:42:27Oh, my God.
00:42:28My family lives in a province
00:42:31in Cavite,
00:42:33two hours from Manila.
00:42:35The good thing about the Cavite
00:42:37is the nature,
00:42:38it's less polluted
00:42:39and much more peaceful.
00:42:42I usually take a bus first,
00:42:45then a tricycle,
00:42:47which is a local transportation
00:42:49in the Philippines.
00:42:50So it's not an easy trip.
00:42:57You have fun in the bus today?
00:42:59No.
00:43:00I've never been on a bus
00:43:02this cramped before.
00:43:04I've got this guy
00:43:05sitting right on my lap.
00:43:06I don't know if he likes it
00:43:07or what, but...
00:43:10It's fun.
00:43:10You just squished through it.
00:43:12Squished through it.
00:43:13There's no way
00:43:14that Molly and Dev
00:43:15could figure this out
00:43:16on their own.
00:43:17So we're going to arrange
00:43:19a car for them tomorrow.
00:43:22If they happen to travel
00:43:24with a bus,
00:43:25we might never
00:43:26see them both again.
00:43:30You're so beautiful, Shein.
00:43:32I love you.
00:43:33How'd you go through everything
00:43:33not becoming a model?
00:43:35I don't know.
00:43:36Perhaps it isn't meant for me.
00:43:38That's why I'm so very
00:43:40and I'm so proud of it.
00:43:43We're here.
00:43:44We're here?
00:43:44Yeah.
00:43:46We're going to have to
00:43:47ride some tricycle now?
00:43:49Oh, we're getting
00:43:49to ride a trike?
00:43:50Yeah.
00:43:53We're going to have to wait.
00:43:57Oh, man.
00:44:00Are you okay?
00:44:03Well, I kind of just want
00:44:04to, like, regroup
00:44:05our thoughts here
00:44:06and kind of figure out
00:44:07what we're doing.
00:44:08This is the first time
00:44:09meeting me in seven years.
00:44:11I'm worried about
00:44:13their acceptance of me.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15It's challenging, babe.
00:44:16They have a lot
00:44:17of questions for you,
00:44:18so I just have to answer
00:44:19them honestly.
00:44:21First, it's your,
00:44:23what's your purpose
00:44:24for coming in their country?
00:44:26Then second thing possible,
00:44:28it's your career.
00:44:32Hearing that Sheena's parents
00:44:33are going to probably ask me
00:44:34about my career
00:44:35and how I make money
00:44:36makes me extremely nervous.
00:44:38Honestly, because of my disability,
00:44:41I can't focus or do certain tasks
00:44:43that normal people
00:44:44would be able to do.
00:44:45It takes a lot for my boss
00:44:47to come back to me
00:44:48and keep telling me,
00:44:49hey, Forrest, you're messing up.
00:44:50Hey, Forrest, you're doing this wrong.
00:44:51And a lot of the time,
00:44:53they can't do that, you know,
00:44:54because I'm now costing them money.
00:44:57So I haven't had a job
00:44:59in several years.
00:45:00And I've been living
00:45:02on disability checks.
00:45:04Sheena has always understood
00:45:06my situation,
00:45:07and that's why it's been put
00:45:09more on her
00:45:10to save for our future,
00:45:12and I feel awful about it.
00:45:17I don't want your parents'
00:45:19disapproval.
00:45:20I'm worried that they
00:45:21will say that I'm not able
00:45:24to afford you.
00:45:25You have to be man out of it.
00:45:27I mean, you're an adult.
00:45:29You can find a job.
00:45:30I know you've proved yourself.
00:45:32And that's what I want
00:45:33to see from you.
00:45:34You could find a job.
00:45:37That's the only way.
00:45:39Sheena, I'm definitely going
00:45:41to work hard for you,
00:45:43and I'm going to tell them that.
00:45:46I have been helping my family
00:45:49for years to keep them happy.
00:45:52And the truth is,
00:45:54I'm quite frustrated that
00:45:56Forrest, as a guide,
00:45:58that he doesn't have work.
00:46:00It's hard for me working
00:46:01by myself.
00:46:02While he haven't saved
00:46:04anything for a future.
00:46:06And now, I'm going to have
00:46:08to tell my parents the truth
00:46:10about Forrest's financial situation.
00:46:19I get emotion because
00:46:21the pressure on my shoulders
00:46:24is quite hard.
00:46:26So, I don't know what's going
00:46:28to happen.
00:46:29And I'm so nervous.
00:46:34All right.
00:46:36Bye the spirit, honey.
00:46:37Let's do this thing together.
00:46:41We had that last argument
00:46:43and you called my sister
00:46:45and you were complaining
00:46:47about me.
00:46:48You were a little bit unhinged.
00:46:50Oh my God.
00:46:52I can't believe you're born
00:46:53right now.
00:46:54I mean, you're upset with me,
00:46:56but you ran to other women.
00:47:06Anna, can I just rest
00:47:08just for a little bit?
00:47:10No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:47:13Come on, we're on honeymoon.
00:47:16I think we both need a massage.
00:47:18Like, look at you.
00:47:18It will lessen the tension.
00:47:20Is it because of last night?
00:47:22Was I rough on you to make you
00:47:23feel like you need
00:47:24to go get a massage?
00:47:25Yeah, part of it.
00:47:27Honestly.
00:47:30Come on.
00:47:40Come on.
00:47:44What's up with you
00:47:45and my side dress?
00:47:46I mean, because, boo,
00:47:47I don't want anybody
00:47:48and everybody
00:47:49up in my personal space.
00:47:50If you gave me a massage,
00:47:52I wouldn't complain,
00:47:53but that's you.
00:47:53You're my wife.
00:47:55Have you seen
00:47:55these tiny, skinny fingers?
00:47:58Yeah, but that doesn't mean
00:47:59they don't work magic.
00:48:01Earlier today at lunch
00:48:03with Anna,
00:48:04things got a little bit tense.
00:48:07Navigating marriage
00:48:07with my wife
00:48:09in person
00:48:10is a little bit more challenging
00:48:11than I thought.
00:48:13But we're both
00:48:14on our honeymoon.
00:48:16We're supposed to be
00:48:17having good, positive vibes,
00:48:19so we call the truce
00:48:21for now.
00:48:23Hi.
00:48:24Good evening, boo.
00:48:26Yes, baby.
00:48:27It's fine.
00:48:28Okay.
00:48:29Oh.
00:48:30See?
00:48:31This is nice.
00:48:32Now it's nice, huh?
00:48:33Yeah, it's nice.
00:48:35Face goes here, right?
00:48:37No, your butt.
00:48:38It's your butthole.
00:48:39Oh.
00:48:42I don't really like massages,
00:48:44but if it eases the tension
00:48:45between me and Anna,
00:48:48I'm all for it.
00:48:55How long you think it's been
00:48:56since you've been in a spa?
00:48:58In, like, a few years?
00:48:59Last month.
00:49:00Last month?
00:49:01When you have some stiff muscles,
00:49:04it really relaxes you.
00:49:06Also, if you have insomnia,
00:49:09get a massage.
00:49:10After the massage,
00:49:11I guarantee you,
00:49:13you'll fall asleep.
00:49:16Sounds like you go a lot.
00:49:19Yeah.
00:49:20Because it, you know,
00:49:21relaxes me.
00:49:25For about the last five years,
00:49:27I've been sitting at Anna
00:49:28at least $600 a month,
00:49:30but sometimes more.
00:49:32I'm very old school.
00:49:34I believe the man should provide financially,
00:49:36and the woman is supposed to be
00:49:38the nurturer and the caregiver.
00:49:40More content, please.
00:49:42But sometimes I feel like
00:49:44the money I give her
00:49:45is her vacation fund.
00:49:47That definitely makes me feel
00:49:49some type of way.
00:49:50I could have been here probably already
00:49:52if she just would have learned
00:49:54how to budget
00:49:54so I can send less money.
00:49:57Is the pressure okay?
00:49:58It's so good.
00:50:00It's just right.
00:50:02So,
00:50:03when we leave here
00:50:05and we visit Kavite,
00:50:07I'm excited to see
00:50:08where you live, boo.
00:50:10Have you been practicing
00:50:11your Tagalog?
00:50:12No, but I need to.
00:50:15How do you think you're going
00:50:16to communicate with my mom?
00:50:18I mean,
00:50:19I'm not here that long.
00:50:21I've not got you.
00:50:23But don't you want
00:50:25to make some effort
00:50:26to have a relationship with her?
00:50:30I try to make everything
00:50:31to have a relationship
00:50:32with your siblings.
00:50:36Well, I mean,
00:50:39I want you to have
00:50:40a good relationship
00:50:41with my siblings.
00:50:43But sometimes I feel like,
00:50:45you know,
00:50:46you overstep just a little bit.
00:50:50What do you mean?
00:50:52You know,
00:50:53kind of like we had
00:50:54that last argument
00:50:55and you
00:50:57called my sister.
00:50:59Remember that?
00:51:00And you were
00:51:01complaining about me.
00:51:03And you think
00:51:04that is what?
00:51:06I don't know.
00:51:06I mean, it's,
00:51:08you know,
00:51:10it's a bit much
00:51:11because, you know,
00:51:12she was at work
00:51:13and,
00:51:15I mean,
00:51:15you kind of unloaded
00:51:16a lot on her.
00:51:18A little bit unhinged.
00:51:24You feel comfortable enough
00:51:26that you can talk to her
00:51:27about our problems,
00:51:29but you can't do it with me.
00:51:31Why is that?
00:51:33At least when I'm
00:51:34hyper-emotional,
00:51:35I just go to families.
00:51:39I mean,
00:51:40you're upset with me,
00:51:41but you run to other women.
00:51:47It's just so funny
00:51:48that you have the guts
00:51:50to call me out
00:51:51that I share it
00:51:52to your siblings,
00:51:53yet you're so willing
00:51:54to share it to
00:51:55someone that you
00:51:56used to fancy.
00:51:58If you have this history,
00:51:59what do you think
00:52:00could happen?
00:52:01Well, I mean,
00:52:02Anna, like,
00:52:03once again,
00:52:04I'm waiting on
00:52:05accountability from you,
00:52:06to be honest with you,
00:52:07because,
00:52:08like,
00:52:09why did my husband
00:52:11go to another woman
00:52:12and talk about
00:52:13our problems?
00:52:14Huh.
00:52:14I wonder what made him
00:52:16feel like he needed
00:52:17to do that.
00:52:19You're saying
00:52:20that the reason
00:52:20you did this
00:52:21is because of me.
00:52:22So basically,
00:52:23it's like justifying
00:52:24cheating.
00:52:27I mean,
00:52:27Anna,
00:52:27I love you,
00:52:28but you are a handful.
00:52:29You know that,
00:52:30don't you?
00:52:34Here we go again.
00:52:36Huh.
00:52:37Jesus.
00:52:38I'm just gonna change.
00:52:40You done?
00:52:42Yeah,
00:52:43I'm done with
00:52:43this conversation.
00:52:45You always complain
00:52:47about my hyper-emotion.
00:52:50You're the reason
00:52:51why I have it.
00:52:52I'm not doing it
00:52:53intentionally.
00:52:54Yeah, whatever.
00:52:57Oh, my God.
00:52:59Look,
00:53:00I can't believe
00:53:00you're born right now.
00:53:04I thought
00:53:05the reason
00:53:06we were fighting
00:53:07so much
00:53:07was because
00:53:08we were in
00:53:08a long-distance
00:53:09relationship,
00:53:10but now that
00:53:11we are finally
00:53:12together,
00:53:13we're still fighting.
00:53:15If we're already
00:53:16like this
00:53:17on our honeymoon,
00:53:18what does it
00:53:19say about
00:53:20our marriage?
00:53:30not only were you
00:53:31on dating apps,
00:53:32but you were actually
00:53:32talking to girls,
00:53:34messaging them.
00:53:36You were telling girls,
00:53:37come to Morocco.
00:53:46follow me on social media.
00:53:48You were like,
00:53:49let's get to know each other.
00:53:50My name is Ziyad.
00:53:50I'm from Morocco.
00:53:51I'm 27.
00:53:52You were on dating apps.
00:54:05It was from a dating app.
00:54:08So that's a normal thing.
00:54:10Why would you
00:54:10welcome girls
00:54:11on a dating app
00:54:11if you're in a relationship?
00:54:13That's how we are.
00:54:13So if I was on dating apps
00:54:14and I was talking
00:54:15to a bunch of guys
00:54:16and all the guys
00:54:17I was talking to,
00:54:18I was like,
00:54:18come to Los Angeles,
00:54:19come to Los Angeles.
00:54:19That's okay
00:54:20for me to say that?
00:54:21It's not the same.
00:54:23How is it not the same?
00:54:24Let me explain.
00:54:25Me, I'm so proud
00:54:26about my country.
00:54:28So if anyone...
00:54:30Yeah, but you're
00:54:30meeting these people
00:54:31on dating apps.
00:54:33Don't act like
00:54:34you're meeting people
00:54:34on dating apps
00:54:35and just want to
00:54:35welcome them to Morocco.
00:54:37You were meeting girls
00:54:37on dating apps
00:54:38trying to talk
00:54:39to pretty girls.
00:54:40Actually, I totally
00:54:42understand you.
00:54:43See, your friends
00:54:44agree with me, right?
00:54:46You guys are on my side.
00:54:47No, they are not.
00:54:47You just do that for you.
00:54:49We are with...
00:54:50You are a guest.
00:54:50They want to make you...
00:54:52No, they see that I'm right
00:54:53and they're on my side.
00:55:00Well, I think for me,
00:55:02from my perspective,
00:55:04it's like a lack of trust.
00:55:06I mean trust.
00:55:08Emma, after what happened,
00:55:10do you see yourself
00:55:11continue in this relationship
00:55:13with the other?
00:55:18I mean, I think we have to
00:55:19like talk about our differences
00:55:20but I want to overcome
00:55:22our problems,
00:55:24move forward
00:55:26and then get married.
00:55:29Oh, okay.
00:55:30Yeah.
00:55:30So you are looking
00:55:31to get married with the...
00:55:32Yes.
00:55:33I want to be engaged
00:55:34before the end of this trip.
00:55:49Zero percent.
00:55:51Zero percent what?
00:55:52Zero percent.
00:55:53He asked him if...
00:55:54Can you see Emma
00:55:56as your wife?
00:55:57And you said zero percent?
00:55:58At the moment.
00:55:59At the moment, I mean.
00:56:00So you're saying
00:56:01in this very moment,
00:56:02you see zero percent chance
00:56:03of me being your wife?
00:56:05For this moment.
00:56:08Then what does that mean
00:56:09for the rest of the time
00:56:10I'm here?
00:56:11You told me before I came here
00:56:13you wanted to get engaged.
00:56:14I need more time
00:56:16to know you
00:56:16and you need more time.
00:56:17But you're at zero?
00:56:19I need a lot of time
00:56:20to understand you
00:56:21because we are so different.
00:56:23We need more time.
00:56:27Okay.
00:56:34I brought condoms too, baby.
00:56:37I know, but...
00:56:39I'm really tired.
00:56:40It's been 21 years
00:56:42since I've been with a man.
00:56:43Let me take a shower.
00:56:45I'm a little nervous about it.
00:56:47What if I want it
00:56:48and he doesn't want me?
00:56:49Do you know what kind of
00:56:49a letdown that's going to be?
00:57:04You shocked me
00:57:06with that proposal.
00:57:07I wasn't expecting it.
00:57:09You're not supposed
00:57:10to keep secrets from me.
00:57:11I don't need waste.
00:57:13Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:57:14Don't stay too far away.
00:57:17Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:57:22I can't believe I'm here.
00:57:24I'm in Nigeria
00:57:25and I haven't even known Daniel
00:57:27but for 10 minutes
00:57:31in person
00:57:32and I'm engaged to him.
00:57:33It's crazy.
00:57:35It's crazy.
00:57:44Daniel is very affectionate.
00:57:46I've never been kissed
00:57:47like that before.
00:57:48Really?
00:57:48Yeah, but I liked it.
00:57:51Your lips taste
00:57:51as natural as honey.
00:57:53That's why I wanted to,
00:57:54you know,
00:57:55bite off the lips.
00:57:57Also, she was looking
00:57:59so stunning.
00:58:00I couldn't resist her.
00:58:02Oh my gosh,
00:58:03you're a smooth talker.
00:58:10First we'll be very happy
00:58:11that we're going here today.
00:58:15We should call Princess
00:58:16if you're not how I'm pulling this tear.
00:58:19We will talk to her,
00:58:21not tonight.
00:58:22Not tonight?
00:58:23No, not tonight.
00:58:24It's late.
00:58:24I want to spend time
00:58:25with you tonight
00:58:26but we will talk to her.
00:58:28I think she will be
00:58:29very surprised.
00:58:30I love your marriage.
00:58:33Faith is going to be furious
00:58:35when she finds out
00:58:36we got engaged.
00:58:38I told her
00:58:39that I was going to come clean
00:58:40before he proposed
00:58:41and that didn't happen.
00:58:44She wants me
00:58:45to be very careful
00:58:46and not rush things.
00:58:48But tonight,
00:58:49the last thing
00:58:49I want to think about
00:58:50is the lecture
00:58:51I'm going to get from Faith.
00:58:57Oh, baby.
00:58:58This is beautiful.
00:59:04I want to show you
00:59:05what I got you.
00:59:06I got you so much stuff, baby.
00:59:08All right, you ready?
00:59:09We'll open it.
00:59:16Then, uh...
00:59:18Baby.
00:59:19I love it.
00:59:27There's more.
00:59:28Wait.
00:59:29You have to open this one.
00:59:30Okay.
00:59:33Wow.
00:59:35Let's see if it fits.
00:59:38Wow.
00:59:42Wow.
00:59:42Come on!
00:59:46Wow.
00:59:49Now, look.
00:59:50I bought oils.
00:59:55Carrot.
00:59:56This one is strawberry.
00:59:57It's supposed to, like,
00:59:58change the temperature
00:59:59as you're friction.
01:00:01And I brought condoms, too, baby.
01:00:03I know, but...
01:00:06I'm wearing a child.
01:00:10Come on.
01:00:11Come on, take your shower.
01:00:12You want to take your shower together?
01:00:19Go take your shower.
01:00:20Tomorrow we'll do that, okay?
01:00:22Okay.
01:00:22Okay.
01:00:22Now we are tired.
01:00:24Go take your shower.
01:00:25Get everything ready.
01:00:26Okay.
01:00:33Is he tired,
01:00:34or is he really just not interested?
01:00:36I'm feeling like he's not interested anymore.
01:00:40So, I don't know what's going on.
01:00:42But I want it to happen.
01:00:44I'm nervous.
01:00:45I want it to happen.
01:00:46I want to get that part out of the way
01:00:50and get the new situation underway.
01:00:54Um...
01:00:58It's been 21 years
01:00:59since I've been with a man.
01:01:01So, I'm a little nervous about it.
01:01:04Oh, God.
01:01:06Mm-mm.
01:01:13Um, I...
01:01:16Um...
01:01:21What if I want it
01:01:22and he doesn't want me?
01:01:23Do you know what kind of a letdown
01:01:24that's going to be
01:01:25after 21 years of not having it
01:01:28and then all of a sudden saying,
01:01:29okay, I'm ready for this,
01:01:30and then him turning around
01:01:32and saying, no?
01:01:35That's a real possibility.
01:01:36And it's scary.
01:01:42Oh, you're going to come in.
01:01:44I don't know.
01:01:45It's weird.
01:01:46He's acting different all of a sudden
01:01:48than he did at the airport
01:01:51and during the engagement.
01:01:52It's confusing.
01:01:54But I'm not giving up yet.
01:01:58Uh...
01:02:18Baby.
01:02:22Oh!
01:02:33I'm starting to think he's second-guessing everything.
01:02:38He sees my wrinkles, and he sees my saggy body,
01:02:41and he doesn't want me.
01:02:45Yeah, yeah, go to sleep.
01:02:48OK.
01:02:49I don't know what to think.
01:02:51I feel rejected, and I'm worried.
01:02:54He's going to call off engagement.
01:02:55He's going to leave me stranded here,
01:02:57because he's not attracted to my body
01:02:59now that he's seen it in person.
01:03:00That's how I feel.
01:03:02I'll wait on you for a little while.
01:03:04Is that OK?
01:03:04OK.
01:03:05Can I snuggle you?
01:03:06Is that OK?
01:03:07I'm OK.
01:03:08Try.
01:03:17What happened with your ex?
01:03:18Is he still sending you messages?
01:03:21No.
01:03:23Would you be willing to show me that?
01:03:27Why do you think your mind goes to Chi?
01:03:29My greatest fear is that Chi still has feelings for him.
01:03:39So what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:03:42You kind of just went quiet, so I thought
01:03:44that you were definitely seeing your ex.
01:03:46Stick went to Texas, and he didn't invite me.
01:03:50And now I can't help but think maybe there was a reason
01:03:53he didn't invite me to Texas.
01:03:56Can't even add that.
01:04:23So what do you want?
01:04:25I want wings.
01:04:26I want some shrimp.
01:04:29And I want some beef.
01:04:40I'm just so confused and a little bit irritated.
01:04:47I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
01:04:50because I know he has a lot of money,
01:04:52but Trisha has sworn to me
01:04:54that she would never get back with him
01:04:56because of how badly he treated her.
01:04:59But if that were the case,
01:05:00why would she be hanging out with him so recently?
01:05:03It bothers me that she kept that from me.
01:05:06Now I'm thinking again that this whole thing
01:05:10about her ghosting me for five days
01:05:13directly has to do with her ex.
01:05:20Are you ready to talk?
01:05:23I still don't understand why you went to talk.
01:05:26Like, we were just saying hi.
01:05:29That's it.
01:05:32So where was this?
01:05:33Where did you just happen to run into?
01:05:36A restaurant.
01:05:37So you just happened to be eating
01:05:38at the same restaurant as him?
01:05:40I saw him outside, then...
01:05:43And you called him over?
01:05:44Yeah.
01:05:54He was with his family,
01:05:57so I got a good relationship with his family.
01:06:01And we just talked a little bit,
01:06:03then I went home.
01:06:09I don't know.
01:06:10That sounds really sketchy to me.
01:06:12Because if it was a situation like you
01:06:13just happened to run into him,
01:06:15I think you would have told me about that.
01:06:21Listen, so the reason why I didn't told you
01:06:26is you trying to get me back.
01:06:30And he wants to get back with you.
01:06:34And how did you respond?
01:06:35I said, no, I already have someone.
01:06:39Then he got mad because I said no,
01:06:42and I didn't say anything about it
01:06:45because I was really scary about your...
01:06:48How would you react of that?
01:06:50Like, maybe you would say,
01:06:51maybe she's still with her ex.
01:06:53Like, how you react right now?
01:06:58Have you guys been in contact since then?
01:07:02He contacted me.
01:07:03My only text message.
01:07:06So he still hasn't gotten the message
01:07:09that you've moved on.
01:07:12And when did this conversation happen?
01:07:16Four months ago.
01:07:18And is he still sending you messages like that?
01:07:23No.
01:07:24Would you be willing to show me that?
01:07:30So if I show you, will you believe me?
01:07:35I'd have no choice but to.
01:07:45Look at the time.
01:07:47I didn't even respond, Rick. Look.
01:07:57These boys call.
01:07:59Yeah, I miss.
01:08:01I didn't even pick up.
01:08:02Do you believe me now?
01:08:07I see the date.
01:08:10So I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
01:08:13I'm not, Rick. I'm not.
01:08:14And that is, that's a big, that's a big deal.
01:08:19That makes your story a lot more credible.
01:08:24That was my greatest fear.
01:08:27That she still has feelings for him.
01:08:29But truth shows me there wasn't any more text messages
01:08:33between her and her ex.
01:08:36Why do you think your mind goes to cheating?
01:08:39Do you wonder if that's something you're projecting?
01:08:44It's possible.
01:08:46If it did turn out that you were right, would that make you feel better?
01:08:52I don't know if I would feel better, but, you know, maybe I won't feel as guilty for what I
01:08:59did.
01:09:05I hate when I'm telling you everything, I'm being honest with you and you're just like, oh, I don't believe
01:09:11this, I don't believe that.
01:09:13It seems like it's really getting bad.
01:09:17These are, these are just growing pains.
01:09:19We gotta get through these, you know, rough patches in the beginning to get to the green pastures, you know,
01:09:25that we have ahead of us.
01:09:27Yeah, I hope so.
01:09:30It's really hard for me to defend myself in front of Rick because even if I explain something a hundred
01:09:36times, he's like, is that true? And he doesn't trust me without proof.
01:09:43My ex was always jealous and like really suspicious, but he's the one who is cheating on me the whole
01:09:52time.
01:09:53And now I'm worried that it's the same thing with Rick.
01:09:57What if he's hiding something?
01:10:01If someone is like that, I think something is going on.
01:10:22What's good, brother?
01:10:25Hey, can you take us to the ferry, bro?
01:10:26Okay, sure.
01:10:38You excited?
01:10:39Yeah.
01:10:39Feel the sea breeze already?
01:10:41I do.
01:10:42I'm ready for this boat.
01:10:44Which way?
01:10:45Peacocker and the San Pedro.
01:10:46You're gonna love it.
01:10:47You guys.
01:10:49I just introduced Aviva to Richie and Perth at the studio.
01:10:53And now we're about to take a ferry, go to San Pedro for a couple of days, where I have
01:10:58a show.
01:11:02And I'm really excited about this and I know she is too.
01:11:05I hope so.
01:11:10Are you okay?
01:11:12Kind of.
01:11:15How do you not know him?
01:11:17I mean, I'm kind of upset about some things, but I mean, I just learned a lot.
01:11:23What? Like what?
01:11:28I'm pretty upset with Stig because his friend Richie shared some things that definitely made me question whether Stig is
01:11:36even being honest with me.
01:11:38Ready?
01:11:41I'm hesitant to bring up these worries already. I don't want this first week to be uncomfortable. And I want
01:11:49to show him that I'm not just a crazy jealous girl.
01:11:53You good?
01:11:55However, the things Richie said brought up some previous concerns that I had just kind of swept under the rug.
01:12:03And now I feel like I do need to address them with Stig.
01:12:17That's a tourist village. I think that's where some of the cruise ships get off there.
01:12:23Mmm.
01:12:27Aviva's being weird right now. I don't really know what. She don't want to talk about it. That is not
01:12:32cool because I'm big on communication. If something is bothering you, tell me.
01:12:38You ever been on a cruise?
01:12:40As a kid, I really want to go on another one.
01:12:42You are a kid, too.
01:12:45You're acting like a kid right now.
01:12:46I'm acting like a kid? Oh, okay.
01:12:47You don't want to tell me what's up.
01:12:54I don't like silent treatment.
01:12:58I mean, I wasn't trying to ruin the mood, but Richie told me that you were really thinking about having
01:13:07a baby with your ex, and you said that same thing to me. So I'm not sure if that's what
01:13:13you say to every single girl now. So it just kind of rubbed me the wrong way.
01:13:21I mean, can't deny that.
01:13:28It is true, but I mean, when I date, that's the reason I date, though.
01:13:32Like I told you this, I was trying to chill, get off that player, playboy .
01:13:37I was looking for love. So of course I wanted a child of my ex. Of course I was looking
01:13:43for marriage of my ex. Of course that's what I wanted.
01:13:46A couple years back, I met a girl from Texas. She was visiting Belize. We were together a year and
01:13:53a half, off and on. And she broke my heart.
01:13:56I was planning a future with this girl. That's not a bad thing.
01:14:01I mean, are you actually over her? Because Richie said he doesn't think you're fully over your ex. Is that
01:14:06true?
01:14:07Richie talking crazy. That doesn't mean it's true. So you gotta let that get to you?
01:14:12I don't know. I mean, a little bit. Getting to me a little bit, for sure. I mean, it's a
01:14:17big deal, you know?
01:14:17You gotta control her own feelings. You know it's not a big deal. You're making it a big deal.
01:14:29So, what happened when you went to Texas a few months ago?
01:14:36A few months ago, Stig went to Texas and he didn't invite me. I knew that he was busy with
01:14:43work and that he has family there.
01:14:46But there's a part of me that thought that Stig saw his ex in Texas.
01:14:52I thought I was just being paranoid. But now, I can't help but think maybe there was a reason he
01:14:58didn't invite me to Texas and he was actually going to see her.
01:15:03They booked me for Belize Day. I was out there going for a farm. I didn't even see my family,
01:15:10much less see any other girls.
01:15:12I went with a crew of us, a Belizean crew, went for a farm. It was like, what, two days?
01:15:17You know that.
01:15:18Well, you kind of just went quiet, so I thought that you were definitely seeing your ex. I don't know.
01:15:23I don't know. It's all just, like, not really adding up, so I'm trying to figure it out, I guess.
01:15:28It's not like that. You got to start trusting me. Have I ever given you a reason to think that
01:15:36kind of way?
01:15:37I don't know. I just feel like you're a big charmer and I don't know if you, like, were serious
01:15:41about being exclusive, if you were just saying that.
01:15:45You know? I don't know what, like, I don't know if what you say is real or not.
01:15:49You know? Like, how am I supposed to know if you're being honest?
01:15:52Because I don't like lying. If I felt the other way, I would have told you.
01:15:56You really are, you want, you're like a one-woman type of guy.
01:16:00Yeah? Like, that's actually true.
01:16:02I could do that. I could do that. It's crazy.
01:16:05Like, I want that here.
01:16:09When I go home, like, how am I supposed to, you know, trust that you'll do the right thing, you
01:16:13know?
01:16:16Honestly, a stake is really hard to resist, but I have to be careful and protect my heart.
01:16:22And he's not convincing me that he's telling me the truth.
01:16:26I mean, I want to believe you, for sure. It's just, it's hard.
01:16:31I approve it.
01:16:33Trust me, babe.
01:16:35This is super unsettling because I haven't been using protection with him.
01:16:39And I don't want to start a family with a liar.
01:16:59You're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:17:02Yeah.
01:17:02And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:17:06She has a lot of doubts inside.
01:17:09That's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:17:23So, 50K in US dollars?
01:17:31Okay.
01:17:33It's not a big deal, you know.
01:17:36It's not?
01:17:45I'm not happy right now.
01:17:48I know that he's having some difficulties with money and jobs.
01:17:53But I had no idea how bad his financial situation actually is.
01:18:00Birkan told me multiple times that his intention was to be this protective provider as a husband.
01:18:08And I'm questioning how at this point.
01:18:14And I'm so worried about what else he could be keeping from me.
01:18:18I didn't let you know because I am trying to figure out everything myself.
01:18:24But, I mean, if we're talking about sharing our life together, your problems would be my problems.
01:18:32And we'd be starting off together in a sizable debt.
01:18:37How that would all work.
01:18:38Okay, but we are not partners in that debt.
01:18:42No.
01:18:43But you...
01:18:43That's my debt.
01:18:44In this country.
01:18:46If I'm not in that country, who cares how much debt I am in?
01:18:58So, you're talking about a massive amount of debt.
01:19:03Yeah.
01:19:03And you want to run away from it and flee in another country.
01:19:11I'm concerned by the fact that he would just run away from his debt and flee a country to get
01:19:17out of it.
01:19:18I'm not okay with that.
01:19:19I don't want to bring Virkan to the States and be financially responsible for him and then be worried that
01:19:28he would be burning through my money.
01:19:36You don't have to worry about my debts.
01:19:39I always handle my own problems.
01:19:42Then why haven't you done that right now?
01:19:47Because I'm waiting for the right time to figure that out.
01:19:53And the time is closed.
01:19:55I know.
01:19:56It's just in this country, earning money is too hard.
01:20:02If I come to America, I think I can be able to afford my debts and also provide.
01:20:10Okay.
01:20:11I can do two jobs, maybe three jobs.
01:20:14I can take care of everything.
01:20:16You know, I am hustling.
01:20:18I am trying to survive.
01:20:21I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
01:20:28because you would want a green card and money.
01:20:32And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
01:20:37She has a lot of doubts inside.
01:20:40And I get it.
01:20:42But that's why I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
01:20:49I'm worried if she finds out how I make money when I'm not working, she could leave me.
01:21:05Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:08Oh, Lord.
01:21:10This is worse than the bus.
01:21:12Woo-hoo!
01:21:13I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time.
01:21:16But her family has been these ominous figures.
01:21:19I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down.
01:21:24The importance, you have pants, you know?
01:21:26You've got to help her.
01:21:29She's been helping us also.
01:21:33That is Forrest.
01:21:38What is that?
01:21:42Nikki!
01:21:45I feel very awkward because I didn't want him to do the song.
01:21:51And now he's flirting with this girl.
01:21:56I still have my suspicions and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
01:22:00There is all these girls on the stage with you.
01:22:03I'm disappointed.
01:22:04They are me.
01:22:08I don't trust Michael.
01:22:10I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:22:14So, you or him?
01:22:17Yes, you heard me right.
01:22:20This is some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet.
01:22:24This doesn't feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:22:28Why don't you tingle it?
01:22:30You know, I just get some air.
01:22:35My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:22:37I'm a little nervous.
01:22:40The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
01:22:43Without this, we can't marry.
01:22:44In my family, we are Christian.
01:22:47Without smoke.
01:22:48We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:22:51What kind of questions are going to be asked?
01:22:54I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
01:23:03I've been waiting to spend some romantic time with my queen.
01:23:08Being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
01:23:12Like, what happened between me and my ex in Columbia?
01:23:16Do you think that I'm enough for you?
01:23:18I'm sure.
01:23:19You are enough.
01:23:20I really do care about trees.
01:23:23But what I did, it needs to come out.
01:23:26Why don't you leave?
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