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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breed you?
00:00:10Yes, I would.
00:00:12So you really like my guy, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sleeping.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged, and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything, and he doesn't want me, and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me and is trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend, because I know he has a lot of money, and I'm
00:01:19not in a position to be spore hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:01:34So now I have to go and get their approval, while I have to tell them that their days are
00:01:39basically numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:46I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard.
00:01:55So, I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts, I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of f***ing money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:21I'm worried if she finds out how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:03:05You have the nicest ass I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know, I always thought your dimples were my favorite thing, but you know what
00:03:23my favorite thing is, Nail?
00:03:26You're not going to.
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an outie.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:39I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel, and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:53He's everything I could have dreamed about, except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:03It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:11Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:17Last night was uncomfortable, and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full on .
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation, I was very .
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex, it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know, not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me, because it's been so long since I've been intimate
00:05:03like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish, and then it went, I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm embarrassed.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed, he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night, preparing, getting ready to go and work on you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38It was a test run.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time, but I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little, it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:05At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:09And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable, and I seemed to have stretched to
00:06:14fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:31I love you, Ma.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical, and I'm engaged to him, I'm even more concerned
00:06:43how he's going to handle what I have to tell him about being still married, and it's a woman,
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship, physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle if he can't accept my past.
00:07:03Yeah, one in a million.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that, we're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:10Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:07:32Total
00:07:33right.
00:07:37let's go right on a trike oh my goodness oh god oh lord oh my give me strength this is
00:07:47worse than
00:07:47the bus she and i getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like being inside of a
00:07:55can i would never do this with anybody else but you sheen that's pretty great i get to you know
00:08:02get up nice and close but she's also crushing me to death i wish they give us a nice you
00:08:12know
00:08:13extra wide for my american physique
00:08:23i'm afraid i'm gonna fall off and i don't want two broken legs
00:08:27today i'm going to meet sheena's family for the first time
00:08:30in a province called kavitae so we're almost there though we'll just have to give you a little
00:08:35nervous baby oh man ever since i met sheena seven years ago her family has been like these ominous
00:08:45figures she's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially
00:08:56i've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that sheena is
00:09:01going to completely cut them off financially but now it's turned into something completely and
00:09:06totally different than what i envisioned you didn't tell me that there was going to be a
00:09:11mountain treacherous hill to climb yeah oh man first she told me that i need her parents approval
00:09:20to marry her and then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how i make
00:09:25money
00:09:26well the truth is i don't have a job i don't have a lot of money i'm just this loser
00:09:31who's on
00:09:32disability baby we can do this just be careful so at this point i'm concerned that i won't be able
00:09:41to get the blessing for sheena's family that i apparently need
00:09:47oh my gosh is that them yes my love oh my goodness
00:10:00you must be forrest yeah forrest wow
00:10:08hello sir it's finally nice to meet you after so long nice to meet you too
00:10:13hello hello thank you oh this is my dad this is my dad he said it's katrina so
00:10:22yep she's just a little bit shy this is my dad's version though
00:10:26it's okay i'm a little shy myself here
00:10:29i hope you enjoy you stay here no i'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and i'm
00:10:35finally
00:10:35getting to meet you
00:10:42oh man oh sheena told me that her mom is sick so i won't be meeting her
00:10:47but her dad and sister seem nice enough a bit quiet which i guess is kind of normal but
00:10:53it's not what i was expecting
00:10:57you want to take a break uh from traveling yeah
00:11:00to do that can you show them yeah follow me you want to check the gardens yeah yeah
00:11:08so this is the place yeah
00:11:15there's small improvements over the years
00:11:19wow yeah yeah this is for the place where we have our uh group meals uh for guests
00:11:28boy okay cool
00:11:31sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home
00:11:35and i've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof oh they need
00:11:40the money to do this oh they need money to do this that's why they're stealing all this money
00:11:43from me but it turns out that this is a nice fancy place
00:11:47okay welcome to our house oh wow i think you're gonna be on the second master's bedroom
00:11:54this place is huge wow
00:12:00so gary was under the impression that her family might be desolate or they are gonna starve without her
00:12:08it doesn't add up
00:12:12okay come on come on
00:12:13thank you very much
00:12:15and we're gonna have dinner
00:12:15yeah all right
00:12:17enjoy and relax
00:12:18yeah all right thank you thank you guys thank you
00:12:27my mind's just confused i don't understand
00:12:31so you like the place
00:12:33yeah it was way worth the getting crushed in the bus
00:12:37yeah your dad seems like a really awesome guy
00:12:43yeah they are great people
00:12:47okay well i think i want to clean up my face real quick
00:12:50yeah sure
00:12:50okay i'm gonna head in the bathroom
00:12:52yeah go great go very quick
00:12:56do you think forrest was expecting something different
00:12:59from what he's seeing at your family's house
00:13:02mm-hmm yes which is probably my fault
00:13:07test for the water if it's good
00:13:09wash your face around wash your hands
00:13:11yeah
00:13:12and i'm worried about what is going to be said
00:13:22what forrest could say what my family could say
00:13:27i'm worried that everything could fall apart
00:13:37do you think i'm gonna marry you for your money
00:13:42that's what everybody else thought
00:13:45i thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the beginning
00:13:52and now i don't know
00:13:54the debt is a big deal
00:13:58you excited about my show tonight
00:14:00yeah i am
00:14:02what songs are you singing at your show
00:14:04maria dana
00:14:05vicky
00:14:08so who is
00:14:09who is vicky
00:14:28you can't tell me that's not beautiful
00:14:29they have like the second most active barry
00:14:32yeah yeah yeah
00:14:32i'm so grateful that i live here
00:14:34it's so pretty
00:14:35do you want to jump in
00:14:37okay
00:14:37yeah now you know i can't swim
00:14:39don't play with me
00:14:51you know what you need
00:14:52right
00:14:53coconut water
00:14:54we're good for your brains
00:14:56and good for your soul
00:14:58so
00:14:58that sounds good
00:15:00wash your hands
00:15:01what energy
00:15:03this is aviva's second full day
00:15:06in belize
00:15:07and we're here in beautiful san pedro
00:15:09because i'm gonna perform tonight
00:15:13yesterday aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex from texas
00:15:16but in the hotel last night
00:15:19i do believe that i was able to calm her down
00:15:21i think i'm on
00:15:23how are you gonna be so fine and want to trip
00:15:25huh
00:15:26stop stressing
00:15:27i'm sorry
00:15:33thank you
00:15:36we had sex three times
00:15:38no protection again we're risking it all
00:15:41we're just going with the flow
00:15:44how is it
00:15:45it's good
00:15:46you don't have this in the states
00:15:48in arizona
00:15:49no not like this
00:15:55you're excited about my show tonight
00:15:59yeah i am
00:16:00what songs are you singing at your show
00:16:12i am trying to have this romantic beach moment with stig but he mentions the song vicky
00:16:20and i can't help but think of when my aunt spring brought up that rumor to me
00:16:26they actually just did a big concert like for valentine's day
00:16:30the first song that was performed was vicky
00:16:33and she was at the concert
00:16:36and they left together
00:16:41so who is
00:16:42who is vicky
00:16:46the concept of vicky
00:16:48is a girl
00:16:50is a girl i was messing with who had a man
00:16:52and the man wasn't treating her good she was married
00:16:55and i was the little bartender showing her love
00:16:59you know i mean on the side
00:17:02so
00:17:03is it someone you still talk to
00:17:04is it someone that you
00:17:06no no no
00:17:07have a pastor
00:17:07i had a blast with you
00:17:09yes years ago
00:17:12so my aunt spring
00:17:13um she knows a lot of people here
00:17:16i've heard a lot of rumors
00:17:17that vicky went to the
00:17:19your last show with you
00:17:21and you left the show with her
00:17:24and i just i'm confused
00:17:26and i'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me
00:17:35the viva's aunt spring
00:17:37i never met her
00:17:38i only heard about aunt spring but apparently she knows me better than i know myself
00:17:43is she the secret service
00:17:45i don't nothing to hide
00:17:48at the concert i had the concert i was there with the bros trying to make a good set
00:17:55but did you go home with her
00:17:57no i did not
00:17:58i didn't go home with any girl
00:18:02you don't believe me
00:18:04apparently there was some article or you were tagged in something or she was tagged in something
00:18:09um of you guys going home together so i'm not really sure how i'm supposed to believe you
00:18:14belize isn't the fake news
00:18:15don't let get to your bed
00:18:22i'm definitely gonna do my best to not be in my head about it but you're apparently gonna sing it
00:18:28tonight
00:18:28okay how do i know she's not gonna be there
00:18:31that's one of my biggest songs in belize i can't not sing that
00:18:34yeah
00:18:35you don't want me to sing the song
00:18:37my biggest or one of my biggest songs
00:18:39yeah
00:18:41come on don't do that
00:18:46all of my exes they start off saying i'm not gonna be jealous i got you
00:18:52but i thought the viva was gonna be different
00:18:55and now i am worried how she's gonna react when i perform vicky when i do perform it
00:19:02tonight could
00:19:05the whole thing up
00:19:06i don't want that
00:19:08if tonight is a problem that's gonna throw me off i don't you know i don't know if i can
00:19:12deal
00:19:13with that that's not what i signed up for it
00:19:18i mean i'll do my best but i just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform vicky
00:19:23that's all i can say
00:19:36i had a lot of people before i came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a green card and money
00:19:48and hearing that
00:19:51kind of makes it seem like that's true
00:20:02do you think like i'm gonna marry you for your money
00:20:09that's what everybody else thought
00:20:12did you think that
00:20:13well i don't know right now i'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time
00:20:20beer con just told me that he's 50k in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt
00:20:26and just ignore it
00:20:27i'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out
00:20:36of his debt
00:20:40you know
00:20:42that's not who i am actually
00:20:44if i was someone like that
00:20:47i would have lied
00:20:49i would have never told you about my debt
00:20:52you know
00:20:56i i know that
00:20:57but i want to make sure that i'm making a smart decision
00:21:01when it comes to future plans
00:21:03like getting engaged
00:21:06i just
00:21:07i just
00:21:07gotta hustle
00:21:08because money is money you know
00:21:13you know what i'm ready to go
00:21:15okay let's go
00:21:16let's go
00:21:32let's go
00:21:38i'm pretty frustrated
00:21:40he told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning
00:21:44the debt is a big deal to me
00:21:46because he's talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect
00:21:50and it's really hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth
00:21:56i thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the beginning
00:22:04and now i don't know
00:22:10what are you doing
00:22:12washing the dishes
00:22:14washing the dishes
00:22:14washing the dishes
00:22:19why are you upset
00:22:20i told you why i'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did
00:22:25why are you mad
00:22:28don't be cute
00:22:29that doesn't fix this
00:22:31you think i'm cute
00:22:33i'm not going to answer that right now
00:22:35you gotta ask
00:22:36no
00:22:36you gotta ask
00:22:37i do not have to answer
00:22:39you gotta ask
00:22:39you think that you can't
00:22:40why are you mad
00:22:41stop you
00:22:44shh
00:22:49do you think a couple kisses will win me over
00:22:53you think doesn't
00:22:55oh
00:22:57i'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are
00:23:01but this is probably all of the fantasies i had had
00:23:05kind of rolled into one in that moment
00:23:08having a hot turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you
00:23:12i don't know what it is i just can't resist him
00:23:16you're adorable
00:23:17i know that's why you love me
00:23:22you are here
00:23:24oh man
00:23:25hot
00:23:26look look
00:23:29maybe they should buy me some stuff
00:23:32this bougie chick
00:23:34there ain't nobody sugared at him
00:23:36i don't know why he act this way
00:23:40it's like he assumes the worst
00:23:43i'm already doing things for you
00:23:45so why are you asking for more
00:23:47is that what you want me for
00:24:05get out of here
00:24:09baby they didn't give me anything since this morning so
00:24:12you can kiss
00:24:13you can kiss
00:24:15you can kiss
00:24:15uh-uh
00:24:16watch out
00:24:16baby i will go
00:24:17watch out
00:24:19okay
00:24:20okay
00:24:22you ready
00:24:23yeah i'm ready
00:24:24okay let's go
00:24:35because we were packing all night that's why
00:24:42yesterday was tough but after we had argument about my ex we went back to the hotel and we did
00:24:51makeup
00:24:52about sex it was really good i love sex after argument
00:25:09i know that we still have trust issue to work for but today we are going to a romantic trip
00:25:17that rick booked for us in new sea bay
00:25:21first flight together baby
00:25:23new sea bay is a really beautiful island they do have lumers and a beautiful beach
00:25:33if you have someone to spend time together romantic go there
00:25:40go there
00:25:45look how beautiful
00:25:47let's go, I'm striving
00:25:48see you like today
00:25:54yeah
00:25:55yeah
00:25:55yeah
00:25:57yeah
00:25:58yeah
00:26:00yeah
00:26:01yeah
00:26:01yeah
00:26:03yeah
00:26:11Yeah, yeah.
00:26:12Oh, very hot out here.
00:26:14Really hot.
00:26:16Whoo.
00:26:20Whoo, it's nice and cool.
00:26:22Whoo.
00:26:23Really.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God, baby, are you serious?
00:26:33OK, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:40That is.
00:26:41Whoo!
00:26:43See, look, look.
00:26:45Le Mans.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:48Maybe.
00:26:52And sauce.
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:55We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got expensive taste.
00:27:01You're so cheap.
00:27:05This dog.
00:27:07That's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08This bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:19There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:28Never been never will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are boozy, agora, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy,
00:27:40and I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:10Mm-hmm.
00:28:11Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:18I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:31So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:35I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:57What?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:11So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:22It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need.
00:29:27But I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:57Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love.
00:30:12But I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even...
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31I know you.
00:30:32So what were you expecting?
00:30:33What were you expecting?
00:30:34Like a rich rake.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25She and his family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:13You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi?
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's a taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:42Yes.
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmer's markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Let's go from here.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:09It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dried fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35How many?
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:38Okay.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:41Oh.
00:33:42Be careful.
00:33:43Like this?
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:47Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:49She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51Okay.
00:33:52I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no.
00:33:53I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:55I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Your chicken watch TV?
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:09Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chickens.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:16Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:27You're welcome.
00:34:29I would like you to check the one that will fit you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to wake up with you.
00:34:34He was there.
00:34:35You saw him.
00:34:37Hi.
00:34:38Hi.
00:34:39Hi.
00:34:40Hi.
00:34:40Hi.
00:34:46Hi.
00:34:48Hi.
00:34:49Hi.
00:34:49Have you.
00:35:09Hi.
00:35:10My uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17So my uncle, I have to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That is just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings
00:35:29before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigerian.
00:35:33I know, so- We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:37But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40We have to see you dress in a traditional attire.
00:35:45Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:35:48This?
00:35:48This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:51I love that.
00:35:54You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:55He likes good tea.
00:35:57Yes, it's nice.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes.
00:35:59This is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:03OK.
00:36:03Yeah, it's on the head.
00:36:07I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:08It's very confused.
00:36:13OK.
00:36:14So it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20I'm just giving you the clue on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48It's very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:50Very easy.
00:36:51Very easy.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:54It looks so smooth.
00:36:55It looks so smooth.
00:36:55Yeah.
00:36:57It looks so smooth.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:02We have to cut it.
00:37:03OK.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:05Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:20Let me cut you.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22All right.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You said you're fat.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30You're fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful, and I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle.
00:37:37And I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap,
00:37:41this big headdress.
00:37:43And I'm going to look fat.
00:37:46OK.
00:37:46Make your wrap, please.
00:37:52I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:37:54But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready
00:38:05to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:15You're welcome.
00:38:26I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage
00:38:32right in front of me.
00:38:36What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:43What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:43What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How are you feeling?
00:39:13You good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20OK.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23You good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:24All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still going to go and piece stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42You have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You can't say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:45I'll do it, dude.
00:39:56That's good, brother.
00:39:59Trouble, man.
00:40:00It's in, mother .
00:40:08Welcome to all the body people tonight.
00:40:10Stick them parties, independent.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Stig performing for the first time, but I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Stig's manager in Antspring had to say about Stig and other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows, and I don't know what
00:40:41to expect.
00:40:47Anybody from Belize, make some motherf***** nice.
00:40:51To all the girls that came from far for this one, they're like, yo.
00:40:57Lessons on your life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:03The one time you went for a wedding ring, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm gonna meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm gonna say.
00:41:09I'm gonna marry your daughter.
00:41:11I'm gonna have your blessings.
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy.
00:41:18And I'm gonna break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're f*****g here.
00:41:31Got some rum in my pool, got some wounds, you're not joking, you're playing to me.
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself and I'm trying to be supportive, but he started playing Vicky after I asked him
00:41:55not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage right in front
00:42:10of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch, and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:37You know that you're pretty?
00:42:44You're brown skin, buddy, you're here, no KK.
00:42:49What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:42:57having the time of their lives.
00:43:01And Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:43:09much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on the release, yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:26They wanna give you love till you come, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels alright.
00:43:34Do the things you best.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Oh, six for us. Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I up.
00:43:47I forgot.
00:43:48All the new songs I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah.
00:44:05Make it round.
00:44:06Make the fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No.
00:44:16My ankle.
00:44:16No.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice again.
00:44:20Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:34Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58Are you angry?
00:44:59Yeah, I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah.
00:45:13No, no.
00:45:14You're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:26Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit, and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:55And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:02And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:08So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:24I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Igbo land, so we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she has to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, look good.
00:46:42Look good, come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture, to impress my uncle.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:55There's a traditional way of blessing power, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:03The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman blessing power is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:15Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:35Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay, pounded one, okay.
00:47:39Oh, you eat.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:51It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Try it.
00:48:02Try it.
00:48:03Try it.
00:48:03I have it.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19B boil it again.
00:48:23All right.
00:48:25Dip your hand.
00:48:27Ah.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:36Oh.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I could just eat that.
00:48:45I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat soup.
00:48:48I am not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me, but I didn't think he'd be so forceful
00:49:05about it.
00:49:07I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:18It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and
00:49:24lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialects?
00:49:58No.
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice on me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Huh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:30What is that?
00:50:32I thought you're drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:38You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:46I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:04You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31It's not recorded.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know, to help her well forrest.
00:52:19I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:52But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow.
00:53:00Oh, thank you.
00:53:02You're welcome out here.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and reset, you know, take some
00:53:36scrolls along the beach.
00:53:41And I'll be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I don't.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56We haven't learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like, you see?
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03Then you can walk.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No, you can do it.
00:54:14All right, here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She just has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53This is beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:23Just, you do my need, and that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, that that, you know, kind of triggered some
00:55:35things that I've gone through in the past.
00:55:38What should you do?
00:55:40Just past relationships.
00:55:43And I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to be
00:55:50with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Cheney, for seven years.
00:56:09Cheney is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think Cheney had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide, and it caused
00:56:21a lot of issues between us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You won't get up for me.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything, but I just want to make sure
00:56:40if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know, when you bring me to your country, I have to let everything in here, my life,
00:56:55my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07I promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex, but everything you need,
00:57:16you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you're giving a picture, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:41Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you, that's why I want our relationship for you.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Colombia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:25Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:33Oh.
00:59:35Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do this first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I'm the biggest.
00:59:56We go by size here.
00:59:58Yeah, you go.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family.
01:00:03And so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:08For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating
01:00:12her awfully.
01:00:13And now, I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then
01:00:26go from there.
01:00:31So, how's your travel here?
01:00:33From America.
01:00:34It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheena for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42And finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious, though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting, um...
01:01:01It's kind of hard to say, you know, my mom's, uh, under the impression that, um, I might
01:01:10be walking into a scam.
01:01:17Every, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers.
01:01:21There's a lot of scammers.
01:01:23No, no, no, not...
01:01:23Uh, she'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel, uh, when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really
01:01:47sure if we're going to meet you in person.
01:01:50Uh, you know, I have to say, uh, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Okay.
01:02:05Um.
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it.
01:02:11What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:16Uh, so, this is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:51It cover, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, I was hoping, you know, I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, you, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:40I have, I have the energy, I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable.
01:03:58Because, it's the guy's obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, you know, she's very helpful, you know?
01:04:11There, no, so, talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay.
01:04:22You have my blessing.
01:04:26But, we're going to help her.
01:04:30She's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:41she would help us, you know, pay like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad, yeah, they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing, but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with
01:05:13me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation, the stories are not adding up.
01:05:28And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:05:37a lie this entire time.
01:05:39She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:58So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a moment.
01:06:10About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:31Yeah, I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I know I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics, middle show.
01:06:47my mind, but...
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance,
01:07:02and I felt a little uncomfortable,
01:07:07but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:19You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:25Maybe.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:40Like...
01:07:41I guess.
01:07:43You guess?
01:07:44Yeah.
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:04I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:13Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:16When you were on your phone.
01:08:19Texting.
01:08:21Hmm.
01:08:23Hmm.
01:08:28It wasn't like that.
01:08:30Like...
01:08:31Should I hurt my feelings?
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:34Yes.
01:08:34Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:38Yes, I brought...
01:08:39I'm literally performing.
01:08:41Singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:51But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman in front of me.
01:08:54And he played Vicky even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So...
01:08:58It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like you have to understand that.
01:09:16There is all these girls on stage with you.
01:09:18So I'm going to talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Relax.
01:09:24Do what you want.
01:09:26To me, that's...
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team.
01:09:32A part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:36Kind of killed my vibe actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43They keep talking about these other girls.
01:09:44These other girls having fun hyping me up.
01:09:47And my girl is there just...
01:09:49On her phone.
01:09:52It's...
01:09:52My first time in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident.
01:09:59And I just wanted...
01:10:00You really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:13I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss because I am trying my best to not get super jealous, not overreact.
01:10:35But apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy, he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off.
01:10:50But part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:11:07We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:11:09There is dog.
01:11:12I don't like dog.
01:11:14Why?
01:11:15Because you got bit me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22OK.
01:11:23Oh.
01:11:24No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is terrible.
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot.
01:11:28Reboot.
01:11:38Last night, I found out that BeerCon
01:11:41has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship,
01:11:53so maybe I just need to give it a little bit more time
01:11:56to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazarka.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:39when you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:12:43But it is not.
01:12:44It is for good luck.
01:12:54When people see you,
01:12:56if they get jealous about you,
01:12:58thoughts about you,
01:13:00the evil eye consumes bad thoughts and protects you.
01:13:09Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, I got one.
01:13:12I got one.
01:13:16In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition
01:13:19because, you know, people needs to believe something.
01:13:24Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting,
01:13:30so she would enjoy.
01:13:35Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:41And I suck at every talent thing.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just broke.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eye beads.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:10Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:12Well, say.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:22Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30Yeah, they taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic,
01:14:39and I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:51No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this,
01:15:22and it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:37But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:48My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close with him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:17Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:25I will give you a solution.
01:16:29I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:16:36So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:42No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know.
01:16:45What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:32it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:17:43About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:53So, why don't you think a little, you know.
01:17:58I just get some air, maybe.
01:18:00Or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me.
01:18:20Especially when I've tried to be very understanding with a massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:18:43No.
01:18:44No.
01:18:45He's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:51Oh, shit.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize.
01:19:12And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:19:19No.
01:19:19No.
01:19:20No.
01:19:20He's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where's my woman?
01:19:46Oh, shit.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No.
01:20:01I gave you .
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone .
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to.
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go .
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:19Ukuelu.
01:20:20Ukuelu.
01:20:20Ukuelu.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:32Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:36You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come and eat.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:44I'll be nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:50Huh?
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:20:59Yeah.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:13I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:19My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't live?
01:21:35Or should I tell him that you put this to me?
01:21:36No.
01:21:37You don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family?
01:21:44Mm-hmm.
01:21:45We don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:09You told me you are a man who can make his own decisions.
01:22:11Yes.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have one of our own, the way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:40Hmm?
01:22:43Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape.
01:22:51But that seems really small compared to all the other things that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:23:03And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him,
01:23:08is he going to have to tell all of his family that I've only been with women for the past
01:23:1221 years?
01:23:12And that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:26I'm here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute!
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But...
01:23:41I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me before you came down here?
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So, can I see your phone?
01:24:11Now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:18Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:23Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What is she saying?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:42Man.
01:24:43This is so beautiful here.
01:24:47Holy .
01:24:48Well, would you look at that.
01:24:51Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:24:59She told us if she didn't give the money, that you would mistreat her.
01:25:06Do you usually do?
01:25:12Uncle.
01:25:14You are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know Igbo more.
01:25:20I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
01:25:24I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing Christian?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you practice lesbian?
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